“Respect My QUEER Identity Or DIE” : WOKE TikTok Is Nuts

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  • @onanar9648
    @onanar9648 4 місяці тому +289

    If everyone is allowed to express their gender identity, why are people making fun of those men that want to express themselves as being traditionally masculine?

    • @kevincurr4641
      @kevincurr4641 4 місяці тому +30

      Crickets response to that.

    • @MyAramil
      @MyAramil 4 місяці тому +32

      Nononono you misunderstand them. They want you to celebrate them in their godly forms, meanwhile you need to hide behind a rock if you identify as anything outside of their ever increasingly smaller echo chamber.

    • @patriceferguson7340
      @patriceferguson7340 4 місяці тому

      Good question? It isn’t logical to occupy a space and then throw out those that already do. That is appropriating and then erasing the legitimacy of it. Trying to colonize a whole identity. It’s perverse behavior for sure. It has been going on for years. That whole terminology of AFAB and AMAD and gender non conformity is not an identity to begin with. They are terms used in the medical field to describe individuals born with a variety of sex characteristics not conforming to their chromosome’s. Genital ambiguity and puberty development that deviates from their sex. So that a sex had to be assigned. Normally it is observed that you are male or female. That is not assigning a sex. Assignment is done to correct ambiguous physical appearance not in accordance with your chromosomes. There are men with say 47 XY who have either no testosterone or have no receptors for it that have female genitalia or physical features that look feminine. Depending on how severe and early that condition develops. That would be gender non conformity. Gals with PCOS with to much testosterone and masculinizing is a a form of intersex condition.
      Turner’s syndrome can have the outside looking one way and the insides doing another. There are hermaphrodites like myself who have chimeras. Where birth gives us boy bits and girls bits. Us older ones were raised as boys if we were not to ambiguous and non functional in the boy bits.

    • @s.s.ss.4848
      @s.s.ss.4848 2 місяці тому +2

      Cause they're low key jealous of straight men.

    • @AngelaAllen-k1k
      @AngelaAllen-k1k Місяць тому

      The made up ideas and beliefs are influenced by the weak minded

  • @TROOPERfarcry
    @TROOPERfarcry 4 місяці тому +395

    You could never create a "safe-space" safe enough for people who are offended by their own existence.

    • @76marji
      @76marji 4 місяці тому +14

      🤭😄😹 well-said!!🥊💥

    • @ConservativeGrouch
      @ConservativeGrouch 4 місяці тому

      @@76marji That weenie-boy's taking offense on the tennis court would prompt me to WRITE anti-trans jokes. They are difficult to write, though -- what is more of a joke than those people just as they are? It would be more redundant than anything else.

    • @andressac.5690
      @andressac.5690 4 місяці тому +7

      That’s soooo true!!!!

    • @lauradove1240
      @lauradove1240 4 місяці тому +2

      Ding Ding Ding!

    • @randywoodworth5990
      @randywoodworth5990 3 місяці тому +4

      Gen-X grew up without safe spaces, we hurt each other physically, emotionally, and mentally for fun.

  • @dmitriciccarelli4082
    @dmitriciccarelli4082 4 місяці тому +911

    I'm so sick of these people acting like being neurodivergent is having a cool pokemon card....

    • @AWholeBeew
      @AWholeBeew 4 місяці тому +63

      Don't you know that neurodivergency is basically a shiny Pokémon? Oppressed Minority Identities: Gotta Catch 'Em All!

    • @Mouse_Metal
      @Mouse_Metal 4 місяці тому +90

      And the most of them are not even autistic, just terribly (not)socialized, like unsocialized dogs who don´t know how to behave like normal dogs. Humans can be messed up the same way and it´s much harder to socialize them properly later in life than poorly socialized dogs.

    • @mauchkimberly
      @mauchkimberly 4 місяці тому +12

      EXACTLY THIS!

    • @SkunkApeMeg
      @SkunkApeMeg 4 місяці тому

      A lot of these are self-diagnosed “neurodivergents” - it’s just another identity for people with no personality

    • @AwardsJunkie1999
      @AwardsJunkie1999 4 місяці тому +9

      Congrats on winning the internet this morning

  • @Absaalookemensch
    @Absaalookemensch 4 місяці тому +421

    When a person does not accept themself, there will never be enough acceptance by others to satisfy them.
    When a person accepts themself, acceptance by others is irrelevant.

    • @janaklein3518
      @janaklein3518 4 місяці тому +18

      YES!!!!! This is the difference between acceptance and affirmation.

    • @Moe-ww2uk
      @Moe-ww2uk 4 місяці тому +16

      This is the whole problem these people have.

    • @RememberHisLove
      @RememberHisLove 4 місяці тому +8

      💯

    • @moonequalist
      @moonequalist 4 місяці тому +4

      👍👍🙌

    • @lostsock9852
      @lostsock9852 4 місяці тому +1

      ^^THIS!

  • @dainaandreetto510
    @dainaandreetto510 4 місяці тому +832

    Sorry dudes, respect is EARNED. Not demanded. And was were is a verb, NOT a pronoun.

    • @EgoBrain1
      @EgoBrain1 4 місяці тому

      They should not be respected anyway. The goal for this is to disrupt the family so they can disrupt Capitalism. I'm not going to help them with that.

    • @Acteaon
      @Acteaon 4 місяці тому +20

      Facts! But oohhh man…but i wish this whole lunacy was a thing…aka done, gone, & over with …a thing of f the past.

    • @MrsEmmKay
      @MrsEmmKay 4 місяці тому +18

      Right? And also, pronouns are a closed class, so you can't just decide that a verb is one.

    • @Acteaon
      @Acteaon 4 місяці тому +9

      @@MrsEmmKay oohh if only they could understand that…but unlikely as they’re sooo divorced with reality & what is fact.

    • @marinaflorio95
      @marinaflorio95 4 місяці тому +16

      Anything can be a pronoun if you're bored enough

  • @cherylmillard2067
    @cherylmillard2067 4 місяці тому +431

    They're absolutely exhausting emotional vampires; their main superpower is sucking the oxygen out of a room.

