Seemed more lazy then anything alot of there actions at the start seemed more n9t my problem and shoved it onto there son such as telling who owned it (to get there kids to stop bugging them )and giving it back (since not owning it wasn't annove to shut them up) Awell as some other actions or more inactions
It reminds me of the psycho MIL on a different channel who basically caused at least two people’s deaths (including her own) and ruined two massive extended families because her DIL wouldn’t name the baby what MIL wanted to name him
The nice thing is that it wasn't the kids fault. That incident just shone a light on the issues their parents had, the poster was annoyed by that but had no problem moving on if it wasn't for the pettiness about paying for phones and whatnot.
It wasn't even the kids. If the parents had told the kids off for their bullshit it would have ended there. Everything that happened after the kids ran into the pool happened because their parents are asshats that consistently make the wrong move at every point.
Some parents really do be like that, where keeping their pride within their kids is more important than scolding them for an obvious mistakw the kids made.
@comprehensive6952 the kids were just beeing kids. This incident should have been something everyone would lough about after two days. Their parents reaction was really bad. And shows how many toxic feeling they harbored towards (unaware) OP for s long time. They seemed to have been in a fight with OP for years now without OP taking part in it. They remind me of my brothers ex wife. She hated me and all I ever did was beeing kind and helpfull to her. I lived in another country for months and she managed to fight with me despite me beeing present or even knowing about it.... it all came out later. And it is weird how the kids choose OP out of all people to try and push him into the pool... kids feel how their parents think of other people. Jealousy is an ugly emotion. It needs to be contained
Close. They didn't take responsibility for their own responsibilities. Even if the kids acted out on their own, the escalation would have never happened, but even then, the kids wouldn't have likely acted like this on their own.
@@1Naenie1 there's a subtle difference jealousy and envy. Jealousy is the spirit of competition; it can motivate someone to achieve great things or petty things. Like keeping up with the Joneses. Being jealous of the Joneses for their new car or fence or whatever the hell, doesn't take anything from them. Jealousy, in short, means "I want to get what you have." Envy is different. Envy is, I think, the ugliest human emotion. It's "I want to take what you have from you." If, instead of keeping up with the Joneses, you destroyed their new car, you would be showing envy. The sisters in this story envied OP's financial success and owning the vacation home. They wanted to take what was his, rather than achieve their own financial success.
I knew this story was going to be crazy... my grandma had a family cabin everyone used and when she passed she gave it to my uncle but requested that he keep letting everyone use it. All hell broke lose when a different sibling decided to live their and contribute absolutely zero to it. In the end he decided to sell the place but not before everyone learned about it and robbed the place blind... my grandmas china collection, gone. Ancient nasty green lamp, gone. Power tools, gone. AmAzInGLY my aunt found some of the stuff at the local dump and decided to keep it! Wow right? What are the odds?! Moral of the story.... crazy family will do crazy things when money and entitledness comes into play.
When my grandpa died, a bunch of our family came in trying to take his stuff and my grandma was like I’m still alive though and they completely just kept walking past her to grab stuff and my dad’s like you’re not getting any of my dad stuff it was such a weird situation like They wanted his clothes even and no one in the family would’ve fit in his clothes cause he was a pretty big guy and it was all Hawaiian shirts and stuff. It was weird it was like why would you even want that? They totally would’ve cleared out everything of if my dad didn’t yell at them.
When my friend's mother died, because we had never met her mother she asked me and several other friends to house sit her mother's house until the security she had hired arrived. Everyone else who knew her was going to be at the HUUGE church funeral. Wouldn't you know it, several church ladies showed up insisting THEY were the ones who were supposed to "look after" Sister Brown's home and things. My friend knew that would happen, having grown up with the church vultures. SMDH.
My great grandma owned a property in mexico. . Her children my aunt's, kidnapped her at some point from a different aunts home and changed the custody to themselves. . Who ever had custody of her would get her property. . It started a big fight, and the family split in half. . Well like 3 years later my great grandma passed away after not allowing the other side of the family seeing her. . Kinda weird in my opinion. . Well after they try and get the property in mexico. It turns out the neighbor was paying the property tax and became the default owner. So no one in the family got the lot with the poorly maintained house. . I thought it was funny. Kinda mad I didn't get to see my great grandma until she was on her death bed. . This was my mom's side of the family and they don't like me cause of who my dad is. Even my grandma and mom feel the same way. . I left em behind. But yea i got treated like shit. Just wanted to mention their greed and how they failed.
My granddad on my mom's side went into a spending frenzy when he was diagnosed with cancer. He know of stories like this from his days as a cop in NY state. Said he'd sooner live his last days in a gutter then to let his kids destroy their relationships with each other over a few scraps of inheritance. He passed in 2013, miss him.
@awsome1010101 honestly, that is the way I want to go. I earned every dime I have so I want to spend every dime I own. Before anyone says anything.... I have never inherited anything before, so the statement doubly stands.
There was a big story about this where the OP was wealthy and did this of her own volition. Until her SIL became entitled and started demanding more and more, even with extended family drama showing up at her house for money
@@M.W.2 is that the one where OP was slapped across the face by one of the entitled family members to have her comply? The wildest shit I remember from that is how those assholes demanded annual trips and all their kids' tuitions paid for. Totally wild for sure
You already know OP’s dad was tired of his daughters & son in laws crap when he let it slip that OP owns the vacation home lmao love itt! Good for OP!! My petty ass would’ve let them rot in jail until I got ALL the rental money and damages for the property. There really are good ppl in the world.
