"Hey do you mind if I kiss you? It's a dare." -"It was something about how quickly her words lifted me to cloud nine and then dropped me back to reality." I genuinely felt bad for this dude.
When he said he just wanted to disappear after everyone starts laughing, knowing full well he was being made into a joke at his own expense... Poor bloke
Hey it’s ok pal I know how you feel too man. 3 months of Sophomore year of highschooI was fat 5’7 and 240 pounds but I was always cheerful friendly guy. My friend dated a upperclassmen who hung out by his locker often let’s call her Emma . I was always nice to her and in general but we didn’t really know each other. I went to my friend because he was giving me a ride home and he was talking to his gf and we are locker buddies. I tell him he can go to the car I’m just getting my stuff. He walks to his car waiting for me. His gf walks up to me and says “your Bryan right?” I say yes and she says oh really my friend mariah was talking to me earlier and she gave you a compliment (Mariah was a senior cheerleader captain, super pretty, smart, tons of friends far beyond my League is and understatement). I was super shocked because ive never receive compliment before especially from the school super star who I never talked to before) I asked what she say and Emma said “ I bet that Bryan guy is really nice guy he always so kind to you and people in general” It wasn’t much but that made me so unbelievably happy since I was a guy who was made fun of every once in a while. The happiness only lasted 5 seconds because a couple upperclassmen heard and they started laughing saying “of course she only said that look at yourself” and they just kept insulting me and like 2 people joined them. Called me fat hairy stupid ugly smelly disgusting. They said she probably felt bad and it wasn’t real compliment. we were in the very front of the school exist and there was only couple people in the hall so I just walked away. Insults never bothered me before and I always consider myself to thick skin even now. but all I wanted was cry where no one can see me. Walked to my friends car holding back my tears on the way and he asked me what happened. I just said I was tired and I think when I got home I didn’t eat and just slept until I had to get ready for school the next day. Those upperclassmen never said anything to me again or really bothered me again but it was an absolutely awful experience and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone else I have since then lost almost 80 pounds and I’m much happier now and that was about 6 years ago and even though it’s petty It makes me feel so so SO damn good that I’m the best shape of my life rn while my old bullies have all let them selves go
@@Jofan614 Oh she did. She got knocked up when she was 17 and a high school senior. Basically married then divorced a high school jock who she really wanted.
And its the same shit that people like me deal with eeveryday. Being ugly and fat is hard. Its even harder when all you dream of is to take the girl of your dreams to red square.
@@ethanthereenactorguy4829 Go to the gym and get to a size that you like. You gotta be motivated when you look at yourself not depressed. And when it comes to what you think of your attractiveness you just gotta learn to like how you look.
One time, a coworker in my job was crying over her breakout with her boyfriend, I came to reassure her and she answered to me by telling me "What would you know? You've never had a girlfriend..." I just left her on the spot
I had a girlfriend with a height preference. We were not very intimate. Who she was intimate with were her two "bum" baby daddies by her description and the parolee who had an agg. assault domestic violence and stalking record. Yes he was 6 feet. Yes he beat her. Yeah, she slept with him within 2 weeks of him being our of prison. He is in prison for a parole violation. He still knows where she lives. She broke up with me before Thanksgiving. (I guess I wasn't good enough for her family's Thanksgiving to her, but I guess he was last year). She tried to get back, but I was like, "nah". The height preference thing does not pay off for 'nice girls'.
To all of my sisters out there whos got rejected because of weight/looks, sometimes the bullet does you a favor and dodges you.” .... If men are allowed to have preferences, then so are women. 😎
On a much lighter note, one time Rodney Dangerfield was doing stand up at his own comedy club. Someone in the audience was taking pictures and Rodney said, "No pictures, please! I don't want to be seen here!" I tell ya, the guy gets no respect!
Dating past about high school level, especially early, is slotting in and out, according to mood. Fun times. Analyzing several sources suggest most guys don't even date till college but won't admit it. Funner times. Sewer/junkyard, everywhere. If you even do platonic, there's also the way "friends" statistically "works" past childhood. I'd say funniest time, but that's not a shared experience since kids always sucked, and men, including the honorary great majority of women, are emotionally vacuous at best.
Christopher Montes what’s the point of being in a relationship if you’re not going to hold the other person dearly? What, guaranteed sex? I’d rather fap lol
I think one of the main problems with men (I’m 25 for reference) is that we expect women’s love to be more than what it is. They are not like men. They are not loyal, they are not your “best friend”, they are not your companion, and they never actually love you. Women are there to mate with so you can have children and raise a family. That’s all. The way to keep her “loyal” is to make sure that she constantly feels like you are higher up on the ladder than her. That’s the only way a woman’s “love” lasts for more than a year or two. That’s not to say that you don’t routinely do nice things for her, but it’s more like taking a dog for a walk in order to keep her from barking too much. They are not men. Don’t expect them to be loyal or understanding. Sometimes, on occasion, they will be kind and considerate and supportive on their own (they’re not complete monsters), but just don’t expect much from them and you’ll be relatively content. Don’t show them your weakness, and don’t lie to yourself about what they are, and you’ll be fine imo.
Girl: "Are you new?" Me: " No, I have been taking classes with you for the last three years of high school." Girl: "Stop joking around" I died a little that day.
I asked a girl out and she said no I wasn't really effect by this but the thing that really hurt was when her and her friends talk shit about me infront of me and they act like I'm not there. They'll say my name but ignore me. If want to say something say it to my face.
"The funny thing is you actually think I'd want to kiss you." should have been that guys reaction. He shouldn't have let her kiss him, what a creep. The girl that is.
"That's so creepy. That's fucking creepy." Said to me by an acquaintance that I was trying to get to know better at a group hangout at a bar, when I mentioned liking children and wanting to be a father. No one argued with her. It's one thing to not want kids for yourself, but to call a man creepy for wanting to be a father... I have never been able to get that out of my head.
If I were you, I would have called her out for being sick in the head. Who in their right mind instantly thinks it’s creepy when a man explains that he would like to be a father 🤨 and I would call out all the others who stayed quiet about it. That’s bullshit.
Mine was in sophomore year. I asked a girl out, and she said "I want to say yes, but I have some unfinished business". A few days later she told me excitingly that she has a new boyfriend. Her best friend forced her to apologize a week after and she said "I have no idea why am I apologizing but everyone seems to be mad at me for some reason, then I'm sorry for whatever that would be". We never talked again.
I had something similar happen. Went out with a girl, date went well goodnight kiss and all. I try to ask her out to be in a relationship; she said she wasn't looking to have a boyfriend at that time, alright that's no problem. 2 days later she's got a new boyfriend so I'm stuck like..."what the hell?" I confronted her about it and called her out telling her that she should have just told me straight out. I didn't ever find out why she went on a date with me, why everything seemed to go so well, we kissed, and then when I waste no time trying to get into a relationship, she says she doesn't want one, but then gets into one with a different guy like 2 days later. I felt like I was led on only to be gut punched in the end.
@@kevo300 The guy still seems like a huge socially awkward crybaby. It isn't that bad, you get an easy kiss and if you were really that bad she wouldn't actually want to do it. I mean come on, the guy's reading way too much out of what went on.
Jacob Spence - She’ll rationalize that as “he must be gay.” While my response will shoot down that rationalization (possibly her main go-to rejection frame).
“All your siblings are so beautiful and attractive, what happened to you?”. Actual question someone asked me in front of a group of people at lunch 4 years ago when I was still in high school. Hurt like a mf
I'm really sorry to hear that. People should never ever hurt you, that unfortunately some people are just like that. Please don't bring yourself down, please don't be hard on yourself. We mustn't punish ourselves for something someone else did. I also used to have low self esteemed, but when I looked in the mirror, I definitely didn't hate what I saw. I smiled at myself and said if I think I look beautiful, then I don't care what anyone else thinks! Thank God, Alham du lilah I have been an optimistic person and it's always helped me. So I want you to do it as well, please don't distrust people, because not everyone is like that. In Sha Allah I hope you are married to a wonderful woman one day, one that will never make you feel bad and be there for you! Then In Sha Allah, you should also be there for her as well. Please be hopeful! That's awesome that you are working on your career, self respect is the way to go! Mash Allah
@@BD-1-And-Only but, I hope you find someone who will treat you with respect and love, and treat them better than any of your partners have ever treated you. Honestly be glad your away from those people, because they are very shitty. There are subliminals for healthy and strong relationships, maybe you should try some out, because you seem to attract negative and toxic people. I hope you have a good life and find happiness.
I don't know why I'm telling these things to the internet, but here goes. In a particular class in high school I sat next to a girl I had a crush on. I worked up the nerve and asked if she wanted to go out some time and she said, loudly so the whole class could hear, "why would I ever go out with an ugly dog-face like you??" I was destroyed and humiliated, and what made it even worse was that I had no clue why she would say anything like that. I was never rude or mean to her. I was 15 and that was 35 years ago and obviously I still haven't forgotten it. It doesn't affect me anymore but for years, especially in college, I couldn't NOT hear those words when I wanted to ask a girl out. I have a ton more confidence and a lot thicker skin now but you don't say things like that to a very insecure 15 year old who was actually kind to you. That one thing affected me deeply for many years.
See now what I don't understand is why there was a 2nd part of the story where you ask girls out in the future after that. I would just say "why would I WANT to hook up with something like that" and spurn them all for the rest of my life.
@@medexamtoolscom Because 15 or 16 year old boys don't make such decisions. Also, most people don't want to be alone and some of us don't believe in the hook up culture.
That’s rough dude. I’ve got one for you too. Lol this whole comment section is a pity party but us guys gotta stick together so here is my story. There was a girl I was interested in during grade 12 who we will call L. My cousin’s girlfriend at the time, who was both my own friend and L’s friend messaged me on Facebook messenger telling me she had bad news. The news stemmed from when I had asked my cousin’s gf to maybe talk to L for me and get an opinion before I made any moves past just having already engaged in group hangouts and talking to one another. Turns out L could sense my liking her, and didn’t like me back, that was fine. It was the next part, you know, the “why” part. Apparently L told my cousin’s gf that although I was a nice guy, she found me “disgusting”. And when I asked my cousin’s gf what she thinks L had meant by that, all she could say was a double down in that L had stated I was *disgusting*. I really was shocked. I always went about treating women with respect, my hygiene has always been superb, I was in the shape of my life in grade 12, an honour roll student, not “bad” looking by any means. It really threw me for a loop what she meant by disgusting. I pressed my cousin’s gf more, asking if L had said anything *specific* that I did to give this impression and she said no. L just found me disgusting. Now you might think, oh well, move on, she didn’t have a specific reason so there is something wrong with her. Listen, I understand that, but really think about that word “disgusting”. It’s meant to represent someone repulsive, below scum, non human etc. So my confidence took a major shot from that despite me believing I had great qualities, and girl friends in the past, I couldn’t shake that term out of my head. Fast forward now seven years later, I have two uni degrees, got to sleep with a lot of hot women in university, and now am in a loving relationship. So it worked out for me but it wasn’t until my “party” phase starting half way through first year of uni that I got my emotional confidence back. Ladies can really be harsh. L, that girl, I never heard from her again. I think while the rest of us graduated she had to repeat grade 12 again anyways. Eventually I figured out she was probably just a sour b*tch about something and all she could say was that I was “disgusting”. In the past now but figured I’d share this to show just how cruel some people can be. You never know what you can say to someone that will have lasting impacts on them. Took me a good year after that comment to move on and realize there was nothing “my fault” about that situation.
