How to Spot Antisocial Personality Disorder and Protect Your Mental Health

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  • Dr. Dawn Elise Snipes discusses signs of antisocial personality disorder to help you develop healthy relationships and protect your mental health.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 142

  • @edgreen8140
    @edgreen8140 2 роки тому +104

    Impulsive, aggressive, or passive aggressive. Failure to learn from past actions. Neglects the rights of others. Takes what they please without regard for the consequences to others. So short term hedonists driven by their whims w superficial charm.

    • @wayfaringstranger8430
      @wayfaringstranger8430 Рік тому +15

      That sounds like a general description of most people

    • @nelsontorres7460
      @nelsontorres7460 Рік тому +2

      @@wayfaringstranger8430 stop being such a misanthrope

    • @crazygrunt1000
      @crazygrunt1000 11 місяців тому

      Loser

    • @gdfhw4t4rwe
      @gdfhw4t4rwe 8 місяців тому +2

      @@nelsontorres7460 but it's true, that's like most people nowadays, just that the aspd types are more successful in this situation

    • @dapper.degenerate5701
      @dapper.degenerate5701 7 місяців тому

      You just explained Patrick Bateman

  • @yukimasahiko
    @yukimasahiko 24 дні тому +8

    Im currently seeing a therapist for it. My sister in law talked me into it. And told me to tell them the truth. So I’m giving it a shot…

    • @Reallgeemachine
      @Reallgeemachine 6 днів тому

      Anti social people with no empathy make me think of Kantian ethics and his suggestion that all creatures with intelligence can know morality and therefore have the choice to be good or bad. Quite often empathy is over rated anyways. Ive noticed most people that do bad things simply cannot control their impulses, the anti socials that can control their impulses usually become very powerful CEOs or politicians.

  • @-441-
    @-441- 2 роки тому +67

    Not sure how or why this video doesn't have any comments but I'll say this, this is one of the most important videos a person could watch. Thank you for making it, your efforts were not in vain. Tbh I'd even go so far as to say we need stuff like this taught in schools. Choosing the right people to connect & form relationships with in life is PARAMOUNT.

    • @ambrosehunter5164
      @ambrosehunter5164 11 місяців тому +2

      When you point the finger at any person, place or thing, there will always be three pointing back at you/me.

    • @-441-
      @-441- 11 місяців тому +1

      @@ambrosehunter5164 what

    • @Corina-dq2my
      @Corina-dq2my 2 місяці тому +1

      Problem is, it would be considered stigmatizing a mental health disorder. But yes, I agree, it would be nice if people could learn how to avoid predators and abusers.

  • @jacobigray3323
    @jacobigray3323 Рік тому +35

    The science community needs to do more research on this disorder. I am currently going through this with my girlfriend and I also learned one major cause of this disorder is environmental. If you grew up in an environment around drugs alcohol violence and/or ANY type of abuse is also more likely to develop this disorder.

    • @deephantom1980
      @deephantom1980 3 місяці тому +4

      I was diagnosed in 2017. Half of what this woman is saying is extremely subjective and some is outright wrong.

    • @Corina-dq2my
      @Corina-dq2my 2 місяці тому +3

      Some psychopaths do not grow up in bad homes. Most people who had parents who were addicts don't become psychopaths. I dated a psychopath myself once, though. I didn't know that he was a psychopath. He hid it well, but there were definitely some red flags, but I didn't know that it was actually psychopathy, even though I studied it in college (all pretty general though). It took him damn near killing me to see how dangerous he was. And that stuff didn't start until I left him, after he'd been cheating on me, after I had a baby. He didn't care what he did in order to get his objectives met. And we had been together for 10 years and got along well. He turned on me, and I was in shock. I thought we were friends. But it didn't matter. No empathy. No conscience. Also I found out he had lied to me about some important things.

    • @Poppy-yx8js
      @Poppy-yx8js 6 днів тому +1

      Psychopathy is not the same thing as anti social personality disorder. Psychopathy a separate construct that gets rolled into anti social personality disorder. There os primary & secondary psychopathy. She didn’t go into this.

  • @dingusmcgringle9741
    @dingusmcgringle9741 9 місяців тому +11

    This describes 80% of inmates I have met.

