Wow, video proof of attempted rape and no one's going to get charges on the sister? What if Atlas drank the whole drink and died? Again, no mention of that either? Edit: I'm a woman who has no tolerance for sexual crimes, so please don't make this about gender. Sex crimes in general are overlooked by society and the police, that's what I'm upset about.
She's also a pretty terrible spouse if nobody pressed charges for what happened. Sister should've been locked up either in jail or in a mental facility.
Not to mention the fact she tested him multiple times and despite him giving more than enough proofs that he was trustworthy, she still didn't fully trust him
You have to remember her whole life she took everything from her. Op believes her sister is better more beautiful and the greatest. So her finding a man who is everything would make her feel unworthy of him. Her sister used that to hurt her her whole life.
Dove should be in jail. OP should be in therapy. Atlas deserves better. I don't believe in testing partners. There should have been open communication about this all along. Atlas is not a mind reader, how was he supposed to know to show op the messages. He probably knew she was at odds with the sister and didn't want to upset her even more.
Agreed. Op honestly irritated the heck out of me. She even said that the messages were unread - implying that Atlas really disliked the attention from Dove, and was basically only thinking about Op.
I feel like the messages and calls was a communication error on BOTH ends, with him thinking he’s doing her a favor by not showing her the messages and calls as to not stress her out but OP thinking he’s hiding it for a dif reason, both aren’t mind readers,both dropped the communication ball there, but I’m still upset at OP for that last line there, after the communication WAS settled she should have at least some hope in her fiancee or the benifit of the doubt at least, if not then it’s something on her end,not blaming her for her trauma but she needs therapy before committing like this, some people are able to heal mentally with companionship but not if it’s a trust issue this bad 💀
The very last sentence in the story doesn't sit well with me. She says "If his friend hadn't recorded that, I would have never believed that Atlas was not involved in this.". Like, seriously? She knows how low her sister stoops, she knows she's a narcissist and completely without scruples and morals, and she knows that her sister would do anything to sabotage her wedding. Yet she would not have believed Atlas' innocence without the video? That's nasty. Atlas deserves better than to have a fiancée with so little trust in him. Yeah, sure, OP is a victim of lifelong abuse from her narcissist sister and is definitely damaged from it, but that's such an unfair situation for Atlas to be in.
same here ^^^ i understand why she would be untrusting with the life shes led up to this point, but atlas has never done anything malicious in the past. she needs to get a grip and find some trust in him or the relationship isn't gonna end well.
Yeah, that’s unfair. You know how your sister is, and Atlas proved and acted on being trustworthy, so the fact that she basically was like “omg my sister tried to drug and grape you, so now I will never trust you again.” Like huuuh?
Like seriously! I was a bit annoyed with op with that last statement. There was so many times that Atlas didn’t engage with her plus the dude was drugged! Even if the friend didn’t film it, one simple trip to the doctors would prove that he was a victim. Also I’m not trying to victim blame but Atlas really should have kicked her out when she was trying to get him to drink it. Unless she literally tried to pour the drink down his throat, he should have told to gtfo and not touch that drink. Again not try to victim blame because I do feel bad for him but… yeah silly move. (I’m definitely going to get cancelled for this!)
@@Dayday-xj3hc I agree, Atlas isn't at fault but he also allowed the situation to be possible. If I was in his position, I would have blocked that girl a long time ago. Wouldn't even let her in my room as I was getting ready. Girl was being so obvious with what she was doing.
OP’s last line pissed me off so much. “If his friend hadn’t recorded that, I would have never believed Atlas was not involved with this.” Then you’re part of the problem. 🤬
I imagine this is because of insecurities her sister has planted in her, but that doesn't make it any less of a problem. She really should see a therapist about it.
@@Xargas still, OP even started going after her bf when he started just ignoring her sister and not notifying her all the time when the sister would keep calling. Yeah, girl does need some major therapy
Op probably didn’t think of the rape attempt because of the misconception that men can’t or don’t get raped. Honestly it’s one of those stigmas in our culture that I absolutely hate. Still I feel like op should have opened a can of whoop ass on dove as she long over do for about a dozen cans of it. Even if dove where to be diagnosed medically with being a narcissist that still wouldn’t be an excuse for what she did.
She tried seducing your fiancé? No, she tried to rape him. The fact that OP is downplaying that and not pursing charges, that she's saying Atlas's parents and siblings were "agitated" and needed to be calmed down... OP needs psychological help, Atlas deserves better, and the sister needs a prison sentence.
If I were Atlas I would left her the moment she acted like Im gonna cheat on her with the sister. I get that OP has problems but she should work on fixing them instead shove them on Atlas.
I feel like OP did not put enough focus on to the fact that her sister tried to r*pe Atlas. Like, that whole last line.... man was still floating in and out of consciousness like 12 hours later and she left the spiked drink there for everyone to see, wtf you mean you wouldn't have believed he wasn't in on it. Bless Atlas's friend but major yikes. The wedding would have had to be postponed if it was mine because the person formally known as my sister would have been in need of severe medical attention and I might have needed bail money, not to mention Atlas should have filed charges at minimum for a paper trial if they ever need a restraining order or something. I can't believe they still went through the wedding on that day too...
Naw, if I was Atlas, I would’ve called off the wedding. That man been through too much. Narcissistic sister drugging and trying to r*pe him, OP having a hard time “trusting” him, when he’s been completely faithful to her this entire time. I would’ve been out ✌🏾
@@BrownLove7562yeah op does have a victim mentality when the real victim was Atlas. She started to annoy me when she said “I’ll have a hard time trusting him” because he didn’t tell her every single message the witch sent him. Like does she expect him to tell her every message as soon as it comes? I believe he mind of muted the witch. The dude didn’t even respond or open any of the messages, he just simply ignored them. OP is definitely insecure.
@@Dayday-xj3hc I mean if the part of her childhood is true, it's understandable that she would be insecure, she needs therapy, alot of it. Alot of accepting herself. Or she might lose the best thing in her life for sure.