That would have been me too. But I remember that meme from a german shepperd jumping off of a cliff to catch an eagle. Hate can blind you and you could end up losing much more than expected. HIs IL seems to have kids. That would have been way harder on the kids with their parents broke and/or in jail. I guess I would have let them rot in jail but my wife would have made me rethink it. XD
I bet those idiots don't understand how lucky they are that their brother is nothing like them and will prioritize the mental well-being of his loved ones over getting back at them. Otherwise, they'd be drowning in legal debts and might've gotten very familiar with the inside of a cell
My family life was never perfect or even good but stories like this make me feel so much better, how can people be this petty and cruel to their own family ? I would never dare treat even a total stranger like that. GG to op for teaching a lesson to his awful sisters.
Money. Op found out the sisters were renting the place out. It probably inflated their egos by making money and "getting one over their elitist brother" who they thought was an elitist for having more money than them.
You don't try to screw the IRS over. They will rake you over the coals like they did to Al Capone. Even Joker knows not to mess with the IRS, and he's the Clown Prince of Crime.
@@miboogaroo I don't know. I've heard this story on other channels. Channels who try to vet stories. Also this story had all of the updates. This was a story going on for awhile with multiple updates. I mean, it could be fake, lol.
@@miboogaroo I somehow do not think so I mean, I was exhausted after listening to this, and made up stories, NEVER makes me feel exhausted, mad yes, (the general reactions they usually go for) emotional 50/50, but never exhausted
@@miboogaroo This doesn't even scratch the surface of the stories I could tell about people. I work in security and have done some PI work on the side that I know I can do a quick collection of information for people. What I have seen in other people's lives first hand... this is tame and tip of an iceberg. If you think this is fake and unbelievable...you haven't lived much, seen much, or dealt with true drama.
The only thing I would have added to the agreement in the end, where OP dropped the charges in exchange for getting reimbursed for repairs and attorney costs and the no contact clause; the BILs and sisters cannot trash talk OP and his wife to anyone, neither publicly nor on social media. Because you just know that since the BILs and sisters lost every round of this fight they are seething with rage and will 100% guaranteed trash talk and slander/libel OP to get back at him.
@@turzillaYes, yes it is. A certain 45th President is on trial now for violating an agreement to not defame a certain woman after losing his case. He left the courthouse and on the courthouse steps started defaming her AGAIN, and is back in court AGAIN.
That story feels 85% hyperbolic. I’d imagine it’s complete cap for Reddit karma as most AITA stories are. Guy sounds bitter that his BILs and Sisters live a better life than he does tbh
@@alfiehaslengthHe lives a great life. How can he be bitter? It's clear from this that he's the one better off (unless some information is undisclosed).
@@Moravian_Mf I commented this too early to be honest. The first half or so made the guy sound like a miserable childless bore but the second half he because a little more sympathetic…
And the BIL’s are just plain stupid. How were they going to explain to the hunting party for the damaged gate, the doors, and the water being shut off?
Incredible how far that little harmless stupidity went. Risking all your belongings, your social ife, your marriage, your freedom, just because your kids fall into a poll by themselves ?
I’ve not talked to my toxic sister since 1982. The last time I saw her was in a courtroom in 1995 when she was being handcuffed after her and her husband were found guilty in the death of our mother.
I am so sorry that you have had to deal with such horrible people. My mom makes me want to pull my hair out most days, but I'd never hurt a single hair on her head. I hope that you have a strong support system. I know that you need it.
Idk man. It is one thing to just listen to a story like this and it is another to live through it. That shit takes a long ass time. And again, OP’s lawyer said they’ll likely not even get any money from it and this process could take 2 years.
@@theanominous It certainly would. But imagine dealing with this shit for 2 years while knowing you would not get a lot of money. That's 2 years of stress and stuff being dragged out because the BILs were being stupid while there was this other, quicker solution available to you. You know what I mean? I get why OP took the route they did. It might not fulfill this justice boner readers tend to have, but if it was my life, I would just want it over with, man.
What matters to you more? Pressing charges which will take 2+ yrs to accomplish to ruin their lives while you likely won't get any money OR a few months of dropping charges, getting recompensed for the damages, all while cutting them out of your life? Because that's the choice the OP had to make.
David's job is like a dream especially being a knowledgeable tradesman and law enforcement. But yeah, he should've sold the property as soon as his parents dropped it on him. Sister should get jobs during school hours.
Sometimes while listening I wish I had such entertaining stories to tell...but then I am: Nah, I'll stick with my perfectly good family, thank you very much
I First read the part about the pool incident and found it funny, and left it at that, never thought i'd be seeing updates on it, much less on this scale. Holy Molly.
Consider reporting the unreported income to the IRS. Your sisters & BILs turned your property into a BnB, opening you up to incredible liability. This is no light matter
My petty as hell sister disappeared when I left, right around the same time her super chill and laid back doppelgänger arrived and took over her role as my little sister. Seems her short time playing the role of eldest (and only) child changed her viewpoint.
This guy has way more patience than I do. Minute they said I had to start saving for THEIR children college fund I would have thrown them out my house laughing hysterically.
Says they’re not toxic and are good people, just petty…then they proceed to break into his property and threaten to assault him…that uh, that’s not what “good people,” do…
I am 100% certain that the sisters and BIL would have paid for OP's phone (sarcasm) if he had fallen in, since they also expected the OP to pay for their own phones after they allowed their kids to run around with it and attempt to push people into pools more than once, which implied they didn't stop them after the first time. It would be weird to have a double standard like that, where damage their kids caused to other people's property was not their responsibility, but damage their kids caused to their own property was other people's responsibility.