The thing about it is, in hard cold stone honest truth? Those little moments? That happen in grade school? Will stick with you and be within your soul until the day YOU DIE. It doesn't matter if you work hard and become successful, get your dream job or the love-angel of your life from cloud 9. Those events? Those events with crappy people your age that utterly crush you? It will burn forever.
@@TKUltra971 I was bullied a lot in grade school. got into fights despite being a top student. I still wish I could go back sometimes to finish the job on some of those guys. So yea you are right. Sticks with you for life.
When you're feeling down like you aren't getting anywhere in life remember these words. "Yesterday was history" "Tomorrow is a mystery" "But today is a gift, that is why it is called the present" Take it one day at a time and liberate yourself.
"You're more or less exactly what I'm looking for. I just wish you were older." She wants older men. Six months later I found out she started dating a guy a year younger than me
I hate when they do that. Also, when they say they don't see a future with you because you want children and they don't.... But a year later you find that out not only did they get married but they're pregnant. 😂 Of course, this sort of thing happens with women too. A guy will tell them He doesn't want to get married or have kids, but later on he's got both a wife and kids. The answer is always the same. They just don't want *you*. Things are always negotiable when the right person comes along.
Ugh I hate that. It's like when my ex broke up with me stating she couldn't handle long distance but immediately tried to get with a guy online afterwards
My husband was my first and only boyfriend. He is my only love and best friend. After watching this video, I will be holding him a little closer at night.
I had a hot girl come up to me at a bar a few years back. I knew right away something was off. Turns out she was looking to score some drugs and thought maybe I knew where she could get some. I don't do drugs and really never have outside of a few hits off marijuana here and there many years ago, but for some reason she thought I did drugs or was a drug dealer lol.
Delete this comment right now you should have more self confidence maybe the girl could be really into u don't blow your chance try to get to know em without asking ant creepy questions
@@shamirsmith2617 oh no this isn't a self confidence issue. I'm not gonna stumble and stamor my way through a conversation if a woman comes up to me but, when the only time girls talk to me is because A) we're friends and it's been years since we've seen each other, B) she's forced to because I'm buying something at a register or C) she wants me to buy her drinks at bar, you gotta be suspicious.
In the 11th grade, girls in my class compared other classmates with animals. Example: -If Marc would be an animal, ve would be a cat. -If Cloe would be an animal, she would be a colorful bird. And when it was my turn, they called me an ugly rat. Everybody laughed. I was sad, full of anger and ashamed.
"You're such a good man, you're just not smart enough to find the right girl." As someone who's insecure about their competence of the outside world, this hurt so much.
My then wife said "i no longer find you attractive, im interested in other men and i consider you a room mate" nice huh...well, I didn't even know there was a problem til my nephew msg me and asked "did you get a divorce?" I replied "no, why would I get divorced?" He replied back "because your wife is posting single status on her facebook"
@rocky night well, as part of the divorce agreement, we alternate years filing for the child tax credit, so in 2019 it was my turn to get the child credit, then, when the stimulus checks came around, bc the irs went by the 2019 return, so I got an additional $600 and banked $1200...which I guess is a small win...and my daughter is 16 now so my ex has to live with that drama and that's a win too
My high school crush told me, "Nobody would ever love a thing like you." Snatched my self esteem, confidence, everything... That was over 11 years ago... Still rings in my head whenever I get rejected.
I wasn't dating this girl, we just knew each other through technical training for the military. We had talked a good bit over the weeks we were there. One day, I sat by my friend to eat. She was sitting across from us. I forget how we got to this point, but she looked at me and had said "You're the monotone of personalities. There's literally nothing special about you." She laughed like she was being funny, but my friend could tell that it really bothered me. That happened 3 years ago and I'll never forget it. Made it a point to try to make my personality stand out from then on. Took me a few weeks of soul searching to figure out who tf I was. Words can cut deep sometimes.
There’s always that one guy among your friends that knows exactly when your really hurt, as much as a hate it I guess that’s when you know he’s real anyways hope everything’s better for you now
I'm really sorry to hear that. People should never ever hurt you, that unfortunately some people are just like that. Please don't bring yourself down, please don't be hard on yourself. We mustn't punish ourselves for something someone else did. I also used to have low self esteemed, but when I looked in the mirror, I definitely didn't hate what I saw. I smiled at myself and said if I think I look beautiful, then I don't care what anyone else thinks! Thank God, Alham du lilah I have been an optimistic person and it's always helped me. So I want you to do it as well, please don't distrust people, because not everyone is like that. In Sha Allah I hope you are married to a wonderful woman one day, one that will never make you feel bad and be there for you! Then In Sha Allah, you should also be there for her as well. Please be hopeful! That's awesome that you are working on your career, self respect is the way to go! Mash Allah
@@yuul7178 break away from the toxicity in your life. Work harder than you've ever imagined to find your independence and embrace healthy habits. You'd be surprised where you can go in life. Take it from someone who has been in shitty situations before.
No one: Girls: I want a guy that’s 6ft or taller, goes to the gym, salary of $200k, has time to spend with me, funny, good looking. Boys: I want a girl that’s not overweight Girls: Wait that’s illegal *:O*
I know that it's inevitable that there will be superficial jerks. And I know it's not nice to be a superficial jerk. But can we at least be consistent on whether or not it's ok to call out a superficial jerk? Or act frustrated that everyone you're interested in seems to be a superficial jerk? Plenty of people talk about how bad judging women for their looks are, but if a guy gets upset at a woman/women for judging how he looks, he's sexist, apparently.
facts, especially when you put a lot of thought and planning into it, do nothing wrong, and get stood up with no explanation/no communication for absolutely no reason. pain is unmatched because even though it was unprovoked you’ll still blame yourself. “maybe i wasn’t good enough.”
Agreed. It’s even more fun when you learn she ran off and started dating a friend of yours. It’s worse if they’re in proximity acting like nothing has changed. Hearing “we like each other” would’ve hurt much less than the prolonged confusion, rejection and deception.
3:19 " women knows how to uncover men's deepest insecurities and pulverized their self esteem" because of how conceited they can really be. That's very terrible and very destructive for others to deal with those kind of women, especially how much they care for this person.💔
This sums up a typical males experience pretty well. There is always someone "better" than you, and nothing is good enough. So just focus on yourselves and be you. A lot of these girls we let hurt us aren't worth it in the first place.
@@spicybbqchicken If there's anything I've learned from relationships, it's that you have to learn to love yourself before others can love you. Just do what makes you happy (without hurting others obviously) and make yourself the best person you can be. Someone you're proud to be and someone who those around you are proud to know. Once you have that, just be confident and don't sell yourself short. It can be scary and intimidating, but you can do it. Start small by making friends, and go from there. Don't forget to love yourself, and don't let anyone take that away from you.
After 5 years of dating “you are the perfect boyfriend for me but I just don’t love you I’ve never loved you I only said it because you did” great times
Well...when they're indoctrinated to think love is feelings and rainbows, of course she'll say that. Love is commitment, has and will not have anything to do with feelings and rainbows... its a verb, not a feeling..
I had a GF who told me I "talk too much" or acts bored when I talk about things I'm passionate about. This might not seem much. But for a very introverted person like me it has a very significant impact especially cause I view her as a saint among men for getting with me despite my looks lol, so hearing it from her made me sad. I learned later on that she cheated on me and only chose to be my gf is because no one else picks me and that somehow fascinates her. Anyway her words stuck with me to this day and even ruins my relationships sometimes cause I find it hard to share or talk about anything cause I'm afraid what I say isnt really important and nobody wants to hear it anyway.
Sounds like she’s a narcissist. It’s like you’re talking about my husband, except for the cheating part. Don’t give her that power and be careful not to fall for another narc. There are good people out there :)
There was a girl that I really liked and was on good terms at least. When I invited her to a date, she yelled: "AS IF I'D HANG OUT WITH A DISGUSTING PIECE OF LARD LIKE YOU!" Yes. She said this In front of the entire class and the whole school heard about the rejection. For Pete's sake, a simple "No" would've suffice.
Dude, believe me, she unintentionally did you a favor and showed you her real side. You deserve a girl that would appreciate all the nice stuff you'd do for her, not that pathetic excuse of a human.
So back when i was in high school, i wasn't meeting any sucess with girls regardless of the fact that i wasn't necessarily bad looking. I was just introverted as hell and never felt the need to interact with girls on a more personal level. So that one day i was with a group of friends and some other people playing boardgames and one of the girls starts talking to me and brings the GF subject on the table. She didn't put any filter on her words and proceeded to tell me in front of my friends that i'm the type to end up being 25yo and still virgin. I didn't answer because i hate confrontations, but boy believe me i've never wanted to RKO someone this hard in my life. Being called out on a sensitive subject ? By a girl ? In front of 7 of your friends ? That was tough to handle ... Fast foward a few years later, i'm 24 and still haven't had any experience, due to me setting way too many personal boundaries. And everytime i think about the situation i'm in, i can't help but hear the sound of my friends laughing at me 10 years ago... Thanks a lot bitch
You'll meet a nice (introverted?) girl like you one day. Though the catch is, you have to initiate the interaction. Something not easy for an introvert. But worth it.
I rather be a 25 year old virgin than a 25 year old whore. These girls nowadays been run through more than a train station. Plus a lot of girls like that have nothing to offer but there looks and they end up being pump and dumps for the rest of their lives. Single mom with 3 kids, then looking for the chump they disrespected before to take care of their kids. Dont worry. You'll get the last laugh. Just stay in great shape. Get a good job. And in your 30's they will all come back to you. Then the roles will be reversed
I wouldn't be too worried about it mate, it happens when it happens, everyone is different. You're not missing out on much anyway trust me, it's not all its cracked up to be. You won't enjoy it as much as you thought you would, it's like is this is it? Type of feeling. That was the case for me anyway. Pretty empty feeling after it alot of the time. Don't put the pussy on a pedastil, honestly, it ain't all that pal. Much better feelings in life that you've probably experienced already.
I am shocked and speechless, hearing these examples of utmost rudeness and malignity, spoken so lightly. I hope the people who had to hear this, managed to get over it and live a happy life now.
@@minju7624 well at first, I did hate them. But, time heals everything and we live in different cities now, so never come accross each other path again. If i'll meet them probably just as normal friends since I don't feel hatred or anger anymore.
"If you have trust issues with me then thats your problem" after I caught her ass cheating.... twice after she "promised" she wont do it again So I told her I need some fresh air and drove home and left her at the national park
D T because it’s banter and we don’t mean it and men would never use it against eachother. When push comes to shove however girls figure out our deepest darkest secrets and use them against us and laugh it off. And the bad thing about it is that no one does anything to defend guys who go through this kind of shit. Girls all get together with pitchforks when a guy says something about a girls body, but reverse the roles and everyone laughs it off and let’s the victim sit there in shame.
When I was about 17, I was dating a group of three friends. They all eventually broke up with me for varying levels of stupid reasons: "You don't spend enough money when we hang out" "You always hang out with your friends during school" "I always have to wait on you when we go out" None of these things really bothered and I shrugged it off. About a year later, I get a job and one of my coworkers, coincidentally, was dating one of the girls from this friend group. Me and him start talking during the slow hours of work and he revealed that they all made a private group chat and we're trying to figure out how they could break up with me in such a way that I wouldn't feel comfortable around women anymore. I never trusted a woman ever again, but me and the guy became good friends and he eventually broke up with that girl some months later.
Lesson learnt; for every single game, make a backup in case gf fucks something up. Thanks bro, you just saved a man in the very rare likelihood that my future girlfriend would mess up my video games.
