LIFE UPDATE / DIVORCE / SURGERY UPDATE AND SO MUCH MORE / 2022 IS GOING TO BE INTERESTING

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  • @ShyvonneMelanieTV
    @ShyvonneMelanieTV  2 роки тому +261

    Hey Beautiful People! Thank you all so much! I truly appreciate you all. Leave your comments & questions and I will do a Q&A video this month.

    • @monicajordan6900
      @monicajordan6900 2 роки тому +13

      Keep your head up and keep moving forward! God is with you and the family! You were created with a smile ! The goodness of your heart flows through this screen! God got you and him! This year will be the quickest turn around! Cut off and moving forward! You will bounce back better!

    • @monicajordan6900
      @monicajordan6900 2 роки тому +10

      Trust God’s process and timing !!!!

    • @shiningstar1754
      @shiningstar1754 2 роки тому +6

      Omg mrs shyvonne im sorry to hear that u been going through all these things i hope that everyones in the best state of health and mind i pray that this year mrs shyvonne brings u nothing but joy, happiness, good health and peace for u and ur family to heal from all the things that have happened i really hope and pray that everything works out for u and those beautiful talented kids u have may god continue to bless u my friend😘🥰💞

    • @Betterme0000
      @Betterme0000 2 роки тому +2

      What other goals do you have for this year??

    • @melissawalker4286
      @melissawalker4286 2 роки тому +4

      Hey Shyvonne, I am so sorry for both of your losses. You are a strong woman and you will get through all of this. Put God first and there is nothing you can't do. So glad that you are doing well too.💜❤️💜

  • @sierradubose2678
    @sierradubose2678 2 роки тому +229

    Girl I knew something wasn’t right you have BEEN doing everything by yourself. Your an amazing mom and provider to your kids. God sees and will see you through anything you need and want to do❤️❤️❤️

    • @Michelle-hg6gt
      @Michelle-hg6gt 2 роки тому +28

      From the start of her Channel Chris was gone. He may have been there physically but you could see that man was gone. I was shock when she said she was married. I guess on paper. I really think some UA-camrs put too much out on the internet. Don’t get me wrong I like her Channel and her strength as a woman and a mother she does an amazing job. She could have skipped this. We never saw him anyway. All we saw was this strong woman with a kind spirit. I wish you and the children all the best but you guys will get through this. You was going it all along physically and mentally by yourself.

    • @Itcouldallbesosimple45
      @Itcouldallbesosimple45 2 роки тому +6

      @@Michelle-hg6gt She did say that he worked 2 full time jobs and would have to call out sick to have a day off, but yes he seemed distant.

  • @michelleoconnor6977
    @michelleoconnor6977 2 роки тому +12

    Condolences on the passing of your grandmother. She is resting peacefully in Paradise, while watching over you and will guide you through the hardships and great times for this new year. I've never believed in staying in an unhappy marriage for children, so you and your spouse have made the best decision for your family. Families don't work if the parents don't work. You are a strong woman and will succeed. He will regret his decisions in not supporting you and the children fully. Children are very resilient and they will make it through these dark times. You all will make it through. Congratulations on the weight loss but please take it easy and take care of yourself. Waiting patiently on more new home updates. You gor this because you are STRONG!!!

  • @akeishaharris
    @akeishaharris 2 роки тому +2

    Sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my prayers as you go through your divorce. You're a very strong woman and loving mother. God will definitely take care of you all❤

  • @ronngmann
    @ronngmann 2 роки тому +2

    I’m so happy you are back and happy. So proud of you for being strong. Yes you deserve the best we as women deserve respect and by stepping out on faith you know God’s got your back. Seeing this is encouraging to me. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @beautifulllb9493
    @beautifulllb9493 2 роки тому +2

    Weight loss surgery was apart of his reason?? I’m so sorry. I’ve seen that happen on weight loss shows, where the spouse/significant other decides to leave. It’s insecurity on their end, nothing to do with you. May God continue to bless you and your babies on your new journey!

  • @AvaLight143
    @AvaLight143 2 роки тому +1

    I haven’t gotten a notification for you in months
    Girl you are a beautiful power house God has huge plans for you beautiful

  • @DATFAMILY5
    @DATFAMILY5 2 роки тому

    Glad to see you back. Praying for comfort. Praying that you will get back to being YOU.

  • @Cheri2614
    @Cheri2614 2 роки тому

    Shyvonne, I am typically a quiet viewer of your channel. I watch all your videos but I rarely comment. While watching one of your recent videos, I knew there was something going on with you. I didn't see that sparkle. Now I know. I am praying for your strength.

  • @bettybutler6488
    @bettybutler6488 2 роки тому

    Hey Shyvonne sending my deepest sympathy 🙏🏽 Lean,Rely and Depend Solely
    on the Lord be strong in God everything will workout for your good much love and many blessings.

