The reason I was thinking about getting a promise ring wasn't because of marriage. We are almost 8,000 miles part from each other in different continents. The promise ring will be a physical reminder of us and that one day we will be together. At this moment, we are not looking to get married, just going about our lives on step at a time.
I know me and my girlfriend are going to get married and I’m in high school. And no, I’m not blinded by love or a dumb teenager, but I do know this much. She knows we will too. This is giving me a lot of help so thanks very much
I feel that you had some really good points I also feel that people give promise rings as an 'I promise to love you forever' type thing. I am not going to lie I feel like you will always love someone weather you break up or not. I know some friendships even that no longer exist but that doesn't mean I love them any less. My boyfriend currently is my first boyfriend but some of the things I feel will never go away. Somewhere I read a quote that said you never stop loving somebody you just end up finding somebody you love more.
I am about to be a freshman in college and I am only 17. I feel like promise rings are a good idea for people who are too young to get engaged but still want to be completely committed to each other. Obviously I am too young to be married and financially is a bad idea so I feel like it's a good idea. what are your thoughts on my situation
Why do you need a symbol of commitment? Engagement rings are a symbol of an engagement. Wedding bands are a symbol of marriage. Promise rings are in a weird spot because they "promise" that you are ready to be serious but not ready to be serious enough to get engaged. My thoughts at least.
@@chasesnyder12 some people are in a weird spot of waiting for that season of engagement but not being able to get there soon due to many reasons. Whether it’s financial setbacks, wanting to finish college, etc. A promise ring can be used for when you two are not ready to get married (which doesn’t make you less serious) but want to show your commitment that one day you two will get engaged and married to one another. It’s perfect for those who are serious for one another but are unable to get engaged at that very moment for whatever reason! It’s a sweet moment nonetheless if the couple do end up married haha.
@@76ersfan4life3 Great question! That is sorta my logic here. A marriage ring doesn't hold any power for commitment. It is a symbol. If a man loses his wedding ring he is still married because he is committed. A married couple doesn't have to wear a wedding ring. A promise ring gets into this weird spot because it promises a small amount of commitment without promising full commitment. A promise ring is normally given because someone is promising that they love the other person and wants to one day get married - which is the purpose of an engagement ring. I know there are other reasons people give promise rings but I think it is dangerous to pledge commitment when someone isn't ready to be committed (because of age, life stage, finances, etc.).
For real. When I hear about a promise ring I hear this statement in my head, "I promise that I will one day make a bigger commitment to you but I just can't right now."
I got a promise ring 💍 for Valentine’s Day from my boyfriend this year it has our names on it and our brith stones on it our brith stones are both emeralds because our birthdays are both in May I love it it’s very beautiful emerald is a very beautiful stone to have on a promise ring 💍 im turning 32 this year and my boyfriend is turning 29 this year we both live with our parents and we both have autism he has a job but it doesn’t pay very well I love my promise ring 💍 and my boyfriend so much
I'm still in highschool, my girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years and I know I am going marry her. I plan on giving her a promise ring but this video caught my eye and now I wonder if I should or not. I mean we always talk about the future and how we'll get through college together. Though I asked her about how she's always talked about not wanting to get married... her answer was because she scared of what getting married stands for, she thinks it means you have to have kids and she's scared that they'd end up like her, disabled. At tat moment... I felt something... I felt like I needed to protect her for the rest of my life... and I plan to do just that. I know the point of this video was to get people to not get promise rings, but I just have to... I love her so much and because I'm so young, I can't exactly get an engagement ring. Anyway... this video kinda had the opposite effect on me than what it should have, I still thank you for making this. It kinda opened my eyes and me realize I needed to get a promise ring for her. I'll be back once I do to let yall know how it went... maybe.
I got a promise ring for Valentine’s Day from my boyfriend im turning 32 this year and he’s turning 29 this year and we been talking about getting married one day be we don’t have the money to do that right now so he got me a promise ring 💍 it has both of our names on it and both of our birth stones on it our brith stones are both emerald because our birthdays are both in May emerald is a very beautiful stone to put on a promise ring 💍
Great Video Man! My girlfriend brought up the idea of promise rings and I immediately denied the idea and said it was unnecessary. However, because of my devoted passion to make her happy, Ive been looking into getting one. We have been together almost 3 years and we are both 22 years of age coming out of college (i just graduated). I am in no shape ready to get married because I cant even take cafe of and fully support myself yet (live at parents house). We want to move in together once she gradates but I want her to know that I want to be her husband one day but am not ready to get engaged yet. Thank you for your opinions in this video and thank you for giving me a different perspective about relationships as a whole. Stay Blessed brother!
