@@pinkiesnails2917 Congratulations! (I used to hate people saying that to me when it was so early but I'm saying it to you anyway!) That's absolutely wonderful news. I know exactly how you feel with counting down to your scan. If you are anything like I was, you'll be absolutely terrified and thinking the worst but hopefully also like me, you'll get to see that strong little bean in there! Your rainbow! ❤
I'm so scared i keep checking my underwear for blood or get super anxious about having pain to the point where i don't even know if I'm in actual pain or not
same. I had spotting at 6 weeks and freaked out. Baby was ok. Seeing any blood after loss is so scary. I also can't really tell the difference between queasiness from pregnancy and anxiety anymore and probably cry once a day. 33 weeks to go...
Almost 2 years later and I'm watching this! I miscarried my first pregnancy in June 2022 and just found out 2 days ago that I'm pregnant! It was a very fast turnaround and I'm terrified of it happening again. I also resonate with "if I think a loss might happen again, I may jinx myself" - I couldn't have said it better. Such a REAL and RAW feeling :(
I feel very disconnected from this pregnancy. We miscarried 2 months ago. I was so excited and tried to eat perfectly and track every single day. I told everyone. Now it feels like it's not real. I don't know who I want to tell, or when. I wonder if/when I'll start feeling connected. But all things pass. Including feelings. I only just found out a day ago. So I'm doing my best to stay busy and be in acceptance.
Update: I lost that 2nd pregnancy, and then a 3rd. I'm now on my 4th. This video is still helpful. Most people close to us know about our recurring miscarriages so telling people has been helpful and they know to be cautious and are supportive. Every time I wipe I check for blood. Still reading into every symptom or lack thereof. We have an ultrasound in a week and a half and then we'll know if we've finally got our heartbeat. But even beyond that we could lose it at any point. It's a torturous waiting game. Take care of yourselves Mama's. 🫶🏼 Update: I lost the 4th pregnancy too. A chromosomally normal baby boy.
“At this moment everything is fine” - thank you for this and simply saying “you are pregnant” multiple times - it helps to hear this ❤thank you for sharing this message
Thank you for making this video Sophie. I feel so validated. I am 14 weeks pregnant with my second pregnancy, the first resulted in a miscarriage. Today my spouse and I were suppose to share the news publicly on social media but I could not bring myself to do it. I started having extreme anxiety over not being to take the news back should this pregnancy not stick. Even though my last scan indicated everything was on track. I felt completely irrational and so much guilt for having negative thoughts. I couldn’t shake the feeling all day long until I finished watching your video. It gave me a lot of comfort knowing that I’m not alone and that there isn’t something wrong with me for having doubts. I want this baby more than anything and I will try my best to breath, stay calm, and take it day by day. Maybe tomorrow will be a better day to make the announcement after I have regrouped my thoughts. Thanks again for your words.
I’m so glad you have shared this! I am pregnant again after 7 consecutive losses. I’m 10 weeks and we were able to see our baby and it’s strong heartbeat last week, but somehow I still feel so much anxiety. I’m anxiously awaiting our next appointment. It will be the first time we will get to hear our baby’s heartbeat. We have to wait 4 weeks. So much of what you’ve shared about your own experience is exactly what I’m feeling. No one has ever been able to understand what I am feeling. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤
Thank you for creating this video! I recently discovered I am pregnant again (hooray!!!) after our miscarriage in March this year. (We have a 3 yr old boy so this is my third pregnancy). Doing my very best to stay positive and hopeful and excited, but the scary thoughts obviously do occur pretty much daily. Fingers crossed for a happy and healthy full-term pregnancy for all of us!
Thank you for making me feel a bit more normal :) Even though you made this in 2020, still watching it just now for the first time is making me feel a little bit better
I know this is an older video but I just have to comment. I have been scouring UA-cam for the last hour trying to find anyone that might feel exactly the same way I do. I had a miscarriage in September and I’m 6 weeks pregnant now again in November. I have been a WRECK and I have totally thought so many times that my scared thoughts will actually cause another loss this time. Just hearing these thoughts reiterated by you has been healing in some way and I just appreciate that ❤️
I am in your same situation.. miscarriage 1 and a half year ago and now I am 6 weeks pregnant and terrified to reach my first scan before it’s too late.. we can do it we just need to get by one day at a time and hopefully all will be well this time :)
Thank you for this lovely video 🥰 I found out this morning that I’m pregnant again after my miscarriage in April. I am holding back my joy and trying not to get excited out of fear of loosing this baby again. The worry about worrying effecting my odds has me bubble with anxiety.
Thank you so much for this video. I’m pregnant again after a miscarriage last year. I’m only in my first trimester. My husband and I both really wanted this pregnancy, we actively tried for this (and spent a significant amount of money and time to achieve this.) Even though I’m happy that everything we did “worked” I am not excited about this pregnancy as I was the first. I feel more stress and anxiety this time around and more “blasé” toward the whole pregnancy. I was absolutely elated my first pregnancy, I was in love with my baby the moment I got a positive test with my first pregnancy. I then felt bad and ungrateful for not being ecstatic about this pregnancy but this video helped put things in perspective for me.
Thank you! I am 4 weeks into my second pregnancy after a recent loss at 12 weeks. I am at great destress. Knowing that I am not the inly oerson to go through this is a great feeling! If not anything else, I just want to express my gratitude for your courage and for making this video. Wish you a healthy life!
