Why An Aquarius Disappears (Ghosting)
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- Опубліковано 2 чер 2019
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Ghosting is selfish and disrespectful No matter how you look at it learn to communicate
in your tiny box, learn to live around the world all alone since childhood, we're just real live James Bond
@@RIZFERD yuppp
Sometimes communicating is pointless! We don’t like our time being wasted so we just move on and don’t look back
If I ghost - I know I don’t feel like wasting time arguing. If I argue you will get your feelings hurt- badly. I have friends and a boyfriend and we never argue. That’s great. If someone wants drama- NOAP. Nope. You are done.
Hmm no. .sometimes things aren't better said. Silence speaks in higher volumes. Higher than anger itself. So how's that selfish? To protect yourself from others. I bet you're a virghoe
It’s a dark side if you ghost. I was dating an Aquarius for two months and he has just stopped communicating. All I would say is just say it’s not working or I don’t wanna be bothered anymore. It’s just respect. Believe it or not being ghosted HURTS
MALIK CAVER true that I’m a Virgo woman dealing with an Aquarius man that ghosted me because he’s fed up with me. We been with together 3 years and It truly hurts very time he ghost me!!
Lee Sam what did you do though no Aquarius ghosts for no reason
@@Ldykittydee142 was there a truly good connection between you, of from the very start of your relationship there were a lot of difficulties? For Aquarius it’s almost impossible to build that connection, it’s either there from the beginning or never. Aquarius very rarely attach to a partner, so he might have never been attached to you?
@@jkrules4ever123 Exactly! If we ghost it's probably bc we are tired of dealing with the same shit. We def give a warning before we hit our cut, people just don't be listening. Then people be mad at us bc we want to protect our energy....
me af he ghosted me after 2 months we had a great connection talked everyday then he just stopped. The weird thing is he wants to love all my pictures and post on social media. I had to block him bc my feeling are hurt af 😒
Thank you giving an insight on why Aquarius people ghost. I dated an Aquarius and this happened to me. I’m all about people having their space and I respect it. The problem I have is if you truly care about the other person before disappearing you’d have enough respect for them to let them know “listen I need some time to myself”. Communication is key and as adults we should know how to effectively communicate. Ghosting someone with no explanation hurts more than telling them before going missing in action because you’re afraid (speaking generally) you’re going to hurt their feelings if you tell them prior. I’m big on respect. If you ghost me, there is no return. I’d look at this as somewhat of a pattern. And if you’ll do it once, you’ll do it again.
You see the problem is not about respect. It’s about how the person will receive it and accept it without being dramatic. For me, I don’t recover from a fight, argument or negative feeling. It distorts my day, I can’t function well, I am literally paralysed after an argument and it takes days or even months to get my life together. so ghosting you prevents all that cos in truth when you tell people you don’t want anymore, they just don’t say ok. It becomes a long talk, emotions etc that I am not ready for.
As for my friends, they know they see me when they see me. Most times I travel out of the country no word and one day they see me in front of their house. They are literally the first people i see when I get back and we laugh about it and move on. I know it’s not easy but I don’t think I can be any other person. Although now that I am older, I am better at keeping in touch .
Exactly my point! 💯
This! Just communicate if you need space and to ghost so the people that loves you knows how to move with you, not against you.
Just cut a Aquarius women I was talking to because of this. ☝🏿
Well then your dealing with the wrong people and discernment is key. Communicating properly is the only way and your life will improve because of it.
Aquarius know Aquarius. most will never understand why we do what we do. 🤷🏾♀️
I’m the opposite sign of an aqua and when I ghost you that means I’m not interested. My thing about aquas isn’t that they always “got something going on”. Being a Leo I can’t deal with that bs it’s not about being clingy it’s about being respectful in a relationship. If your going to ghost don’t come back I rather you leave let me heal and move on, don’t come back when I’m over you.
Leo is just a narcissistic non intelligence kind
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word as a fellow leo
I agree
Lol yep your a true Leo
Would Aquarians enjoy to be treated this way themselves. I doubt it.
Ghosting hurts...aquarians are the most irresponsible detached people
I love the Aquarius sign. Y’all are cool, interesting and fun. So I liked your video. But there is definitely something that’s really off. You said not to let anyone tell you that checking out is ok. It’s not. If your grown, having communication is “adulting”. Sure people can have space and boundaries that that’s perfectly ok. But communicating that is essential. And it doesn’t take a week or a month or longer. Because then that’s just ghosting and if someone is ghosting you it’s best to respect the dead and move on. The number one thing in any type of relationship is communication. When that is lacking it can be unhealthy, toxic and even in some circumstances abusive. So saying that checking out is not and not to allow anyone to say it isn’t, just isn’t ok. A person should respect themselves before they allow someone to just check out and or come back whenever “they” feel like it and expect the other person to just be ok with it. Love IS understanding. Understanding both persons feelings. Not one person waiting for another to throw them a bone. I think all people deserve more respect than that.
