Dating Apps Are Dead
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- Опубліковано 25 лис 2024
- Asmongold Reacts to: It’s Not Just You. Everyone Hates Dating Apps Now.
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Dating apps are great. I used to have to get dressed, go out, and spend money to get rejected by only 1 or 2 women on a weekend. Now, I can get rejected by every woman in town, every day, without having to leave the comfort of my bedroom. I don't even have to put my shoes on.
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Didn’t mean to laugh 😂😂
The fact that they're all owned by the same company is a huge part of the problem.
Kind of antisemitic but ok
@@stoic521how? Race isn’t even close to being brought up
@@stoic521 in other words "accurate"
@@ItsHooDieDon't look up who owns and invented all the dating apps and prawn companies.
@@stoic521you done said the quiet part out loud😂😂😂😂 shut it down!!!!
Making Dating apps Pay2Win is the most Human thing to do
The design is very human
It's the most capitalist thing to do
@@middleagebrotips3454so what would be the communist thing to do? Have 10 men share one woman?😂
@@keeferChiefer Weirdly enough its that already but swapped around. Its usually 10 woman or more sharing one 1% man.
Dating was always Pay2Win.
Girl signs up - thousands of matches.
Guy signs up - Pay to see profiles, 0 matches.
Wouldn't escorts be cheaper than a 500$ tinder subscription at this point?
It's basically reaching that point
Depends on the market youre in but generally, yes. Much cheaper.
far cheaper
As promiscuity rises, the market price of an escort decreases. I have observed it for a decade, it seems to be strictly true.
what's my price app
who could have guessed that people wont stick with an app that dehumanizes you and makes you feel awful
Instagram and Twitter would like to have a word.
@@Omnihilo IG and X don't sell you the idea of finding someone to be with
After people set basic age and geographical distance limits, the dehuminization starts. You can't sort people from F to S tier, like you're trying to pick the ideal boots for you BG3 fighter build.
I tried the dating site that's supposed to be the nr.1 dating app in my country. Maybe you have to live in the big city, because there were like 15 women within 50km (30 miles). 3 didn't have a profile pic, 3 seemed like they ate their previous date, so that's too dangerous. The 9 that were left I shot a message, and none replied within 2 weeks. I'm not going to pull the "Pickup line" BS. I'm not looking for a hook up. I get that I'm not their ideal partner, but we're not deciding on a marriage. We're engaging in a conversation. After a little back and forth, maybe we can decide on meeting up for an evening and talking in person... or not. It's not that deep. You're not my ideal looking girl either. I want to get a chance to know you. If I wanted a 10/10 looking girl, there's other sites for that.
After people set basic age and geographical distance limits, the dehuminization starts. You can't sort people from F to S tier, like you're trying to pick the ideal boots for you BG3 fighter build.
I tried the dating site that's supposed to be the nr.1 dating app in my country. Maybe you have to live in the big city, because there were like 15 women within 50km (30 miles). 3 didn't have a profile pic, 3 seemed like they ate their previous date, so that's too dangerous. The 9 that were left I shot a message, and none replied within 2 weeks. I'm not going to pull the "Pickup line" BS. I'm not looking for a hook up. I get that I'm not their ideal partner, but we're not deciding on a marriage. We're engaging in a conversation. After a little back and forth, maybe we can decide on meeting up for an evening and talking in person... or not. It's not that deep. You're not my ideal looking girl either. I want to get a chance to know you. If I wanted a 10/10 looking girl, there's other sites for that.
@@Omnihiloyeah but they make everyone angry and try to fuel their hate to keep itself going(for twitter atleast), instagram is just the same with envy i guess.
90% of Tinder is Onlyfans advertisements.
Might as well buy an escort at that point
@@DrinksOnCosby or a "adult doll."
@@ghostrecon7497 Cheaper and won't cheat on you 💀💀
Exactly, you think you found a match but you found a bot.
Thats why you dont use tinder. There are better apps out there.
Honestly it’s not just the apps, dating is dead.
Indeed that happens when you have a crippling economy and no one can effort anything especially no kids.
And with kids being off the table therese very few incentives for woman to watch out for men.
Funny enough, we already got the "hagmaxxing" videos. Young genz men pairing up with millenial woman.
People are dead. No one believes in sacrificing anything for anyone else...
@@derjadebaum9159 bruh not everything is about the economy. Third world countries are pumping out babies like a nike factory. Most people these days have tiktok addiction, crippling social anxiety and zero capacity to maintain a long term committed relationship
@@birbshid Yes and no. "The economy" affects all aspects of life. You have companies that benefit off people developing social anxiety / tiktok or any addiction. Companies have put short term gains over long term gains (stability). This is what we see now and companies also noticing that new generations doing less good. Earning / investment gains are looking worse as well. But they have no clue why, because when they look at their short term gains, they have done everything correct.
I always get that reference with third world countries. They have a whole different view on the world. Their culture is different their understanding is different. The younger generations see what is going on and what it leads to, so they actually do care about their possible kids outcome in the future world.
So from third worlds perspective there still is a lot to gain (safety needs to be fullfilled - maslow pyramid).
But we know that the power dynamics have shifted so bad that we can't even reach love and belongings although there is more than enough there.
More so the elites actively preventing that from happening for personal gain. Best example given in this video. A functioning product that could have easily helped tons of people were altered in way to maximize profit. Now the user understood that scheme and leaves it behind. And the companie is receiving the market penalty for that.
Imagine a programmer develops a solution for his employer, but it turns out to be too good, so he reprogramms it, so the company is not doing too good. Guess what would happen to the employee.
It’s not just dating, it’s our souls 😂 Poisoned with consumerism
Deleted all of them. Went on multiple dates, were all shit. Been single for going on four years. Just quit drinking and going back to the gym. Fuck it, just going to work on myself.
Edit: Thanks for all the positive replies. Anyone else on a similar journey I wish luck and happiness, truly.
You're god damn right champ
Eventually you will attract a woman I think, just get your body then work on your career don't just be obsessed with body.
Yeah, when you don’t look. It will eventually come easier to find that right one.
More power to you
This is what I'm doing. Going to improve myself so I have a better pick. Tired of the broken ones.
