Courageous Wife Saves Her Marriage Through Fierce Love

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • Author Shauna Shanks shares how she fought for her marriage after her husband said he didn't love her and revealed his affair.
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  • @700club
    @700club  7 років тому +21

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    • @animaki5372
      @animaki5372 6 років тому +1

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    • @janbutcher2245
      @janbutcher2245 6 років тому

      The Official 700 Club yes

    • @jenjackson9757
      @jenjackson9757 5 років тому

      The Official 700 Club my friend William girlfriend she is married please pray him

    • @morquelalove506
      @morquelalove506 5 років тому +1

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    • @siegfridbautista776
      @siegfridbautista776 4 роки тому

      Its been 8 months but im still determine to win my wife back, she is what i belief God has given to me, despite her cheating i will keep praying for our marriage, this is what my heart tells me keep her loving and pray like ive never done before daily

  • @joyceanthony9526
    @joyceanthony9526 6 років тому +143

    Shauna is 100 percent correct. Christ comes first.

  • @bbredhead70
    @bbredhead70 5 років тому +235

    The moral of the story is listening to God not what you think should happen.

    • @lemumtaaz
      @lemumtaaz 4 роки тому +6

      LITERALLY. Amen.
      I feel like so many of us are poisoned with worldly views FIRST before God's way.

    • @beautyforashes5297
      @beautyforashes5297 2 роки тому

      I have been the foolish wife in proverbs ( I go more into detail on my page ). please learn from my mistakes, so you dont push your husband away.

  • @jesussavesemail9794
    @jesussavesemail9794 4 роки тому +19

    Those who say t he y can't forgive a cheater, how many times have we all cheated on God? Weve been unfaithful over and over but God through His mercy and grace takes us back alk the time. We need to understand the deep love of God and imitate Him..

  • @christydodgin3712
    @christydodgin3712 6 років тому +254

    I love this ....the world will think your crazy for standing but Jesus stood and is still standing in for us.... Way to go sister...

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +3

      Yes He did, and He still is. But some people have to be careful. It depends on the situation they were/are in. An affair is one thing. But abuse of any kind is a horse of a different feather. Even with affairs you have to be careful at times. Only God knows.

    • @christydodgin3712
      @christydodgin3712 4 роки тому +1

      @@ladennayoung2939 agree going through my divorce now pray for me for strength in God things didnt go how I had hoped.

    • @brettlorenzo60
      @brettlorenzo60 4 роки тому

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  • @matildej877
    @matildej877 5 років тому +34

    God restored my marriage too. This story is so similar to mine. And my husband gave me my ring back too when we reconciled.

    • @F.a.i.t.h.speaks
      @F.a.i.t.h.speaks Рік тому +1

      What a beautiful testimony. I’m praying that God will do the same in my life.

    • @Tony_basketball
      @Tony_basketball Рік тому +1

      Hoping for a miracle

  • @nomambengashe3003
    @nomambengashe3003 4 роки тому +9

    This is for me, exactly what I'm going through. Thank you Jesus you are faithful 🙌

  • @janiejl
    @janiejl 7 років тому +108

    What a powerful testimony and a faithful and obedient woman of God. I am so touched by your story, we are called to walk by faith and not sight and love is a choice and you did just that Shauna! God bless you and may the Lord bless the latter years of your marriage and life!

  • @alyssajuarez2754
    @alyssajuarez2754 6 років тому +17

    I wish i could speak with her personally. I can relate to her on so many levels.

  • @lupitaalvarado574
    @lupitaalvarado574 6 років тому +30

    Amazing women there is not many women like you. You are great and awsome person. Yahshuah Ha Mashiah bless you and your family always.

  • @jeannegauthier739
    @jeannegauthier739 6 років тому +490

    I had a similar experience but a different outcome. God had me forgive my husband.. pray for his restoration...work on myself...and fight for my marriage for an 10 extra years...taking him back after his betrayal many times..however, he did not ultimately want the same thing..and became abusive and chose to walk away from the Lord, his wife.. 6 children...and the ministry. It is so redeeming for me to see a woman and a couple that have been restored and to know this is the desire of God's heart for all marriages...but it takes 2 people that are willing to surrender to the process of restoration. What a beautiful story of what could have happened for my family too...had my husband chose this path as well. Thank you Shauna for sharing your testimony...I understand the pain..and also rejoice with you for your family and marriage restoration.

    • @mollynoneofurbuisness3099
      @mollynoneofurbuisness3099 6 років тому +75

      I pray that your latter days will be greater, and that God's love will hold you every day and heal all your hurt. Your children too. Hugs

    • @humbledaughter2219
      @humbledaughter2219 6 років тому +32

      Sister, the Lord is in your beautiful graciousness and acceptance of His will. This life and it’s pains are temporary, the joy of His faithful children is everlasting. Thank you for your inspiring words. God bless you

    • @raulmartinez429
      @raulmartinez429 5 років тому +18

      Molly and humble
      GOD bless you sisters for taking the time to bless your sister

    • @isobelndoro
      @isobelndoro 5 років тому +33

      I love you and may God bless you and your children. I understand being cheated and humiliated, been there but God is faithful, He will bless you with the right person if that is His will. There is a reason for everything under the sun. Keep praising God and being happy for others. You have a beautiful soul to actually be happy for others when you did not get the same thing. You are brave and a courageous woman. One day l know people are going to celebrate you, when we celebrate others blessings rub off...

    • @estherstrategicadvisor749
      @estherstrategicadvisor749 5 років тому +30

      @Jeanne You have an amazingly sweet spirit to wish others well in spite of your outcome. I pray that God continues to strengthen and heal you from the inside out. I pray that your future will be filled with beautiful friendships that reflect the LOVE God has for you, His Beloved child. God Bless!