    • @blackvintage4992
      @blackvintage4992 4 місяці тому +12

      Yeeeessss

    • @MrSirwolf2001
      @MrSirwolf2001 4 місяці тому +15

      In a just and sane society they would be made to carry a potted plant everywhere to replace the oxygen that they use.

    • @JAFO_2319
      @JAFO_2319 4 місяці тому +8

      ​@@MrSirwolf2001😂😂😂

    • @cherylmillard2067
      @cherylmillard2067 4 місяці тому +12

      @@MrSirwolf2001 🤣A potted plant wouldn't come close, maybe a small shrubbery? 😂😂

    • @JoeBlo-uf2vi
      @JoeBlo-uf2vi 4 місяці тому

      And IQ points out of intelligent people... Not that it really helps them these people are just willfully ignorant and it looks to me like most of them revel in inflicting their ignorance on everybody else

  • @adamtaylor1142
    @adamtaylor1142 4 місяці тому +164

    It’s funny because these people don’t actually realize we don’t care

    • @doclager420
      @doclager420 4 місяці тому

      Oh, they know we don't care, that's why they do this dumb shit and make all these pathetic videos posturing about how tough they are lol because they HATE that we don't care, we aren't giving them all the attention they want and so they get more and more dramatic, just like a toddler who wants attention, part of the problem is they didn't have good parents to teach them how to be a decent human being.

    • @fullclipaudio
      @fullclipaudio 4 місяці тому

      Buy would you hire them? Imagine how disruptive it would be at work. But, they are a protected class now and and bit of discrimination brings on Big Brother.

    • @ConservativeGrouch
      @ConservativeGrouch Місяць тому

      @@fullclipaudio Just accept their resume and keep it in a "special file". If they call, tell 'em that no positions are available. Let them prove in court that you are discriminating.

    • @fullclipaudio
      @fullclipaudio Місяць тому

      @@ConservativeGrouch It also depends on which industry you work in. The majority of the people in my industry are woke maniacs. It can be problematic.

    • @ConservativeGrouch
      @ConservativeGrouch Місяць тому

      @@fullclipaudio Sounds like that is a hellish place to work. I wish you the best in surviving that garbage, or better yet, escape to better employment.

  • @RememberHisLove
    @RememberHisLove 4 місяці тому +149

    How can you respect those who can't even respect themselves? 🤔

    • @joegreen4501
      @joegreen4501 4 місяці тому +6

      Indeed

    • @sarawallace6696
      @sarawallace6696 2 місяці тому

      I’d suggest a paradigm shift. You respect yourself, therefore you can respect others. ❤

  • @Lauren_Deluca_
    @Lauren_Deluca_ 4 місяці тому +138

    Vanilla ice was rocking the eyebrow slit back in the 90s

    • @christinacrites3828
      @christinacrites3828 4 місяці тому +19

      Word to your mother 😜

    • @stonergene
      @stonergene 4 місяці тому +7

      Yes, and where I grew up it meant that you were in a gang.

    • @sidneybuckaloo
      @sidneybuckaloo 4 місяці тому +6

      My mom went to high school with Vanilla Ice.

    • @dudepool7530
      @dudepool7530 4 місяці тому +2

      I have an accidental eyebrow slit.
      Got my face kicked in, like, a decade ago. Only visible scar left (I still have one inside my mouth) is a break in my eyebrow.

    • @delphoeneevenhuis5199
      @delphoeneevenhuis5199 4 місяці тому +2

      Trend among the young Arab men in Sydney, Australia, mid 00s. How do you make one, wax?

  • @tegandetermann3299
    @tegandetermann3299 4 місяці тому +115

    I've known people who are nurodivergent who actually did that, cut everyone out of their life who was a normal, functional adult. And then when they graduated, they were SHOCKED they couldn't hold a job (or in some cases, even find one) because they had prevented themselves for learning how to socialize properly.
    I just got diagnosed as Autistic at 36. But made it as far as I did because I decided to try and compensate for my problems back when I was a teenager and didn't know the source, because I wanted a fulfilling life.

    • @llIlIlllII
      @llIlIlllII 4 місяці тому +23

      That guy in particular rubbed me the wrong way. It's gaslighting to pretend a disability is not a disability, and that normal is actually abnormal. Very spiteful of him to take out his anger at having adhd on people who don't, as if it's anyone's fault he was born that way.

    • @ariwl1
      @ariwl1 4 місяці тому +19

      @@llIlIlllII His example about only having deep conversations with other neurodivergent people is so clearly, dude, you just found other people who are actually into the same things you are. I've seen non-neurodivergent people talk about football in circles for AGES.

    • @once.upon.a.time.
      @once.upon.a.time. 4 місяці тому +6

      @@ariwl1 I think there's a difference in communication style with ND people and NT people. I've heard that ND people prefer to respond to something with their own story as a way to relate to someone, while NT people prefer to ask questions and focus on one person's story at a time, and both types of people find the other somewhat rude. I wonder if that has anything to do with it.

    • @AlexThePyroshark
      @AlexThePyroshark 4 місяці тому +6

      ​@@once.upon.a.time. Possibly? I'm low-end autistic myself, but I feel like it becomes an issue only if you can't recognize that it's a different kind of communication. I'm guilty myself of telling stories to try and prove my point (almost did that while writing this response too), but I've learned how to just... talk better with people thanks to some help, and it's not as bad as it seems. The simplest crux of the matter is isolating and being isolated because of those differences.
      Which bring me to the dude in the clip, it feels like he's essentially getting beached in the belief that WHAT he is makes him sPeCiAl, instead of trying to accept and rise further than that one thing about himself. Ain't nothing special or healthy about that, let me tell you.

    • @littlecatfeet9064
      @littlecatfeet9064 4 місяці тому +6

      @@once.upon.a.time.I do both as a ‘neurodivergent’ person but my default is to crap on about me. That’s why it’s good to be friends with regular people; they can help us be less socially awkward and more expressively empathetic (we are often very empathetic but often say the wrong things). It’s good for everyone to have friends who are different from them. Only hanging out with ADHD and Autism Spectrum people sounds awful, frankly. Plus I’ll bet they’ll split off into a POC ND group, a queer ND group etc; anything to avoid people with different lives and opinions.