  • @BabyGirl3538
    @BabyGirl3538 2 роки тому

    I’m glad to see you my fave UA-cam cousin… you are indeed a strong and beautiful woman and this too shall pass… the kids will be okay and so will you… 💜💛🌻💜💛

  • @cdk1473
    @cdk1473 3 місяці тому

    This video came across my feed. I am so proud of you and your family.

  • @vilmatorres7301
    @vilmatorres7301 2 роки тому

    Sorry for your lost you are a strong woman take care of yourself and your family hugs 🤗😘

  • @flawlesshairstyling
    @flawlesshairstyling 2 роки тому

    So sorry about your grandmother 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @pameladaniels744
    @pameladaniels744 2 роки тому

    Shyvonne you are beautiful inside and out!!!!To me, you have already won!!!You've been pushing through even when you were tired!!!!!God has aa definitely blessing waiting for you...because you endured to the end and you have defeated the enemy!!!!!Love yourself and then your children and the rest will fall in place ......You look great!!!Your weight loss is great and it looks good on you!!! Keep pushing keep striving but take the time you need to me tally and physically heal......Love you

  • @gildalloyd5047
    @gildalloyd5047 Рік тому

    Hello Shyvonne, I love your video's I watch everyday. keep shinny with your beautiful family .

  • @annetterodriguez6569
    @annetterodriguez6569 2 роки тому

    I LOVE WATCHING YOUR CHANNEL, GOD GOT U!!! AND YOUR KIDS!

  • @denisemartin3084
    @denisemartin3084 2 роки тому

    You Have Such A Beautiful Heart, And Spirt, You Will Be Fine, I Will Keep You And Your Family In My Prayer, Keep Moving Forward, And Keep God First, And You Will Be Alright.

  • @veraray905
    @veraray905 2 роки тому

    Glad to see you back

  • @ediemaega
    @ediemaega 2 роки тому

    She Is Strong, Proverbs 31:25.
    Shyvonne, Shyvonne girl I missed you, I love your family.
    My heart goes out to the children, I'm sorry to hear the death in your family and what you going through health & otherwise.
    You are strong, smart, entertaining & determined.
    U know what you want and about to go after it like never before....
    Wishing you all the BEST !!!!

  • @eunicewashington9705
    @eunicewashington9705 Рік тому

    I'm very glad you doing OK I know it takes time to heal but with God's help you will be fine he will give you the strength 💪 to go on with your life and I will pray for you and your family 👪 love you 😙

  • @rhondamarley4642
    @rhondamarley4642 2 роки тому

    Many hugs for u and your children! God bless u. And girl u are looking good! Keep up the good work on yourself and your channel and your family!❤️

  • @donnajenkins9943
    @donnajenkins9943 2 роки тому

    Congratulations, Happy New Year, you got this and God got you, Chris was never interested in any thing to me just my opinion, 🙏🏾❤️

  • @sonolamanu
    @sonolamanu 2 роки тому

    Condoglianze vivissime x la perdita della nonna e molto dispiaciuta x il divorzio.un caro saluto ai tuoi figli

  • @keedinah
    @keedinah 2 роки тому +129

    "Everything doesn't have to be for the internet."
    Bingo! Remember that as you go through this process. Praying your strength and encouragement. You got this, girl. Blessings.

    • @cinnababe53
      @cinnababe53 2 роки тому +9

      So sorry to hear about your Grandma passing.... sorry to about the kids being so upset and sorry to hear about the divorce in general but I wish a new beautiful free life for you...soar Shyvonne💓

  • @MFeliix
    @MFeliix 2 роки тому +383

    Instead of embracing it he’s running away, he’s definitely scared of the glow up. What a shame. I know you’ll be good regardless. One reason why I follow you is your ambition. Keep those babies smiling, we love you! 2022 stop testing my girl! Keep the word EPIC, its a bad day not a bad life. You still have the rest of the year to go!

    • @judylucas4613
      @judylucas4613 2 роки тому +25

      Being married 38 years it's not about the surgery. They've separated before and didn't discuss actually getting back, it just happened. Like she said they should've stayed separated. They had problems way before surgery. That's not the situation. The love is gone and that's major....