Omg me too !!! Had a miscarriage in January but it was very early on no real issues … then another miscarriage in July I was closer to 12 weeks hemorrhaged, passed out in the shower and had to be rushed to the hospital for a blood transfusion 🤦🏻♀️😢 now I’m about 5 weeks pregnant , this time I’m going to to the dr wayyy sooner (the other times I never went) so hopefully, praying this will be a healthy successful pregnancy God Willing ! 🙏💜hope the same for you too 😊
@@LaUA-camr954 I am so sorry to hear about that! But I am also happy for you for this new opportunity. I am also definitely planning on going to the hospital this week to get checked. Wish you all the best 💐💐
@@evierich3085 Elhamdullilah so far so god! Sometimes I can't even believe it. Just last Friday I rashed to My gynecologist because I woke up and one of the most loud pregnancy symptom wasn't there that morning. She comforted me and immediately did an ultrasound and everything was just fine! I couldn't get up and kept weeping in disbelief. But, it's fine. Everything is fine. I feel like I am writing in reply to you trying to convince myself still. I hope everything goes well 🙏
@@saramassoud9434 Alhamdulillah dont stress everything is from Allah. I miscarried almost finished bleeding completely.. i want to try again pray for me 🤲 usually miscarriages dont happen back to back dont panic
Omg this video just hits all the spots right now. I'm so scared and anxious everyday is a battle. We have had two scans one at 8 weeks and one at 11 weeks. I heard the heartbeat at a doctors office around 12 weeks. I'm now 14 weeks and I'm hurting my back aches and my lower abdomen are aching. So I'm trying to refrain from freaking out. I am happy I'm pregnant but I like you haven't been able to celebrate it or even have the urge to buy anything. I looked into the doppler bur my dh and I discussed it and decided it's best to not for the reasons you mentioned. It's hard it really is every ache every twinge I'm just like is this it 😔 and I just don't know how to not feel that way. Thank you for making this video it was very helpful
I'm going through the exact same thing, I had 2 miscarriages and I am now pregnant and the other day I had some back pain and abdominal discomfort and I was at work and started crying as I thought oh not again. Turns out all is good, comes and goes, other symptoms are also reassuring but it can be quite hard to be excited about the pregnancy. Doing pregnancy related meditation and yoga has been helping me though, at least helps me to take it a day at a time. Hope all is going well/went well with your pregnancy ! :)
Listening to you was like listening to a really good friends advice. Thank you for that. I had a missed miscarriage 3 month ago, now pregnant again in week 7. The first time I was not lucky enough to ever see a heartbeat or make a positive experience at the doctor's office. I just went in the first time and was told my baby is not alive. Now I am desperately hoping for that positive experience so I am not scared to death even just thinking about having to go to that appointments. I want my baby to live 😢
Oh my land I am 11 weeks pregnant after 5 losses and 12 years of trying with my husband. I am terrified daily even though I have had my first Ultra Sound and everything looks great I am so scared every day. Every cramp every weird pain I panic. It’s so hard to enjoy this miracle when I am so scared
Thanks for this, I’m a bit late to the video but was looking online for help about how I’m feeling. I had 2 early missed miscarriages last year, I’m now pregnant again (nearly 13 weeks) and all is well so far but I just don’t know how to let the anxiety go, I just can’t seem to accept that it’ll be ok, I feel like it’s just a matter of time before it goes wrong again, and then I feel guilt for not being positive. Everybody is like ‘oh your chances of miscarrying are so tiny now’….but my chances of 2 missed miscarriages in a row were 1% and that happened so it’s not comforting. At my last scan there was about a minute before they could find the heartbeat and it was SO triggering (all my losses I’ve discovered at scans) and she wasn’t particularly empathetic in explaining why it was hard to find. I’m a first time mum so I didn’t realise this is normal depending on babies position etc. So now I’m nervous for the next scan and it’s just piling on a bit. I desperately want to bond with baby but I’m just so scared.
Please please avoid stress.. Stay positive always.. Engage in any of the activity u r insterested in.. So u can reduce some stress. This type of stress can give you nothing.. But if you are not bothering about anything u will get a happy face in your hand.. Only think about that beautiful moment... I gone through my first abortion due to this reason.. But now i feel regret about it. And i changed my mind through meditation and now feeling happy and gonna try for my next baby soon.. Will pray for you.. Regards - Lechu (From india)
Just came across this video and so thankful for words of encouragement. So hard to find anything about the emotional part of getting pregnant again. Husband and I lost our second child to Turner's Syndrome and it's hard growing our family. I feel like all the joy of being pregnant has just been sucked out.
Your videos give me so much comfort and hope. Thank you. I just went through a miscarriage and it was our first time TTC. I feel totally defeated and I know that it should be exciting but all I feel now is fear that it will keep happening. Trying so hard to stay positive and just go with the motions. It's difficult to try to keep my composure especially in front of my partner as I do not want to burden him with all of my anxious feelings. I don't want to ruin the journey for him. Watching these videos brings me hope, comfort and a sense of release that I don't allow myself to feel by offloading on my loved ones. Thank you thank you thank you.
I feel you completely. It's such an emotional burden isn't it and we take on so much of it alone. Miscarriage and loss really is such a lonely place. Even though our partners have suffered too, they just can't quite ever understand on the same level that we can, especially where anxiety in subsequent pregnancies is concerned. I'm so glad you find comfort in my videos. Happy to help and sending you so much love and luck for your rainbow very soon xx
I am excited. I feel so blessed. I’m just terrified that at any second I’ll have those horrible contractions out of no where and then I’ll be thrown into the agony and sadness. I’ll be going tomorrow for my 1st ultrasound and I feel like I want to be sick.
Thank you for all your videos, they really give me hope. Just had a miscarriage couple days ago and it might sounds very strange but I’m so ready to try again. I feel like it’s the only way i can cope with the loss.
This is so helpful. I had a miscarriage in December and just found out a couple days ago that I am pregnant again. It hasn't really sunk in yet. I confirmed with a blood test and the doctor says everything looks good based on that but it doesn't feel real yet. It's like I'm scared to get excited about it.
Had to come and watch this again. Coming up another early scan. Feel sick with anxiety (on top of nausea!) thank you once again for this post. It’s reassuring to be able to watch it again. Still doesn’t feel real.
I enjoyed your video. I’m definitely in that boat at the moment. I experienced a miscarriage 2 months ago. Just as you mention my anxiety it’s so high. Taking pregnancy test after pregnancy test, which each time showing positive. I even decided to go to urgent care to confirm that way. I have my first appt soon and I’m actually dreading it.
I had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy in july 2022, pregnant again may 2023. So nervous, so excited, so many emotions that im so glad to know I’m not alone in feeling.
I teared up a bit after watching this..after 2 I've finally conceived again and am soon scared and I know it sounds dumb but it surprises me that I'm not alone with these feelings truly am thankful to know there is support thank u
Thank you so much for your video! It has really helped me. Also all the comments below ❤ I found out I'm pregnant a couple of days ago after having a miscarriage at week 9 two months ago. It is really stressful and watching you talk about it did calm me down :)
Congratulations ❤ It is very stressful isn't it. I always found that the only way to get through it was just to focus on one day at a time. I had such anxiety again this time around but here we are now at 29 weeks and I'm much calmer xx
This video was like having a friend talk to me who really gets it! I'm 6 weeks 4 days and I've been through 5 losses. I have had successful pregnancies, but I'm so scared that after two losses in the last nine months that this will turn out the same. I finally stopped testing because it was just driving my anxiety. However, having bloodwork done around 4 weeks to check my hcg and progesterone was equally as terrifying and not really reassuring because my levels were 102.6 and 219.3 and progesterone 11.76. My dr said they were good, but it all seems so low compared to my levels in successful pregnancies. I have a viability ultrasound a week from today and I'm terrified that it won't go well. I'm 41 and the hcg levels combined with my age and multiple miscarriages just makes it seem like the odds are against me. Anyway, I really appreciate this video. It's something that needs to be talked about more! ***Update - Unfortunately, this ended in another miscarriage.
Stumbling onto this years after it was made. I needed to hear this. Loss in June, Pregnant again by August. I wasn't expecting it to happen again so quickly. It somehow feels less special this time around since there's this huge feeling of uncertainty looking over me. It's disappointing that I just can't muster the elated feeling I had the first time.