I don't even think women are looking for relationships on those apps, I reckon many of them use it as a validation hit.
Yep. Maybe also fishing for a sugar daddy or male model bf to spoil them. But a regular dude? Gross.
Maybe im just using my tinfoil hat but i think most "women" on the apps are either bots or catfishing
bingo
I basically used it that way as well
I used it to find a relationship. Happy with my gamer guy but most of my dates weren't good....
The 21yo women that are "complaining" about 45yo men matching with them are just self snitching. You can set the age range of people that are able to see your profile. Which means at best they are ignorantly doing this to themselves, and at worst they are hand picking men they arent interested in and shit talking about them for social gain. That's weird behaviour, then again they're only 21.
Of course they leave the age range open to get those likes that boosts their ego.
Gives them a twisted sense of power to have people on hand to reject, I guess.
@@TheAmazingGlenn no they’re complaining that a 45 yo sugar daddy isn’t talking to them.
They know that younger guys don't have money or their shit together. So, women go to the prime years of a man's earnings and target in that range.
Any normaly raised woman wouldn't do that at 21. But this women were not raised in a normal home😂😂😂
Me a 27-year-old male does not care how much money a girl makes. Literally just in it for love and it feels so impossible
You’re looking in the wrong place if you’re using dating apps. Get yourself to bars.
@@MisbehavedLiberty idk how to function by myself at a bar lmao. Like I’m not opposed to going to bars. I just have a lot of social anxiety
@@0bbie96 it’s all good. My advice is try out a few local dives, just be chill, maybe pick up darts if they have it and get to know the bartenders. The rest will follow.
@@0bbie96I'm in the same position at 28. Unfortunately unless you get insanely lucky or spend out the ass IRL is the only viable option. Time for us to bite the bullet and start approaching.
Need to find a social group. I have a karaoke and trivia group that I do to meet other people when they get to know you well they can be your wingman and vouch for you with girls that you do connect with. The cold approach is difficult and your likely to be rejected a TON if your not Chad. So try offering to play darts with a girl, or offer to dance with her, or pool whatever activity works for you. The more the ladies see you interacting the easier it will be than sitting in a corner nursing a drink. Its difficult at night clubs because all the ladies just huddle in groups and make you feel awkward asking them to dance instead of just single at a table or bar making it easier to approach. I personally have a hard time taking compliment not sure if they are interested or just being nice so miss a lot of cues. Or the smile from across the room bit women don't make shit obvious your just supposed to know.
I once dated a girl who was 50 pounds heavier than in her photos. I just left the date. If she already lyin before we even meet I aint gonna waste the time.
Would you have dated her if she was honest?
She could weigh 50 pounds less, its controllable @@ZomboidMania
Was her profile photo an aerial drone shot?
@@Great_Wattzoomed in macro of her blue eyes
I did that once lmao. Went to pick her up, she walked out looking fat, nasty, disheveled, downright dirty. We made eye contact and I drove off.
Dating apps are failing *& that’s a GOOD thing!*
i cannot believe you cannot get a match without paying on tinder. unbelievable.
An alternative won't manifest for years.
Pls how did you right in bold?
@@stevememc Use a * at the start & end of a sentence/ word to turn it bold.
Example: *Hello.*
You can also scratch/ line out a sentence or word by doing the same thing except you use a - instead.
Example: -Hello.-
That’s all I know. 🙂
@@xFATMAN192x *thanks* a -lot- man!
I once used a dating app like 15 years ago.
I had to filter out the hookers, the smokers, the single moms, the overweight and the unattractive, got like 5 matches, messaged them all, didn't get any replies, deleted the app.
You forgot the trans
@@genshinsage they didn't exist 15 years ago
I had it on my phone for 6 weeks, no matches not even likes
Skill issue
@@maroufali7925true story
Dating apps are so depressing, constantly looking at people you’ll never match with, and by chance you do match they’ll never actually talk to you
Son: "So how did you two meet?"
Father: "oh you know I made an SEO AI write my Bumble profile and then I spend $100 boosting my profile in the area and your mother saw it and swiped right"
This right there. From the very beginning this picture crossed my mind… one day your child will ask how you two met. Who honestly wants to say to they’re children that you matched on a fucking dating app?
Ya know, the old fashioned way
Who fucking cares where people meet as long as they're happy together?
Life is not all romatnic like in the movies. Grow up ffs. ^^
@@babaecalus now that family fonds are largely no more, how you meet is the foundation of a relationship. Stories are important. Among other things those stories are what keeps you stick together when times are tough - and for most there will be these times. So when the foundation is a match on tinder… it‘s like you build a house in the moor. Will do just fine on sunny days but you‘ll have a problem when there is heavy rainfall.
"She was the 14th woman I sent a picture of my junk but she didn't ghost me."
No suprise quality of people on dating apps is getting exponentially worse
lol they want to keep you using them
Quality of people in general
And it's causing ripple effects outside of the apps to such an extent that a whole generation of women might have turned themselves undateable.😊
Yeah and the apps they are no longer designed for you to get a partner they are now designed to keep you on the app and pay to use them especially if you're a man
People who use dating apps have always been the worst of people. That hasn't changed
My great grandparents got matched
My grandparents met in church
My parents met at work
I met my wife though a mutual friend
I feel like I got the last chopper out of Nam.
Meeting through a friend is probably the best way still. Meeting at work is pretty much off limits nowadays.
😂😂😂. We made it out!
Can still meet people this way, Just need to put the phone down, and people can't because they're addicted. It's their entire lives.
Rizzing up someone in church is wild but also respectable!
@@jer1776 This. I asked a girl out at work and that ruined our relationship afterwards cause apparently she "didn't date coworkers".
I’m a student studying business law rn and something a lot of people skip over is that these startups are usually not profitable when they launch and run at a loss for the sake of better service (think early Uber eats, Air bnb etc.) but then overtime pressure mounts from investors for these unsustainable businesses to actually turn a profit so they have to start facing reality and trying to monetize whenever possible which usually results in them cutting off their own arms and legs and ruining the service since it (imo) was never really viable at all.
Do you believe monetizing loneliness is evil
@@JJ-vp3bd My real answer to that is probs too long for a UA-cam comment section.