I am astonished at people’s audacity. SIL nor BIL paid not one red cent towards the vacation home yet they feel entitled to have access to it. People have truly lost their minds! WTH????
I bet OP is going to really appreciate that place in the future. A lot of people when they get older either want to live by the beach or in the woods/mountains. Sounds like OP probably isnt the biggest people person and will like to live a slower, less stressful life in the future so my bet is he will grow to appreciate that house
Tbf, it's not even a big deal. The kids are just being kids having fun. The problem is that the parents didn't take responsibility that their kids were getting a bit out of hand and trashed their phones, yet blamed the OP for them falling into the water.
Uhh dude,the kids were aged 7-11 I'm very very very sure the average kid knows not to push pepole into pools by the age of 8 (I know because I had many cousins at that age range and they all knew from 7 not to push pepole,especially into pools) What do you mean it's not a big deal? What if that neighbour who was pushed off couldn't swim due to being an elderly or disabled or something?
@@DaBaseBallZ I agree with you that the average kid should know better, but I really don't have an issue with kids playing pranks and being kids either. There's a fine line though. If the kids are pulling pranks on strangers, then that should be corrected quickly by the parents. But if it's to family and friends, it should be alright depending on the prank. The problem in the original post is that the parents got mad for their kids being brats and rather than scolding their children, went after OP. Also, you're being pretty hyperbolic to point out that the person who was pushed could have been someone who couldn't swim. What's you're point? The person being pushed into the pool could've also been an Olympic swimmer too for all we know. We could speculate with hypotheticals, but that's all they are: hypotheticals. What matters is what happened. And what happened is that the kids pulled a prank and they were outplayed and their parents were mad at the wrong person.
So sad when a family has these issues. The sisters are jealous and narcissistic. If they had just enjoyed the vacation home and not been greedy life would have been wonderful. But most can't be happy with what they have. Just so sad.
My older brother demanded that I took care of his three daughters because I am wealthy. He does not even pay child support to his ex wife nor help her with the kids in any way. I was going to help them but they stopped talking to me as I stopped talking to my brother because he is a deadbeat dad. They are no my responsibility, they are on their own now.
My younger son says he not getting married but will adopt a preteen boy to inherit all of his stuff! I told him yay! I will get a grandson from him yet! Any kids my kids get by birth or marriage will be my grandkids no matter what!
One thing my family says if your playing rough you gotta handle the roughness . Don't start something you can't handle , that simple and whoever cries get whopped 😂😂
Umm, the sentiment of it being the parents’ choice for who can go to the house is lovely. But also makes no sense, if the parents paid the bills sure. But they aren’t so he would be paying for his sisters which they dont deserve
what the literal heck is wrong with the sisters? The solution to their issues are just so straightforward. 1. live within their means. 2. Work harder if their family wants more 3. discipline their kids. Envy is not going to get you anywhere. If you want the good life, you work and plan for it!
It's better then those spouses who side with there In-laws instead of there partner. At least his wife had his back and didn't turn against him during his time of need. She sounds like a keeper.
I laughed so hard when you moved out the way and the kids fell in to the pool. If my kids are ever annoying little sh*ts like that people can feel free to get them back like that lol.
WOW 😮 Sorry you and your wife had to go through that unpleasant experience. Prayers 🙏🏾 that all is peaceful now. You are better than me. They would have received the reverse from me🔒
I so prefer to listen to this than those apple text stories. Decent AI voice and no screaming binbo voices or false male voice acting. Thanks for some good stories
Honestly the OP should start renting with those profits they would make good money. Also if anyone is in this situation as soon as some pos in your life starts bothering you about some form of property IMMEDIATELY get camers on it.
Okay, maybe I shouldn't laugh . . . but this hilarious!!!! Just LOVE it when entitled people get their come-upin's!!! (is that how that's spelled?) EXCELLENT!
God, I hate that selling jet skis and downgrading from crazy pricey vehicles is a huge burden on these people. And the idea that they were making 2k+/month casually and they were still desperate financual straits is insane.
The BILs and the entitled sisters should have opted to beg their brother SELL their vacation home to them. But as OP is for what he is, He took good care of that vacation home. I hope those sisters and BILs lost of what they did to OP. And I hope OP goes for a permanent RO on them because these idiots should be in prison. And if I was the BIL's boss? I'd revoke that security clearance in a nano second and tell that BIL, "WHO DO YOU THINK YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING WHEN YOU ENTER A LOCKED IN PROPERTY! YOU ARE GULITY AS HECK! GET OUT OF MY BUSINESS!!".
My goodness these sisters are crazy and entitled. They chose to get married and have children so young without getting their finances in tact. Jealous of the younger brother who is financially well off trying to make from him in an unauthorised manner
Im watching from the beginning just for u buddy, take my watch time some of the new stuff was old to me but I hadn’t heard anything about the lawyer yet!!!!!
Oh please. Getting out of the way out of malicious kids only speaks well of your reflexes. I can't help but always notice something.. in these stories there is always ONE person who is the MOST abusive by being TOO NICE. I'm three AITAs in today and all the stories had one person who abuses the people that trust them by being too nice to people who don't.