  • @Five0
    @Five0 4 місяці тому +136

    Good topic. Identity being a 24/7 fixation is an issue.

    • @mickyr171
      @mickyr171 4 місяці тому +11

      OCD mixed with a id crisis is what it seems

    • @badlaamaurukehu
      @badlaamaurukehu 4 місяці тому +15

      NPD/Main Character Syndrome.

    • @cheesemakerkeesee395
      @cheesemakerkeesee395 4 місяці тому

      Yah this chick should stop making propaganda videos

    • @rong2912
      @rong2912 4 місяці тому +2

      Sartre was wrong. Existence does not precede essence.

    • @TG-ge1oh
      @TG-ge1oh 4 місяці тому +2

      I once had a similar conversation with a friend. He was gay. Back then transitioning wasn't all that common. We definitely didn't have neo-pronouns. Even they/them were just beginning to be discussed online on some forums. But the guy was pretty much this, what we see in these videos. So I asked him whether gay is the only identity he has. Is he a gay to his parents, a gay to his siblings, a gay to his friends, a gay to his teachers... Been decades, and I still haven't gotten an answer.

  • @MyMomSaysImKeen
    @MyMomSaysImKeen 4 місяці тому +284

    As a non binary bi-PoC (aboriginal & inuit), wheelchair bound, neurodivergant, cross eyed, su-s-sufferer of a stutter who is also the parent of a left handed, red haired, fur-baby, trans-agist 38 year old who identifies as a toddler I fear the direction with which our country is going!

    • @Dude-do8vo
      @Dude-do8vo 4 місяці тому +92

      you know what is sad? I had to read 'til neurodivergant to realise you were being sarcastic because people started collecting labels as if they were Pokémon

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 4 місяці тому +25

      There's no such thing as non binary

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 4 місяці тому +13

      There's no such thing as non binary

    • @aliasella488
      @aliasella488 4 місяці тому +43

      @@derekb4977 Missed the joke

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 4 місяці тому +14

      @@aliasella488 oh sorry I just re read it, I just say the truth because that sententce annoys me so much that I have to remind people that there's no such thing because sometimes even Arielle says the words, it's why I prefer (mr menno) (Kellie jay keen) (EDIJester) we British are leading the way in the hard truth.

  • @cjvan713
    @cjvan713 4 місяці тому +63

    I am in my mid-forties now. I remember growing up with dying the hair, the odd haircuts, and even 18-in spiked Mohawks made with wood glue. They were a statement to society saying, "We will not confirm."
    What I see and hear when talk to the youth of today with a dyed hair and the odd haircuts, it seems to be a statement saying, "Society must conform to me." The difference is night and day.

    • @SarahDavison-d2s
      @SarahDavison-d2s 4 місяці тому +3

      30s here and I had a friend use Eggs in his Mohawk. Shit smell so bad but wood glue wood is way better.

  • @decuevas244
    @decuevas244 4 місяці тому +86

    The tv shows I grew up on would make people now lose their minds.

    • @aaadamt964
      @aaadamt964 4 місяці тому +6

      A remake of married with children would be epic.

    • @decuevas244
      @decuevas244 4 місяці тому +5

      @@aaadamt964 yes!!! So I was peggy and my husband al was al. Red hair and a loud attitude. I wouldn't clean or cook because that was Al's job.

    • @aaadamt964
      @aaadamt964 4 місяці тому +1

      @@decuevas244 perfect! Haha

  • @Truelib99Hobbes
    @Truelib99Hobbes 4 місяці тому +66

    An eyebrow slit. WOW! With goals like that, she'll go far.

  • @didjargo
    @didjargo 4 місяці тому +106

    The non-binary man retelling the exchange smells like the kind of confrontation that you have entirely in your head. Where you are calm, rational, and informative, and the opposition is flustered, stumbling over their words, and instantly submissive.

    • @pmc2999
      @pmc2999 4 місяці тому +25

      The tennis player? I didn't believe a word he said. Entirely a conversation in his head.

    • @kevincurr4641
      @kevincurr4641 4 місяці тому

      Non binary is a fictional trend, that fantasy island types like this nonentity clown use as online clout.

    • @highpeacetess
      @highpeacetess 4 місяці тому +7

      💯💯😂

    • @Deadclown45acp
      @Deadclown45acp 4 місяці тому +12

      He probably went to his car to cry.

    • @The_Fat_Controller.
      @The_Fat_Controller. 4 місяці тому +5

      Totally BS story.

  • @Riley-kt5wr
    @Riley-kt5wr 4 місяці тому +191

    Pure tweens and teens. They'll realize how ridiculous they looked in a couple of years. I know I did! Went from wanting to cut my breasts off and be called Alexander to a regular woman. GOD! Just let yourself grow! You're not an expert just bc you're 18!!!!!!

    • @HappyTobeHere89
      @HappyTobeHere89 4 місяці тому +22

      Im glad you realized b4 too late. My cousin's daughter found out too late. It's so sad. Cut them off and deep af voice now. They live in California (rest of us live in Louisiana) and its sad how quickly it progressed. I was just so shocked. Her parents and her grandparents ( my aunt) were against it. I wish she would've received proper therapy instead of affirm etc.

    • @nikedoesthings
      @nikedoesthings 4 місяці тому +12

      Oh same! I'm a lesbian in my 30's now and when I was 19 I was convinced I better be a man to love a woman. My name would be Axel. Thank god for the amazing mental care I got, the time they let it take before even letting me THINK of surgery. 2 years later I knew I was fine the way I was as a lesbian. Kids nowadays go through the same things, but influenced by others who are in the same boat, it goes so much further and faster now there's Tiktok. Therapy and mental health care should be number one care for those who think they are trans.

    • @moosedawg71
      @moosedawg71 4 місяці тому +7

      That's the problem though, woke parents are doing this crap to their children before they are even old enough to figure it out like you did. You're lucky that you were able to make those decisions for yourself. Kids like Jazz Jennings aren't so lucky.