  • @richcotton4974
    @richcotton4974 Місяць тому +2

    The generalization is certainly true. I am diagnosed with ASPD, and I have engaded in criminal behavior, and I have been to prison; in prison there is a wide range of antisocial personality disorders (I'm also quite lazy so my manipulations are slight, and my criminality minor; takes too much energy). My follow through is also awful. But! I have come across certain methods of functionality. I'm in university at the moment and, Ironically (?), I am failing my Interpersonal Communication class, again. My resistance/antagonism to the course I express in the assignments by stating that the methods of communication that we are assigned to work on, I am capable of utilizing for unhealthy purpose. I argue that for those like myself, to do the assignments, say what I'm supposed to say, and perform / conform to class expectations is not a good idea. That is how I put forth a persona. Within that space between where I am, and how you think I am is where the mischief happens, and you'll never know. The appropriate, expected behavior is what I'll abuse, and that has lead to all the let downs, for the people i care about, and who care about me.
    Anyway, I'm seeing that there is an inverted path for those with ASPD that can lead to positive social outcomes, and that there is also a pernicious... something, I cant put my finger on it yet, but i am certain that there is an appropriate use of an antisocial personality.
    It is also likely that this is just a narcissistic, grandiose delusion. But hey, you know what my favorite thing about narcissism is? ...ME!!

  • @gary_248
    @gary_248 Рік тому +17

    Lack empathy but easy to fake empathy,like so many other things. I am a master at it. When it’s been put to me over the years how my actions and behaviour have affected and continue to affect people,I really couldn’t care less,but I can show I do.

    • @nv_chino
      @nv_chino 10 місяців тому

      You people are sick

  • @keariewashburn4680
    @keariewashburn4680 Рік тому +25

    People that get help with this are much better. But, the extreme end, this info is exactly spot on. They need an exorcism. The abuse and violence manipulation is literally hell. Had to just stay away as a family. Tried to get my aunt help but it is just used to keep her out of sight for a bit. She knew exactly what to say or act like to get out of whatever and go do it all over again.

  • @melissa3986
    @melissa3986 6 місяців тому +7

    Sounds the same as covert narcissism or dismissive avoidant personality. I’m healing from a past relationship and trying to figure out what was wrong with them. It seems the only way I can heal and move forward is by understanding, but all these disorders seem similar to me.

    • @jamiezuzu7326
      @jamiezuzu7326 3 місяці тому +2

      Same. My mother doesn’t break the law, she could never handle the judgment that comes with that. But she’s VERY passive aggressive and can’t handle the slightest criticism

  • @keariewashburn4680
    @keariewashburn4680 Рік тому +9

    Yes, highly manipulative and act empathy or whatever. Always will say NO ONE TELLS ME ...... she was said to have it 14. She is 64 and she's still this way. It's been extreme hell all her life. Police. Drugs alcohol abused her husband. Ect. It's traumatic.

  • @captainmorgan2307
    @captainmorgan2307 Рік тому +23

    I had a freind with this disorder, although it was undiagnosed. Another thing is, they do not accept criticism or anything they could believe might be criticism, such as suggesting they have ASPD.
    In severe cases it can be incredibly damaging to the person and others they callously abuse.

    • @selinaogorman8380
      @selinaogorman8380 8 місяців тому +3

      Well same here I had a caregiver yes thought was a friend but she definitely has this because she was so moody abusive unstable everything mostly on this list is definitely her am sorry you been through this this person can really damage your mental health it effected me because I was verbally abused because I have autism and she thought it’s ok to abuse someone who has a disability she very manipulative and capable of still doing that so am hope your ok and everything you don’t have to experience this all over again.

    • @captainmorgan2307
      @captainmorgan2307 8 місяців тому

      @@selinaogorman8380 I'm good, thanks for showing you care. People who abuse others who they think are less than them are abusing themselves and it's sad that they don't see it. I work with children with autism and they are not less than any other child. Some of them are smarter/better than me at certain things, and most of them are smarter than others in their grade, they just express it differently.

    • @Corina-dq2my
      @Corina-dq2my 2 місяці тому +1

      People who have NPD are sensitive (resistance)to criticism (real or unintentional).

    • @connormc5809
      @connormc5809 Місяць тому

      Are they undiagnosed

    • @AncientIntegrations
      @AncientIntegrations 8 днів тому

      Could it be that your whiteworld pathologies are not welcome and used as a tool to control diversity?

  • @dougstobaugh376
    @dougstobaugh376 8 місяців тому +3

    I'm completely surrounded. GOD-BLESS.

