Unveiling Mormon Secrets with Dr. John Dehlin - Part 2

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  • In the latest episode of the Cross Examiner podcast, we delve into the fascinating journey of Dr. John Dehlin, host of the Mormon Stories podcast. ( / mormonstories )
    Dr. Dehlin, an ex-Mormon, has dedicated his career to exposing the truths behind Mormon practices and helping others navigate their own faith crises. This episode is a continuation of our in-depth conversation with him, exploring the psychological and social impacts of religious indoctrination, the rise of Christian nationalism, and the role of misinformation.
    Dr. Dehlin's journey is both compelling and relatable. Raised as a sixth-generation Mormon, he was taught to obey and follow the church's teachings without question. However, cracks began to form in his faith as he encountered various inconsistencies and ethical concerns, particularly during his mission in Guatemala. His experiences there, coupled with the rise of the internet and the availability of information, led him to question the very foundations of his beliefs.
    One of the most striking aspects of Dr. Dehlin's story is the concept of the "shelf." In the Mormon and post-Mormon world, individuals are encouraged to put doubts and questions on a metaphorical shelf, trusting that answers will come in time. For Dr. Dehlin, the shelf eventually became too heavy to bear, leading to a profound crisis of faith. This journey of questioning and seeking truth is something many can relate to, regardless of their religious background.
    The episode also delves into the broader implications of religious indoctrination and the rise of secular support systems. Dr. Dehlin discusses the importance of organizations like Recovering from Religion and the Secular Therapy Project, which provide crucial support for individuals leaving high-demand religions. These organizations offer a safe space for people to explore their doubts and find a community that understands their struggles.
    One of the most powerful moments in the episode is when Dr. Dehlin talks about the psychological impact of leaving a high-demand religion. He shares how many individuals experience anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts as they grapple with the loss of their faith and the subsequent social and familial fallout. This highlights the critical need for mental health support and resources for those undergoing such transitions.
    Dr. Dehlin's work with the Mormon Stories podcast has not only helped countless individuals but also shed light on the broader human experience. As he aptly puts it, "The Mormon story is the human story." By sharing personal narratives, his podcast fosters empathy and understanding, encouraging listeners to see the common threads that connect us all.
    For those interested in exploring these themes further, we highly recommend tuning into this episode. Dr. Dehlin's insights and experiences offer a valuable perspective on the intersection of religion, truth, and personal transformation. Whether you're grappling with your own faith or simply curious about the human condition, this episode is sure to resonate.
    Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation. Listen to the full episode now and join us on this journey of discovery and understanding.
    Chapters:
    (00:00) Introduction
    (03:00) Dr. John Dehlin's Background
    (10:00) Questioning Faith and "The Shelf"
    (20:00) Mission Experiences and Ethical Concerns
    (30:00) The Role of the Internet and Information
    (40:00) Psychological Impact and Counseling
    (50:00) The Rise of the Nones and Decline in Membership
    (01:00:00) Exposing Harmful Practices
    (01:10:00) The Importance of Secular Support Systems
    (01:20:00) Collaboration with Other Ex-Religious Communities
    (01:30:00) Closing Thoughts and Future Outlook

КОМЕНТАРІ • 185

  • @thecrossexaminer6665
    @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому +34

    Thank you, again, to Dr. John Dehlin! I hope you all enjoyed our conversation!

    • @heatherbruce1668
      @heatherbruce1668 Місяць тому +2

      Great interview! Thanks!

    • @debbieshrubb1222
      @debbieshrubb1222 Місяць тому +1

      Absolutely loved the conversation.
      Mormon Stories saved my mental health when I first found out about the hidden history and toxic dogma of mormonism.

  • @bodytrainer1crane730
    @bodytrainer1crane730 Місяць тому +41

    Dr. John's Mormon Stories has actually changed my life for the better. It just feels so good and makes so much sense to my brain to simply tell the truth and I feel like a lot of people tell the truth on Mormon Stories. ❤️