Thank you so much for this video I just had an early miscarriage. I was down for last 2 days , mixed with anxiety and sorrow, but your video helped me. I was also worried about what will happen to the next pregnancy if I get prg again. Thanks a lot for your support.
Oh I'm so sorry. Miscarriage is such a challenging thing to experience and absolutely heartbreaking. If it helps, my doctor told me that the overwhelming number of women who have suffered a miscarriage go on to have a second healthy and successful pregnancy. ❤
This is me 💯 I had a miscarriage almost 2 years ago my husband was very happy then when we lost the baby he decided he didn’t want more children it broke my heart led to a lot of fights before I gave up sometime last year. Now I’m pregnant just found out today obviously this one was not planned. I am so excited it scared because 1: I don’t want to lose this baby 2: I feel I can’t tell him till after the scary period to not out him through the same misery. Almost like why should we both suffer. Praying for a sticky baby and a happy hubby!
Congratulations on your exciting surprise. It's definitely a conundrum isn't it. Do make sure you reach out to chat to someone though, even if just through pregnancy forums. You definitely don't want to let the anxiety build and keep it all inside ❤
This video helped so much so thank you. It helped me to feel like I'm normal. I found out I was pregnant 2 days ago and I'm scared. I had a chemical pregnancy in July and it was a whirlwind of emotions and overall a bad experience at the hospital. I'm really struggling to get through the bank holiday weekend and booking an appointment at the epu incase it results in another miscarriage. I'm further along this time but my anxiety is ridiculous with waiting and don't feel like I have anyone to talk to.
I'm almost 6 weeks pregnant. I lost 4 in a row before this one. I had an early early scan a couple of days ago and there wasn't much to see, but so far everything looks ok. I'm trying so hard to be optimistic and hopeful and happy, but I am so terrified. I hate the waiting.
Keeping everything crossed for you. Those early weeks are so hard. Great news that everything looks good on the scan so far. I had an early scan with this pregnancy and they couldn't see a heartbeat but went back a week later and it was beating away. Lots of love to you.
I can relate to this so much I’m currently 18 weeks pregnant and I had a miscarriage August of last year I’m so nervous to say anything to family or post on social media about it because I’m scared I might have to explain a loss later on plus I know I need to buy things but no time feels like the right time to do that I even get so nervous with prenatal and ultrasounds appointments sometimes because it puts me in a bad mood and I never know what the doctors gonna say I’m excited but sometimes it feels like shouldn’t get to attached because I never truly know what the outcome is gonna be even though everyone tells me to relax
So relatable I found out dat I m pregnant again. Bt I m so sad since thn I m feeling wat happened last two times will repeat. I m like talking to myself & saying I can't tk it anymore. I m so worried. I m confused if I m actually happy. Thinking all negative beyond imagination.
Thank you sophie for the lovely advise 💙one of the best advise ever , i would say that better than docters ... A life testimonies to us that have had miscarriage and still trying till date ...those encouragement words ohhhhh😍jst love it.
I m having miscarriage dreams often,after my loss..and i m currently pregnant. Dnt know how to cop up with the fear of another accident. How can i think positive?
I loved this video and relates to everything you said! I’m 6w1d with my third pregnancy since having my healthy daughter 4 years ago. I had a mmc after her, followed by a spontaneous one on Easter Sunday of this year. I was due to start ivf cycle when I found out I was pregnant naturally with This current pregnancy so I feel like everything is on freeze as I wait To find out if this Will be a successful pregnancy. My first ultrasound is This coming Tuesday and I’m so scared but very excited too.
After i had a CM at 5wks. Ive been ttc for 5 months now. Every month i check my ovulation and do everything right during fertility window, i have regular cycles. I use to get pregnant withtin the month now after the miscarriage i dont know if their any cyst blocking egg release bc at the scan nurse told me i have a cyst on my tube, it will go away naturally without treatment, i suspect that had grown and blocked pathway. Currently on my 6th cycle and told the GP to refer me to the specialist and have bloodworks done. I will continue to try and pray for God to bless me with a child, my 4.5yo son asking for a sibling to play with. Plus its time to grow my family.
I didn’t bleed but ultrasound showed my baby is gone. I am suffering and going through a miscarriage now. I have anxiety and I am watching this video to feel better maybe. I am not taking this well since I am still pregnant and have not bled. My test are too dark but this pregnancy is a loss. I am broken. I have restlessness and anxiety specially at nights. Thank you for posting this ❤
I’m about 4 weeks pregnant after an early loss in September. I am being eaten alive by anxiety. This feels like torture. I just want to be told it’s okay, I will have this baby, this will be a happy ending.
I found out Monday that I'm pregnant again. Last December I lost a baby at 10 weeks...needed a D and C. Last month (June) I had a chemical pregnancy. This month (July) I'm pregnant again. It's Wednesday and I haven't even got the nerve to tell my husband yet! I'm watching the lines get darker and darker. I don't know when I'll be ready to tell HIM let alone anyone else. I had a hard time sleeping last night and my stomach is a mess! I've got to get my nerves under control. I'm afraid the stress alone will cause me to miscarry.
hi beautiful ladies❤ I am 5 weeks pregnant after a miscarriage and I keep on checking my underwear and it drives me so crazy that I almost don't have any symptoms! can it be? I am so anxious. Thank you so much Sophie for this video... it went right into my heart.
I am so nervous i didn't even tell my husband yet... i am only 17 my family strongly oposed to my first pregnancy, all the doctors looked at me as i was some sort of mentally disturbed women by being happy about my pregnancy. one of the nurses told me i had to rly ask myself why on earth would i wanna be pregnant this early..... while pregnancy was suposed to be something natural normal and happy , to the people surrounding me it is a chance to shame and play the victims. so now that i am pregnant again (4 weeks ) i am so scared to tell anyone even though i rly should see a doctor ....
Trigger warning ⚠️ I’m scared every time i go to sleep then waking up of bleeding. It’s going to be a year since my early miscarriage and I’m pregnant again
I am 5 weeks tomm and I had a miscarriage in April 2023 I am scared to death bc every now and again I spot and it gives me ptsd I am excited but scared to get too happy bc I am trying to preserve myself I am ok to know that women have this experience I wanna make it to week 12-13 I am so excited but terrified I’m 39
Hi Sophie. I am 6weeks pregnant today I also had Miscarriage last 2019 and I am so worried for my baby 😭 I don't know what to do. Sometimes I don't feel my baby inside 😭🥺
Thank you for this video I have had 2 miscarriages and I am pregnant now 8 weeks and I am a basket case and my scan is only on Wednesday already I feel my Dr will tell me the pregnancy is not viable and I feel no symptoms so I am very worried my urine is been dark yellow because I felt sick on Saturday and when I wiped I saw a yellow and I am thinking it is blood and I feel my breast are no longer heavy I feel like giving up on my child.😢😢
I really need some support. I’m 6.5 weeks pregnant after a 12 week miscarriage. I’m so so anxious and terrified I’ll lose this one or that I’m not actually pregnant at all or that there’s a baby but no heartbeat. I feel like I’m losing my mind.