Preach Brotha!!
Well said! Respect!
that's your own opinion, in your narrow world, lear to live around the world all alone since childhood we're just real live James Bond
It’s seems that they are trying to normalize certain traits of narcissism
Preach !!!!!!!!!
I was married to an Aquarius for 7 years. They definitely aren't great at communicating their feelings. They shut down and you'll get the silent treatment almost like ghosting for weeks. Atleast that was my experience throughout my marriage. Once they love you, they will take care of you but are stubborn asf. I'm now divorced, lack of communication drove us apart. It became mentally draining and as a cancer woman, once I'm exhausted I'm done and cold.
Why did I start dating another one, idk. It's been 3 months since we've been dating and he recently just ghosted me. I didn't think he was anything like my ex husband until this happened. I've learned to absolutely show no care in being ghosted by an Aquarius. They do need their space and often like it when you show them you're doing just fine without them. They just find a way to swindle their way back in like nothing happened and they won't wanna confront what happened especially if they were wrong. They will say things like, I'm over it. I don't hold onto things. Have u feeling gaslighted, like you just ghosted me or stonewalled me. Like what do you mean, u don't hold onto things?? Lol, they actually do hold onto things for years. They act as if they aren't sensitive but cannot take criticism at all. Also my mom's an Aquarius
Also the guy who ghosted me, is now speaking to me bc I hit him up at 3 weeks and told I'm good on us not speaking again. I know I was good to u and I deserve better. He hit me up 2 hours later asking to see me. My ex husband tried the same thing begging to see me and I never responded. Seriously live your life. Even if u love em, live your life and pretend u don't care. It hurts their God-like personality.
Omg you hit it spot on I was dating one for a year and he just started ghosting me I really didn't or don't know had to take it I'm also a Cancer Sun I started off with tears they didn't work so far 😅❤
I can respect your space and what you need but you also have to take into account what others need as well. Reciprocity and understanding on both sides so there needs to be a balance
Yes agreed. Libra and Aquarius all good together I heard. We" ll see . 😂😂
I think the issue isn't that Aquarius need time and space it's the idea that Ghosting is the kind thing to do and expecting ppl to understand that. For the record Aquarius Ghosting IS hurtful to others especially those who care for you. Relationships are two sided and fluid not 1 sided and fixed.
I feel you sis. I'd hold in my emotions for so long till I can't no more then I gotta dip out on everybody & go heal in solitude. It's funny how I can accept & understand people without judgement yet others won't do the same for me
I'm totally with you i help my bestie help her to go trough rough times and when I'm in a rough time she asks me why and complains about her being so stressed and that I'm not there
Aquarius always judges... ruled by Saturn.
Bottom line is any star sign can ghost. Its not a star sign trait. Its actually a trait of fear.
That also depends on why the person is ghosting you.
Maybe its your fault why yoir being ghosted.
At the end of the day there is no rules.
If you are in a relationship and someone disappears on you, it can hurt. If you are an aquarius who is in love, and your partner ghosts you, you get hurt too.
Its just common decency to tell someone you need space and maybe give a reason out of respect. Thats a more loving thing to do seeing as you speak about love.
You say you hate hurting people's feelings,. Whats happening is that its you that does not want to feel the discomfort by telling someone you need space. You are avoiding that in order not to show integrity.
Its tough to tell someone you do not want to see them and it takes courage.
Not everyone shows that courage!
I’m an Aquarius and can only speak for myself. I disappear when I’m done. It is a defense/coping mechanism. We do it to protect our heart, spirit, and energy. We have a bad reputation of being detached, but I can assure you that if we like you were vulnerable, but if you show us that we can’t trust you, we’re out this b%#
Thank you! Becuz I’m an Aquarius and I’m reading these comments like, aint no way all of these ppl got ghosted becuz they were being toyed with. Most Aquarius I know men and women and even myself will give you fair warning when you’re doing something we don’t like. We don’t just ghost for no reason. And then when it happens the other person is upset and feeling victimized but they ignored our warnings and took it for granted. And you’re right, when we ghost we usually don’t come back becuz we’ve already made our minds up that we are done
I’m sorry but as far as I’m concerned this is just a bunch of excuses, it’s mean and hurtful to ghost someone with no explanation. We are human beings and have feelings if you are not into the person just say that without disappearing.
i had no idea this was thing for me as an aquarius until I started noticing i like to be alone a lot lately. Now i'm FASCINATED by it. I feel so seen. LOOOOL. When you said you don't think it's dark and you feel like it's light and healing i felt that.