She harassed him for months, stalked him, drugged him and than sexualy assaulted him - she got high from it it wasn't an attempt. Those are all felony charges. And OP trough all off this keeps her head in own butt and obsess about herself. Shes the same as her sister really - just a loser by nature... But still narcissistic
@@schmietwechdeschiet4340 no sorry but being bullied doesn't make you intellectually handicapped unless there was head trauma. No matter how bad your life was you should know WHERE the REAL problem is
Atlas should have ran from OP and her nutty boo boo sister when she first stated it was a problem that Atlas was ignoring nutty boo boo and not telling OP! OP needs serious therapy before she got into a relationship. The last sentence pissed me off!! I feel bad for Atlas!!
Aint no way. If that happend to my Hubby not only would I be throwing hands, the police would be there so fast. Thats disgusting my heart broke thinking about how terrified and confused he must have felt. Why didnt she call the police? How did she accept her parents apology? Id be furious that they think an apology is enough, she should be in jail with her clean record permanently ruined.
Then at the end, OP had the audacity to say I wouldn't have believed that atlas was involved... If someone ever deserved a slapped that would have been it
@TheKnightofAwesomeness right!? I nearly spat my water when it ended that way. Like i understand that anxiety having been cheated on but even without the video he would have been in bad shape and thatd be obvious what had happened. The thought of her being skeptical knowing how evil her sister is while he's barely standing, vomiting and freaked out and almost SA'd. Im disgusted at OP. I hope he's okay now and happy
Because you care more about your husband than op cares about her. OP is actually very selfish and uses the trauma that her sister caused her as an excuse for her actions and disregard of her husband's feelings/experiences towards her family.
@@GodlyWodahs 100% she is selfish. OP is a victim of abuse who needs therapy. That makes it understandable: NOT excusable. This girl needs her ass sat in a therapist’s office to address how horrid she’s been to her fiancé.
Atlas gets assaulted (plus attempted rape) and OP makes herself the victim. She also holds him accountable for Dove's advances. Victim baming is apparently ok when you're a woman. I'm almost expecting OP to start telling me what Atlas was wearing.
@@morganablackwater2017exactly! An advance is something gentle and suggestive... Ain't nothing about what that woman did was suggestive! The fact that Atlas was basically "graped" is referred to as "being seduced"!
It's because her entire life has been nothing but victimhood when it comes to the sister. She's so accustomed to being on the receiving end of all this abuse that whenever her sister is concerned, she automatically jumps into the position of victim even when she wasn't the target.
Atlas, you absolute king, straighten that crown, press some criminal charges and a restraining order against the psycho SIL, and seriously discuss with your wife whether or not she fully trusts you. There has to be an absolute "yes, I trust you". I'd consider couples therapy with your wife after that event.
OP is such a A-hole. Her sister is trying everything to break her from Atlas and still she thinks he would, on the day of their marriage, cheat on her? Even if she wasnt recorded, the cup with the spiked drink was evidence for a crime. Also i love that no one even for a moment comment on pressing charges for attempt "grape" but if the roles were reverse Atlas would be senteced to carry the weight of the world on his shoulders for eternity.
Honestly, BF has some serious love for OP. He put up with continuous inappropriate advances from SIL, had to go through the traumatic experience of having his agency and free will taken away through attempted SA and drugging and still remained by OP's side. Even through all this, he had to put up with the suspicion and mistrust of the person he cares about most, in his own home. OP is lucky to have someone so loving and dedicated.
@@juliaboskamp9666 It's understandable. Understandable doesn't make it excusable. OP needs therapy. Atlas deserves better than being the unrestrained outlet for her trauma. That last line said it all. He was clearly drugged, with the drugging agent still present, and she says only the _video_ cleared him? I sincerely hope she makes good on his trust, because right now Atlas has a wife who would victim blame if he was raped.
OP's lack of trust is a red flag. Atlas has shown no signs at all to not be trustworthy but still she has doubts in him throughout this whole story. I mean I get that her life has given her trust issues but that is something she should seek help for
Just getting disowned wasn't punished enough. Dove should've been behind bars. Had their roles been reversed, Atlas would've left the venue in handcuffs.
Even if she lived on the other side of the country from her sister, OP still has way too many trust issues stemming from her upbringing. That relationship was going to fail just the same way that Dove's marriage flopped.
If anything, OP needs A LOT of therapy to work through those trust issues. And hoping she improves for Atlas. If she doesn't, then yes, he deserves better. Way better.
The fact Op isn’t pressing charges against her sick sadistic sister is appalling. Atlas’ family was more than just “agitated” and they had every right to be pissed over what Dove did. And honestly should OP even be shocked that her sister would do something so horrible? Narcissistic people never change no matter how much time passes. Also Shame on the parents for enabling their narcissistic daughters beyond atrocious behavior for this long.
@@MrOrcshamanSadly both degenerate men and women or those of little character care at all when men are victims. For the longest time the FBI effectively said men couldn't be raped. If a woman put a gun to a man's head and forced him to pentrate her it wouldn't have been considered rape.
Why wouldn’t you have believed him when you know your sister is a psycho? The fact the sister got away without getting arrested just shows how broken the justice system is, last I checked spiking something is a crime and rape is a crime apparently unless you’re a woman.
I was cheering for OP but the last sentence. Made me hate her. SHE KNOWS her sister was narcissistic. How low she would go. Yet she would automatically go for "He cheated?"disgusting. Also lets not forget she wasn't worried about her husband getting SA. What is wrong with her
You say that if it wasn't recorded you never would have believed that he was sexually assaulted yet throughout the whole story you've been going on and on about how she uses tactics would you not believe your husband or even the he has been trying to be faithful to you the entire time. I don't know it just seemed like you were ready to throw away everything
Im mad that no one called the cops and pressed charges!!! I mean they already had security guards there so it's not like they couldn't have held her until the police arrived, but it also bothers me at the end that she wouldn't have believed him had it not been for the video. I mean I can understand she may have insecurities but given the fact that she knows how her sister is and knew what her intentions were from the beginning, there is no reason to doubt the fact that she would capable of something like this smfh!!! The sister would be dead to me after that.