The short version is yes, but these apps are just a symptom of a greater problem.
Startups are a Scam.
Create a cool but probably unprofitable Idea, sell It and get rich.
That's actually very interesting. And I'm not sure if that's most of new business. But if these new business depend on this way of starting (up), those 'that succeed' creates job opportunities or bubble communities that are unreliable. And that looks like a scary and ongoing bigger situation.
@@robsonchagas2984 they are literally profiting off bots and loneliness
"we dont need to go into psychology on this" Except these companies literally hire psychologists to help them develop this kind of stuff.
same with mobile game devs. Some even have more psychologists in their company than devs lmao
Just like casinos, and basically everything else from TV shows to breakfast cereal. If something can be engineered to maximize the time and money people spend, it definitely will be.
Don't forget the ghost writers they hire to match with men about to leave to encourage them to stay a bit longer.
They don't understand how handsome my Grandma said I was
You didn't mention that in your profile man, rookie mistake
Mine definitely lied to me
I don't get matches 😅😢
You guys are too handsome for dating apps! Go walk outside and get your real matches 😅
If only they saw what grandma did.
😂
They're full of scammers and gold diggers
half of them are AI profiles at this point
And that's without mentioning the AI ones XD
@@RDV333 Funny how that's legal, when it's literally a scam in the very defenition of it.
Yes. The korean or singapore models in her early 20s are in my 30 kilometer radius ... suuuure
Unfortunately I have also heard of men that harass women on these dating apps… objectification is a real problem in society.
Most people are going back to meeting in real life, or on regular social media platforms, I don't really get the concept in this day and age behind why anyone would use a dating app, especially knowing 97% of the userbase doesn't even use it for actual dating.
"Men and women both want to date someone who makes around the same amount of money that they do"
Incorrect. As a general rule, women want to date up, even if they are a huge earner, and men don't give a s*.
its kind of insane they got it THAT backwards
I honestly give a shit. I make a decent amount of money and live very comfortably thanks to that. I don't want a woman with a low income because it would decrease my daily life's confort. I think I would tolerate up to 20% less.
Koreans already figured out dating apps don't work because they make money by NOT finding you a match, so they switched to matchmakers who make money by finding you a match kinda like realtors.
The US has people who are matchmakers. The problem is their female customers are delusional - they say they want a good, stable man looking to marry but refuse dates with all but the best looking, tall guys.
Honestly, this might be the best future. I would actually spend a lot more money on a dating app if it meant there was a 90%+ chance of finding a partner. Even if it didn't last.
I would totally signed up for that
The last time I checked, the cost of a matchmaking service is so much more than someone will likely ever pay for a Tinder subscription but for a good reason - they have a limited time to do their job once and only once.
@@tgheretford I can’t afford it and at least it would save me time, effort and probably a lot of tears lol
I got banned from hinge because I stopped replying to other matches when I got together with my ex girlfriend.
The entitlement of some of these women for actually reporting me for ghosting them is wild. Meanwhile guys deal with that everyday, and are told to suck it up.
fr! one of my hinge matches flipped out at me because after a day she finally actually gave my profile a read and thought me saying “we all know who uses this app” on my profile was so offensive she doxxed SOMEONE ELSE and started handing over their personal info to me in dms. going “ur such an asshole here, ur like this other guy i know youd get along so well”
@@fluffypinkpandas shes 100% getting doxxed after dates😅
@Femtoisbackandbetter banned for texting girls. banned for not texting girls. only way to win is to actually uninstall and not play lmao
maybe dont ignore people you matched with? thats offensive to some people, including me
wait people reported you for ghosting???? and here i was, just moving on after getting ghosted lol. (sorry that happened, though)
I'm a pretty standard looking man under 30, i've had hundreds of matches with women, 99.9% of them don't even reply or talk to you, they just want to promote their Instagram account
I cannot express enough the damage these “dating apps” have done to society in terms of social interaction between women and men.
More to men. Let's be honest here
It’s over
💯 - Dating apps + OF. Society is doomed.
@@SirAuron777 calm down little bro go get in shape and pick up a book your probably just uninteresting you can change that if you want
It’s so over bro
Men don't care how much women make, dude. Some of the nicest most beautiful girls are retail associates. We. Don't. Care.
Prenup.
IDK if she won't get a prenup I won't marry her. Period. End of story.
Because they won't pay for anything..
you're obviously a young person. consider it while trying to buy a house , or fund a business etc. at that point shes a beautiful dead weight
@hotrodhunk7389 prenups get thrown in the garbage by judges, don't bother with those
Not true, unless you make a agreement and look for a woman like that, most women don't like spending their own money if guy can. @@tomhan
Bumble IPO down 91.6% - should change name to Tumble
And Tinder should become TIMBEERRRERRR
Ha
@@UnKnown-b3p8w should be Dumpster Fire
Possible short sell opportunity
@@cryora Not anymore - tough to get any closer to zero lol
Fuck dating apps.
People these days are so tired of each other.
Everyone is a deceiver and a back stabber.
women treat dating apps like a shopping list
Even my last date 2 weeks ago, offered to help to pay. For convenience I paid for the food, we planned a second date and 2 days before the second date she cancelled, didn't offer to pay for her half, and ignored me when I asked her to pay her share. She called me nice, attentive and a fun guy. After she ignored me, I told her she was cold and distant, and removed her. When a lot of these girls lose interest and have no emotional connection to you, they show their true colors.
When you see the filter, you use the filter, and filter people using traits that have nothing to do with romance
@@douwe4254try to make the girl pay next time.
Men look at it like a meat market💀
@@douwe4254if someone can disconnect as easy as that, you might as well uninstall.
Dating apps have lowered my self-esteem a TON
Don't use them
The truly do I could post every woman on the site and still not get a like or reply. I would do a social activity to meet women rather than waste time and money on a site. At least at the bars you can talk and get a vibe whether you are connecting or not.
They shouldn't, it's a numbers game. People constantly come and go on them because theres way too many people to go through.
I know the feeling. I'm having to watch UA-cam videos on female attraction to understand what women like. After my braces are done, I'll watch videos on how to approach, talk, and flirt with women.
I'm 32. I've never learned these skills because of dating apps. Thankfully, I've had 20 different women.
