because dating David wasn't like cheating and didn't Kurt left him before that?, it wasn't cheating, maybe he felt bad for dating David just because he was still in love with Kurt but didn't want to admit
Blaine physically slept with someone, Kurt just texted some random guy and never met him. Blaine also hung out with "family friendly" Sebastian, even though he clearly pined for Blaine, and Kurt didn't even like him. In my opinion, what Blaine did was way worse
Agabbieshow I get that but I just meant he did exactly what he thought Kurt had. He did the very thing that he freaked out at Kurt for "doing". Not even a year later...
True, but I feel like sometimes when people bring this point up, it's as if they're thinking that Blaine was, like, sitting their twirling an imaginary mustache and thinking "and next year I'm going to do the same thing but even worse to him!!" Which... wasn't the case haha. I get the irony of it, but at the same time, it's not like Blaine didn't have a right to be *hurt* by Kurt happily lapping up overtly flirty texts from someone else and hiding it from him. Was it cheating? Nah, but it was still essentially coming from the same place Blaine was in his cheating: Kurt had felt like Blaine was pulling away, and instead of doing the mature thing and talking to Blaine about what was up, he flirty texted with someone else to make himself feel better. And in Kurt's case, he didn't even want to acknowledge that it wasn't a cool thing to do. In Blaine's case, he felt like Kurt was moving on without him, and yes, his level of infidelity was much more extreme, but he also felt every bit as guilty and awful about it as he would have felt hurt if Kurt had physically cheated with Chandler. It's not like he turned around and tried to play it off to Kurt as if it was nothing like Kurt did with the Chandler situation. He KNEW how badly he'd hurt him, and expressed his remorse and commitment to earn his trust back accordingly. (oh and in terms of Sebastian: I honestly don't think that was the same kind of situation as Kurt with Chandler, because Blaine was never hiding Sebastian from Kurt, and aside from perhaps being initially a little flattered by the attention, he never even remotely reciprocated Sebastian's flirtations. He was pretty much just appeasing Sebastian, and you can bet that if he'd done anything more than that, Sebastian WOULD have shoved it in Kurt's face.)
There's a reason why Sam is my favorite guy character on this show, Finn a very close second. He's always there for his friends, gives a reality check every time, and shows that he knows how to handle a friend when he's down. That's also another reason why I like Blam friendship, why they're my OTP, they're always there for each other, give each other reality checks, cause that's just how their characters are. Blaine and Sam are the best bromance on the show, Finn and Puck second. #Blam5Ever
i love how these shows make it seem like it's so easy to just pack up and transfer schools and then just change your mind and go back a week later lmao
i can't even take cheating seriously in this show because almost everyone in this show has cheated tbh but this is another example why i don't like what they did with sam's character this is a really beautiful conversation and they had to ruin it with a 'sam is so dumb' joke if this was season 2 sam if there was a joke their it would not be something dumb it would be something nerdy like avatar or star wars or some impression/movie quote i like this moment but i can't help but be annoyed at it at the same time
Okay I know it’s 2020 but I have something to say about this. We got people hating on Blaine cause he cheated. We got people defending him with stuff like “it was out of character”. I think it wasn’t. He made a horrible mistake. Anyone could have made it. But still, he cheated. And it was horrible that he hurt Kurt, when he was supposed to protect him and love him. But you know what makes Blaine different? That he actually did feel sorry. He accepted that he had done something horrible, that he had hurt the love of his life, and understood that Kurt had all the right to never forgive him. So with that said, I still think that Kurt had the right to never want to hear about Blaine at all, but I also think that he did deserve a second chance.
Exactly. That's actually the whole point of this scene. He felt remorse for what he did. Both he and Sam acknowledge that what he did was horrible. But that's the thing: just because you did something bad, doesn't necessarily make you a bad person (something we all need reminding every once in a while). So imo it's natural to sympathize with him not because it wasn't his fault, but because he made a mistake and regrets it. We've all been there
Imo Kurt breaking up with Blaine when he was struggling with self esteem and after he promised not to do it, was just as bad as the cheating. You can break the trust in many ways.
I feel like a lot of people forget that Blaine's 17/18 here. Yes, what he did was horrible, but I've seen _this_ cheating get so much more hate than the other relationships on the show's. Nearly everyone has cheated on their partners in Glee. That doesn't mean it's right or excusable. I guess I don't understand why Blaine, who's a teenager in his first real relationship, is getting more hate for cheating when so many other's on the show are just excused for it, especially when Blaine obviously hates himself for doing it.
I think it might have to do with how willing he was to accuse Kurt of cheating on him, multiple times (texting with Chandler, when he was helping Sam), when in reality, there was nothing going on. That, plus, how he was with Sebastian, like he knew that his boyfriend didn't like him because of the fact that he wasn't subtle about wanting to steal Blaine from Kurt, but he still constantly hung out with him, despite how uncomfortable it made Kurt. Sorry for the rant, idk why I got so heated, lol
I hated when anyone cheated, but Blaine in particular upset me because he was so condescending towards Kurt about texting with chandler and spending time helping Sam, all while he was flirting outrageously with Sebastian despite Kurt being uncomfortable. Then he went and ACTUALLY slept with someone else and proceeded to blame Kurt for not being there for him when he was unable to answer his phone at work. He hated himself for it afterwards, but he still did it and became the worst kind of hypocrite. The worst part was him blaming Kurt for it, which is what really made me mad.
i think its mainly about him being a hypocrite. everyone else has really good points and I wanna add something. kurt was there. he was in lima for weeks after the next school year already started, and blaine was like "go to new york, live your dreams." or something like that, and then proceeds to blame kurt for not being there. it's also hinted that Blaine did flirt with Sebastian a little (when him and Kurt are in emmas office) but i do think people can chill out with the hate on blaine a little
I hate how they made Blaine the victim. I also didn't understand how Blaine couldn't go see Kurt before he cheated. You can take an impromptu flight to New York to confess that you cheated but you couldn't take that flight to New York BEFORE???? How does that make ANY sense
Maybe you should listening more carefully. Blaine said he felt like Kurt moved on without him, that they didn't feel the same way about each other anymore. He also couldn't reach Kurt by phone, which made him feel even more like his beloved boyfriend had abandoned him. Blaine was extremely emotional and insecure at this moment and out of this, he made a mistake. A huge mistake, and he regrets it because he still loves Kurt very much. You can see this in every episode, so the writers didn't "fake" anything. They didn't turn Blaine into the victim either, that's just how he really feels. And it's not like they turned Kurt into the bad guy, this story is not about victim and badguy. As a spectator, I just want to hug both of them and say: «Oh guys, how could this happen to the two of you?»