Girl : “ how tall r u?” Guy : “why?” Girl : “i only like guys above 6,1” Guy :” oh okay, im 6,2. Btw how much do u weigh” Girl :”why” Guy :” i only like girls under 140” Girl :”OmG R u SeRiOUsssss!”
They want guys to be perfect, but when we're looking for our standards in a girl they have a huge problem with that. *Not all females are like ofcourse..just some.*
Luckily, I would have known how to defend myself in a situation like that by effectively insulting them as "putes". Always good to know how to insult people in other languages
I was gonna ask this girl to homecoming, so i tried to play it smooth and asked her "hey do you know how much homecoming tickets are?" and she straight up goes "sorry, i have a boyfriend" so i just say "ok good for you, i was wondering if you knew how much they cost?" she got a little embarrassed but that's how u play off rejection fellas
Why would you "play off" rejection ? Its part of life, and a man has to get used to it, as women never let on they appreciate you anymore. Oh, wait ... are you a "soy boy" whose feminine "feelings" are hurt ? Well then ... okay ... play your feminine games.
@@Oldclimber1 oH LoOk At mE. I tOTaLly dEsPiSE YoU cAuSe YoU CaN'T SuPPrEsS YoUr FeElinGs. YoU'Re SuPpOSeD tO GO tHrOuGH iT. GuYs aREn'T sUpPosE tO ExPreSs tHeIR eMoTiOnS caUsE tHeY dON't mAtTEr. That's you, that's what you sound like.
When I was in grade 7, I was known as the shortest kid in class. I was literally 4'1 and I'm not even joking. I started up a convo with a friend and an actually good looking girl and I was telling them how sleeping is boring as I usually just stay up on my phone and pull all-nighter out of boredom. The girl then said, maybe that's why you're so short. I wasn't that upset about it I was just shocked because that's the first time I've ever heard her insult someone and it was just so perfect.
"Why does there always have to be a problem, you're like a movie" I had just left my abusive home and was being forced to leave the state and the only friends I'd ever had. I switched to online school and had ZERO human contact. I was dealing with my dying grandfather. She broke up with me after I told her about how I was molested as a child. I'd also recently been fired.
I know it's probably very hard, I have had several friends who had been molested by people they had deeply trusted, and were very hurt. And I had stood by to see them fall into depression and anxiety feeling they could never be loved or appreciated, even though I know they can be. That woman was a *********** ******** ***** ****** ******* to you, don't listen, you don't deverse that ********, and hopefully, everything will be okay :]
"You treat me worse than your parents treat each other." My parents have been divorced for 15 years, still hate each other, and used to wake me up to force me to listen to voicemails, tell me they were going to make me testify against the other in court, and made me the messenger for about 7 years to basically use me as a tool to tell the other how much they hated each other. She knew all that and told me I treated her worse than that. What did I do? I broke up with her ASKING ME to let her cheat on me with a girl and hanging out with a dude who used to abuse her and just generally being a shitty person. And I did it very respectfully and didn't shit talk her to our shared friends. Threw my mental health back about 10 years
Now then 5 years later I have a loving wonderful smokeshow wife without a ton of emotional baggage who helps me carry mine when I need and has helped me unpack a lot of it. Supports my dreams and pushes me to be a better man every day. Keep up hope gentlemen. The goods ones are still out there
@@goatfish480 Well thank you very much! We actually found out we are gonna have a baby right after I made this comment! Baby girl! Can't wait for her to get here!
hey! i know im late but i just wanna say youre a really strong person and good on you for finding a woman worthy of spending your golden years with!! wishing you and your wife a happy family life and all the best!
Back when I was a teenager one of my classmates joked that if a girl ever had relationship with me she has to be autistic or some sort of mental disorder. As a teenager these words really hit hard as they shattered my self confidence and I started to stay more conscious around girls , how I behaved ,how I walked, how I talked I was always on my guard, so I couldn't have a normal free friendly conversation for this reason which made the situation more awkward. So after some time after seeing things not getting any better I started to avoid talking to girls even with my friends, this continued to 3 years until I went to college. I made some really good friends and memories in with guy and girlfriends alike. Some girls even tried to approach me and I was really happy for that but I don't why in my mind those words would play back and I would always think what if I'm not good enough for her, what if she criticized for having a relationship with a guy like me, maybe there is something wrong with me for having thoughts like this. So for this reason I couldn't get in a relationship because of my own mental hinderences. Back to the the present now as a 23 year old adult I'm more busy thinking about how to build my career but if love ever knocks on my door this time I would be very happy to answer 😅😊 Sorry about blabbing on about so much 🙏
I'm really sorry to hear that. People should never ever hurt you, that unfortunately some people are just like that. Please don't bring yourself down, please don't be hard on yourself. We mustn't punish ourselves for something someone else did. I also used to have low self esteemed, but when I looked in the mirror, I definitely didn't hate what I saw. I smiled at myself and said if I think I look beautiful, then I don't care what anyone else thinks! Thank God, Alham du lilah I have been an optimistic person and it's always helped me. So I want you to do it as well, please don't distrust people, because not everyone is like that. In Sha Allah I hope you are married to a wonderful woman one day, one that will never make you feel bad and be there for you! Then In Sha Allah, you should also be there for her as well. Please be hopeful! That's awesome that you are working on your career, self respect is the way to go! Mash Allah
I was 17 and taking a Psychology class in High School. For some reason the teacher had the class do an exercise in which the guys would rate the girls and the girls would rate the guys on, "attractiveness and if they thought he or she would make for a good relationship" on a scale of 1-10. The class divided up, there were about 9 girls and 7 guys. Some of these girls I knew for years going back to Junior High or longer. I was rated a 2, that burned. As the day went on 6 of the girls came up to me and said, "I didn't think you deserved a 2 but everyone else did and I didn't want to say anything," that is what really got to me. Glad I wasn't on trial and needed some of them for character witnesses. I was like WTF, after all this time none of you would say one nice thing about me? A couple of these girls were going to get low scores as well but I had spoken up for them and got their scores raised. That was the day I learned to always speak up for yourself because no one else will and no good deed goes unpunished.
@@theapexfighter8741 He said later that it was not a good idea to have done that. I sometimes wonder what would have happened if the scores were done anonymously.
Look at the bright side , she at least told you and you didn't went for years or weeks without knowing right? If that's not the case I'm sorry someone did that to you. You deserve better.
I dated a hot popular girl in high school. And something that was heart grinding was that A LOT of people would hit me with this "I mean why would she date you, I mean "look" at you" Honestly it was a really irritating thing I had to deal with
My friends at a party set me up with a cheerleader (who I wasnt into originally anyway) and we started talking for a bit. Toward the end of getting to know each other she told me that I reminded her of her autistic brothers. Pretty wild stuff bruh
“I’m just not into black guys....it sucks that the only thing wrong is something I have no ability to change” Michael Jackson has entered the chat EDIT: to everyone who has commented that he had vitiligo and to all the people who are about comment the same thing, let me spell it out for you: I T W A S A J O K E. I’m well aware of his condition, but it was a stupid joke. So if you find yourself about to call me stupid or a moron or an asshole, STOP and ask yourself “is this really worth my time?” And if the answer is “yes”, consider getting a life where you have better things to do than go after a random internet stranger who you’ll never meet in real life.
@@illyGalSloth he had vitiligo, a condition in which your outer skin starts peeling off and only the inner layer stays intact (and much tougher to compensate), so your skin gets lighter in tone
I was 23 yo. I finally worked up the nerve to ask out a girl i liked. "What on earth made you think I would ever go out with you" She said it loud too. Her girlfriends were all laughing. I held back the tears until I got in my car and just ugly cried. Good times. lol
Yup, 5’4 here. Being short is a death sentence in dating. And the worst ones are the girls shorter than you. ‘I really wish I had a boyfriend like you in every way. Just....not you.’ 😑
James Baker don’t give up. I’m 5’4” and my boyfriend is 5’5”. You might just have to find someone who cares more about you personally. Or have money? I hear that attracts pussy.
I think it's weird tbh. Like yes tall dudes are hot, but the nice thing about short dudes is that when you're standing close to him, it's easier to go for a hug, look into his eyes/at his face, kiss, etc. Like damn I can't imagine thinking a guy is perfect in every way but turning him down because he's short.
Was told, "I don't want to talk to you." at the beginning of a big group project in high school. After hearing that, as the group leader and a cruel bastard, I shifted the majority of the work onto me and the other 2 (who were close friends). At the end of the project we each had to turn in a copy of what each of us did. Since she had a third of what the rest of us did, she received an F for the project.
"You turn gay men straight and straight women lesbian" This happened during my 8th grade history class and this girl realized I’m bi and we later on had a heated argument because I was being """annoying""" (I’m known to be quiet like all the time) and that’s when she said the quoted line above in front of god and everyone. I’ve had ZERO love life and hearing that just absolutely shattered my self esteem, heart, you name it.
Guys say they want girls who aren't fat but i had I crush on a guy and he rejected me (anf im not fat) and started spreading rumors about me and now people avoid me
Funny because they are the biggest teases. Become your best friend. And almost make it 100% obvious they are into you. The moment you try to make a move it's like you are the most disgusting person they've ever met. From my experience, Girls dont know how to properly reject a man.
"Bitch what the fuck you mean you want someone like me but someone who isn't me, just say you don't fucking want me. We men prefer simple, to-the-point statements. No need to overcomplicate."
I was in a relationship for 6.5 years. I did everything for her, tried to be the best man I could be. Then one day she told me she was pregnant. I was happy about it. It was a really shitty moment to happen but I thought: no worries, we'll deal with it and all will be allright. I was looking forward to become a father and after a month she confessed to me also out of the blue: she lied about being pregnant just to see how I would react hoping I would freak out so she could end the relationship. That moment I felt something breaking inside of me. Not only did she break my heart with this, I also had to deal with the loss of a fictitious child I never had. Then I cried for the first time in years. I've seen a lot of death but that was too much for me. I packed her stuff and threw her out in the middle of the night. No regrets!
She was a coward and she lacked empathy. She didn't want to feel like she was a bad person for breaking up with you so she created a situation where you would have to end the relationship and be the bad guy. But her lie backfire it was well deserved
I remember being buddied up with a girl in Spanish class to do some tasks. She turned around to me and said with the most malice "You're a rat" 7 years on and for some reason, those words still stick.
Me to crush: “Hey I think I have feelings for you” Crush to me: “I literally can’t comprehend being with you, the thought of cuddling with you with you hurts me mentally” Crush to me: *goes off on me for 5 minutes telling me how I’m not relationship material*
One time I was walking down a park, two girls were walking past me, as soon as I walked past them I heard them say, would you have gone out with that guy in the blue t shirt ( yes I was wearing a blue t shirt) and then I hear a “no he is too ugly”. I am already very insecure, and for that to happen hurt me a lot.
I'm really sorry to hear that. People should never ever hurt you, that unfortunately some people are just like that. Please don't bring yourself down, please don't be hard on yourself. We mustn't punish ourselves for something someone else did. I also used to have low self esteemed, but when I looked in the mirror, I definitely didn't hate what I saw. I smiled at myself and said if I think I look beautiful, then I don't care what anyone else thinks! Thank God, Alham du lilah I have been an optimistic person and it's always helped me. So I want you to do it as well, please don't distrust people, because not everyone is like that. In Sha Allah I hope you are married to a wonderful woman one day, one that will never make you feel bad and be there for you! Then In Sha Allah, you should also be there for her as well. Please be hopeful! That's awesome that if you are working on your career, self respect is the way to go! Mash Allah
"Hey do you mind if I kiss you? It's a dare." -"It was something about how quickly her words lifted me to cloud nine and then dropped me back to reality." I genuinely felt bad for this dude.