Trust me dawg, just delete it immediately . I went on a bender 2 years ago with dating apps and it just drained my self esteem on the daily. As soon as I stopped, all of my confidence came back. It's honestly better to ask people out in person anyway
14:54 I saw my cousin on a dating app. She used an old photo when she was 20ish and skinny as one of her pics. She's now in her late 20's 3 kids and a lot heavier then she was in the photo. All the recent photos were of just her head, and she didn't mention the 3 kids in her profile. I care for my cousin, but I know what she's doing is dirty. She's not going to catch a good man.
Tell her that. If she does not improve it is time to let go of bad ppl.
She's a single mother nearing her 30s, of course she's not going to get a good man.
Sad you tell us this and post it on the internet where one day she will see it family is sacred wtf go talk to her
Of course not, that's why she's trying to be sneaky. She knows.
I only rarely go through dating apps these days (never get matches anyway kekw) and i always skip those who only have face photos because its obvious they are ashamed of their body and are most likely fat.
I dont even mind thiccness but a whale is too much, if the photo doesnt let me judge the difference then i aint doing lottery.
I have a torso photo of myself in there so i aint sneaky.
I was talking to a woman that uses Pure. She said it's basically so easy that she gets into bed, pulls out her phone app and selects one of the hundreds of matches and within an hour there's a knock at the door. Most women have no idea how different the experience is for guys.
No sane women would do that. It's a crazy world out there, some people are just looking for their next victim. Be careful ladies! (and guys too, any site) Be careful who meet randomly. It's a mistake you might not ever get to make again.
Average dating app experience for a man: 34 years old, 3 kids "done messing around and looking for something serious. My kids come first". Biden/Harris, Equity, pro choice, LGBTQ+ rights, BLM. Love tattoos and piercings. "If you have kids or are not a 6ft tall man who makes at least $100k, swipe left."
Both sides sound like a nightmare.
Also looks like Goro from mortal Kombat.
80% of women in the Oslo study, at a university, where only on the app to get a confidence boost. They know it isnt reality, but they also dont trust what strangers say on these app🎉
@@bogstandardash3751 TOASTY!
@@mydogeatspuke Actually dating swings massively in favor of women. Men are now aware that they have been had.
15:28 On Tinder, I matched with a girl that said she was "a little chubby" (all of her pics being shots of her shoulders up should have been a flag). She said she was nervous about meeting me because she thought I would walk out the door when I saw her at the restaurant. I asked "Is it because you're a little heavier than you look in your pictures?" She told me she was 354 pounds (she's only 5'4"). I told her that I thought it was best that we don't continue and at least two of her Discord group friends started messaging me insults, and one of them told me my address and that they were coming for me. That adress was not my current. It ended up being my parents' house, and I had to call police to ask if they could patrol there for a week or two. I then set all my Facebook to Private and deleted all but my most trusted friends and family. These girls will lie and set their friends on you.
6 inches shorter than me and just over twice my weight, wtf is going on
I remember laughing at the women’s tinder profiles “not here for hookups” 😂
I find it weird people think that if they pay for a dating app, that the dating app will want them to find someone and leave the app
Hobbies: food and travel
They aren’t, they are looking for someone attractive. This is left out of every single dating app video. If you are attractive dating apps work and are annoying. Literally have to shut off notifs
@@sallyspits "if youre under 5'11 swipe left. If you make less than 100k swipe left."
"if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" - a 4/10
People post pictures of themselves from their previous lifetime when they didn’t have gonorrhoea, then show up 50 kg heavier and 30 years older and expect the date to work
100% pics from 10+ years ago not even kidding I know that everyone does this.
Even in the fog of war a tank is visible. That's the funniest thing I've heard in a while.
FYI, you can find the picture immediately if you look up the phrase in a search engine. It's on 9gag
Literally RIGHT AFTER he said that I got an ad for the game War Thunder 😅, ong. @ 16:02
yea im using that lol
What is this… ADVANCE WARS territory❗️❓
I wish I could go back in time to when I first heard that. That was absolutely hilarious.
The bullets get really mad when you dodge them...
Yooooo 😂
Why? I guess they get mad when they can't control you with the lust factor anymore. Not sure hard to understand women it seems like a lot of effort and time for some twisted ego boost,
No one wants to play the "which girl is actually skinny I can't tell they only post photos of the neck up?" game anymore
Collar bone
If you can see it there's a good chance that she's not super fat.
And if it's very prominent that she's most likely skinny
😂😂😂😂😂
Literally me
Never trust a profile that only has close up face photos. There's literally only 1 reason for that.
Bro fr, someone with no self control is a turn off, it will bleed into all other aspects of life.
I got dating apps when i was 18, and i would get like 10 matches a day. 99 percent of them wouldnt message me back, and most of those wouldnt resort in a date. Now i get like 1 match every 3 weeks and they're ALL bots. It kinda messed with my self-esteem til i reallized how much higher my success rate is IRL
It's not that men on dating apps don't want relationships. It's that the men on dating apps that women actually want don't want relationships.
Nice pfp.
80% of women in the Oslo study, at a university, where only on the app to get a confidence boost. They know it isnt reality, but they also dont trust what strangers say on these app❤
Said men don't need to form relationships. They're the small percentile of high attractive, status men who always have options and therefore don't need to commit. Meanwhile the men who would commit and want a relationship are simply invisible. The only way to win a rigged game is to not play.
Why would those men want relationships when they have so many options to choose from?
And the women who want relationships don't even bother using apps anymore because they suck.
Flooded with OF models now with multiple different names with the same profile. Super toxic business tactic
Bro I thought I was tripping when I reported the “same account” 3 times
For fucks sake , dont call them models dude
Funny thing is according to stats, only 2-3% of women worldwide & only 1% of women in the US do OF content.
Dating apps are just glorified gotcha games with bots and catfishes. 😂
Yep, they need full-time moderation by a large team in order to be usable and not a single one of them cares enough to even try, since that task is basically impossible.
We need cabret clubs
@@Randomlabomoty So that I can watch women pretend to like me in person for my money instead of online for my money? Not exactly a big step up.
@@saphironkindrisits definitely a step up
"gotcha" games 😂
Women will be struggling to compete in several years after men create suckbot 3000. Best of luck women.