    • @rachelnan6875
      @rachelnan6875 2 роки тому +3

      @@judylucas4613 💯

    • @keauxunkut2144
      @keauxunkut2144 2 роки тому +3

      I love that.. it’s a bad day not a bad life 💕💕💕

    • @empressmarie4027
      @empressmarie4027 2 роки тому

      Exactly

    • @bonitabrown1775
      @bonitabrown1775 2 роки тому +7

      Wow!! They always look for reasons to leave you, my first husband told me if I cut my hair he would leave me. So guess what I did just like my girl and I cut my hair and he left, I’m so happy that I did. Shyvonne is a survivor, he will be looking for her with a flash light in the day time. Believe you me he will be wanting her back so bad his whole body will ache like a tooth ache. One thing Shyvonne is beautiful, smart, loving, caring, Great Great mother, Great Great Wife, most all she is taking her life back. I love you Shyvonne please keep your weight lose journey. You are a great example for single moms out there.💐🥰💐

  • @Jaminecooper
    @Jaminecooper 2 роки тому +71

    Consider this a clean start to a beautiful new year!

  • @patriciahagedorn5694
    @patriciahagedorn5694 2 роки тому +173

    So glad to see you back. I was getting worried that something had gone wrong with your surgery. I am so sorry for the passing of your grandmother. As for you and Chris, I knew something was up because you guys seemed so distant. He just wasn't there for you and the kids. I have no doubt that you will move forward and happy. The same identical thing happened to me and I took my kids and moved back to California and bought a Condo. It was rough in the beginning but I was strong and never looked back. We made it and I've never been happier. I love you and wish you the very best for the future and turning you new house into a home for you and the kids. God Bless you and your family. KOKO (keep on keeping on)!

    • @seeme8125
      @seeme8125 2 роки тому +5

      I think he's jealous and insecure of your success and growth.

  • @stacyjackson3709
    @stacyjackson3709 2 роки тому +43

    Hi Shyvonne,
    I was very worried about you. I'm happy that you are back with us. I'm soo very sorry to hear that your Grandmother passed away and that you are getting a Divorce. I Applaud you for sharing with us because you didn't have to. I will start by saying that your UA-cam Family Loves you dearly and you and your Kids have our Support. I think you are the Most Sweetest, Humble Person that I know. I've been there before and God saw me through it and Brought me through it. You have to put yourself first sometimes. It was very Selfish of your husband to tell you that if you get the surgery that he would leave, so he just wanted you to stay the way that you were and not help yourself to want to feel better. He should have been your Biggest Supporter. Shame on him. I for one am very Proud of you for doing what you felt that you needed and wanted to do. God has something better for you and your children. God Promised that he would never leave nor Forsake us and he would never put no more on us than we can bare. You are going to be okay. You just purchased your first home, you lost 30 pounds, you have a full time job and UA-cam channel. Girl that's alright in my book, you are holding it down. I'm going to keep you and your beautiful children in my Prayers. And again my Sincere Condolences on the passing of your Grandmother which I believe she would be very proud of you for taking a stand. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @jerel12307
      @jerel12307 2 роки тому +5

      Wow, those were awesome words that you had for her ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @yvettemiller5280
      @yvettemiller5280 2 роки тому +3

      My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family very sorry your marriage has come to an end but God is always going to be with you your a strong woman let God Lead you you have accomplished so much and it’s through the Grace of God you stay strong as I know you will all those things that you mentioned about yourself will
      Happen stay focus you got this girlie love you much and hang in there happy new year blessings to you ❤️🙏🏿

  • @GRich01
    @GRich01 2 роки тому +282

    Continue praying and push through! And also praying for the kids!

    • @MexIndio1
      @MexIndio1 2 роки тому +4

      Hey G Rich!!!! 😊

    • @GRich01
      @GRich01 2 роки тому +1

      @@MexIndio1 hello Afro-Indio

    • @Moniquebites
      @Moniquebites 2 роки тому +2

      Hello G Rich💙💛❤💚❤💙💜💙💛❤💚

    • @GRich01
      @GRich01 2 роки тому +1

      @@Moniquebites hello

    • @beekind6267
      @beekind6267 2 роки тому +1

      Hey G Rich!! Kiss Miss Resa for me!! 🤗🤗

  • @joyfor3ver
    @joyfor3ver 2 роки тому +53

    Hey Shyvonne! Personally, I'm not worried about you. I've been watching for awhile now and have caught up on some of your older videos. What I've seen, shows strength and perseverance and honey you got more of that than a lot of us. You are always making it happen for your family and I'm quite sure you will continue to do so.
    I will pray for your children to do well through this process and hope that you all find comfort in each other.

  • @patriciaharris2436
    @patriciaharris2436 2 роки тому +128

    Hey Shyvonne. I am so sorry about your loss of your grandmother and all you are going through. GOD will pull you through this. When I got divorced, my daughter and I went to counseling and it helped. Hold your head high. Fall on in your knees often. Be strong. Hug your babies but first hug yourself. You are an awesome mom. Never loose sight of who you are. Oh…. Congratulations on your weight loss. You look fabulous. ❤️🥰😍

  • @reneedavis3262
    @reneedavis3262 2 роки тому +72

    Hey Ms. Shyvonne! Despite everything that is going on I am declaring that 2022 will be a VICTORIOUS year for you and yours! God is working everything out for your good! ♥️

  • @toniconder696
    @toniconder696 2 роки тому +95

    Hey girl!! Iv missed you, iv worried about you and your health, sorry about your divorce. "Been there done that" iv been seeing you do it all on your own anyway! You got this hun!! Yes. You. Are. Strong...... make your home you and your kids!! God is all you need right now

    • @jerrilynpapilon9611
      @jerrilynpapilon9611 2 роки тому +5

      Yep Exactly she got this.

