My Parents Reveal Childhood Signs I Was Gay (getting ~roasted~)
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“She bought this shirt for Hawaii day at school and then we kept it for Alayna for a gay shirt” 😂😂 so precious 🥺💕
Lynelli gets it
Let's be honest, Alayna's dad is the star of this video
YES!!!!
Zeek, go away! 😂
He literally always is lol!
I mean if you don't enjoy Alayna's Dad are you even alive?
Yup
I didn't come on here to be roasted for dating half my junior high
lets be honest i m not excited about any of my relationships either like only the straight ones
If dating half your junior high is a sing of you being gay, then i'm definitely straight.
I dated no one before i was 21.
it actually makes me proud of u 💕 that's impressive!
@@ripmyfictionalfriends Just proof that the boys at her school had good taste.
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle not dating people at a young age is SUPER common in the lgbtq community. Don’t feel bad bc you haven’t had any experiences yet. They’ll come.
"I played Prudence, the woman who was struggling with her sexuality because of her religion. I wrote this character FOR MYSELF" 💀🤣 dead.
Also, the look on your face during this conversation with the possibility of a kiss. *😏*
And we have the audacity to be SURPRISED that I'm gay now
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial It's the forearms for me. They scream demi-romantic, straight, energy. Gay? Alayna? No way.
You sound kind of like a transgender guy by your stories. i am kind of surprised you are just gay and not a straight transgender guy
@@hhkcg481 Honestly, I was thinking the same thing. Liking mens clothes and not wanting to pick out girl ones, enjoying playing the boy character... All sounds a lot like my brother.
your dad with the groundhog MADE MY DAY
As long as it’s not Zeke I’m happy
It's a beaver.
OMG, once that puppet popped up... I lost it! 😀
And then they popped up again to grab the beer! Dying!
There’s three types of beer drinkers:
The mom style (out of a glass)
The dad style (out of a can)
The lesbian style (out of the bottle)
How is this SO TRUE
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial LMFAOOO
@@M_Nicolas7 can I just say, your profile pic is really cute 👀
@@spencerp6243 thanks! Yours is too 😊
I always drink from the bottle, wine too unless I'm sharing.... WELP!!!
As someone who's parents don't accept me, this warmed my heart so much. So much love in this video ♥️
You can share mine! I accept you 💕
Yeah anytime she would start saying something about sexuality and gfs/ex bfs, I would flinch waiting for her mom or dad to shut her down about it.
My mom and stepdad don’t rly accept me :/ which is depressing can your parents adopt me! 😂💗 i actually live in Manitoba too 🤣
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial i’m subscribing for that comment alone
As a dad, this comment really hurt me. I can't even imagine not accepting or loving my girls and I really don't understand how any parent could not accept their children. I really hope they eventually come to the realization that you don't have to agree with someone all the time to love them. We make up way too many rules in life to justify the things we like and we expect everyone else to follow these rules so that we feel satisfied with our own decisions. How messed up is it that we are always in constant need of others to be like us in order to feel OK with yourself? Just be yourself and be OK with other people being their selves.
Me: "I'm trying to figure out I'm gay or not."
UA-cam: "I've got you covered."
Your parents are SO funny and cute, but the cutest thing is the fact you don't get ashamed about them, you just have fun with them, and this is the most precious thing ever
"This switching back-and-forth is stressing you out." YOUR MOM I CANT.
I DIDNT EVEN CATCH THIS
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial she is a hoot and a half. So is your dad :D
@@irradiated_woman8016 i agree, and i also think, as a society, we should use the phrase a hoot and a half more 👌
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial Wait...OH GOD, I DIDN'T EITHER! 😂😂😂 I thought she meant the driving back and forth was stressing you out!
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial I laughed so hard when your mom said that. Your parents are funny!
"do we know if jesus was a boy?" in a thick canadian accent sent me over the edge
I know! Those GENUINE Manitoba accents are like a caricature of themselves. When Dallas and Alayna spoke to each other in Huguenot dialect I spit coffee out through my nose!
There’s an accent..?
There is no accent if you are from Manitoba!
...there was an accent?