  • @andiel.l.1329
    @andiel.l.1329 6 років тому +31

    This is so very precisely what I'm living right now and so helpful to hear. The word the LORD told me was 'to stand' (stand therefore and not grow weary) 'to wait and see' (HIS SALVATION and my mounting up on wings like an eagle'...
    My days and even moments to the next moment are exactly the same where I'll feel so much HOPE & then literally come crashing down in shame and even feeling foolish for allowing myself to hope again....but I believe my stance is to get my eyes off of our circumstances and to focus, keeping my eyes on Jesus to be able to walk with/in/by THE SPIRIT!
    When I do that, it's AMAZING how light and Grace-filled these moments become vs. the weight/burden of carrying or figuring things according to my own doing.
    I'm really grateful that I saw this THIS very day....I needed to!
    PRAISE and GLORY to YESHUA!!!

    • @martinmbuthia1965
      @martinmbuthia1965 5 років тому +3

      And no matter how many crashing moments you have, get up and stand again! All of heaven stands with you!

  • @TheBeholdersBeauty
    @TheBeholdersBeauty 5 років тому +12

    Wow this blessed me and gave me hope. I’m praying God restores my marriage and family.

  • @KrystalNCMA
    @KrystalNCMA 6 років тому +73

    I can only imagine how much more beautiful our marriages would be if we used that love filter throughout all of the marriage instead of once it is challenged. It is amazing how she moved through this and now I am wanting to challenge myself more to be like that with my hubby, even though we have a very loving relationship now. We can lose our cool at times and this would truly be a beautiful and lovely challenge to help us through our tempers which we do both have.

  • @charmainegibson4905
    @charmainegibson4905 5 років тому +3

    This testimony move me to tears. May God continue to bless and keep you all.

  • @sarabonafede4996
    @sarabonafede4996 6 років тому +25

    My father is exactly faithful and loving to my mother as this woman is. And that's whyyy I've been single until now. If they don't love me like Christ loved the Church, bam! Outta the door. I enjoy my couch. :) no problem :)

  • @Nangiesx
    @Nangiesx 5 років тому +6

    I love the cover of her book. It is not about self ,(like covered in image of herself and all that) . That is selfless.

  • @kristye9896
    @kristye9896 6 років тому +17

    I’m so grateful for this, this is the position I took. I choose to love and honor I haven’t spoke with him in months and the evidence o divorce is there but I still have hope. And thank you for letting me know it’s okay.

  • @siegfriedbautista736
    @siegfriedbautista736 5 років тому

    Right now i on constant prayer as much as possible, evil infiltrates every family everwhere, kindly pray for my wife

  • @disciplewarrior686
    @disciplewarrior686 5 років тому

    So so powerful the way God showed her that she did the same things to God in the past

  • @lokinggoodbrowneyegirl9557
    @lokinggoodbrowneyegirl9557 5 років тому +3

    Going through the same thing. As I did the same also. As I had God in my life I asked him to help me. I like ito really keep wat happen wat I asked the Lord for our marriage. Now it's we're getting remarried in 3 weeks from now. I did the same as she did. In some Parts not all... 🙏📿💯💖

    • @martinmbuthia1965
      @martinmbuthia1965 5 років тому

      Hallelujah! And the glory of this second marriage will be greater than that of the first one, and in this one, God will grant peace! (Haggai 2:9)

  • @sheilalaw6665
    @sheilalaw6665 5 років тому +2

    Those women conferences are powerful the last testimony of the restoration of a marriage also began after a conference.

  • @randelljns
    @randelljns Рік тому

    The conviction that came from this video 🙏🏾❤️ thank you♥️♥️♥️

  • @AshleyLondon
    @AshleyLondon 6 років тому +26

    I am glad she was able to reconcile with her husband. Perhaps, a generational curse was broken within her family. However, this is not for me. Life is short. I would rather serve God with peace vs. in a state of pain because this level of hurt was inflicted on me. Sometimes people have to deal with their consequences. I get it - God forgives, so we should forgive, but you reap what you sow. There are men and women in the world who respect marriage. Time is up for not valuing what God has so graciously given us.

    • @700club
      @700club  6 років тому +1

      Ashley, we are so glad that you stopped by. Truly God has a plan and a purpose for all that we go through and He gives us the grace to accomplish His will.

    • @AshleyLondon
      @AshleyLondon 6 років тому +3

      Amen for His grace!

    • @kimberlybellefontaine1215
      @kimberlybellefontaine1215 6 років тому +7

      Ashley Lewis I hear you too, Ashley. After being so emotionally abused on my marriage for 20 years, I was handed divorce papers by my husband. Although it was I who had been abused, I still never wanted a divorce. I wanted our marriage to be healed. I wanted my husband to find God again (he’d lost him yrs and yrs ago and never looked back..). I wanted a HUSBAND. And I wanted the chance to be a real wife. It was not to be though. My husbands heart had hardened SO much, I didn’t even recognize him anymore. If I thought he was emotionally abusive before, wow, he became REALLY abusive & hurtful after filing. I prayed & prayed. All I can take away is that God answered my prayers with the divorce. I don’t know anything else. No, it’s not what I wanted. I just wanted to be relieved of all this pain I was in. God didn’t work in ways to save my marriage. My husband wanted no part of that. I do so strongly believe he has a generational curse following him. His parents divorced when he was in college (we currently have one child in college and one heading there next year), and he was devastated. He went on to marry and divorce his first wife within 4 yrs. Then married me.....and divorced after 20 yrs of marriage. I see a true generational curse and I’m sooooooo worried for my two children.. I pray so HARD for them every day. I was hoping my husband would break that generational curse.....but he chose not to......and so it continues with him.
      I pray you’ve found the peace your soul so desperately needed. I, too, know that I desperately need that peace. I don’t even think my husband is a believer anymore (was he ever....???) and that shakes me to my core. How can I be in a marriage meant to glorify God if my partner has no desire to glorify Him? Not only that, but has also completely given up on his faith as if it were no big deal. How does one hold a sacred marriage together under those circumstances? Because i don’t think it’s a sacred marriage anymore...
      Sorry for all the rambling. I have so many thoughts & they all come out so randomly. I do hope & pray you’re more peaceful these days. I still have soooooo much healing to do once this process is finally over. Healing hasn’t even begun yet. It hasn’t had the chance. I feel I’ll be spending the rest of my natural life healing from this. Did I mention I’m 58 yrs old..???? Certainly hasn’t made anything easier... I value and am sooooo grateful for everything that God has so graciously given us/me. Somehow, for whatever reason, my husband did not. That was a big problem. Like Shauna, I’ve prayed that his heart would turn to God once again....but it hasn’t. That’s been heartbreaking for me. But I guess God is showing me that it’s time for me to move on now, painful as it is.....
      God bless you!