100% most of the time when i ghost folk its because i feel like i'm either protecting them or myself. It's not meant as an offense or form of attack.
"oh.. you are putting out vibes that you don't like me... let me help you by not forcing myself on you... *ghost"
"you work my nerves, and I'm not trying to show how frustrated i get with you... *gradual ghosting"
This is a great explanation, thanks !
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Very good explanation it’s for your protection and our own most likely
This is exactly how I think. I’m protecting myself from you or I’m protecting myself from you. I have no intentions of trying to change anyone or force my opinions onto you.
Or you simply drive me crazy and I should leave asap
"Ghosting" is not a specific trait of Aquariuses, it is a trait of EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE PEOPLE.
Here is some food of thought for You:
Do you ever think about or care, if your actions are negatively affecting or hurting others? Do you ever think about the consequences of how your actions could negatively affect others? We all have reasons for our behaviors, but isn't it ignorant to think that others should read our minds and guess our reasoning. Can You read minds? Don't you think that being sincere, responsible and accountable for your our own actions,by communicating them to the other person(=respecting the other person) would actually make them UNDERSTAND you better? Isn't that what you want,UNDERSTANDING? Why would you think that by ignoring someone you deserve to get understanding back? Does this sound like a healthy exchange to You? Ignorance for Understanding and Empathy.
Just think about it.Thank You.
I could read all this but I'm an aquarius good luck 👍 peace ✌️ I'm out
We don’t speak our problems and suffering to other people, we try to fix by ourselves by doing the right thing we know that is alone time
@@0b3da36 There is nothing wrong with that. I think if you communicate this need of yours to the people you care about, by just simply saying "I need alone time!" (no need for further explanations) goes a long way. It shows respect to them and also won't leave them confused and guessing.
@@KillingKlassics Objectively you're right, subjectively you're wrong. We don't say anything because in truth it's a cry for attention! Personally I want THAT someone to come to me and break me out of that and that person can very easily by just showing a few things but yes it's unfair to expect that but also if that person can't do that or understand then it's kind of a filter that shows you that, that person may not be long term for you... Unfortunately.
Hiding our emotions from getting hurt is being Emotionally immature wow that’s deep! I’m very emotional independent. If you need me to rely on how I feel about you emotionally then maybe you ain’t the one for me. Because once I feel safe around you I’ll be vulnerable. But from experience when Aquarius are vulnerable we are look at as weak. We will express our emotions through all type of forms of communication but let’s say I’m hurt and I send a message but it’s a paragraph the guy recently ghosted told me that’s a lot in one message so wtf do y’all want from us? It’s like double standards and we hate that shit!!!
No excuse whatsoever to not tell the loved one something very important that takes 10 seconds. "Hey I see you called or texted, right now I'm really processing blah blah blah. I'll get back with you soon as I can. Done. Y'all just don't respond at all and expect for that to be okay. Any excuses, well if the person allows me then they'll innerstand when I disappear like that. That's exponentially immature.
How is someone that's vested in a person supposed to be understanding/ ok in him ghosting her until he gets himself together!
What, be mature enough to express your feelings.
Yeah but why they ghost just to come back again when you've healed or actually finding your happiness? I don't understand it. I find it super weird actually to just ghost and then come back. If you're gonna ghost then just disappear forever and don't come back into my life forever
We disappear bcoz we need to get our shit together. And when we’re ready we just came back
It’s cuz we don’t want to feel like a burden we low key don’t like people seeing us in are lowest.. so we just go away for a few to sort out what ever we going thru
@@0b3da36 by making your loved ones life shit you guys make your shit together nice 👍 well done!.Try to think on both sides of the situation not just from your side
@@Curator832exactly…this sign is the most abnormal sign. Best to avoid if u r normal ❤
@@rose7777 A year has passed but I have to tell you😂she broke my heart very badly we talked on insta for 2 months I fell in love like crazy I’ll tell you I confessed my love to her she got scared then she told her parents have already found a boy for her and she’ll get married to him as an Aries I’m toxicly possessive I talked to her parents tried everything my soul got damaged to see her with another she knew that I get hurt by seeing her with someone else she was in my uni class so she tried to make some funny jokes to make my mood better but I wanted her so so so so bad she got me obsessed there were holidays of 4 months I saw her on the last day there were tears in my eyes she looked at me for 15 seconds and she left I cried day n night for her because she lived in a hostel I didn’t know her actual home address after 4 months when we came back to the uni she ignored me completely as she knew I still loved her she wanted me to move on but I couldn’t I was already broken then after a week she left the university and got married to that guy and I was traumatised my brain was damaged my memory became so bad it was soul breaking after all that 3 months she posted on facebook that she actually loved me but she couldn’t tell me because her parents forced her to marry that guy I’m so shattered like when you know that after all your efforts that aqua girl actually loved you but she didn’t tell me and now she’s with someone else so it’s very depressing nowadays I stalk her account 30 times a day I don’t know how will I ever forget her and I also don’t wish that she fights with her husband and they take matters to divorce I want to see her happy but my heart mental health is totally 💀
Aquarians are hard to handle.. don't waste your time with them..how will we know if they disappear because they ignore you or they need alone time... they are not so special as they think they are!! As if others have to understand them and they won't bother about others..