My brother and sister are just like them. As of today I haven't seen or spoken to my brother in 18 years, because we sold our parents home, they lived in it with the agreement they would pay property taxes and upkeep. My husband and I ended up paying for 5 years of back taxes, because it was going up for auction for back taxes. Then before it could be sold we had a little over $10,000 in damages. Which we deducted from what would have been money they received from the sale. My sister lost her job for embezzlement. Her husband wouldn't work and they lived far beyond their means. She thought we should pay fines and damages for her to keep her out of jail. That didn't happen. We managed to work that out but kept them at arms length. 10 months ago they stole a gun and cash from us, totaling $1,200. Now I no longer have family.. They say I'm narcissistic. Enough is enough, I'm done.
There are parasites in every income level who think everything belongs to them, and it you don't agree, they will steal what they "rightfully" think belongs to them. Sorry to hear about your dilemma. Happens to even the best families. Best of luck.
I'm thinking about getting married and having kids within the next two year (25 M) and I hate to admit it so when i am talking to someone about wanting to have kids i say "yeah, I'm getting to that age where I am starting to want little motherf-ers running around"
It's refreshing to her parents that are actually sane and reasonable for once
Forreal
Seemed more lazy then anything alot of there actions at the start seemed more n9t my problem and shoved it onto there son such as telling who owned it (to get there kids to stop bugging them )and giving it back (since not owning it wasn't annove to shut them up)
Awell as some other actions or more inactions
@@kingthe13 better that ah that play favorites golden child and are narcissistic
@@kingthe13 Honestly, it's still a leg up on those narcassistic/abusive parents.
@@xydis.06.03 I don't disagree
Okay but can we give props to my man David? He sounds like a really good manager and a really cool dude in general
Yeah. He sounds like that one character from a movie , who appears rarely but turns out to be the mvp towards the end .
Bro's Ron Swanson, cool chill dood who's job is to patrol land and send pictures of nature.
David is a badass. I need him to manage my future career. Lol😅
@Ventixtgoode3i " 😄szz22,,,,,,,, I know,,,,2 3:57 4:01
True... a professional
It’s so funny how the parent’s lives unraveling all started from a couple of their brats trying to shove someone into a pool. 😂
It reminds me of the psycho MIL on a different channel who basically caused at least two people’s deaths (including her own) and ruined two massive extended families because her DIL wouldn’t name the baby what MIL wanted to name him
The nice thing is that it wasn't the kids fault. That incident just shone a light on the issues their parents had, the poster was annoyed by that but had no problem moving on if it wasn't for the pettiness about paying for phones and whatnot.
It wasn't even the kids. If the parents had told the kids off for their bullshit it would have ended there. Everything that happened after the kids ran into the pool happened because their parents are asshats that consistently make the wrong move at every point.
Modern professional parents call not teaching there children 'confidence building'.
@@potcrak1 They don’t say “No” to their kids, either. It’s disgusting.
Imagine. If they just took responsibility for their children’s actions. All of this could have been avoided til later
Some parents really do be like that, where keeping their pride within their kids is more important than scolding them for an obvious mistakw the kids made.
@comprehensive6952 the kids were just beeing kids. This incident should have been something everyone would lough about after two days. Their parents reaction was really bad. And shows how many toxic feeling they harbored towards (unaware) OP for s long time. They seemed to have been in a fight with OP for years now without OP taking part in it. They remind me of my brothers ex wife. She hated me and all I ever did was beeing kind and helpfull to her. I lived in another country for months and she managed to fight with me despite me beeing present or even knowing about it.... it all came out later.
And it is weird how the kids choose OP out of all people to try and push him into the pool... kids feel how their parents think of other people.
Jealousy is an ugly emotion. It needs to be contained
Close. They didn't take responsibility for their own responsibilities. Even if the kids acted out on their own, the escalation would have never happened, but even then, the kids wouldn't have likely acted like this on their own.
@@1Naenie1 there's a subtle difference jealousy and envy. Jealousy is the spirit of competition; it can motivate someone to achieve great things or petty things. Like keeping up with the Joneses. Being jealous of the Joneses for their new car or fence or whatever the hell, doesn't take anything from them. Jealousy, in short, means "I want to get what you have."
Envy is different. Envy is, I think, the ugliest human emotion. It's "I want to take what you have from you." If, instead of keeping up with the Joneses, you destroyed their new car, you would be showing envy.
The sisters in this story envied OP's financial success and owning the vacation home. They wanted to take what was his, rather than achieve their own financial success.
@@1Naenie1 Kids being kids is one thing . . . kids being brats is another.
I knew this story was going to be crazy... my grandma had a family cabin everyone used and when she passed she gave it to my uncle but requested that he keep letting everyone use it. All hell broke lose when a different sibling decided to live their and contribute absolutely zero to it. In the end he decided to sell the place but not before everyone learned about it and robbed the place blind... my grandmas china collection, gone. Ancient nasty green lamp, gone. Power tools, gone. AmAzInGLY my aunt found some of the stuff at the local dump and decided to keep it! Wow right? What are the odds?!
Moral of the story.... crazy family will do crazy things when money and entitledness comes into play.
When my grandpa died, a bunch of our family came in trying to take his stuff and my grandma was like I’m still alive though and they completely just kept walking past her to grab stuff and my dad’s like you’re not getting any of my dad stuff it was such a weird situation like They wanted his clothes even and no one in the family would’ve fit in his clothes cause he was a pretty big guy and it was all Hawaiian shirts and stuff. It was weird it was like why would you even want that? They totally would’ve cleared out everything of if my dad didn’t yell at them.