Hi Helen. Sending you a big hug. It's completely terrifying isn't it. If I were you, I'd see if you can reach out to your local perinatal mental health team for some support. I'd also recommending joining a pregnancy after miscarriage forum (babycentre have a good one) so you can at least speak to others in the same boat. I'm proof that you can have successful pregnancies after losses, even if you think all the bad things are going to happen. Lots of love xx
@@helengarner6100 Hopefully it will help to put your mind at rest. Just bear in mind that sometimes there isn't a heartbeat at 6 weeks (I didn't see one in my most recent pregnancy), so if there isn't one - try not to panic. Most places will let you go back the following week to check all is OK, as I'm sure it will be (and was for me).
Every cramp and everytime I go to the toilet I check my underwear and I am going to keep testing I know what I'm like I only found out on Sunday and everyday I've been testing to make sure there's still a line
Hi, im so happy to hear all this from u.. i have a miscarriage last jan 21 and yesterday jan 23 im spotting , i feel pain in my lower abdomen sometimes but i have no breast pain, could u tell me pls , am i having an implantation or just pms?
Thank you for this video somehow it helps me on my anxiety, i had 2 mc 1st 2019 it was biochemical pregnancy. 2nd one was blighted ovum im 9 weeks pregnant that time and it stops growing, now its my 3rd pregnancy, my anxiety shoot up always crying and worrying, this was a roller coaster ride for me. During my 6th week scan the dr told me that its not a viable pregnancy and i had to stop all the medications, because my blood hcg dropped from 5801 to 2300 2 days after i had a 2nd opinion, and was told that there is a fetal pole! Be4 my scan i prayed to God to gave me a miracle and the dr told me yes there is a fetal pole the ob was about to give me a medicine to help dilate my cervix so she had to cancel it, i also have a small sub chrorionic hematoma. Was given aspirin by a fertility dr for my 3rd opinion bec i am looking for a doctor that could understand why am i keep on mc's Then after 2 days had a scan again then they told me the sch was gone! It was a miracle, but then i am experiencing some blood dscharge sometimes brown. And i am freaking out! But when i saw this video and your other video somehow it gave me hope i will have my scan on saturday. I really do hope for a better results and i hope this time my baby could show a heartbeat ❤ i am asking for your prayers who ever can read this. I am claiming that this will be a successful pregnancy in Jesus name amen!!
I just started this video and I'm already crying. I've never felt more understood. Two losses. I have one healthy son but I am pregnant again. I am so anxious.
Sending you lots of love, Kyria. It's so hard but remember that successful pregnancy after loss is possible. I've now had two babies after losses and although I was a nervous wreck and imagined the worst constantly (and had bleeding in the second of those), those little babies were strong and made it through xx
I have 4 healthy children. I had them young. I had my first miscarriage at 31 and two more after that, I just found out I’m pregnant again but I don’t want to share the news because I’m scared I might lose it. 😔
I completely understand what you mean. The fear is very real. Congratulations on your pregnancy. No need to tell anyone until you're ready. Just know that successful pregnancy can happen and this will be your happy ending ❤️
I ended up Miss Carrie at six weeks and four days and when I first found out I was pregnant with my first child I ended up doing the pregnancy test thing and they all kept getting darker and then of course I I had a hemorrhage and I was bleeding and you can I went in for my ultrasound and they told me that it didn’t look good in a couple days after I need up miscarrying that was last year and yesterday I realized I was two days late and so I took a test and I am very pregnant however I am so so scared because I really just want to be able to carry a child a full term I know that I’m capable of being a mom because a lot of the joy was taken from me when I lost my baby it was the second ultrasound that I went to was in my seven week mark and of course the dad went with and that was his first time and that was when we were told that the baby didn’t have a heartbeat anything so with this pregnancy I just hope that I can carry full-term because I’m terrified
I miscarried a year ago at 5 Weeks. Then again in April. Now I found out last week again, I'm so scared... I'm now again 5 Weeks, I started my first symthoms and I have a feeling that this time is different and it will all go well. But I still feel so scared....
@Yadira Gaonathank you for this message! I am currently 16 weeks pregnant, the last time we checked the baby measured perfectly with a perfekt heartbeat. The worry of losing it still is very much present every day, I don’t think this will ever end. But I try to trust my body, I know it will do what’s best for the both of us. I sadly endet up catching covid this week, so I hope this doesn’t hurt the baby. I really hope your pregnancy will go ok great and I hope you find trust in yourself and your body❤️
No matter if you’re been called infertile or whatever, after reading Dobbie Nerkstrol's guide, I ended up pleasantly surprised. Within 60 days anyone can get pregnant, feeling the changes in your body the first few weeks. After go’ogling her I understood it's not a miracle kind of thing like the title suggests, but you can bet you'll boost your chances.
Thank you so much for watching. If you want to reach out to talk, please feel that you can do so at any time.
Hi Sophie, I’m 5w5d with my rainbow baby. I am so anxious but I’ve booked an early scan for 3rd January. It can’t come soon enough! Love your videos x
@@pinkiesnails2917 Congratulations! (I used to hate people saying that to me when it was so early but I'm saying it to you anyway!) That's absolutely wonderful news. I know exactly how you feel with counting down to your scan. If you are anything like I was, you'll be absolutely terrified and thinking the worst but hopefully also like me, you'll get to see that strong little bean in there! Your rainbow! ❤
Just had a miscarriage. So painful
Here we go again …
I'm so scared i keep checking my underwear for blood or get super anxious about having pain to the point where i don't even know if I'm in actual pain or not
This!! I so understand this!
OMGGG SAME. I smile everytime I don’t see any😅
same. I had spotting at 6 weeks and freaked out. Baby was ok. Seeing any blood after loss is so scary. I also can't really tell the difference between queasiness from pregnancy and anxiety anymore and probably cry once a day. 33 weeks to go...
You're not alone in this,😢😢 I went through it 🤰 and it was hill.
I am like that I am 5 weeks tomm I have mild cramping it’s scary
Almost 2 years later and I'm watching this! I miscarried my first pregnancy in June 2022 and just found out 2 days ago that I'm pregnant! It was a very fast turnaround and I'm terrified of it happening again. I also resonate with "if I think a loss might happen again, I may jinx myself" - I couldn't have said it better. Such a REAL and RAW feeling :(
How is it going so far
i lost my 1st in june also & now i’m 13 weeks due july 2nd. i hope everything is going well for you beautiful!!!
@@justynerowley7980 hi happy new year I'm currently 15 weeks got to see my little one and get to hear the heartbeat I'm due June 25th
I am going through the same exact thing. Lots of love sent to you through out your pregnancy.
