Hope after Wife’s Confession of Affair

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  • @logosrising4784
    @logosrising4784 3 місяці тому +54

    stellar reminder that we all should look towards Jesus for pure true unconditional love, life meaning and purpose, and self identity. If you look towards anyone, or anything else...even your spouse, you will be left wanting. Im glad they sorted things out. God bless them.

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah i agree
      I mean we can find love by people but Gods love is far greater of course
      God never disappoints and leaves you fulfilled

  • @Jazz-yv2qb
    @Jazz-yv2qb 3 місяці тому +26

    That was huge. Wife, kids, church. Wow! Glory to God.

  • @spicher40
    @spicher40 3 місяці тому +16

    Wow. This guy really knows what forgiveness is. That’s tough.

  • @itsmelaura1988
    @itsmelaura1988 3 місяці тому +12

    Ive been praying for God to do this miracle in my marriage, and I have faith he will ❤

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 3 місяці тому

      I pray for that too
      I hope everything works out

  • @roses993
    @roses993 3 місяці тому +44

    Grew up as a pastors kid. Loved it beyond words! Dad prioritized us over the church😊

    • @setapartaay925
      @setapartaay925 3 місяці тому +1

      You ate one of the rarest of PKs, and I’m so happy about that for you. My husband and his siblings, wasn’t that blessed. We’re now in ministry and we teach that family is our first ministry!!
      Blessings ☺️

  • @amykussa7270
    @amykussa7270 3 місяці тому +9

    God is good

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 місяці тому +9

    I pray their strength in the Lord. I pray the Lord chooses to continue to bless, carry, protect, lead, instruct, and guide their union in Jesus' name. The name above ALL names. AMEN. THE JOY OF THE LORD IS THEIR/OUR STRENGTH. AMEN.

  • @linvi_chemutai
    @linvi_chemutai 3 місяці тому +12

    Cheating is like serving 2 masters. And as the bible says you'll hate one. Find Jesus Christ find peace ❤

  • @lynnjames6629
    @lynnjames6629 3 місяці тому +2

    The enemy can get his foot in the door if we are not diligently seeking God’s will. …BUT GOD… can close the door on that foot, and make our wrongs right! He alone can work all things out for good‼️ Praise God‼️ ✝️🙌

  • @jessicasequeira3594
    @jessicasequeira3594 3 місяці тому

    Everyone has brokenness, it just looks different for others. But what a powerful testimony to how God works ❤ and how we can truly forgive. In a culture where people walk away at the drop of a hat it's refreshing to see marriages where spouses fight for each other❤

    • @700club
      @700club  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for watching and sharing your response to this story. God bless you!

  • @cristinavetsch3468
    @cristinavetsch3468 3 місяці тому +2

    Lucky lady. My husband didn't fight for me like this. I guess it doesn't help that he's not a believer 😕

  • @lilivalencia3575
    @lilivalencia3575 3 місяці тому

    The Bible says no one is good. Like she said she allowed her circumstances to open the door to the devils lies. But the Holy Spirit has been working in her and through her to come to repentance and accept Jesus back in her life. God is merciful and makes ashes into beauty. Cheating is horrible but God is greater ! Thank you Jesus for your grace and merci and forgiveness . We no longer live in guilt or shame. Hallelujah

  • @elisabethlourens6626
    @elisabethlourens6626 3 місяці тому +14

    This simply means she did not have a relationship with God in the 1st place. She expected her husband to be Jesus. I have 0 empathy. He should have left her. She does not deserve this man.

    • @Anna-gj1ts
      @Anna-gj1ts 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes my feelings too

    • @MegaProteine3-gz6ko
      @MegaProteine3-gz6ko 3 місяці тому +9

      Well God forgave her and her husband, who are you to cast the rock?