    • @lovingtherightone
      @lovingtherightone 6 років тому +3

      Kimberly, I am with you, I know how hard it is, but God is near to those with broken hearts... I actually converted just after marrying and getting pregnant and it was 10 yrs ago.. I was raised in a traditional catholic family in Poland, and none of my closest relatives was divorced...My choices and dreams led me to marry a mexican and live in another part of the globe with him, which actually resulted a nightmare . I was pretty much lonely and emotionally abused with no one to turn to - my family and friends were so far away...It was then that I grabbed New Testament and started looking for answers..and I started to pray...I began to change and accepted Jesus as my Savior...And finally after 2 yrs God brought to Mexico City a guy Polish guy from Chicago :) He was trying to make business contacts there, but right after our first meeting it resulted that he was born-again and eventually he babtised me. Soon my marriage started to get even worse, which made me ask God fervently if he really wanted me to stay with my husband because I couldn´t take it any more, but if God told me to stay I would stay and after that a cuple of days later my husband declared that he didn´t want to be with me any more and it led to 2,5yrs separation which I spent in Poland with my family and attending to small pentecostal church and growing spiritually. I didn´t accept the idea of divorce whatsoever and I prayed for my marriage restoration during that period. He would visit me and my child a couple of times and it seemed that he still loved me but I was expecting from him his move to Poland, because I was then afraid to be once again the victim so far away from my place of security. I thought the pain was over when he asked me to come back and move to another, smaller city, so I did it, because I felt peace in my heart and I was already stronger. Nevertheless after my return to Mexico once again he started to be harsh and threatening with divorce after a couple of weeks and after a couple of months I discovered traces of infidelity which totally broke my heart into pieces because I knew that I was doing everything in my strenght to keep our marriage while he was aready looking to contact other women. I guess the reason of it was because the light and the dark cannot coexist, which is why I stick to 1Corintians 7:15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?... I eventually came back to Poland with my child and there was a rainbow welcoming us, a sign from my loving Father... I had a rebel phase, which probably helped me forget about my ex, but God is good and in the midst of the dark valley He told me through by His prophets, that I will be happy some day with someone else and I should do what I have to an God would be with me. Well I have come a long curly way , right now I am free divorcee and I know Good Father loves me and I have his Promise in my mind whenever there is a challenge in my life. Sometimes something that looks terrible is the only way to make us grow and understand the real character of Our Lord which makes us Love Him more and have the love and understanding for other people. I send you lots of Love and Blessings, keep looking for the right answer, don´t give up, because we can be blessing for many others... Kasia

    • @lovingtherightone
      @lovingtherightone 6 років тому

      Yvonne Rahui thank you 😊

  • @susannabonke8552
    @susannabonke8552 6 років тому +3

    thank you so much...

  • @jessefoster2832
    @jessefoster2832 10 місяців тому +2

    FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE
    JOHN 3:16

  • @manichairdo6346
    @manichairdo6346 6 років тому +2

    Awe. 'I already had 2 weeks worth of'... brilliant.

  • @marywarf8946
    @marywarf8946 5 років тому +1

    I need prayers. My husband has threatened to leave or divorce me for quite a while. We have went through a lot and it breaks my heart that he thinks I have bad intentions against him. I love him dearly and I pray that he sees it. We both need help. I pray for healing and reconciliation.

  • @keishaocasio3713
    @keishaocasio3713 6 років тому +2

    Wow, I’m so happy for you, truly. God bless y’all. Going through the same thing and I’m numb. I don’t feel anything and when someone ask I say I’m fine or I’m happy he’s gone. I prayed, read books and thee book , just to help me save my marriage. But oh my gosh! I became exhausted. So sick of feeling sad, depressed...I just wished we had made it. He’s now living in Queens and I’m raising our 4 year old son paying bills, I still don’t know how to handle this situation. But I’ll get your book and see

    • @m.magdalenedieujusternfutu3309
      @m.magdalenedieujusternfutu3309 5 років тому +1

      I read the comments and most are full of doubt and contradictions. We have to change our thinking God gave us the tools the word (BIBLE) everything we need to endure this life. We have to Change our focus this video is a primary example of Gods power. We say we believe, trust God and can quote scriptures BUT we REALLY Dont we dont have an inmate relationship with God we dont know God like we claim we do
      Cause if we truly did we would take God at his word stand on it even though we dont see, feel, trace it. We should speak LIFE and not death,unsure,contradiction and etcetera
      God is unchanging if he said it thats what it is period regardless of our emotional state. God can do ALL things but fail he changes not. Life and death is in the power of our tongue. So if our marriage dont get restore its not because God change his mind its because we are unstable in all our ways and spoke death to the situation. All of my hope and expectation is in GOD therefore restoration will come and has come to my situation NOW in JESUS name keeping my eyes on JESUS during the storm and not the situation/s. No job is too big or too small for GOD NOTHING is impossible This video has been a blessing. God can resurrect anything that we think is dead. Dry bones can live.