When my friend's mother died, because we had never met her mother she asked me and several other friends to house sit her mother's house until the security she had hired arrived. Everyone else who knew her was going to be at the HUUGE church funeral. Wouldn't you know it, several church ladies showed up insisting THEY were the ones who were supposed to "look after" Sister Brown's home and things.
My friend knew that would happen, having grown up with the church vultures. SMDH.
My great grandma owned a property in mexico.
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Her children my aunt's, kidnapped her at some point from a different aunts home and changed the custody to themselves.
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Who ever had custody of her would get her property.
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It started a big fight, and the family split in half.
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Well like 3 years later my great grandma passed away after not allowing the other side of the family seeing her.
. Kinda weird in my opinion.
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Well after they try and get the property in mexico.
It turns out the neighbor was paying the property tax and became the default owner.
So no one in the family got the lot with the poorly maintained house.
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I thought it was funny.
Kinda mad I didn't get to see my great grandma until she was on her death bed.
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This was my mom's side of the family and they don't like me cause of who my dad is.
Even my grandma and mom feel the same way.
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I left em behind.
But yea i got treated like shit.
Just wanted to mention their greed and how they failed.
My granddad on my mom's side went into a spending frenzy when he was diagnosed with cancer. He know of stories like this from his days as a cop in NY state. Said he'd sooner live his last days in a gutter then to let his kids destroy their relationships with each other over a few scraps of inheritance. He passed in 2013, miss him.
@awsome1010101 honestly, that is the way I want to go. I earned every dime I have so I want to spend every dime I own.
Before anyone says anything.... I have never inherited anything before, so the statement doubly stands.
If you plan for any of your siblings pay for your kid's college tuition fees then your delusional
There was a big story about this where the OP was wealthy and did this of her own volition. Until her SIL became entitled and started demanding more and more, even with extended family drama showing up at her house for money
What was it called?
And you would do everything in your power to stay on that person's good side.
I remember that one. Buck wild for sure. The way eveyone and their mother came outta the woodwork for a piece of the pie. Pure selfishness @M.W.2
@@M.W.2 is that the one where OP was slapped across the face by one of the entitled family members to have her comply? The wildest shit I remember from that is how those assholes demanded annual trips and all their kids' tuitions paid for. Totally wild for sure
You already know OP’s dad was tired of his daughters & son in laws crap when he let it slip that OP owns the vacation home lmao love itt! Good for OP!!
My petty ass would’ve let them rot in jail until I got ALL the rental money and damages for the property. There really are good ppl in the world.
That would have been me too. But I remember that meme from a german shepperd jumping off of a cliff to catch an eagle. Hate can blind you and you could end up losing much more than expected. HIs IL seems to have kids. That would have been way harder on the kids with their parents broke and/or in jail. I guess I would have let them rot in jail but my wife would have made me rethink it. XD
I bet those idiots don't understand how lucky they are that their brother is nothing like them and will prioritize the mental well-being of his loved ones over getting back at them. Otherwise, they'd be drowning in legal debts and might've gotten very familiar with the inside of a cell
My family life was never perfect or even good but stories like this make me feel so much better, how can people be this petty and cruel to their own family ? I would never dare treat even a total stranger like that.
GG to op for teaching a lesson to his awful sisters.
Money. Op found out the sisters were renting the place out. It probably inflated their egos by making money and "getting one over their elitist brother" who they thought was an elitist for having more money than them.
Some people prefer to make it a living hell for others
I hear you!!!!!
“Struggled due to his BMI and BAC” is wildddddddd 🤣
Help me with theses acronyms
@@jimh472 Body Mass Index, and Blood Alcohol Content
he was fat & drunk, iirc
@@jimh472 ^ just a really smart ass way of saying it lol; body mass index and blood alcohol content
@@ssj9devil Roger that. Thanks to all.
Just love the dad didn’t even bother to leave the pool. He was there to chill and party not to deal with drama 😆
proof the story is real. dads of adults really dgaf anymore they just wanna vibe and drink a light beer
Based dad.
I bet the IRS would be interested in the income the sisters got from those rentals! LOL
You don't try to screw the IRS over. They will rake you over the coals like they did to Al Capone. Even Joker knows not to mess with the IRS, and he's the Clown Prince of Crime.
Can you actually report someone to the IRS? Do they have a tip line?
All of this shit happened, just because some parents went apeshit over their kids trying to push an uncle into the pool.
AND tried getting OP to pay for the phone. INSANE
I think its a made up story
@@miboogaroo I don't know. I've heard this story on other channels. Channels who try to vet stories. Also this story had all of the updates. This was a story going on for awhile with multiple updates. I mean, it could be fake, lol.
@@miboogaroo
I somehow do not think so
I mean, I was exhausted after listening to this, and made up stories, NEVER makes me feel exhausted, mad yes, (the general reactions they usually go for) emotional 50/50, but never exhausted
@@miboogaroo This doesn't even scratch the surface of the stories I could tell about people. I work in security and have done some PI work on the side that I know I can do a quick collection of information for people.
What I have seen in other people's lives first hand... this is tame and tip of an iceberg. If you think this is fake and unbelievable...you haven't lived much, seen much, or dealt with true drama.