    • @GrowingPaynes
      @GrowingPaynes 2 роки тому +3

      Yes she has held her own the whole time I've been watching, it took me forever to realize she had a husband.

  • @shannoncook7731
    @shannoncook7731 2 роки тому +56

    I grew up in a household where the parents "stayed together for the kids" and it didn't end up well. I think that, as much as it hurts to go through, if the parents aren't happy, they need to separate. I remember the constant fighting and always feeling like it was my fault because if I weren't around, they could go be happy... apart. I know your babies are suffering, but believe me, you're doing the right thing by them. I send you tons of love, comfort and healing.

  • @melindabod
    @melindabod 2 роки тому +110

    I'm so sorry for your families loss and wish your family a healthy and prosperous new year. Your divorce will be the start of the beginning of your new journey. Wishing you all the best.

    • @sandrad5036
      @sandrad5036 2 роки тому +1

      Hi shyvonne and family!! My condolences and 🙏 . Sandra from Maryland..Peace and Blessing Always😍..

  • @dorisward2629
    @dorisward2629 2 роки тому +7

    SHYVONNE, in your divorce make sure your husband pay his share of child 🤑 support! I heard women in pass say they don't need his money, just spend time with their kids. NO. you need hour money. Lets not be stupid. Too many men get away not paying nothing. Don't do that to your children. Get it in your divorce decree. Some men take care other women children and not their own trying to impress the other woman. Just a little advise to you girlfriend❤ sisters need to stick together.🙏

  • @annemariepratt4480
    @annemariepratt4480 2 роки тому +44

    Hello beautiful mama. First I am truly sorry for your loss of your dear grandmother. And second from watching you and your zest for life . Maybe it is a perfect time you and Chris go your own way . You are truly a one parent home . You do everything. There is no keeping you down . You don't need any man right now . Do this for you . Your heart is Gold. You deserve to be happy and a happy home for your children is what you want we all love you please take care of your health 2022 you're gonna kick butt love you.

  • @Ppb126
    @Ppb126 2 роки тому +77

    Stay strong for you and the kids. If you need to get therapy, get it. It helped me through a divorce after a 40 year marriage. Now I’m living my best life!

  • @lounasampson1359
    @lounasampson1359 2 роки тому +48

    Hey Shyvonne. I’m sorry to hear about your divorce. However, I feel it in my heart that your best is yet to come. Cheers to STRONG and EPIC 2022 for you and your family!

  • @Novembersongbird
    @Novembersongbird 2 роки тому +69

    You got this. Happiness and trust during these times is a priority. You are blessed, HIGHLY FAVORED, smart, beautiful, articulate, fantastic nurturing Mom, focused, a professional woman, Sexy and full of LOVE and Joy!! His loss!!!

    • @blackbeauty1073
      @blackbeauty1073 2 роки тому +10

      I, second this statement. You are a strong woman and you make your life what you want it to be for you and your children. Stay blessed and keep your head up. God has your back.

    • @lindagillispie6179
      @lindagillispie6179 2 роки тому +4

      @@blackbeauty1073 Amen

    • @akeishaharris
      @akeishaharris 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly..

  • @bj7057
    @bj7057 2 роки тому +6

    I'm sorry about your Grandmother's passing. May she rest in Jesus. You've lost mote than 30 pounds...you've lost all of that weight that you were carrying around named Big Chris!!! Go ahead Girl and exhale. The best is yet to come. 🥰

  • @nikkiwowww9299
    @nikkiwowww9299 2 роки тому +9

    Shyvonne I remember a month ago you did a video with you and Ayanna painted. I commented saying that your husband should be doing it and be more involved, some people came for me in the comment even though it was not my intention to disrespect your channel. I said it because I saw that he was no help to u and if a man loved you he wouldn’t let u do all of that on your own, I told one of the women that came for me that no matter how a man works he makes time for his family. you are a beautiful woman with a great spirit and an awesome mother. I’m sure you are hurt but in time you will be ok. I hope you teach lil Chris how to be a man as well because it seems much wasn’t required of big Chris or little Chris. He should’ve been helping you to paint as the only boy as well. If big Chris is any good he will still do the work to get the house where he needs to be. Again I mean no disrespect because I love your channel. Congratulations on getting healthy for YOU. God bless you and your family because everything u said in this video u DO deserve.