What would they be competing for?
@@ladybug3380 you know what for. a mans MEAT. Money, Energy, Attention, Time.
@@Sarkhan69 not just any man just the attractive ones. Just like men like beautiful women,women like beautiful men.
If women aren't competing now they won't be in the future. Zoomer women have almost turned off completely
The men who need a suckbot 3000 are not the men women' want, but cope hard bro
Dating apps help remind me that I'm not hot. Need something that can check my ego
thats literally all social media for men. i notice when i compared mine with my sister lol. just deleted all of them except yt.
The worst part is they promote promiscuity to young adults and school children.
I use my mirror, but to each their own..
@@SubjectiveFunnylol same man 😢
There's a near 100% chance that you're at least average in attractiveness, dating apps and specifically the people on them only want the upper echelon of people so it's not a fair way to judge your attractiveness
Dating apps just don’t work, you reach out and noone responds.
Outside dating apps, you reach out and no-one responds.
The problems is still there, dating apps just make it more visible.
@@alaric_ Very true
men cant get a match while women get matched every time they swipe right ... make it make sense lol
@@AysarAburrub As long as you're literally not hideous or deformed - Yes, you can.
Just get decent pictures, it's that easy. Get a friend with a proper camera and and not a toy one in your Iphone to grab some good, well exposed pics of you. That make you look approachable and show you can dress sensibly and and groom yourself not to look like a total slob. It's completely visual, you can't make up for being less than your best with charisma and confidence, like you can in person.
I can't speak for everyone, but 99% of these "average guys" have a picture or two, both either crappy(overexposed/undersexposed/abysmal lighting conditions etc.), unflattering selfies, or taken in a bathroom mirror(flash optional) with the toilet photobombing the shot, and wonder why no one bites.
You can, but it’s a grind. For a guy you need to put some work into it and message a lot of women. You need to find the right pictures, create a good bio, figure out good conversation starters when you reach out, and message a ton of women. A girl just has to put 1 cute pic up and she’s done. But for a guy it’s real work.
I saw 2 women swiping on Tinder in a coffee shop. I creeped on them and the results were interesting. Neither of them swiped right on a single man in over 2 hours.
Good luck fellas.
They’re looking for a high six figure to seven figure salary man with Ryan Reynolds looks
You watched every single swipe of random girls for 2 hrs???
@@jsml337g05uSeems a little fictional to me too
304s will be 304s.... for life!
@@aznfoono theyre jst looking for a very good looking guy with a decent job but even that is hard to find bc a guy that good looking doesnt need to work
Presentations at ODSC showed dating apps are designed to match men with women that they will specifically never bond with so they return and spend money.
There is an exception to this if the MIPAR analysis catagorizes you as very attractive on its rating system.
If a guy meets this criteria, it will pass them onto someone they can actually bond with because their participation in its algorithm for too long is negative.
Everyone I've met on dating apps are people I wouldn't have considered in real life. The standards these 2s and 3s have set is mind-blowing. Even the ugly ones have rosters now and have completely lost the plot on dating.
"If that Chad got with me once, that's my new standard now!".
Someone's low is their high!
BIG TRUE RIGHT HERE yes yes and the yes
Dating app is about smash and dash
I'm 34 and just got out of a 12 year marriage. Dating is a lot crazier than I remember. I actually am 6'5", in good shape, own a nice house house, and make in the six figures. Im not going to act like I can't get matches or a date. But the ego these 4 and 5s with 2 kids and a crap job have is incredible
@@kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk-k i think that's just a misconception. like some groups of people just assume that and treat it tht way. not everyone on there has that same mentality tho. you have to realize not everyone thinks and operates same as you.everyone not on that hookup time
Girl bosses in their late 30s and 40s are getting mad when the hot rich dudes are picking up all the girls in their 20s 😂
@@RefinedRags and then the 20 year olds eventually get dumped, but now think they are such hot shite that 99% of men are suddenly beneath them.
They're mad cause they realized they got gamed in their 20s while feeling special and like a girl-boss 😅
I'm dating a "girl boss" and she does everything for me I'm 30 she is 33 and I am an average earner. Not all women are like that it's the fact that women like that are represented much more across all media platforms
@@liammarshall393he said late 30s
@@nesciusplaygroundhe's making a statement suggesting that high earning women (girl bosses) only want hot rich dudes and I'm saying he is wrong
I disagree with him saying that no one's issues are better or worse. Even if it's more difficult to find someone when you have abundance of choices as a woman, you have a CHANCE! You can keep trying, engage and you have a chance to find someone. You don't have a chance to find anyone if you don't have any choice.
Dating apps for women is getting 100 sided dice and being asked to roll 100, but you have infinite chances.
Dating apps for men is getting 20 sided dice but you can roll only 3 times.
Women still have options
Men have none.
Women perceive themselves as more vulnerable to crime, and would use the “danger” aspect as a counterargument to say that they still have to worse.
Mind you, crime statistics and data show that they are not, in fact, more vulnerable to crime. But they FEEL that way, so there’s no convincing them.
Asmongold makes it clear he doesn't understand real-world dating dynamics by the 4:00 mark.
Women having problems on dating apps is choice paralysis. Too many options as opposed to men's complete lack of any options.
yeah they dont have any problems at all on these apps, choice paralysis in this case is an absolute luxury
Woman: How tall are you? I’m tall so prefer someone also tall.
Me: How much do you weigh?
if only they were tall lol ... 4'5 women refuse any guy who's not at least 6'0+
@@AysarAburrub Gotta have the same standards, I demand 6'0+ Women, damn good thing I just wanna be left alone, I don't need no woman to consume my assets.
I think it's ok to say "I want a girl that weighs less than me".
Even if your over 6 foot and tell them they won’t believe you saying it. Heck when I tried asking a lady out at a bar she asked about height and didn’t believe me and I was standing a full head taller than her
It's not about how much do they weigh, it's about the shape of their body. If she has a nicely shaped ass, small waist, thicc legs etc
"Your problem is that you treat men badly"
-The Grindr CEO
(Grindr is a dating app for gay men).
I am not gay but sometimes I wish I was. I really think gay men have it easier with dating now.