    • @1blestmomamoe472
      @1blestmomamoe472 Місяць тому +5

      Me Too🙏🏼🥰🙏🏼

    • @reflectandrecover
      @reflectandrecover Місяць тому

      I thought that once too. Then I lost everything, and hurt everyone and wondered why I didn't just stay Mormon and keep the Word of Wisdom. Maybe then I would still have my precious children in my arms.... God I wish. I once was huge cheerleader for Mormon Stories Podcast, thought it was the answer to everything. Now, I see his vindictive immaturity and the fundamental flaws to his arguments that is easy to overlook in a faith crisis. I have more faith in the fact that John surely is a miserable miserable man than Joseph Smith translated the Book of Mormon. But what do I know, I'm just an excommunicated Mormon drug addict in recovery that lost everything and wishes every night I didn't listen to that first podcast of the Mormon Stories Garbage that sent me down the path I ultimately went down... I've done bad things. I'm making amends with the Church. John Dehlin is no Prophet but he gets a tickle in his fancy ordaining himself the Prophet of anything resembling something against the Church, regardless of accuracy or context, or subjectivity.... that is called a disinformation campaign built on something else..... but what exactly?.. it's so sad. I wish you luck, whoever this bodytrainer1crane730 is in your search for truth. Always remember, history is written by men with opinions and memory is flawed. Ultimately, I could convince you that 9/11 didn't happen with facts, just like I could convince you that the Moon-landing was a hoax, and I could also convince you that the Holocaust wasn't real, and that Clovis was not the first people in the Americas.... history is constantly changing, no source can be "proven" true, everything is essentially a choice of faith.... which is why it becomes important to make honest choices and do good things, so you can stay in-tune with whatever good vibes exist. I can tell you as someone that has been incarcerated and hurt people, that there is definitely an evil out there, and you can become in-tune with that as well. I'm lucky to be alive, and the fact that I have seen the realness of evil makes me know that the realness of good, and I choose good homie.... God, I choose GOOD!

  • @jubronaljoan
    @jubronaljoan Місяць тому +35

    despite my handle which makes it seem like I am female. I am a male and was raised in the Mormon church. I served a full-time mission, was sealed in the temple and have served as the bishop of a metropolitan congregation 20-odd years ago. I left the church about 7 years ago after I uncovered the deceptive history and issues with key Mormon scripture thast I could not reconcile. Mormon Stories has been a key resource in helping me refocus my life. I still believe there is something that is driving existence. like a universal conciousness, but it is fundamentally unknowable and doesn't expect or demand anything of us.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому +2

      Thank you for listening!

    • @shaunjeff45
      @shaunjeff45 Місяць тому

      Just like crap in a toilet, I take John Dehin's words are worth and accordingly. He was on the Cristian Prince podcast and he claimed himself to be a Muslim, in the Muslim religion. The Quran is the inspired word of Satan! Now; how crazy is that?

    • @leighyorgason6702
      @leighyorgason6702 Місяць тому

      So the God of the Bible can't exist unless Mormonism is true? Yes He can and Yes He does.

    • @esetaMotuga1971
      @esetaMotuga1971 Місяць тому +1

      Yes, as a member now of the church, I didn't know that a lot of people in the church were not questioning the leaders, of the churches, compared to why they became members.
      Because I myself was never ashamed to ask questions in something that I either never heard before or I needed to ask to further my understanding of what I, needed to research or really 🙏/ask God about it since I questioned My grandmother as a 5year old kid, after she forbade me and my brother Sauaso to go swimming on Sunday.
      So that's why I always listened to God, by following Jesus now.
      Since it's an every day teaching since I was a little kid
      But I am very grateful God had me asked questions to my grandma, then. Which is how I learned to be his student since then. After my grandmother asked me to go ask God why He didn't want me to go swimming and playing on Sundays?.
      Until I found out in 03/16/2022 at the Sunrise Hospital in Nevada Las Vegas in the ICU that I wasn't aware that I haven't really understood what #FollowingJesus means.

    • @esetaMotuga1971
      @esetaMotuga1971 Місяць тому +1

      Oh and may I add what else my grandma said was, before I went to look for God in my church in Saoluafata Upolu Samoa to ask God my question was because She didn't know why God wrote the 10Commandments. N that would be good for me if I went and asked him for the both of us.
      Because she too came from the old fashion way of obey but DoNotQuestionWhyWeHadToObeyGodsHolyBibleInTheFirstPlace. Meaning his 10Commandments.
      N in this 06/15/2024, I am thankful to God's 10Commandments because I realized now of why his 10Commandments was written because cheating was one of those laws as a married woman whom was feeling like she had no one to trust after her trust was destroyed.
      So now Jesus is the only faithful man/God.
      Whom we can really fully trust instead of men whom are capable fleshly to fall from the godly/spiritual grace of God the Father.
      Like some men in the Utah, Not LDS, but polygamy or men that John in the Podcast is talking about that are calling themselves gods, but lack everything that is really important to be a child of God and a follower of Jesus Christ.