  • @jackiejack8407
    @jackiejack8407 5 років тому +2

    Hope this happens for me in my marriage

  • @andrella7748
    @andrella7748 2 роки тому

    A Wife is a special person and you can even see it in their eyes. It’s a sense of selflessness. I know I don’t have. I see it in every wife .. I wonder what happened to the woman he was having an affair with

  • @drea2167
    @drea2167 5 років тому

    Wow what a beautiful testimony! 🤞🏼💓🙌🏽🙏🏼

  • @jessicatv2761
    @jessicatv2761 5 років тому +12

    When the interviewer looks like Angela Merkel !

  • @katherinetorrence1502
    @katherinetorrence1502 5 років тому

    Praise God for you.

  • @ladyb4574
    @ladyb4574 5 років тому +1

    God deals with each one differently. Every marriage is different and so is every divorce. What works for one may not work for others. Know your self and know what you can take. There is too much of God in you to allow one person to destroy your life. Life is too short to be wasted. Find your purpose in life and pursue it. God does not love you less because you are divorced. Stay focused, serve God, pursue your passion, love all. If reconciliation works praise God, if it doesn't move on. There are people out there who value you and value marriage.

  • @thabisorams1071
    @thabisorams1071 2 роки тому

    Oh Lord please heal and restore my marriage

  • @yagirltaurus1294
    @yagirltaurus1294 5 років тому +3

    From 6:22 to 7:35 it was like I was staring at myself on TV talking. I needed to hear this and I immediately paused the video and started repenting. And sometimes it’s like that one day we’ll be joking around laughing and maybe even flirting a teenie weenie bit like we used and then he’ll just be cold as Everest

  • @doraphiri5943
    @doraphiri5943 2 роки тому

    I love Shauna's book

  • @j.sabien1903
    @j.sabien1903 3 роки тому

    I would Love to hear his version of the marriage & why he got tired. No man proposes just to get divorced 10years later. I wish men would be as courageous at telling their truth as women are.

  • @marciaduncan4681
    @marciaduncan4681 5 років тому

    Wow...so true...lord I am guilty of this.

  • @carole1878
    @carole1878 3 роки тому

    It's the moment you know exactly what happened that you can start live him back.

  • @Matt10013
    @Matt10013 5 років тому +1

    He don't deserve ur forgiveness....but it's great that u forgave

  • @rociogobea2285
    @rociogobea2285 5 років тому

    God is great. For I needed this exact inspiration of this journey of restoration. I am going thru exactly the same thing, it all began in the beginning of this yr, in Jan., broken marriage& true identity. But God began a restoration & began to give me a more deeper eye opener w in my spirit. What amazes me with her story is that I also got the 1Corithians13,(and I thought the same thing of ok I know this scripture... but also an eye opener that we as Christians always know these scriptures, but are they rooted, are we truly living what we know) in my case, God actually used my husband to point out that he was struggling with love in general.(God gave me a vision of showing me that this rooted issue began when he was a child) I tried so hard to make sure to focus on God and make sure to notice what He wanted me to see& I began to read the scripture daily& God began to show me that this scripture is the main thing to have first in our relationship with Jesus, for if we didn't, in reality we couldn't love fully towards others& oneself. For His love is the perfect, purest,& only way. I did notice as I received His full love that I could love my husband more& that I did, besides the agony pain& hurt... I loved him even more because of Jesus. Then I had to learn in the process of this journey how to keep it up& excercise His love. I myself have had ups and back steps if disappointments, but you know the amazing part is that during those disappointments and not giving up and choosing God& His love.... it blessed me to become stronger& like Him, in many different levels, for in the beginning I truly believe that this fight is not just about my marriage nor my children, our home as a family.... this is about who God is. And yet I'm again in a crossroads and I have been praying and making sure to stay focus no matter of any feelings that is trying to get in my way& not going to lie... the mind can begin to try to get in control when your expectations just don't meet& it's a hassle... but the One that keeps me strong and going is Him. He comes to me with sermons, music, people's testimony and inspiration... and to see this just gives me more hope❤ a hope to not give up, a hope that He has my marriage, my children, my life! ❤ I ask for prayers, for prayers are always in need& I greatly always appreciate for anyone's prayers🕊💜

  • @doompod
    @doompod 4 роки тому

    I’m facing the same challenge....

  • @lovelykisses777
    @lovelykisses777 5 років тому +4

    The Gospel 😀💟💟💟💟💟
    "I passed on to you what was most important and what had also been passed on to me.
    Christ died for our sins, just as the Scriptures said.
    He was buried, and he was raised from the dead on the third day, just as the Scriptures said.
    He was seen by Peter and then by the Twelve.
    After that, he was seen by more than 500 of his followers at one time."

  • @biakpar7907
    @biakpar7907 5 років тому +1

    Forgiveness is come from God! My grandpa cheated my gramma twice time and had two children with two different women beside during their marriage but my grandmother still forgiven him twice, it’s was hurtful my grandma said. and now they happily married till the death. I also have the greatest childhood ever that I could remember so that I will continue to tell my children about the love story of my grandparents..

  • @yvonneerrend8217
    @yvonneerrend8217 5 років тому +1

    Maybe his thoughts should have been towards the Lord first because he is the head over the wife and God is the head over him and he has to lead his family to Christ and Lead his children to Christ and be a support to his wife and love her like Christ loves the church but it sounds like to me that you had to do the work to lead him back to you which is turned around biblically.. and it sounds like to me he was morally bankrupt already and that had nothing to do with you it had to do with his relationship with God which he didn't obviously have in the way that you would have thought he did, but because of the love, that caused him to draw closer to Christ which allowed him to not give up on your marriage..