@@OliverKenneth oh they do the rate for gay men is like 20% very low
I'm gay, you mostly just hook up. Very easy though and we keep that simple. We meet, do the deed and if it was good maybe we see us again and do it again, otherwise we move on. Not many are looking for something serious
Grindr is also a match group company, btw (same as okcupid, hinge, etc)
can confirm even guys dating eachother is more chill. women L
Unfortunately, technology and social media is warping people's perception of the real world.
Everyone I've met on dating apps had a roster of 20 guys and a count that would make a s worker blush. It was such a disgusting experience.
Just talk to people in the real world. You'll do so much better and you'll avoid lowering your standards into the ground.
Unfortunately "talking to people in the real world" can get you in huge trouble because an entire generation was brainwashed to believe that asking a girl out is borderline gRape Culture.
Talking to people is hard tho. :(
@@janisir4529it really isnt
Those are the same women lol
Dating apps need a weight filter.
They can lie on that too
Used to exist, but the "correctness" people ruined it.
And a height filter
@@dobcsek they alrdy have height filters
A lie detector, a pregnancy test, etc...
Worst part is 30% of users I see are OF bots
For real.
Leta be real HE COULD EASILY MARRY a Cute Barrista but SHE COULD NEVER love the MCD Worker.
You don't need dating apps when your undatable. 😂
I mean he's rich, so he's basically skipping a whole bunch of requirements.
projecting?
His undatable what?
The nickname lol
@@lowerpass2000 What a total Vlad.
they have been all replaced by AI chatbots
It'll be great when people can just their chatbot to hit up another's chatbot and just leave the humans out of it.
Can I ask you a question?
@@ltyarv8071 yes
They aren’t dating apps.
They’re hookup apps. That’s it.
I dated my last girlfriend for 7 years after meeting her on plenty of fish.
That was 8 years ago though, shit was different then..
They aren’t even hookup apps. You have a better shot at just going to a bar or club. You spend weeks and get either zero matches or match with someone that gets bored of the conversation after day 2
@@insanittiez4860 quit having entire conversations before trying to convert.
You should have a phone number, meetup, or be moving on within 2-5 sentences
It's more "engagement" bating than REAL socialization
because everyone's attention span is so short, especially in that context
Think like a youtuber making a thumbnail
I don’t even get a hookup, it’s that hard.
@@insanittiez4860 chad only , it's chad only on apps and real life too , granted real life might be a little bit better but overall if you're not chad just give up.
I learned several years ago that the internet isn’t real life and it’s better to just go outside and meet people.
As an avid runner I’ve been seeing many running clubs pop up in my area and I’ve joined one recently.
You’ll meet some people but in my experience it’s best to run alone and just talk to girl that make eye contact and smile at you when you passing. That’s when to shoot your shot
1:35 But Asmon... on apps like Tinder, BOTH people HAVE to swipe RIGHT on each other BEFORE they get notified that they matched. If these women are getting all these 40+ year old men with Camaros and kids and ex wives it's because these women are swiping RIGHT on these 40+ year old men with Camaros and kids and ex wives... A great solution to this would be these women no longer swiping RIGHT on these 40+ year old men with Camaros and kids and ex wives... just saying.
Yea this was one of the dumbest thing I’ve ever seen him say
Uhhhh not really. Super likes put spenders on the top of the stack- and there are also features now to message someone 1 line without even being matched yet.
he did say he never used any of the apps so he doesn't really know what its like
Was just about to comment this 🤣
@@ianordonez282 So why he makes 30 min video about them?
Tinder's CEO being a former Zynga employee is just chef's kiss
Asmon doesn’t need to date as long as he has his soda
Same
*sips my Cherry Lemon Sundrop
@@roscoejones374 soda will not judge you, soda will not scream at you and SODA will allways with you no matter what! =D
Does soda keep the girls away or do girls keep the soda away?
@@samderry6305 It keeps the teeth away .. through tooth decay .. and that keeps the girls away, mostly.
''If there's a hole, there's a way''
Dating apps could improve in so many different ways. Such as require access to your phone camera to force you to take a selfie from that month to show what you actually look like currently. It would force you to update the photo every month. They could have income verification by tax forms, lots of things they could do.
It would lose money because women wouldn't use it. If they can't manipulate you then they won't use it.
My mental health has improved since deleting the apps
My social and soft skills have improved since cold approaching in real life.
Same dude. Those apps are unhealthy for men. I'm really happy for you man. *high five*
My mental health has sustained since I never downloaded the apps
My attractive female cousin : why don't you install Tinder ? That's how I met my husband !
Me, an average looking dude in a wheelchair that can't run : ...
Well hey dude I know it probably won't make you feel better but I don't care that you're in a wheelchair, if I liked your personality and we lived close enough I'd date you, there are people like me out there and I hope you can find them
Yeah don't do it, it's the fastest way to destroy a man self-esteem
@@ZomboidManiawish more had your mentality
Well don’t feel bad man all of us guys who aren’t the top 1% have it the same way no girls will give us the time of day
@@gunsarefun4618you are not in the same position as a guy in a wheelchair.
its funny how Grinder has been getting more popular while straight dating apps have been dying
Because women ruined them
@@genshinsage true
The propaganda machine works, I guess...
because gay men are realistic and not delusional. lesbians are the same as normal women so they dont count. there is a reason why gay marriages are the strongest kind of marraiges. and lesbian marraiges are the most likely to end in divorce
>download grinder
>set up a profile
>get tons of attention super easy to find what you want
VS
>download tinder
>swipe right 1000 times
>no one likes you back have to act like a circus clown to get any attention
Hmm I wonder which app is better
I never cared for dating apps. I did do them in my twenties. It was the same thing it is now: A bunch of liars bullshitting on the internet. Catfishing was as common as it was now. The best thing that anyone can do is clean themselves up, take care of their bodies, invest on your appearance and in your life goals and career and if you work hard and are passionate about what you do, they will come to you.
Im a very average looking 22yr old guy, I paid for tinder platinum for 6 months. I only got 3 matches and not a single one of them messaged back
There was a clip of a dude who after a decade on tinder with over a million swipes, got one date from 3 matches and nothing came out of it.