  • @crazygrunt1000
    @crazygrunt1000 11 місяців тому +9

    I despise the public 💯!

  • @nature_photography_yukon
    @nature_photography_yukon 2 роки тому +14

    Thank you for sharing. This is very helpful. In a new relationship and having some red flags.

  • @selinaogorman8380
    @selinaogorman8380 8 місяців тому +3

    Lots of this video Is accurate I called a sociopath out she became verbally and emotionally abused me also she has a history of breaking the law she stole from her company and never was remorseful about it also she abused me by what I shared yelled at me and don’t respect my boundaries I think she still capable of doing something wrong since she doesn’t have empathy or compassion her smile was so disgusting it was fake she did manipulative towards me back then she still capable of doing harm to someone else she was and still is rough around the edges she is still a danger to society I reported her to the caregiver agency so I really thank this video helps me know what kind of people who I dealing with especially the person I used to deal with most of everything on this list fits her perfectly.

  • @Happy-xf3yu
    @Happy-xf3yu 3 дні тому

    My boyfriend has anti social personality disorder and our relationship has been a nightmare. He will never get help because he thinks there's nothing wrong with him.
    I left him yesterday and have blocked him everywhere, I had to plan for months because he'd been controlling my money.
    But I'm free from his crazy behaviour.

  • @bellatrixmoon1836
    @bellatrixmoon1836 2 роки тому +34

    I have ASPD and have never hurt anyone or anything 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m this way because of trauma.

    • @katieandnick4113
      @katieandnick4113 2 роки тому +19

      Maybe not physically, but if you’ve had close relationships with people, or even relationships that aren’t super close, you’ve definitely hurt people psychologically/emotionally. I assume you are female? Physical aggression is much more common in males with ASPD than females, and even among the males, it’s very common for them to settle down as they age, and become less aggressive overall.

    • @brianna094
      @brianna094 2 роки тому +10

      @@katieandnick4113 This is true... 10 years ago, I abruptly cut off all of my friends following the loss of my father and I felt no remorse about it. I felt no attachment to them, although I know that's how I _should_ have felt. Then I felt guilt (for yearsss) over the fact that "normal" people would not have responded this way, searching for answers about "'what is wrong with me" with no resolution then depression --> anxiety --> isolation... the cycle continues.
      It's nothing personal at all and I actually have a strong desire to express to people how much they mean to me. I just can't ever allow them close enough and I have an aversion to developing the relationship which is ironic haha. I've been stuck in survival mode and I'm okay with it for now because I was critical of myself for years and stuck in addictive thinking.
      I try to take it easy and I've learned to care less and let myself do what feels good for me. My whole family is aware of how I am and that I'm "weird" but they praise what a good person I am and I wish I could see myself the way they do. It's a very funny thing

    • @katieandnick4113
      @katieandnick4113 2 роки тому +6

      @@brianna094 your self awareness is quite impressive. I know only one person who has ASPD(sociopathy, or factor 2 psychopathy), but he’s male, and is completely bereft of any degree of self awareness. I know quite a few factor 1 psychopaths, and I do believe that most of them know that something is very different about them. If you are a sociopath, your parents made you that way, so I wouldn’t care what they have to say about you.

    • @crawdad6354
      @crawdad6354 Рік тому +14

      @@brianna094 this doesn't sound like antisocial personality disorder. The behavior is abnormal and sort of indicates avoidant or schizoid behavior but more importantly it sounds like a trauma response. You care aout how other people percieve you and you felt guilt about it for years. I'm no sayin you don't have aspd to downplay what you say I simply think there's alot mroe deoth to the way you feel than just lacking empathy. You sad it yourself that you're stuck on survival mode which is a response to truama more so than an aspd trait. Seek help for your problems as soon as possible in order to heal and start thriving.
      Edit:Huge emphasis on trauma and maybe avoidant pd.