The last line pisses me off “If his friend wasn’t recording that, I would have never believed that Atlas was not involved in this.” What. OP knows how their sister acts, and if Atlas is literally falling in and out of consciousness with a drink with particles at the bottom right there, then why not believe him? God bless his friend but that’s still majorly screwed up.
I just want to point out: Atlas: visibly drugged, barely conscious with physical evidence left in his drink, and a medical report proving he was drugged. OP: "If his friend hadn't recorded that I never would have believed that Atlas was not involved in this." Best of luck to Atlas with his psychotic new wife.
So everyone is just ignoring the fact that she attempted to 🍇 him after drugging him. She needs to be fucking locked up who says she wont try to drug and 🍇 someone else and pull the false consent. Grapist behavior isnt something to ignore just because this time it was just this one person.
Y'know, that speaks volumes about OP though. "If his friend didn't record it I wouldn't have believed my fiancée was raped". And yet, if it was her, she'd probably expect to immediately be believed and that everyone else was the asshole for not believing. That really made me narrow my eyes, and makes me concerned for their relationship. She didn't trust him, she wouldn't believe he was raped if it wasn't recorded, which might I add *MOST RAPES AREN'T.* Most rapes happen in private, you don't have a fuckin camera man coming to save you all the time. The double standards are *CRAZY.*
Arlas needs to leave OP. The last focus after attempted rape shouldnt be "oh but our wedding!" He was just sexually assaulted and drugged. Like holy shit op is selfish.
16:52 "If his friend hadn't recorded that, I would have never believed that Atlas wasn't involved in this." Full stop. Real story or not, if you're _that_ untrusting of both your partner and your own judge of character that you'd throw away a relationship over a he said/she said with his friend backing him up and the *_clear_* evidence of the spiked drink. . . You need extensive therapy and counseling as soon as *_yesterday._*
Ngl, OP knew her sister would try all of this, like straight said it. Saw for the whole time how desperately her sister tried to push something with no success and yet she was still gonna believe her sister if there hadn't been video evidence? Despite her fiance being very clearly drugged, she still would've believed her sister who has been nothing but horrible to her. Atlas deserves better. Way better. Dove should be arrested. OP needs serious therapy before she can be in a relationship.
Where did the doctor come from? Just appeared out of thin air and what...because he saw a doctor he all of the sudden came down from the drugs and they got married all in the same day without another hitch?
OP when I catch you! Your man was almost SA'd and all you care about is your own feelings! This poor man doesn't have a partner who would have his back.
The OP has serious trust issues. Yes, its not her fault, because her sister traumatized her so much, but she hasnt done anything to get over it, it sounds like. I hope that Atlas makes serious therapy a condition for them continuing their relationship
I can't imagine what sister's plan was for when Hubs came to his senses only to realize that she had destroyed everything he had come to love over how much she hated OP. Like girl ain't Boa Hancock, she ain't getting away with rape and ruining his life by batting her lashes and giving him a hey sailor act.
There is absolutely no world where I would not have been walking into that wedding with a bloodstained dress dragging my sister’s corpse. OP needs to trust her fucking partner. I get where it’s coming from, but she needs therapy because she was treating her man very poorly even though she saw herself he was ignoring the girl’s texts. ONE PHONE CALL??? That’s all it took for you to lose trust in him? Honey. Dove needs to be arrested.
Op. That's not called seducing. That's called sexual harrassment and attempted rape. Get it together and get your sister in jail. Atlas didnt deserve that. Poor guy
Run Atlas. The whole family is garbage. "If his friend hadn't recorded that, I would have never believed that Atlas was not involved in this." What kind of BS is that?
If I had been the bf I would have broken the engagement. Not only no one called the police while he was almost rap3d, but OP admits she wouldn't have believed him if there was no video proof. That's not a person I'd want to marry, I hope he realizes the gravity of everyone's actions and leaves.
They still had the wedding after that? It wasnt just attempted rape her husband was s*xually assaulted, how did they move past this so easily, police shouldve been called
Atlas should've blocked Dove the moment she became obsessed and being all weird with him though? Why would you just simply ignore them, then take a sip of a drink in a room with only Dove, who you clearly know is obsessed with you to begin with??
@@darkriku12 Not when it's a bother to both him and his GF, and Dove showed that she only want to advance on Atlas and he also know this from the moment they met. Just capture the text, block her and move on. Not to mention the 3am spam call to trauma dump on the guy you barely met...
Good on him he got rid of her? No. Stupid of him to marry her in the first place after she pushed him into a forced engagement with the announcement she made at OP's celebration party. Now he has to pay alimony for years to come.
Yeah… but she also said she wouldn’t have believed him without the video evidence so… not all that much trust going. OP is lucky his friend was there to record, because she would’ve missed out on marrying someone that actually cares for her
A lot of illegal stuff was mentioned in this video (harassment, sexual assault, drugging, etc) why the sister hasn’t been put in PRISON! Yet is unknown to me.
I feel furious about the end. Atlas was literally sexually assaulted on camera and NONE OF THEM even had the idea to call the police or anything?? If that happened to my bf there would be some corpses coming up and fast... And the audacity of the OP to say that last line?? Imagine the confusion and anger and weakness Atlas felt, only for OP to think like this?? Im literally blinded by rage by this whole story. I usually never comment on YT videos so this is really that enraging Atlas deserved so much better than all of these pshycopaths.