The only thing I would have added to the agreement in the end, where OP dropped the charges in exchange for getting reimbursed for repairs and attorney costs and the no contact clause; the BILs and sisters cannot trash talk OP and his wife to anyone, neither publicly nor on social media. Because you just know that since the BILs and sisters lost every round of this fight they are seething with rage and will 100% guaranteed trash talk and slander/libel OP to get back at him.
Where OP said he won't be able to talk about it but around it, I'm guessing this deal has an NDA.
I wouldn't be terribly surprised to hear in a future update that Middle BIL divorces his wife and dips out.
is that something that can even be demanded
@@turzillaYes, yes it is. A certain 45th President is on trial now for violating an agreement to not defame a certain woman after losing his case. He left the courthouse and on the courthouse steps started defaming her AGAIN, and is back in court AGAIN.
@@turzilla Probably maybe not but it depends for country and legal system
"They can go pound sand" will never stop being funny to me 🤣
Moral of the story… teach your kids that it’s not okay to push people into pools and teach parents how to act like adults
That story feels 85% hyperbolic. I’d imagine it’s complete cap for Reddit karma as most AITA stories are. Guy sounds bitter that his BILs and Sisters live a better life than he does tbh
@@alfiehaslengthHe lives a great life. How can he be bitter? It's clear from this that he's the one better off (unless some information is undisclosed).
@@Moravian_Mf I commented this too early to be honest. The first half or so made the guy sound like a miserable childless bore but the second half he because a little more sympathetic…
Op is a good son, parents are good parents. Sisters are spoiled.
And the BIL’s are just plain stupid. How were they going to explain to the hunting party for the damaged gate, the doors, and the water being shut off?
What a conclusion to a "let my sister's kids run into a pool" beginning.
Incredible how far that little harmless stupidity went. Risking all your belongings, your social ife, your marriage, your freedom, just because your kids fall into a poll by themselves ?
“I thought the sh- had hit the fan before, but it was more of a fart compared to what’s happened this week.”
I gotta remember that one. 😂
So exquistely worded!
Very epic wording!
Thid had me chuckling 😂
I’ve not talked to my toxic sister since 1982. The last time I saw her was in a courtroom in 1995 when she was being handcuffed after her and her husband were found guilty in the death of our mother.
I'm so sorry; what a horrible thing to happen.
Sorry to hear that. I hope you're coping.
I am so sorry that you have had to deal with such horrible people.
My mom makes me want to pull my hair out most days, but I'd never hurt a single hair on her head.
I hope that you have a strong support system. I know that you need it.
That’s terrible I hope you are fine now
I'm sorry but how old even are you
"If ya don't know how to swim, don't be pushin' people in the pool!" - Grandpa
I would have gone ahead and met BIL’s in court because their stupidity should have been enough to get them jailed.
Idk man. It is one thing to just listen to a story like this and it is another to live through it. That shit takes a long ass time. And again, OP’s lawyer said they’ll likely not even get any money from it and this process could take 2 years.
@@RedPanda391 I know that OP most likely would not get much. But it would certainly teach these entitled idiots that actions have consequences.
@@theanominous It certainly would. But imagine dealing with this shit for 2 years while knowing you would not get a lot of money. That's 2 years of stress and stuff being dragged out because the BILs were being stupid while there was this other, quicker solution available to you. You know what I mean? I get why OP took the route they did. It might not fulfill this justice boner readers tend to have, but if it was my life, I would just want it over with, man.
What matters to you more? Pressing charges which will take 2+ yrs to accomplish to ruin their lives while you likely won't get any money OR a few months of dropping charges, getting recompensed for the damages, all while cutting them out of your life? Because that's the choice the OP had to make.
@@solidsnake5644 this guy gets it. Well put
David's job is like a dream especially being a knowledgeable tradesman and law enforcement.
But yeah, he should've sold the property as soon as his parents dropped it on him.
Sister should get jobs during school hours.
Sometimes while listening I wish I had such entertaining stories to tell...but then I am: Nah, I'll stick with my perfectly good family, thank you very much
hits different when you have your own shit and not in a good way
Oh, it's fun having your own stories, you just have to be a really detached person and to not hold out much love for people that try to walk over you.
Can’t belive it went from harmless teasing to a criminal investigation
😂😂😂 the OP side stepping the kids and letting them dunk is a beautiful image.
As is the image of the little turds wailing after getting pulled out of the pool!! LOL!
I First read the part about the pool incident and found it funny, and left it at that, never thought i'd be seeing updates on it, much less on this scale. Holy Molly.
Consider reporting the unreported income to the IRS. Your sisters & BILs turned your property into a BnB, opening you up to incredible liability. This is no light matter
I’ve been no contact with my toxic sister for five years and it’s been the greatest thing ever. I forget she even exists. 😌
My petty as hell sister disappeared when I left, right around the same time her super chill and laid back doppelgänger arrived and took over her role as my little sister. Seems her short time playing the role of eldest (and only) child changed her viewpoint.
This guy has way more patience than I do. Minute they said I had to start saving for THEIR children college fund I would have thrown them out my house laughing hysterically.
Says they’re not toxic and are good people, just petty…then they proceed to break into his property and threaten to assault him…that uh, that’s not what “good people,” do…
I am 100% certain that the sisters and BIL would have paid for OP's phone (sarcasm) if he had fallen in, since they also expected the OP to pay for their own phones after they allowed their kids to run around with it and attempt to push people into pools more than once, which implied they didn't stop them after the first time. It would be weird to have a double standard like that, where damage their kids caused to other people's property was not their responsibility, but damage their kids caused to their own property was other people's responsibility.