    • @dontknow3949
      @dontknow3949 Рік тому

      Oh you absolutely have to have hurt people in your life many times if you have ASPD. Maybe not physically but read the diagnostic criteria and apply those traits to reality manifestations and you’ll (probably not you) see that those traits and behaviors are simply inherently destructive and damaging to those around you. Don’t even have to put in the effort or think about it. Unless you just simply aren’t diagnosed with ASPD, which could be true. But you could also be a sociopath in which it would make sense you don’t see that you hurt people. To you, you’re just acting the way you act naturally. But it says a lot you just completely dismissed the idea of ever hurting anyone lol I don’t even have ASPD and I’ve hurt people so badly throughout my life denying it is just silly

  • @bigcatproductions2789
    @bigcatproductions2789 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for diving right in 💪🏆

  • @CSAccetura
    @CSAccetura 2 роки тому +11

    I don't go out of my way to disrespect or be mean to anyone and I would help anyone in danger if I saw it but generally I have zero emotions towards any other human or thing besides my 9 year old son. Like I said, I do not go out of my way to be nasty or spiteful to anyone but I do not desire your relationships or friendships or social structures to be honest. I am a misanthrope through and through so the more that everyone leaves me alone and I do the same to you all the better for me... No, I have never hurt, harmed maimed or killed any kind of animal or human in my childhood, teenage years or adulthood.

    • @brianna094
      @brianna094 2 роки тому +6

      I'm so glad I'm not alone in feeling this way... I think society puts pressure on us to behave in certain ways and it would be wise to be more accepting of other's preferences. We live in a strange modern world where people are creepily happy and pressuring others to feel the same way otherwise they view them as weird/different/lacking emotion, the list goes on.
      These people are ignorant of the deep inner worlds we possess and I feel sorry that they can't see what I see. Their involvement and obsession with things that I don't place value on is weird to me. So.. my behavior is weird to them, and I feel the exact same way about theirs.
      I don't think I'm superior but I do think they're mentally weaker and less likely to think for themselves being that they seek constant validation through social media and the likes.

    • @crawdad6354
      @crawdad6354 Рік тому +5

      Just out of curiosity have you read the diagnostic criteria for schizoid personality disorder? The name is misleading but in laymen's terms it's more so about social apathy and asocial behavior rather than antisocial (not caring about social interactions or persueing close relationships vs being manipulative and disrespecting bounderies.) Just going off the comment it seems like you fit the general concept of apathetic and asocial behavior rather than antisocial which is harmful to others.

    • @crawdad6354
      @crawdad6354 Рік тому +1

      My explanation for antisocial behavior was a bit cliche but I hope you got the general idea of what I was laying down.

    • @hannahbridges1708
      @hannahbridges1708 Рік тому +1

      @@crawdad6354 why are people trying to misdiagnosis people because they don't fit their preconceived notion of a disorder. Pretty certain they're diagnosed so you should trust they understand their disorder more than you lmao

    • @saks5thave.687
      @saks5thave.687 Рік тому +1

      Same I believe u

  • @th8257
    @th8257 Місяць тому +1

    The links between ASPD and Oppositional Defiant Disorder and Conduct Disorder are interesting, and of course the links they have with ADHD. There's some research implying a heavy link in some cases between ASPD and ADHD, which creates a lack of serotonin in the brain.

  • @asalane20
    @asalane20 21 день тому

    So clear and concise!

  • @KL-zg7lu
    @KL-zg7lu 2 місяці тому +1

    Can't imagine being this way. My moral code of ethics is strong.

  • @krissifadwa
    @krissifadwa 6 місяців тому +1

    00:56 is a big one. It's helped me to be more aware of myself.
    Very great video. Thank you!

  • @setthetone6187
    @setthetone6187 3 дні тому

    A lot of these are overt traits. Many of these folks are very understated. 🎉

  • @barabushka1239
    @barabushka1239 8 місяців тому +7

    Clinical high IQ psyhopat is almost impossible to figure out. After 5 years of great friendship that damaged me in any way possible and without realizing why it's happened, I accidentally saw her horrible" face without the mask." Telling you , it is impossible to forget ! Pure evil.

    • @annevanderlaan6441
      @annevanderlaan6441 Місяць тому

      Yes I agree. I am currently learning from first hand experience. Many politicians, doctors, engineers have this disorder. With high intelligence they have it down by using their incredible memory. Get out of that relationship if you can.

    • @barabushka1239
      @barabushka1239 Місяць тому +1

      I am from Belarus, American as well / so forgive me possible mistake s in grammar/ I live in IL and my case is unfortunate consider rare even from the Chicago's meds univ .
      I am damaged so much after close interaction with that lizard - mean alien mix . / I am talking about onesvthat on the high scale / Worce thing that they " feel each others " , they know that they are different . I heard frase" I hate people" , I cut you pisses and put you between cristmas trees, no one going look for you becouse you have no family , how about acid , / bottle was in the basement / You became just a puddle, no one can find you . Professor at young age , very talented evil man . I lost basically everything and got top of the line post PTSD +
      If you can find info " face of the sociopath or psychopath" you will get some idea as well.
      Please, be careful. Get away as fest as you can and do not stay isolated in any cost.