I feel very disconnected from this pregnancy. We miscarried 2 months ago. I was so excited and tried to eat perfectly and track every single day. I told everyone. Now it feels like it's not real. I don't know who I want to tell, or when. I wonder if/when I'll start feeling connected. But all things pass. Including feelings. I only just found out a day ago. So I'm doing my best to stay busy and be in acceptance.
Update: I lost that 2nd pregnancy, and then a 3rd. I'm now on my 4th. This video is still helpful. Most people close to us know about our recurring miscarriages so telling people has been helpful and they know to be cautious and are supportive. Every time I wipe I check for blood. Still reading into every symptom or lack thereof. We have an ultrasound in a week and a half and then we'll know if we've finally got our heartbeat. But even beyond that we could lose it at any point. It's a torturous waiting game. Take care of yourselves Mama's. 🫶🏼
Update: I lost the 4th pregnancy too. A chromosomally normal baby boy.
I'm so sorry for your loss..... so very sorry 🙏
Thanks for the update...... try to be strong even though it's very difficult...... 💐
“At this moment everything is fine” - thank you for this and simply saying “you are pregnant” multiple times - it helps to hear this ❤thank you for sharing this message
Thank you for making this video Sophie. I feel so validated. I am 14 weeks pregnant with my second pregnancy, the first resulted in a miscarriage. Today my spouse and I were suppose to share the news publicly on social media but I could not bring myself to do it. I started having extreme anxiety over not being to take the news back should this pregnancy not stick. Even though my last scan indicated everything was on track. I felt completely irrational and so much guilt for having negative thoughts. I couldn’t shake the feeling all day long until I finished watching your video. It gave me a lot of comfort knowing that I’m not alone and that there isn’t something wrong with me for having doubts. I want this baby more than anything and I will try my best to breath, stay calm, and take it day by day. Maybe tomorrow will be a better day to make the announcement after I have regrouped my thoughts. Thanks again for your words.
How did it go?
This is so relatable, and I probably felt understood by another woman for the first time!
That's so kind of you. Thank you. Glad it helped xx
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I’m so glad you have shared this! I am pregnant again after 7 consecutive losses. I’m 10 weeks and we were able to see our baby and it’s strong heartbeat last week, but somehow I still feel so much anxiety. I’m anxiously awaiting our next appointment. It will be the first time we will get to hear our baby’s heartbeat. We have to wait 4 weeks.
So much of what you’ve shared about your own experience is exactly what I’m feeling. No one has ever been able to understand what I am feeling. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤
Hello .. how's your pregnancy..
Thank you for creating this video! I recently discovered I am pregnant again (hooray!!!) after our miscarriage in March this year. (We have a 3 yr old boy so this is my third pregnancy). Doing my very best to stay positive and hopeful and excited, but the scary thoughts obviously do occur pretty much daily. Fingers crossed for a happy and healthy full-term pregnancy for all of us!
Thank you for making me feel a bit more normal :) Even though you made this in 2020, still watching it just now for the first time is making me feel a little bit better
Thanks Pam. I've just been through my third successful pregnancy and the anxiety was still there as much as ever, unfortunately!
I know this is an older video but I just have to comment. I have been scouring UA-cam for the last hour trying to find anyone that might feel exactly the same way I do. I had a miscarriage in September and I’m 6 weeks pregnant now again in November. I have been a WRECK and I have totally thought so many times that my scared thoughts will actually cause another loss this time. Just hearing these thoughts reiterated by you has been healing in some way and I just appreciate that ❤️
I am in your same situation.. miscarriage 1 and a half year ago and now I am 6 weeks pregnant and terrified to reach my first scan before it’s too late.. we can do it we just need to get by one day at a time and hopefully all will be well this time :)
Thank you for this lovely video 🥰 I found out this morning that I’m pregnant again after my miscarriage in April. I am holding back my joy and trying not to get excited out of fear of loosing this baby again. The worry about worrying effecting my odds has me bubble with anxiety.
Congratulations. Hoping that everything goes smoothly for you. ❤️🤞🏻
Thank you so much for this video. I’m pregnant again after a miscarriage last year. I’m only in my first trimester. My husband and I both really wanted this pregnancy, we actively tried for this (and spent a significant amount of money and time to achieve this.) Even though I’m happy that everything we did “worked” I am not excited about this pregnancy as I was the first. I feel more stress and anxiety this time around and more “blasé” toward the whole pregnancy. I was absolutely elated my first pregnancy, I was in love with my baby the moment I got a positive test with my first pregnancy. I then felt bad and ungrateful for not being ecstatic about this pregnancy but this video helped put things in perspective for me.
I just got positive pregnancy test after loss in oct thank you for this praying for my rainbow baby 🌈
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Thank you!
I am 4 weeks into my second pregnancy after a recent loss at 12 weeks. I am at great destress. Knowing that I am not the inly oerson to go through this is a great feeling! If not anything else, I just want to express my gratitude for your courage and for making this video. Wish you a healthy life!
Omg me too !!! Had a miscarriage in January but it was very early on no real issues … then another miscarriage in July I was closer to 12 weeks hemorrhaged, passed out in the shower and had to be rushed to the hospital for a blood transfusion 🤦🏻♀️😢 now I’m about 5 weeks pregnant , this time I’m going to to the dr wayyy sooner (the other times I never went) so hopefully, praying this will be a healthy successful pregnancy God Willing ! 🙏💜hope the same for you too 😊
@@LaUA-camr954 I am so sorry to hear about that! But I am also happy for you for this new opportunity. I am also definitely planning on going to the hospital this week to get checked. Wish you all the best 💐💐
How is it going?
@@evierich3085 Elhamdullilah so far so god! Sometimes I can't even believe it. Just last Friday I rashed to My gynecologist because I woke up and one of the most loud pregnancy symptom wasn't there that morning. She comforted me and immediately did an ultrasound and everything was just fine! I couldn't get up and kept weeping in disbelief. But, it's fine. Everything is fine.
I feel like I am writing in reply to you trying to convince myself still. I hope everything goes well 🙏
@@saramassoud9434 Alhamdulillah dont stress everything is from Allah. I miscarried almost finished bleeding completely.. i want to try again pray for me 🤲 usually miscarriages dont happen back to back dont panic
Omg this video just hits all the spots right now. I'm so scared and anxious everyday is a battle. We have had two scans one at 8 weeks and one at 11 weeks. I heard the heartbeat at a doctors office around 12 weeks. I'm now 14 weeks and I'm hurting my back aches and my lower abdomen are aching. So I'm trying to refrain from freaking out. I am happy I'm pregnant but I like you haven't been able to celebrate it or even have the urge to buy anything. I looked into the doppler bur my dh and I discussed it and decided it's best to not for the reasons you mentioned. It's hard it really is every ache every twinge I'm just like is this it 😔 and I just don't know how to not feel that way. Thank you for making this video it was very helpful
I'm going through the exact same thing, I had 2 miscarriages and I am now pregnant and the other day I had some back pain and abdominal discomfort and I was at work and started crying as I thought oh not again. Turns out all is good, comes and goes, other symptoms are also reassuring but it can be quite hard to be excited about the pregnancy. Doing pregnancy related meditation and yoga has been helping me though, at least helps me to take it a day at a time.