  • @fayeline
    @fayeline Місяць тому +31

    This 2 part video is amazing! I'm a huge fan of Dr. John. His compassion, empathy, and work to support individuals leaving their high demand religion is amazing. Thank you for interviewing Dr. John. You now have another subscriber for your channel. ❤

  • @RyanHawley76
    @RyanHawley76 Місяць тому +23

    I'm one of those who always viewed John and the others as 'anti'. I interpreted the cognitive dissonance as if it were from Satan himself! (seriously) So I never could allow myself to watch, listen, or read anything that was contrary to my faith 🤦. All things 2020 finally allowed me the time needed for introspection on my own beliefs and values and I broke through with the help of Mormon stories, all the amazing exmo tiktok erst, and community outside of the faith!
    Aside from finding and marrying my wife, leaving Mormonism is the best decision of my life!

  • @dorothymilne1258
    @dorothymilne1258 Місяць тому +11

    I read Nobody Knows My History in 1993 (I had joined the LDS in 1989 after marrying a Mormon). My resignation in November 2015 was a long time coming. Thanks to Mormon Stories for being the only people I could talk to in those first few years.

    • @michellemilne3315
      @michellemilne3315 Місяць тому

      Yes! Mormon Stories has been a huge help in my deconstruction and in keeping me sane. (Also, it appears I married someone with the same last name as you 😉)

  • @jaylarsen67
    @jaylarsen67 Місяць тому +11

    I joined a group called Veterans For Peace which has been very therapeutic for my Mormon experience. I realize even the military has cultish dinamics.

    • @mamadspeachyworld5190
      @mamadspeachyworld5190 Місяць тому

      They have a brotherhood/ sisterhood many do not find at home or later in life. They often become distant from family and clingecto veterans groups.

  • @janetmarugg9424
    @janetmarugg9424 Місяць тому +23

    John is genuine and that goes a long way with what he does.

    • @shaunjeff45
      @shaunjeff45 Місяць тому

      Really! He's claimed he was excommunicated by the Church, and he here claiming every Christian religion is in decline, but he claimed to be Muslim, in the Muslim religion. He's out promoting Islam, but the Quran is the inspired word of Satan!

  • @nathanbigler
    @nathanbigler Місяць тому +8

    Mormonism is really fascinating. I revered LDS leaders when I was young. But after my mission for the church I was completely disillusioned and no longer believed any of the garbage

  • @suthatheplee2777
    @suthatheplee2777 Місяць тому +10

    Outstanding discussion and presentation. Please do more interviews like this about people who have left high demand religions…these are important stories

  • @seph4667
    @seph4667 Місяць тому +11

    Fine communication..much appreciated.

  • @user-nr5py8yo9k
    @user-nr5py8yo9k Місяць тому +9

    Dr. Dehlin and Margie are amazing people.

  • @bethkirsch2365
    @bethkirsch2365 Місяць тому +6

    Loved this conversation, agree we need more like these 💜🌈

  • @malindagunderson
    @malindagunderson Місяць тому +11

    Wonderful conversation! Long time MS listener and SO enjoying your content! I appreciate your perspective and mission!

  • @LifeAfterBelief
    @LifeAfterBelief Місяць тому +6

    I’m a huge Mormon Stories fan, as a former believer myself. Your interview of John is fantastic. Great questions and input. I’m following your channel now because I love your approach and topics.

  • @trembletea
    @trembletea Місяць тому +3

    That was a perfect summary of why I enjoy Mormon Stories as a never-Mormon. Listening to each human story helps me navigate my own midlife crisis of meaning. I also love all the history deep dives. The Robert Rittner episodes on Egyptology were incredible - I’ve listened to the whole 13 hours more than once!

  • @marcialeecampbell5156
    @marcialeecampbell5156 Місяць тому +11

    Amen Dr. Dehlin. From a never Mormon.

  • @barbaralael5092
    @barbaralael5092 Місяць тому +6

    I love John's story. It meant a lot to me. When I was a member prior to 1989, I noticed a difference between "lifers " and "converts" which isn't very out there. But it came up in private Tupperware parties etc. That I heard about but wasn't invited to. I started noticing my callings were with small children. Converts I noticed were with the children not the youth or adults. We are were not trusted with doctrine.