    • @DonnaChamberson
      @DonnaChamberson 19 днів тому +1

      Yes I know what you mean 😢

  • @gurrtiger
    @gurrtiger Рік тому +6

    Well I just found out I was diagnosed with this as a kid in 1997 and u know what the NHS let me down because I've coped with this alone ... been fed all sorts of anti depressants.... I do lack empathy in situations but I'm a sick dad to 2 kids and I'm a class partner who's loved dearly. When I was young I was terrible .... now I deal with myself really well now amd im 37..still cant keep a job though jeez im such a good worker when im there its just keeping me there 👌

    • @BugCatcherSamm
      @BugCatcherSamm 10 місяців тому

      You're just mimicking people who actually have a soul. You're not human

    • @gurrtiger
      @gurrtiger 10 місяців тому +1

      @@BugCatcherSamm ?

    • @lauren185
      @lauren185 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@BugCatcherSammso lack of empathy makes someone not human? Can you maybe see the irony here?

    • @AliciaM5555
      @AliciaM5555 4 місяці тому

      ​@@BugCatcherSammcruel arsehole.

  • @legalizitt
    @legalizitt 10 місяців тому +6

    The reason the person doesn't see their disorder is because it is subconscious behavior. We only see our conscious behavior, and we can only recall our conscious behavior. If our attention spotlight isn't on the topic, our behavior is carried out from memories. If there are consciously unknown miss-associated memories, behavior without conscious awareness will follow those memories, but the person is unaware of the behavior. Again, we only see and recollect CONSCIOUS behavior.
    Denial can be when the accused has no recollection of the behavior; behavior they wouldn't do; unseen subconscious behavior.
    At the root of many personality disorders are Subconscious False Beliefs. Stage hypnotists know how to plant them for laughs. Cult leaders do it for control or power.
    I knew a girl who, one day shortly after her first baby, developed a SFB that her husband was her dad. Of course, nobody knew this. When she thought of her husband, she acted fine(spousal), but absent a reason to think of him she went about her day and he never came to mind(without her spotlight he was tagged as her dad, and so wouldn't come to mind). To her husband she seemed distant, rejecting him at night, acting as though he was invisible and meant nothing during the day. He complained, but she acted like he was exaggerating and lying. That case took 24 years and buckets of tears to figure out.
    The danger with some psychologists is they come off all intellectual, but don't actually know what they're talking about. They even admit it, while at the same time arrogantly saying nobody knows how the mind works. They have a 4-inch thick book full of categories and labels, but that's where they stop.
    btw, That girl's brother came to see sis's new baby, and was calling her husband "dad" the whole time he was there. She had been within earshot but not consciously listening, and her brain took it as truth, and a SFB was created.
    Amazing discovery.

    • @dustyridgley
      @dustyridgley 8 місяців тому

      It's not that we can't ever see our subconscious behavior, it's just that we become so used to our conscious behavior that it becomes subconscious. We normalize it. Eventually, we can consciously see our subconscious behavior. It shows itself in situations where we abandon our contentment with our normalized behavior and strive to improve it. As we commit to improve, make life changes, we start to see that our normalized behavior is not normal. That is why people with ASPD usually 'grow out' of the disorder as they age. This is also the flaw with this presentation: Behavior assosiated with ASPD is progressive and regressive, rarely do all the bullet points in this video define someone with ASPD at a given point in time, because the disorder progresses for decades, often in tantum with life experiances. Someone with the disorder could be showing some symptoms for a few years and then other symptoms for many more years. These symptoms differ in severity and some symptoms may be non-existant throughout the lifetime of the disorder. This video fails to explain it and people with ASPD usually fail to believe they have the disorder because of the same. It also makes it extremely difficult for phycologists to diagnose the disorder under typical methods like weekly or monthly therapy sessions.

  • @danletras
    @danletras 7 днів тому

    My next-door neighbor outfitted his Mustang with an aftermarket exhaust system that sounds like a helicopter taking off when he starts the engine and runs the engine. Six days a week at 7 AM he does this noise routine, waking me and other neighbors up out of the sound to sleep, and has done so for three years. Police ticketing and visits and neighbor complaints have had zero impact whatsoever. His behavior will not stop out of his own free will. Too bad outside legal pressure has had no effect either. The impact on our quality of life is extreme.