I am an Aries and an aqua female ghosted me for 1 week then she came back like nothing happened then I ghosted her for 1 month😂to let her know how it actually feels they just see the situation from their own side so by doing this I just destroyed her non chalant aqua side😂karma bro karma
@@Curator832😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤
But how do we know if they are taking a step back to recharge and have some alone time or if they are uninterested/ghosting/etc?? This hot/cold cycle can feel very much like rejection and be hurtful. Especially when we don’t know the cause and whether they will come back around or not.
Did you ever find the answer? Struggling with my aquarius rn :\ they ghosted
I’m disappearing rn idk we need alone time
If they take a long time to come back most likely they won’t. We are usually forgiving people if we feel it’s not a big deal but if we are uninterested or no longer invested in the relationship we would disappear and never return.
@@natyellifernanda2236 update? Sis
I’m an Aquarius and most time we really do need to recharge it’s a fact! I’m going share this sometimes it could be manipulation, or just don’t open up as fast for real it’s a protection thing don’t take it personal people
My aquarius I was talking to just ghosted me but I'm not going to reach out imma let him be if it's meant to be it will be if not I'm not chasing or waiting we connected almost too well
Did he ever reach out. Dealing with this rn too
I'm curious at how an Aquarius would feel if someone else did this to them? How would they respond and process it?
They understand it’s over with move around the person has ran out of love for you.
Y’all are weird and I love you anyway (from a Gemini)
That's what they' say
Yes we are I’ve been told that all my life I love Gemini’s as well
Gemini's are weird too , no wonder
I can’t deal too much back and forth for me that’s unstable as hell. This ain’t the first aqua I dealt with before he ghost too but I didn’t care cuz I wasn’t feeling him like that anyway. But I’m done I rather be alone I’m not into games just people don’t understand that cheating is serious
You’re young but VERY wise. We barely had a disagreement and he shut me down. I have reached out empathically months ago. I know he’s sensitive and I have tried to understand but, sadly , I left the country and we never spoke again. My Facebook request is still pending. I have done all I can, Cappy’s don’t chase people. I’m over it.....
We don’t chase ever
Ms. Cammi, I hold a deep reverence for your video because sometimes as an aquarius, we move so hasty mentality that we don't understand ourselves! Also the fact that you are so vulnerable about letting strangers into your world is a very strong and beautiful thing! Yo, respect 🙌
I just came back from a disappearing act, I was overwhelmed, after 3 or 4 months I’m back like I never left lol.
Aquarius male... I disappear for a few reasons. Ultimate reason is I need space to process before reacting irrationally. Whether it's anger, distrust, infatuation, no interest, or whatever, I just need to be prepared to respond without regret. I'll explain the why and what's next, but what I say is what I mean (usually after they reach out 🤭). Great video 🙌🏾
Tips for someone who likes an Aquarius who has gotten pretty close but is now ghosting saying he’s “busy lol”? It’s been 1 day but doesn’t feel good.
I was talking to Aquarius he kept say he liked me but kept ghosting me so I just walked away . I'm Aries ♈ it's drains me to
Same I am also an Aries she ghosted me and try to came back then I ghosted her to let her know how it feels to leave without saying anything😂👌.we Aries know How to keep people in their places
This is why Aquarius get cheated on ALOT
He keeps doing this to me. It drives me crazy. I forget about him. Then he comes back months or weeks after as if nothing happened. How could you treat a person you say you love like that?