Boyfriend is either an opportunistic cheater-to-be, or a beta. If he's truly a man of virtue and value, he would've blocked the sister or put her in her place long ago
@@osvaldorodriguez1334And look where the high road got him? If the words alpha/beta trigger you then maybe I'll use man/boy instead. Real men handle problems as it arises ASAP. The moment she starts texting/calling OP's fiancé at 3am, he should've blocked her on all platforms. Hell, the moment she disrespected his fiancé in front of him, he should've put her in her place right there and then. A genuinely great husband is one that will jump to your defence ASAP whenever you've been disrespected in any social setting. Only an immature boy would ignore and run away from his problems, letting it fester into something out of control, which he did in this situation. OP's fiancé is either an immature boy, or he's just opportunistic and did not explicitly shut the sister's advances down ASAP because he wants to leave the option of getting together with the hotter sister open in the future. Either way he's not marriage material in my eyes, if he doesn't get himself together I give the marriage 5-10 years before it crumbles due to his weak character.
I LOVE how Jeremy was favored in the divorce! As he should, the adultery proved it! It's nice to see that Dove came out of gold digging Jeremy empty-handed!
Before you guys speak I've dealt with narcissist. I know how persuasive they can be. I still think OP isn't ready for marriage. If you can't protect the person you love, that's a problem. The sister will being invited to the wedding even after hitting on Atlas is mind boggling to me. No one telling Atlas to press charges on Dove. As for not telling her about the text and phone calls he originally did. Then he ignored all her text and phone calls until that one phone call where he thought she may be in trouble. It's disgusting how she looked at this as a test till her fiance's life/health was on the line. If I was his family I'd keep an eye on them.
This was a pretty cut and dry example of SA, they should have called the cops on the sister. They had the drink, the video, the whole thing. She deserves to be in prison, and on a sex offender registry.
Poor Atlas, the family baggage here is huge. Hope he pressed charges against the sister, and that OP got therapy, because she has a motherload of insecurities because of her family.
What dove did was straight up crime. Imagine the roles were switched, imagine dove was the brother and atlas was the bride. The chaos would have been unimaginable. It's sad how Men don't have the same rights as woman
She was a major red flag in her relationship She cheated on every guy she dated I hate to admit it BRO REALLY RAPPED AND THOUGHT WE WOULDNT NOTICE 1:36
Wow, video proof of attempted rape and no one's going to get charges on the sister? What if Atlas drank the whole drink and died? Again, no mention of that either?
Edit: I'm a woman who has no tolerance for sexual crimes, so please don't make this about gender. Sex crimes in general are overlooked by society and the police, that's what I'm upset about.
That’s society for ya
Male victims are rarely taken seriously. Welcome to society
All fake stories my friend. Read them as fiction and enjoy.
Yeah. It's sad.
@@dukecarraway1762its true
OP weak, too. She wouldn't believe Atlas unless she had a recording, despite the sister's history and the state he was in?
She's also a pretty terrible spouse if nobody pressed charges for what happened. Sister should've been locked up either in jail or in a mental facility.
ya
And a Horrible Partner
Not to mention the fact she tested him multiple times and despite him giving more than enough proofs that he was trustworthy, she still didn't fully trust him
You have to remember her whole life she took everything from her. Op believes her sister is better more beautiful and the greatest. So her finding a man who is everything would make her feel unworthy of him. Her sister used that to hurt her her whole life.
Dove should be in jail.
OP should be in therapy.
Atlas deserves better.
I don't believe in testing partners. There should have been open communication about this all along. Atlas is not a mind reader, how was he supposed to know to show op the messages. He probably knew she was at odds with the sister and didn't want to upset her even more.
Agreed. Op honestly irritated the heck out of me. She even said that the messages were unread - implying that Atlas really disliked the attention from Dove, and was basically only thinking about Op.
I feel like the messages and calls was a communication error on BOTH ends, with him thinking he’s doing her a favor by not showing her the messages and calls as to not stress her out but OP thinking he’s hiding it for a dif reason, both aren’t mind readers,both dropped the communication ball there, but I’m still upset at OP for that last line there, after the communication WAS settled she should have at least some hope in her fiancee or the benifit of the doubt at least, if not then it’s something on her end,not blaming her for her trauma but she needs therapy before committing like this, some people are able to heal mentally with companionship but not if it’s a trust issue this bad 💀
Dove should be in hell*
Why the heck the police weren't called and arrested dove for drugging and attempted rape of op husband
That's the last thing that the parents do for her
Because a lot of people don't think it's as bad if it happens to a dude instead of a gal
Sadly, male victims aren't taken seriously. Society is messed up.
Because a women is the guilty one. Hell even when they get caught its nothing just seen a women stabbed her bf to death 108times n got probation
female privilege
The very last sentence in the story doesn't sit well with me. She says "If his friend hadn't recorded that, I would have never believed that Atlas was not involved in this.". Like, seriously? She knows how low her sister stoops, she knows she's a narcissist and completely without scruples and morals, and she knows that her sister would do anything to sabotage her wedding. Yet she would not have believed Atlas' innocence without the video? That's nasty. Atlas deserves better than to have a fiancée with so little trust in him. Yeah, sure, OP is a victim of lifelong abuse from her narcissist sister and is definitely damaged from it, but that's such an unfair situation for Atlas to be in.
same here ^^^ i understand why she would be untrusting with the life shes led up to this point, but atlas has never done anything malicious in the past. she needs to get a grip and find some trust in him or the relationship isn't gonna end well.
Yeah, that’s unfair. You know how your sister is, and Atlas proved and acted on being trustworthy, so the fact that she basically was like “omg my sister tried to drug and grape you, so now I will never trust you again.” Like huuuh?
Like seriously! I was a bit annoyed with op with that last statement. There was so many times that Atlas didn’t engage with her plus the dude was drugged! Even if the friend didn’t film it, one simple trip to the doctors would prove that he was a victim.
Also I’m not trying to victim blame but Atlas really should have kicked her out when she was trying to get him to drink it. Unless she literally tried to pour the drink down his throat, he should have told to gtfo and not touch that drink. Again not try to victim blame because I do feel bad for him but… yeah silly move. (I’m definitely going to get cancelled for this!)