Hope all is going well/went well with your pregnancy ! :)
Listening to you was like listening to a really good friends advice. Thank you for that. I had a missed miscarriage 3 month ago, now pregnant again in week 7.
The first time I was not lucky enough to ever see a heartbeat or make a positive experience at the doctor's office. I just went in the first time and was told my baby is not alive. Now I am desperately hoping for that positive experience so I am not scared to death even just thinking about having to go to that appointments. I want my baby to live 😢
Oh my land I am 11 weeks pregnant after 5 losses and 12 years of trying with my husband. I am terrified daily even though I have had my first Ultra Sound and everything looks great I am so scared every day. Every cramp every weird pain I panic. It’s so hard to enjoy this miracle when I am so scared
Thanks for this, I’m a bit late to the video but was looking online for help about how I’m feeling. I had 2 early missed miscarriages last year, I’m now pregnant again (nearly 13 weeks) and all is well so far but I just don’t know how to let the anxiety go, I just can’t seem to accept that it’ll be ok, I feel like it’s just a matter of time before it goes wrong again, and then I feel guilt for not being positive. Everybody is like ‘oh your chances of miscarrying are so tiny now’….but my chances of 2 missed miscarriages in a row were 1% and that happened so it’s not comforting. At my last scan there was about a minute before they could find the heartbeat and it was SO triggering (all my losses I’ve discovered at scans) and she wasn’t particularly empathetic in explaining why it was hard to find. I’m a first time mum so I didn’t realise this is normal depending on babies position etc. So now I’m nervous for the next scan and it’s just piling on a bit. I desperately want to bond with baby but I’m just so scared.
Please please avoid stress.. Stay positive always.. Engage in any of the activity u r insterested in.. So u can reduce some stress. This type of stress can give you nothing.. But if you are not bothering about anything u will get a happy face in your hand.. Only think about that beautiful moment...
I gone through my first abortion due to this reason.. But now i feel regret about it. And i changed my mind through meditation and now feeling happy and gonna try for my next baby soon..
Will pray for you..
Regards - Lechu (From india)
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Just came across this video and so thankful for words of encouragement. So hard to find anything about the emotional part of getting pregnant again. Husband and I lost our second child to Turner's Syndrome and it's hard growing our family. I feel like all the joy of being pregnant has just been sucked out.
I'm so sorry for your loss. How heartbreaking 💔 😢 Anxiety after loss is something that definitely isn't talked about enough.
Your videos give me so much comfort and hope. Thank you. I just went through a miscarriage and it was our first time TTC. I feel totally defeated and I know that it should be exciting but all I feel now is fear that it will keep happening. Trying so hard to stay positive and just go with the motions. It's difficult to try to keep my composure especially in front of my partner as I do not want to burden him with all of my anxious feelings. I don't want to ruin the journey for him. Watching these videos brings me hope, comfort and a sense of release that I don't allow myself to feel by offloading on my loved ones. Thank you thank you thank you.
I feel you completely. It's such an emotional burden isn't it and we take on so much of it alone. Miscarriage and loss really is such a lonely place. Even though our partners have suffered too, they just can't quite ever understand on the same level that we can, especially where anxiety in subsequent pregnancies is concerned.
I'm so glad you find comfort in my videos. Happy to help and sending you so much love and luck for your rainbow very soon xx
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I am excited. I feel so blessed. I’m just terrified that at any second I’ll have those horrible contractions out of no where and then I’ll be thrown into the agony and sadness. I’ll be going tomorrow for my 1st ultrasound and I feel like I want to be sick.
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Thank you for making this video. I hope you know how helpful this is to women who need it. 💜
I am 43. I was pregnant at 41. I miscarried. I just found out I'm pregnant again. I'm terrified. I worry because I'm older too.
Thank you for all your videos, they really give me hope. Just had a miscarriage couple days ago and it might sounds very strange but I’m so ready to try again. I feel like it’s the only way i can cope with the loss.
This is so helpful. I had a miscarriage in December and just found out a couple days ago that I am pregnant again. It hasn't really sunk in yet. I confirmed with a blood test and the doctor says everything looks good based on that but it doesn't feel real yet. It's like I'm scared to get excited about it.
Had to come and watch this again. Coming up another early scan. Feel sick with anxiety (on top of nausea!) thank you once again for this post. It’s reassuring to be able to watch it again. Still doesn’t feel real.
I enjoyed your video. I’m definitely in that boat at the moment. I experienced a miscarriage 2 months ago. Just as you mention my anxiety it’s so high. Taking pregnancy test after pregnancy test, which each time showing positive. I even decided to go to urgent care to confirm that way. I have my first appt soon and I’m actually dreading it.
I had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy in july 2022, pregnant again may 2023. So nervous, so excited, so many emotions that im so glad to know I’m not alone in feeling.
How are you doing by now? 😊
I teared up a bit after watching this..after 2 I've finally conceived again and am soon scared and I know it sounds dumb but it surprises me that I'm not alone with these feelings truly am thankful to know there is support thank u
Thank you so much for your video! It has really helped me. Also all the comments below ❤ I found out I'm pregnant a couple of days ago after having a miscarriage at week 9 two months ago. It is really stressful and watching you talk about it did calm me down :)
Congratulations ❤ It is very stressful isn't it. I always found that the only way to get through it was just to focus on one day at a time. I had such anxiety again this time around but here we are now at 29 weeks and I'm much calmer xx
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This video was like having a friend talk to me who really gets it! I'm 6 weeks 4 days and I've been through 5 losses. I have had successful pregnancies, but I'm so scared that after two losses in the last nine months that this will turn out the same. I finally stopped testing because it was just driving my anxiety. However, having bloodwork done around 4 weeks to check my hcg and progesterone was equally as terrifying and not really reassuring because my levels were 102.6 and 219.3 and progesterone 11.76. My dr said they were good, but it all seems so low compared to my levels in successful pregnancies. I have a viability ultrasound a week from today and I'm terrified that it won't go well. I'm 41 and the hcg levels combined with my age and multiple miscarriages just makes it seem like the odds are against me. Anyway, I really appreciate this video. It's something that needs to be talked about more!
***Update - Unfortunately, this ended in another miscarriage.
😢 I am so sorry to hear about your loss!
So sorry for your loss
Praying I have a healthy pregnancy! I had an early loss last month and got pregnant again very quickly. I’m so thankful! But I am a little scared
Stumbling onto this years after it was made. I needed to hear this. Loss in June, Pregnant again by August. I wasn't expecting it to happen again so quickly. It somehow feels less special this time around since there's this huge feeling of uncertainty looking over me. It's disappointing that I just can't muster the elated feeling I had the first time.