😂
Some more wholesome Fender family content, just for you 🥰
Your parents are amazing: loving, supportive, honest and funny! You hit the jackpot (insert clip of Bre).
You're parents are awesome 😄❤ // and hey, i would LOVE to see u and your dad film a remake about u and him playing with dolls 😆❤
You and your mum are the *best* duo
Thank you!
My family is like yours: open minded, heartwarming, joking and I hope there lots of other families out there who are like our families...^^
At home I cut the hair of my mom and my sisters and brothers in return my mom cuts my hair and this sutuation remembers me a lot of it^^
“This is a gay shirt.” Mom
I’m dead 😂
I literally JUST found my first gray hair at age 25 and was freaking out over it, and then I flip on this video and see Alayna casually mention her gray hairs with pure acceptance... it was absolutely not the point of this video but it made me feel so much better lol
It’s ok I’ve been finding grey hairs since I was 16😭
I read that as “first gay hair” I CANT EVEN
Accept it girls!!!!! You earned those grays! I find it fascinating to examine the texture of the hairs.
I started finding gray hair at 24 years old and I don't pull them out
I'm 15 and I have a few
Haha, I only have a couple of those currently, but the moment the first one appeared at somewhere around 23, I was just kind of like "oooohhhh, sparklyyyy 🤩" and then continued to show it to everyone else in the house :'D I still do admire them whenever they peek out from under my other hair, I just think they're pretty, sparkly colorless hairs :D
Your parents are hilarious. I love that your mum is giving actual examples and your dad is like ‘she wouldn’t play with Zeke’ like there was no other possible reason that might be the case 😂
Exactly😂😂😂
Your dad is a comedic genius
Omg, that reminds me of the time me and another girl had to write and perform a little skit. We could have chosen anything, the one that we went with, which was my suggestion, was that we were lesbian lovers in olden times and I was going to be married off, so we were planning on running away instead... I should've known
v relatable content
Hahaha yes! I’d be like “it’d be too weird if we kissed right? Just a peck? No? Okay no... yeah that’s fine”
I now realize I was bi because we always used to play romantic stories with them, I was always like: now let’s play with two girls! It’s so funny to look back at.
Awww! 💕
“I always was either the dad or, like, the...cat” 😂🤣🤣🤣
Im a trans guy, and as a kid, i exclusively played the pushover husband, the edgy teenage son, or the family dog 🤣
When I was a kid and I would play with my friends, we each were citizens of a town and I was the mountain lion that lived in the surrounding woods
@@nightjetts I'm also a trans guy. I was always Simba from the Lion King or the husband 🤣🤣🤣
@@Luke-Rick lmao 🤣
Love that you were simba
Holy fuck... whenever we played family or magical girl trio when I was in grade school I played an exclusive roulette of wisecracking/ crazy dog/uncle/neighbor/pirate/foreign exchange student... basically always freaks that the family/group took in off the street and kept around cause they were just so gosh darn funny. I even played a recurring frenchman gentleman buccaneer called Monsieur Hubby...
Your family dynamics seem so healthy and wholesome🙌
Lynelle: You're just a take charge kind of person
Alayna: Yeah, there's a word for that. 😳😅😇
What's the word?
@@conlon4332 Top?
@@BradTheAmerican Oh. I was thinking natural leader... but that makes sense too. I was pretty sure I wasn't thinking of the same thing.
BDE or BSE?
@@gaybatgosqueak Sorry, I don't know what those mean. For "BSE" Google got me "Bombay Stock Exchange" and a fancy name for Mad Cow Disease.
*Finds grey hair* "Switching back and forth is stressing you out" 🤣
Chawatawa a completely stole the show sorry Alayna. I'm a Zeke and Chawatawa stan now! 😂
‘And then we kept it for Alayna for a gay shirt’ i love this
I genuinely love your parents , not just because of how accepting they are but because they seem like they are also your friends , like you could just talk to them . Dude you lucked out , cherish them!
I WAS ALSO OBSESSED WITH MEG from hercules and the song "I won't say I'm in love" was my jam as a child. I was really so excited to not be in love with a man ever lol
This made me realize that some parents are actually good. Some parents actually care about their children, are accepting and open…. :(
Omg your dad is the daddest dad of all dads, I love him
Her dad is the iconic comedic relief during a comical conversation we all deserve.