What if me and my girlfriend have been going out for 11 months This Valentine’s Day making it our one year.? She’s always been talking about us getting married and having kids so I might want to get her a promise ring for our one year
Are you ready to make a commitment for marriage? If so, consider getting engaged. If you are not ready to make that commitment I would suggest that you not give her a promise ring to promise something that you aren't sure that you are committed to do.
Lol don’t listen to him, promise rings were made for a reason, its a nice gesture. Engagement is so much more of a bigger deal then he’s making it, especially when you’re young and poor and want those moments to be special. He “ Just get engaged” like after this video if you don’t get engaged to your girl you don’t love her, a promise ring just holds that commitment until the bigger moment of proposing don’t listen to what he’s saying if you know it’ll make your girl happy, go for it!
@@chasesnyder12 Also make sure you mention the prices of a nice wedding ring, and the venue, those are expensive for a college kid in love but poor, since that’s so easy to do in your eyes
i have been dating my current long distance girlfriend for a year or so now and we are getting a promise ring as nothing but a promise of we'll see each other one day. i think having a physical reminder of that is more powerful then just a mental note
I know a 60-year-old man who gave a promise ring without explaining if it was a promise ring or an engagement ring. He is still available, if anyone wants him. Good video.
I kind of disagree. My boyfriend and I are just graduating highschool so I think a promise ring is good for younger couples who cant get engaged yet. My parent's approval is kinda important to me before we get engaged and we know they aren't ready to say yes yet. A promise ring would let us feel committed (and also they're pretty) before having to ask my parents yet.
Thanks for the response. My opinion is simply my opinion on this! Sounds like you have a plan to get your parents' input/approval - which is wise to bring other people into a large decision.
Same here, but I'm going to leave the country soon. So, a promise ring would means to us as something to remind each other even though we are countries apart.
What if you are still "too young" to get married or if the time isn't right with what either one is going through but you both know that you guys want to spend your life together. We both want to get married within 3 years after she finishes becoming a doctor. We have that clear, but I want to give her a promise ring showing her that I've never come to love another girl as much as I love her. I also want her to be able to have something to show how committed I am and how I truly love her. What about it?
I maintain that a promise ring can put pressure on the relationship. If you are ready to commit then get an engagement ring and begin planning your marriage. The best way to prove that you love someone is by being faithful. I understand that you want to show her that you care but be careful to to commit to her with a promise ring if you are unable to fully commit to her - even if it is because of your age or stage of life.
@@chasesnyder12 If someone wants to get there girlfriend a promise ring let them, it’s no different then telling your girl how much you love them, rings are good for any occasion birthday, valentines day, anniversary. Its just a ring with a nice gesture at the end of the day. If there’s confusion obviously the couple is immature and not on the same page because as a girl I wouldn’t be upset at all if my bf did this for me, i know he will propose one day in a big way but I’m not forcing it be now just appreciating what i have
Be weary of rushing into a commitment. No one knows how long the pandemic will last - adding a rushed commitment to it will only add stress. Have open conversations with the person you are dating and see where they are at in the relationship.
I think there should be a ring for people who love each other, but don't want to be married. Maybe a forever ring, or the promise ring could stand for that? Idk cause I don't ever see myself wanting to be married, even if I'm with someone all my life, but some way of showing our relationship would be nice.
This video sounds like it’s for people who are emotionally immature. You’re over complicating it. There are reasons why a promise ring would make a lot of sense. Clearly not for some people who are, like I said, immature or yes, financially unstable but you’re making it seem like promise rings are not a good idea overall. Also, who are you to tell people they’re not a good candidate to get married because of how they show commitment? I disagree with pretty much everything you said in this video. If you’re mature enough to understand the actual reason behind the promise ring, then there’s no reason why you shouldn’t go for it. It isn’t a waste of time and not everyone is stingy with their money. Promise rings aren’t even that expensive. Stop being so negative and let people be.
After counseling countless teenagers and college students I've seen few strong relationships that had a promise ring in the mix. In my experience, which this post is all about, promise rings bring confusion instead of clarification for relationships. I maintain the the best way to show commitment is to be committed and a ring is reserved for someone who is ready to get engaged/married. There are various ideas on them. This is just my perspective.
