this is SO KEY. thank you phil. this is the energy i’ve recently clarified and entered into FULLY. it took a recent toxic relationship, going against my highest good, having a wake up call (when they cheated), blocking them. then RAISING my standards and discernment. never again will i settle.
7:28 we really can’t decide bc for so long i’ve battled my self in my self acceptance journey nd whenever i promised myself to love myself unconditionally i get sudden “expectations” that get taken down/ work out horribly even tho it has to go that way so that i can finally become more aware of the ways i am still conditioned and holding onto and to me i feel like it’s like muscle training for me to let go and let it be without the bias of my own opinion gradually becoming more observant of the unconscious way of how i still operate it’s all about changing and controlling how i respond back to how life reflects but ik with every tower moment is getting me closer where i’m already ought to be
“You guys dont even know what youre talking about” BAHAH omg i felt that with the attachment to labels 😂☠️ like i see how they are fun and helpful but omg u shut that shit down 👏🏽😂✨🖤 I LOVED this whole message though - so beautiful
Oh my love..... I've been through it too 20+years. If you need a shoulder to cry on as well as Phil's. I'm here. My life's purpose, as Phil's. To help heal. 🙏💗 much love. Thank you Phil!!!!!!❤️❤️🙏
I would say work on yourself to become more and more aware, then everyone and everything will change with you. Be the change you want to see in your relationship, or in the world....
I love your videos, Phil! I'm grateful to have grown up with the Jewish tradition. I now live in Safed, Israel. The way people conduct themselves here is outstanding!!!
Lowering your standars or being humble make you more happy, you are to people that make you happy or not, you are simple and easy or difficult and hard... you are honest or have this layer of difficulty... Imagine being hard and difficult to love? You get what you want most of the time the problem is what you want... you are a machine of attraction and desire, all the desires become real until you desire communion with god and only that... that moment you will only want powerful and good relansioships and allow them you attract them to you life, but if you say yes to the ugly and try to change it there is no time to appear the good or being just good not a pleasing machine trying to change others...
omgosh. Recently I was talking to this guy on a date. I told him life is suffering. Which is not a bad thing. It's a learning experience. I also learned from my past relationships that I didn't respect myself and that's why I let my ex's walk all over me. Now I'm single.. The universe or God will not let me be in one. I can't even go on multiple dates with a person. There is always something that will get in the way. It would be cool if there is someone special out there for me but I don't know. I'm 40 and weird. lol
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I'm no longer in touch with my family. I couldn't be myself, I couldn't say my opinion, I couldn't choose what was best for me. It was a very religious, traditional, family, women are men were not equal. Women in my family experienced physical and emotional abuse.
We see unsuccessful relationships now a days under a microscope, because divorce and walking away is on the table, the data exists. For hundreds of years these same dynamics have happened to our ancestors historically, we just don’t see the data on the past. Our idea/expectation of every single person having a partner for life is erroneous. We are born alone and die alone, what happens in between is just all over the place.. lol
I’m going to be honest. This is a pretty toxic message to give this young women. It’s full of contradiction. First you say you have to realize the soul has its own plan (true) and you have to surrender to it in order to receive what is yours (true). Removing the ego and the “I want this I deserve that” but then you double back and directly appeal to her ego by saying “once you get up here, (vague abstract concept representing higher consciousness) once you become available to love yourself and receive what you want in a relationship THEN you’ll find that person, they’re out there” it’s ego. It’s completely ignorin lg the soul which you initially said to surrender. Not all souls choose to find love in that way, the soul is an infinite bring, AND not all souls choose to find love in any particular lifetime. Ur putting her back in the “what’s wrong why are my relationships failing” wheel house by forcing the expectation “if YOU change this and YOU accept this YOU will HAVE to receive this.” This man this relationship. It’s just not true. Sure ding to the soul is surrending the soul. It’s not okay I’ve surrendered, now I just have to be more loving to myself and I get what I want. No. That’s not correct. You’ll get what you need (chose). Second, it sounds like your sort of (not like a ton because it’s possible she gave you more context before this call) projecting a relationship experience onto her. I would say around the 6 minute mark when you start listing all those very heavy problems in relationships. Like she didn’t say any of that was happening, we have mo idea why her 10 year or 1 year or I think she said now 5 year relationship failed. Or made her unhappy or feel pathetic or whatever. Your creating a box of negative experiences for her so that you can then say here’s how you stop these things from happening in the future, boom you gotta go up a level realize what you deserve, be conscious of the love you have for yourself and these manipulative men or neglectful men won’t come back! All in all good video, it seemed like she was relieved to have you help her. She was very sad. That’s a LONG time. But your harming her in the long run by putting the ball of life back in her court while simultaneously saying it’s the souls choice. SHE has to be more loving. SHE has to change her heart. SHE has to level up. BUT if her soul did not choose that and instead chose something else, and perhaps her relationships continue to end, let’s be honest, she’s going to go back to what did I do wrong. Because that’s the message you gave her. Much love Phil. Your content is very uplifting ❤
Phil, you have such a beautiful soul. Thank you so much for the wonderful video's you put out. So appreciated ❤
Awww thank you love!!!