LMAO "you've got a take charge personality" ---> "yeah there's a word for that"
I want to film a gay slang video with her next, see if she knows any of it 😂
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial dooooo itt!!!!!!!!!!
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial Just Do It!
LMFAO THIS JOKE PASSED RIGHT OVER MY HEAD DURING THE VIDEO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Alayna Joy please dooo!
Ive never really understood the only having friends of the opposite gender as a sign that youre gay thing. I've always been closer with women, platonically and romantically. I have male friends but my closest friends have been women all my life and I'm gay.
Yeah same, like I was always just like ew boys, like I had friends that were guys but like all my close friends were girls, platonically aesthetically and romantically everything was GIRLS. I think it can probably go either way but personally I was always just kinda uninterested in boys too
i'm pretty sure i'm aromantic but i've heard its just because you tend to be more nervous around the gender your attracted to, like you get more butterflies and stuff. so i'm assuming it just means that since lesbians don't have that feeling of nervousness around men that straight people would, they just find it easier to talk to men as friends i guess.
I'm straight and I make friends with both but mostly women right now....personally, I think this isn't a true sign of gayness and more a sign of the kind of connection, communication and activities you prefer to do and your environment. I do have straight friends who have mostly male friends but enjoy sports and drinking 🤷♀️
Yes, of course. That doesn't mean anything nor the "masculin" traits. I am very feminine and have always been and always surrounded by girls and hardly have male friends because they usually want more and still a lesbian. 🤷♀️♀️♀️🏳️🌈💖 We are people, we are way more then any label.
“why is one side tucked in, is that a gay thing?”
*Tan France has entered the chat* "That's not how you French tuck :'( " "It's not a French tuck, It's a Gretzsky" xD So Canadian
I related to a lot of things. Not caring about outfits or marriage, dating being fun but relationships boring and breaking up with them and not caring. When I started identifying as bi was the first time in my life I wanted to get married and it was to a woman. It took me a couple months to realize I'm a lesbian
I also relate to a lot of the things she mentioned, however I'm straight lol. I've always been interested in boys romantically and sexually, so I never doubted my sexuality, I've just never been a girly-girl when I was a child. When I was a teen, I had a girl crush once, but around that time I also started to develop interest in more typically 'girly' things. The human psyche is complex and interesting, like your story also shows!
It's crazy but your "coming out again" video has sent me on a crazy journey, too. I always identified as bisexual but was still struggling a lot with that label and didn't know why. I have now slowly come to the conclusion that I'm probably just a lesbian.
I see myself so much in the thing with the wedding. When I imagine marrying a woman I get so exited, imagining it with a man seems so boring and ugh to me.
It's crazy because I actually always thought that I was probably actually just straight and lying to myself about being bisexual to impress guys or something and now it seems like it's the complete opposite that :D
Oh well, after several years of being out I might need to come out again, too ^^
Best of luck to you, you got this! 💪
@@laurawe9055 thanks :) this means a lot
absolutely same story here, its maybe just about finding yourself and knowing what fits yourself best with age
good luck girl!
@@pollyplummer8843 you are probably right! Thanks for your kind words, good luck to you, too :)
Oh my god this is crazy I'm basically exactly the same been struggling with thinking I was bi for like 6 years and even came out as bi 2 years ago but it never quite felt right but her masterdoc and coming out video gave me the push I needed to proper start considering I'm probs just a lesbian rather than pushing the thought aside every couple months like I've been doing for years
damn i just found this on my recommended and ive never watched your channel before. Is this a sign from the youtube gods to binge watch your channel? absolutely. Also it said this was posted 40 seconds ago, may be inaccurate but this is the earliest ive ever been
this video is a huge spoiler if you haven't been following the channel, lol
I haven't seen all Alayna's videos but this one is probably my favorite: ua-cam.com/video/MotDjRCuU4c/v-deo.html
It's so much fun (no matter that many of the things discussed aren't true today)
Welcome!!
ALAYNA I KNEW YOU WOULD AT SOME POINT JOIN ME IN THE LAND OF BEING A HAWAIIAN SHIRT GAY. This is a blessed day.
THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME
your dad constantly bringing in chawatawa the groundhog puppet was EXCELLENT
Your dad coming in with Zeke was one of the highlights of my year so far 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Your dad is such a dork and I am here for it 😂😂😂
Your mom drinks while cutting your hair? Love that woman 😂.
Wish I had anything close to this connection with my family. Warms, but also breaks my heart
I'm straight and I never fantasised about my wedding. I got married at 20 at the registry office. I wanted to BE married, not GET married. Still married to same man 36 years later.
The “FATHER” at the end killed me
Someone needs to write a fanfic where the person Alayna almost kissed in the musical realizes their name was censored, they contact Alayna, and they reconnect and fall in love.
What a delightful and comfortable family being real with each other without super sensitivity trips. Love those Canadians.
I love her dad, but I am triggered by her mom. That is literally an older version of me!! The baked treats in tupperware on the kitchen counter, the genuine joy and giddiness at seeing her daughter, the goofiness, and the tendency to hurt herself doing simple tasks lol it's uncanny! I now aspire to be her when I grow up, so I never lose my favorite traits. Thank you for this treasure of a video, Alayna. You and your family are awesome!
the way i just figured out i’m gay but now i’m having a gender crisis 💀 meanwhile my parents still think i’m a good heterosexual christian girl oop-
Wait but same 😂😂
SAME
How are you doing?
Girl you ain’t alone 😂
Omg the friend crush thing, I “fancied” so many people that I just really liked
OMG YOUR MOM saying "this is a gay shirt." very matter-of-factly! Lolllll
Off-topic but your dad was actually my gym teacher😂👏🏽👏🏽
Watching this is an absolute trip for me because oh god I had a lot of these same signs growing up. It was no wonder my mom said "yeah, I know" when I came out to her
My mum was the same, actually all of my family 😂 when i told my mum she just said, yeah i can see you and your best friends aren't just friends anymorem oh boy was she right 👀🤣
I just want you to know that I come to your page any time I feel a resurgence of internalized homophobia or sadness about how my mom feels about my being gay or even fear at how some of the world feels about it. I can always find a video on your page that brings hope and makes me not feel so alone in it. That's an amazing gift, so thank you. This is all so important.
It's so weird and beautiful to see a family that seems so genuinely nice. I mean, it really seems that you had a happy childhood, it's so cute and refreshing
Your dad sounds like the Webkinz curio shop dog. It's very calming.
that's what the familiarity was!!!!
As a hair stylist at the beginning I wondered if hour mom was really a hair stylist too and then as soon as she started your hair cut I immediately was like oh no she's definitely not 😂
Omg! You talking about dating and the whole "this was fun, but now I dont want it anymore," was my entire high school life!
your dad making a ken doll and a beaver puppet hold hands and asking "is this gay?" made me choke on my own spit and then nearly die laughing.
So we need to get INTO these keepsake boxes.
your dad has that amazing chaotic energy that makes this video just THAT much better XD
Your videos give me so much peace and joy. Seeing you being out and so loved by your parents as an adult child is almost soothing somehow. It gives hope.
Not me questioning my sexuality once again when Alayna talked about her relationships with men and how she felt. I thought I figured myself out and thought I was bi.
Your dad is such a textbook dad and your mom is so sweet. I loved hearing about the gay moments in your childhood and your childhood in general. Can I join your fam? Lol
This family dynamic just brings me so much joy
I'm OBSESSED with your dad!!! He reminds me so much of my own dad - COVID has meant that I haven't been able to see him, so thanks for sharing yours with us.
Alayna’s mom: “youre just a take charge kind of person”
Alayna: “there’s a word for that”
me: “yeah...aries”
is she an aries?
@@flordeprimavera8399 indeed
It's always Aries season bb!
Same!
Heh top
This may be a niche reference but when they were talking about middle school dating, all I could think was The Seven Boyfriends of Alayna Joy
omg this comment wins
You have one savage parents, that brought amazing humor to your video. My dad cuts my hair. I'm proud to be bisexual, and it's the best part of me.
Many of those were more just your personality than signs of being gay (ex. Not wanting to play with boys as a child. I, and many other people, had no problems playing with and hanging out with the opposite sex, yet we're still quite gay lol).