Not to mention the fact he was barely conscious and she left behind the very clearly spiked drink.
@@Dayday-xj3hc I agree, Atlas isn't at fault but he also allowed the situation to be possible. If I was in his position, I would have blocked that girl a long time ago. Wouldn't even let her in my room as I was getting ready. Girl was being so obvious with what she was doing.
OP’s last line pissed me off so much.
“If his friend hadn’t recorded that, I would have never believed Atlas was not involved with this.”
Then you’re part of the problem. 🤬
yup
I imagine this is because of insecurities her sister has planted in her, but that doesn't make it any less of a problem. She really should see a therapist about it.
Agreed!!
this plus the spiked drink was also evidence as well
@@Xargas still, OP even started going after her bf when he started just ignoring her sister and not notifying her all the time when the sister would keep calling. Yeah, girl does need some major therapy
You should press charges on your sister for drugging and sexual harrassment and attempted rape
the police do not take male victims seriously, especially if a woman is the perpetrator they wont even get a slap on the wrist
youtube is deleting all my comments but ill say whats between your legs determines whether or not you're held accountable to the law
Op probably didn’t think of the rape attempt because of the misconception that men can’t or don’t get raped. Honestly it’s one of those stigmas in our culture that I absolutely hate. Still I feel like op should have opened a can of whoop ass on dove as she long over do for about a dozen cans of it. Even if dove where to be diagnosed medically with being a narcissist that still wouldn’t be an excuse for what she did.
She tried seducing your fiancé? No, she tried to rape him. The fact that OP is downplaying that and not pursing charges, that she's saying Atlas's parents and siblings were "agitated" and needed to be calmed down... OP needs psychological help, Atlas deserves better, and the sister needs a prison sentence.
Women ☕
I don't see how OP can "pursue charges." Atlas would have to. He is the victim of the SA, not OP.
@@InSearchofaFeministUtopia She talks to him and encourages him to press charges. You're just being semantic.
If I were Atlas I would left her the moment she acted like Im gonna cheat on her with the sister.
I get that OP has problems but she should work on fixing them instead shove them on Atlas.
Atlas and the narrator did nothing wrong. The scene where he maintained contact with her for so long is the reason for suspicion.
I feel like OP did not put enough focus on to the fact that her sister tried to r*pe Atlas. Like, that whole last line.... man was still floating in and out of consciousness like 12 hours later and she left the spiked drink there for everyone to see, wtf you mean you wouldn't have believed he wasn't in on it. Bless Atlas's friend but major yikes. The wedding would have had to be postponed if it was mine because the person formally known as my sister would have been in need of severe medical attention and I might have needed bail money, not to mention Atlas should have filed charges at minimum for a paper trial if they ever need a restraining order or something. I can't believe they still went through the wedding on that day too...
Naw, if I was Atlas, I would’ve called off the wedding. That man been through too much. Narcissistic sister drugging and trying to r*pe him, OP having a hard time “trusting” him, when he’s been completely faithful to her this entire time. I would’ve been out ✌🏾
@@BrownLove7562yeah op does have a victim mentality when the real victim was Atlas. She started to annoy me when she said “I’ll have a hard time trusting him” because he didn’t tell her every single message the witch sent him. Like does she expect him to tell her every message as soon as it comes? I believe he mind of muted the witch. The dude didn’t even respond or open any of the messages, he just simply ignored them. OP is definitely insecure.
@@Dayday-xj3hc I mean if the part of her childhood is true, it's understandable that she would be insecure, she needs therapy, alot of it. Alot of accepting herself. Or she might lose the best thing in her life for sure.
She harassed him for months, stalked him, drugged him and than sexualy assaulted him - she got high from it it wasn't an attempt.
Those are all felony charges.
And OP trough all off this keeps her head in own butt and obsess about herself. Shes the same as her sister really - just a loser by nature... But still narcissistic
@@schmietwechdeschiet4340 no sorry but being bullied doesn't make you intellectually handicapped unless there was head trauma.
No matter how bad your life was you should know WHERE the REAL problem is
Atlas should have ran from OP and her nutty boo boo sister when she first stated it was a problem that Atlas was ignoring nutty boo boo and not telling OP! OP needs serious therapy before she got into a relationship. The last sentence pissed me off!! I feel bad for Atlas!!
Thanks what I said
Aint no way. If that happend to my Hubby not only would I be throwing hands, the police would be there so fast. Thats disgusting my heart broke thinking about how terrified and confused he must have felt. Why didnt she call the police? How did she accept her parents apology? Id be furious that they think an apology is enough, she should be in jail with her clean record permanently ruined.
Then at the end, OP had the audacity to say I wouldn't have believed that atlas was involved... If someone ever deserved a slapped that would have been it
@TheKnightofAwesomeness right!? I nearly spat my water when it ended that way.
Like i understand that anxiety having been cheated on but even without the video he would have been in bad shape and thatd be obvious what had happened. The thought of her being skeptical knowing how evil her sister is while he's barely standing, vomiting and freaked out and almost SA'd. Im disgusted at OP. I hope he's okay now and happy
Because you care more about your husband than op cares about her. OP is actually very selfish and uses the trauma that her sister caused her as an excuse for her actions and disregard of her husband's feelings/experiences towards her family.
Exactly
@@GodlyWodahs 100% she is selfish. OP is a victim of abuse who needs therapy. That makes it understandable: NOT excusable. This girl needs her ass sat in a therapist’s office to address how horrid she’s been to her fiancé.
Atlas gets assaulted (plus attempted rape) and OP makes herself the victim.
She also holds him accountable for Dove's advances.
Victim baming is apparently ok when you're a woman. I'm almost expecting OP to start telling me what Atlas was wearing.
I don't like the word "advances" ...she was harassing him, stalking him... Creeping on him... No reason to call it nicely
@@morganablackwater2017exactly! An advance is something gentle and suggestive... Ain't nothing about what that woman did was suggestive! The fact that Atlas was basically "graped" is referred to as "being seduced"!