"sorry, I can't or else I would be in jail for harassing animals"
I knew how that dude felt since I went through something similar back in middle school. Essentially it was just another stupid game.
When he said he just wanted to disappear after everyone starts laughing, knowing full well he was being made into a joke at his own expense... Poor bloke
Hey it’s ok pal I know how you feel too man.
3 months of Sophomore year of highschooI was fat 5’7 and 240 pounds but I was always cheerful friendly guy.
My friend dated a upperclassmen who hung out by his locker often let’s call her Emma . I was always nice to her and in general but we didn’t really know each other. I went to my friend because he was giving me a ride home and he was talking to his gf and we are locker buddies. I tell him he can go to the car I’m just getting my stuff. He walks to his car waiting for me.
His gf walks up to me and says “your Bryan right?” I say yes and she says oh really my friend mariah was talking to me earlier and she gave you a compliment (Mariah was a senior cheerleader captain, super pretty, smart, tons of friends far beyond my League is and understatement).
I was super shocked because ive never receive compliment before especially from the school super star who I never talked to before) I asked what she say and Emma said “ I bet that Bryan guy is really nice guy he always so kind to you and people in general” It wasn’t much but that made me so unbelievably happy since I was a guy who was made fun of every once in a while.
The happiness only lasted 5 seconds because a couple upperclassmen heard and they started laughing saying “of course she only said that look at yourself” and they just kept insulting me and like 2 people joined them. Called me fat hairy stupid ugly smelly disgusting. They said she probably felt bad and it wasn’t real compliment.
we were in the very front of the school exist and there was only couple people in the hall so I just walked away. Insults never bothered me before and I always consider myself to thick skin even now. but all I wanted was cry where no one can see me. Walked to my friends car holding back my tears on the way and he asked me what happened. I just said I was tired and I think when I got home I didn’t eat and just slept until I had to get ready for school the next day. Those upperclassmen never said anything to me again or really bothered me again but it was an absolutely awful experience and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone else
I have since then lost almost 80 pounds and I’m much happier now and that was about 6 years ago and even though it’s petty It makes me feel so so SO damn good that I’m the best shape of my life rn while my old bullies have all let them selves go
Same bro
Had a girl tell me “your like my soulmate, but like as a friend soulmate.” I got friend zoned on a spiritual level.
Ohhhhh this has happened to me too. I feel your pain
Can we get an F in the chat.
F in the chat
The hell is a friend soul mate isn't that just a bff but in a different saying
F
“You’re too short”
I’m 5’11 and she was 5’2. I never been so confused and offended at the same time.
I'm 5'7 and was rejected by a girl who was 4'11 because she "only dated guys over 6 feet." So....yeah. I've been there.
Lonzo Ball Lmfao I'm the same height as you. how tf is it that a girl who's 5'2 says you're short but a girl I know who's 5'6 considers me tall
JUKESTUBE
No idea man but the girl ended up dating a guy who was like 6’3, 6’4. I guess that’s the height she wanted in a guy.
Lonzo Ball that female is trippin bro. Most girls would consider you “tall”
Lonzo Ball lmao wtf
"You're a loser, a joke, a pest, and no woman will ever want you"-Girl in high school after she found out that I had a crush on her.
hope she gets super karma
@@Jofan614 Oh she did. She got knocked up when she was 17 and a high school senior. Basically married then divorced a high school jock who she really wanted.
@@apotheases Oof entire life went out the window quick
@@apotheases knocked up??
@@thebeyonder8814 Basically saying she got pregnant.
*Guy hugging the girl and saying everythin will be alright*
Girl:Now I know what it must feel like to be you
Guy: *Bruh*
"Fuck this shit I'm out."
I feel this in the deeper parts of my voided soul
That was savagely disrespectful
Harvard University his dumb ass probably stayed hugging her
blackjesus 327 judging from the lack of additional story I wouldn’t be surprised
My heart shattered when the first guy said "her words lifted me to cloud nine and then dropped me back to reality" 😭
And its the same shit that people like me deal with eeveryday. Being ugly and fat is hard. Its even harder when all you dream of is to take the girl of your dreams to red square.
@@ethanthereenactorguy4829 Go to the gym and get to a size that you like. You gotta be motivated when you look at yourself not depressed. And when it comes to what you think of your attractiveness you just gotta learn to like how you look.
@@komrade_kam If you are a woman then yes you will get looooots of guys waanting to use u there. If you are a men buy a dog they are more loyal
@@ethanthereenactorguy4829 Isn't red square infront of the Kremlin in russia.
@@3ball260 yes
The dude who was the dare should have said no. Sure you wouldn't get the kiss, but the appall on her face of being rejected would be worth it.
@mentlegen why would you say yes the whole dare is based on the fact that they are insulting you in a way at least that's how it seems to me
@@whatsup5914,, would You mind",, Yes" it means no to kiss, if You say ,, no" it means yes,, no, I dont mind".
@@deimilepetkeviciute9320 awl shit took me a sec to realize that even after reading your comment thanks
@@whatsup5914 np.
that made me tear dude... too sad
One time, a coworker in my job was crying over her breakout with her boyfriend, I came to reassure her and she answered to me by telling me "What would you know? You've never had a girlfriend..."
I just left her on the spot
Coaches don’t play, is all I have to say
I salute that chick… with one finger… my middle finger.
@@DilloRanger I shall join your salute
Tbf people say things that are overly rude or mean when they’re pretty upset, but judging from this comment she didn’t apologize afterwards so eh
@@Ismael-kc3ry tbf that means jack shit in reality.
really depressing but the music is pretty upbeat
Balance as all thing should be 😢
@@arsenalarifmohd Thanos.... You Monster
I mean, thats what kirby's epic yarn is for.
The word you're looking for is upbrah
Lmfao basically my life in a nutshell😂😂😂
To all of my dudes out there whos got rejected because of their skin color/height, sometimes the bullet does you a favor and dodges you
Well everyone has the right of preference
I had a girlfriend with a height preference. We were not very intimate. Who she was intimate with were her two "bum" baby daddies by her description and the parolee who had an agg. assault domestic violence and stalking record. Yes he was 6 feet. Yes he beat her. Yeah, she slept with him within 2 weeks of him being our of prison. He is in prison for a parole violation. He still knows where she lives. She broke up with me before Thanksgiving. (I guess I wasn't good enough for her family's Thanksgiving to her, but I guess he was last year). She tried to get back, but I was like, "nah".
The height preference thing does not pay off for 'nice girls'.
@CantOutRunADuck Talk about an appeal to nature fallacy, but okay
I literally clapped at this. This was deep bro.
To all of my sisters out there whos got rejected because of weight/looks, sometimes the bullet does you a favor and dodges you.” .... If men are allowed to have preferences, then so are women. 😎
"You used to be so handsome when you were a kid, where did I go wrong?"
Yeah I don't talk much to my mother anymore.
"it s your gene kicked in, mom. Thanks alot!"
Lollll mommy issues gang🤟
Where did you go wrong? Maybe if dad decided to marry someone else.
@@porassrivastava8242 I'm Asian and my mother makes our house look as depressing as North Korea
@@CHAZZPRINCETON damn, for real?
"Why dont boys just shoot their shot, the worst she can say is no"
Reality: I would rather get burned alive than be seen with you somewhere.
You're lucky if she doesn't like you and just tells you "no" lol.
Legit though lmao, no one stops at Friggin no anymore
On a much lighter note, one time Rodney Dangerfield was doing stand up at his own comedy club. Someone in the audience was taking pictures and Rodney said, "No pictures, please! I don't want to be seen here!"
I tell ya, the guy gets no respect!
Fufill her dream, Bring the torches.
The former can be arranged, then.
"I want a boyfriend like you!"
"i am like me!"
"Yeah, but I want one who isn't ugly"
damn! She actually said that?
Man,that cruel
But now you're married to Android 18, everything turned out allright.
Now, now, dear don't be a hypocrite. I'd like the same with an actual personality.
Hi Krillin
"Boys don't let themselves be vulnerable"
It's a real mystery why that is
@@tyrellwilson9334 the fu.....
@@tyrellwilson9334 Same bro
here y'all go blaming women for your emotional problems
@@arielleofisrael9384 if you watched the video you'd know why
@@arielleofisrael9384 here u go being a bitch behind a screen
Girls: "You can't talk about how fat we are, it's disrespectful"
Girls when they see a short man: 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👌
Shrek- Senpai facts bro
@@Rqyal BoDY ShaMING iS WrONg
@Aderiler facts
Aderiler
I am a woman and I approve this message.
I wish girls like that jump face first into a plane propeller.
"If you want people to care about you, than you should open up."
*Opens up*
"No one cares, why do you think anyone wants to hear about that?"
"bitch you or else you wouldn't have said anything in the first place.🗿"
shit, i felt that too on spiritual level
who tf even believed that bull in the first place??
"Why are you hurt, you shouldn't let anyone mean this much to you"
Together for a year and this is the response. Sad.
I mean she aint wrong
Dating past about high school level, especially early, is slotting in and out, according to mood. Fun times. Analyzing several sources suggest most guys don't even date till college but won't admit it. Funner times. Sewer/junkyard, everywhere. If you even do platonic, there's also the way "friends" statistically "works" past childhood. I'd say funniest time, but that's not a shared experience since kids always sucked, and men, including the honorary great majority of women, are emotionally vacuous at best.
Christopher Montes what’s the point of being in a relationship if you’re not going to hold the other person dearly? What, guaranteed sex? I’d rather fap lol
Same exact thing happened to me it fucking hurts
I think one of the main problems with men (I’m 25 for reference) is that we expect women’s love to be more than what it is. They are not like men. They are not loyal, they are not your “best friend”, they are not your companion, and they never actually love you. Women are there to mate with so you can have children and raise a family. That’s all. The way to keep her “loyal” is to make sure that she constantly feels like you are higher up on the ladder than her. That’s the only way a woman’s “love” lasts for more than a year or two. That’s not to say that you don’t routinely do nice things for her, but it’s more like taking a dog for a walk in order to keep her from barking too much. They are not men. Don’t expect them to be loyal or understanding. Sometimes, on occasion, they will be kind and considerate and supportive on their own (they’re not complete monsters), but just don’t expect much from them and you’ll be relatively content. Don’t show them your weakness, and don’t lie to yourself about what they are, and you’ll be fine imo.
Girl: "Are you new?"
Me: " No, I have been taking classes with you for the last three years of high school."
Girl: "Stop joking around"
I died a little that day.
J.Fragoso I got that once and I was the only black kid in the class both years.
@@Stuttful dude fk her, that's bull shut. So many girls are so self centered
Don't worry bro.
She'll "remember" you when she needs a potential beta provider for her bastard children.
*IF SHR BREATHES.....*
F
I asked a girl out and she said no I wasn't really effect by this but the thing that really hurt was when her and her friends talk shit about me infront of me and they act like I'm not there. They'll say my name but ignore me. If want to say something say it to my face.
"The funny thing is you actually think I'd want to kiss you." should have been that guys reaction. He shouldn't have let her kiss him, what a creep. The girl that is.
@Margaret Gust fr .
@Margaret Gust Facts.
But I do think that story is fake.
@Margaret Gust He thinks she would have persisted and he wanted to be done with it.