Chase Snyder I agree with the marriage thing. I’d happily propose and be engaged. Because this doesn’t mean you have to get married soon. You can be engaged for years before you’re ready to get married and settle down. But a lot of people don’t see it this way and it can scare someone off. It also can bring uncertainties into that persons life and make the person receiving such ring question if they feel the same and if the other person is being to pushy or feeling more strong towards things. I’ve been talking to a girl for 8 months who’s my best friend. I believe I’ll marry her because we both bounce of each other like no one we have ever met. She just broke up last august and finally cut communication 2 months ago and it’s been hard for her but almost everytime even tho she still loved her ex she chose me. She’s almost over her ex and she’s changed her mind from not wanting a relationship with me to ‘ I’ll tell you when I’m ready I want a relationship now just give me some time’. We both feel the same now but I’d give her a promise ring when she wants to be my girlfriend as a light hearted reminded that I want to marry her and live the rest of my life with her. I’m 19 she’s 18 it’s unrealistic but it’s no impossible. It gives me anxiety all the time because just my thoughts something will happen with no fact behind it to make this not happen occurs in my head all the time and I’m aware this is down to me being insecure. I just think a promise ring isn’t meant to symbolise getting married but just writing down similar aspects and promising them as well as marriage as a way to show how much they mean to you. Women like jewellery so why not include a meaning behind something instead of it just being a piece of metal given by someone. Lots of girls have trust issues and my hopefully soon to be gf has a lot and she was heart broken by her dad before her ex cheated. I just think it’s not bad for all relationships but I understand some of your reasons tho. I’d like any feedback on your opinion to my comment
I feel that a promise ring should be given when you love some one early in the relationship. Plus the man should say exactly why he is giving it to you. This way there is no miss understanding!
What about my situation? We’ve been together for about 3 months, but I’m leaving for college in September she’s still gonna be in high school . So I thought about giving a promise ring to her while I’m off to college and it will be long distance with us but I’ll only possibly see her on weekends. What do you think?
Chase Snyder Well the significance is that I want her to know that when I’m leaving and off to school that I still and always will love her and always be here for and just letting her know I’m not going anywhere. Honestly I want to just get an engagement ring but I feel as if we are way to young and id like to wait a while longer.
I think that’s a sweet idea tbh :) because it gives her something to remind her of you and how much she loves you and also it shows how much you love her
I think my boyfriend is going to give me one soon, he says hes not going to propose, but says this gift will change a lot of things and that it is going to mean a lot. He also says it's not something "huge" but if I care enough it is, and he Hopes I say yes. So sounds like that's what it's going to be. Kind of a weird late birthday present tho lol. I love him so much, and I know we're going to last. I just think the whole idea is very cute, and meaningful, but seriously, if you're not an adult, think about it. A lot can happen, and people change. :) we are still young and we both know we wont get married for a loooong time prob like 10 years, considering we are putting our careers first. I appreciate your opinion but it exists for a reason, and is a way to show people you are committed.
Thanks for sharing, but from the sound of it this seems like a limited commitment (which is why I caution against promise rings) since he says it 'huge" and that you putting your careers before your relationship. I have nothing against pursuing a career, but it is hard to be in a long term relationship with someone when they know you are putting your career before them. I hope the best for your relationship.
I am 65 and my girlfriend is 64. We have agreed it would not be in either of our best interests to get married at this stage of our lives. We have been together now 6 years, and I plan on getting her a friendship ring this October for her birthday. I don’t think this will bring stress to the relationship. I think it will be seen as an act of love 💕.
I am 21 years old but I am not ready to get married yet in most aspects, I'm still in college, work part time but I feel a potentially high chance to stay with my gf I love her so much . is it a wrong move to give her a promise ring?
No it’s not wrong go for it she will love it I got a promise ring 💍 for Valentine’s Day this year from my boyfriend im turning 32 and he’s turning 29 this year it’s a birth stone promise ring 💍 with both of our names on it it’s a very beautiful promise ring 💍
@@cowgirl9925 Well. Everything went pretty smooth. Got her a promise ring back in 2020 then I proposed to her with a real diamond ring a year later so we are engaged now.
I love my girlfriend we have been dating for 4 years now however I want to get engaged but I want to finish college first this is why I want to give her a promise ring first but you have some great points
But why do you have to show "commitment" with a ring? Why isn't the way each person acts in the relationship showing commitment? That is one of my main questions.