    • @TS-iv9ml
      @TS-iv9ml Місяць тому

      I made a special point to make sure all my "inspired callings" were with the innocent children. I wanted to let each of them know they were loved just as they are ❤ and to protect them since I never was, born & raised in that "corporation " selfidentifying as tye "only true religion" albeit manmade. That's the only way i could manage to keep going till i just couldn't fake it anymore... so grateful for the people sharing truths these days 💞

  • @StephRivera
    @StephRivera Місяць тому +6

    That was awesome! It's nice to hear him tell his own story.

  • @debraallender7444
    @debraallender7444 Місяць тому +3

    I love Mormon Stories. This was a great 2 Part Interview!

  • @cathyweisner2683
    @cathyweisner2683 Місяць тому +11

    ❓❓❓ As a never-Mormon, am I understanding that just because someone is baptized that’s it you’re Mormon and your “membership” is recorded and your name appears in the records? Is that correct❓❓❓

    • @ladrac198
      @ladrac198 Місяць тому +10

      Absolutely!! Even if you haven't attended in years they keep your name on the records, and they'll keep your name on the book until your 110th birthday, just to inflate the numbers even more. They do everything they can to keep up appearance of growth.

    • @cathyweisner2683
      @cathyweisner2683 Місяць тому +3

      @@ladrac198 Thank you for the clarification.

    • @whatsup3270
      @whatsup3270 Місяць тому

      @@cathyweisner2683 This is common to most religions, additionally in all fairness it is actually hard to know who is still alive, still lives in this town, does or does not consider themselves a member, and who may want to come back. Additionally, every year millions request Church records! Now that should change because of the computer generation however many historically request baptism records, marriage records, and funeral records. Some for religious reasons, some for family search, some for legal cases.

    • @raincadeify
      @raincadeify Місяць тому

      You can ask to have your name removed though, but I think a lot of people don't and the church doesn't investigate, since they want the numbers.

  • @grantstanfield6636
    @grantstanfield6636 Місяць тому +4

    John… where do you go? I am in such despair. My whole world is crashing down. I don’t know what to do…

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому +1

      Don't worry! People still exist after the video ends! :-)

    • @dorothybatton9544
      @dorothybatton9544 Місяць тому

      Only thing to do is to get down on your knees and talk to God regularly. You will receive answers 🙏

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  25 днів тому

      What evidence convinced you that there are any gods?

  • @PARebecca
    @PARebecca Місяць тому +3

    Be a solution to the problem you know is coming..that is how I see this interview. Both of you are the solutions to the problems that are coming from non-believers. Non-believers need the solutions you both are providing. As an ex-Mormon now Atheist, I have found many solutions to my problems of being an ex-Mormon now Atheist listening to podcasts like The Cross Examiner and Mormon Stories. So happy to see my two worlds connect with each other and discover how much we have in common with each other. Deconstructing can take years to accomplish...non-believers do not happen over night.

  • @Jane-dy1px
    @Jane-dy1px Місяць тому +4

    I enjoyed listening to this very much. Mostly because of the respectful, logical, common sense approach that you both bring to the discussion. Human beings need to be open minded and respectful with one another if they are ever going to achieve peace or accomplish anything worthwhile. Thank you both. Very enlightening.

  • @user-eu8nm2dc1y
    @user-eu8nm2dc1y Місяць тому +2

    This is definitely one of my favorite interviews to get to know John a bit better. Love this guy. And I'm very glad to discover The Cross Examiner.

  • @richharkness5942
    @richharkness5942 Місяць тому +2

    We did the same thing on my mission in the Patagonia of Argentina. They wanted to create a stake but couldn't get people to be baptized. So we baptized a lot of kids and also adults that would come play soccer with us. They didn't know what we were doing but we got them on the rolls. And they formed the Neuquen stake

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому

      Thanks for sharing. How do you feel about that, now?

    • @richharkness5942
      @richharkness5942 Місяць тому +1

      @@thecrossexaminer6665 I feel like shit really because I lied to the people I grew to love in Argentina. We had to teach 40 discussions a week memorize the 1st discussion and stop people in the streets and give it to them. We could not go to the museums or get to know the culture. Like I was there and Israel arrested 2 of Hitlers generals in Bareloche Argentina. England bombed a city I was in during the Falkland war we could not go to the museum. I did not get to know the history or culture of Argentina. Just baptize teach your here to baptize and nothing else. I am getting married to my girlfriend in Lima Peru in August and heading to Cusco but while working in Peru and visiting Peru I have gotten to know the people's history and they are a wonderful culture.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  25 днів тому

      I understand how you feel. It sucks, but that was a time in your life when people were taking advantage of a very young and trusting version of you. On the bright side, I am glad you got to experience a different culture!