    • @ggmcsassy
      @ggmcsassy 3 місяці тому +9

      I hope that you never experience complete un forgiveness towards your sin the way that you are wishing for her. God gave her husband the ability to forgive her because he understood Christ's forgiveness for his own sin. There is NO sin that is unforgivable by Christ. Maybe she wasn't saved before the affair but it sure sounds like she got saved in the process!
      Not all marriages can be salvaged after an affair but those that are can be a testament to God's redemptive love for us.

    • @hijaovercomer5500
      @hijaovercomer5500 3 місяці тому

      She cheated and she admits it! But the truth is that marriage is a covenant and God says that after God, our spouse takes priority even before work, ministry and children! He knew that he too made a mistake by not putting things in the order that God stipulated in the Bible! Now that is a real Christian and a real man 🙏🏾💜!
      Pd: This is what God does and wants us to do , this is real Christianity ! Men and women need to learn from Jesus and from this handsome man !

  • @YouArePreciousToJesus
    @YouArePreciousToJesus 3 місяці тому +1

    It should be “Praise God who saved my marriage and restored us, I’ll never stop serving Him” not “I’ll drop pastoring anytime for my marriage if I have to” but it’s possible he might have meant it differently because in order to pastor you do have to get your house in proper order. I just want to make sure this statement is clear or those watching and younger Christians.

    • @Julie-kl5sp
      @Julie-kl5sp 3 місяці тому +1

      Pastoring and serving the Lord are not the same thing.

    • @YouArePreciousToJesus
      @YouArePreciousToJesus 3 місяці тому

      @@Julie-kl5sp if you are pastoring the Lord must have called you unless you appointed yourself then yes definitely step down

    • @Julie-kl5sp
      @Julie-kl5sp 3 місяці тому

      I don't believe it's wise to assume that if a person is pastoring they must have been called by the Lord.

    • @YouArePreciousToJesus
      @YouArePreciousToJesus 3 місяці тому

      @@Julie-kl5sp please reread my reply. To be a true pastor you need to have been called to pastor by the Lord. To pastor on your own accord is not a true pastor.

    • @Julie-kl5sp
      @Julie-kl5sp 3 місяці тому

      I agree with that, but feeling "called" is rather subjective.

  • @RebeccaSmith-g1q
    @RebeccaSmith-g1q 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for this testimony!! I had an affair on my husband at 25 years of age 6 years into our marriage. The guilt made me want to kill myself. He forgave me and we rededicated our lives but he went back I to the world and back on his forgiveness. He was bitter towards me for 20 years and even hated God. I finally had all I could take. I was so in love with Jesus is the only reason I could cope. Finally we agreed to divorce and we were both freed. I am happily married now to someone who first loves God and second knows everything and still loves me. To forgive is supernatural and it will never happen without God. But I firmly believe a marriage can survive infidelity if both ppl turn to God, the guilty party repents, and leave the past behind!!

    • @EpicDavid4Life
      @EpicDavid4Life 3 місяці тому

      “A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord.”
      ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7‬:‭39‬ ‭NIV‬‬

    • @EpicDavid4Life
      @EpicDavid4Life 3 місяці тому

      “He told her, “Go, call your husband and come back.” “I have no husband,” she replied. Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.””
      ‭‭John‬ ‭4‬:‭16‬-‭18‬ ‭NIV‬‬

    • @EpicDavid4Life
      @EpicDavid4Life 3 місяці тому

      “But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”
      ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭32‬ ‭NIV‬‬

    • @EpicDavid4Life
      @EpicDavid4Life 3 місяці тому

      ““Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’”
      ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭21‬-‭23‬ ‭NIV‬‬

  • @Seraphim7
    @Seraphim7 3 місяці тому

    God First.
    If your Spouse walked Away… you Must Continue On w the Call, No Matter what.
    Love God, Love yourself in a Healthy way + as God Loves you. THEN, you’ll Know how to Love your Wife.
    The Bible Says: a man who Loves himself, Loves his Wife🤍

  • @Anna-gj1ts
    @Anna-gj1ts 3 місяці тому

    I may not have been to church a lot in recent years and maybe influenced by people who arent christian but I feel if someone cheats repetedly on me that it would be over for good. But I guess I dont know the full story.