    • @radioheadautism
      @radioheadautism 4 місяці тому

      Tbh probably so many young girls identity as trans men because society learnt them(directly or indirectly) that being a woman is a bad and cringe thing therefore becoming a man will make them better

    • @mikayla2819
      @mikayla2819 Місяць тому

      The irony is that this type of 'care' was forcefully prescribed in the past to homosexual, autistic and gender non-confirming people to make them 'normal'. What a great disservice we are doing to people that need help for an entirely different set of things and giving them even more trauma.

  • @paulhincks5156
    @paulhincks5156 4 місяці тому +120

    If you can't accept yourself as what you are, do not expect others to accept you as something you're not.

    • @ConservativeGrouch
      @ConservativeGrouch 4 місяці тому +1

      That has been my point for years, thumbs up! Sorry to change your *69* to a 70, though.

    • @jcovent
      @jcovent 4 місяці тому

      Well put.

    • @DrakeOola
      @DrakeOola 2 місяці тому +1

      They expect us to accept their definition of what a woman is but can't even define it themselves.

    • @jason192
      @jason192 Місяць тому

      Profound words. Too deep for WOKE understanding. LOL 👍

  • @punknoodles0
    @punknoodles0 4 місяці тому +35

    You cannot force someone else to experience your delusion.

    • @Albemarle7
      @Albemarle7 4 місяці тому +5

      That is one of main activites of dictators and their minions.

    • @DrakeOola
      @DrakeOola 2 місяці тому

      You can if you feed them enough drugs and hormone blockers

  • @andixpiwi8325
    @andixpiwi8325 4 місяці тому +72

    clowns will be clowns

    • @localbod
      @localbod 4 місяці тому

      I know what you mean, but fux like these give clowns a bad name.
      Support circus workers' rights.
      👍😎

    • @ItalianClown2003
      @ItalianClown2003 4 місяці тому +3

      Don't insult real circus clowns like that

    • @JinxMarie1985
      @JinxMarie1985 4 місяці тому +1

      The shit show just goes on and on

  • @gachaluna2708
    @gachaluna2708 4 місяці тому +37

    Gotta agree... he didn't stop talking because you changed his mind. He stopped because he didn't want to deal with your bs for the whole rest of the game...

  • @MettleHurlant
    @MettleHurlant 4 місяці тому +30

    It’s emotionally immature people who need attention. I don’t have time for it.

  • @yawgmoth55
    @yawgmoth55 4 місяці тому +36

    This is why I just dont talk to any of them. Its not worth the minefield of fragile daddy issues.

  • @AggravatedCassowary.
    @AggravatedCassowary. 4 місяці тому +39

    They really just want to complain about everything

    • @stephenthomas1492
      @stephenthomas1492 4 місяці тому +3

      It's the victimhood social hierarchy. It's their way of feeling special or blaming any roadblock on a phobia or an ist.

    • @brandonw9635
      @brandonw9635 4 місяці тому

      ​​@stephenthomas1492 That and from every single one that I've ever dealt with. They are just very angry or sad people. For the most part, they're all just unhappy. No matter what happens, they always go straight to something negative about any situation. I work with a person from this type of community, and they are generally unhappy person.

    • @XpeteypoisonX
      @XpeteypoisonX 4 місяці тому

      Yeah, because Arielle totally doesn’t do that picking out the craziest of the crazies to make a point that “the woke lefties are ruining everything, let’s react to woke crazy people on every single video” totally doesn’t make it her entire personality at all, totally doesn’t have an echo chamber…

    • @SwissMarksman
      @SwissMarksman 4 місяці тому

      @@XpeteypoisonX Are you offended? 😂

  • @ethan6483
    @ethan6483 4 місяці тому +31

    I’m 31 and even I find myself saying shit like back in my day queer was a slur.

    • @misstasha
      @misstasha 4 місяці тому +5

      I'm almost 44 and I remember it well. Had friends that were called that growing up who were lesbian, gay or bi. I taught my 2 daughters that it was a slur when they were old enough to understand and they refuse to use it, even if asked to.

  • @turdferguson9356
    @turdferguson9356 4 місяці тому +40

    when the TQ+ unironically start telling everyone they only like living with their own kind... lol do you hear yourselves?

  • @CousinCreepy
    @CousinCreepy 4 місяці тому +14

    It seems like those that demand the most tolerance are the least tolerant of others.

  • @rogerallen3206
    @rogerallen3206 4 місяці тому +40

    Really could've fired that person up with "oh binary? not a boy or a girl so you're non-existent."

    • @kevincurr4641
      @kevincurr4641 4 місяці тому +2

      Internet clout is so addictive even for someone so obviously a nonentity making up nonsense 😂

  • @Jimbo77696--
    @Jimbo77696-- 4 місяці тому +18

    I love how these people who claim to be the peaceful and accepting ones are the most Violent ones. They are like shut up and accept me or else. Forcing someone to accept you, doesn't win people over. History proves it.

    • @brandonw9635
      @brandonw9635 4 місяці тому +2

      It's called the tolerance paradox.

  • @ghostthelizard
    @ghostthelizard 4 місяці тому +39

    "All men are like this"
    Then be the one man that isnt like that instead of refusing to be a man

  • @bobfurman2739
    @bobfurman2739 4 місяці тому +30

    That's why I say,TQIA does not belong "lumped in " with LGB !!

  • @GL-bz2fy
    @GL-bz2fy 4 місяці тому +371

    ill respect your queer identity when you respect my white male straight one

    • @JumpCutThis
      @JumpCutThis 4 місяці тому +40

      Or anyone else *IN GENERAL* it seems the *ONLY* thing they acknowledge is themselves. This is on a whole new level above narcissistic-
      *we’re gonna need a bigger DSM-5, Jim!!*

    • @Absaalookemensch
      @Absaalookemensch 4 місяці тому +1

      And they need to stop with the pejorative term Cis, it's deliberate hate speech.
      They need to address us as straight or normal.

    • @cheesemakerkeesee395
      @cheesemakerkeesee395 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@JumpCutThis idk I think it's generally the other way around tbh

    • @alex-qd6of
      @alex-qd6of 4 місяці тому +2

      Respect your identity how?

    • @joen4642
      @joen4642 4 місяці тому +1

      Identify as those charataristicas or acknowledge them?

  • @shiny2423
    @shiny2423 4 місяці тому +35

    I was in the Army and l agree; 'if you dish it, you gotta take it'~! Yes, we joke about everything and everyone. We are not PC and if we don't joke about you, we probably don't like you.

