Sarah, you *SHINE* in this talk! I love the order that you chose to present the initial tidbits of introduction of the approach; I needed that example to shake up and rejuvenate my own ways of offering this wisdom. I could have listened to you go on all day about this, and I know that this must have planted so many seeds!!
Sara, I had the great pleasure to meet you in Norwich at the NHA intensive training. I am amazed at your presentation on Ted Talk. it is so sincere in the way you deliver the message. you are able to summarise the approach so simply and the message is giving positivity to children and nurturing the soul is simple.
Words can only hurt you if you let them period. I was called all kinds of things as a kid and i just let it go. I was taught the saying, "sticks and stones can break your bones, but words can never hurt you." and I owned it. If you let words hurt you, you show your lack of emotional control.
TarangFhai Gaming no that’s called setting up survival traits along time ago that you carry with you into adulthood. It’s hardening yourself to what you feel. She is not saying let words ruin you. But feel your emotions and lift others up
You are right, but you need confidence in yourself to have that resilience, not everyone has that and she is talking about how to cultivate confidence in kids so that they can develop the resilience.
In the example of your child coming home for curfew, absolutely celebrate and give positive feedback when they follow the rule. But what DO you do if they come home after curfew when you don't want to give them negative feedback?
Seriously! And in regard to what you are saying Stacy Hodges, kids learn from their parents negative reactions that they become “unlovable” by being “bad,” which is how kids interpret the parents disappointment or anger with their “bad” behavior. What I have learned is that kids need to learn their parent’s feelings are not their responsibly, but the parents. This way, a father can differentiate to his children that he is not angry at THEM, but angry because HE has his OWN feelings that were triggered, and that his kids are not responsible for his anger. Same with mothers of course, and with all others feeling responses to children’s behavior. I’m Learning to be a healthy person so I can shine my inherent goodness through to the world without the fear that makes me defensive because of past internalized wounds 💙
Sarah, you *SHINE* in this talk! I love the order that you chose to present the initial tidbits of introduction of the approach; I needed that example to shake up and rejuvenate my own ways of offering this wisdom. I could have listened to you go on all day about this, and I know that this must have planted so many seeds!!
Congratulations. Wish you great success in taking this message. This is the wisdom that needs to become lot more common! Extraordinary!
Beautifully courageous and well delivered, Sarah. You go... and I look forward to seeing more and more from you. WATCH OUT WORLD!!!
That was beautiful! Thank you.
Sara, I had the great pleasure to meet you in Norwich at the NHA intensive training. I am amazed at your presentation on Ted Talk. it is so sincere in the way you deliver the message. you are able to summarise the approach so simply and the message is giving positivity to children and nurturing the soul is simple.
From Me to We ❤
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that girl works in my school
Just remember, the next time you want a happy ending, show up with your full batteries.
Words can only hurt you if you let them period. I was called all kinds of things as a kid and i just let it go. I was taught the saying, "sticks and stones can break your bones, but words can never hurt you." and I owned it. If you let words hurt you, you show your lack of emotional control.
TarangFhai Gaming no that’s called setting up survival traits along time ago that you carry with you into adulthood. It’s hardening yourself to what you feel. She is not saying let words ruin you. But feel your emotions and lift others up
You are right, but you need confidence in yourself to have that resilience, not everyone has that and she is talking about how to cultivate confidence in kids so that they can develop the resilience.
Thats what happens when you let God into your life!
Ah, sounds like a lot of common sense. Basically dont be lazy with your kids. Yup, common sense.
In the example of your child coming home for curfew, absolutely celebrate and give positive feedback when they follow the rule. But what DO you do if they come home after curfew when you don't want to give them negative feedback?
Seriously!
And in regard to what you are saying Stacy Hodges, kids learn from their parents negative reactions that they become “unlovable” by being “bad,” which is how kids interpret the parents disappointment or anger with their “bad” behavior.
What I have learned is that kids need to learn their parent’s feelings are not their responsibly, but the parents. This way, a father can differentiate to his children that he is not angry at THEM, but angry because HE has his OWN feelings that were triggered, and that his kids are not responsible for his anger. Same with mothers of course, and with all others feeling responses to children’s behavior.
I’m Learning to be a healthy person so I can shine my inherent goodness through to the world without the fear that makes me defensive because of past internalized wounds 💙
@J Cole Taylor I need help with this too.