    • @katrithastevens8753
      @katrithastevens8753 2 роки тому +3

      Totally agree 💯

    • @Lana-dn7yl
      @Lana-dn7yl 2 роки тому +3

      I agree! I thought that after purchasing the home he would have wanted to be more present and involved in helping her make it "their" home. HOWEVER, I admire her ambition, independence and strength so we all know she will be fine.

    • @nikkiwowww9299
      @nikkiwowww9299 2 роки тому +4

      @@Lana-dn7yl but even when she purchased the home I was surprised to see him at the signing because leading up to closing she kept say I bought a house and not we bought a house. She even said she was proud she worked hard and bought a house for her children. He obviously didn’t wanna be there and he’s messed up to make his wife and daughter paint that house. That should’ve been him and lil Chris doing that. I’m happy Shyvonne kicked him out and I hope someway somehow his son learns how to treat a woman

    • @amirawilliams8385
      @amirawilliams8385 2 роки тому +2

      He was jealous and insecure. She's setting and meeting all of her life goals, Including buying a home(I doubt he's on the deed) taking charge of her health, (weight loss surgery) her UA-cam channel, & meanwhile he isn't evolving and wants her to be stagnant like him, because it's safe and familiar to him. Man, fawk him! I'm so glad she made him leave HER house! She will find a partner that is truly deserving of her, once she fully heals

  • @jerigorenz2937
    @jerigorenz2937 2 роки тому +27

    Divorce hurts whether you're ready for it or not. I'm sorry about your loss. A year of change.
    I love your ambition and positive attitude.

  • @sherribaldwin2239
    @sherribaldwin2239 2 роки тому +117

    If they don’t make your life better then move on! I tell my daughter that all the time! You have so much going for you don’t let anyone bring you down! Love your channel and hang in there ❤️
    Ps…I would pay someone to paint for you! Take it easy, feel better and you have a lot going on! 😌

  • @1800kristi
    @1800kristi 2 роки тому +22

    You have so many people who love you to the moon & back. Your growth inspires me to look at myself and say, "What can I do this year to grow as a person?" My word for this year is "Freedom". Just looking at more ways to achieve financial freedom, etc. I mourn with you and your family at the loss of your grandmother & I'm praying for you as you pursue Strength this year🙏

  • @TheNewMissyJ
    @TheNewMissyJ 2 роки тому +108

    I know many of us could see that you weren’t being supported as much as you could be. I’m sorry that it had to be at this time. You do so much for your family, we can see it. You do deserve the best. Making the choice to grow and become better can be painful but you’ll be amazed at what God still has in store for you! You have so many prayers backing you and some angels in your corner 🙏🏾

  • @divastyle0412
    @divastyle0412 2 роки тому +53

    You are a very strong and humble woman; you deserve the best. I pray for peace and comfort as you go through your divorce. I admire your strength and all your videos! I know you and your family will be just fine! You already know your worth…and you deserve to be happy.

  • @jerel12307
    @jerel12307 2 роки тому +77

    I’m sorry about your grandmother Shyvonne. Strong is the perfect word for 2022. After a while we can only take so much of a mans crap, so I totally understand. Everything will fall into place 💜💜💜

  • @ValerieinSC
    @ValerieinSC 2 роки тому +33

    As somebody old enough to be your mama, I am glad you got the surgery for your health and because that is what YOU wanted. Prayers for you and your children. God will provide.
    Valerie in SC

  • @skyflowerkat915
    @skyflowerkat915 2 роки тому +29

    Out of the storm! Comes the calmness & serenity!! You got this! It will be so much better! Your a warrior for your children! 🙏👍🥂

  • @kathleenmcgimpsey7855
    @kathleenmcgimpsey7855 2 роки тому +35

    Shyvonne you will be fine although no one likes a breakup. I have always admired your strength , work ethic and your parenting. Sending you love and best wishes 💕

  • @sheilalogan5602
    @sheilalogan5602 2 роки тому +18

    Shyvonne I’m praying 🙏🏾 for you and the kids . You deserve the best and you will get that. You are an Amazing MOTHER!!

  • @karinaleverton
    @karinaleverton 2 роки тому +47

    It is in your darkest moments when you will find your “other self”. -Evy.
    Love your channel! Keep up the content #100k
    💗💗💗

  • @lauracollier457
    @lauracollier457 2 роки тому +25

    Sending you and the kids love and support. You do deserve a loving and supportive partner in your life. You got this girl! ❤

  • @kathaleneharding296
    @kathaleneharding296 2 роки тому +4

    I always wondered why ur husband never had any involvement in anything u did, never showed any interest what so ever. First I thought he just didn’t want to be filmed, but was I wrong!