Justice Voice Kurt was lonely in new York and had no one to be with. You think he never wanted to do what Blaine horribly done? I mean he could've but he didn't. Blaine ain't the victim.
*_Insert crying gucci gang username here_* they were both at fault in a way. Yes, Blaine physically cheated, and there is no excuse for that, but that doesn’t mean he’s victimizing himself. As stated before, he basically felt like Kurt and him had broken up without actually breaking it off because he felt like Kurt had moved on and had bigger and better things to do than to contact his boyfriend even When Kurt himself said that they would Skype every day in season 3 when they had their counseling session after he and chandler were flirting with each other through texts. Blaine revealed in that episode that he was afraid that Kurt was going to move on with his life without him, and that’s kind of what started to happen.
Salia Levy Then that's Blaine's fault. He pushed Kurt to go to New York and follow his dreams and he should know that you can't put dreams on hold because you could miss your shot. Kurt was an intern at a high fashion corporation, and finally got into NYADA. Blaine not having Kurt at his side every moment doesn't give him permission to cheat.
SuperPianogirl123 well yeah I know like I said I don’t condone it but Kurt wasn’t at nyada for a while bc remember he originally didn’t get in which is why he stayed behind in Lima the first time around, but once he got the job, he wasn’t at work ALL of the time so there was time for him to call Blaine back and talk to him and he didn’t do so. Blaine felt him distancing himself and figured Kurt was done with him, despite how much he loved him.
i love how the extras are just like having a dandy time in the halls, walking to their class's, meanwhile, blaine is over here having a mental breakdown and NO-ONE notices? like there where talking pretty loud
I love Blam so much. Healthiest friendship in the show. Sam is there for Blaine when he beating himself up for cheating on Kurt. And Blaine is there for Sam when he is struggling which body issues. One of the few good things about seasons 4 and 5.
I really like this scene because it proves to people that Blaine isn't a bad person, and that he is aware that he cheated in someone he loves so much, and how wrong it is to have done that. I love how Sam is telling him that making himself feel worse isn't the way to fix it. I love their bromance
That doesn't make him a decent person. That just makes him have common sense. He knew he was doing wrong when he cheated. If he really cared for Kurt as much as he claimed he did, he wouldn't have done it in the first place. If they cheat in you once, they'll do it again.
@@eryuu4016 He's a 17 year old kid in his first relationship. Teenagers make a lot of unwise decisions. Of course Kurt should have felt angry and betrayed, but it does not negate all the admirable aspects of Blaine's character, and it doesn't mean he's going to be a cheater for the rest of his life.
Just because you fell kurt was moving on with his life and you don't feel part of it didn't mean you should cheat on him. You needed everything you got after.
@@SamR1995 Season 3 Blaine had potential though. The storyline with Finn being jealous of him would have been great if they didn't throw it away and randomly pick it up towards the end of the season for a conclusion. But they focused too much energy into the Sebastian plot(which was pointless), dragged him along for the West Side Story plot, and set him out to take Rachel's spot as the Star.
@@SuperPianogirl123 I'll agree with that, at the very beginning of the season he was doing good and there was potential for him. My main big gripe with him was his reaction to Kurt talking to that guy and him basically calling him a cheater even though he and Sebastian used to speak. Idk he rubbed me the wrong way, then Season 4 came and I really started not loving him.
Blaine shouldn’t of cheated but this scene proves how guilty he felt. And he told Kurt when he could have just kept it a secret and you could see he felt really guilty when he told him.
Seth_%r,&s Finn cheated in the beginning of the show. The only one I can think of that never cheated (although he once was flirty texting with another guy) was Kurt.
I loved Blaine, but I never forgave him for this. Even after Kurt did, Kurt didn't look at him the same way he did before. I know Sam is his friend, but I don't think he should have said he was such a great guy and that Kurt needs to hear him out. He was still with his boyfriend, and he went with someone else. Simple as that. He cheated, and he should have been held more responsible.
Yes I know they’re actors but I also got a feeling that Kurt was never the same with him as he was before. Kurt used to be so loving and very attentive towards Blaine and after blaine cheated Kurt was just sort of there. I miss the sparkly eyed gays I fell in love with when they first met at dalton.
What are you talking about?? Blaine was held responsible. Nobody tried to justify his actions. Sam was right about Blaine being a good person. Y'all act like cheating makes someone the worst person on earth but it doesn't. Blaine was a great guy who did something very stupid and he DID suffer the consequences. But that doesn't mean that he deserved to suffer for the rest of his life for what he did to Kurt. Sam was right to tell not to keep beating himself up about it. Blaine deserved to be able to move on an be happy instead of constantly hating himself for what he did.
Wow, you know, if he only, like, bypassed the hotel altogether and just went to New York to talk this problem out with Kurt instead of hooking up with a random guy...who knows how things might have turned out.
Wow, I used to watch this series when I was merely a teenager, and now that I am in my early twenties, I just can't stop reminiscing ahahah, those were some damn good times! Every time I heard them singing, I just couldn't help but sing along, this was the best teenage drama series ever created! I hoped so much that they would go on, filming other seasons... that's a real shame they stopped at season 6 :(((
Same. I just appreciate that he immediately told Kurt. My guy dumped me and I had to find out he cheated for myself. He was doing for 3 months in our relationship. Blaine did it once and ran to Kurt away. That's why I can forgive it more. But I totally understand Kurt not wanting to speak to him. It hurts.
@@filmfangirls9163 blaine is the type you want to be in a relationship with because hes feels guilty is forthcoming and works hard to make things up to you. people talk about him like he's a monstrous cheater. kurt is cruel for ignoring him before and after the fact and for hooking up and saying it means nothing. and agreeing to be boyfriends again when it was clear that he wasnt into it. thats nothing to root for. klaine was over when kurt moved to ny. he had more in common with rachele.