Liz Rising because we love to hard tbh we get carried away I disappeared on my exes because if A Aquarius get attach they get annoying wanna always call talk and hang out wanna be in yo life as much try to avoid that it can push our mate away
@@dullymollay2550 unacceptable! I'd love a guy to be attentive like that! He knew it! It looks so shady. I'm done with Aqua honestly. I tried.
Liz Rising nah that’s what everyone say till we like that and till we calling u every min & keep wanting to hang out we try n fall back kuz we love to hard
Not this why they cheat a lot! They use that ghosting to cheat and think somebody suppose to accept that. It’s childish
The most accurate video I’ve seen, Feb 5th ❤️, I ghosted from some of my close freinds I need to recharge, some of them took offence I feel guilty
Sometimes but I need this time to myself
Aww I’m glad you enjoyed the video! & trust me, I understand! Birthday twins 💕
I am so thankful for your video!! I am in a relationship with an amazing Aquarius man and i think watching & rewatching your video helps keep me on his side of things because in reality he is the one going through this experience not me. So ty ty ty so much 💖 from his Aries cross watcher 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
It’s nothing personal guys it’s just the way we are just be needing tht along time you know
OMG so freaking accurate! I stockpile my emotions for weeks/months then need time in isolation to process everything. I also never give anyone a heads up mainly because I don't want to have to explain myself or be asked how I'm feeling when I don't have an answer, hence why I'm going into solitude away from everyone because it's all too much sometimes. I definitely relate to the burden of being needed, I really care and try to do whatever I can to meet people's needs, so eventually I'm gonna burn out and need my space. I have a stellium in Aqua 6th house with my 🌞 on the cusp of ♒️/♓️, ♏️ 🌚, and ♍️ ASC
Love your work, thanks Cammi 💙
That's v interesting about 'the burden of others' needs' and perhaps the Aqua's famous rebellion streak then kicking in and rebelling on that with serious alone time... and I had just come to suspect that is much to do with the reason. If Aquas could resist their urge to be the waterbearer on such a big scale in the first place the whole ghosting thing might not need to happen. It isn't always healthy to give so much and encourage the co-dependence they then flee from. It's also fairly patronising. If you think about it. We all overdo our gifts and run into trouble and confusion with others and oursleves.....
Exactly
I am an aquarius and i also rethink my day as well.
Aquas ghost again and again when they dont get a clear answr. We can't tolatre bs it drains us mentally and spiritually.
Aries and Aquarius definitely couldn't have a serious relationship. Because once yall ghost an Aries yall will be surprised to see them in a whole new relationship once yall Aquarius decide to finally come back
We definitely feel deeply! It’s definitely a min before I come out and express it. A process is right
I'm a Gemini and I feel like we're basically the same as aquarius. I feel like the only difference is that we're more emotional, and seem like we be a little more validation in a relationship 🤔
I’m a Gemini !! I agree!
I’m a Gemini and I feel the same as well
not really accurate
@@RIZFERD well that's your opinion. I wasn't saying all aspects. I feel like ♊️ are more reliable and Def don't ghost as much. But we definitely have periods of ghosting.
I am gemini too. I agree. I do it often
We just need some quality time alone,thinking about different things,sorting things out...etc
Hicham brown exactly!
I think that’s bs! That’s very selfish as a person, seem like they only cate about their feelings
Help me, Im in love with this aquarius man. We had sex on our first date, but he was the one who iniciated it.... HE ASKED to sleep over my place and he was soooo caring and lovely to me that I actually felt like we had a different connection. I told him if he wanted to meet again he could just call me and I would be up to he answered me with an "ok" and we stopped talking. I don't want to be clingy and wanted to give him space. But they also say that you should give aqua attention??? Wich one is it? lol. Also I really wanted this guy to take me seriously and now he left me feeling really ashamed and slutty?? cause he treated me so nice and now I wonder if it was just for the sex. I mean... if it was for the sex he should just have gone back to his home and not treat me like he actually felt something lol
ps. I'm a sagittarius sun, scorpio venus and taurus moon so maybe I should just give up and avoid hurting my own feelings???
please I really want to hear an aquarius view HELP
But it doesn’t mean y’all can’t think and respond to people. Like it’s not a reasonable thing at all ... it’s rude actually
Self-centered lol you have to compromise. It can’t be oh have understanding for us 👉🏾🥺👈🏾 but y’all don’t meet anybody halfway. It is wrong. Aquarians are too extreme with it. Y’all are imbalanced calling it peace lmao! But don’t block me because I like the content! 😭
I’m serious lol
They do have to compromise and learn balance which is why libra is essential for these aliens
Monique Oneal Libras are too codependent
@@happyfeet6663 k
This is facts!