It's because her entire life has been nothing but victimhood when it comes to the sister. She's so accustomed to being on the receiving end of all this abuse that whenever her sister is concerned, she automatically jumps into the position of victim even when she wasn't the target.
Atlas, you absolute king, straighten that crown, press some criminal charges and a restraining order against the psycho SIL, and seriously discuss with your wife whether or not she fully trusts you. There has to be an absolute "yes, I trust you". I'd consider couples therapy with your wife after that event.
OP is such a A-hole.
Her sister is trying everything to break her from Atlas and still she thinks he would, on the day of their marriage, cheat on her? Even if she wasnt recorded, the cup with the spiked drink was evidence for a crime. Also i love that no one even for a moment comment on pressing charges for attempt "grape" but if the roles were reverse Atlas would be senteced to carry the weight of the world on his shoulders for eternity.
Honestly, BF has some serious love for OP. He put up with continuous inappropriate advances from SIL, had to go through the traumatic experience of having his agency and free will taken away through attempted SA and drugging and still remained by OP's side. Even through all this, he had to put up with the suspicion and mistrust of the person he cares about most, in his own home. OP is lucky to have someone so loving and dedicated.
And she literally didn’t let him be even tho he left her on unread and miss calls???😂
It s from the trauma she got from the sister.
That is years long trauma and insecurity talking
@@juliaboskamp9666 It's understandable. Understandable doesn't make it excusable. OP needs therapy. Atlas deserves better than being the unrestrained outlet for her trauma. That last line said it all. He was clearly drugged, with the drugging agent still present, and she says only the _video_ cleared him? I sincerely hope she makes good on his trust, because right now Atlas has a wife who would victim blame if he was raped.
Thank Atlas's friend.
He turned out to be the MVP.
OP's lack of trust is a red flag. Atlas has shown no signs at all to not be trustworthy but still she has doubts in him throughout this whole story. I mean I get that her life has given her trust issues but that is something she should seek help for
Yep, she is foisting the entire responsibility for dealing with her trauma onto him. She needs therapy, _yesterday._
Just getting disowned wasn't punished enough. Dove should've been behind bars.
Had their roles been reversed, Atlas would've left the venue in handcuffs.
no he wouldn’t police rarely take sexual assault seriously
I feel as though that wedding won't last with OP's trust issues.
Good because Atlas deserves better
Now that her sister is gone I doubt she'll have "trust issues"
@@AfghanisstanDang, I think we found the sisters yt account lmao
Even if she lived on the other side of the country from her sister, OP still has way too many trust issues stemming from her upbringing. That relationship was going to fail just the same way that Dove's marriage flopped.
If anything, OP needs A LOT of therapy to work through those trust issues. And hoping she improves for Atlas. If she doesn't, then yes, he deserves better. Way better.
The fact Op isn’t pressing charges against her sick sadistic sister is appalling. Atlas’ family was more than just “agitated” and they had every right to be pissed over what Dove did. And honestly should OP even be shocked that her sister would do something so horrible? Narcissistic people never change no matter how much time passes. Also Shame on the parents for enabling their narcissistic daughters beyond atrocious behavior for this long.
I'm sorry, but i'm in serious doubt at the validity of this story considering the sister committed a criminal act and WASN'T ARRESTED?!
Women sexually abusing men or simply hurting men in general isn't taken as seriously.
When the victim of sa is a male, nobody cares. Law included.
@@CatholicCarlismEnjoyer the law is bent then if they don't consider women sexually assaulting men a crime
@@MrOrcshamanSadly both degenerate men and women or those of little character care at all when men are victims. For the longest time the FBI effectively said men couldn't be raped. If a woman put a gun to a man's head and forced him to pentrate her it wouldn't have been considered rape.
@MrTaurenshaman welcome to the real world get used to it.
Why wouldn’t you have believed him when you know your sister is a psycho? The fact the sister got away without getting arrested just shows how broken the justice system is, last I checked spiking something is a crime and rape is a crime apparently unless you’re a woman.
I was cheering for OP but the last sentence. Made me hate her. SHE KNOWS her sister was narcissistic. How low she would go. Yet she would automatically go for "He cheated?"disgusting. Also lets not forget she wasn't worried about her husband getting SA. What is wrong with her
I stopped after she said the messages were unread and she said she didn't trust him atlas should leave her op needs help
You say that if it wasn't recorded you never would have believed that he was sexually assaulted yet throughout the whole story you've been going on and on about how she uses tactics would you not believe your husband or even the he has been trying to be faithful to you the entire time. I don't know it just seemed like you were ready to throw away everything
Im mad that no one called the cops and pressed charges!!! I mean they already had security guards there so it's not like they couldn't have held her until the police arrived, but it also bothers me at the end that she wouldn't have believed him had it not been for the video. I mean I can understand she may have insecurities but given the fact that she knows how her sister is and knew what her intentions were from the beginning, there is no reason to doubt the fact that she would capable of something like this smfh!!! The sister would be dead to me after that.
love how the parkour guy sometimes just flies back up when he falls off
1) Dove is such an ironic name here
2) Atlas deserves better than to hold up OP’s world.
I feel so bad for Atlas.
What that witch did must have been traumatic😢
Atlus's friend is the true MVP. Dove needs to be put in prison for the rest of her life.
The last line pisses me off
“If his friend wasn’t recording that, I would have never believed that Atlas was not involved in this.”
What. OP knows how their sister acts, and if Atlas is literally falling in and out of consciousness with a drink with particles at the bottom right there, then why not believe him? God bless his friend but that’s still majorly screwed up.
She would have found out anyway from friends and family and even the HOSPITAL.
I just want to point out:
Atlas: visibly drugged, barely conscious with physical evidence left in his drink, and a medical report proving he was drugged.