@@SamirPatnaik no I can totally see that
@Margaret Gust well
he said the reason
"That's so creepy. That's fucking creepy." Said to me by an acquaintance that I was trying to get to know better at a group hangout at a bar, when I mentioned liking children and wanting to be a father. No one argued with her.
It's one thing to not want kids for yourself, but to call a man creepy for wanting to be a father... I have never been able to get that out of my head.
Sexism goes both ways, sorry you were wrong associated w the creep stereotype just because you're male that makes me really sad
If I were you, I would have called her out for being sick in the head. Who in their right mind instantly thinks it’s creepy when a man explains that he would like to be a father 🤨 and I would call out all the others who stayed quiet about it. That’s bullshit.
Me: *wanting relationship*
Me after video: Yeah, being single is fine
Same,dude.
Being single is the best
It can get a little lonely at times but, there are many plus sides to being single for the most part, nowadays. At least if you're a guy.
As a female I’m in a relationship with anime and video games. It’s a committed one
@@llexcusesll7933 same here. Its the best relationship one can get into
Mine was in sophomore year. I asked a girl out, and she said "I want to say yes, but I have some unfinished business".
A few days later she told me excitingly that she has a new boyfriend.
Her best friend forced her to apologize a week after and she said "I have no idea why am I apologizing but everyone seems to be mad at me for some reason, then I'm sorry for whatever that would be".
We never talked again.
She was so mean!
I hope you never talk to her again and I hope you are in a better place.
Never forgive, Never forget
She's dumber than a brick
I had something similar happen. Went out with a girl, date went well goodnight kiss and all. I try to ask her out to be in a relationship; she said she wasn't looking to have a boyfriend at that time, alright that's no problem. 2 days later she's got a new boyfriend so I'm stuck like..."what the hell?"
I confronted her about it and called her out telling her that she should have just told me straight out.
I didn't ever find out why she went on a date with me, why everything seemed to go so well, we kissed, and then when I waste no time trying to get into a relationship, she says she doesn't want one, but then gets into one with a different guy like 2 days later.
I felt like I was led on only to be gut punched in the end.
If a girl asks to kiss you as a dare, just respond with "ew" shuts them down real quick.
u . right
Yeah but if its a sudden thing and your not experienced it doesnt go like that.
@@kevo300 The guy still seems like a huge socially awkward crybaby. It isn't that bad, you get an easy kiss and if you were really that bad she wouldn't actually want to do it. I mean come on, the guy's reading way too much out of what went on.
Or give them the good old, "you??"
@@ivanlagrossemoule is this what you've told yourself after it's happened to you
Girls think the words they say don't make a difference.
But one "I love your hair" or "Your to short" can make or break you for a month.
Not just a month. For a lifetime if you let it.
wait what's wrong with "I love your hair"
@@puddleduck1405 nothing. Dude's saying that saying it can be a massive confidence booster for a guy, can make your month
@@NSEBMB ooh right, I thought he meant it was a bad thing haha
Man fr, last week at a bar a woman told me she liked my hair and that shit is gonna stick with me for a long time
Girl: “you can’t control your emotions”
Me looking at my emotional skill tree of 0: “no shit I’m not allowed to practice”
Im quoting that
Anytime
You dropped this 👑
improve your magic instead
That isn't an excuse. You ARE "allowed to" practice.
Girl: “Hey, do you mind if I kiss you? It’s a dare.”
Guy: “I’d kiss you but I’m not gay.”
Christopher Rivera Oh snap
Guy: "Sorry you're not that attractive"
Jacob Spence Thats one of the best ways to react to that question thnx
Jacob Spence - She’ll rationalize that as “he must be gay.” While my response will shoot down that rationalization (possibly her main go-to rejection frame).
Fuck... Imagine a guy say that... "Its truth or dare"
“All your siblings are so beautiful and attractive, what happened to you?”. Actual question someone asked me in front of a group of people at lunch 4 years ago when I was still in high school. Hurt like a mf
Sorry
Damn. Why are people so cruel
"probably the same thing that happened to your ego."
My answer would've been, "Why is everyone in your family so thin. What happened to you?"
Same man was on the bus. And their like your sister is so pretty what happened to you ? That shit hurts
"Did you think anyone ever cared about you to begin with?" I never once felt that level of pain before and never will again.
Damn some of these girls out here think they can say whatever they want
Nice avatar
I'm really sorry to hear that. People should never ever hurt you, that unfortunately some people are just like that. Please don't bring yourself down, please don't be hard on yourself. We mustn't punish ourselves for something someone else did. I also used to have low self esteemed, but when I looked in the mirror, I definitely didn't hate what I saw. I smiled at myself and said if I think I look beautiful, then I don't care what anyone else thinks! Thank God, Alham du lilah I have been an optimistic person and it's always helped me. So I want you to do it as well, please don't distrust people, because not everyone is like that. In Sha Allah I hope you are married to a wonderful woman one day, one that will never make you feel bad and be there for you! Then In Sha Allah, you should also be there for her as well. Please be hopeful! That's awesome that you are working on your career, self respect is the way to go! Mash Allah
“We’re breaking up, I can’t fix you.”
*ouch.*
You should have said, "I'm not broken. It's user error on your part."
@@PossumReviews THIS
@@PossumReviews Nice to see you here.
@@BD-1-And-Only my dad is overweight and his name is mike 😀
@@BD-1-And-Only but, I hope you find someone who will treat you with respect and love, and treat them better than any of your partners have ever treated you. Honestly be glad your away from those people, because they are very shitty. There are subliminals for healthy and strong relationships, maybe you should try some out, because you seem to attract negative and toxic people. I hope you have a good life and find happiness.
"Now I know what it must be like to be you"
Christ that would be brutal to hear
Maybe she meant as a guy. Guys usually do the asking and are the ones who get rejected.
Being me is great...so if some girl said that to me i would probably say: divinity is great isnt it?
"I'm scared I might be settling with you when there is someone better out there waiting for me"
Her words as she dumped me after 2 years.
I have ONE word friend: Hypergamy. And its a TOTAL bitch.
Mr. Chaos Vicious WOW, forget her
@@toneoftones7053 ❓ Uh,forget who now? 🤔
+Gensai Kuroki Been there too. One of the lamest excuses a woman can give.
@@nicegy0197 Next to "I am just not happy in this relationship anymore."
I don't know why I'm telling these things to the internet, but here goes.
In a particular class in high school I sat next to a girl I had a crush on. I worked up the nerve and asked if she wanted to go out some time and she said, loudly so the whole class could hear, "why would I ever go out with an ugly dog-face like you??" I was destroyed and humiliated, and what made it even worse was that I had no clue why she would say anything like that. I was never rude or mean to her. I was 15 and that was 35 years ago and obviously I still haven't forgotten it. It doesn't affect me anymore but for years, especially in college, I couldn't NOT hear those words when I wanted to ask a girl out. I have a ton more confidence and a lot thicker skin now but you don't say things like that to a very insecure 15 year old who was actually kind to you. That one thing affected me deeply for many years.
See now what I don't understand is why there was a 2nd part of the story where you ask girls out in the future after that. I would just say "why would I WANT to hook up with something like that" and spurn them all for the rest of my life.
@@medexamtoolscom Because 15 or 16 year old boys don't make such decisions. Also, most people don't want to be alone and some of us don't believe in the hook up culture.
That’s rough dude. I’ve got one for you too. Lol this whole comment section is a pity party but us guys gotta stick together so here is my story.
There was a girl I was interested in during grade 12 who we will call L. My cousin’s girlfriend at the time, who was both my own friend and L’s friend messaged me on Facebook messenger telling me she had bad news. The news stemmed from when I had asked my cousin’s gf to maybe talk to L for me and get an opinion before I made any moves past just having already engaged in group hangouts and talking to one another. Turns out L could sense my liking her, and didn’t like me back, that was fine. It was the next part, you know, the “why” part. Apparently L told my cousin’s gf that although I was a nice guy, she found me “disgusting”. And when I asked my cousin’s gf what she thinks L had meant by that, all she could say was a double down in that L had stated I was *disgusting*. I really was shocked. I always went about treating women with respect, my hygiene has always been superb, I was in the shape of my life in grade 12, an honour roll student, not “bad” looking by any means. It really threw me for a loop what she meant by disgusting. I pressed my cousin’s gf more, asking if L had said anything *specific* that I did to give this impression and she said no. L just found me disgusting.
Now you might think, oh well, move on, she didn’t have a specific reason so there is something wrong with her. Listen, I understand that, but really think about that word “disgusting”. It’s meant to represent someone repulsive, below scum, non human etc. So my confidence took a major shot from that despite me believing I had great qualities, and girl friends in the past, I couldn’t shake that term out of my head. Fast forward now seven years later, I have two uni degrees, got to sleep with a lot of hot women in university, and now am in a loving relationship. So it worked out for me but it wasn’t until my “party” phase starting half way through first year of uni that I got my emotional confidence back.
Ladies can really be harsh. L, that girl, I never heard from her again. I think while the rest of us graduated she had to repeat grade 12 again anyways. Eventually I figured out she was probably just a sour b*tch about something and all she could say was that I was “disgusting”. In the past now but figured I’d share this to show just how cruel some people can be. You never know what you can say to someone that will have lasting impacts on them. Took me a good year after that comment to move on and realize there was nothing “my fault” about that situation.
The thing about it is, in hard cold stone honest truth? Those little moments? That happen in grade school? Will stick with you and be within your soul until the day YOU DIE. It doesn't matter if you work hard and become successful, get your dream job or the love-angel of your life from cloud 9.
Those events? Those events with crappy people your age that utterly crush you? It will burn forever.
@@TKUltra971 I was bullied a lot in grade school. got into fights despite being a top student. I still wish I could go back sometimes to finish the job on some of those guys. So yea you are right. Sticks with you for life.
Bruh, girls don’t even talk to me, I’d be flattered if one willingly approached me within a 50 feet radius
Same!
Rip confidence
But you are not a dude
Agreed
Python ALT I’m using my mother’s account and have completely hijacked it lol
Girls: Why men don't show their emotions
Also girls:
Fax
sorry
@Wiedergeboren why the hell ladies are scary
@@trashchild5945 liar
They dont like """"weakness"""""
Don't waste your precious time impressing women. Focus only on yourself.
Take care of yourself and the women will take notice.
@@someoneinthecrowd4313 True, brother.
Wise words. I have observed this in practice. Trying your hardest to get a girl is counter productive.
When you're feeling down like you aren't getting anywhere in life remember these words.
"Yesterday was history"
"Tomorrow is a mystery"
"But today is a gift, that is why it is called the present"
Take it one day at a time and liberate yourself.
@@sirnuggets9666 even though that's a quote from kung fu panda, that's a real good tip
"You're more or less exactly what I'm looking for. I just wish you were older." She wants older men. Six months later I found out she started dating a guy a year younger than me
I hate when they do that. Also, when they say they don't see a future with you because you want children and they don't.... But a year later you find that out not only did they get married but they're pregnant. 😂
Of course, this sort of thing happens with women too. A guy will tell them He doesn't want to get married or have kids, but later on he's got both a wife and kids. The answer is always the same. They just don't want *you*. Things are always negotiable when the right person comes along.
Ugh I hate that. It's like when my ex broke up with me stating she couldn't handle long distance but immediately tried to get with a guy online afterwards
that's the worst shit I've heard all day
My husband was my first and only boyfriend. He is my only love and best friend. After watching this video, I will be holding him a little closer at night.