I've been wondering why my aquarius does this! thanks Good Video
Love this video. I feel you. I am aquarius rising with uranus as chart ruler, moon and neptune in 11H and I attract and ghost scorpios and aquarius suns. Im an Aries sun and venus with a grand fixed cross. I feel exactly same as you.
Thank you for this video. I really do find peace from it ☮️
I hope you go back and watch your own video and see how mad you sound! You guys are weird is an understatement! You may not do it to be malicious but it sounds like you don't deliberately try NOT to hurt people - especially knowing your traits are COLD!
Girl!! To each their own, that’s how aqua cope! Go on with your life and do your thing
Not good enough..
Struggle; YES I do, sometime will re-run, process conversation for weeks, until I get it!!
I need my alone time to find my peace of mind
Aqua 🌞 Pisces 🌚
Can I ask you? I met a guy with those placement. Very compassionate, intelligent, and kind guy. He seemed very interested and then just disappeared.... or didn’t contact me for over week. Was this because he needed space?
@@KaimaVixen I'm not sure what his Venus is in. Mine is in Cap. But to answer your question it really depends. I do disappear from people when I need my space, it's nothing personal, I just need to recharge. But I also have a bad habit of losing track of time. I be in my own little world. So, sometimes I can go MIA for like 2 weeks then pop back up not realizing it's been that long. I only contact my closest friends/family on a "somewhat' regular basis 😂
@@alil2991 His sun is Aqua, Venus in Pisces. I eventually reached out after 3 weeks and he said that he had been really busy and had a lot going on. We met through a work event, so I reached out once after a meeting, and even asked if all was okay because I sensed distance. He said he was super busy and "low key drowning" However, he hasn't really contact me anymore since then. So I figure hes no longer interested.
@@KaimaVixen He told you he was busy. When we have a lot going on we like to focus on that. Once things settle down he most likely will reach back out. Don't take it personally, he's trying to get his shit together. Give him his space and let him reach out to you.
Thanks for your reply... the long short of it. I decided to move on and delete him from my social media. When I did that he reached out to me. I waited then finally responded with anger because I was incredibly hurt and felt like he responded to save face. We needed up having a conversation and he stated he was starting to “fall for me” and that, that scared him so he initiated distance because he realized he “was not ready for a relationship........” I asked if we could be friends he agreed but said it “would be hard for him because he knows how he is and can jump into relationships.” The long short of it... I just think he wasn’t interested and too cowardly to just be upfront for fear of looking bad. We’ve chatted a few times in a friendly manner but mainly initiating. I decided to leave him be. I’m a good person, and it’s clear he doesn’t want me in his life.
I m IN love with Aquarius guy ,but he moved to another state for family and work related reasons. I feel so heartbroken and I feel like LIFE so UNFAIR. But I m truly happy for him and his decision. He told me, face to face and on the phone "to not lose contact with him " and I responded I promise I will not. So we became and stay as friends.
And wanting about Aquarius for not jealous we're not insecure which is keep it moving with our lives I can't speak for everybody block of speak for myself that time no more. Have a blessed day
I definitely understand you. As an Aquarius Sun Cancer Moon, I always tell the people I love. However what I normally don’t do is allow anyone to change my course of action because it’s a must that I take that time when I feel it come on, but I do give them the heads up and maybe a return expectancy. I care for them too much to hurt them or dramatically scar them, also I’d love it if they know I appreciate them so much and would love if they would be around when I return because I understand they don’t have to be.
Yes it’s a waaay late comment but necessary :)
Mine never ghosted for 1.5yr, but ghosted for the 2nd time in the last 2 weeks…eventually just orchestrated a huge lie about his grandfather in the hospital to get out. He deeply believe he is being verbally abused by me, and it’s such a powerful word when yes I did swear and put him down when I’m frustrated, but it’s not at all in high frequency nor extreme. Frustrations are always about why isn’t he 100% committed yet. Anyways…packed everything and left, and his family helped him moved all out as well. All happened in 3 days. Still hurting
I’m an Aquarius man and she just explained my ways 💯percent lol crazy and yea I need to work on disappearing without informing I do it without notice it’s true seems like only Aquarius understand Aquarian’s 🤦🏾♂️
Yep I’m doing rn
@@0b3da36 LOL
That’s the aloof part
My husband did this to me and im also an Aquarian ,so I kinda sorted knew what's was going on , 11 years later we still here because we understand each other 🙈
This really helped me thank you
Star card too - totally get that 🙌🌟
loved it 👏❤
Holy sheet. That’s me! Trying to process those emotions! I don’t like it! 😭 i’m constantly re-reading messages.