    • @richharkness5942
      @richharkness5942 23 дні тому

      @@thecrossexaminer6665 Yes even though it was cold and windy seeing penguins, sea lions, elephant seals, andes condors. Where they think Hitler went to and they found 2 of his generals living in Bareloche Argentina and took them to Israel to be tried for war crimes. My fiancee is the best thing about my mission. I'm fluent in Spanish still and my fiancee is Peruvian and the most beautiful woman. We are getting married on August 2nd and going to Machupichu for our honeymoon. But she just got her nose and breasts done as a wedding gift. Her ex broke her nose and after having 3 wonderful daughters and breastfeeding she wanted them lifted.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  21 день тому

      TMI

  • @bodytrainer1crane730
    @bodytrainer1crane730 Місяць тому +4

    That's interesting about Mormons being so eager to leave and talk about it especially in relation to other high-demand religions. I'm sure there are at least several variables that led to this phenomena.

  • @debrac2897
    @debrac2897 Місяць тому +2

    This was an absolutely wonderful podcast. Thank you so much for doing this! I’ve been watching Mormon Stories and John Dehlin for a few years now and he has helped me tremendously in my deconstruction of Mormonism. I have now found the cross examiner and am so excited to watch/listen to his podcasts! So much of what you spoke about with John in these videos has resonated with me and I sincerely appreciate your thoughts and insight. Thank you both for all your hard work!

  • @MrBlasz
    @MrBlasz Місяць тому +3

    Well that was quick. Thanks for hosting this.

  • @teena4rl211
    @teena4rl211 Місяць тому +1

    Dr. Dehlin described it perfectly--we see our own faith crisis/journey in his and the stories of his guest. Excellent interview. Thank you.

  • @barryrichins
    @barryrichins Місяць тому +1

    Thanks, my friend. I am and agnostic leaning toward atheism, and like my friend John Dehlin, I am a Mormon by culture, in other words, a Mormon Boy. I am so glad you are here on line that I hope to learn and share much from and with you and your guests..

  • @LamaniteLiving
    @LamaniteLiving Місяць тому +2

    Has anyone watched Margi Dehlin’s Mormon story called “coming home to myself”?
    Poor lady.

  • @misha_stupidyttookmyname
    @misha_stupidyttookmyname Місяць тому +2

    Never mormon here. For me a lot of ex-mormon stories (especially the way alyssa grenfell talks about hers) remind me of my experiences as a trans man when i was struggling to figure out what to do. They're stories of selfdiscovery. And i've always liked coming out stories. Real or fiction. And originally i found that in lgbtq stories. Only now i'm realizing that concept isn't exclusive to lgbt.
    Anyway, the idea of figuring out who you are and then presenting that to the world and seeing a reaction to that is just fascinating. And seeing others experiences with that helps put my own into perspective.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's always surprisingly rewarding when I hear people draw parallels to their own experience that I never even considered!

  • @marquitaarmstrong399
    @marquitaarmstrong399 Місяць тому +2

    To get to the other bride?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Subscribed just on that😂😂😂❤❤❤

    • @marquitaarmstrong399
      @marquitaarmstrong399 Місяць тому

      Thank you. Am African American xlds. ❤ u still chuckling...

  • @katherinebiden4137
    @katherinebiden4137 Місяць тому +2

    I have been listening to Mormon Stories for a couple of years and I love it. This was a great interview

  • @SuWilcox
    @SuWilcox Місяць тому +2

    This is all fantastic, but it was the bit when you said you're a Broadway fan that sent me scrambling for the "subscribe" button.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому

      Thanks! May I suggest my ongoing series on Faith healing? In Part 3 of that series, I do a montage of various portrayals of children in culture over time and I play a good number of clips form musicals! Heres' the playlist: ua-cam.com/video/c5Om4SlvDMU/v-deo.html&ab_channel=TheCrossExaminer

  • @tawnyachristensen7310
    @tawnyachristensen7310 Місяць тому +2

    Great interview!

  • @kevinmcdonald951
    @kevinmcdonald951 Місяць тому +3

    Really enjoyed it.

  • @Zena357
    @Zena357 Місяць тому +2

    I'm an ex-mormon atheist. I also think that Jesus is a mythical character and didn't exist. The answer to the mysteries of the universe will forever remain an enigma.