Let me repeat: Over 10 years. Over 1 million swipes. 3 matches. 1 date. 0 success.
Should have know , if you pay for it, you getting scammed
@@nocturnaljoe9543speaks for itself, if you pa6 you got scammed
Tinder is a hookup app, not a dating app. A lot of people are just on there for one night stands. And it used to be a easy way to do so, but it sounds really bad now. And it already was years ago, but it was easier.
And no i never hooked up with anyone from there, i did match with someone i liked, but then she instantly accused me of cheating while we never even met in person.
Just go gay - we'll take care of you real well 😏
No I've literally never cared about how much a woman makes before dating her.
Have you ever even dated before?
Dating for millionaires is a lot different. You want to find someone who has a healthy income themselves to avoid a gold-digging situation.
It's Asmongold. Does he look like he's ever even been outside?
@@jazzabighits4473 hahaha exactly my thoughts
I love it when popular streamers try to make you think that they know a single thing about dating when all they know is getting dms on instagram from groupies and simps
Facts, I saw some of his other vids and he had some good takes here and there, but for the most part he’s out of touch with the average man’s struggles
Whenever a woman talks to me, I respond the same way Tom Cruise did in the first Jack Reacher movie.
"I'm on a budget. I can't afford you."
And if they respond with they're not a hooker...
"Well then, I REALLY can't afford you."
Average guys like me don't get matchs. We can subscribe to the app and swipe for a whole year. Like I did on 3 different apps. And you'll only get single moms and ogres.
It's a waste of time and money.
Yep, I'm in the exact same boat. The ogres half the time only show pics of their head. Like who are you kidding with that?
the few pretty girls i match with dont respond either
Ogres want families now, and are suppresd by a whater evil villian.
As long as you're literally not hideous or deformed - Yes, you can.
Just get decent pictures, it's that easy. Get a friend with a proper camera and (who knows what he's doing) and and not a toy one in your Iphone to grab some good, well exposed pics of you. Pics that make you look approachable and show you can dress sensibly and and groom yourself not to look like a total slob. It's completely visual based, you can't make up for being less than your best with charisma and confidence, like you can in person.
I can't speak for everyone, but 99% of these "average guys" have a picture or two, both either crappy(overexposed/undersexposed/abysmal lighting conditions etc.), unflattering selfies, or taken in a bathroom mirror(flash optional) with the toilet photobombing the shot, and wonder why no one bites.
@@TheKain202 this is so real, all these "average guys" in the comments are so blinded by bitterness
Dating apps are dead since 2016
So true, this is the only year it worked for me. Since then it’s been a terrible experience, the user experience is terrible, people are worse too.
They had a huge spike during the pandemic
@@Road370 I found my girlfriend on Tinder in 2018, we are still together, but i might just got lucky, i never used it before 2018 and ever since then ofc.
@@Road370 yeah they were actually usefull back in 2016-2015 not sure what happened after..
@@shortcrypto7490 As someone who used em around 2014 I think it's because they were new and free - back then on tinder you could swipe an unlimited amount of times within your zone it was great especially if you were a passenger driving around with someone constantly moving your zone lol
Asmon not downloading a dating app makes so much sense
Still pulls more than most people 😭
Fame and money helps alot
I Wasted about $300 on bumble over several on and offs, never again.
Fame and money helps.
@@FrenzyLive1It's called money and fame, once you have those you can have four teeth and moldy walls and you can still pull.
Yeah, because he has money
16:02 it’s not that bro doesn’t wanna jump on a grenade, but more so that it’s incredibly dishonest regardless of how you feel about their body type
Dating apps just destroyed real love.
Now the only person worth loving is ourselves.
What a great time to be alive.
And most people seem to hate themselves so that's not working either. No wonder the world is descending into madness.
Humans are social creatures. There's a reason why solitary confinement is illegal.
If a 21 year old girl doesnt want to match with a 45 year old dude, THEN SHE SHOULDNT SWIPE RIGHT. God, this isnt rocket science.
or change the age range to 18-25, something more reasonable than 21-45+
My wife and i will be celebrating our 9 year anniversary in 4 days. We met on Plenty of Fish. Before that, i myself was on 9 different dating apps.
They are unequivocally the absolute WORST EXPERIENCE IN THE WORLD. You spend 95% of your time messaging people to be instantly blocked based solely upon Income alone, and the VERY SMALL percentage of replies you get end up in a relationship that fails within a week.
That being said i am very appreciative that i actually found myself a wife and someone who i have spent the last 9 years of my life with.
And if we ever got divorced. i would NEVER go back to dating apps. i would rather go back to the MTG card shop and be a happy single man and wait to be approached, or just die happy. because theres no amount of rationalization that would EVER get me to download that shit ever again.
I have a friend who just got married this summer after meeting his wife in Tinder. Nobody else from my circle of friends and family have had no luck.
Sometimes, somewhere, some people get lucky. Doesn't mean the dating apps work, it's just dumb luck with the huge amount of people rolling the dice.
My wife and I celebrated our 4 year wedding anniversary a couple of days ago....we have been together for 6 years....we met on tinder.......but we are very much the exception to the rule.
If I ever end up single again (please for the love of all that is holy do not happen!) I am just going to be a monk......before I met wife I had about a match a month over a 6 month period (so 6) of those 3 I met up with them.....2 went full blown psycho within 12 hours of me saying goodbye after the first date....and then accused me of narcissism another hated me talking about my child from a previous relationship because my child would always come first and the other 3....well I got one conversation that was more than me saying "hey" and getting ghosted but less than lasting for more than a day........😅
POF has gone the same route as other dating apps, and has become pay to win now. A supervisor at a job I used to work at recommended it to me, but was a bit shocked to hear how much it had changed since he used it all those years ago.
@@alaric_ I am 90% certain they settled for each other solely for the reason both know dating sucks.
One of my friends also met his GF on Tinder and every time I met her, she seemed so bored of everything he did or said. But they are still together...
@@Hackzor404 so i hear, haven't had an active account in 9 years and very happy i havent :)
All of the apps are financially targeting and preying on men because they are the only ones that would be paying which is why I stopped using them.