That part and the part where one Sister demanded that OP- *her brother* - pay for her kids' college tuition had my blood boiling.
Considering where the rest of the story goes, frankly having double standards is the least ethically shady thing these guys do
I am 100% sure your sarcasm is on point! 😂
The lawyers wrote the apology and remember op, they aren’t sorry. They’re sorry they got caught
If my kids tried to push my brother into the pool and fell in themselves, I'd laugh then push them back in when they tried to get out.
SAME!! 😂
Wanna bet that there was never taxes paid over the rental money sisters and BIL's earned. If they make any more crap, get the tax collector involved!
David is MVP of this story, nobody'll convince me otherwise
100%
What does MVP mean..?
@@MsHolley350 most valuable player
I am astonished at people’s audacity. SIL nor BIL paid not one red cent towards the vacation home yet they feel entitled to have access to it. People have truly lost their minds! WTH????
"it was more of a fart compared to what's happened this week" that had me loosing it
If the kids drown doing this then that would have been on the parents.
Man…I would probably sell the place. I know the parents want to keep it but I would get so VERY tired of dealing with all of that drama.
I bet OP is going to really appreciate that place in the future. A lot of people when they get older either want to live by the beach or in the woods/mountains. Sounds like OP probably isnt the biggest people person and will like to live a slower, less stressful life in the future so my bet is he will grow to appreciate that house
Wait it’s your property .
Story 1:Very very very irresponsible on the parent's end,allowing kids to attack pepole is just scummy,NTA
There's only 1 story bro
Tbf, it's not even a big deal. The kids are just being kids having fun. The problem is that the parents didn't take responsibility that their kids were getting a bit out of hand and trashed their phones, yet blamed the OP for them falling into the water.
Uhh dude,the kids were aged 7-11
I'm very very very sure the average kid knows not to push pepole into pools by the age of 8 (I know because I had many cousins at that age range and they all knew from 7 not to push pepole,especially into pools)
What do you mean it's not a big deal? What if that neighbour who was pushed off couldn't swim due to being an elderly or disabled or something?
@@DaBaseBallZ I agree with you that the average kid should know better, but I really don't have an issue with kids playing pranks and being kids either. There's a fine line though. If the kids are pulling pranks on strangers, then that should be corrected quickly by the parents. But if it's to family and friends, it should be alright depending on the prank. The problem in the original post is that the parents got mad for their kids being brats and rather than scolding their children, went after OP. Also, you're being pretty hyperbolic to point out that the person who was pushed could have been someone who couldn't swim. What's you're point? The person being pushed into the pool could've also been an Olympic swimmer too for all we know. We could speculate with hypotheticals, but that's all they are: hypotheticals. What matters is what happened. And what happened is that the kids pulled a prank and they were outplayed and their parents were mad at the wrong person.
So sad when a family has these issues. The sisters are jealous and narcissistic. If they had just enjoyed the vacation home and not been greedy life would have been wonderful. But most can't be happy with what they have. Just so sad.
"(f you google voice)" was funny to me lol
I love this David guy 😂
My older brother demanded that I took care of his three daughters because I am wealthy. He does not even pay child support to his ex wife nor help her with the kids in any way.
I was going to help them but they stopped talking to me as I stopped talking to my brother because he is a deadbeat dad.
They are no my responsibility, they are on their own now.
Holy shit was this a long rollercoaster. Your sisters families are nuts
That guy better adopt a smart promising kid and leave everything he owns to that kid.
My younger son says he not getting married but will adopt a preteen boy to inherit all of his stuff! I told him yay! I will get a grandson from him yet! Any kids my kids get by birth or marriage will be my grandkids no matter what!
One thing my family says if your playing rough you gotta handle the roughness . Don't start something you can't handle , that simple and whoever cries get whopped 😂😂
I love how OP was able to calm down and feel better after he ate because same 😂
Hangry can be problematic..🤤
Umm, the sentiment of it being the parents’ choice for who can go to the house is lovely. But also makes no sense, if the parents paid the bills sure. But they aren’t so he would be paying for his sisters which they dont deserve
Middle BIL said he wasn’t going to jail for nobody😂😂😂
If i were those kids id have been told "you got the consequences of your actions"
"BMI & BAC made this impossible." 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Imagine the sole problem of the entire family being a vacation home. I wish i had those problems too instead of my current ones
Thank you for this, it's so good when the creator does these updates and includes all episodes, much appreciated. Thanks again ❤
what the literal heck is wrong with the sisters? The solution to their issues are just so straightforward.
1. live within their means.
2. Work harder if their family wants more
3. discipline their kids.
Envy is not going to get you anywhere. If you want the good life, you work and plan for it!
So this whole thing boils down to jealousy. smh
doesn't it always??
All went to hell because the bil wants op to pay a few hundreds for a phone, and ending up with 6 figures loses 😂
I’m just glad to see a family where the parents are sane and stable enough to make good decisions.
This guy seems to have a great r/s with his wife. He mentions her in every post no matter how minimal her involvement was. Its kibda sweet
It's better then those spouses who side with there In-laws instead of there partner. At least his wife had his back and didn't turn against him during his time of need. She sounds like a keeper.
The nerve of these people stealing from their brother then have the balls to demand they have access to it for their income people are ridiculous
and to think this all started from kids pushing people into a pool & getting a taste of their own medicine.