  • @barb9465
    @barb9465 Місяць тому +2

    As an orthodox Mormon for over 40 years, Dr John Dehlin’s podcast has helped heal my broken heart and piece back together my shattered identity. I will forever be grateful for his work.

  • @radicalkelly59
    @radicalkelly59 Місяць тому +1

    Great interviewer. Passionate guest. Thank you!

  • @xochitlkitty
    @xochitlkitty Місяць тому +2

    I agree that the Mormon Stories podcast gives hope that we can move back away from authoritarianism. I feel quite scared about white white nationalist Christians are capable of politically and perhaps forcefully. When I hear the people on Mormon Stories talk about their journeys out of authoritarian organizations, it gives me hope that we can go back to being more moderate.

  • @tamalthor697
    @tamalthor697 Місяць тому +2

    45:00 if you want to see similar stories with similar church deconstruction but from an evangelical standpoint, check out Rhett and Links spiritual deconstruction series, has yearly updates.

  • @gailm3154
    @gailm3154 Місяць тому +1

    Holy s*** I never thought about Tangled like that!

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому +3

      Yes, the fairy tale of Rapunzel is all about the constructed reality in which she is trapped!

    • @texastornado5517
      @texastornado5517 Місяць тому +1

      Tangled explained that way, blew my mind. Must be why it always did, and still does, resonate with me.

  • @aBrewster29
    @aBrewster29 Місяць тому +3

    I very much enjoyed the insight in this discussion. Thank you!
    One of the aspects of mormonism that has always struck a chord with me is the concept of the Natural Man, that we have innate spiritual qualities and human weakness which we are meant to enhance and overcome, respectively, throughout life.
    In practice, though, I often see this teaching corrupted to promote the status quo. You see a similar pattern with the fruits doctrine-truth and goodness are attributed based on the identity of the actor, not the intrinsic qualities of the action. And then you layer on the power dynamic, that discourages self-correction within the system…it’s absolutely tragic.

  • @jackgaskill4528
    @jackgaskill4528 Місяць тому +1

    It's true honesty is not a virtue of the church anymore. If you are truly honest you get punished.

  • @cabrown308
    @cabrown308 19 днів тому +1

    It’s not necessarily religious sense so much as it’s a spiritual sense

  • @mybachhertzbaud3074
    @mybachhertzbaud3074 Місяць тому +1

    One might think that people would have finally recognized by now that the earth is their heaven and the only religious teachings they need is "Thou shall not turn this heaven into a hell"🤔

  • @raincadeify
    @raincadeify Місяць тому +1

    I see this is a few days old but I hope you see this. According to Aaron from Growing Up In Scientology, YT is no longer monetizing multi-streams. Just letting you know. You have to modify it in some way and post separately or neither channel gets monetized.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks! These are prerecorded and I add my own intro and outro. Also, I don't monetize my channel at this time. Appreciate your feedback!

    • @raincadeify
      @raincadeify Місяць тому +1

      ​@@thecrossexaminer6665 I see. That should work as long as it's not streaming the same content. YT is always changing their rules and not that great at communicating. I left the same comment on MS since it's been a recent change. Btw, I'll be checking out your channel, as a fellow skeptic I've also taken in a lot of Mormon Stories (and Scientology exes) because I'm fascinated by how easily persuaded we humans can be by unverifiable assertions, especially when the result is against our own interest. We seem to be seeing more and more of this in our current confabulation of both suspicion and magical thinking. Since Mormons are so much in the news lately, I've been following a few court cases, so that's probably how your vid ended up in my feed. Good luck with your channel.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  25 днів тому

      Thanks so much!

  • @cabrown308
    @cabrown308 19 днів тому +1

    John probably already knows this who lose their faith completely, and become agnostic or atheist or generally people who have studied the Bible more most closely. Priests frequently lose their faith because of it.

  • @dystoniaawarness3353
    @dystoniaawarness3353 27 днів тому +1

    It's WRONG to have a Mormon therapist use the gospel in therapy is NOT good. My first therapist after I started running away just before I turned 16 due to a child hurter, getting me at 15, I looked 12, was evil. He had me stand on a chair while reading out of book of Mormon getting loud, I'm sobbing so hard, telling me to obey my parents and just religious crap. Never actually found out the real cause of my running away ect. It ruined and traumatized me SOOO much. A 32-year-old man I didn't really know talked me into running away the first time. Then it happened and of course I had NO idea what was going on. NO sex ed or anything of course. If I had had a decent real therapist like now things could have taken a whole different path in my life.