Men are now the main ones using dating apps so of course they're going to exploit that. The M:F user ratio is now 4:1 on average. On tinder, depending on the source, it's rated at 10-12:1. Tbh, I can't understand why men continue using them if they're not helping & the women aren't there to match with.
Women who are around 6/10 actually believe they're 9's or 10's because of simps
no because of chads they actually match with and getting ran through by
after a while they're confused why none of them are committing
It's not because of simps, it's because they think they can marry the 9's and 10's that pump and dump them
Pokimane 😂
Guys too
@@pmq123fuck no,2 out of 3 guys had NO DATES WHAT SO EVER last year, you're factually proven wrong
1:13 that 21 year old girl swiped right on that 45 year old. Don't blame the dudes... blame the dudettes!
3:34 No. Men literally don't care how much the girl makes. We want affection, not money
You know maybe if people didn't get unsolicited messages from girls asking if you want to become a subscriber to their only fans it wouldn't have became so common of a occurrence
most men dont want to pay $500 to be rejected constantly women pay to matchmakers $5000 a month
Don't ask how I know this, but back in the day (mid 2000s) you could hire a cute college girl escort for around two hundred an hour and have a lot more fun than constantly getting ignored on some app.
The issue with dating apps is that the majority of women on them have poor communication skills, both in real life and on the app. Since texting requires better communication, men often send long messages only to receive short, one-word replies, making it feel like talking to a brick wall.
I think that's more due to her not wanting to put effort in when statistically she and the guy she's texting aren't gonna date, when a girl is happy she becomes a much better texter, as does anyone
If you’re getting short vague replies it means she’s not interested in you and just responding to be polite.
A husb and wife did each others profiles. She was +2pts over him. He stopped counting at 750+. She got 80 responses. Almost 10:1. Different problems, same level of difficulty finding something? No. Alexander grace.
as a woman, i actually had the opposite experience. i asked a guy what bike he had in his profile, if he wanted any more...a bunch of pointed questions and i only got 3 word responses. keep in mind im a 6 at best(42-32-40 HWB) but still he was surprised when i explained to him i was deleting the app.
i chose from ages 22-30 and i got so many engineers that had the charisma of a dead fish 😂
That's true irl as well, i'm afraid.
Dating apps lead to picky behaviour for women. If it's not perfect, then they'll just keep looking. And for men it's just very demoralizing. Costs a lot of effort, often a lot of money as well to even get a single date. And then they get dumped because they weren't perfect and end up giving up at some point. It brings out the worst in people and also makes them the worst.
Or they were "perfect" for a month a so, but once the excitement of that new "perfect" thing starts to fade its time to go search for it in someone else.
💯 nailed it guys
The apps are horribly maintained too. I get notified of matches, but all of my matches get stuck in limbo and they can message me but I can’t message them.
I remember spending time on dating apps having a good physique and talking respectfully and not sending vulgar pics and i still didn't find a match, mostly just dates that ended nowhere. Asmons idea of dating being as easy as putting in minimal effort is simply wrong. If it were that easy then this would not be a talking point.
There is a component of woman just being overly shallow which people wanna down play by saying "oh both genders have their ups and downs", woman expect more and give less. Most guys still cant afford a house either and that is often a deal breaker for many woman, but they don't care about your struggles which is supposedly an important part in relationships to care for your partners struggles. The issue persists in dating BECAUSE of womans shallowness, not because men are just inept. If that were the case then the all hard working guys would be with someone, but you often see many successful guys that are single or lonely.
It is worse now, but this has always been a 'problem' in society. Historically speaking depending on time period, somewhere between 1/3 to 2/3s of men never had children (i.e. they were alone and childless). Spinsters have always existed and people have always made fun of them. It's just that people used to have 4-8 kids and now they sometimes have 1 or 2. So this problem has been amplified by a lot of other things, including how social media and dating apps change how society works, and made a lot worse.
Exactly. This has always been a problem on dating apps. Even lower quality women get so much validation that their ego is boosted to the point where they just assume that they can land a perfect 10/10 man. And they mostly can, at least they will be used as a pump and dump over and over until they start calling out "all men are trash".
Companies that own these apps saw a way to monetize these women's shallowness and overly high standards, not the other way around.
There's two things going on.
The enshitification is a big one. Online dating was always garbage, but at least it was free, and it wasn't gamified. It cost zero dollars to go make a craigslist personals post or to reply to one, or go spam random women on myspace.
The other one, well, look at the top political issues by gender. Mens top: Economy, immigration, foreign affairs, crime, etc. Women's: Abortion. Ladies are living in a completely different world than men. They will receive preference in hiring, in support groups, in college scholarships, you name it they get it handed to them.
There is a 3rd issue, the modern millennial man is weak. Seems like the younger genz are realizing it but will it pay off later, who knows.
If you were attractive you could put in negative effort and still get matches + dates
@@AceDeclan Not that much, Attractive men put in less effort, but its still effort and some are naturally effective in manipulating female psychology which affects their result.
A good match without money spent just means you've lost two potentially loyal customers.
Any proper sociopath CEO with a 10 million dollars annual bonus would be insane to let such a thing happen.
I swear there are people who literally use dating apps as a game to validate their existence. Like just seeing all the matches props up someone’s ego or empowers them somehow. I get a lot of matches that don’t even say anything. They don’t unmatch or anything, they just don’t talk.
"men and women both want to date people that make around the same money that they do"
No they don't!
Men with money want young and beautiful they don't give a sh!t about how much they make.
Women with money want men who make more than them.
Almost all woman iv meet, work colleges, parents friends, friends parents etc all are with guys who have better jobs. Iv hardly ever seen woman with a guy with less money or lesser job
100%
EXACTLY!!!!! As a guy who doesn't make 50K a year I am not sought after at all even though I have no debt and will soon have an outright home it doesn't matter to these women.
People are so delusional its funny. I have had 8 relationships and income has not come up in a single one of them. One was a very young insane beauty too, she did not care at all how much I made. If the person you are dating is only looking at you financially, she isn't looking at you for dating prospects and love, she is looking at you for investments.
@@TheNPC_ don't worry, they are vetting you on your looks and how you behave to judge your socio economical status. And it depends on the level of commitment they want to give. Potential is also important when younger. This is biology. The same way men are judging body proportions, symmetry, etc unconsciously