  • @liviaberte8521
    @liviaberte8521 5 років тому

    Why is always woman that need to change ???? Why??

  • @marabarnes7407
    @marabarnes7407 6 років тому +3

    Nope... just no!

    • @mercymfula9728
      @mercymfula9728 5 років тому

      Why?

    • @9290SC
      @9290SC 5 років тому +1

      God is faithful

    • @kevinjohnson7418
      @kevinjohnson7418 4 роки тому

      I tend to lean with you on this. Although there are some stories of redemption, including in the Bible. Let's hope he is not a narcissist. Women and men like this hide in the church with stellar public images.

  • @anngeliquevwhitaker
    @anngeliquevwhitaker 5 років тому +48

    May everyone going through a similar situation find restoration in jesus christ name

  • @AnnaBTsatokeEmpress
    @AnnaBTsatokeEmpress 6 років тому +121

    not only in marriage but in life...dealing with people period.

    • @SLOtsuji
      @SLOtsuji 5 років тому

      Anna B Tsa'toke amen

    • @itsjustmyopinionbut1671
      @itsjustmyopinionbut1671 5 років тому

      Anna B Tsa'toke so true

    • @Amadeus_2061
      @Amadeus_2061 5 років тому

      Amen.

    • @JerubbaalgodSlayer
      @JerubbaalgodSlayer 5 років тому

      @Anna B Tsa'toke
      This is so true. I’m applying this to my natural father and one of my brothers. This is why I am a Christian. God commanded His love to me, when I didn’t love Him and wanted nothing to do with Him. I now have to do the same. It’s an opportunity for me to grow in God and become more like Him. I’m grateful.

    • @joyobessa1364
      @joyobessa1364 4 роки тому

      Yes sis! 👏

  • @havethepowerusingwisdomtat2840
    @havethepowerusingwisdomtat2840 6 років тому +132

    I’m there God is saying to me Be Still

    • @MultiIMarie
      @MultiIMarie 6 років тому +4

      Praying without ceasing Robinson He’s saying the same thing to me too sis. Keep the faith! Grow closer to Him!

    • @christinalucas1002
      @christinalucas1002 6 років тому

      Relax! God knows your every thought, your worries, and fears! He is sending his word for a reason

    • @jessicatejada3445
      @jessicatejada3445 5 років тому +1

      I’m exactly in the same and I’m praying God hears me. Shauna you are a wonderful woman.

    • @jesusiseverythingjc7591
      @jesusiseverythingjc7591 5 років тому

      I know how it hurts I'm so sorry. Praying for y'all I'm facing divorce.

    • @victorybelongstojesus6617
      @victorybelongstojesus6617 5 років тому +1

      Same here. Actually God gave me a song called be still.

  • @Hislifesavedmine
    @Hislifesavedmine 6 років тому +55

    Praise God for Shauna!
    Her honesty, humility and spirit filled heart!!

  • @christinemusana1342
    @christinemusana1342 6 років тому +116

    This woman is a HERO. I hate divorce may God bless you with long life peace and prosperity to take care of your lovely children and the husband.

    • @kathymyers7279
      @kathymyers7279 5 років тому +1

      Christine Musana no sh s not. There are multitudes of godly brave women that NEVER WROTE A BOOK, never been in church ministry or NEVER WOUND UP ON THE 700 Club that have testimonies of Gods faithfulness to them and their children. IM ONE OF THEM. Guess that makes me a hero too.

    • @elixrofspice2312
      @elixrofspice2312 5 років тому +7

      @@kathymyers7279 well just cause you're a hero doesn't mean she isn't you're all great women for abiding with God

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому

      I don't hate divorce at all. Some people end up in horrific situations, and they need to get out and stay out of it.

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому

      @@kathymyers7279 Ah who is stopping you from writing a book honey? You sound unnecessarily jealous and bitter.

  • @thehumblewolf8972
    @thehumblewolf8972 5 років тому +36

    She’s so pretty ❤️

  • @pinkbutterfly772
    @pinkbutterfly772 6 років тому +89

    Thank you so much. This is so on time. Please pray for me im going thru a similar situation.

    • @theskinman1948
      @theskinman1948 6 років тому +5

      Pinkbutterfly 77 You will be prayed for!!

    • @pinkbutterfly772
      @pinkbutterfly772 6 років тому +3

      Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    • @timothyperry3850
      @timothyperry3850 6 років тому +5

      Pinkbutterfly 77 I will say a prayer for you please say one for our marrriage

    • @StormSheldon
      @StormSheldon 6 років тому +2

      Pinkbutterfly 77 Are you alright 💜

    • @ninasandranatashangowi3078
      @ninasandranatashangowi3078 6 років тому +6

      May the Lord strengthen you my dear sister.. God is faithful...Keep trusting Him...He will not fail you in Jesus name Amen

  • @annamarie18ar
    @annamarie18ar 3 роки тому +15

    I am in Shaunas situation as we speak, I’ve came across so many of these videos and this one here is me i can’t hold back tears. 10 years then one morning my husband tells me he want to go our own ways. 💔 As i continue to pray for my family, him, and marriage. Please pray for me.

    • @jennyrichard7438
      @jennyrichard7438 3 роки тому

      Hello 👋

    • @jennyrichard7438
      @jennyrichard7438 3 роки тому

      I recommend this man powerful man who helped me and restored my marriage in the brinks of divorce

    • @jennyrichard7438
      @jennyrichard7438 3 роки тому

      Today me and my man are living together happily and I believe he can still help you also...