  • @punklover99
    @punklover99 4 місяці тому +26

    Highly doubting the pickleball story was even real

    • @johnny718bravo
      @johnny718bravo 4 місяці тому +7

      I was waiting for him to say "And everybody clapped"

  • @UncleMikeDrop
    @UncleMikeDrop 4 місяці тому +74

    I don't believe that last non binary story.

    • @Bonnatella
      @Bonnatella 4 місяці тому +18

      Same here. It just feels like one of those made up "experiences" he wished happened to him so he could endlessly complain about it. But alas, he can make anything up to claim "I'ma victim"

    • @highpeacetess
      @highpeacetess 4 місяці тому +11

      💯💯💯 was giving- made the fck up 😂

    • @aaadamt964
      @aaadamt964 4 місяці тому +7

      They're constantly telling stories how they were just minding their own business and got verbally attacked randomly. Or how they called someone out for being phobic and everyone cheered.

    • @leerolette3412
      @leerolette3412 4 місяці тому +9

      The only thing missing was 'and everybody cheered and clapped'.

    • @madamedex5989
      @madamedex5989 4 місяці тому +3

      If it did happen, he just made sure that guy never wants to play doubles with him again.

  • @jenniferbyrne1737
    @jenniferbyrne1737 4 місяці тому +10

    The youngsters need to shut up and listen to the LGB elders.

  • @Rezd-Out
    @Rezd-Out 4 місяці тому +7

    Yet he couldn’t make a SINGLE argument. Also, he’s lying. I was waiting for him to say “and then everyone clapped”.

  • @jackiefox7224
    @jackiefox7224 4 місяці тому +14

    I think a lot of the problem with these folks is they lack maturity and any kind of critical thinking. There’s nothing wrong with being trans or different in any way. Just go about your life like anyone else and be happy. Constantly screaming “LOOK AT ME” is just being a toddler. I wonder if the validation they so desperately seek is confirmation for themselves… 🇨🇦

    • @brandonw9635
      @brandonw9635 4 місяці тому

      As a whole, these people are just generally unhappy. It doesn't matter the Situation.

  • @dynamic75
    @dynamic75 4 місяці тому +8

    Having a meltdown over misgendering, then threatening violence is wild. Clown world logic is undefeated!

  • @jayaom4946
    @jayaom4946 4 місяці тому +56

    I'm trying to raise my sons to not feel ashamed of being masculine but it's hard. They can get in trouble with society for just being themselves as straight, white men.

    • @aaadamt964
      @aaadamt964 4 місяці тому +3

      Not just unashamed. Proud.

    • @kevincurr4641
      @kevincurr4641 4 місяці тому

      That's true, psudeo feminist, boss girls created this nonsense, yet continuingly post fake crying videos how they can't find love or pay their bills. Unless, of course the men they exclusively seek are 6ft 5inch tall, earning high six figures with trust funds unicorns 😂

    • @thearmchairjournalist566
      @thearmchairjournalist566 4 місяці тому +7

      I totally hear you, my son is a young adult and it’s so hard for men now to be proud of themselves without the world trying to make them feel like all the problems of the world are their fault 😢

    • @kevincurr4641
      @kevincurr4641 4 місяці тому

      I replied and totally understand and agree, yet big brother UA-cam removed my comment it's ridiculous, this is how the anti male narrative is reinforced and perpetuated..

    • @ninjawizard3865
      @ninjawizard3865 4 місяці тому

      ​@@aaadamt964 Proud and White?

  • @poogissploogis
    @poogissploogis 4 місяці тому +13

    I once had an argument with my liberal friend over whether or not confronting someone for non-PC jokes actually works. In my experience, when an easily-offended lefty type confronts someone for a joke in a group setting, all it does is make that person not like them and they continue to make the jokes, but they just make sure the lefty isn't around first. My friend insisted that calling them out in front of everyone would get through to them better than pulling them aside privately. I wanted to tell her so badly that she is the one who everyone makes jokes about behind her back.

  • @debblouin
    @debblouin 4 місяці тому +8

    Needing external validation to affirm one’s existence is an indication of narcissism.

  • @bobthompson9890
    @bobthompson9890 4 місяці тому +20

    I'm a straight white dude who happened to get a haircut yesterday. Maybe I'll put out a tiktok video

    • @ashac7183
      @ashac7183 4 місяці тому +2

      Please! ❤😂

    • @brianreeves8812
      @brianreeves8812 4 місяці тому +3

      You are so stunning! So brave! 😅

    • @bobthompson9890
      @bobthompson9890 4 місяці тому +3

      @@brianreeves8812 thank you, I need to be validated every minute of every day

    • @brianreeves8812
      @brianreeves8812 4 місяці тому +3

      @@bobthompson9890We’re here for you.

    • @sdburton1
      @sdburton1 2 місяці тому +1

      I got one today and I’m gay so that’s a two part video.

  • @MontreBible
    @MontreBible 4 місяці тому +28

    We have to ask why a whole generation is rejecting society because they feel they don't fit in anywhere to the point of destroying themselves. I can't imagine any of these kids living to be 40 something. The 40 something people that are doing it now... didn't do this when they were 20ish. They are doing it to be "cool" with these kids...or to make money

    • @EgoBrain1
      @EgoBrain1 4 місяці тому

      They're being led into this by ppl who want to disrupt the family ao they can end capitalism...

    • @ArachnerdGC
      @ArachnerdGC 4 місяці тому +6

      And some of the 40-somethings - like Jeffrey Marsh for instance - seem to be doing it as a way to access kids, rather than be "cool" with them. If you get my drift.

    • @MontreBible
      @MontreBible 4 місяці тому

      @@ArachnerdGC yup. He's a perv. But it's ok can *now he claims to be trans ...20 years ago...what was he?

    • @kevincurr4641
      @kevincurr4641 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@ArachnerdGC Absolutely, when his government protected, princess privilege ends it's going to be a case of how fast he can run from street justice.

  • @jennsadventures84
    @jennsadventures84 4 місяці тому +52

    Is anyone else exhausted from all the new identities? I just keep my moth shut in public. Not worth the migraine.