Personally, what stood out to me as signs was being obsessed with the gorgeous female characters in movies, and the fact that you can't picture a wedding with a man but you can with a woman.
Anyway, all in all I found this video to be wonderful and filled with love ❤️ You're a beautiful family.
Your dad is weird. 😂 I love him! ❤️
omg the part when your dad goes "gay or just good friends" i LOLed
If only we all had parents like yours 🥰 This video made me so happy!
Honestly you and your mom smile with your eyes 😭
This needs to me a whole genre of UA-cam vids
YES
Stumbled upon your channel last week. Not sure why I keep watching since I'm a 60 year-old lesbian and clearly not you target audience...but every video with either of your parents included have me laughing sooo hard. These people are funny, warm, charming and hysterically funny to me ( some of it's the Canadian accent). Anyway, I'm thoroughly enjoying your channel and weirdly invested in your journey. Good work.
I'm a 64 yr old gay man and I love following Alayna. Of course I can wish I had someone to help when I was younger but I wouldn't trade my journey for anything. My Mom was accepting but my Dad never knew but then again my coming out occurred after moving out. Alayna"s family are delightful and I love these videos.
Oh just from the title I cant wait for this. I have yet to come out to my parents (chillin, taking my time) but... there were signs. My mom totally knew until I flipped the script by dating a man for six years...
I love how you didn’t rlly seem to care about the grey hair I’m going a little prematurely gray and this makes me feel better about it
“Only the gays get their hair cut by their mom”
Me remembering my Mother-in-law cutting my girlfriend’s and mine 😂
That’s so wholesome
your family is so precious i live for these videos omg
How could you not mention Kida from Disney's Atlantis, so gorgeous 😍 lol
Your Dad is such a fun person. Love the open mindedness of your parents.
My mum used to be a hairdresser and she is the only one who cuts my hair and this is so wholesome
Your family reminds me so much of mine. They're just vibing, being themselves, and following their daughter through her journey of self discovery. Such a beautiful example that you show on your videos. I don't know if they're the same way off camera, but your dynamic with them is truly beautiful Alayna. It gives me a warm heart to see how they've adapted and followed you on your road of self-discovery. Love it. ♥
I haven't cut my hair since you had your last haircut hahaha
update: I cut my hair today!
I love Alayna's dad, I never get embarrassed by my mum or dad's silliness I encourage it because it's hilarious 😂
they're our parents now
Mom: “she always was in charge.”
A: “there is a word for that”
My brain: “ Top” 😂😂😂
Idk if you've heard about all the stuff happening in Texas right now, but my family's power went out on Monday and we had to spend most of the week at a friend's house. We finally got to come home today and this video helped make life feel normal again. (We're incredibly fortunate to have had somewhere to go and to come home to electricity, clean water, and no burst pipes. So many in our area still don't have functioning utilities.)
Alayna!!!! Your parents are so wonderful. It is obvious that your good qualities come from them. Your dad as a strong Canadian accent. You and your mother have the same voice.
I love how they match her energy it’s the best thing ever
I wish I had her parents. Accepting, loving. Hilarious. Love you Alayna
Omg, are we the same person? Every time you post about your story about not knowing you were gay I have a very similar experience.
This is the family that every child deserves.
I love your dad, he is an absolute delight
This so cracks me up..this sounds like my daughter and myself. Even the wedding part..my daughter and her fiancé Malissa are getting married on 5-2-21. We are all so excited. Congratulations on your engagement..
YOU LOOK EXACTLY LIKE YOUR MOM!! Y’all are beautiful!!!
Name a more joyous creator than Alayna Joy.......... I’ll wait.
Those portraits in the background are so precious!!
Your parents are SO adorable! Are they accepting new children? Like, are they doing internet adoptions?
This is like the 3rd video I'm watching from this channel and I already know that if "Alayna Joy" and "dad" are present in the same sentence I'm gonna hit like before even starting the video. Your father is a true comic 😂
the beanie with a rim from the pics from the play is sending me 😂 i helllla used to wear those all the time
Not gonna lie, if I'm just like your mom one day I will have become my best self. I am so happy that you have parents that love and support you.