    • @jennyrichard7438
      @jennyrichard7438 3 роки тому

      What’s App him

    • @jennyrichard7438
      @jennyrichard7438 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 7 0 1 1 0 7 9 9 5 8

  • @momseya620
    @momseya620 5 років тому +56

    I don't how I came across this, but I'm going to hope and endure and pray more..thanks for sharing. Just what I needed right now

  • @yorlandelgado8230
    @yorlandelgado8230 5 років тому +30

    Wow God is absolute Love, he has given her such a strong heart

  • @aujkalenic4203
    @aujkalenic4203 5 років тому +15

    We will know God as Almighty in every situation, I too had/have to walk this out as well. However, my husband is narcisstic
    in his lower nature. He does not serve God or others, he says he is saved, I have determined in my heart that he is God's business. I must walk in the Spirit after the Lord 1st, all else is secondary. God is good even when I am in pain, really!

  • @crystalcleardesignfirm1347
    @crystalcleardesignfirm1347 7 років тому +94

    Full of the Holy Ghost Shauna Sharks! God Bless you ... this helped me in this hard season of my marriage.

  • @trhip03
    @trhip03 6 років тому +23

    I would recommend the book Catching Foxes: A Gospel-Guided Journey to Marriage by John Henderson. He spoke at our church for a marriage conference and explained how our marriage is to be for the Glory of God, not ourselves. We are to live as the image of God for that is what we are. Excellent conference and resource!

  • @altheaturner9805
    @altheaturner9805 7 років тому +27

    Shauna thank you for sharing such a powerful testimony of God's love working through you to heal your marriage. That step of faith and walking in ! Corinthians 13 must have been one of the greatest challenges of your life. BUT you decided to go the full course GOD's WAY...that's tough, but you counted the cost and moved forward in confidence knowing that the Holy Spirit was there to lead and guide you. Blessings and Grace to you and your family my sister. I pray that God who began a good work in your marriage will continue to see it through to completion....Peace!!

  • @DaphnyB
    @DaphnyB 6 років тому +24

    Praise God. I Pray the Lord with do the same for me! IN JESUS NAME.

  • @amandagarcia6320
    @amandagarcia6320 5 років тому +15

    This sounds a lot like 99.9% of all marriages that ultimately end in divorce. SO! HAPPY! you both reconciled & moved forward with LOVE:-)......(a much happier ending than the Chris Watts story).

  • @se3375
    @se3375 4 роки тому +12

    God did exactly the same for me, It is amazing!
    God taught me the true meaning of love and He taught me how to love my Husband with that Love in Christ but He also revealed to me that my husband did not love me, as the verse in Corinthians exposed that reality. Still I continued to love my husband. . . Now, God did not rescue my marriage but He rescued me and transformed my life forever! God through that season spoke to me and shared His heart, how we hurt Him the same way a spouse hurts us or vise versa. He as well taught me that the Lord does not want sacrifices, He desires our obedience instead.
    For the Lord Almighty , The Holy Creator of all things to be that intimate to share His heart with me leaves me speechless & in awe! ❤️

    • @yahweh247
      @yahweh247 3 роки тому

      Glad to hear how God rescued you! did you or husband leave?

  • @beastabam7596
    @beastabam7596 6 років тому +56

    This is my best friends mom!!!!!!!!!!

  • @amyturner6275
    @amyturner6275 6 років тому +89

    World needs to hear more of these stories

    • @MyLullabys
      @MyLullabys 5 років тому

      Amy Turner The Church even needs it more.

    • @TheOilers41
      @TheOilers41 4 роки тому +1

      There are many besides this courageous woman who obeyed God who stand for their marriages with many marriage restoration testimonies. Many have been restored after divorce and remarriage. I am a stander and I have been standing for 2 1/2 years now.

  • @raulmartinez429
    @raulmartinez429 5 років тому +35

    FATHER GOD if and wen i get married i pray is a woman like her a woman who loves and fears you and puts you first in her life honest with her self humble and obedient 🙏

  • @sonne2351
    @sonne2351 6 років тому +43

    WoW what a testimony. I applaud you for sharing so candidly without any self pity, honesty and genuineness! I know God rewards such hearts. May he tripple the blessings he has already bestowed on you!!!!

  • @TammiByrd
    @TammiByrd 6 років тому +13

    Godly Love...YES! True discipleship 😇😍

  • @fairlife.muhammad8824
    @fairlife.muhammad8824 4 роки тому +7

    Hats off to that lady. She didn’t let it go. She faced it bravely.

  • @EvaCFricke
    @EvaCFricke Рік тому +6

    Been there for six years and counting. Pray for the change of my husband's heart.

    • @skhumbuzomashati5576
      @skhumbuzomashati5576 7 місяців тому +1

      Keep at it.....the day of unbelievable joy is coming soon....you'll be pinching yourself.........May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13

  • @daveywaves5325
    @daveywaves5325 5 років тому +13

    Sounds like a one sided relationship that needs two to make it work. Women should not be the only one working at it, men need to be equally involved.

  • @angietorres4753
    @angietorres4753 5 років тому +8

    My husband asked me for a divorce. Please pray that I am healed and for marriage to be restored.

    • @700club
      @700club  5 років тому +2

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    • @m.magdalenedieujusternfutu3309
      @m.magdalenedieujusternfutu3309 5 років тому

      I read the comments and most are full of doubt and contradictions. We have to change our thinking God gave us the tools the word (BIBLE) everything we need to endure this life. We have to Change our focus this video is a primary example of Gods power. We say we believe, trust God and can quote scriptures BUT we REALLY Dont we dont have an inmate relationship with God we dont know God like we claim we do
      Cause if we truly did we would take God at his word stand on it even though we dont see, feel, trace it. We should speak LIFE and not death,unsure,contradiction and etcetera
      God is unchanging if he said it thats what it is period regardless of our emotional state. God can do ALL things but fail he changes not. Life and death is in the power of our tongue. So if our marriage dont get restore its not because God change his mind its because we are unstable in all our ways and spoke death to the situation. All of my hope and expectation is in GOD therefore restoration will come and has come to my situation NOW in JESUS name keeping my eyes on JESUS during the storm and not the situation/s. No job is too big or too small for GOD NOTHING is impossible This video has been a blessing. God can resurrect anything that we think is dead. Dry bones can live.