My emotions are alien to me. I think I am expressing them to someone but they tell me I don't feel like a normal person should and im just like wtf
Snax On Snax everyone has their own way of expressing emotions. No way is greater than the other. It’s all about understanding.
@@LoveCammi ikr! I just want to be understood!
I always did say with great power comes great responsibilities
Love this too much 💋
When I'm overwhelmed I disappear
Breathtaking
I am an aquarius and just did that a week ago.i can explain why those people hurt me many times and after helping them and listening to their problems over and over again I decided to block their number.i give many many chances but after I block someone's number that's it I never unblock them they can't get in touch with me unless they use another number or make a new number (which my ex did )they had their chances.......
Byeee
Hello! I literally searched yt to understand why aquas are like this as explained by an aquarius. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
To be honest, all you said did not make sense to me. I think just leaving without a note or whatever is rude, hurtful and selfish. Ironically, aquas think their not being hurtful and their being selfless when they do this. Its unacceptable and just not right. Having an aqua as a friend is like being duped into joining a cult by the cult leader ( for a "cause" ofcourse) but then the leader suddenly leaves his followers when the cops are coming to arrest him. Atleast, a Leo will stand by you to the very end. Not leave you hanging.
Maybe its because i'm the opposite of aqua, that's why this game they play don't make sense at all to me, i think to most signs of the zodiac too. They will agree with me on this, you guys are aliens. Haha
Peace lovely lady.❤
Superb❤ well said
Feb.1st I do the same thing, I have to let things process as far as emotions but I can articulate the bottom line
I keep running Away From love
And i approve your message.
💚 brilliant
Aqaurius people face trouble in communicating a lot .. and i can feel you while watching this video ... she being an aquarius trying so hard to explain and some things are just going up my head 😐
It's called laxidasical that what my sister said I'm it's not that is just sometimes I just know how to react so I'll say nothing rather than waste fussing and cussing and it gets to be to much I'll disappear to recharge!
Hey, I’m in an online relationship with an Aquarius man. It’s been 2 months now. I’m in Asia and he has gone back to the US temporarily to work on getting a tender project and head back to where I am. I know and understand that Aquarius are one of a kind and they’re not easy when it comes to showing and expressing their feelings of love. But mine has told me he loves me and he has been saying it almost everyday. He is also very consistent in showing his love and affection, though it’s through texted and phone calls since we are apart now. He text me on a daily basis and also ask about my day. He calls me probably 5 times a week too, just to hear my voice. I do feel his concern and that he really cares about me. But after reading about these men and how they can be unpredictable and flaky, I’m kinda unsure if what he’s expressing is really how he feels about us. Does an Aquarius really mean what they say?
Aquarians mean what they say and are loyal to a fault , if an Aquarian like any other sign is into you you will definitely know. Also set boundaries and communicate.
Don't do it once they sense they have you they disappear
U will hv your hard time and mind games once your show your emotions
Absolutely yes I do!
Scorpio has left the chat 😂
Thank you!
We can be best friends fr we articulate things differently
Im a Aquarius Aquarius Scorpio an i mainly ghost when my true self is trying to be robbed from me
Same people think it’s weird to think about what to say.
Is there a way for them to go away for good. The same aquarius ghosted me like 10 different times in the last 7 years. Im a gemini so i dont mind, it sucks at first but then i just forgive them cause of my double mindedness. I dont get why they keep coming back though.
Im an Aquarius Sun, Picses Moon, Virgo Rising.
I’m 18 rn and i got told from people that you are so different just totally different and weird, cold, aloof, i felt like nobody understand me but I don’t tell nobody how i feel bcoz I don’t want to be attention seeker i felt like i was trapped and suffocated
I recently deleted all my social media rn
I just found out that my zodiac sign is true
If astrology isn’t true why am i act like this, my personality trait and aquarius personality trait is true
Now i felt understood just by reading comment section from youtube
LOVE
Hello beautiful black woman. Aquarius here.
Brown?
What’s The Name Of That Song In Your Background? Im Loving It🥰 #Feb6th #Aquarius
Nek White Bryson Tiller- Set you free 💕 thought it was fitting lol thanks for watching.
Aquarius is weird. Sorry y’all are. I love my Aquarius guy but I don’t like the fact that I can’t bring to his attention things that may make me feel some kind of way without him getting in his feelings. Y’all hate change. It’s just weird.
Absolutely Fine 4️⃣ sure
I'm a first decan Capricorn with Mars in Capricorn. I don't blank people or ghost them for days/weeks on end. I like my space even more than Aquarians. To treat good people like this is a huge red flag and good luck with longterm relationships 🤡
Perfect ♡
Y’all a weird but I love an Aqua
It's because people are so crazy at times to us ,that we need to get away to assist to wasting we go through healing with some people.