When I was first watching Glee, I was kinda in the closet, and I was pretty afraid. At that point in my life, the only gay people I saw, be it people I knew in real life or I saw in media, were like Kurt, these flamboyant guys. And there’s nothing at all wrong with that, but that’s not who I was. So when Blaine showed up, that was really a turning point for me because I realized I could be gay without having to be more feminine. Like Sam said, I was glad that I could be a “Bro Gay”.
I was very mad at Blaine at the beginnig, his cheating was unexcusable, and when I see people making excuses for him and making Kur look like the bad guy cause he didn't answer one call and Blaine the poor victim, I get so mad. Blaine wasn't a poor victim, the cheating was his own doing, the break uo was his fault and I hate when people try to make it look otherwise or compare Kurt texting with Chandler to Blaine having sex with another guy! What made me forgive Blaine was that he actually felt bad, he hated himself for what he did, he hated himself for hurting the person he loved, he tried to make it betterm he fixed it and gained Kurt's trust back. This is what makes them such a good couple ven after what Blaine did. And for all the people who hate Blaine just for this remember that Blaine was a 17 year old kid, he made a mistake, he felt bad, apologized and fixed things. Also can we point out that Blaine said that Kurt is the one person he loved more than anything in this world? 😍
Can we talk how easy is Blaine to hookup with random guy with freaking lighthouse on profile picture after few texts. It’s weird that half of gay warblers hadn’t done him before he met Kurt
i fricken love sam hes so much smarter than everyone on the show gives him credit for and yeah. wouldn't dalton remind him of kurt since that's where they met?
I just want to put this in perspective for y'all: Cory and Topanga went through almost the exact same thing in Boy Meets World. The only difference being he had genuine feelings for Lauren he didn't know how to make sense of except to act on them. Remember? They broke up for a bit too because of that, and Cory came to the exact same conclusion. And where are they now? Happily married with two kids.
You couldn't wait 2 weeks to see your boyfriend who was just busy at the time, like he's supposed to be, you hadn't broken up. You turned into some sexually frustrated git and cheated with a stranger, then was able to get an emergency flight out to see Kurt anyway.... Have I got that right?
BigFanOfManyThings it ain’t his fault that Kurt can’t sexually touch him because Kurt is to damn fragile and sensitive loosen up a little and have your alone time with your bae not everybody is going to keep waiting for you to be sexually active
Just Jewelz Everything you just said was oh so wrong. I know I shouldn’t be arguing with a child but I just have to come out and say it, your an a**hole. You clearly haven’t been in a situation before where someone you trust has tried to make you do something you don’t want to. You don’t have to be accessible to your partner 24/7 for whatever needs they have, sexual or not. If you can’t wait for your partner to be “active” then you don’t deserve them. Also wtf is wrong with being fragile and sensitive? We are all human beings, not some superhero in a comic book. There is not a single perfect person in this world, we all have our moments, some more than others and that’s okay. Enough ranting, I simply hope whatever parent/guardian you have gets your nine year old a** off the internet. Perhaps even teach you a little respect? (:
@@justjewelz9711 Then how hard can it be to break up? If you aren't able to maintain a serious relationship and act like a decent human being, break up. Cheating is disgusting.
so, 90% of the character cheated on glee, but you ONLY get angry at blaine, who's literally 17, in his first relationship, in a distance relationship with a guy who text him once in a month, and after he cheats he literally hates himself for it? wtf, for real guys, I hated this too bc it was ooc, but he was 17 and hurt and he made a mistake, that he IMMEDIATELY regretted. Hes human ffs, go after every glee character that cheated (rachel, quinn multiple times, puck(?), mercedes, tina, artie, kurt, santana, brittany, jake, finn I think and probably more) or leave him alone😭
After he felt bad about cheating Kurt he started to look Sam in other way.. yeah, BLAM would be a great fantasy power gay couple but thank god never happen
É infantilidade achar que tem um vilão nessa história, a única coisa que me incomodou mesmo foi forçarem que nenhum casal funciona a distancia, colocaram como a Rachel sendo a vilã por seguir em frente depois do sumiço do Finn, a Santana terminando porque estava muito "difícil manter contato" e o Blaine traindo o Kurt sendo que ele é louco pelo Kurt desde a 3a temporada quando largou tudo pra ir pra mesma escola que o Kurt estava simplesmente porque ele pediu, foi um furo enorme separar todos os casais, na vida real não é SEMPRE assim, não é fácil mesmo mas relacionamentos a distância funcionam sim, o problema todo foi que o Kurt ficou mais chato ainda depois que foi pra NY, parece que virou a Rachel na chatice, tanto que cancelou o casamento e depois veio chorando com o rabo entre as pernas, o Blaine errou feio, errou rude, mas não é único errado nisso tudo. E não adianta culpar o Blaine por ter ficado com o Dave, o Kurt estragou o futuro dele quando terminou o noivado, ele voltou pra Lima sem NADA graças ao Kurt.
Blaine has and will allways be my favorite character. Why, you might say, after he cheated? Yeah i just act like it never happened. I love them as a couple so much that i just rewrite the glee storyline xD
Sam is the best tbh (U can only relate if ur depressed) like he's the only person who can tell me it's going to get better and I'll believe him bc with him it probs is. I'd keep him close as a best friend but not a lover. He's ok to b a lover but I'm asexual
Ppl was really in these comments saying Kurt is the only one who hasn't cheated, like bruh Kurt did cheat on Blaine. What he did was emotional cheating and Blaine later physically cheated. Flirty texting is cheating, looking for romantic/emotional comfort in others and keeping it a secret from your significant other is cheating so....
@@charlotteatouchof7154 i think the thing that bothers me most with blaine texting sebastian is that he KNEW sebastian was interested him and that kurt was insecure but he still texted him. to me kurt had every right to be upset blaine was texting sebastian, but that still doesn't excuse him texting chandler.