    • @lisahudson2655
      @lisahudson2655 5 років тому

      Praying and standing with you

    • @daveywaves5325
      @daveywaves5325 5 років тому

      You might not want to heal what both parties are not willing to work on.

  • @yennettesmith2628
    @yennettesmith2628 6 років тому +8

    Wow! Your story is awesome and encouraging. My husband really dislikes me. He left me with 2 and pregnant with our third along with a new expensive house. It did not matter how much I prayed or how much I showed love. He left again for the 3rd time. It has been 4 years, a few girlfriends have come to him and moved on, he has another child, and refuses to sign the divorce papers (I even agreed to HIS terms). It is frustrating for me because I do love and follow God. I was very serious about my vows to God and my husband. I knew the kind of commitment that I was making. I can't move on in my life and my husband knows that. So, he refuses to sign on purpose as he moves on with his. I am waiting for God to save me from this situation. It has been a long 4 years. This is the worst stress ever in my life. I have NEVER been so emotionally challenged except for my ACL surgery recovery. I thought I would not make it through that. One day God will save me from this! That is my hope.

    • @m.magdalenedieujusternfutu3309
      @m.magdalenedieujusternfutu3309 5 років тому +7

      I read the comments and most are full of doubt and contradictions. We have to change our thinking God gave us the tools the word (BIBLE) everything we need to endure this life. We have to Change our focus this video is a primary example of Gods power. We say we believe, trust God and can quote scriptures BUT we REALLY Dont we dont have an inmate relationship with God we dont know God like we claim we do
      Cause if we truly did we would take God at his word stand on it even though we dont see, feel, trace it. We should speak LIFE and not death,unsure,contradiction and etcetera
      God is unchanging if he said it thats what it is period regardless of our emotional state. God can do ALL things but fail he changes not. Life and death is in the power of our tongue. So if our marriage dont get restore its not because God change his mind its because we are unstable in all our ways and spoke death to the situation. All of my hope and expectation is in GOD therefore restoration will come and has come to my situation NOW in JESUS name keeping my eyes on JESUS during the storm and not the situation/s. No job is too big or too small for GOD NOTHING is impossible This video has been a blessing. God can resurrect anything that we think is dead. Dry bones can live.

    • @prayerwarrior3030
      @prayerwarrior3030 5 років тому +1

      Your husband opened a door and just continue fighting..for we don't wrestle with flesh and blood

    • @moveuself
      @moveuself 5 років тому

      M Magdalene. I don't believe that if a marriage is not restored it is because we're unstable in all our ways and spoke death to the situation as you put it. As the apostle Paul said in 1 cor 7:15 'If the unbeliever departs, let him depart, a brother or sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace' Paul understood that this can happen and is not a sign of the Christian's lack of faithfulness to God.

  • @godslove331
    @godslove331 6 років тому +8

    Amen! I love this! God is great and he never leaves us, he always guides us. GOD IS ALWAYS GOD.

  • @crystalbuttafly
    @crystalbuttafly 5 років тому +23

    I am in a similar situation now and have meditated and adjusted my thinking to 1 Corinthians 13. I have learned to love my mate simply as who he is regardless of what he does just, as God does us. I do not know the end result to our relationship, but by abiding by this scripture that in the past was used in convenience for my own selfish gain, has given me the ultimate peace of mind knowing that he is happy even if it does not benefit me and because of that we rarely argues and are much better friends than ever before. And I am so grateful for that feeling. I just learned a say from the late Nipsey Hussel. He said that "We are not to possess but to experience people that we love".

    • @martinmbuthia1965
      @martinmbuthia1965 5 років тому +2

      Hallelujah! We are called to become love. It's the most free existing there is, not seeking our own but simply loving.

    • @tomten5782
      @tomten5782 4 роки тому

      Good bless you

  • @uniquenotaquitterstanding3547
    @uniquenotaquitterstanding3547 7 років тому +14

    Jesus Jesus

  • @neoramalitsi9990
    @neoramalitsi9990 4 роки тому +3

    I think it's time for me to go back to church..

  • @susanspencer9538
    @susanspencer9538 5 років тому +7

    I would die of a broken heart, what a wonderful young Lady.

  • @4LADYSWEET
    @4LADYSWEET 5 років тому +8

    Amazing testimony of GODLY LOVE 💕

  • @dnaphysics
    @dnaphysics 2 роки тому +2

    ______A _*_Fierce_*_ Love______
    What more needs to be said?

  • @jackjones3657
    @jackjones3657 5 років тому +39

    Inspiring story. She says by her own admission "Both of them were indifferent" towards the Lord beforehand. It is so easy for the sinful nature to take over and the devil to gain a foothold when we are casual or apathetic as Christians.

  • @ithacacomments4811
    @ithacacomments4811 5 років тому +18

    It is better to be and stay single. Marriage is always a stuggle in this fallen world. Too much heartache and pain.

    • @mercymfula9728
      @mercymfula9728 5 років тому +3

      Not always. Been married 23 years

    • @daveywaves5325
      @daveywaves5325 5 років тому

      I rather stay single after being married to the same abusive man since 93.

    • @tomten5782
      @tomten5782 4 роки тому

      Agree

  • @Carriedmusic
    @Carriedmusic 6 років тому +4

    Wow, amazing that God humbled her in a way and she listened and her husband saw that obedience to Christ in her and that love and forgiveness for him and ended up repairing the marriage. Not only did they get back together, they were more in love than before! God is just nothing short of beautiful.