Thats some good wholesome shit that I needed to see after this sadness riddled video. You have a lucky husband ^^
I hope I find a woman like you one day
You give me hope, however small it is...
@Mah Boi wow thats the smartest thing ive ever heard
Mah Boi lol
Not something a single girl has said to me, but basically every girl in my class thinks im gay
Ha, gayyy
_Idk, seems kinda gay to me_
Dont watch my videos you will regret it
Hey, hey, hey that's pretty gay
Just be big brain and start fucking their boyfriends lmao.
Why?
If a hot a chick came up to me AT ALL, I'd instantly think it was a dare. This now confirms suspicions.
I had a hot girl come up to me at a bar a few years back. I knew right away something was off. Turns out she was looking to score some drugs and thought maybe I knew where she could get some. I don't do drugs and really never have outside of a few hits off marijuana here and there many years ago, but for some reason she thought I did drugs or was a drug dealer lol.
@@Slither28 that's when you sell a ho some powdered creamer as cocaine for 200$ a gram then gtfo right when she enters the bathroom to do a line
Delete this comment right now you should have more self confidence maybe the girl could be really into u don't blow your chance try to get to know em without asking ant creepy questions
@@shamirsmith2617 oh no this isn't a self confidence issue. I'm not gonna stumble and stamor my way through a conversation if a woman comes up to me but, when the only time girls talk to me is because A) we're friends and it's been years since we've seen each other, B) she's forced to because I'm buying something at a register or C) she wants me to buy her drinks at bar, you gotta be suspicious.
@@whatsup5914 or Baking Soda
In the 11th grade, girls in my class compared other classmates with animals.
Example:
-If Marc would be an animal, ve would be a cat.
-If Cloe would be an animal, she would be a colorful bird.
And when it was my turn, they called me an ugly rat. Everybody laughed.
I was sad, full of anger and ashamed.
Now THAT’S insulting.
💀💀
Don’t feel so bad about it man, rats are very intelligent creatures
That's better than Blob Fish
Fun fact about rats:they are fucking intellegent and cute too, and they are one of the animals that help the most with medical research
"Don't like my chrome dome? don't care. I'm sexy like Picard."
Words of a true hero
Wazabro Gamer got me rolling lmao 😂
Amen
r/brandnewsentence
On God how is that dude not drowning in pussy
I want my partner to be like that
I had a girl walk up to me in high school and say, "You're ugly and I'll never sleep with you". I have no clue who she was.
@yeeeeeeeeeth Yeah. I don't see how that's funny. It really hurt.
@yeeeeeeeeeth girls just get away with everything
@@johnchristina1340 its random and some random bitch told u that. fuck her.
Hey man. Was she wrong, though? Are you good looking and ended up sleeping with her?
@A Walking Dead Man lol. Youre funny if you think the school system would suspend a girl over something like that.
my girlfriend dumped me so i broke her wheelchair, guess who came crawling back?
I've never heard that one before! How am i the first like?
tinbanger66 I've heard it beford
Uhhh god damn i scared my dog when i laughed, now i gave to find him
Bro that's messed up
She can't stand up for herself
It’s supposed to be “so I stole her wheel chair”
"You're such a good man, you're just not smart enough to find the right girl."
As someone who's insecure about their competence of the outside world, this hurt so much.
Wow that hurts
She just made you more insecure…
this would hurt me (as a girl), sorry dude hope life gets better after this
My then wife said "i no longer find you attractive, im interested in other men and i consider you a room mate" nice huh...well, I didn't even know there was a problem til my nephew msg me and asked "did you get a divorce?" I replied "no, why would I get divorced?" He replied back "because your wife is posting single status on her facebook"
Jesus Christ, hope you’re doing well
@@tomveloso6231 exactly
I hope you kicked her out on Christmas Eve and gambled away any money in any joint account, up to the mortgage so that all she got was debt.
@rocky night well, as part of the divorce agreement, we alternate years filing for the child tax credit, so in 2019 it was my turn to get the child credit, then, when the stimulus checks came around, bc the irs went by the 2019 return, so I got an additional $600 and banked $1200...which I guess is a small win...and my daughter is 16 now so my ex has to live with that drama and that's a win too
@@jameswillis1742 is good to hear that you did not get the short end of the stick compared to so many other men who had gone through the same process.
“You mustn’t argue with women”
-My aunt
I never wanted to punch someone so much in my life
Can't argue with emotions, only logic...
@@RealAryanGupta True dat. True dat
Can't argue with stupid
To punch with a chainsaw
Dew it
girls: why won't guys open up about their feelings and be more vulnerable?
also girls:
Very original
@@observantmagic4156 that's a very original callout
women dont owe men anything
@@pussie6179 What do you mean by that?
Does it ever occur to you people that maybe the girls who say that aren't the same ones who'd do what these girls in the video did? Food for thought.
My high school crush told me, "Nobody would ever love a thing like you."
Snatched my self esteem, confidence, everything... That was over 11 years ago... Still rings in my head whenever I get rejected.
Dude r we the same person??
Hope karma bit her in the ass, can’t stand toxic/abusive people like that
Girls like a backup guy when in a relationship. They're terrified of being single for even one second. Those types, most pathetic people ever.
Oh, that is evil! There are dudes like that too, I think.
@@kokorodokidoki6437 there are, I know
LMAO 😂
How so? Sounds better than being forever alone.
@@MrCmon113 being alone is a lot better than being with a toxic person
Girl: “Is it in yet?”
Guy: “hello darkness, my old friend
I've come to talk with you again...”
Just say I don't know then she'll see
If its that bad just use a extra finger 😂😂😂
kevo300 or hand
*I still see your shadows in my room*
There’s no PP left for this move.
I wasn't dating this girl, we just knew each other through technical training for the military. We had talked a good bit over the weeks we were there. One day, I sat by my friend to eat. She was sitting across from us. I forget how we got to this point, but she looked at me and had said "You're the monotone of personalities. There's literally nothing special about you." She laughed like she was being funny, but my friend could tell that it really bothered me. That happened 3 years ago and I'll never forget it. Made it a point to try to make my personality stand out from then on. Took me a few weeks of soul searching to figure out who tf I was. Words can cut deep sometimes.
There’s always that one guy among your friends that knows exactly when your really hurt, as much as a hate it I guess that’s when you know he’s real anyways hope everything’s better for you now
She said this much to you and you said nothing? Damn. That's being too nice.
"I cant keep the baby cause it'll ruin my body"
There hasn't been a single thing any girl can say that hurts me since
I'm really sorry to hear that. People should never ever hurt you, that unfortunately some people are just like that. Please don't bring yourself down, please don't be hard on yourself. We mustn't punish ourselves for something someone else did. I also used to have low self esteemed, but when I looked in the mirror, I definitely didn't hate what I saw. I smiled at myself and said if I think I look beautiful, then I don't care what anyone else thinks! Thank God, Alham du lilah I have been an optimistic person and it's always helped me. So I want you to do it as well, please don't distrust people, because not everyone is like that. In Sha Allah I hope you are married to a wonderful woman one day, one that will never make you feel bad and be there for you! Then In Sha Allah, you should also be there for her as well. Please be hopeful! That's awesome that you are working on your career, self respect is the way to go! Mash Allah
"I'm surprised you aren't an axe murderer." ~Mom
Always fun when your creator thinks of you as a mistake.
Yesterday my mother said that I am a whore
@@es-rh8oo Comeback +100
@@es-rh8oo Whoa whoa you gotta ask 'em if they have another house first! That fire's going to burn the house down!
@@yuul7178 break away from the toxicity in your life. Work harder than you've ever imagined to find your independence and embrace healthy habits. You'd be surprised where you can go in life. Take it from someone who has been in shitty situations before.
@@es-rh8oo lmao
No one:
Girls: I want a guy that’s 6ft or taller, goes to the gym, salary of $200k, has time to spend with me, funny, good looking.
Boys: I want a girl that’s not overweight
Girls: Wait that’s illegal *:O*
Just spoke with the CEO of women, hashed some things out. Should be seeing fewer cases of that going forward.
I know that it's inevitable that there will be superficial jerks. And I know it's not nice to be a superficial jerk. But can we at least be consistent on whether or not it's ok to call out a superficial jerk? Or act frustrated that everyone you're interested in seems to be a superficial jerk? Plenty of people talk about how bad judging women for their looks are, but if a guy gets upset at a woman/women for judging how he looks, he's sexist, apparently.
I just want SOMEONE anyone god I’m so alone
TRUTH.
Trueee
Being stood up and ghosted can hurt the toughest guy.
facts, especially when you put a lot of thought and planning into it, do nothing wrong, and get stood up with no explanation/no communication for absolutely no reason. pain is unmatched because even though it was unprovoked you’ll still blame yourself.
“maybe i wasn’t good enough.”
Agreed. It’s even more fun when you learn she ran off and started dating a friend of yours. It’s worse if they’re in proximity acting like nothing has changed.
Hearing “we like each other” would’ve hurt much less than the prolonged confusion, rejection and deception.
3:19 " women knows how to uncover men's deepest insecurities and pulverized their self esteem" because of how conceited they can really be. That's very terrible and very destructive for others to deal with those kind of women, especially how much they care for this person.💔
This sums up a typical males experience pretty well. There is always someone "better" than you, and nothing is good enough. So just focus on yourselves and be you. A lot of these girls we let hurt us aren't worth it in the first place.
Im not in a relationship and never have been yet and I always feel like im not good enough to actually be in one
@@spicybbqchicken
If there's anything I've learned from relationships, it's that you have to learn to love yourself before others can love you. Just do what makes you happy (without hurting others obviously) and make yourself the best person you can be. Someone you're proud to be and someone who those around you are proud to know. Once you have that, just be confident and don't sell yourself short. It can be scary and intimidating, but you can do it. Start small by making friends, and go from there. Don't forget to love yourself, and don't let anyone take that away from you.
@@TheSnoopKat Thank you so much. That advice will help me.
Same for girls. There's a lot of heartless people out there. Best to love yourself first, even if it's hard.
@@Bunn77 For sure. Sorry, my comment was a little one-sided.
My personal worst:
"The only reason we're still together is because the sex is good."
I felt like an object.
Rosen Kostov I’ll take it
If that’s your worst why are you here lol
Objectification is only cool when they do it bro🤷♂️
But hey the sex was good am I right
Thats isnt that bad. At least you didnt get cheated and hey, free pussy
After 5 years of dating “you are the perfect boyfriend for me but I just don’t love you I’ve never loved you I only said it because you did” great times
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Well...when they're indoctrinated to think love is feelings and rainbows, of course she'll say that. Love is commitment, has and will not have anything to do with feelings and rainbows... its a verb, not a feeling..
Preach
עבדיהו בן חכמה
I had a GF who told me I "talk too much" or acts bored when I talk about things I'm passionate about. This might not seem much. But for a very introverted person like me it has a very significant impact especially cause I view her as a saint among men for getting with me despite my looks lol, so hearing it from her made me sad. I learned later on that she cheated on me and only chose to be my gf is because no one else picks me and that somehow fascinates her. Anyway her words stuck with me to this day and even ruins my relationships sometimes cause I find it hard to share or talk about anything cause I'm afraid what I say isnt really important and nobody wants to hear it anyway.
Screw that girl, she wasn't for you. There are people out there who will he interrested by what you have to say, that includes woman
I feel you brother
Sounds like she’s a narcissist. It’s like you’re talking about my husband, except for the cheating part. Don’t give her that power and be careful not to fall for another narc. There are good people out there :)
I've seen a lot of these kind of girls often end up being the ones saying "Why can't I find a good man?"