@@scarlet807 I understand what you mean, but 1. Blaine was completely honest with Sebastian, he told him he was Kurt's boyfriend and left him no hope of possibly getting together 2. he was also transparent and very reassuring with Kurt, hiding nothing from him and involving him every time he met Sebastian. And 3. let’s remember that Sebastian was Blaine's only personal friend, since the others were originally only Kurt's friends + Sebastian was also his last bond with his beloved Dalton, which he left for Kurt's sake. There’s no reason he should have given up on his friend 🙂
@@charlotteatouchof7154 eh i still don't think it was okay to text sebastian tbh personally bc sebastian was just trying to break them up and just always insulted kurt but i get wha you mean
i had to stop watching glee in season four because everyone started breaking up because all the relationships became toxic. finn and rachel, kurt and blaine, and even santana and britt were going through something. i understand that the writers wanted to add drama to the show but it was getting out of handdd
Dude yes. Blaine is the perfect dapper boy and the way he got on to Kurt made it seem like he’d never cheat on anyone in his life (which isn’t hard to do... just don’t be a douche and cheat). And lo and behold, he cheated.
@@hannahl4269 nah cus he was very comitted to kurt.. the man literally moved schools for kurt💀 I was so upset w the writers for this🙃 they needed to come up with something more original that made some kind of senseee
I kind of wish they never wrote the whole cheating script because like Blaine and Kurt were dating for 2 years and then he decided to hook up with a lighthouse LMAO
I never understood why Blaine made such a big drama over Kurt texting a guy, and then he did something even worst... it's frustrating but I love Blaine so much from the moment he was introduced with his Warbler uniform 😍😍😍💍💍💍
“It was a guy that friended me on Facebook” sure Blaine you sure weren’t cruising on Grindr
Pumpkinspice oh my lord I‘m dying😂😂😂
I really wanted to like this but it’s at 420
Was grinder a thing in 2012
Lmao no they show the Facebook conversation in barely breathing
Omar Dugee Yes. Grindr has been around for a while.
What is with these kids switching schools at the drop of a hat? It’s like an episode of friends when they keep switching apartments.
glogler haha so truee but especially in season 4
Also traveling from New York to Lima every other week
Hater123 like how can you afford that shi- it’s like two opposite sides of the country
ikkkk and their parents just let them😂
It’s in the script ❤️
The only character who has feel really sorry for their mistakes..
Yitzhak Crx agreed!!!! :) blaine is my favourite
Yitzhak Crx Glee would be NOTHING without Blaine. I love him so much😭😭❤❤
seriously ?he's a bastard --'
Naah he wasn't ever sorry for dating David in season 6
because dating David wasn't like cheating and didn't Kurt left him before that?, it wasn't cheating, maybe he felt bad for dating David just because he was still in love with Kurt but didn't want to admit
His profile picture was a lighthouse
Lyna Laufeyson hahahahaha it’s like 1am and i’m snickering
Well he said he didn't look like it 😂
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
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The ironic thing is that Blaine flipped out at Kurt in season 3 for the same reason
Edit: thank you for all the likes holy sheit!!
Blaine physically slept with someone, Kurt just texted some random guy and never met him. Blaine also hung out with "family friendly" Sebastian, even though he clearly pined for Blaine, and Kurt didn't even like him. In my opinion, what Blaine did was way worse
Agabbieshow I get that but I just meant he did exactly what he thought Kurt had. He did the very thing that he freaked out at Kurt for "doing". Not even a year later...
Oh sorry!! I thought you were accusing Kurt of physically cheating on Blaine! My bad!!
True, but I feel like sometimes when people bring this point up, it's as if they're thinking that Blaine was, like, sitting their twirling an imaginary mustache and thinking "and next year I'm going to do the same thing but even worse to him!!" Which... wasn't the case haha.
I get the irony of it, but at the same time, it's not like Blaine didn't have a right to be *hurt* by Kurt happily lapping up overtly flirty texts from someone else and hiding it from him. Was it cheating? Nah, but it was still essentially coming from the same place Blaine was in his cheating: Kurt had felt like Blaine was pulling away, and instead of doing the mature thing and talking to Blaine about what was up, he flirty texted with someone else to make himself feel better. And in Kurt's case, he didn't even want to acknowledge that it wasn't a cool thing to do.
In Blaine's case, he felt like Kurt was moving on without him, and yes, his level of infidelity was much more extreme, but he also felt every bit as guilty and awful about it as he would have felt hurt if Kurt had physically cheated with Chandler. It's not like he turned around and tried to play it off to Kurt as if it was nothing like Kurt did with the Chandler situation. He KNEW how badly he'd hurt him, and expressed his remorse and commitment to earn his trust back accordingly.
(oh and in terms of Sebastian: I honestly don't think that was the same kind of situation as Kurt with Chandler, because Blaine was never hiding Sebastian from Kurt, and aside from perhaps being initially a little flattered by the attention, he never even remotely reciprocated Sebastian's flirtations. He was pretty much just appeasing Sebastian, and you can bet that if he'd done anything more than that, Sebastian WOULD have shoved it in Kurt's face.)
Kurt should be glad it wasn't sebastian
There's a reason why Sam is my favorite guy character on this show, Finn a very close second. He's always there for his friends, gives a reality check every time, and shows that he knows how to handle a friend when he's down. That's also another reason why I like Blam friendship, why they're my OTP, they're always there for each other, give each other reality checks, cause that's just how their characters are. Blaine and Sam are the best bromance on the show, Finn and Puck second.
#Blam5Ever
Autumn Hudson I love Kurt! But yeah, Sam is cool! And he even stood up fot Kurt before Finn did. Which was rude. But, yeah. Sam is caring.
WolfBløød Kurt and Sams friendship is one that isn’t shown much but I really like it. Sam is just a good guy all around.
Sam has the purest soul.
In my opinion Sam and Finn are terrible characters that never got punished for their actions.