  • @nashetthollingsworth1533
    @nashetthollingsworth1533 2 роки тому +31

    Good to see you back! Let him go on and live your life trust me you will be all right your UA-cam family got you we love you to the Moon and back ❤️❤️❤️❤️😘

  • @teresab6383
    @teresab6383 2 роки тому +40

    I guess I might can say I knew something was not right. I never want to see a family split up but I could see that your family as a hole was struggling. I wish you the best. I pray you and your kids will do great. Love you and your kids

  • @solangebravin1125
    @solangebravin1125 2 роки тому +28

    Olá Shivonne!!! Siga em frente e converse muito com seus filhos. Aja sempre pensando no bem estar deles. Bençãos e paz à familia. Do Brasil com carinho.

  • @CandiceBee
    @CandiceBee 2 роки тому +13

    Divorce is never fun, especially with children involved, But trust me, things do get better, I would suggest therapy for yourself and the children during this time. I’ve been there with my four children and since then I’ve remarried someone who appreciates me 100% , treats my children like they’re his own, and he also lets me rest in my femininity. I’m so sorry for your loss and I’m praying for you and the children ❤️

  • @steifenhornchen2341
    @steifenhornchen2341 2 роки тому +41

    I'm so happy you're feeling fine. I was so afraid you had serious complications with your surgery.
    Never forget, you changed so much for the better, rocking your live, getting a house, getting the operation for yourself and your happiness. You deserve to be happy with someone who supports you with EVERYTHING, even if that means to be alone for some time.
    So sorry for you, that you lost your grandma, but she watches over you.
    Wish you and youre kids the best!! 💓

  • @Ezrait
    @Ezrait 2 роки тому +64

    God will always show you the way. 2022 is definitely the year of “STRONG”!! You are definitely a strong woman, mother, sister, auntie, wife and then some! You are a entrepreneur showing your children hard work pays off. I see all that you do for your family. It gives me motivation to work harder. Cause I say to myself if Shyonne can do it well shoot I can get my lazy butt up and get this house together too! We all know being a mother, and wife isn’t for the weak! My condolences for the passing of your dear grandmother. May she rest in Paradise.

  • @Mayaofc213
    @Mayaofc213 2 роки тому +15

    You made me tear up with your words. You are strong! God bless you always and remember that God takes people away from your life that dont help you grow. Girlll you are gonna grow even more now!!!! Head up like always and stay beautiful!! Love you!!

  • @nsi8166
    @nsi8166 2 роки тому +12

    Peace. Glad you finally realized that shedding "the extra weight" would be best. It took away beautiful energy. Keep moving forward. Btw, you also said your ex didn't want you to get surgery. Sometimes, that is a way to keep you in a rut and keep others from wanting you. Anndd this is YOUR HOUSE NOW. You can put holes in the wall for bigger sturdier pieces of art. Do what you will. Peace

  • @bigerthanmyself421
    @bigerthanmyself421 2 роки тому +39

    Claim it and push through to make what you want happen.

  • @purplehaze6195
    @purplehaze6195 2 роки тому +18

    You are an absolutely AMAZING WOMAN! Do not EVER doubt who you are, or what you are capable of. From an outsider's perspective, you are every man's dream but some men can't handle the strength. Hold your head up Sista and don't look back.

  • @Brandi.65
    @Brandi.65 2 роки тому +5

    I felt that he wasn't really there for y'all. But you and the kid's, will be great 💞🙏🤗

  • @ocketsstevenson639
    @ocketsstevenson639 2 роки тому +18

    Hey Ms. Melanie, you have always seem to have this warm come on in and make yourself welcome personality. I've enjoyed your decorating and cleaning videos. Since this pandemic I've looked forward to your warm and inviting content. I'm sorry to hear of your grandmother passing. This couldn't have come at a more stressful time. And now to hear of your divorcing this I'm sure it's difficult for you and your children. Despite your many challenges, including your recovery, Please know our creator can give you the help you need to endure the hard times. And you will get pass this as well. Children going through divorce can be like a broken arm. The healing is painful but eventually the arm can be used again. And family life can be whole again. Everyone pulling together will build a stronger bridge instead of burning the bridge your family has. Be strong hold on the storm will pass and the sun will shine again.

  • @lakeshiascott8226
    @lakeshiascott8226 2 роки тому +30

    Hey Shyvonne glad you’re back and doing well. You are absolutely right to choose you first. If you are healthy and have a clear mind then the rest will fall into place. You deserve the world ..so keep pushing and hold your head up.. I do understand what you mean when you said you should’ve left well enough alone when y’all separated the first time..Be blessed we are here for you..