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 4 місяці тому +1

      Keeping your mouth shut is one of the problems, and it's why they are getting away with hijacking gay/lesbian rights.

    • @GuiltyFaT
      @GuiltyFaT 4 місяці тому +8

      I just ignore them
      When they start saying pronouns
      I just walk away

    • @derekb4977
      @derekb4977 4 місяці тому +1

      @@GuiltyFaT you can't we have to fight these people it's dangerous ideology, and it's hurting gay and lesbian rights

  • @blissfulluxurylife
    @blissfulluxurylife 4 місяці тому +14

    People just be out here doing too much!!! Stop taking things personally not everything is about you.

  • @ericcesarmorales1195
    @ericcesarmorales1195 4 місяці тому +16

    Gender norms are fluid, meaning we can change them whenever we want. That’s why women can wear pants, guys can have long hair, etc. Nonbinary people seem to forget that. If someone doesn’t have dysphoria, feeling comfortable mixing gender expressions is just continuing a long legacy of challenging gender norms. But when we label that as being non-binary, we’re making it harder to evolve gender norms

    • @EgoBrain1
      @EgoBrain1 4 місяці тому +1

      That is their point though. They want to erase norms. That is what kwear is. Disrupting. They want to disrupt the family unit. This will help them disrupt Capitalism.

    • @EgoBrain1
      @EgoBrain1 4 місяці тому

      That is their point though. They want to erase norms. That is what (kw ear) is. Disrupting. They want to disrupt the family to disrupt Capitalism.

    • @EgoBrain1
      @EgoBrain1 4 місяці тому

      That is what they want though. They want to get rid of it. That is what (kw ear) is. Disrupting. They want to disrupt the family to disrupt Capitalism.

    • @EgoBrain1
      @EgoBrain1 4 місяці тому

      That is what they want to do though...
      It is about stopping the family so they can stop capitalism

    • @clogs4956
      @clogs4956 4 місяці тому

      I’d have loved to see you advocating “gender norms” during the English Civil War 🤣

  • @cognitivedissidents4642
    @cognitivedissidents4642 4 місяці тому +8

    The world is full of people with sharp tongues and sharp elbows. That doesn't make every mean word an assault or every jostling a battery.

  • @chelsea9339
    @chelsea9339 4 місяці тому +7

    It’s not my job or responsibility to validate you.

  • @SFUPodcast
    @SFUPodcast 4 місяці тому +7

    Just because he spent a lot of time “studying” non binary/trans propaganda, doesn’t change the fact that “non binary” isn’t a thing…

  • @tropixi5336
    @tropixi5336 4 місяці тому +20

    it goe both ways, if you wont respect someone for being stright why are they gonna respect you being gay or trans.

  • @MrHayato-wi2sv
    @MrHayato-wi2sv 4 місяці тому +19

    I am what the one Individual would consider “neurodivergent.” It’s something I would rather not have because it does lead to mild annoyances with certain sounds and lack of attentiveness. I would much rather be “neurotypical.”

  • @stargazerkawaii
    @stargazerkawaii 4 місяці тому +13

    There are people who dedicate their lives to the study of their religion. That doesn't make their god real to me.

    • @kevincurr4641
      @kevincurr4641 4 місяці тому

      Especially the vapid Queer cult.

  • @jackchop1576
    @jackchop1576 4 місяці тому +7

    That first one has more bass in his voice than any of the guys on tinder.

  • @MichaelCravith
    @MichaelCravith 4 місяці тому +10

    Dyed hair and multiple face piercings, telling someone else they have a typical personality?
    Did self-awareness pass you by, mate?

  • @simontgamer
    @simontgamer 4 місяці тому +10

    Completely agree. What's with all these people giving other people power over how they feel about themselves. Be androgynous and cool and break gender norms instead of whine about everything.

    • @once.upon.a.time.
      @once.upon.a.time. 4 місяці тому +3

      I wonder how they would feel about the quote "when people anger you, they control you." I wish they could just disconnect for a little while and go take a walk in the fresh air and chill.

  • @Danni611
    @Danni611 4 місяці тому +11

    Maybe I should crowbar my bisexuality into everything, even when it isn't relevant (which is almost always). I mean, I am a woman with a boyfriend, so I need to make sure everyone knows that I am also attracted to women, or how will I feel relevant and accepted in this world? I serve customers all the time who might not realise!!😟 I also worry that my cat doesn't know I'm bi. How can I communicate this to her? What if she is homophobic?

  • @brianmclean6293
    @brianmclean6293 4 місяці тому +8

    As usual Arielle , your interpretations and analysis of people's actions are insightful and accurate. And in response to your question, I believe that us older gays and lesbians, who fought for true equal rights, worked for the respect of fellow citizens, and lived through the horrors of the AIDS epidemic, have learned how to live a worthwhile life. Being homosexual is not an identity, it's one fact about a person, and living a life where the be all and end all is just to "be a homosexual" will I think leave many people unhappy and ill-adapted in their lives.

  • @JenBelogura
    @JenBelogura 4 місяці тому +15

    The lack of traditional men in the area is why I decided to look outside of the country and I found what I wanted

    • @ghostthelizard
      @ghostthelizard 4 місяці тому +8

      Glad you found what you wanted 👍 people should stop shaming men for being masculine. People dont really do that when women are overly feminine so why do they think they can do that with men. Men who like masculine things are cool

    • @JenBelogura
      @JenBelogura 4 місяці тому +3

      @@ghostthelizard I'm a pretty dominant woman and I love how he puts me in my place when needed. I love how he is the person who shifts the power in the relationship. Old school Russian man

    • @paulineb66
      @paulineb66 4 місяці тому +3

      I agree. I work with a man from another country. Some call him misogynistic, but I don’t see it. He recognizes the difference between men and women, and respects both. The woke can’t deal with him because he is strong male.

    • @ninjawizard3865
      @ninjawizard3865 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@JenBeloguraHundred years of Feminisnt propaganda might have something to do with it.

  • @P3891
    @P3891 4 місяці тому +47

    someone being proud of talking in circles? yikes

    • @aleac617
      @aleac617 4 місяці тому +4

      Haha I latched onto that one immediately too like ummmm okkkk.....???