I dont like Finn
i love how these shows make it seem like it's so easy to just pack up and transfer schools and then just change your mind and go back a week later lmao
no literally
LMAO FR
honest to god Kurt and blaine were switching schools like it was nothing
I LOVE the way that Blaine says “villanize” in 1:31
SAME i had to rewind several times idc
Same
It’s giving how Snape looks in Harry Potter when he talks 😭 like the teeth and mouth
pls idk 😭😭
I've always admired Blaine and Sam's friendship. They always stuck by each other through their lowest points in their lives.
i can't even take cheating seriously in this show because almost everyone in this show has cheated tbh
but this is another example why i don't like what they did with sam's character
this is a really beautiful conversation and they had to ruin it with a 'sam is so dumb' joke
if this was season 2 sam if there was a joke their it would not be something dumb it would be something nerdy like avatar or star wars or some impression/movie quote
i like this moment but i can't help but be annoyed at it at the same time
Okay I know it’s 2020 but I have something to say about this. We got people hating on Blaine cause he cheated. We got people defending him with stuff like “it was out of character”. I think it wasn’t. He made a horrible mistake. Anyone could have made it. But still, he cheated. And it was horrible that he hurt Kurt, when he was supposed to protect him and love him. But you know what makes Blaine different? That he actually did feel sorry. He accepted that he had done something horrible, that he had hurt the love of his life, and understood that Kurt had all the right to never forgive him. So with that said, I still think that Kurt had the right to never want to hear about Blaine at all, but I also think that he did deserve a second chance.
You are right, and although I never forgot to blaine I just couldn't hate him. Cause he did understand his mistake and felt sorry about it.
omg i love the way you said this
Exactly. That's actually the whole point of this scene. He felt remorse for what he did. Both he and Sam acknowledge that what he did was horrible. But that's the thing: just because you did something bad, doesn't necessarily make you a bad person (something we all need reminding every once in a while). So imo it's natural to sympathize with him not because it wasn't his fault, but because he made a mistake and regrets it. We've all been there
i was tired of hearing blaine cheated on kurt. you got my point buddy. thanks for writing something sensible
Imo Kurt breaking up with Blaine when he was struggling with self esteem and after he promised not to do it, was just as bad as the cheating. You can break the trust in many ways.
I feel like a lot of people forget that Blaine's 17/18 here. Yes, what he did was horrible, but I've seen _this_ cheating get so much more hate than the other relationships on the show's. Nearly everyone has cheated on their partners in Glee. That doesn't mean it's right or excusable. I guess I don't understand why Blaine, who's a teenager in his first real relationship, is getting more hate for cheating when so many other's on the show are just excused for it, especially when Blaine obviously hates himself for doing it.
I think it might have to do with how willing he was to accuse Kurt of cheating on him, multiple times (texting with Chandler, when he was helping Sam), when in reality, there was nothing going on. That, plus, how he was with Sebastian, like he knew that his boyfriend didn't like him because of the fact that he wasn't subtle about wanting to steal Blaine from Kurt, but he still constantly hung out with him, despite how uncomfortable it made Kurt. Sorry for the rant, idk why I got so heated, lol
@@hetaliajapan01 you're apologizing to _me?_ it's not a problem. i like seeing other people's opinions!
It's gotta be because of Blaine being a hypocrite.
I hated when anyone cheated, but Blaine in particular upset me because he was so condescending towards Kurt about texting with chandler and spending time helping Sam, all while he was flirting outrageously with Sebastian despite Kurt being uncomfortable. Then he went and ACTUALLY slept with someone else and proceeded to blame Kurt for not being there for him when he was unable to answer his phone at work. He hated himself for it afterwards, but he still did it and became the worst kind of hypocrite. The worst part was him blaming Kurt for it, which is what really made me mad.
i think its mainly about him being a hypocrite. everyone else has really good points and I wanna add something.
kurt was there. he was in lima for weeks after the next school year already started, and blaine was like "go to new york, live your dreams." or something like that, and then proceeds to blame kurt for not being there.
it's also hinted that Blaine did flirt with Sebastian a little (when him and Kurt are in emmas office)
but i do think people can chill out with the hate on blaine a little
I hate how they made Blaine the victim. I also didn't understand how Blaine couldn't go see Kurt before he cheated. You can take an impromptu flight to New York to confess that you cheated but you couldn't take that flight to New York BEFORE???? How does that make ANY sense
Maybe you should listening more carefully. Blaine said he felt like Kurt moved on without him, that they didn't feel the same way about each other anymore. He also couldn't reach Kurt by phone, which made him feel even more like his beloved boyfriend had abandoned him. Blaine was extremely emotional and insecure at this moment and out of this, he made a mistake. A huge mistake, and he regrets it because he still loves Kurt very much. You can see this in every episode, so the writers didn't "fake" anything. They didn't turn Blaine into the victim either, that's just how he really feels. And it's not like they turned Kurt into the bad guy, this story is not about victim and badguy. As a spectator, I just want to hug both of them and say: «Oh guys, how could this happen to the two of you?»
Justice Voice Kurt was lonely in new York and had no one to be with. You think he never wanted to do what Blaine horribly done? I mean he could've but he didn't. Blaine ain't the victim.
*_Insert crying gucci gang username here_* they were both at fault in a way. Yes, Blaine physically cheated, and there is no excuse for that, but that doesn’t mean he’s victimizing himself. As stated before, he basically felt like Kurt and him had broken up without actually breaking it off because he felt like Kurt had moved on and had bigger and better things to do than to contact his boyfriend even When Kurt himself said that they would Skype every day in season 3 when they had their counseling session after he and chandler were flirting with each other through texts. Blaine revealed in that episode that he was afraid that Kurt was going to move on with his life without him, and that’s kind of what started to happen.
Salia Levy Then that's Blaine's fault. He pushed Kurt to go to New York and follow his dreams and he should know that you can't put dreams on hold because you could miss your shot. Kurt was an intern at a high fashion corporation, and finally got into NYADA. Blaine not having Kurt at his side every moment doesn't give him permission to cheat.
SuperPianogirl123 well yeah I know like I said I don’t condone it but Kurt wasn’t at nyada for a while bc remember he originally didn’t get in which is why he stayed behind in Lima the first time around, but once he got the job, he wasn’t at work ALL of the time so there was time for him to call Blaine back and talk to him and he didn’t do so. Blaine felt him distancing himself and figured Kurt was done with him, despite how much he loved him.