Frfr
Serves them right
There was a girl that I really liked and was on good terms at least. When I invited her to a date, she yelled:
"AS IF I'D HANG OUT WITH A DISGUSTING PIECE OF LARD LIKE YOU!"
Yes. She said this In front of the entire class and the whole school heard about the rejection.
For Pete's sake, a simple "No" would've suffice.
F
Dude, believe me, she unintentionally did you a favor and showed you her real side. You deserve a girl that would appreciate all the nice stuff you'd do for her, not that pathetic excuse of a human.
@@leonecartelremastered3020 Don't worry, bro, I've gotten a real girlfriend a few years later and we'll be celebrating 4 years of dating by January.
@@mqfii8992 Glad to hear this my dude. That actually, unironically, gives me hope, though I'm still quite sceptical XD
@@leonecartelremastered3020 No worries. I only started dating after turning 18.
There's always hope, as you grow older and wiser.
So back when i was in high school, i wasn't meeting any sucess with girls regardless of the fact that i wasn't necessarily bad looking. I was just introverted as hell and never felt the need to interact with girls on a more personal level. So that one day i was with a group of friends and some other people playing boardgames and one of the girls starts talking to me and brings the GF subject on the table. She didn't put any filter on her words and proceeded to tell me in front of my friends that i'm the type to end up being 25yo and still virgin. I didn't answer because i hate confrontations, but boy believe me i've never wanted to RKO someone this hard in my life. Being called out on a sensitive subject ? By a girl ? In front of 7 of your friends ? That was tough to handle ...
Fast foward a few years later, i'm 24 and still haven't had any experience, due to me setting way too many personal boundaries. And everytime i think about the situation i'm in, i can't help but hear the sound of my friends laughing at me 10 years ago... Thanks a lot bitch
What a bitch!
" if all girls I Meet are like you then yeah, ill stay a virgin thank you"
You'll meet a nice (introverted?) girl like you one day. Though the catch is, you have to initiate the interaction. Something not easy for an introvert. But worth it.
I rather be a 25 year old virgin than a 25 year old whore. These girls nowadays been run through more than a train station. Plus a lot of girls like that have nothing to offer but there looks and they end up being pump and dumps for the rest of their lives. Single mom with 3 kids, then looking for the chump they disrespected before to take care of their kids. Dont worry. You'll get the last laugh. Just stay in great shape. Get a good job. And in your 30's they will all come back to you. Then the roles will be reversed
I wouldn't be too worried about it mate, it happens when it happens, everyone is different. You're not missing out on much anyway trust me, it's not all its cracked up to be. You won't enjoy it as much as you thought you would, it's like is this is it? Type of feeling. That was the case for me anyway. Pretty empty feeling after it alot of the time. Don't put the pussy on a pedastil, honestly, it ain't all that pal. Much better feelings in life that you've probably experienced already.
I am shocked and speechless, hearing these examples of utmost rudeness and malignity, spoken so lightly.
I hope the people who had to hear this, managed to get over it and live a happy life now.
After 7 years of relationship.
Her: Sorry, I'm into your friend.
damn i felt that 😭
Was your friend a real one?
@@BushidoBrownSama He's literally one of my best friend.
@@OnePiece-fy2kt are yall still on best friend terms?
@@minju7624 well at first, I did hate them. But, time heals everything and we live in different cities now, so never come accross each other path again. If i'll meet them probably just as normal friends since I don't feel hatred or anger anymore.
"If you have trust issues with me then thats your problem" after I caught her ass cheating.... twice after she "promised" she wont do it again
So I told her I need some fresh air and drove home and left her at the national park
ghost her those people are not worth saving
you didnt please her lmao
hope it was gate to the arctic national park
@@brandon9635 nah bro, *Turn her into a ghost*
@@pussie6179 in that case, she should've broken up with him 😑
"Women know how to uncover a man's deepest insecurities, and pulverize their self esteem."
Crowned One I guess hearing things from another guy doesn’t hurt as much as hearing it from a female.
D T because it’s banter and we don’t mean it and men would never use it against eachother. When push comes to shove however girls figure out our deepest darkest secrets and use them against us and laugh it off.
And the bad thing about it is that no one does anything to defend guys who go through this kind of shit. Girls all get together with pitchforks when a guy says something about a girls body, but reverse the roles and everyone laughs it off and let’s the victim sit there in shame.
Me, a girl: *hears a girl insult an innocent man*
Me to the girl: *Buenos Dias Fuckboy*
You call a girl "fuckboy"?
SidheKnight yeah I’m lost. Probs a les
When I was about 17, I was dating a group of three friends. They all eventually broke up with me for varying levels of stupid reasons:
"You don't spend enough money when we hang out"
"You always hang out with your friends during school"
"I always have to wait on you when we go out"
None of these things really bothered and I shrugged it off. About a year later, I get a job and one of my coworkers, coincidentally, was dating one of the girls from this friend group. Me and him start talking during the slow hours of work and he revealed that they all made a private group chat and we're trying to figure out how they could break up with me in such a way that I wouldn't feel comfortable around women anymore. I never trusted a woman ever again, but me and the guy became good friends and he eventually broke up with that girl some months later.
they are a team...
wow.
Nooo bro, if you don't trust any women anymore than that means they achieved their goal. Fuck'em
I got called a “Horse” for having a big nose
But I turned her insult back and asked her to Ride me Because IM A HORSE
Ah good times
She didn’t ride me
"I can't ride you because I don't do that to dogs"
😂😂😂
@@christoraffabello8847
no one:
girl: insults guy
everyone: ooh get roastes by a girl man
guy: insults them back
everyone: SOMEONE CALL THE COPS.
@@giannis5868 ALWAYS, fuck.
@@giannis5868 this girl was bullying my friend (doesn't get in trouble)
I reply to her go suck a pp (my punishment: detention)
“I started a new game on your save file”
bruh
MrDaol23 I was devastated man
"I'm breaking up with you"
Throw away the whole girlfriend
Lesson learnt; for every single game, make a backup in case gf fucks something up.
Thanks bro, you just saved a man in the very rare likelihood that my future girlfriend would mess up my video games.
"You're too short"
Shes 4 9 and I'm 5 11 1/2
WTF. She's stupid. You are tall, dude.
I officially give up on women
im a man and im 5'0
@@riichan2895 Holy moly. Maybe you should look for dwarf women at this point.
@@MrCmon113 well im only 14 tho, im probably still growing (idk why i called my self a "man")
"Woman, do you expect me to believe a white woman and an irishman would form a Mullato baby."
Shit had me dying from laughter
Girl : “ how tall r u?”
Guy : “why?”
Girl : “i only like guys above 6,1”
Guy :” oh okay, im 6,2. Btw how much do u weigh”
Girl :”why”
Guy :” i only like girls under 140”
Girl :”OmG R u SeRiOUsssss!”
oh the double standards how i hate them
internetguy hey not everyone is like that 🙁
@Fax Printer its scary how many people are like that
If girls want to call us short, we could call them tall, short, or fat. Modern problems require modern solutions
They want guys to be perfect, but when we're looking for our standards in a girl they have a huge problem with that. *Not all females are like ofcourse..just some.*
*Maybe he's pretty!*
_~takes a closer look_
*Non.*
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Luckily, I would have known how to defend myself in a situation like that by effectively insulting them as "putes". Always good to know how to insult people in other languages
*non*
OOooOOF
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I was gonna ask this girl to homecoming, so i tried to play it smooth and asked her "hey do you know how much homecoming tickets are?" and she straight up goes "sorry, i have a boyfriend" so i just say "ok good for you, i was wondering if you knew how much they cost?" she got a little embarrassed but that's how u play off rejection fellas
@Blamer Blaze Something similar happened to me. Though I had been having a really shitty day so my response was "Do you want a medal or something?"
Why would you "play off" rejection ? Its part of life, and a man has to get used to it, as women never let on they appreciate you anymore. Oh, wait ... are you a "soy boy" whose feminine "feelings" are hurt ? Well then ... okay ... play your feminine games.
@@Oldclimber1 Projecting much?
@@Oldclimber1 oH LoOk At mE. I tOTaLly dEsPiSE YoU cAuSe YoU CaN'T SuPPrEsS YoUr FeElinGs. YoU'Re SuPpOSeD tO GO tHrOuGH iT.
GuYs aREn'T sUpPosE tO ExPreSs
tHeIR eMoTiOnS caUsE tHeY dON't mAtTEr.
That's you, that's what you sound like.
God tier
When I was in grade 7, I was known as the shortest kid in class. I was literally 4'1 and I'm not even joking. I started up a convo with a friend and an actually good looking girl and I was telling them how sleeping is boring as I usually just stay up on my phone and pull all-nighter out of boredom. The girl then said, maybe that's why you're so short. I wasn't that upset about it I was just shocked because that's the first time I've ever heard her insult someone and it was just so perfect.
Maybe she didn’t mean to offend you
Seriously, tho. Did you drink lots of coffee to get through the day?
"Why does there always have to be a problem, you're like a movie"
I had just left my abusive home and was being forced to leave the state and the only friends I'd ever had. I switched to online school and had ZERO human contact. I was dealing with my dying grandfather. She broke up with me after I told her about how I was molested as a child. I'd also recently been fired.
oh thats awful. Trust God and he will make a way. u wont notice it but everything will be alright
I know it's probably very hard, I have had several friends who had been molested by people they had deeply trusted, and were very hurt. And I had stood by to see them fall into depression and anxiety feeling they could never be loved or appreciated, even though I know they can be. That woman was a *********** ******** ***** ****** ******* to you, don't listen, you don't deverse that ********, and hopefully, everything will be okay :]
Thats cold. You deserve someone that will cheer you up not bring you down. You delt through enough of that already.
Ey bro hope you're doing better and also hope you'll get through your struggles
@@riichan2895 god is fake
"You treat me worse than your parents treat each other."
My parents have been divorced for 15 years, still hate each other, and used to wake me up to force me to listen to voicemails, tell me they were going to make me testify against the other in court, and made me the messenger for about 7 years to basically use me as a tool to tell the other how much they hated each other. She knew all that and told me I treated her worse than that. What did I do? I broke up with her ASKING ME to let her cheat on me with a girl and hanging out with a dude who used to abuse her and just generally being a shitty person. And I did it very respectfully and didn't shit talk her to our shared friends. Threw my mental health back about 10 years
Now then 5 years later I have a loving wonderful smokeshow wife without a ton of emotional baggage who helps me carry mine when I need and has helped me unpack a lot of it. Supports my dreams and pushes me to be a better man every day. Keep up hope gentlemen. The goods ones are still out there
@@MrYutbe57
Never share your insecurities with any girl as they tend to use it against you in the first argument.
Hey kinda late but congratulations on finding a great wife and being happy. I wish you and your family the best!
@@goatfish480 Well thank you very much! We actually found out we are gonna have a baby right after I made this comment! Baby girl! Can't wait for her to get here!
hey! i know im late but i just wanna say youre a really strong person and good on you for finding a woman worthy of spending your golden years with!! wishing you and your wife a happy family life and all the best!
That last one was actually pretty good. The pure horror on her face must’ve been golden
@@moistheathen148 Evasion - 100
Back when I was a teenager one of my classmates joked that if a girl ever had relationship with me she has to be autistic or some sort of mental disorder.
As a teenager these words really hit hard as they shattered my self confidence and I started to stay more conscious around girls , how I behaved ,how I walked, how I talked I was always on my guard, so I couldn't have a normal free friendly conversation for this reason which made the situation more awkward.