OP: "If his friend hadn't recorded that I never would have believed that Atlas was not involved in this."
Best of luck to Atlas with his psychotic new wife.
So everyone is just ignoring the fact that she attempted to 🍇 him after drugging him. She needs to be fucking locked up who says she wont try to drug and 🍇 someone else and pull the false consent. Grapist behavior isnt something to ignore just because this time it was just this one person.
Op acting like an angel when she literally doesn’t trust her husband.
Y'know, that speaks volumes about OP though. "If his friend didn't record it I wouldn't have believed my fiancée was raped". And yet, if it was her, she'd probably expect to immediately be believed and that everyone else was the asshole for not believing.
That really made me narrow my eyes, and makes me concerned for their relationship. She didn't trust him, she wouldn't believe he was raped if it wasn't recorded, which might I add *MOST RAPES AREN'T.* Most rapes happen in private, you don't have a fuckin camera man coming to save you all the time.
The double standards are *CRAZY.*
Anyone else thinks OP treatment of the bf is trash and he deserves better or only me?
No it's not just you
you're not the only one, specially that last part cause WTF
I think she could do better but it's not entirely her fault, after years and years of torment she might have developed trust issues
Arlas needs to leave OP. The last focus after attempted rape shouldnt be "oh but our wedding!" He was just sexually assaulted and drugged. Like holy shit op is selfish.
This is crazy Atlas should've helped the sister with new living arrangements, behind bars!
@the_weird_girl2042 I was making a joke that they should have her arrested for what she did.
After all her sister has done she is still skeptical about her husband when he interacts with her sis ffs OP needs to get a grip
16:52 "If his friend hadn't recorded that, I would have never believed that Atlas wasn't involved in this."
Full stop.
Real story or not, if you're _that_ untrusting of both your partner and your own judge of character that you'd throw away a relationship over a he said/she said with his friend backing him up and the *_clear_* evidence of the spiked drink. . .
You need extensive therapy and counseling as soon as *_yesterday._*
Ngl, OP knew her sister would try all of this, like straight said it. Saw for the whole time how desperately her sister tried to push something with no success and yet she was still gonna believe her sister if there hadn't been video evidence? Despite her fiance being very clearly drugged, she still would've believed her sister who has been nothing but horrible to her. Atlas deserves better. Way better. Dove should be arrested. OP needs serious therapy before she can be in a relationship.
You know the trope "Unintentionally Unsympathetic"? After the last sentence it fits the OP.
Where did the doctor come from? Just appeared out of thin air and what...because he saw a doctor he all of the sudden came down from the drugs and they got married all in the same day without another hitch?
Something tells me that op's insecurities will be the reason of a future divorce.
No the wedding was delayed a few days in the story
@@soundwaveravagesuperior Unless the wedding ended up being nothing more than an exchange of vows and "I do" wedding then that makes even less sense.
So OP is so insecure she wouldn’t have believed her fiancé?? And nobody’s pressing charges on Dove?! Made up or that WHOLE family is effed up.
OP when I catch you! Your man was almost SA'd and all you care about is your own feelings! This poor man doesn't have a partner who would have his back.
Parents,please for the love of God,PLEASE,don't let your kids end up like Dove
I'm gonna believe this is fake until there's an update saying that they pressed charges against the sister.
Agreed nowhere the story is true
Most Definitely Fake, there's no way Atlas or his family wouldn't have press charges
It sounds like an AI written story to me.
The OP has serious trust issues. Yes, its not her fault, because her sister traumatized her so much, but she hasnt done anything to get over it, it sounds like. I hope that Atlas makes serious therapy a condition for them continuing their relationship
You guys need to call the cops
Atlas should nope away from that messed up family.
I can't imagine what sister's plan was for when Hubs came to his senses only to realize that she had destroyed everything he had come to love over how much she hated OP.
Like girl ain't Boa Hancock, she ain't getting away with rape and ruining his life by batting her lashes and giving him a hey sailor act.
Boa hancock is hot asf
My respect for atlas' best friend. That dude was a lifesaver
They should have called the police! The sister tried to assault him how is she not in jail?
The parents are also terrible they pitted their kids against eachother also enabling the oldest.
Get a restraining order and press charges, OP. Congratulations on your wedding, may it be blissful.
There is absolutely no world where I would not have been walking into that wedding with a bloodstained dress dragging my sister’s corpse.
OP needs to trust her fucking partner. I get where it’s coming from, but she needs therapy because she was treating her man very poorly even though she saw herself he was ignoring the girl’s texts. ONE PHONE CALL??? That’s all it took for you to lose trust in him? Honey.
Dove needs to be arrested.
i’m 100% convinced dove is the way she is because her mom is an enabler fr
Charges need to be pressed and restraining orders filed.
Op. That's not called seducing. That's called sexual harrassment and attempted rape. Get it together and get your sister in jail. Atlas didnt deserve that. Poor guy
Run Atlas. The whole family is garbage. "If his friend hadn't recorded that, I would have never believed that Atlas was not involved in this." What kind of BS is that?
If I had been the bf I would have broken the engagement. Not only no one called the police while he was almost rap3d, but OP admits she wouldn't have believed him if there was no video proof. That's not a person I'd want to marry, I hope he realizes the gravity of everyone's actions and leaves.
She a red flag too. Only many occasions you can see that she doesn’t trust her husband
The more I listen to these, the more I accept that happiness is setting boundaries 😌
we all need a friend like that
Forget just being kicked out the house, that level of narcissism and obsession to the point of stalking is sooo dangerous. She needs a jail cell.
And if Dove ever comes back and announces that shes pregnant w/ Atlas’s baby, PLEASE give her a “nudge” or a “push”…. down the steps.