“I just wanna stop feeling like I’m a bad person”... This quote really resonated with me😔💔
This made me cry so bad when I watched it for the first time
Shad3 the Hunter me too ):
Blaine looked so sad when he said ''he is never going to forgive me'' :(
i love how the extras are just like having a dandy time in the halls, walking to their class's, meanwhile, blaine is over here having a mental breakdown and NO-ONE notices? like there where talking pretty loud
So Sam doesn't know what villanize means but can say exile
Keep in mind he did say he had dyslexia
I love Blam so much. Healthiest friendship in the show. Sam is there for Blaine when he beating himself up for cheating on Kurt. And Blaine is there for Sam when he is struggling which body issues. One of the few good things about seasons 4 and 5.
Darren's acting in this scene is so good
I really like this scene because it proves to people that Blaine isn't a bad person, and that he is aware that he cheated in someone he loves so much, and how wrong it is to have done that. I love how Sam is telling him that making himself feel worse isn't the way to fix it. I love their bromance
That doesn't make him a decent person. That just makes him have common sense. He knew he was doing wrong when he cheated. If he really cared for Kurt as much as he claimed he did, he wouldn't have done it in the first place. If they cheat in you once, they'll do it again.
@@eryuu4016 He's a 17 year old kid in his first relationship. Teenagers make a lot of unwise decisions. Of course Kurt should have felt angry and betrayed, but it does not negate all the admirable aspects of Blaine's character, and it doesn't mean he's going to be a cheater for the rest of his life.
It's so weird about when Sam has smart moment.
this is one of my favorite scenes sam is such a good friend
Just because you fell kurt was moving on with his life and you don't feel part of it didn't mean you should cheat on him.
You needed everything you got after.
jetnight 88 I read this comment right when I heard it
@Danny Reyes Maybe out of character for Season two Blaine. Season three Blaine was trash as well.
SuperPianogirl123 Season 2 Blaine was the best Blaine, by this point I was really not feeling him anymore which was a shame.
@@SamR1995 Season 3 Blaine had potential though. The storyline with Finn being jealous of him would have been great if they didn't throw it away and randomly pick it up towards the end of the season for a conclusion. But they focused too much energy into the Sebastian plot(which was pointless), dragged him along for the West Side Story plot, and set him out to take Rachel's spot as the Star.
@@SuperPianogirl123 I'll agree with that, at the very beginning of the season he was doing good and there was potential for him. My main big gripe with him was his reaction to Kurt talking to that guy and him basically calling him a cheater even though he and Sebastian used to speak. Idk he rubbed me the wrong way, then Season 4 came and I really started not loving him.
Blam! What a wonderful bromance. Always, always there for each other.
Everyone should have a friend like Sam in their lives :')
1:32 the way he says “Villianize” gives off Snape 😭 the whole facial expression and the way he said it idk why I thought of that 💀💀
Blaine shouldn’t of cheated but this scene proves how guilty he felt. And he told Kurt when he could have just kept it a secret and you could see he felt really guilty when he told him.
This when glee became shit, everyone and i mean everyone cheated on his significant other, just finn was un corruptible
Seth_%r,&s Finn cheated in the beginning of the show. The only one I can think of that never cheated (although he once was flirty texting with another guy) was Kurt.
Pretty sure Santana never cheated on Brittany.
Ruthie Hardin No, she never cheated on Brittany, but she cheated on Puck, Sam and Dani.
Finn cheated many times
Artie was innocent till college.
Sam is me everytime I try to comfort someone: You gotta stop....What`s the word when you make someone into a villain?
I loved Blaine, but I never forgave him for this. Even after Kurt did, Kurt didn't look at him the same way he did before. I know Sam is his friend, but I don't think he should have said he was such a great guy and that Kurt needs to hear him out. He was still with his boyfriend, and he went with someone else. Simple as that. He cheated, and he should have been held more responsible.
Exactly. If I was Kurt, I never would have gotten back together with him.
Period
Yes I know they’re actors but I also got a feeling that Kurt was never the same with him as he was before. Kurt used to be so loving and very attentive towards Blaine and after blaine cheated Kurt was just sort of there. I miss the sparkly eyed gays I fell in love with when they first met at dalton.
What are you talking about?? Blaine was held responsible. Nobody tried to justify his actions. Sam was right about Blaine being a good person. Y'all act like cheating makes someone the worst person on earth but it doesn't. Blaine was a great guy who did something very stupid and he DID suffer the consequences. But that doesn't mean that he deserved to suffer for the rest of his life for what he did to Kurt. Sam was right to tell not to keep beating himself up about it. Blaine deserved to be able to move on an be happy instead of constantly hating himself for what he did.
Wow, you know, if he only, like, bypassed the hotel altogether and just went to New York to talk this problem out with Kurt instead of hooking up with a random guy...who knows how things might have turned out.
Actually, it's ironic
Blanie accused Kurt of being unfaithful
Text another guy and was terribly angry about this
Then he himself was cheating on real
This just brings me back to season 3 when Sam and blain were not really liking each other much and now they are close friends.
i dont care what people say about them, i absolutely love that friendship
Blaine is the only one that cheated and victimized himself like he was the one who got cheated on lol
I'm crying! Poor klaine!😭
B.M Undercover Poor Kurt.
I know I love Kurt!
Wow, I used to watch this series when I was merely a teenager, and now that I am in my early twenties, I just can't stop reminiscing ahahah, those were some damn good times! Every time I heard them singing, I just couldn't help but sing along, this was the best teenage drama series ever created! I hoped so much that they would go on, filming other seasons... that's a real shame they stopped at season 6 :(((
sam is a good friend
Blaine's expression at 1:33. C'mon Blaine, Sam is an airhead, but he's a good friend, and almost as talented as you!
Sam was such a good friend x
I’ve been cheated on myself, and Blaine is the first person who’s cheated that I don’t totally hate. He made a mistake but he hates himself for it
Same. I just appreciate that he immediately told Kurt. My guy dumped me and I had to find out he cheated for myself. He was doing for 3 months in our relationship. Blaine did it once and ran to Kurt away. That's why I can forgive it more. But I totally understand Kurt not wanting to speak to him. It hurts.