  • @scotthouse3664
    @scotthouse3664 2 роки тому +17

    My deepest condolences for the loss of your grandmother. As far as your pending divorce… I have so much to comment on but not for all to see but what I can say publicly is that this was inevitable and I am praying that more success, happiness and love comes your way. I am confident it will. Keep your head up and this too shall pass. 🙏🏽💗👍🏽

  • @marysos6159
    @marysos6159 2 роки тому +4

    Oh Shyvonne you’re so much stronger than you know it. So sad cause the videos back then I remember when you said he’d leave you if you had the surgery😢 I pray and know you’ll get through this cause yous a boss ass mama 💪🏼 Sucks when you’re changing to be happy and you’d expect your other half to support but sometimes they don’t cause they have their insecurities they haven’t worked through 🤦🏽‍♀️ Anyways, keep doing yous mama breathe, relax, and keep pushing for your baby’s and yourself❤️

  • @vatricegeorge4971
    @vatricegeorge4971 2 роки тому +42

    Shyvonne it’s good to see you back, this is a new year for you and your kids. Keep your head up because you got this, you have been doing this by yourself 💪🤗🙏. Do you Shyvonne! 2022 this is for you.

    • @mflournoy2971
      @mflournoy2971 2 роки тому

      None of us do anything 'by ourselves'.

  • @christineel4360
    @christineel4360 2 роки тому +23

    Happy new year Shyvonne! I usually don't comment....but I wanted to tell you that you should look after yourself and your family! Wishing you the best! Stay happy, love yourself and continue with your life! Lot's of love from Greece

  • @jealawson8959
    @jealawson8959 2 роки тому +5

    He got a other woman

  • @misfitmakeup5040
    @misfitmakeup5040 2 роки тому +10

    So sorry for your loss. Life is ever changing and you are strong. You got this. I love to see more videos on you weight loss journey. What do you eat in a day?

  • @livingandlovinglola
    @livingandlovinglola 2 роки тому +27

    Shyvonne, thank you for being transparent with your journey on your channel. I’m currently going through a similar situation and it is hurtful . Personally my children father cheated on me and it hurt my soul after 14 years and 3 kids. Life is unexpected but being strong and having a supportive unit around you is crucial 🙏🏿 one day at a time❤️❤️

  • @tammeemiller2430
    @tammeemiller2430 2 роки тому +5

    Most men don’t like it when you take care of yourself

  • @reejaye6395
    @reejaye6395 2 роки тому +15

    Shyvonne you will be okay god got you. You are talented, smart and beautiful. My condolences to you on losing your grandmother. I’m sorry to hear of your divorcing , when one man won’t another man will….. God bless praying for the best for you and your family.

  • @jouannd3719
    @jouannd3719 2 роки тому +6

    Don't subject your children to this over and over. If he's Unworthy, he's unworthy. "Don't look back, you're not going in that Direction"! Love yourself and your children_

  • @sandram8602
    @sandram8602 2 роки тому +24

    I'm so sorry you are going thru this. Sorry for the loss of your grandmother. I'm praying for you and the children; things will get better because you are a strong black woman.

  • @msbosslady1712
    @msbosslady1712 2 роки тому +3

    Divorcing you for what????? A man would have loved to be in his shoes!!!

  • @christascheuer8468
    @christascheuer8468 2 роки тому +16

    Yes you are everything you’ve said. You are going to be okay.Step by step. Chris prefers a big woman and doesn’t thinks about your health. And that is selfish. Take care!

  • @happyinharned9583
    @happyinharned9583 2 роки тому +2

    you go girl!!!!you lost 30 pounds PLUS 300 counting Chris!!!! He wasnt present for you, we could tell. You deserve a life and partner who suits you. You are wonderful!!!!Strong dont even scratch the surfice. Hoping you start feeling better.

  • @pihaat
    @pihaat 2 роки тому +63

    I must keep it real, I never understood the relationship, its been over a long time. I'm so proud you finally see what we all saw.
    We want relationships or family to stay together for children maybe even the thought of change, but we must choose happiness.
    My condolences on the lost of your grandmother♥
    Your health is your priority, stress is a killer...Get you right, the children will adjust, just be honest with them, teach them about handling and understanding emotions...cry when need be to get it out....You will get through this, trust I know!
    May God bless you and your children!
    #2022willbeEPIC

  • @ladyjustice5505
    @ladyjustice5505 2 роки тому +2

    You got this girl! Who needs a man? You practically did everything on your own anyway. Your strong. You have a beautiful family. Lots of blessings. Onwards and upwards time not to look back. Sending you ❤ happy new year to you and your family. XxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxX

  • @orteot448
    @orteot448 2 роки тому +5

    I learned the following the hard way- if they don’t put the same hustle you do- not worth keeping them for their potential!! Best of luck honey.