  • @roseagaatsz8403
    @roseagaatsz8403 5 років тому +4

    Beautiful story. Such a strong woman. Good to fight for your marriage, and specially for your children. Your such a inspiration.

  • @RearviewWisdom
    @RearviewWisdom 5 років тому +12

    Some may say a strong woman is one who leaves . But I see so much strength in the woman who stays and picks up her cross .
    It is important to note however. Get Gods instruction for YOUR life and situation. I’ve seen so much damage done by Christians who use Gods word to give corporate instruction overlooking that God deals with the individual .

    • @kabanyanambamba5962
      @kabanyanambamba5962 5 років тому +2

      Strange_Fruit777 you can’t force someone to love you. It’s better to be alone than being with someone but still feel alone

    • @RearviewWisdom
      @RearviewWisdom 5 років тому +2

      As I said , this is why it’s important to get Gods instruction for YOUR life. If every wife left their husbands when they felt alone I’m afraid we’ll all be single . Marriage isn’t this consistent mountain top experience. The lows DO come . We all love differently and in many cases have to be taught how to love.

  • @ankitapradhan8013
    @ankitapradhan8013 4 роки тому +3

    Jesus works in a miraculous way when we keep our faith on God not on the problems we face ❤ Amen

  • @dnaphysics
    @dnaphysics 2 роки тому +3

    This book changed my life. I cannot speak too highly of it.
    Shauna helps us see that the most difficult of situations can be used, not to blame, but to see our own blemishes and grow our souls.
    Love always hopes, always perseveres.
    It keeps no record of wrongs.
    Try that filter in seasons of marriage difficulty. It may well be the most difficult thing you’ve ever done. But you will be blessed.
    God had Shauna go thru this for our benefit. I’m so sorry for her pain, and Micah’s, but grateful.
    Much love to Shauna and Micah for sharing their difficulties.
    I hope they are immensely blessed because of it.
    Respect to them.

  • @overcomer4226
    @overcomer4226 5 років тому +4

    So happy this family is togethher. Those children are precious!!!!

  • @carolamoore72
    @carolamoore72 Рік тому +1

    Marriage is a sacred covenant between God, a husband and wife, that is not to be betrayed or broken. Betrayal comes in a marriage when you allow pride, strife and selfishness to come in. When things are going wrong, that's not the time to commit adultery or have affair's, this is when you need to communicate with each other and get to the root cause of your problems. Infidelity doesn't happen because of loneliness, it happens because of lust of the flesh, that hasn't been dealt with. A wife is not to blame when her husband cheats, nor is the husband to blame when his wife cheats. The blame lies with the one who cheated and them alone. A marriage can be restored and God can heal any marriage, but you have to be willing and want him to. It takes two in a marriage to make it work. Marriage is 100/100, not 50/50. When we do marriage God's way we won't have to worry about issues like infidelity from the start. When you are faithful to God first, you will be faithful to other's!👏🙏❤️🙌❤️🙌❤️🙌❤️🙌

  • @michellea9857
    @michellea9857 4 роки тому +2

    I believe this is a prophetic message especially for the protestant church...let’s not divorce and remarry and insult God’s unbreakable covenant love.

  • @tonyarawlings
    @tonyarawlings 4 роки тому +3

    It amazes me how many women have this same story, including me.

  • @tymccutchen
    @tymccutchen 6 місяців тому +1

    I pray unto God im a broken 💔 man. My wife is in an affair and wants a divorce, She is a Christian but over the years has fallen away from Jesus. My Heart yearns for my wife to come back to God and be Cleansed by the holy blood of Jesus Christ. May he cast the Devil away from here that she is not bound in Adultery and in Fornication, My wife has Completely Hardened her Heart towards me in Bitterness. In Jesus Christ blood I cast out all bitterness we've both had. In JESUS Christ name. On bended knee i pray and and have absolute faith in Jesus our Marriage will be fully restored. In Jesus name i pray Amen ✝️🙏🏻✝️🙌🏻 I pray for every single person on her. God bless Amen. 😔✝️🙏🏻🙌🏻

  • @infinity24924
    @infinity24924 6 років тому +5

    Wwwwwoooooooowwww very timely jesus..wonderful women of god

  • @charlottemyers8449
    @charlottemyers8449 5 років тому +4

    Wow! What a testimony! How much truth! We do give Jesus part. So we are just as gulity!

  • @andrest8552
    @andrest8552 7 років тому +18

    Where can I find a woman just like this one?

    • @kootenaykid81
      @kootenaykid81 7 років тому +13

      your local bible believing
      church

    • @ruthmrks
      @ruthmrks 7 років тому +5

      andy t they exist :)

    • @andrest8552
      @andrest8552 7 років тому +8

      Ruth I know 😊 i hope The Lord sends one my way.

    • @Amadeus_2061
      @Amadeus_2061 6 років тому +8

      The fact that you're even looking for a lady like this one speaks volumes about you. I mean this as a complement. Bless you.

    • @bellaisme1761
      @bellaisme1761 6 років тому +15

      What if God made marriage to make us holy ... and not happy? What if we have this whole thing wrong? What if we're more in love with weddings than what we are with marriage? Marriage was the hardest work I've ever had to do. As His bride we are so unfaithful and 6:20 in this video is an OUCH moment!!

  • @araisininthesun5958
    @araisininthesun5958 3 роки тому +1

    This is so hard to listen to😞💔 How in heaven's name do you move on and love after betrayal????????
    I guess this where God coming in. It literally is only with His help that forgiveness, and restoration is even remotely possible.
    This sounds like my "marriage...?
    Right now, I am working on my relationship with God, and praying for God to reach and save my "husband." The "marriage" is all in God's hands.

  • @skysthelimit4234
    @skysthelimit4234 4 роки тому +2

    Problems in marriage can give us an inkling to how our Creator feels when we are lukewarm with him.