So after some time after seeing things not getting any better I started to avoid talking to girls even with my friends, this continued to 3 years until I went to college. I made some really good friends and memories in with guy and girlfriends alike.
Some girls even tried to approach me and I was really happy for that but I don't why in my mind those words would play back and I would always think what if I'm not good enough for her, what if she criticized for having a relationship with a guy like me, maybe there is something wrong with me for having thoughts like this.
So for this reason I couldn't get in a relationship because of my own mental hinderences.
Back to the the present now as a 23 year old adult I'm more busy thinking about how to build my career but if love ever knocks on my door this time I would be very happy to answer 😅😊
Sorry about blabbing on about so much 🙏
I'm really sorry to hear that. People should never ever hurt you, that unfortunately some people are just like that. Please don't bring yourself down, please don't be hard on yourself. We mustn't punish ourselves for something someone else did. I also used to have low self esteemed, but when I looked in the mirror, I definitely didn't hate what I saw. I smiled at myself and said if I think I look beautiful, then I don't care what anyone else thinks! Thank God, Alham du lilah I have been an optimistic person and it's always helped me. So I want you to do it as well, please don't distrust people, because not everyone is like that. In Sha Allah I hope you are married to a wonderful woman one day, one that will never make you feel bad and be there for you! Then In Sha Allah, you should also be there for her as well. Please be hopeful! That's awesome that you are working on your career, self respect is the way to go! Mash Allah
i'm autistic, 28 and dead inside. dating is over for me
"Sir, the Library will close in 15 minutes. Please start heading to the check out."
Soul crushing. No matter how many times I hear it.
Lmao
Homelessness sucks
Can sadly relate.
@TheBuragi Nope.
@@fleurnoire9842 oh my god your comment make me choke on my soda
Happened to me
Crush: “You’re like my gay friend that’s straight”
Me: “oh”
What was that supposed to mean?
@@diceyDA sorry man, F
The Ping Panther That means he's basically her gay friend, even though he's straight. Letting him know there's no chance for the puss in other words.
F
F
No-one:
Literally not a single soul :
Robot voice : Fassebuk
French girl: "There's someone there"
Other French girl: "Pyut-hatter all est jolly"
Tl;doctor
Feisbuk
I was 17 and taking a Psychology class in High School. For some reason the teacher had the class do an exercise in which the guys would rate the girls and the girls would rate the guys on, "attractiveness and if they thought he or she would make for a good relationship" on a scale of 1-10. The class divided up, there were about 9 girls and 7 guys. Some of these girls I knew for years going back to Junior High or longer. I was rated a 2, that burned. As the day went on 6 of the girls came up to me and said, "I didn't think you deserved a 2 but everyone else did and I didn't want to say anything," that is what really got to me. Glad I wasn't on trial and needed some of them for character witnesses. I was like WTF, after all this time none of you would say one nice thing about me? A couple of these girls were going to get low scores as well but I had spoken up for them and got their scores raised. That was the day I learned to always speak up for yourself because no one else will and no good deed goes unpunished.
I would have refused to do that challenge
@@theapexfighter8741 He said later that it was not a good idea to have done that. I sometimes wonder what would have happened if the scores were done anonymously.
"How would you feel if I slept with someone else? Because I did."
3 years later and that one still stings.
Slap her.
Look at the bright side , she at least told you and you didn't went for years or weeks without knowing right? If that's not the case I'm sorry someone did that to you. You deserve better.
trash took itself out
Burn her clothing please.
My ex boyfriend said that to me. I know how you feel Dx
I dated a hot popular girl in high school. And something that was heart grinding was that A LOT of people would hit me with this
"I mean why would she date you, I mean "look" at you"
Honestly it was a really irritating thing I had to deal with
Dude they probably just jealous
Just answer "then what's your excuse? "
@@sitikhasanah5677 exactly
My friends at a party set me up with a cheerleader (who I wasnt into originally anyway) and we started talking for a bit. Toward the end of getting to know each other she told me that I reminded her of her autistic brothers. Pretty wild stuff bruh
“I’m just not into black guys....it sucks that the only thing wrong is something I have no ability to change”
Michael Jackson has entered the chat
EDIT: to everyone who has commented that he had vitiligo and to all the people who are about comment the same thing, let me spell it out for you: I T W A S A J O K E. I’m well aware of his condition, but it was a stupid joke. So if you find yourself about to call me stupid or a moron or an asshole, STOP and ask yourself “is this really worth my time?” And if the answer is “yes”, consider getting a life where you have better things to do than go after a random internet stranger who you’ll never meet in real life.
Oh no, you didn't just... 😂
Oh yes hee heee did
I heard he changed his skin color for medical reasons, not because he was racist tho.
@@illyGalSloth he had vitiligo, a condition in which your outer skin starts peeling off and only the inner layer stays intact (and much tougher to compensate), so your skin gets lighter in tone
@@kelving420 Oh, I see now. I was kinda right then. Thanks for the info!
I was 23 yo. I finally worked up the nerve to ask out a girl i liked. "What on earth made you think I would ever go out with you" She said it loud too. Her girlfriends were all laughing. I held back the tears until I got in my car and just ugly cried. Good times. lol
Bullet dodged my friend. I hope karma bites her in the ass and she gets rejected the same way lol
Yup, 5’4 here. Being short is a death sentence in dating.
And the worst ones are the girls shorter than you.
‘I really wish I had a boyfriend like you in every way. Just....not you.’ 😑
James Baker don’t give up. I’m 5’4” and my boyfriend is 5’5”. You might just have to find someone who cares more about you personally.
Or have money? I hear that attracts pussy.
I think it's weird tbh. Like yes tall dudes are hot, but the nice thing about short dudes is that when you're standing close to him, it's easier to go for a hug, look into his eyes/at his face, kiss, etc. Like damn I can't imagine thinking a guy is perfect in every way but turning him down because he's short.
And in the 7th day god made beer and drugs and it was good.
Being short is not a problem, your just ugly and gay.
Ghetto Gothics was that a filthy frank reference?
"You're so skinny dating you would be like dating another girl."
damn ouch
There are actually a lot of girls who prefer skinny guys to guys with muscles lol keep your head high
And i thought wouldn't feel more insecure about my skinny ass body, PAIN😔
@@idkidk3424 really 😔
Omg sorry dude
Was told, "I don't want to talk to you." at the beginning of a big group project in high school. After hearing that, as the group leader and a cruel bastard, I shifted the majority of the work onto me and the other 2 (who were close friends). At the end of the project we each had to turn in a copy of what each of us did. Since she had a third of what the rest of us did, she received an F for the project.
It was not that serious, but if she ended up getting an f she made an attempt not to do it, welp.
Baited
r/outstandingmove
You vindicated fuck. Major props.
Yeah two wrongs make a right. Great job buddy.
"You turn gay men straight and straight women lesbian"
This happened during my 8th grade history class and this girl realized I’m bi and we later on had a heated argument because I was being """annoying""" (I’m known to be quiet like all the time) and that’s when she said the quoted line above in front of god and everyone. I’ve had ZERO love life and hearing that just absolutely shattered my self esteem, heart, you name it.
Her: he needs to be 6ft tall have a six pack and make six figures and be super hot
Also her: 🐳
@Firing Tank
Whares?
if hes not 50 shades of gray he better learn how to be gay! -womenz
reminds me of the priest who said girls want 666
Don’t wanna like cuz it’s at 420 but I rlly want to
Guys say they want girls who aren't fat but i had I crush on a guy and he rejected me (anf im not fat) and started spreading rumors about me and now people avoid me
"You're hung-"
Well at least he's got something going fo-
*"like a baby"*
CRITICAL HIT
Or she's got the grand canyon between her legs.
Take your pick lmao.
Halo shield low noise plays
EarFarce4 the Grand Canyon lol. you could be 9 inches but after a break up a girl would say you u were small.
“I want a boyfriend just like you. Just not... you.”
GOD...DAMMIT!
@@droopymccool531 damn I feel ya
Funny because they are the biggest teases. Become your best friend. And almost make it 100% obvious they are into you. The moment you try to make a move it's like you are the most disgusting person they've ever met. From my experience, Girls dont know how to properly reject a man.
Don't judge by appearance
"Bitch what the fuck you mean you want someone like me but someone who isn't me, just say you don't fucking want me. We men prefer simple, to-the-point statements. No need to overcomplicate."
I was in a relationship for 6.5 years. I did everything for her, tried to be the best man I could be. Then one day she told me she was pregnant. I was happy about it. It was a really shitty moment to happen but I thought: no worries, we'll deal with it and all will be allright. I was looking forward to become a father and after a month she confessed to me also out of the blue: she lied about being pregnant just to see how I would react hoping I would freak out so she could end the relationship. That moment I felt something breaking inside of me. Not only did she break my heart with this, I also had to deal with the loss of a fictitious child I never had. Then I cried for the first time in years. I've seen a lot of death but that was too much for me. I packed her stuff and threw her out in the middle of the night. No regrets!
It's like those people who pretend to be terminal to test their friends. YEET!
She was a coward and she lacked empathy. She didn't want to feel like she was a bad person for breaking up with you so she created a situation where you would have to end the relationship and be the bad guy. But her lie backfire it was well deserved
God what a lunatic, a freaking monster, good for you man. God that would gutted me.
I remember being buddied up with a girl in Spanish class to do some tasks. She turned around to me and said with the most malice "You're a rat" 7 years on and for some reason, those words still stick.
Some people are just complete assholes
If this makes you feel better, you are a very cute rat, a very nice rat that would bring pizza to their loved ones kind of nice
:D
Don’t worry bro. You’re like Remy from Ratatouille. Looking like a normal rat but in reality someone who’s special.
Plot twist: she loved rats
Btw I love rats and that would be a nice thing to say.
Well than you're Khabib and she's Connor
PS: Ignore her
The I'm glad I had a miscarriage one. That is brutal. That's probably the worst thing to say to anybody in that situation
Only thing good in that situation is that the kid didn’t have to grow up with a mother like that.
@@Acidreflux0000 yeah true
Me to crush: “Hey I think I have feelings for you”
Crush to me: “I literally can’t comprehend being with you, the thought of cuddling with you with you hurts me mentally”
Crush to me: *goes off on me for 5 minutes telling me how I’m not relationship material*
Fuck them. You deserve better, bruh
Neverlandia Shit I never looked at it like that 😂
Hey man if she was that willing to rant about you. You didnt doge a bullet you doged a cannon
Fuck them, that's horrible.
"I think I no longer have feelings for you, nor will most people when they find out how you really are"
One time I was walking down a park, two girls were walking past me, as soon as I walked past them I heard them say, would you have gone out with that guy in the blue t shirt ( yes I was wearing a blue t shirt) and then I hear a “no he is too ugly”. I am already very insecure, and for that to happen hurt me a lot.
I'm really sorry to hear that. People should never ever hurt you, that unfortunately some people are just like that. Please don't bring yourself down, please don't be hard on yourself. We mustn't punish ourselves for something someone else did. I also used to have low self esteemed, but when I looked in the mirror, I definitely didn't hate what I saw. I smiled at myself and said if I think I look beautiful, then I don't care what anyone else thinks! Thank God, Alham du lilah I have been an optimistic person and it's always helped me. So I want you to do it as well, please don't distrust people, because not everyone is like that. In Sha Allah I hope you are married to a wonderful woman one day, one that will never make you feel bad and be there for you! Then In Sha Allah, you should also be there for her as well. Please be hopeful! That's awesome that if you are working on your career, self respect is the way to go! Mash Allah