@@chasesnyder12 thank you for answering and i dont think it's necessary to buy someone a promise ring becouse like you said it's about how you treat each other in a relationship but the ring can be something to remind her that you have a serious relationship with her and it makes her happy everytime she sees the ring
I gave buy a set of promise rings and I gave one to my boyfriend because I was makeing know I wanted to be with him forever n one day get married to him and then he turn around and gave me a ring that he calling a promise ring I was thinking it was a engagement ring but he said it not
I agree when I was in his my ex gave me one. And we ended up breaking up in the end. And we were in our 20s so we were together for a long time. I think it was just puppy love/love is blind. We were just kids.
The reason I was thinking about getting a promise ring wasn't because of marriage. We are almost 8,000 miles part from each other in different continents. The promise ring will be a physical reminder of us and that one day we will be together. At this moment, we are not looking to get married, just going about our lives on step at a time.
This man has good points to backup his opinion, but remember every relationship is different, and this is just one man's opinion
True, this is just my opinion!
Great preface.
Exactly 🫡🤓
I know me and my girlfriend are going to get married and I’m in high school. And no, I’m not blinded by love or a dumb teenager, but I do know this much. She knows we will too. This is giving me a lot of help so thanks very much
Aww that’s cute good luck bro
The Magic Man you got this man!!
I mean I thought that too lmao
me to😂
I’m 16 and we’ve both agreed to be with each other forever
So gonna get her a promise ring today
I feel that you had some really good points I also feel that people give promise rings as an 'I promise to love you forever' type thing. I am not going to lie I feel like you will always love someone weather you break up or not. I know some friendships even that no longer exist but that doesn't mean I love them any less. My boyfriend currently is my first boyfriend but some of the things I feel will never go away. Somewhere I read a quote that said you never stop loving somebody you just end up finding somebody you love more.
I am about to be a freshman in college and I am only 17. I feel like promise rings are a good idea for people who are too young to get engaged but still want to be completely committed to each other. Obviously I am too young to be married and financially is a bad idea so I feel like it's a good idea. what are your thoughts on my situation
Why do you need a symbol of commitment? Engagement rings are a symbol of an engagement. Wedding bands are a symbol of marriage. Promise rings are in a weird spot because they "promise" that you are ready to be serious but not ready to be serious enough to get engaged. My thoughts at least.
@@chasesnyder12 some people are in a weird spot of waiting for that season of engagement but not being able to get there soon due to many reasons. Whether it’s financial setbacks, wanting to finish college, etc. A promise ring can be used for when you two are not ready to get married (which doesn’t make you less serious) but want to show your commitment that one day you two will get engaged and married to one another. It’s perfect for those who are serious for one another but are unable to get engaged at that very moment for whatever reason! It’s a sweet moment nonetheless if the couple do end up married haha.
@@chasesnyder12 with that same logic couldn't I say "what's the point in a wedding ring?"
Is there a too early point?
@@76ersfan4life3 Great question! That is sorta my logic here. A marriage ring doesn't hold any power for commitment. It is a symbol. If a man loses his wedding ring he is still married because he is committed. A married couple doesn't have to wear a wedding ring. A promise ring gets into this weird spot because it promises a small amount of commitment without promising full commitment. A promise ring is normally given because someone is promising that they love the other person and wants to one day get married - which is the purpose of an engagement ring. I know there are other reasons people give promise rings but I think it is dangerous to pledge commitment when someone isn't ready to be committed (because of age, life stage, finances, etc.).
To me being given a promise ring, is like being in a relationship and wanting a future together...and then getting friend zoned. Just my opinion
For real. When I hear about a promise ring I hear this statement in my head, "I promise that I will one day make a bigger commitment to you but I just can't right now."
I got a promise ring 💍 for Valentine’s Day from my boyfriend this year it has our names on it and our brith stones on it our brith stones are both emeralds because our birthdays are both in May I love it it’s very beautiful emerald is a very beautiful stone to have on a promise ring 💍 im turning 32 this year and my boyfriend is turning 29 this year we both live with our parents and we both have autism he has a job but it doesn’t pay very well I love my promise ring 💍 and my boyfriend so much
I'm still in highschool, my girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years and I know I am going marry her. I plan on giving her a promise ring but this video caught my eye and now I wonder if I should or not. I mean we always talk about the future and how we'll get through college together. Though I asked her about how she's always talked about not wanting to get married... her answer was because she scared of what getting married stands for, she thinks it means you have to have kids and she's scared that they'd end up like her, disabled. At tat moment... I felt something... I felt like I needed to protect her for the rest of my life... and I plan to do just that. I know the point of this video was to get people to not get promise rings, but I just have to... I love her so much and because I'm so young, I can't exactly get an engagement ring.