    • @MusicaTexas
      @MusicaTexas 4 місяці тому +3

      He talks about how talking like that is soooo much deeper 😂 He doesn't realize that when you talk in circles.... 1 not deep only surface and 2 it means you have NOTHING else or better to say😂😂😂😂😂

  • @robertanderson6929
    @robertanderson6929 4 місяці тому +19

    So, it is claimed that being trns is not a mntal dis0rder but there is a strong correlation between those who claim to be trns and also claiming to have brderline personality dis0rder? Are we sure about that first part?

    • @D-B-Cooper
      @D-B-Cooper 4 місяці тому +2

      😂 getting deleted a lot?

    • @joen4642
      @joen4642 4 місяці тому +2

      It's not just bpd's getting sucked into GI

    • @robertanderson6929
      @robertanderson6929 4 місяці тому +5

      @@D-B-Cooper Yes. It is almost impossible to have actual conversations anymore in the comments.

    • @robertanderson6929
      @robertanderson6929 4 місяці тому +6

      @@joen4642 I'm not sure what is going on. And from my comment you can tell that asking questions is getting very difficult.
      Originally it was recognized that people who were so confused about their gndr were suffering a mntal condition.
      But for political reason having a lot to do with a subtle insert into Obamacare relating to what kinds of treatments could be billed to insurance, doctors opted to eliminate the "disorder" definition and simply claim these people were depressed.
      But obviously there is more going on here. Just look at the people in these videos. You have BPD, Obsessve Compslive issues and other more dangerous things which I cannot mention here.
      You almost never find someone who is just trns. They almost always suffer from one, two or multiple other mntal issues.

    • @azimuth5620
      @azimuth5620 4 місяці тому +2

      I have to take YT breaks because this censorship gets depressing af. At least on X my gay voice is not being silenced by the forever-offended

  • @gdprsn
    @gdprsn 4 місяці тому +22

    Ita not about the right on who they choose to to love anymore its force compliance.

    • @thel1355
      @thel1355 4 місяці тому +5

      "To tolerate" now means to worship, celebrate, and promote.

  • @Emilaria
    @Emilaria 4 місяці тому +4

    None of these people have any idea that trust and respect are earned. You have to give in order to receive.

  • @bonagrad92
    @bonagrad92 4 місяці тому +2

    Wanting/demanding other people to validate you is basically like having others doing your homework for you and passing it off as your own work. In the end, you learn nothing.

  • @AJManol
    @AJManol 4 місяці тому +6

    I was just HEAVILY insulted and discarded by a friend of over 12 years out of the blue.
    He declared that I'm essentially not a "real gay" as a bisexual, lol. And stories of my respectful questioning of people's perspective that are different than my own, and disagreement with some of the modern rhetoric makes me a vicious, narcissistic threat that thinks Trans people don't exist (none of this is true, mind you), and jeopardizes our entire artistic scene scene by making people afraid to come out. Seriously. I invited him to discuss it in person before making such a harsh judgement, but his apparently addiction to righteous indignation and weaponization of victimhood wouldn't allow it as I got no response. I think he expected me to be vicious in return or grovel? I don't play silly high school games. I'm writing a non-emotional, non manipulative statement of my actual thoughts and making it public so that if anyone doubts my intentions or character going forward can see what I actually believe, none of which is hateful. I wish more sane people would speak up. This is actually scary Totalitarian behavior!
    I'm making

  • @Slipknot99
    @Slipknot99 4 місяці тому +7

    If you need to constantly bring up something and need to be affirmed by others constantly then guess what…ya might not be the identity you think you are. Accept reality

  • @annamossity8879
    @annamossity8879 4 місяці тому +5

    He wasn’t “going at you”, you were going at him! The mixed doubles guy, I mean.

  • @faithinjesus7817
    @faithinjesus7817 4 місяці тому +3

    Respect is earned. I can choose to be kind, courteous, and polite BUT I do not have to be. I only RESPECT people I know.

  • @jadefire2817
    @jadefire2817 4 місяці тому +12

    *"Do I look like Rihanna!?"*
    I fell out. 😂

    • @kevincurr4641
      @kevincurr4641 4 місяці тому +2

      He's superb, deadly accurate and hilarious 😂

    • @arielle
      @arielle  4 місяці тому +2

      Hahaha

    • @kevincurr4641
      @kevincurr4641 4 місяці тому +1

      @@arielle He's the goat, totally makes me laugh out loud, he'd a great conversation with Brad Polumbo recently. That aside keep posting the truth lady, its appreciated along with Marcus, Blaire and Tranpa 😊

  • @Razeredsaint
    @Razeredsaint 4 місяці тому +17

    5:45 helpful not harmful. At the end of the day it is either helpful, harmful or irrelevant.
    7:18 it’s like that song “You’re so vain, you probably think this song is about you? Don’t you? Don’t you?”

    • @pmc2999
      @pmc2999 4 місяці тому

      Ooh, I liked that song. These people are indeed so vain.

    • @localbod
      @localbod 4 місяці тому

      Carly Simon?
      It's a good tune.

  • @mc1993
    @mc1993 4 місяці тому +9

    Eyebrow slits have been around since the 90s. Vanilla Ice, Big Daddy Kane and so on. Seriously, though... what happened to the three letter community?

  • @Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer
    @Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer 4 місяці тому +1

    These people complain about bullying and harassment, yet they are the biggest bullies there are.

  •  4 місяці тому +7

    The T never belonged with the GLB

  • @belatorius3442
    @belatorius3442 4 місяці тому +1

    No one wants to be around people who take jokes too personally

  • @chucknorris408
    @chucknorris408 4 місяці тому +3

    Eyebrow slits started in the hood. Dope boys and pimps started it. Have fun with that. Glad I went through that phase a long time ago.

  • @janaklein3518
    @janaklein3518 4 місяці тому +5

    Somebody teach these kids the Serenity Prayer!! Kids, please learn it.

  • @audrareed5954
    @audrareed5954 4 місяці тому +20

    I'm Gen-X. I just shout back, "Your mom!"