@@filmfangirls9163 blaine is the type you want to be in a relationship with because hes feels guilty is forthcoming and works hard to make things up to you. people talk about him like he's a monstrous cheater. kurt is cruel for ignoring him before and after the fact and for hooking up and saying it means nothing. and agreeing to be boyfriends again when it was clear that he wasnt into it. thats nothing to root for. klaine was over when kurt moved to ny. he had more in common with rachele.
@GotoMaki4Micah I would rather not be in a relationship with any one who cheats 😅 I can forgive him but I'm dumping his ass.
@@filmfangirls9163 everyone in life will disappoint you. its how they go about making it up to you that counts.
@GotoMaki4Micah oh he did more than disappoint me when he cheated. But that's a conversation best not had with a complete stranger on the internet.
I want a friend like Sam
I love Sam.
"What's that word when you make someone out to be the villain?"
I can totally relate to Blaine in this. I tend to beat myself up numerous times and spend a lot of time thinking about my past mistakes
It's not right, but it's ok.
...
But its not-
Guys, this is based off the song Blaine sang about Kurt allegedly cheating on him, when he actually cheated 🤦♀️
Hahhha shade
It'S NOt RIghT.....but its OKAY
Argh Sam has such angel eyes
Emotional scene. Very good.
When I was first watching Glee, I was kinda in the closet, and I was pretty afraid.
At that point in my life, the only gay people I saw, be it people I knew in real life or I saw in media, were like Kurt, these flamboyant guys. And there’s nothing at all wrong with that, but that’s not who I was.
So when Blaine showed up, that was really a turning point for me because I realized I could be gay without having to be more feminine. Like Sam said, I was glad that I could be a “Bro Gay”.
I love how Blaine is showing the other side in a really good way
Sam was my favorite guy on Glee
Underrated ship of all time. Like seriously Ryan Murphy totally decimated the Blam fan base.
Love Sam how he talks to Blaine. I love Kurt and Blaine
Sam was one of my fav!!!
Darren is such a beautiful man
I’m jealous of Blaine, his two best friends are Sam & Kurt aka the most trusting and best advice givers in series
When Sam said “You gotta make it right”, i was expecting them to sing that “Make It Right” song Eric Cartman sang lmao
I was very mad at Blaine at the beginnig, his cheating was unexcusable, and when I see people making excuses for him and making Kur look like the bad guy cause he didn't answer one call and Blaine the poor victim, I get so mad. Blaine wasn't a poor victim, the cheating was his own doing, the break uo was his fault and I hate when people try to make it look otherwise or compare Kurt texting with Chandler to Blaine having sex with another guy! What made me forgive Blaine was that he actually felt bad, he hated himself for what he did, he hated himself for hurting the person he loved, he tried to make it betterm he fixed it and gained Kurt's trust back. This is what makes them such a good couple ven after what Blaine did. And for all the people who hate Blaine just for this remember that Blaine was a 17 year old kid, he made a mistake, he felt bad, apologized and fixed things.
Also can we point out that Blaine said that Kurt is the one person he loved more than anything in this world? 😍
BLAINE CHEATED ON KURT?!?!? IM ON 4x01 IM SHOOK IM CRYING, WHY DID I WATCH THIS?!?!
Best bromance ever!
Relationship goals
Klaine relationship
blam friendship
furt family
Unholy Trinity another friendship
Sam’s so sweet 🥺😁
Can we talk how easy is Blaine to hookup with random guy with freaking lighthouse on profile picture after few texts. It’s weird that half of gay warblers hadn’t done him before he met Kurt
i fricken love sam
hes so much smarter than everyone on the show gives him credit for
and yeah. wouldn't dalton remind him of kurt since that's where they met?
Sam is such a great friend..
My favorite character next to Quinn Fabray
Awww Blaine's Sad Eyes💔 Can U Add The Heroes Performance 4x07
I'm.....crying......
I just want to put this in perspective for y'all:
Cory and Topanga went through almost the exact same thing in Boy Meets World. The only difference being he had genuine feelings for Lauren he didn't know how to make sense of except to act on them.
Remember? They broke up for a bit too because of that, and Cory came to the exact same conclusion.
And where are they now? Happily married with two kids.
I just want to remind you that there isn't a valid excuse for cheating.
You couldn't wait 2 weeks to see your boyfriend who was just busy at the time, like he's supposed to be, you hadn't broken up. You turned into some sexually frustrated git and cheated with a stranger, then was able to get an emergency flight out to see Kurt anyway.... Have I got that right?
BigFanOfManyThings it ain’t his fault that Kurt can’t sexually touch him because Kurt is to damn fragile and sensitive loosen up a little and have your alone time with your bae not everybody is going to keep waiting for you to be sexually active
Just Jewelz Everything you just said was oh so wrong. I know I shouldn’t be arguing with a child but I just have to come out and say it, your an a**hole. You clearly haven’t been in a situation before where someone you trust has tried to make you do something you don’t want to. You don’t have to be accessible to your partner 24/7 for whatever needs they have, sexual or not. If you can’t wait for your partner to be “active” then you don’t deserve them. Also wtf is wrong with being fragile and sensitive? We are all human beings, not some superhero in a comic book. There is not a single perfect person in this world, we all have our moments, some more than others and that’s okay. Enough ranting, I simply hope whatever parent/guardian you have gets your nine year old a** off the internet. Perhaps even teach you a little respect? (:
@@justjewelz9711 Then how hard can it be to break up? If you aren't able to maintain a serious relationship and act like a decent human being, break up. Cheating is disgusting.
Julia Sinclair 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
so, 90% of the character cheated on glee, but you ONLY get angry at blaine, who's literally 17, in his first relationship, in a distance relationship with a guy who text him once in a month, and after he cheats he literally hates himself for it? wtf, for real guys, I hated this too bc it was ooc, but he was 17 and hurt and he made a mistake, that he IMMEDIATELY regretted. Hes human ffs, go after every glee character that cheated (rachel, quinn multiple times, puck(?), mercedes, tina, artie, kurt, santana, brittany, jake, finn I think and probably more) or leave him alone😭
Totally agree, but when did Artie cheat?