Anyway... this video kinda had the opposite effect on me than what it should have, I still thank you for making this. It kinda opened my eyes and me realize I needed to get a promise ring for her.
I'll be back once I do to let yall know how it went... maybe.
Please let me know how it goes. Thanks for sharing on here.
How did it go bro, i want an update lol
I got a promise ring for Valentine’s Day from my boyfriend im turning 32 this year and he’s turning 29 this year and we been talking about getting married one day be we don’t have the money to do that right now so he got me a promise ring 💍 it has both of our names on it and both of our birth stones on it our brith stones are both emerald because our birthdays are both in May emerald is a very beautiful stone to put on a promise ring 💍
Great Video Man! My girlfriend brought up the idea of promise rings and I immediately denied the idea and said it was unnecessary. However, because of my devoted passion to make her happy, Ive been looking into getting one. We have been together almost 3 years and we are both 22 years of age coming out of college (i just graduated). I am in no shape ready to get married because I cant even take cafe of and fully support myself yet (live at parents house). We want to move in together once she gradates but I want her to know that I want to be her husband one day but am not ready to get engaged yet. Thank you for your opinions in this video and thank you for giving me a different perspective about relationships as a whole. Stay Blessed brother!
Im the same age and literally exact position as you
Yeah, I feel it will take away from my actual proposal when I'm ready.
Think of it as a ring to promise your love to her? Idk I haven’t watched the video yet but that’s what I think of it
It wont as long as you state exactly what your promise to her is!@Truebrotha
What if me and my girlfriend have been going out for 11 months This Valentine’s Day making it our one year.? She’s always been talking about us getting married and having kids so I might want to get her a promise ring for our one year
Are you ready to make a commitment for marriage? If so, consider getting engaged. If you are not ready to make that commitment I would suggest that you not give her a promise ring to promise something that you aren't sure that you are committed to do.
Lol don’t listen to him, promise rings were made for a reason, its a nice gesture. Engagement is so much more of a bigger deal then he’s making it, especially when you’re young and poor and want those moments to be special. He “ Just get engaged” like after this video if you don’t get engaged to your girl you don’t love her, a promise ring just holds that commitment until the bigger moment of proposing don’t listen to what he’s saying if you know it’ll make your girl happy, go for it!
@@chasesnyder12 Also make sure you mention the prices of a nice wedding ring, and the venue, those are expensive for a college kid in love but poor, since that’s so easy to do in your eyes
i have been dating my current long distance girlfriend for a year or so now and we are getting a promise ring as nothing but a promise of we'll see each other one day. i think having a physical reminder of that is more powerful then just a mental note
True & same here
I know a 60-year-old man who gave a promise ring without explaining if it was a promise ring or an engagement ring. He is still available, if anyone wants him. Good video.
I kind of disagree. My boyfriend and I are just graduating highschool so I think a promise ring is good for younger couples who cant get engaged yet. My parent's approval is kinda important to me before we get engaged and we know they aren't ready to say yes yet. A promise ring would let us feel committed (and also they're pretty) before having to ask my parents yet.
Thanks for the response. My opinion is simply my opinion on this! Sounds like you have a plan to get your parents' input/approval - which is wise to bring other people into a large decision.
Same here, but I'm going to leave the country soon. So, a promise ring would means to us as something to remind each other even though we are countries apart.
What if you are still "too young" to get married or if the time isn't right with what either one is going through but you both know that you guys want to spend your life together. We both want to get married within 3 years after she finishes becoming a doctor. We have that clear, but I want to give her a promise ring showing her that I've never come to love another girl as much as I love her. I also want her to be able to have something to show how committed I am and how I truly love her. What about it?
I maintain that a promise ring can put pressure on the relationship. If you are ready to commit then get an engagement ring and begin planning your marriage. The best way to prove that you love someone is by being faithful. I understand that you want to show her that you care but be careful to to commit to her with a promise ring if you are unable to fully commit to her - even if it is because of your age or stage of life.