OP wouldn't have believed Atlas if it wasn't recorded?? She really wouldn't have taken the fact that he was clearly drugged into account?? Yikes 😬
They still had the wedding after that? It wasnt just attempted rape her husband was s*xually assaulted, how did they move past this so easily, police shouldve been called
atlas is a real one. Shame hes involved with that family
Atlas should've blocked Dove the moment she became obsessed and being all weird with him though? Why would you just simply ignore them, then take a sip of a drink in a room with only Dove, who you clearly know is obsessed with you to begin with??
Well family may need to reach out for information. And he may not want to cause a fuss in his GFs family.
@@darkriku12 Not when it's a bother to both him and his GF, and Dove showed that she only want to advance on Atlas and he also know this from the moment they met. Just capture the text, block her and move on. Not to mention the 3am spam call to trauma dump on the guy you barely met...
@@smellyfish6956Dove forced him to take a sip.
@@honeyslime7178 and he must comply, i guess. I dont believe Dove shove that drink into his mouth lol
Given the fact that Dove is obsessive and used substances to drg him, she still would tried to contact him from different numbers
Good on him he got rid of her? No. Stupid of him to marry her in the first place after she pushed him into a forced engagement with the announcement she made at OP's celebration party. Now he has to pay alimony for years to come.
this was obviouly written by a bot.
Attempted R@PE and NO ONE IS DOING ANYTHING? PRESS CHARGES?
i fell bad for the guy is good the op didn't blame him since he was basicly drugged with that drink
Yeah… but she also said she wouldn’t have believed him without the video evidence so… not all that much trust going. OP is lucky his friend was there to record, because she would’ve missed out on marrying someone that actually cares for her
true reminds me of another story idk if it was this channel or another but it was like this and op did not believe the bf or something like that
Right she was ready to throw it away even though she knew that her sister used tactics @@gatzcross2391
Honestly with how untrusting of her man she was that relationship is doomed anyway
Dove... Cameron? 😂
A lot of illegal stuff was mentioned in this video (harassment, sexual assault, drugging, etc) why the sister hasn’t been put in PRISON! Yet is unknown to me.
These stories are so obviously fake
DOES PEOPLE ACTUALLY THINK ITS REAL
Atlas… GET TF OUTTA THERE.
I will take "Things that never happened for $1000, Alex."
I feel furious about the end. Atlas was literally sexually assaulted on camera and NONE OF THEM even had the idea to call the police or anything?? If that happened to my bf there would be some corpses coming up and fast... And the audacity of the OP to say that last line?? Imagine the confusion and anger and weakness Atlas felt, only for OP to think like this?? Im literally blinded by rage by this whole story. I usually never comment on YT videos so this is really that enraging Atlas deserved so much better than all of these pshycopaths.
Totally happened
OP is legit the worst partner imaginable lmfao
Cool story (haven't watched it yet)
Charges should have been filed. Recording , drink analyzed…
Boyfriend is either an opportunistic cheater-to-be, or a beta. If he's truly a man of virtue and value, he would've blocked the sister or put her in her place long ago
He take the high Road (he belives that If he ignored her she would forget it) Also leave your Alpha beta crap out of here
@@osvaldorodriguez1334 true idk why there playing the guy here
@@osvaldorodriguez1334And look where the high road got him? If the words alpha/beta trigger you then maybe I'll use man/boy instead.
Real men handle problems as it arises ASAP. The moment she starts texting/calling OP's fiancé at 3am, he should've blocked her on all platforms. Hell, the moment she disrespected his fiancé in front of him, he should've put her in her place right there and then. A genuinely great husband is one that will jump to your defence ASAP whenever you've been disrespected in any social setting.
Only an immature boy would ignore and run away from his problems, letting it fester into something out of control, which he did in this situation. OP's fiancé is either an immature boy, or he's just opportunistic and did not explicitly shut the sister's advances down ASAP because he wants to leave the option of getting together with the hotter sister open in the future.
Either way he's not marriage material in my eyes, if he doesn't get himself together I give the marriage 5-10 years before it crumbles due to his weak character.
Not the unironic use of ‘beta’ 😂😂😂
@notting2640 good thing he isn't marrying you then. He'd probably jump off a cliff
Dove was depressed about the money during the divorce
Proof of assault and drugs left in the drink. Should have thrown her in JAIL or at least pressed charges. Wtf.
They should press charges for sexual assault and drugging, i'm sure Dove will appreciate having food and shelter in prison
Dove?!?! YOU MEAN THE SHAMPOO😂😂😂😂
They should charge her with sexual assault omg wtf
I think there was more to this story that he ended up leaving her because he couldn’t take the drama anymore
I LOVE how Jeremy was favored in the divorce! As he should, the adultery proved it!
It's nice to see that Dove came out of gold digging Jeremy empty-handed!
Atlas should run away from this family. OP has major trust issues.
Before you guys speak I've dealt with narcissist. I know how persuasive they can be. I still think OP isn't ready for marriage. If you can't protect the person you love, that's a problem. The sister will being invited to the wedding even after hitting on Atlas is mind boggling to me. No one telling Atlas to press charges on Dove. As for not telling her about the text and phone calls he originally did. Then he ignored all her text and phone calls until that one phone call where he thought she may be in trouble. It's disgusting how she looked at this as a test till her fiance's life/health was on the line. If I was his family I'd keep an eye on them.
Dove has to be one of the most jealous and insecure people I’ve ever heard of. OMFG
This was a pretty cut and dry example of SA, they should have called the cops on the sister. They had the drink, the video, the whole thing. She deserves to be in prison, and on a sex offender registry.
Excellent. It seems that Atlas had it all mapped out!
Poor Atlas, the family baggage here is huge.
Hope he pressed charges against the sister, and that OP got therapy, because she has a motherload of insecurities because of her family.
OP is a walking red flag too, she definitely doesn’t deserve Atlas. What a group of useless and terrible people we have here today.
What dove did was straight up crime. Imagine the roles were switched, imagine dove was the brother and atlas was the bride. The chaos would have been unimaginable. It's sad how Men don't have the same rights as woman
She was a major red flag in her relationship
She cheated on every guy she dated
I hate to admit it
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