  • @Meeechellaaa
    @Meeechellaaa 3 місяці тому +2

    Aldultry is grounds leagally biblically and he should find a good virtuous woman please.

    • @JayDaisy-hn4mz
      @JayDaisy-hn4mz 3 місяці тому

      She belongs to the streets

    • @Julie-kl5sp
      @Julie-kl5sp 3 місяці тому

      Yes, adultery is grounds for divorce, but God's heart is for restoration.

    • @JayDaisy-hn4mz
      @JayDaisy-hn4mz 3 місяці тому

      @@Julie-kl5sp wonder how the comments would look if the roles were reversed

  • @Beulah44
    @Beulah44 3 місяці тому

    First take that log out of your eye...
    Her sin was not putting God first, his sin was not putting God first.

  • @VidyaOliver-fl2ds
    @VidyaOliver-fl2ds 3 місяці тому

    When u cheat on your spouse repent coz u r supposed to pray for your spouse cheating means u hve never truly have a real intimate relationship with Jesus

    • @700club
      @700club  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for engaging in our video. Thank you for being a part of our UA-cam community!

  • @Seraphim7
    @Seraphim7 3 місяці тому +1

    Do Not make Spouse an Idol, above God….
    God First . Amen🤍

  • @laurageorgina589
    @laurageorgina589 3 місяці тому +18

    She cheated because of her own selfishness not because of him or what he did. It was her own decision, no excuses or blaming please. Cheating is the highest level of disrespect towards a man.

    • @laurageorgina589
      @laurageorgina589 3 місяці тому +4

      I don’t like when people tell the story how they ended up cheating by bringing up whatever behaviour of the other person. You lady are too much me, me, me and I, I, I and that is why you cheated. Marriage is not about you,it is a covenant with Christ and with the other party. I respect the man for being gracious in this situation, but she is sadly full of herself.

  • @tendaiboti3157
    @tendaiboti3157 3 місяці тому +18

    Forgiveness is everything.....I trust in the Lord....so trust in the Lord

  • @hijaovercomer5500
    @hijaovercomer5500 3 місяці тому +14

    I think God just confirmed to me through this video that I have to stop for a while my ministry ! I think I have been more caring about the ministry than my husband ! Thank you Jesus , I will obey, please help me ! God bless you guys for putting this video , it came as answer to my prayers 🙏🏾🤗!

    • @bartinadikgale1832
      @bartinadikgale1832 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you servants of God for this testimony.We see real humility forgiveness repentance and love both ways.

  • @rainej7013
    @rainej7013 3 місяці тому +30

    Maybe I’m wrong isn’t it supposed to be God first and then your family?

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 місяці тому +11

      Yes. But I guess, like he stated, he kind of put his family on the back burner. We are to be committed to our relationship with Christ always regardless first and foremost. We ourselves are the church. Not necessarily where we attend. God does intend us to take time to rest and for our spouses and children as well. That is why it is imperative that everyone learn how to hear from God directly for themselves.

    • @emmasmith7590
      @emmasmith7590 3 місяці тому +8

      Yes. You’re right, however what he’s saying is that by putting his wife before pastoral duties he is stewarding his responsibility as a husband. That should always come first. Because a husband is to live his wife like Christ loves the church. A pastor is not responsible for the entire body of Christ, but he is responsible for what happens amongst his household

    • @emmasmith7590
      @emmasmith7590 3 місяці тому +3

      Love his wife*

    • @melissao.953
      @melissao.953 3 місяці тому +8

      My pastor always says this - God first, family second, ministry third. This wonderful testimony is an example how third and second priorities can easily get mixed. But praise God that He heals and mends all that is broken to bring restoration!

    • @ClaudiaGarcia-28
      @ClaudiaGarcia-28 3 місяці тому +4

      I’ve always heard that a Pastor’s first ministry, or any man’s for that matter, is his family/home.

  • @baryl3969
    @baryl3969 3 місяці тому +19

    That is one strong man of God!