@@chasesnyder12 If someone wants to get there girlfriend a promise ring let them, it’s no different then telling your girl how much you love them, rings are good for any occasion birthday, valentines day, anniversary. Its just a ring with a nice gesture at the end of the day. If there’s confusion obviously the couple is immature and not on the same page because as a girl I wouldn’t be upset at all if my bf did this for me, i know he will propose one day in a big way but I’m not forcing it be now just appreciating what i have
I just got my girlfriend a promise ring for are 4 month aniverisy but I'm I rushing a little bit I need some help
Have you given her the ring yet?
If you love her, let her know man. Only do it if you love her.
My boyfriend just gave me one and we have been dating 4 months , we both know what we want in the future we are just not ready for it just yet
Can I give one, considering the situation we're in financially and with the pandemic happening that could last who knows how long?
jbkoutie that’s true, hopefully it won’t last that long
Be weary of rushing into a commitment. No one knows how long the pandemic will last - adding a rushed commitment to it will only add stress. Have open conversations with the person you are dating and see where they are at in the relationship.
Thank you man. You have probably helped a lot of guys make up their mind, just like me. Thanks A LOT
You are welcome!
I think there should be a ring for people who love each other, but don't want to be married. Maybe a forever ring, or the promise ring could stand for that? Idk cause I don't ever see myself wanting to be married, even if I'm with someone all my life, but some way of showing our relationship would be nice.
The promise ring is that
I love your honesty in this video! I've dreaded the thought of being asked how much money I have to my name until you said you had $37 😅
I've on this topic for at least a month, thanks a lot!
This video sounds like it’s for people who are emotionally immature. You’re over complicating it. There are reasons why a promise ring would make a lot of sense. Clearly not for some people who are, like I said, immature or yes, financially unstable but you’re making it seem like promise rings are not a good idea overall. Also, who are you to tell people they’re not a good candidate to get married because of how they show commitment? I disagree with pretty much everything you said in this video. If you’re mature enough to understand the actual reason behind the promise ring, then there’s no reason why you shouldn’t go for it. It isn’t a waste of time and not everyone is stingy with their money. Promise rings aren’t even that expensive. Stop being so negative and let people be.
After counseling countless teenagers and college students I've seen few strong relationships that had a promise ring in the mix. In my experience, which this post is all about, promise rings bring confusion instead of clarification for relationships. I maintain the the best way to show commitment is to be committed and a ring is reserved for someone who is ready to get engaged/married. There are various ideas on them. This is just my perspective.
Chase Snyder I agree with the marriage thing. I’d happily propose and be engaged. Because this doesn’t mean you have to get married soon. You can be engaged for years before you’re ready to get married and settle down. But a lot of people don’t see it this way and it can scare someone off. It also can bring uncertainties into that persons life and make the person receiving such ring question if they feel the same and if the other person is being to pushy or feeling more strong towards things. I’ve been talking to a girl for 8 months who’s my best friend. I believe I’ll marry her because we both bounce of each other like no one we have ever met. She just broke up last august and finally cut communication 2 months ago and it’s been hard for her but almost everytime even tho she still loved her ex she chose me. She’s almost over her ex and she’s changed her mind from not wanting a relationship with me to ‘ I’ll tell you when I’m ready I want a relationship now just give me some time’. We both feel the same now but I’d give her a promise ring when she wants to be my girlfriend as a light hearted reminded that I want to marry her and live the rest of my life with her. I’m 19 she’s 18 it’s unrealistic but it’s no impossible. It gives me anxiety all the time because just my thoughts something will happen with no fact behind it to make this not happen occurs in my head all the time and I’m aware this is down to me being insecure. I just think a promise ring isn’t meant to symbolise getting married but just writing down similar aspects and promising them as well as marriage as a way to show how much they mean to you. Women like jewellery so why not include a meaning behind something instead of it just being a piece of metal given by someone. Lots of girls have trust issues and my hopefully soon to be gf has a lot and she was heart broken by her dad before her ex cheated. I just think it’s not bad for all relationships but I understand some of your reasons tho. I’d like any feedback on your opinion to my comment
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I feel that a promise ring should be given when you love some one early in the relationship. Plus the man should say exactly why he is giving it to you. This way there is no miss understanding!
How do you reject a promise ring?
Saniya Debose say no thanks, you’re like a brother/sister to me
That can be difficult. In that situation you would need to be honest about how you feel. Honestly is going to be best for the long run.