  • @marjanahjaiyana5272
    @marjanahjaiyana5272 Місяць тому +2

    That’s why we have a rainbow he put it there ,because of Flood supposedly . It seems like it’s a fantasy.

  • @nicolafigini784
    @nicolafigini784 Місяць тому +1

    I don't think "Suffer the little children" means 'Adults, put up with the children' as stated by the host! Wasn't it something like "Suffer the little children, come unto me"? As in, little children who suffer come to me for care and protection.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому +1

      Good question! The full verse is "And they brought unto him also infants, that he would touch them: but when his disciples saw it, they rebuked them.
      But Jesus called them unto him, and said, Suffer little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God."
      Jesus is speaking to his adult disciple about children. The disciples don't think Jesus should bother with kid because, back then, they were just things...property. So, here, Jesus is correcting his disciples by telling them to "suffer," children which means "put up with" or "tolerate." So, here, he is telling adults something like "You should tolerate little children and don't prevent them from coming to me, because being in heaven is much like childhood."
      Hope this helps!

    • @nicolafigini784
      @nicolafigini784 Місяць тому +1

      @@thecrossexaminer6665 Thank you for that. I didn't know the full verse. I stand corrected. 👍

  • @gowanderlustwithme
    @gowanderlustwithme Місяць тому +1

    I’m confused. Christianity is at an all time low and organized religion is dying in the US. We are quickly becoming a secular society. Can you please describe and qualify what you are referring to as a rise in Christian nationalism?

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому +1

      Are you familiar with the Jan 6 insurrection?

    • @Morstorpod
      @Morstorpod Місяць тому +3

      Very simply summarized (there is more nuance and detail out there): As Christianity is becoming less common, the remaining group is becoming more insular and creating an echo chamber of dangerous ideas. Some of these individuals are willing to do anything to maintain Christianity as the state religion, because that is god's will (even though there is not supposed to be a state religion).
      For one recent example you can google Justice Alito's secret recording and how his religion is more important than law and order.

    • @marquitaarmstrong399
      @marquitaarmstrong399 Місяць тому

      Sure ask any Trump s upporter

  • @joell439
    @joell439 Місяць тому +1

    👍😎👍

  • @xochitlkitty
    @xochitlkitty Місяць тому +2

    I’m a never Mormon. Like you Cross Examiner, I was exposed to the Episcopalian version of Christianity; although, unlike your parents, my dad was very religious (in a non-fundamentalist way) and forced me to go to church every Sunday. I never really believed any of it. I read the Old Testament when I was 13 just because. I got a pretty bad impression of God from that. He seemed kinda mean, jealous, spiteful, and women got treated like s**t. Anyway- I listen to Mormon Stories and other similar podcasts because I want to try and understand what makes someone like my former stepbrother who seems pretty smart and down to earth, believe that the Earth was created 6000 years ago? Or what makes someone want to live their lives with so many arbitrary rules to follow and the constant fear of being damned for all Eternity? And why is it necessary to them for all the rest of us to go along with them? And where does that sadistic streak come from?

  • @jaylarsen67
    @jaylarsen67 Місяць тому +1

    However, my exception to Jesus is his arrogance saying he is the way the truth and the light. This became obvious when stumbled on Luke 10:45. I happened to throw in the words my ass when he chastized Simon Peter for not kissing him.

  • @hanako4475
    @hanako4475 Місяць тому +1

    If the main quest is to join the one true church, why did god clearly spend SO MUCH MORE time developing the side quests and content??? 😂😂😂😂

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому

      I know, right? By the time you are done with the side quests, you will be like level 100 and the main quest will be too simple for you!

  • @kohlstrong
    @kohlstrong Місяць тому

    I wish the Atheist Experience show was what you said it was. In reality there is far too many vicious attacks coming from Dillahunty and others. I still enjoy it, but there is a lot of ad hominem grossness.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому

      Each host has their own style. Matt hasn't been a host for several years. I struggle to make sure that we have productive conversations without letting people preach. I stive to always avoid getting personal.

