How Do I Get Over Being Passed Over for a Promotion?
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- How Do I Get Over Being Passed Over for a Promotion?
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I was passed over for a promotion. About four months later, I was selected for a job that pays 20K more than what I was picked over for. The universe always delivers in your favor, when it's supposed to.
I remember when one of my buddies got passed up for a promotion in the oilfield. He was a Driller and worked hard over the years to learn everyone's jobs. He wanted a promotion to a Toolpusher position. They gave the Toolpusher jobs to people's family members and buddies instead. He got so tired of it and realized this wasn't working, so he quit the drilling company and went to a different drilling company and got a Toolpusher job. He then worked his way to the top and is now a Company Man for the oilfield.
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Well said...
That’s called “nepotism”
Forget about promotions; jump jobs every couple/few years for significant raises. Never show loyalty to an organization, ever.
I just learned this the hard way.
They don’t value loyalty
Me too@@angelbaby1811
@@angelbaby1811Same here, just literally yesterday.
If they don't value you walk. Don't waste your gifts on a leadership that don't value you. 💯
@Jason Torres: he needs to offer value. Also adapt to new generational needs and develop proper approach. Sounds like he got stuck in the 1980's.
@@DEUTSCHLAND.007 Lots of people get stuck b/c getting skills is expensive.
When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.
Put so perfectly!
Very well said!
I’ve had something similar happen to me recently and I have no desire to let this company make me feel inferior. Life is too short to be in crummy situations. Luckily, I have a very supportive husband and family. Move on!!
Honestly the times I was passed off, I ended up in a higher, different position. What seems liked a good idea at the time will look like nothing later.
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It’s really hard when u work for something and don’t get what you deserve!
*”Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” - Charles R. Swindoll*
Pray about it. God might be preparing you for something bigger 🙏🏾 🙌🏾
I was thinking the same
There is no god.
Quit, they are trying to use your kindness against you
It maybe a blessing in disguise. The person who got the promotion may under perform or leave the role. Life happens. Be prepared for the next opportunity.
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I have an answer - there was a New Sheriff in town - somehow the powers that be in this callers organization decided to hire a NEW Sheriff - that Sheriff decided he/she wants to bring in a bunch of new deputies. The caller was either the old Sheriff or a key old deputy. The new Sheriff probably made a deal with the powers that be that he/she wants to being in someone they "trust". So the caller got shuffled to the side on what he thinks is a remedial role. What the caller didn't answer was did he have to take a pay cut? if so well - I think this is a shot across his bow to get another job. If he didn't get a pay cut then - stay there - I guarantee that you will like your job better because it will be less stressful and less time consuming if he is only centered in on one thing. As far as someone telling you you are a Christian and serve - well let me say that just cause a place says not for profit - that does not mean you or they work without a pay check. If the caller didn't get a pay cut and can tough it out it may be "fun" to watch and see what happens - a fly on the wall so to speak.
Easy it happened to me 20 years ago. I got another job. 10% pay increase and closer to home. Revenge is the greatest revenge.
Exactly. Very wise and very smart of you! 👏👏👏
if you try for promotions , you set yourself up for dissapointment , i dont try at all , i sit back and wait to be told what to do , when to do it and how to do it , thats it , nothing could be simpler , and i give 100 percent to what i am doing .
"I was having a great Wednesday then Earl called." 🤣🤣🤣
This caller has zero self awareness or accountability. When asked repeatedly why he was being demoted all he could guess was that it may have something to do with leadership above him being changed. But something tells me there is a lot more to it than that.
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Fully agree. Perhaps this was a called of leadership and nepotism. However, there needs to be self reflection how he could've knocked this one out of the park where it was no question that he was going to be promoted.
Caller: "I have a problem..."
Jon: "What's the problem..."
Caller: "I have to be vague..."
Jon: "I'm confused..."
Caller: "I have to be vague but I have a problem..."
Jon: "OK...."
Caller: "........"
So annoying
Clear as mud 🤣
Get a new job. Simple. Stop crying about life being unfair.
When a person is in this situation, they need empathy and encouragement because they feel like it is the end of the world. Sometimes, it is pitch dark, and it is hard to believe that morning will ever come.