This is the best video ever. Thank you so much! I was searching for someone to relate to. Hugs!
Thank you so much for this video I just had an early miscarriage. I was down for last 2 days , mixed with anxiety and sorrow, but your video helped me. I was also worried about what will happen to the next pregnancy if I get prg again. Thanks a lot for your support.
Oh I'm so sorry. Miscarriage is such a challenging thing to experience and absolutely heartbreaking. If it helps, my doctor told me that the overwhelming number of women who have suffered a miscarriage go on to have a second healthy and successful pregnancy. ❤
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This is me 💯 I had a miscarriage almost 2 years ago my husband was very happy then when we lost the baby he decided he didn’t want more children it broke my heart led to a lot of fights before I gave up sometime last year. Now I’m pregnant just found out today obviously this one was not planned. I am so excited it scared because 1: I don’t want to lose this baby 2: I feel I can’t tell him till after the scary period to not out him through the same misery. Almost like why should we both suffer. Praying for a sticky baby and a happy hubby!
Congratulations on your exciting surprise. It's definitely a conundrum isn't it. Do make sure you reach out to chat to someone though, even if just through pregnancy forums. You definitely don't want to let the anxiety build and keep it all inside ❤
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This video helped so much so thank you. It helped me to feel like I'm normal. I found out I was pregnant 2 days ago and I'm scared. I had a chemical pregnancy in July and it was a whirlwind of emotions and overall a bad experience at the hospital. I'm really struggling to get through the bank holiday weekend and booking an appointment at the epu incase it results in another miscarriage. I'm further along this time but my anxiety is ridiculous with waiting and don't feel like I have anyone to talk to.
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I'm almost 6 weeks pregnant. I lost 4 in a row before this one. I had an early early scan a couple of days ago and there wasn't much to see, but so far everything looks ok. I'm trying so hard to be optimistic and hopeful and happy, but I am so terrified. I hate the waiting.
Keeping everything crossed for you. Those early weeks are so hard. Great news that everything looks good on the scan so far. I had an early scan with this pregnancy and they couldn't see a heartbeat but went back a week later and it was beating away. Lots of love to you.
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Thank you for this video! I am having panic attacks and resonate with every single thing you said in this video.
Totally feel you. Sending you all the love. Mindful meditation and hypnobirthing really helped me to somewhat relax in my most recent pregnancy.
I can relate to this so much I’m currently 18 weeks pregnant and I had a miscarriage August of last year I’m so nervous to say anything to family or post on social media about it because I’m scared I might have to explain a loss later on plus I know I need to buy things but no time feels like the right time to do that I even get so nervous with prenatal and ultrasounds appointments sometimes because it puts me in a bad mood and I never know what the doctors gonna say I’m excited but sometimes it feels like shouldn’t get to attached because I never truly know what the outcome is gonna be even though everyone tells me to relax
So relatable I found out dat I m pregnant again. Bt I m so sad since thn I m feeling wat happened last two times will repeat. I m like talking to myself & saying I can't tk it anymore. I m so worried. I m confused if I m actually happy. Thinking all negative beyond imagination.
This video is so helpful, thank you.
I'm so glad. Thanks for watching xx
Thank you sophie for the lovely advise 💙one of the best advise ever , i would say that better than docters ...
A life testimonies to us that have had miscarriage and still trying till date ...those encouragement words ohhhhh😍jst love it.
Sophie thank you for this❤
I don't typically leave comments, but I wanted to thank you for making this video. 💜
Thank you 😘
Ur video has given me more hope
I m having miscarriage dreams often,after my loss..and i m currently pregnant. Dnt know how to cop up with the fear of another accident. How can i think positive?
I loved this video and relates to everything you said! I’m 6w1d with my third pregnancy since having my healthy daughter 4 years ago. I had a mmc after her, followed by a spontaneous one on Easter Sunday of this year. I was due to start ivf cycle when I found out I was pregnant naturally with
This current pregnancy so I feel like everything is on freeze as I wait
To find out if this
Will be a successful pregnancy. My first ultrasound is
This coming Tuesday and I’m so scared but very excited too.
After i had a CM at 5wks. Ive been ttc for 5 months now. Every month i check my ovulation and do everything right during fertility window, i have regular cycles. I use to get pregnant withtin the month now after the miscarriage i dont know if their any cyst blocking egg release bc at the scan nurse told me i have a cyst on my tube, it will go away naturally without treatment, i suspect that had grown and blocked pathway. Currently on my 6th cycle and told the GP to refer me to the specialist and have bloodworks done. I will continue to try and pray for God to bless me with a child, my 4.5yo son asking for a sibling to play with. Plus its time to grow my family.
Thank you so much for this video. 💗
I didn’t bleed but ultrasound showed my baby is gone. I am suffering and going through a miscarriage now. I have anxiety and I am watching this video to feel better maybe. I am not taking this well since I am still pregnant and have not bled. My test are too dark but this pregnancy is a loss. I am broken. I have restlessness and anxiety specially at nights. Thank you for posting this ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. How far along were you ?
I’m about 4 weeks pregnant after an early loss in September. I am being eaten alive by anxiety. This feels like torture. I just want to be told it’s okay, I will have this baby, this will be a happy ending.
Thank you so much for sharing. This video has helped me so much.
I'm so glad. Thank you for watching! ❤
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I found out Monday that I'm pregnant again. Last December I lost a baby at 10 weeks...needed a D and C. Last month (June) I had a chemical pregnancy. This month (July) I'm pregnant again. It's Wednesday and I haven't even got the nerve to tell my husband yet! I'm watching the lines get darker and darker. I don't know when I'll be ready to tell HIM let alone anyone else. I had a hard time sleeping last night and my stomach is a mess! I've got to get my nerves under control. I'm afraid the stress alone will cause me to miscarry.
I’m pregnant 4weeks after a loss. I had terrible anxiety and stress yesterday. Could that affect my outcome
hi beautiful ladies❤ I am 5 weeks pregnant after a miscarriage and I keep on checking my underwear and it drives me so crazy that I almost don't have any symptoms! can it be? I am so anxious. Thank you so much Sophie for this video... it went right into my heart.
Thank you so helpful ❤
I am so nervous i didn't even tell my husband yet... i am only 17 my family strongly oposed to my first pregnancy, all the doctors looked at me as i was some sort of mentally disturbed women by being happy about my pregnancy. one of the nurses told me i had to rly ask myself why on earth would i wanna be pregnant this early..... while pregnancy was suposed to be something natural normal and happy , to the people surrounding me it is a chance to shame and play the victims. so now that i am pregnant again (4 weeks ) i am so scared to tell anyone even though i rly should see a doctor ....