His BMI and BAC made that impossible, I’m ducking weak 😂😂😂
I didn't catch the BMI part 😂
@johnwolf1113 BMIbody mass index (he's fat😂) seems u understood BAC but just in case of mistake (blood alcohol content)
Thank you so much for taking the time and making this video with all of the updates! 😊
I laughed so hard when you moved out the way and the kids fell in to the pool. If my kids are ever annoying little sh*ts like that people can feel free to get them back like that lol.
The middle brother has a security clearance and still went through with this? Stupidity
WOW 😮
Sorry you and your wife had to go through that unpleasant experience. Prayers 🙏🏾 that all is peaceful now.
You are better than me. They would have received the reverse from me🔒
The thing that surprised me the most was how helpful that lawyer was
I already know this is finna be exquisite
Edit: It was indeed an exquisite story
Frfr. Gonna be fire
It really is oml
I love how the dad was just in the whirlpool like my dudes chiller than me
I so prefer to listen to this than those apple text stories. Decent AI voice and no screaming binbo voices or false male voice acting. Thanks for some good stories
Honestly the OP should start renting with those profits they would make good money.
Also if anyone is in this situation as soon as some pos in your life starts bothering you about some form of property IMMEDIATELY get camers on it.
He should only start doing that once the matter is settled with family. Otherwise, he's just adding kerosene to the fire.
@@solidsnake5644lol you know nothing about the real world
That's the most expensive kid's prank I ever saw.
The line “ tactically retreated to the world world part of the pool with a six pack of beer” priceless
Okay, maybe I shouldn't laugh . . . but this hilarious!!!! Just LOVE it when entitled people get their come-upin's!!! (is that how that's spelled?) EXCELLENT!
If your company records all calls, ask your IT department
Wow I love that we got the update. Best reddit youtuber!
God, I hate that selling jet skis and downgrading from crazy pricey vehicles is a huge burden on these people. And the idea that they were making 2k+/month casually and they were still desperate financual straits is insane.
So many friendships and families are destroyed by jealousy.
The BILs and the entitled sisters should have opted to beg their brother SELL their vacation home to them. But as OP is for what he is, He took good care of that vacation home. I hope those sisters and BILs lost of what they did to OP. And I hope OP goes for a permanent RO on them because these idiots should be in prison. And if I was the BIL's boss? I'd revoke that security clearance in a nano second and tell that BIL, "WHO DO YOU THINK YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING WHEN YOU ENTER A LOCKED IN PROPERTY! YOU ARE GULITY AS HECK! GET OUT OF MY BUSINESS!!".
My goodness these sisters are crazy and entitled. They chose to get married and have children so young without getting their finances in tact. Jealous of the younger brother who is financially well off trying to make from him in an unauthorised manner
All I can say is .....Daaaamn, David is pure professional. I would love to meet the guy! :D
Her parents are genuinely normal and rational for once, which is refreshing.
The part that sucks is how close the sisters are but he is not part of that all. Sucks as a sibling. Also crazy that all this is for a house
How can she expect you to pay for her child's tuition fee and all that bs 😂 that's some crazy sh.. NGL
"It's not toxic" Sure sounds like it.
TLDR: sisters kids tried to push me in the pool but I didnt let them. Which opened a can of worm that they can not close.
Im watching from the beginning just for u buddy, take my watch time
some of the new stuff was old to me but I hadn’t heard anything about the lawyer yet!!!!!
this story is so cathartic to hear.
OPs dad was absolutely done with his daughters 🤣🤣
Didn’t this all start with some kids trying to push someone in the pool?😅😅😅😅
I've heard this story before but not the full version. It's nice hearing how things ended.
Some families are so good you don't need any more enemies.
The Grandfather, refusing to leave the whirlpool for the kids: Survival of the fittest 🤷
He knew they could all swim.
Damn this man has a strong will to even think about mercy
Letting the son go but not the daughters just screams "idc if my son pressures someone as long as my daughters arent pressured" tbh
Oh please. Getting out of the way out of malicious kids only speaks well of your reflexes.
I can't help but always notice something.. in these stories there is always ONE person who is the MOST abusive by being TOO NICE. I'm three AITAs in today and all the stories had one person who abuses the people that trust them by being too nice to people who don't.
My brother and sister are just like them. As of today I haven't seen or spoken to my brother in 18 years, because we sold our parents home, they lived in it with the agreement they would pay property taxes and upkeep. My husband and I ended up paying for 5 years of back taxes, because it was going up for auction for back taxes. Then before it could be sold we had a little over $10,000 in damages. Which we deducted from what would have been money they received from the sale.
My sister lost her job for embezzlement. Her husband wouldn't work and they lived far beyond their means. She thought we should pay fines and damages for her to keep her out of jail. That didn't happen. We managed to work that out but kept them at arms length. 10 months ago they stole a gun and cash from us, totaling $1,200. Now I no longer have family.. They say I'm narcissistic.
Enough is enough, I'm done.
There are parasites in every income level who think everything belongs to them, and it you don't agree, they will steal what they "rightfully" think belongs to them. Sorry to hear about your dilemma. Happens to even the best families. Best of luck.
David is such a randomly wholesome character
look at the owner of the post
they actually LOVE their parents
that’s nice to know ❤😂🎉
The way he calls them "little shits"😂
I'm thinking about getting married and having kids within the next two year (25 M) and I hate to admit it so when i am talking to someone about wanting to have kids i say "yeah, I'm getting to that age where I am starting to want little motherf-ers running around"
omg the audacity of your sisters. never let them use the house again!