  • @AlbertJLouie
    @AlbertJLouie 26 днів тому

    When you seek answers from the Book of Mormon instead of the Bible, God can't help you because you have turned your back on Him. Therefore this leaves the door open for Satan (II Corinthians 11:14-15) to step into your life with a false christ or prophet showing you signs and wonders to lead you away from the real Jesus of the Bible who is God the Son 2nd person of the Trinity and the Eternal Creator God. God Himself warns us about this in: MATTHEW 24: 23-24
    "Then if anyone says to you, Look, here is the Christ! or There! do not believe it. For false christs and false prophets will rise and show great signs and wonders to deceive, if possible, even the elect..."
    Mormons teach and believe that their jesus is the brother of Satan, which contradicts what God says in His Bible that Jesus is God the Son 2nd person of the Trinity and the Eternal Creator God.
    So Mormons, which Jesus do you believe in?
    A. Your jesus of the Book of Mormon, who is the brother of Satan.
    OR
    B. The Jesus of the Bible, who is God the Son 2nd person of the Trinity and the Eternal Creator God.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  25 днів тому

      Why do you come here spouting scripture when, to us outsiders, it sounds like you are arguing over fan fiction. What evidence do you have that any of the supernatural claims in the Bible are real?

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 Місяць тому

    Obey Gods Commandments..NOT Man’s commandments. Religion and churches are man’s commandments! Jesus HimSelf Said..”Stop teaching for Doctrine the commandments of men.” Christians and Mormons don’t even know what Jesus Said! 😊❤

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому

      How do you know that there is a god? Even if we grant that we can know that there is a god, how do you know what it wants you to do?

    • @kathleenwharton2139
      @kathleenwharton2139 Місяць тому

      @@thecrossexaminer6665
      I don’t! Nobody does. It is a Belief. But I Know there is a voice within me who tells me the Right thing to do.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  25 днів тому

      Why do you believe that that instinct towards good act means that there is a god?

    • @kathleenwharton2139
      @kathleenwharton2139 24 дні тому

      @@thecrossexaminer6665
      God is Love and the Solar System if full of Love. It is There for us who Believe. God Loves me and Blesses me. He is non failing. Depending on a churches love or peoples love is extremely undependable. That which gives me Life is God. Many people simply believe it is themselves. Believe whatever you will! Or don’t believe at all. Fine with me. I Know what I Believe. 😇🥰

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  21 день тому

      Respectfully, I asked, "Why do you believe X" and you just repeated that you believe X without explaining why you believe X. Put another way, why should I believe what you believe re: God?

  • @jeantoller
    @jeantoller Місяць тому

    I’m not falling for your lies. Sorry. Good luck standing before an accounting with the Savior some day If you were Satan which church would you fight against?? Oh, only the true one. Yup

  • @AlbertJLouie
    @AlbertJLouie 26 днів тому

    MORMONS, THERE IS NO BAPTISM FOR THE DEAD.
    Scripture is very clear in stating that this life is the only chance we get. Once we die, our fate is sealed:
    HEBREWS 9:27
    "it is the appointed for men to die once, and after that comes judgement."
    There are no "second chances" after death.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  25 днів тому

      What evidence do we have that any of the supernatural claims in the Bible are real? To outsiders, it sounds like you are arguing over fan fiction.

  • @user-ux3vb5zg1p
    @user-ux3vb5zg1p Місяць тому

    John Dillon is no doctor

    • @user-ks3cu8uq3q
      @user-ks3cu8uq3q Місяць тому +6

      You might want to start by spelling his name correctly. And Ph.D.'s were doctors before M.D.'s were.

    • @user-mh5qg5jb7d
      @user-mh5qg5jb7d Місяць тому

      i knOw tHE cHurCh iS trUE, bECAuse thE churcH SayS iT Is TruE.

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому +3

      Care to actually engage in adult discussion or are you just going to make obviously false claims and run away?

  • @musketeerflyer
    @musketeerflyer Місяць тому +1

    Two atheists talking about the evils of "religion". Yawwwn!

    • @thecrossexaminer6665
      @thecrossexaminer6665  Місяць тому +14

      If you had listened, you would know that Dr. Dehlin doesn't identify as an atheist. As for speaking to the "evils of 'religion,'" we do discuss the bad things the LDS and other *churches* have done, but we also discuss the good things *religion* can inspire people to do. Ask yourself why you feel compelled to comment on a video without even watching it and, maybe, listen before instead of putting your fingers in your ears and walking away?
      Perhaps you would like my series entitled, "Why we care." In it, I give example after example of why atheists care about religion. ua-cam.com/video/KRntYK8YSIE/v-deo.html&ab_channel=TheCrossExaminer

  • @cabrown308
    @cabrown308 19 днів тому +1

    It’s not necessarily religious sense so much as it’s a spiritual sense