  • @faithwhite3175
    @faithwhite3175 19 днів тому

    Superbly put!!?

  • @lynneschulist6597
    @lynneschulist6597 Місяць тому +1

    I'd like to see some research on the link between aspd and reactive attachment disorder. The symptomology is SO VERY MUCH THE SAME! This is hugely concerning raising a child with all of the same personality traits. But it's called an attachment disorder. This video is describing the person in my home.

    • @randythompson3510
      @randythompson3510 13 днів тому

      That is very true. The characteristics are the same. They are most likely one in the same person as not having a childhood attachment would create a sociopath/psychopath.

  • @kennyfunseth6908
    @kennyfunseth6908 4 місяці тому

    Dr, Snipes, you are gorgeous!

  • @GlitteranGold
    @GlitteranGold 6 місяців тому +2

    I just found out tonight that my boyfriend has antisocial personality disorder an guess which disorder I have. The dreaded Borderline personality disorder. This is gonna be a challenging relationship.

    • @wajeedahyoung273
      @wajeedahyoung273 5 місяців тому +5

      This is my husband and I. I have BPD and he has ASPD and yup, it's a debilitating, almost crippling relationship. As the one with BPD, my heart, mind, soul and nervous system desperately longs for peace, safety, security and calmness. As long as the person with BPD is in a relationship or have any dealings with the
      ASPD lot, doom and gloom await you, you will never know peace. RUN!

    • @JohnDoe-vy5hh
      @JohnDoe-vy5hh 2 місяці тому +1

      I have BPD. I avoid everyone now. I don't want anymore disasters and don't want to drag others into my nightmare.

    • @GlitteranGold
      @GlitteranGold 2 місяці тому

      @@JohnDoe-vy5hh Yea I feel the same an I have Ptsd as well so that doesn’t help constantly watching my surroundings extremely hyper vigilant. I Just don’t like being alone that’s the hard part but nobody seems to want to understand me. All I ever get from many people Is straight chaos an how everything is my fault even though others are the ones treating me unfairly. It’s constant gaslight an manipulation from others. Also way too many narcissists as well an I’m scared of those individuals because a lot of my trauma experiences have happened because of them abusing me.

  • @mythicalbellyrubber4274
    @mythicalbellyrubber4274 Рік тому +5

    Ya hearing these things is kinda hard. I share a lot of these things. But never could share it with my therapist, I lied a lot. I lied tons too make myself look better, just to wanna learn now but lack the ability. I would like too add an observation I made about me, and my siblings. Me and one of them I think both have this, but me being passive aggressive and her being aggressive. It seems we learned the same coping mechanism but in a way that compliments each other. Meaning even though we weren’t hooligans and were either too smart or scared of the law too provoke it, but we tagged team our way out of tons of punishments. One time I had my phone taken away, so I asked my sibling to use theirs. When I got caught with it I said I stole in from my sibling so she wouldn’t get in trouble. They literally pretended to be mad, FURIOUS to keep up the lie. All without actually communicating with each other. Anyway the point was we share the whole diagnosis, but neither one of us have all of it. And what I’m missing they have, and what Im missing they have.

  • @Cass_772
    @Cass_772 7 місяців тому

    I thought my mother was narcissistic but I think she as some antisocial traits or just antosocial, it sould be fun to compare both side to side

  • @someuser4166
    @someuser4166 Місяць тому

    I can understand why people dislike aspd, I have a friend who has it and he told me he sees nothing wrong with manipulating others nor getting them in trouble if it benefits him, I was just like wtf … I told him it isn’t his fault he lacks the instincts like empathy and morality that the rest of us have but he has a responsibly to keep his behavior in check if he wants to participate in society but he disagreed. I got to say I don’t get the hate (nor why people blend them together) on narcissists though. Like if you look into it narcissism stems from having been neglected, belittled or mistreated growing up thus the people develop an inferiority complex and self hatred and feel a need to prove themselves to others for validation. They don’t lack empathy like aspd people do, they’ve just developed trust issues and internalized self hatred.