  • @valindamcqueen2443
    @valindamcqueen2443 3 місяці тому +11

    Very good. Very honest. So glad it had a happy ending!

  • @freyamccauley
    @freyamccauley 3 місяці тому +10

    Beautiful story. Thank you Jesus for your great forgiveness. O what a wretched man I am. 😞🙏

  • @IL-948
    @IL-948 3 місяці тому +10

    Brought me to tears. Praise God for restoration

  • @sabrinacampos857
    @sabrinacampos857 3 місяці тому +26

    Cheaters always blame somebody else for cheating instead of holding themselves accountable 😒.

    • @laurac9857
      @laurac9857 3 місяці тому +1

      I don't think she was cheating she was just being honest in what she was thinking at the time

    • @JayDaisy-hn4mz
      @JayDaisy-hn4mz 3 місяці тому

      EXACTLY!!!!
      this lady is a hoe!!!!
      And the poor guy is obviously very insecure!
      This lady clearly is taking advantage of his naivety.
      Going out having her fun. If I had to bet, the trainer probably dumped her and that’s when she ran back to her naive pastor husband . Blaming it on the demons blah blah blah.
      Plssss give me a break.
      This lady is for the streets.
      I hope this guy builds some self esteem and kicks her to the curb!

    • @PinkieJoJo
      @PinkieJoJo 3 місяці тому

      @@laurac9857 she said she was cheating.

    • @hijaovercomer5500
      @hijaovercomer5500 3 місяці тому +2

      She cheated and she admits it! But the truth is that marriage is a covenant and the Bible says that after God, our spouse takes priority even before work, ministry and children! He knew that he too made a mistake by not putting things in the order that God stipulated in the Bible! Now that is a real Christian and a real man 🙏🏾💜!

    • @AutumnLuvsJesus
      @AutumnLuvsJesus 3 місяці тому +7

      That made me sick, too. If a man had blamed his wife the way she blamed him, the comments would be very different. But everyone act like this was so cute. It wasn’t. It was sick.

  • @Jr-Baruch7
    @Jr-Baruch7 3 місяці тому +10

    Praise God ! Thank You, Lord Jesus.

  • @JayDaisy-hn4mz
    @JayDaisy-hn4mz 3 місяці тому +7

    No remorse from the woman. Everything is the man’s fault. If this was the other way around, we’d never be hearing this story

    • @hijaovercomer5500
      @hijaovercomer5500 3 місяці тому

      She cheated and she admits it! But the truth is that marriage is a covenant and God says that after God, our spouse takes priority even before work, ministry and children! He knew that he too made a mistake by not putting things in the order that God stipulated in the Bible! Now that is a real Christian and a real man 🙏🏾💜!
      Pd: This is what God does and wants us to do , this is real Christianity ! Men and women need to learn from Jesus and from this handsome man !

    • @aphetrerryac3603
      @aphetrerryac3603 3 місяці тому

      @@hijaovercomer5500
      True, the order: (1) God; (2) Spouse; (3) Children, and (4) others as you love yourself (as the rule of charity)
      - But listen to what she is saying: 0:30 - "...I just knew if he could love God, he could love me." Sounds like she wanted to be _equal_ to God.
      - You, also, missed that he said he had a calling to be a minister/pastor -- I would assume that calling came from God.
      - 0:18 - She specifically states she WANTED to marry a pastor.
      - A pastor has responsibilities/duties: *Titus 1:7* _a manager of God's house, RESPONSIBLE for God's flock_
      - No, a spouse is NEVER going to come before something God has called you to do -- and she knew that was his calling BEFORE they married.
      - Yes, he should have forgiven her, but his ONLY fault, it seems, is that he did acquiesce to her insertion between him and God.

  • @wolfsden
    @wolfsden 3 місяці тому +10

    Praise God!!! If He can do this in their marriage, He will do it in mine, as well. In Jesus' name, Amen!!!