Yeah, like it's really that easy especially with today's cost of living. He quits and can't find another job and bills pile up. Some people have it easy but most don't and are stuck and aren't appreciated. It's mostly nepotism with promotions anyway
Put on your big boy pants, realize you are not valued in the company, make a lateral move to another company, carry on. Rinse and repeat as needed.
The question to be asked is, were you involved in the discussion with new leadership on the the program merger? If not, you have to find out why you weren't brought inside on the discussion, instead of being just informed of the change.
I agree with, "My Life Thai."
You Need to Walk...
The New Management is Pushing You Out and Playing Favorites...
Don't Play Their Game, BETTER Yourself...
If he sees this and is willing to relocate: Family and Children's is hiring like crazy in Tulsa, OK.
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You then start searching for another job
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Pull yourself by your bootstraps, work hard and cut the avocado toast, you don't deserve a promotion unless you get it!
Jk, obviously there is things outside of your control that define your success.
Your just being honest. All many of us can do is put the odds in our favor but we will be effected by stuff outside of our control as to how successful we are.
How ironic that Ken is doing this topic because he is definitely the next one to be fired
I was just told that I'm not ready so that means a new person will be my boss, Asking me questions and getting trained by me. And if they are anything like past ones who were fired, Ill be forced watching the place get rundown again like it was when I started. It's the trap upper invisible mgnt sticks you in because you are good at what you do. The story of my life. Instead of having another nervous break down after this happened at my last job, I will update my resume and move on. Hopefully up
Great call
Where’s Dave
Go looking for a better job and take it!
Promote yourself!
I didn't realize Dave was blocking people who didn't agree with him
I've missed opportunities. There's always another.
Apparently these guys never had a new boss come in that they just didn't click with. Not sure why they didn't understand that.
Easy answer. Eat it or Leave!
You apply to other jobs
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Go to the employers competition with terms.
Don't work for a non profit.....
ALL OF THIS LABOR that guy gave to that institution, TIME out of his life he can never get back and your solution is for him to go home with his tail between his legs.... smh... Not even to negotiate on what he has already given? No voice? No debate or discussion with management? No say so about what he created in exchange for the wage? So in exchange for making a steady paycheck, his only option is to leave if he's not comfortable with what management decides that he should do with his labor? This is why Americans can't have nice things. You have to run it by the boss first, and if you think he may not like it, go home with your tail between your legs. Cry to your wife or suffer in silence until you find somewhere else where you can feel needed... True shame.
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When will he get to the point??
This man needs to jump ship.
So I never expected to get rich from my job... I was hoping to make enough in investments and was hoping these investments will make me rich. While I still have a job, my rental income is more then twice my salary and then their are my investments.
The guys giving advice got off topic, they didn't offer a neutral point of view. The caller sounds burnt out.. like he needs to delegate tasks and also renew his mindset and approach to current social/individual's needs and ways to tackle them. I bet he hasn't taken any courses or upgraded his knowledge/skills in a long time. You need to evolve in order to stay in the race my friend.
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Easy. Just promote them to a seat in Heaven
I would leave the organization.
Every church has internal politics....
pain
Leave
When a church has secret words. My god is honestly loves everyone. Want you show you live him end of story.
I am so desloted. I can realte.
Become an entrepreneur. Problem solved.
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The same type of position always exists within another organization. You can bet that. Take care of yourself first.
Ew SPAMMER!!!!!
stop
Editing your posts. Nobody reads them snyway
Just get to the point geez.
I was gonna drop some dark humor. Something something Smith and Wesson... something something punch the clock with a 45.
How do I get over the guy who rejected me when I was in kindergarten? How do I get over the teacher who didn’t give me an A in high school biology? How do I get over the parent who didn’t give me the present I want for Christmas? I dunno. You just do and move on.
Buy a rifle
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Pray, pray a lot for Direction from God... Also, Ask God about moving to a similar position or better position within ur Church...
Also, this maybe, God directing u to some other place, where Your Needed More...
Just saying...
No need to pray to a non-existent entity.
Bunch of hypocrites doing business in church overlooking the fact that Jesus died on the cross for the reason they speak about...turning a church into a business. Who cares.