  • @Corina-dq2my
    @Corina-dq2my 2 місяці тому

    I find that its not enough for a person to read off a list of traits and characteristics. But, to understand what the underlying issue is. Otherwise, they tend to misinterpret the traits. Not all psychopathy shows up in childhood as bed wetting, hurting animals, arson. It can. It does. But not always. But it can show up in other ways though. For example, bullying other children, lying a lot more than most kids typically would, etc. Just throwing that out there. Yes they absolutely will tell someone whatever they think that person wants to hear. They don't mind deceiving and lying.

  • @annevanderlaan6441
    @annevanderlaan6441 Місяць тому

    As a psychologist this type of disorder a person does not do well in therapy. Because they just mirror the therapist.

  • @gasmith7486
    @gasmith7486 13 днів тому

    These diagnoses are so the doctors can prescribe meds. Codes for insurance companies.

  • @OmegaConquerer
    @OmegaConquerer 3 місяці тому

    I think its more they do not care about the consequences, than not know them. Pretending to not know them is just what they do to manipulate.

  • @Adammeah253
    @Adammeah253 Рік тому +3

    I was told aspd include npd and BPD?

    • @crawdad6354
      @crawdad6354 Рік тому +10

      That's false information. They are part of the same category of cluster B personality disorders but those disorders are distinct.

    • @AliciaM5555
      @AliciaM5555 4 місяці тому

      Cluster B pd's have a shit ton of overlap. I am BPD and share some antisocial qualities but not NPD or HPD at all. Yes there was a genetic predisposition and a traumatic childhood.

  • @3941602
    @3941602 7 місяців тому +2

    I think this personality is prevelant in puerto rican people of Hispanic descent . Specially stateside.
    If you think personality disorders cant be connected by racenand culture think again. In WW2 there was a diagnosis of Puerto Rican syndrome with the soliders known to produce psuedo epilepsy and siezures.
    Also Puerto Ricans are known to have Ataque de nervious a cultural syndrome of mostly latino women.
    Simply Fascinating!
    Look at Chicago l, NY, Philadelphia and New England Puerto Rican communities and anti social behaviour abounds.

  • @LittleRedRideMeGood69
    @LittleRedRideMeGood69 11 місяців тому +3

    I know I'm going to prison one day, I don't feel bad if I don't want to, I do what I want when I want. I remember every slight. I take ridiculous risks.
    I'm 1:100. Who am I in your life?
    😂😂😂

  • @Jameskenomis3
    @Jameskenomis3 10 місяців тому +1

    As a lifelong fisherman and hunter… killing small animals and larger animals is totally fine. Just make sure you do it quickly and with respect for nature.

  • @devbachu7072
    @devbachu7072 Рік тому

    What wipp you say about someone have nothing to do with their lother an father family do not have any contact with them an she's happy so

  • @Margidaw
    @Margidaw Рік тому +15

    Why are all these videos geared towards how to ostracize and alienate people with ASPD? Why aren’t there more helpful resources for people w/ ASPD or people who love someone w/ ASPD who want to try to improve the relationship vs “find them out” in order to run away. I think this is a disservice to society. People w/ ASPD who are property supported do much better and can be productive members of society. More productive at least.

    • @never4saken165
      @never4saken165 Рік тому +8

      Have you ever lived with someone with ASPD??? Have you ever supported anyone with ASPD? If not, it’s no wonder why you would ask such question. It’s absolutely difficult , they have NO regard for ANYONE but THEMSELVES! They will deplete your off ur energy, money, peace of mind, space, any & everything of urs. I’d rather live & die alone than to be in a relationship or live with someone (child, relative, etc) with ASPD!

    • @never4saken165
      @never4saken165 Рік тому +9

      How do you support people in denial & take no responsibility for their actions ! Good f luck

    • @keariewashburn4680
      @keariewashburn4680 Рік тому +3

      This is a true comment The worst problem are ones that are not willing to or want any help or support and abuse you for even trying to have a conversation about help

    • @BugCatcherSamm
      @BugCatcherSamm 10 місяців тому +2

      Because you're born with a soul and consciousness... with this condition you're absent... and no matter how caring the family is or how much support they will always see themselves on top because they're the only person they think about. They're unfixable and we should have these people listed from birth as a danger to people

    • @logically-xg3of
      @logically-xg3of Місяць тому

      ​@BugCatcherSamm We still have souls we know right from wrong. Most of us were once people with empathy, so we are good at tolerating others' trauma a bunch of us have been raised with good manners. Not many but quite a few of us go to therapy we don't just think about ourselves we see a more beneficial relationship between two people not exactly the same as other people but we aren't all manipulative.