    • @700club
      @700club  3 місяці тому +5

      Absolutely, friend! Nothing is impossible for Him, so keep on believing. What God has joined together, nothing can separate. May the Lord bless your marriage! }

    • @wolfsden
      @wolfsden 3 місяці тому +2

      @@700club Thank you. I have had a dozen affirmations and confirmations in the past two weeks, since I've been in the new apartment, alone. I praise God for these, as they came out of nowhere. Amen.

  • @sarahamaral2931
    @sarahamaral2931 3 місяці тому +21

    The man is a 10/10… I guess anyone can fall.

    • @Anna-gj1ts
      @Anna-gj1ts 3 місяці тому

      I agree! 😂 Did he use to be a bit of a scum bag too but found jesus. 🤔 not checking out the pastor just an observation.

    • @SpectralonWhite
      @SpectralonWhite 3 місяці тому

      She’s the worst wife a man can have.

  • @AutumnLuvsJesus
    @AutumnLuvsJesus 3 місяці тому +11

    It was “Because of what he did, I cheated.” If a man said it this way, we would be sickened by it. Instead of making excuses, it would have been beautiful to just hear her admit she was selfish and weak and did what she wanted to do. Regardless of the circumstances of the marriage, cheating is a choice YOU make for YOURSELF. This was not an uplifting story, it was sad. It was all his fault. Praise God they made it, but this was not a great story to hear…

  • @JR-qt6br
    @JR-qt6br 3 місяці тому +5

    She's fortunate to have such an attractive husband. She had her fun and then got "convicted" of her sins Ungrateful to say the least.

    • @JayDaisy-hn4mz
      @JayDaisy-hn4mz 3 місяці тому

      She’s for the streets

    • @JayDaisy-hn4mz
      @JayDaisy-hn4mz 3 місяці тому

      She belongs to the streets

    • @Julie-kl5sp
      @Julie-kl5sp 3 місяці тому

      Ungrateful? She didn't seem so to me. Are you angry that she didn't get what she "deserved" and her husband gave her mercy and grace? Giving sinners mercy and grace is the same heart God has for sinners.

    • @hijaovercomer5500
      @hijaovercomer5500 3 місяці тому

      She cheated and she admits it! But the truth is that marriage is a covenant and God says that after God, our spouse takes priority even before work, ministry and children! He knew that he too made a mistake by not putting things in the order that God stipulated in the Bible! Now that is a real Christian and a real man 🙏🏾💜!
      Pd: This is what God does and wants us to do , this is real Christianity ! Men and women need to learn from Jesus and from this handsome man !

  • @Jesus.the.messiah33
    @Jesus.the.messiah33 3 місяці тому +6

    GOD IS GOOD

  • @joanhenschel3511
    @joanhenschel3511 3 місяці тому +5

    Hallelujah to God for restoration in their marriage!

  • @JT-cf5ol
    @JT-cf5ol 3 місяці тому +7

    Always an excuse.

  • @tinaunger2944
    @tinaunger2944 3 місяці тому +5

    Amen

  • @SpectralonWhite
    @SpectralonWhite 3 місяці тому +1

    All men can agree he didn’t hit the jackpot for a wife. But she hit the jackpot and didn’t care about it either.

  • @fr.nicholasvoelker2105
    @fr.nicholasvoelker2105 3 місяці тому +4

    God bless you both

  • @LS-eg2ge
    @LS-eg2ge 3 місяці тому +8

    Wow he had every right to divorce her . She still seems to like the things of the world , tattoos, nose ring etc , super inmature looking . God sure gave this man a true heart to forget . He could have forgave her but did not need to stay in the marriage.

    • @Julie-kl5sp
      @Julie-kl5sp 3 місяці тому +1

      I'm sure he knows he didn't "have" to stay in the marriage. To me it sounds like he chose to stay in the marriage, not out of obligation, but out of love.

    • @stephanieojo9095
      @stephanieojo9095 3 місяці тому +6

      So you are saying because of her outer appearance she is not worthy in Gods eyes? You are not God. As long as God is happy with her your opinion is not valid. God looks at the heart. Before we put our own judgement like we know it all let us look within. God bless you.