  • @hadassahmiller5189
    @hadassahmiller5189 2 роки тому +25

    Strong is definitely the word. You deserve everything you said and more. Keep a jar of all the good things that happen this year. Read them at the end. You'll be blessed that you did.

  • @merelymelinda5092
    @merelymelinda5092 2 роки тому +10

    Happy New Year!
    I just want to say that I am very sorry that you're year has started off rough. I can see the hurt and anger in your eyes.
    But his eye is on the sparrow and I know he watches over you...
    You are a hard working loving and caring Mom. I respect that as a Mom myself. I wondered why your husband didn't help out more, but it wasn't my place to ask. I Pray your husband will gain wisdom and understanding. Our black men are needed in the home.
    Pray for You and your healing both physically and emotionally. May you prosper and have abundantly.
    I enjoy your channel, keep your head up.
    One Luv , Melinda 🙏🙏🙏🙂

    • @juliejoshua6367
      @juliejoshua6367 2 роки тому +2

      This is a sweet and beautiful message. His eye is on the sparrow, and he is surely watching her. You have a great day.

    • @merelymelinda5092
      @merelymelinda5092 2 роки тому +1

      @@juliejoshua6367 Thanks for the compliment. You have a great day as well.

  • @petranilla14
    @petranilla14 2 роки тому +2

    The easiest way for a woman to lose weight is to get rid of the 200+ weight of a useless husband. It also brings so much peace !!!!!!!!!!!
    Your house is structurally sound anything you have to do to it is cosmetic.
    TAKE CARE OF YOUR PHYSICAL BODY AND YOUR MENTAL HEALTH !!!!!!!! UA-cam and house can wait.

  • @miajoyce11
    @miajoyce11 2 роки тому +16

    You are an impressive woman w much to offer. Wishing you well on your healthier lifestyle for you and your children.

  • @MamaByNature
    @MamaByNature 2 роки тому +13

    You’re such a catch mama trust me when you’re ready you will find the love of your life ❤️ I am so sorry for your loss of your grandmother though and dealing with a separation as well at once. Your babies will understand someday! If you need breaks you take them, we will understand! Love from Ohio ❤️❤️❤️

  • @honeydew46
    @honeydew46 2 роки тому +17

    It's good to see you again.
    I'm sorry to hear of your marriage ending.
    Sending you my condolences, love and positive vibes. Take one day at a time.💞

  • @Tacos907
    @Tacos907 2 роки тому +2

    God will remove people from your life to protect you and when he has something big for YOU. I truly believe that wholeheartedly. Look how far you come. God just wants us to himself, but I believe this is only the beginning. You are truly beautiful in every way. Keep harvesting in this season 😉♥️♥️

  • @MargaretLang431972
    @MargaretLang431972 2 роки тому +5

    Glad you are losing weight and I hope that you figure out what is best for you to eat but hopefully the doctors are helping you with that. And yes you are all those things you described and you do deserve all the fun and excitement that should go with having a great partner/ husband and if you are not getting that fire him.

  • @alexia_marie
    @alexia_marie 2 роки тому +2

    Wooooow, the energy on your channel is incredible 🥲😍 I remember driving on those roads when I would visit PA, when I lived in Delaware. I now live in Georgia. New subscriber, I love it here so much. Going to binge watch your videos now 😊❤️ so glad I found your channel.

  • @marshavaughn5561
    @marshavaughn5561 2 роки тому +10

    Girl you just do you God will send the right one in his time! Im so glad your doing better prayers for your family

  • @Pamsdoinitagain1988
    @Pamsdoinitagain1988 2 роки тому +2

    Our God is a mighty God I Pray blessings and healing over your life in the Name of the almighty 🍂🙏🙏🍂 I'm new to your channel and I love your content and I will continue on follow you throughout your UA-cam Journey thanks for sharing God bless🍂♥️♥️🍂

  • @MzFJRossi
    @MzFJRossi 2 роки тому +17

    You got this and your strength will see you through. Lovely to see you back have missed your videos. You really have inspired me since I found your channel. Sending gentle hugs and loads of love from London uk 🇬🇧

  • @leslieabbott9695
    @leslieabbott9695 2 роки тому +2

    So sorry to hear about your separation, I would hate to see any marriage torn apart. Would you two be amenable to marriage counseling? Try counseling before you initiate divorce. My husband and I started to get a divorce also 2017, let me tell you it was the most difficult time in my life, it felt like a death. Paying for lawyers, arguing over property, child custody. Divorce is definitely not for the weak
    Fortunately we were able to reconcile in 2019.

  • @joannekettle1526
    @joannekettle1526 2 роки тому +13

    God bless you and your family, so sorry to hear about your grandma, hope your feeling better soon, love to you and family, you will be ok sweet lady and if your not happy move on ❤️