  • @connormc5809
    @connormc5809 Місяць тому

    Is she reading off a PowerPoint

  • @tamishabellamy125
    @tamishabellamy125 Рік тому +1

    That's the human being lifestyle and human nature, Doc. Think about war. I'm sure war constitutes as Antisocial behavior.

    • @Am-wq4mp
      @Am-wq4mp Рік тому +6

      What?? It’s not a human being lifestyle…have you met anyone with ASPD. My dad has ASPD…and is just a horrible person. Never been to war..but they act like they’re at war with anyone they don’t like. That’s for sure.

    • @ARedMagicMarker
      @ARedMagicMarker Рік тому

      @@Am-wq4mp Love when people say it's just human nature to be a bunch of callous, careless, psycho demons. Oh, really now? You don't say? All the more incentive not to have children and help the species propagate even an inch. And they can't say anything because they JUST gave me a reason why not. XD

    • @never4saken165
      @never4saken165 Рік тому +1

      @@Am-wq4mp i agree with you

  • @dustyridgley
    @dustyridgley 8 місяців тому +2

    This whole presentation on ASPD is actually just a bullet point lecture pointing fingers at something you don't seem to comprehend or can't treat with drugs. Listing a bunch of the most extreme traits and concluding that you can spot someone with ASPD? Doubtful. This lecture never even comes close to describing the average person with ASPD. It's no wonder people with ASPD are anti-social. You so called intellectuals are jerks. The fact is that most people with ASPD tend to keep to themselves and try to avoid exhibiting their disorder all-together in any situation. The fact is that you will meet, talk to, and be around people with ASPD your whole life and never see them exhibit a single one of these extreme bullet point traits ever. Even if you see what this presentation is explaining happen from time to time in your life, it won't be from someone with ASPD, because people with ASPD are far too witty and manipulative to ever show these traits in public. The fact is that these bullet points are nothing more than linkable traits that people with ASPD have and they can very from completely subdued to extreme, to non-existant depending on the person and situation. It's taken phycologists decades of research to find these traits and only under extremely close observation with extreme cases of the disorder where the average person with ASPD would never even be involved. What information that is being presented here is completely out of context and irrelevent to the layman. However, for someone with ASPD who is willing to open their mind and consider the symptoms they have, this presentation could be benifical as a starting point to get help.

    • @JohnDoe-vy5hh
      @JohnDoe-vy5hh 2 місяці тому +2

      Sense of superiority and highly opinionated are two of the traits...

  • @jackneidinger9544
    @jackneidinger9544 15 днів тому +1

    Trump.

  • @maxwellcadogan
    @maxwellcadogan Рік тому +1

    Not nice to speak like this.

    • @nv_chino
      @nv_chino 10 місяців тому

      This is what they are.

    • @bormsq
      @bormsq 8 місяців тому

      @@nv_chino im not like that even tho i just got out of jail for domestic abuse reality is i dont feel a thing but i can think what THE othersfeel and i know i have ASPD my iq is 145 and thats why i know

    • @selinaogorman8380
      @selinaogorman8380 8 місяців тому +1

      This is how must sociopaths are unless there getting serious help and admitting of there past wrong behavior to others some can care less what they do to others including animals they don’t see what there doing is wrong me I care about people if I do something wrong to someone I apologize for that a toxic sociopath (asps) won’t apologize fir it or show remorse for what they did a sociopath abused me and she never apologized for anything she did she never showed remorse or empathy so that is a real toxic sociopath so see this kind of person is dangerous and she will most likely do that again to someone they don’t change unless they seriously want to but her I don’t think she will believe it she wants to continue to hurt people in her life she has a pattern she cheats on her boyfriend she steals from her caregiver agency and never apologized for this so she broke the law and don’t care these people you have to be careful with they can manipulative towards you and the system I just thought I share my real experience what happened to me and how toxic people with this disorder can really be be careful.

    • @Brxwn9
      @Brxwn9 8 місяців тому

      @@bormsq You have an anime pfp you don’t have ASPD 🤣!

    • @bormsq
      @bormsq 8 місяців тому

      HAHA YOUKNOW@@Brxwn9

  • @williamhannah7768
    @williamhannah7768 6 місяців тому

    Where did you learn this crap