  • @deirdrekelly5793
    @deirdrekelly5793 3 місяці тому +2

    Selfish

  • @shelbydrake6064
    @shelbydrake6064 3 місяці тому +3

    Wow, wow wow, what an amazing testimony

  • @SolaBiblia07
    @SolaBiblia07 3 місяці тому +4

    The story doesn't justify her pastoring alongside her husband, this video makes that seemingly not matter but the bible is crystal clear (1Tim 2:12) "I do not permit a woman to teach or to excercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet."

  • @charkay192
    @charkay192 3 місяці тому

    I, I, I, I, me, me , me, I want , I need, I, I, me, my , my , my, me......... me , me , me, me. ..... that's all I heard from her. Very little about JESUS and His wonderful grace and mercy 😢

  • @Mrnobody0070
    @Mrnobody0070 Місяць тому

    Proverbs 12:4
    “A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.”
    King James Version (KJV)

  • @DineshAnthonyRatnayake
    @DineshAnthonyRatnayake Місяць тому

    I realize he forgave her. But still there is no excuse for cheating. When women cheat “oh it’s a mistake”. When guys cheat they are evil. I would’ve left her …but good on your John. Hopefully she’s faithful to you now…

  • @TaytoJack94
    @TaytoJack94 3 місяці тому +2

    God is SO GOOD!!!!!!!!

  • @proud2bejcan
    @proud2bejcan 3 місяці тому

    He would give up the church for his wife and kids?! I think that’s in the wrong order and not scriptural. The wife said ‘me’ a lot as well. This story was not a blessing for me.

  • @CM-lu5qq
    @CM-lu5qq 3 місяці тому

    That all has everything to do with herself. Not her husband and not God.

  • @isabelferreira6660
    @isabelferreira6660 3 місяці тому

    Only GOD JUDGES not MAN❤

  • @abi1569
    @abi1569 3 місяці тому +1

    Amen story needed to be told for others

  • @concernedkid3262
    @concernedkid3262 3 місяці тому +1

    incredible

  • @zhoyz
    @zhoyz 2 місяці тому

    I initially thought that his ministry should come before his wife, but God led me to 1 Timothy 3:4. There, God tells us the criteria for anyone who wants to lead a church, and one if them is to be able to manage his household. The pastor is right about temporarily stepping down to fix the issues at home before leading and teaching other believers.

    • @700club
      @700club  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing your findings, @zhoyz. May we all walk in His righteous path, obey His Word, and live in harmony. God bless you very much!

  • @Victoriousandbrave
    @Victoriousandbrave 3 місяці тому +1

    🔥 ❤

  • @dovesbeatingheart.2834
    @dovesbeatingheart.2834 3 місяці тому

    God loves you both. ❤️ i feel it so much for both of you. Angel believed the enemy's lies. John you expressed the love of God perfectly. Gods highest law is LOVE and love = forgiveness ❤ JESUS MOST CERTAINLY DOES DEFINE YOU. You are a true man of God John 🙏🏼 ❤

  • @EM422
    @EM422 3 місяці тому

    God First! Wife Second, Family Third, Ministry Last.

  • @hephzibah4675
    @hephzibah4675 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for your courage to share your story. Many people fear to speak about issues like this because of judgement and criticism. Which is absolutely real in christianity unfortunatelly. Many church leaders and marriages struggle these days, there is immense pressure from all around. And all emotions and temptations are real. To see that you both decided to seek God, repentance and change of priorities in your situation, truly glorifies God. He is faithful and dont want any to perish, but all come to the knowledge of the truth. 🙏❤

  • @JayDaisy-hn4mz
    @JayDaisy-hn4mz 3 місяці тому

    700 club deleting my comments.
    Darkness hates light!

  • @Matthew-cz3gk
    @Matthew-cz3gk 3 місяці тому

    Beautiful testimony 😢😢😢

    • @700club
      @700club  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for tuning in, @Matthew-cz3gk.