    • @pogmothoin00001
      @pogmothoin00001 4 місяці тому +6

      not to forget guid old "so's your face" 😂

    • @ArachnerdGC
      @ArachnerdGC 4 місяці тому +5

      I'm trailing-edge-boomer (early 1960s). We used to say "Yo Mama!" back in the day.

    • @arielle
      @arielle  4 місяці тому +3

      Hahahhaa we said that in the 90’s too

  • @shdagentzero
    @shdagentzero 4 місяці тому +1

    Oh my GOD. The first one. The audacity to want to make fun of ANYONE looking like THAT!!!!

  • @luckdragongirl
    @luckdragongirl 4 місяці тому +4

    I look forward to the day people figure out that they are more than their "gender identity" or sexuality. Maybe it's because I don't do the pronoun thing (I'm a woman, if you "misgender" me, I don't care). Could also be because I'm straight, but I really don't think about being a woman or being a straight person that often. There is so much more to my being than my genitals and sexuality. I would be insulted if the first thing that came to mind when someone mentioned me were my pronouns and my sexuality. That's like you don't know someone at all. Or they literally have no personality outside that.

  • @TheKatarinaGiselle
    @TheKatarinaGiselle 4 місяці тому +1

    You never miss the mark! I especially loved you talking about energetic connection and where our souls are at!

  • @DoggyFosterMom
    @DoggyFosterMom 4 місяці тому +3

    That first guy has serious ‘it puts the lotion on the skin’ type vibes. 😳

  • @Keeza75
    @Keeza75 4 місяці тому +2

    I love that you respond to New York hussle and bussle sounds. You rock. :D

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom75 4 місяці тому +17

    8:02 nonbinary isn’t tr@ns 🙄

    • @Annie261.
      @Annie261. 4 місяці тому

      It’s so hard to keep up with this s@#t.

    • @hammondcheeseman5361
      @hammondcheeseman5361 4 місяці тому

      I can see from certain regularly promoted viewpoints that there is almost a 100% overlap though. If you are accepting a differentiation between sex and gender and subsequently that there are no physical requirements on changing gender, then with vanishingly rare exceptions everybody at birth is observed as male or female. Every one of them who has subsequently declared that they are now non binary have transitioned. Of course does that mean a xy male who is not gendered at birth ,(insert appropriate ideology of parents and medical staff...) and then assumes a male gender when old enough to be aware.. is that individual now trans?....

  • @bb-bu9vt
    @bb-bu9vt 4 місяці тому +2

    I love you, Arielle!

  • @LuckysLair
    @LuckysLair 4 місяці тому +4

    On the day before Arielle posted this video, a Tranz person went on a stabbing spree. Not just in one location, but two. I'm sure the media will do their best to bury it, or fail to mention the Tranz part....even though "identity" always seems to be the MOST important thing to The Press.

    • @kryptofreak74
      @kryptofreak74 4 місяці тому +1

      Only when the tr@ns person is the victim

  • @PatriciaCoberly
    @PatriciaCoberly 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you, Arielle! ❤️

  • @hellooutthere8956
    @hellooutthere8956 4 місяці тому +3

    You are the coolest person around Arielle.

  • @Wise-Lady-La-Aura
    @Wise-Lady-La-Aura 4 місяці тому +1

    Hyperfixation on themselves, they act like they’re so special. They’re special, all right. They’re so special, they’re riding the short bus!

  • @berniecasey7592
    @berniecasey7592 4 місяці тому +2

    Grumpy old gay rant Hit it right on the mark!!!! so true and honest. - Love Ya Arielle.

  • @jentealwaves
    @jentealwaves 4 місяці тому +1

    Arielle, I am totally supportive of you, I love you and what you stand for!!! Keep up the great work! ❤❤❤

  • @okaygecko
    @okaygecko 4 місяці тому +3

    I'm a normal person, actual lesbian, with piercings and bleached hair... and I'm so tired of these people. Where are the sane lesbians? I'm convinced I will never meet my match.

    • @jcovent
      @jcovent 4 місяці тому

      Hey there...

  • @anthonywright6205
    @anthonywright6205 4 місяці тому +1

    I'm never going to respect their identity or anything else keep your bs away from the kids

  • @bradparnell614
    @bradparnell614 4 місяці тому +5

    Imagine living your whole life making up reality as you go along and getting irritated at others for not being able to keep up. Oh wait, we don't have to, we can just watch TikTok videos (or better yet just let people like Arielle, Blair White, Brad Polumbo, and Buck Angel do it for us). I'm so tired of people who get their knickers in a wad about offensive jokes who themselves have no qualms whatsoever about making offensive jokes about others and believe me that is not at all exclusive to the alphabet community.

  • @DixieBishop
    @DixieBishop 4 місяці тому +2

    Arielle, you're the best!!

  • @lovebonjour6841
    @lovebonjour6841 4 місяці тому +3

    Hello ,,, Eyebrow slits were most likely copied after actual scars in the 1990's. Although not much is known about the origins of the eyebrow slit (or cut), people speculated it was made to look like you were cut by a knife or sharp piece of glass, creating a dangerous, rebellious look.

  • @Alteringrealitystudios
    @Alteringrealitystudios 4 місяці тому +1

    It's easy to make those kinds of demands when you believe you have the backing of a government. Oh but you'll soon find out that you're wrong. And pay for such actions dearly.

  • @garvensman
    @garvensman 4 місяці тому +2

    I’d love to know what the “horrible joke” was, if it even existed, and if the guy who said it, was even conservative.

  • @DeToxik
    @DeToxik 4 місяці тому +2

    I've taken out most my piercings (only few kept in ears), for the reason that the left ruins everything

  • @RaccAttack77
    @RaccAttack77 4 місяці тому +3

    All that one guy did was make sure he doesn’t get invited to anymore games
    Also, older generation, 100%. The fact acceptance has been actually dropping (in large part because of how the ‘modern’ LGBT acts) is proof of that.

    • @ArachnerdGC
      @ArachnerdGC 4 місяці тому

      It is, and it's so very, very frustrating. They claim to be "progressive", but they're going to end up pushing us back to the 1950s.

  • @paramoreparks9960
    @paramoreparks9960 4 місяці тому +1

    Exactly!! Make your own umbrella. That's perfect.