this is SO KEY. thank you phil. this is the energy i’ve recently clarified and entered into FULLY. it took a recent toxic relationship, going against my highest good, having a wake up call (when they cheated), blocking them. then RAISING my standards and discernment. never again will i settle.
7:28 we really can’t decide bc for so long i’ve battled my self in my self acceptance journey nd whenever i promised myself to love myself unconditionally i get sudden “expectations” that get taken down/ work out horribly even tho it has to go that way so that i can finally become more aware of the ways i am still conditioned and holding onto and to me i feel like it’s like muscle training for me to let go and let it be without the bias of my own opinion gradually becoming more observant of the unconscious way of how i still operate it’s all about changing and controlling how i respond back to how life reflects but ik with every tower moment is getting me closer where i’m already ought to be
Love yourself. No one can save you. You are here to save yourself ❤️. From that point you attract ❤️
Brilliant Phil - simply beautiful!
God bless you.
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Thank you Phil 💙🙏🏼
Most welcome!!!!
Your analogy is so very good at putting this in plain terms for us all. Thanks Phil 💛🌟💫✨️🪽
“You guys dont even know what youre talking about” BAHAH omg i felt that with the attachment to labels 😂☠️ like i see how they are fun and helpful but omg u shut that shit down 👏🏽😂✨🖤
I LOVED this whole message though - so beautiful
Well done Phil, there's definitely levels to this shit. Received! 💚 Much love!
🙌🏼 YES YES YES! I felt so much tingling within my body just listening to this Phil! Thank you for this reminder 😊
Much Love ❤️
Beautiful interview and great question, thanks for sharing 💖💫😇🙏🙌
Holy crap, I so freaking needed to hear this 😳 Here you are, Phil ❤ Thank you so much 💓
Powerful and also Powerful that she is able to Smile as the Realisation of what is required, Following our Internal Soul Compass xx
Oh my love..... I've been through it too 20+years. If you need a shoulder to cry on as well as Phil's. I'm here. My life's purpose, as Phil's. To help heal. 🙏💗 much love. Thank you Phil!!!!!!❤️❤️🙏
It’s nothing wrong to want and be single 😊Being happy single is NOT suffering 😊
I would say work on yourself to become more and more aware, then everyone and everything will change with you. Be the change you want to see in your relationship, or in the world....
❤thank you Phil ❤
" You're either loving yourself or not "
Phil GOLD ! We love you
Very helpful! Thank you 🙏🏻
The best way explanation of this concept I have ever heard! ❤
I love your videos, Phil! I'm grateful to have grown up with the Jewish tradition. I now live in Safed, Israel. The way people conduct themselves here is outstanding!!!
In what way?
Love it, "said so beautifully. You are a shining star for all... thank you 😊 💓 ❤❤❤
❤👩🏻❤️👨🏻❤🪄🦄Thank you Phil!!