Trigger warning ⚠️ I’m scared every time i go to sleep then waking up of bleeding. It’s going to be a year since my early miscarriage and I’m pregnant again
This really really helped thank you💗🌈
I am 5 weeks tomm and I had a miscarriage in April 2023 I am scared to death bc every now and again I spot and it gives me ptsd I am excited but scared to get too happy bc I am trying to preserve myself I am ok to know that women have this experience I wanna make it to week 12-13 I am so excited but terrified I’m 39
I had a miscarriage last year now am pregnant am scared I really want this baby am so about a miscarriage I jus need someone to talk to
Hey how are you doing now ?
Its is happening to me i m not excited anymore not sure if its gonna last lets hope for the best
Thank you for sharing. 💗🙏
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That's so kind of you to say. Thank you!
Hi Sophie. I am 6weeks pregnant today I also had Miscarriage last 2019 and I am so worried for my baby 😭 I don't know what to do. Sometimes I don't feel my baby inside 😭🥺
I’m 5 weeks pregnant after 4 losses in the last year, 6 losses all together
Thank you for this video I have had 2 miscarriages and I am pregnant now 8 weeks and I am a basket case and my scan is only on Wednesday already I feel my Dr will tell me the pregnancy is not viable and I feel no symptoms so I am very worried my urine is been dark yellow because I felt sick on Saturday and when I wiped I saw a yellow and I am thinking it is blood and I feel my breast are no longer heavy I feel like giving up on my child.😢😢
I really need some support. I’m 6.5 weeks pregnant after a 12 week miscarriage. I’m so so anxious and terrified I’ll lose this one or that I’m not actually pregnant at all or that there’s a baby but no heartbeat. I feel like I’m losing my mind.
Hi Helen. Sending you a big hug. It's completely terrifying isn't it. If I were you, I'd see if you can reach out to your local perinatal mental health team for some support. I'd also recommending joining a pregnancy after miscarriage forum (babycentre have a good one) so you can at least speak to others in the same boat. I'm proof that you can have successful pregnancies after losses, even if you think all the bad things are going to happen. Lots of love xx
Thank you so much. I’ve booked an early scan for tomorrow. I just need to feel like I’m not totally crazy.
@@helengarner6100 Hopefully it will help to put your mind at rest. Just bear in mind that sometimes there isn't a heartbeat at 6 weeks (I didn't see one in my most recent pregnancy), so if there isn't one - try not to panic. Most places will let you go back the following week to check all is OK, as I'm sure it will be (and was for me).
All looks good. Heartbeat nice and strong. Step one of many but it’s good.
@@helengarner6100 Oh good!! Thanks for the update. So pleased for you. Xx
Every cramp and everytime I go to the toilet I check my underwear and I am going to keep testing I know what I'm like I only found out on Sunday and everyday I've been testing to make sure there's still a line
I had miscarriage in November 2021,,,,,,nd am pregnant again in April 2024 nd nw bleeding with cramps ,,,that get me scared
Hi, im so happy to hear all this from u.. i have a miscarriage last jan 21 and yesterday jan 23 im spotting , i feel pain in my lower abdomen sometimes but i have no breast pain, could u tell me pls , am i having an implantation or just pms?
Thank you for this video somehow it helps me on my anxiety, i had 2 mc 1st 2019 it was biochemical pregnancy. 2nd one was blighted ovum im 9 weeks pregnant that time and it stops growing, now its my 3rd pregnancy, my anxiety shoot up always crying and worrying, this was a roller coaster ride for me. During my 6th week scan the dr told me that its not a viable pregnancy and i had to stop all the medications, because my blood hcg dropped from 5801 to 2300
2 days after i had a 2nd opinion, and was told that there is a fetal pole! Be4 my scan i prayed to God to gave me a miracle and the dr told me yes there is a fetal pole the ob was about to give me a medicine to help dilate my cervix so she had to cancel it, i also have a small sub chrorionic hematoma. Was given aspirin by a fertility dr for my 3rd opinion bec i am looking for a doctor that could understand why am i keep on mc's
Then after 2 days had a scan again then they told me the sch was gone!
It was a miracle, but then i am experiencing some blood dscharge sometimes brown. And i am freaking out! But when i saw this video and your other video somehow it gave me hope i will have my scan on saturday. I really do hope for a better results and i hope this time my baby could show a heartbeat ❤ i am asking for your prayers who ever can read this.
I am claiming that this will be a successful pregnancy in Jesus name amen!!
I just started this video and I'm already crying. I've never felt more understood.
Two losses. I have one healthy son but I am pregnant again. I am so anxious.
Sending you lots of love, Kyria. It's so hard but remember that successful pregnancy after loss is possible. I've now had two babies after losses and although I was a nervous wreck and imagined the worst constantly (and had bleeding in the second of those), those little babies were strong and made it through xx
When I went for scan they said they can't see anything in my uterus, but blood nd urine text positive ,,should I still get worried
I have 4 healthy children. I had them young. I had my first miscarriage at 31 and two more after that, I just found out I’m pregnant again but I don’t want to share the news because I’m scared I might lose it. 😔
I completely understand what you mean. The fear is very real. Congratulations on your pregnancy. No need to tell anyone until you're ready. Just know that successful pregnancy can happen and this will be your happy ending ❤️
I loss a pregnancy on the 26 of December 2021 now I’m pregnant again and I’m terrified! I really don’t want to stress but I can’t help it 😭
Sophie, I had a very bad pregnancy last time and now I’m pregnant again. I’m very worried and have no one to talk to. Is there a way we could connect?
We can connect, if you would like. I also had 2 very bad miscarriages this year.
I ended up Miss Carrie at six weeks and four days and when I first found out I was pregnant with my first child I ended up doing the pregnancy test thing and they all kept getting darker and then of course I I had a hemorrhage and I was bleeding and you can I went in for my ultrasound and they told me that it didn’t look good in a couple days after I need up miscarrying that was last year and yesterday I realized I was two days late and so I took a test and I am very pregnant however I am so so scared because I really just want to be able to carry a child a full term I know that I’m capable of being a mom because a lot of the joy was taken from me when I lost my baby it was the second ultrasound that I went to was in my seven week mark and of course the dad went with and that was his first time and that was when we were told that the baby didn’t have a heartbeat anything so with this pregnancy I just hope that I can carry full-term because I’m terrified
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I miscarried a year ago at 5 Weeks. Then again in April. Now I found out last week again, I'm so scared... I'm now again 5 Weeks, I started my first symthoms and I have a feeling that this time is different and it will all go well. But I still feel so scared....
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@@romanusojomah2822 no? Lol thanks but I don’t know you😂 also I’m actually already pregnant
@Yadira Gaonathank you for this message! I am currently 16 weeks pregnant, the last time we checked the baby measured perfectly with a perfekt heartbeat. The worry of losing it still is very much present every day, I don’t think this will ever end. But I try to trust my body, I know it will do what’s best for the both of us. I sadly endet up catching covid this week, so I hope this doesn’t hurt the baby. I really hope your pregnancy will go ok great and I hope you find trust in yourself and your body❤️
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