@@kramke that's potentially opening a whole new can of worms bud HAHAHA
What about my situation? We’ve been together for about 3 months, but I’m leaving for college in September she’s still gonna be in high school . So I thought about giving a promise ring to her while I’m off to college and it will be long distance with us but I’ll only possibly see her on weekends. What do you think?
What is the significance of a promise ring that you would be giving her? What is the purpose behind giving her the ring?
Chase Snyder Well the significance is that I want her to know that when I’m leaving and off to school that I still and always will love her and always be here for and just letting her know I’m not going anywhere. Honestly I want to just get an engagement ring but I feel as if we are way to young and id like to wait a while longer.
I think that’s a sweet idea tbh :) because it gives her something to remind her of you and how much she loves you and also it shows how much you love her
Aye bro y’all still together??
@@godlike5596 YESSIRRR
I think my boyfriend is going to give me one soon, he says hes not going to propose, but says this gift will change a lot of things and that it is going to mean a lot. He also says it's not something "huge" but if I care enough it is, and he Hopes I say yes. So sounds like that's what it's going to be. Kind of a weird late birthday present tho lol. I love him so much, and I know we're going to last. I just think the whole idea is very cute, and meaningful, but seriously, if you're not an adult, think about it. A lot can happen, and people change. :) we are still young and we both know we wont get married for a loooong time prob like 10 years, considering we are putting our careers first. I appreciate your opinion but it exists for a reason, and is a way to show people you are committed.
Thanks for sharing, but from the sound of it this seems like a limited commitment (which is why I caution against promise rings) since he says it 'huge" and that you putting your careers before your relationship. I have nothing against pursuing a career, but it is hard to be in a long term relationship with someone when they know you are putting your career before them. I hope the best for your relationship.
"don't buy 2 rings, buy 1 really nice ring"
Or, you could buy 2 cheap rings ;)
I see what you did there! ha
i gave a promise ring without knowing it😶
I am 65 and my girlfriend is 64. We have agreed it would not be in either of our best interests to get married at this stage of our lives. We have been together now 6 years, and I plan on getting her a friendship ring this October for her birthday. I don’t think this will bring stress to the relationship. I think it will be seen as an act of love 💕.
I am 21 years old but I am not ready to get married yet in most aspects, I'm still in college, work part time but I feel a potentially high chance to stay with my gf I love her so much . is it a wrong move to give her a promise ring?
No it’s not wrong go for it she will love it I got a promise ring 💍 for Valentine’s Day this year from my boyfriend im turning 32 and he’s turning 29 this year it’s a birth stone promise ring 💍 with both of our names on it it’s a very beautiful promise ring 💍
@@cowgirl9925 Well. Everything went pretty smooth. Got her a promise ring back in 2020 then I proposed to her with a real diamond ring a year later so we are engaged now.
It’s up to u no one else.
I love my girlfriend we have been dating for 4 years now however I want to get engaged but I want to finish college first this is why I want to give her a promise ring first but you have some great points
Well a promise ring is not really to say that you want to marry her one day but more of like saying that you take the relationship seriously
But why do you have to show "commitment" with a ring? Why isn't the way each person acts in the relationship showing commitment? That is one of my main questions.
@@chasesnyder12 thank you for answering and i dont think it's necessary to buy someone a promise ring becouse like you said it's about how you treat each other in a relationship but the ring can be something to remind her that you have a serious relationship with her and it makes her happy everytime she sees the ring
It's a traditional thing
It is a pre engagement I hate to tell u
I gave buy a set of promise rings and I gave one to my boyfriend because I was makeing know I wanted to be with him forever n one day get married to him and then he turn around and gave me a ring that he calling a promise ring I was thinking it was a engagement ring but he said it not
I agree when I was in his my ex gave me one. And we ended up breaking up in the end. And we were in our 20s so we were together for a long time. I think it was just puppy love/love is blind. We were just kids.
I should've really taught this out? I'm not completely in love with her .. My heart is with another.. God what do I do now?😥
That is a hard spot to be in. If you aren’t in love then you can’t continue the relationship - especially if your heart is with someone else.
I gave my boyfriend one n got one for me then he gave me one prom ring
I date my girlfriend only a month but she been talking about a promise ring what should I do 😫
I gave a promise ring to my daughter as a comment to god.
100%🚀🚀
I had the ring in the cart already and I just closed the website thanks to this video 😂