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Lowering your standars or being humble make you more happy, you are to people that make you happy or not, you are simple and easy or difficult and hard... you are honest or have this layer of difficulty...
Imagine being hard and difficult to love? You get what you want most of the time the problem is what you want... you are a machine of attraction and desire, all the desires become real until you desire communion with god and only that... that moment you will only want powerful and good relansioships and allow them you attract them to you life, but if you say yes to the ugly and try to change it there is no time to appear the good or being just good not a pleasing machine trying to change others...
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So helpful! Thank you.❤
Working on it.thank you❤️
Nice Saïd Phil
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im speechless
i needed to hear this
omgosh. Recently I was talking to this guy on a date. I told him life is suffering. Which is not a bad thing. It's a learning experience. I also learned from my past relationships that I didn't respect myself and that's why I let my ex's walk all over me. Now I'm single.. The universe or God will not let me be in one. I can't even go on multiple dates with a person. There is always something that will get in the way. It would be cool if there is someone special out there for me but I don't know. I'm 40 and weird. lol
You sound a little down, so don't forget to be kinder to yourself and then see what happens!
xx 💛💜
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philgoodlife.com/donate
I'm no longer in touch with my family. I couldn't be myself, I couldn't say my opinion, I couldn't choose what was best for me. It was a very religious, traditional, family, women are men were not equal. Women in my family experienced physical and emotional abuse.
🤯🤯💗💎💎
Lovit💎🥂🤍
Asking for more suffering. Whew!
I LOVE YOU
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Is your name really Phil Good?
We see unsuccessful relationships now a days under a microscope, because divorce and walking away is on the table, the data exists.
For hundreds of years these same dynamics have happened to our ancestors historically, we just don’t see the data on the past.
Our idea/expectation of every single person having a partner for life is erroneous.
We are born alone and die alone, what happens in between is just all over the place.. lol
I’m going to be honest. This is a pretty toxic message to give this young women. It’s full of contradiction. First you say you have to realize the soul has its own plan (true) and you have to surrender to it in order to receive what is yours (true). Removing the ego and the “I want this I deserve that” but then you double back and directly appeal to her ego by saying “once you get up here, (vague abstract concept representing higher consciousness) once you become available to love yourself and receive what you want in a relationship THEN you’ll find that person, they’re out there” it’s ego. It’s completely ignorin lg the soul which you initially said to surrender. Not all souls choose to find love in that way, the soul is an infinite bring, AND not all souls choose to find love in any particular lifetime. Ur putting her back in the “what’s wrong why are my relationships failing” wheel house by forcing the expectation “if YOU change this and YOU accept this YOU will HAVE to receive this.” This man this relationship. It’s just not true. Sure ding to the soul is surrending the soul. It’s not okay I’ve surrendered, now I just have to be more loving to myself and I get what I want. No. That’s not correct. You’ll get what you need (chose).
Second, it sounds like your sort of (not like a ton because it’s possible she gave you more context before this call) projecting a relationship experience onto her. I would say around the 6 minute mark when you start listing all those very heavy problems in relationships. Like she didn’t say any of that was happening, we have mo idea why her 10 year or 1 year or I think she said now 5 year relationship failed. Or made her unhappy or feel pathetic or whatever. Your creating a box of negative experiences for her so that you can then say here’s how you stop these things from happening in the future, boom you gotta go up a level realize what you deserve, be conscious of the love you have for yourself and these manipulative men or neglectful men won’t come back!
All in all good video, it seemed like she was relieved to have you help her. She was very sad. That’s a LONG time. But your harming her in the long run by putting the ball of life back in her court while simultaneously saying it’s the souls choice. SHE has to be more loving. SHE has to change her heart. SHE has to level up. BUT if her soul did not choose that and instead chose something else, and perhaps her relationships continue to end, let’s be honest, she’s going to go back to what did I do wrong. Because that’s the message you gave her. Much love Phil. Your content is very uplifting ❤
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