@@gcldvnblytz in s5, never really understood that storyline, but what i got is that he was dating and having sex with two girls at the same time
@@sabrievans471 ohhh right that. Totally forgot about that. I don’t think he was officially going out with either of them, but still not okay of him.
omg I love this scene. can you please upload when Kurt and Burt talks I Kurt's room when he is packing and Burt tells him "me made each other man" :)
I love glee!
Bruh Blaine also forgot the fact that he tried to blame Kurt for his own actions and gaslighted him in New York
MY BABIES I SHIP THEM BYE
After he felt bad about cheating Kurt he started to look Sam in other way.. yeah, BLAM would be a great fantasy power gay couple but thank god never happen
Sad
I did chuckle at Eli’s small joke though, ngl
Blaine continues to surprise me
Love Blam and they’re friendship is amazing and love Klaine
It's hilarious how serious blaine is about that whole situation. Idk why but that scene cracked me up 😆
É infantilidade achar que tem um vilão nessa história, a única coisa que me incomodou mesmo foi forçarem que nenhum casal funciona a distancia, colocaram como a Rachel sendo a vilã por seguir em frente depois do sumiço do Finn, a Santana terminando porque estava muito "difícil manter contato" e o Blaine traindo o Kurt sendo que ele é louco pelo Kurt desde a 3a temporada quando largou tudo pra ir pra mesma escola que o Kurt estava simplesmente porque ele pediu, foi um furo enorme separar todos os casais, na vida real não é SEMPRE assim, não é fácil mesmo mas relacionamentos a distância funcionam sim, o problema todo foi que o Kurt ficou mais chato ainda depois que foi pra NY, parece que virou a Rachel na chatice, tanto que cancelou o casamento e depois veio chorando com o rabo entre as pernas, o Blaine errou feio, errou rude, mas não é único errado nisso tudo. E não adianta culpar o Blaine por ter ficado com o Dave, o Kurt estragou o futuro dele quando terminou o noivado, ele voltou pra Lima sem NADA graças ao Kurt.
omg their song 🧡
Blaine has and will allways be my favorite character. Why, you might say, after he cheated? Yeah i just act like it never happened. I love them as a couple so much that i just rewrite the glee storyline xD
EnchantedOcelot kurts my favourite character, they deserve each other! Everyone makes mistakes, like cmon, get over it. 😂
@@blvrry_nxghts5731 hahahah
Sam is the best tbh
(U can only relate if ur depressed) like he's the only person who can tell me it's going to get better and I'll believe him bc with him it probs is. I'd keep him close as a best friend but not a lover. He's ok to b a lover but I'm asexual
Ok, and I'm Bi
Ppl was really in these comments saying Kurt is the only one who hasn't cheated, like bruh Kurt did cheat on Blaine. What he did was emotional cheating and Blaine later physically cheated. Flirty texting is cheating, looking for romantic/emotional comfort in others and keeping it a secret from your significant other is cheating so....
Blaine was doing the same with Sebastian
@@charlenerafferty3534 not at all, Blaine wasn’t romantically interested in Sebastian, and he involved Kurt in every single moment with him.
@@charlotteatouchof7154 i think the thing that bothers me most with blaine texting sebastian is that he KNEW sebastian was interested him and that kurt was insecure but he still texted him. to me kurt had every right to be upset blaine was texting sebastian, but that still doesn't excuse him texting chandler.
@@scarlet807 I understand what you mean, but
1. Blaine was completely honest with Sebastian, he told him he was Kurt's boyfriend and left him no hope of possibly getting together
2. he was also transparent and very reassuring with Kurt, hiding nothing from him and involving him every time he met Sebastian.
And 3. let’s remember that Sebastian was Blaine's only personal friend, since the others were originally only Kurt's friends + Sebastian was also his last bond with his beloved Dalton, which he left for Kurt's sake.
There’s no reason he should have given up on his friend 🙂
@@charlotteatouchof7154 eh i still don't think it was okay to text sebastian tbh personally bc sebastian was just trying to break them up and just always insulted kurt but i get wha you mean
i had to stop watching glee in season four because everyone started breaking up because all the relationships became toxic. finn and rachel, kurt and blaine, and even santana and britt were going through something. i understand that the writers wanted to add drama to the show but it was getting out of handdd
Idk if it was intentional but years later I've noticed that even tho its blurry, the guy looks a bit like kurt when they first met. Intersting
honestly blaine and sam were like, the best fucking friends
Blaine cheating is such a dumb story line though because of how out of character it was.
Dude yes. Blaine is the perfect dapper boy and the way he got on to Kurt made it seem like he’d never cheat on anyone in his life (which isn’t hard to do... just don’t be a douche and cheat). And lo and behold, he cheated.
I don’t think so. I kept waiting for him to cheat on Kurt in season 3 with Sebastian. I would’ve been way more surprised if Kurt had cheated.
@@hannahl4269 nah cus he was very comitted to kurt.. the man literally moved schools for kurt💀 I was so upset w the writers for this🙃 they needed to come up with something more original that made some kind of senseee
breaks my heart ughh
I kind of wish they never wrote the whole cheating script because like Blaine and Kurt were dating for 2 years and then he decided to hook up with a lighthouse LMAO
BLAM ! SLAINE !
The beggining of blam
I never understood why Blaine made such a big drama over Kurt texting a guy, and then he did something even worst... it's frustrating but I love Blaine so much from the moment he was introduced with his Warbler uniform 😍😍😍💍💍💍
Funny
I love Sam so much
Actually, Darren Criss is sooooooo adorably talented 👍 ✌ 👏 💙
anyone notice blaine his neck is a different color than his face or is it just makeup
I mean, at least isn't wasn't with Sebastian.
I think the word you're looking for Sam is victimize, Blaine needs to stop victimizing himself.
He was literally just feeling guilty. Would you rather he not show any emotion at all?
@@gcldvnblytzlater on he blames Kurt for his own cheating. I don't really care whether he shows emotions or not, it's a comment I made 11 months ago🤷
I used to love Blaine but I literally can't with S 3-6 Blaine :/ Warbler Blaine was the best, and the only Blaine I recognize.
Sam And Blaine Would Have Made A Great Couple.