Yes I do that. You Beautiful
I would love to know the answer to this?
My Ex wife Divorce me because was overwhelmed because I was direct to her. I'm aries man and she is aquarius women. Ran home to Mama and Divorce me still call me after divorcing me. It crazy she don't look at herself also her emotional intelligent is off. But she say I'm a mean man on planet because I was direct to her of because of her emotional action. When she is overwhelmed need to stop and calm down honey . Thank you for insight My Hebrew Sister. Trying to understand Sis. Not there and she still upset with me .Why?????
I'm a Capricorn Sun and Moon and I personally find Aquarius not only ghosty but flakey. But I do like them as people.
I'm not even in a romantic relationship or whatever with an Aquarius (I've befriended 3 Aqua girls in the past year, 2 have the exact same bdays and moon!). The one is closer to my age and we communicate a lot and have a great rapport. The other one was kinda flaky for a year and now after hanging out again for the 3rd time became super clingy and wanted to see me all the time. And lastly the 3rd one, the youngest, we are supposed to work on a project together and we will talk, then she will ghost me for 7-10 days, then come back and repeat. Its so flaky and back and forth I'm giving her once last chance (today) to prove she's not flaky and if she doesn't show up to this artist project meeting via video call I'm done trying. It always seems that when she opens up to me personally, like little glimpse about herself, her family, homelife, she ghosts me! Like What on earth is that even about?!?!
Hi, so my friend is a Asc & Moon in Aquarius + Venus in Capricorn.
He does this, I really saying this from a place of understanding bc I also have an Aquarius placement in my own chart. And I also do this myself not to him but I do.
How would I approach this to him, bc I want him to let me in but I don’t know how to.
I know he likes me, I know I’m on his mind like he is on mine, but I notice talking about his feelings is not even an option
Would like to know your opinion please
Just want to say I’m in the same boat!!
They say we are weird
Nothing is wrong with needing time or coping. I get it, but there's also communication. Consider the other party, and respect their feelings and emotions. Saying that if you love an Aquarius than you should allow them to be but Aquarius people should also be empathetic towards other people as well.
Yes, Aquarius may not be malicious but as a mature human communication is everything. Especially with someone you're pursuing romantically.
My best friend is an Aquarius and she communicates with me. I get when she's in a mood and I leave her be but also she doesn't ghost me 😒
Spot on
thanks for watching :)
Good video
I told him I was going to take him serious. He told me he is going to think about it. (He told me he wanted to take me serious his idea not mine) and has been ignoring me ever since. It’s been 2 weeks
Thanks for watching! I would say just focus on you. He’ll be back and when he does come back, you get decide the role he plays in your life! Some advice, never tell a man that you’ll take him seriously. They will test you consciously or subconsciously.
Here is a link to my recent video, that might help.
XOXO
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@@LoveCammi alright appreciated I just don’t understand from one moment we bout to go On a date to the next im ignored asf. But I’ll wait on it and leave him alone
@@alyssaharris4348 yeah, I understand. Most Aquarian men are avoidantly attached. So once a person admits feelings, it can be overwhelming. Losing their freedom and independence scares them.... because that's all they know.
@@alyssaharris4348making a big mistake sista❤❤❤
I can relate because I am the same way sista.
IKR like I’m a Gemini and I love talking and he just randomly stopped talking and I was like HHELLLLOOOOO WHERE ARE UUUUUU
He want his alone time & he have strong feelings for u he don’t wanna have we love to hard it can push away end up wanting to much of the person tbh
Yung Mxllay\Dully hi it’s been 4 WEEKS HE HASNT REPLIE THIS SO SAD nice guys always finish last SHOULDVE KNOEN THAT 😞😞😞 oh well it fine he look like my cousin it’sok 👌
Jojo :D he prolly got someone then he could still like u it’s just trust issues and we abandon people a lot
Leave it…your life will be happy
@@rose7777exactly I’m a Leo this is the trick cause I was dating a Aquarius when he stop texting for a day which is today 😂I randomly text late like 9 pm then next day after call same time now he did answer we used to talk for hours but since he work he limited so he said he call me back now if I don’t get that call back guess what do not reply cause they play mind games I move on till so I know that day will b my last day communicating with him if he doesn’t text first I know how they role never put all ur eggs in one basket think about this what he want is what he can’t never have there always someone better plus my trick is not giving a two fucks always keep another man on the side ladies please