Why Black People Hate On Each Other So Much? | Bad Speakers Podcast
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- G. Downs & Ya Boi Shad discus why throughout the history of time black people hate on each other more than any other race.
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Growing up black, I was bullied… not by white people, not by Hispanics and not by Asians… I was bullied by my own people.. black people. Why? Because I talk “white,” I stand out in the crowd, and I’m not afraid to be myself.
It honestly left me traumatized to the point where every time I come across a black person, I instantly have my guard up because I don’t know what type of energy they’re on.
Every time I try to be cool and friendly with certain black people, they always end up mocking me…
It’s fucked up and the hate we have towards each other never gets talked about in the media..
I understand exactly how you feel the same happened to me even my own family members, so I deeply empathize with you. I'm sorry that those things happened to you. 🫂💜
They don't take accountability. They are a lost cause. I been through the same thing.
I’m sorry u went through that but people treat me like that they screw face me or put their guard up no matter where I work or go it’s always a fight where they think so negative about me
Yeah i hate when a mf say “you talk white” like gtfoh
@RikSpp White here that hurts to read I would have been your friend but damn I myself don't like the way the blacks you are describing act that way myself.
When my peers where doing well financially. I went back to school and got a job and got myself in a good financial situation. No jealousy just worked to make it happen
Nah it’s deeper than that
@@Your-local-kpop Sooooo truuuue..
RIGHT HERE IS A CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF HOW YOU DO IT!!!! WITHOUT HATING!!!!
The most hate I received in my life were from other black peoples that’s why I keep my distance from those type toxic people ❌❌❌
I wholeheartedly agree but honestly I been hated on by Hispanics whites and my own kind but I do agree
That’s me to a tee but I get more love from whites and Hispanics
@jaysouthmusic8230 the other races don't see u as a threat.
@@sigmasiren7 exactly you understand
@@jaysouthmusic8230 I'm not sure if you understand where I'm coming from. I've been hated on by the other races. They usually leave you alone unless they envy something you possess. You might get along with them better because they don't envy you. Personally, I've been hated on by them a lot and other black ppl so as far as I'm concerned, every race has their ppl who suck & who are insecure & jealous AF.
We were programmed to hate on each other from the field nigga/house nigga, light-skinned/dark skinned, good hair/nappy hair, & etc. Keep us divided keeps them in control. It’s one answer to heal all the trauma & deprogram us & THATS COME TOGETHER!!!!
That is so true but we need to rise above it.
So true
Great comments on this subject
Facts bruh this is real tho
Good insight about this issue
Change the way we think and speak and it’ll change our actions…let’s stop calling out women bitches and our men niggas…but y’all brothers making a point
and start owning up to our own shortcomings instead of deflecting and crying
Agree
Agreed
Ninjas been fighting since Africa... Tribalism is one of the main reasons we were able to be easily conquered.
This is a great topic and I shared and subscribed 🙏🏾❤️ Thank yall fr
Anyone think referring to every black person as "nigga" might be a problem too? Am I the only one tired of being called a nigga all day by black people?
You not the only one especially black women yet if us black men all them out their names we are the bad guys
We are twins on that one I'll tell you that right now I feel the same way..
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For sure .
Agreed. If it's not okay for other people to call us that...we should not call each other that word. Brother, sister, sir, ma'am, mr, miss, dear lady, sage, baba.. let's use those more.
South Asians in the UK work together and support each other so well that's why so many are successful in so many businesses, like restuarants, taxis, takeaways, shops etc... they want to see each other succeed whilst black people( not all) want to show off to each other and see themselves succeed instead of supporting each other to make the whole community succeed.
exactly
exactly oh well
I agree with you. I am so tired of black hating black and yet they keep complaining about White and Asian people are racist towards Black people.
That’s the saddest truth
Facts. You see this in workplaces, family and friendships.
It's crazy. Other black people seem to hate me. Even some of my own black male family members. I'm a handsome tall well educated black guy with a decent job and the amount of animosity I encounter from black people on a daily basis drives me crazy. From male workers at the grocery store to just random maintenance people. It's like they instantly see me and just decide I'm their enemy. I'm a nice guy who is polite and genuine. I really only grew up with my black family, but now as an adult other black people treat me like an alien. It's sad bro.
FUCK EM THEY CHOSE THEIR PATH IN LIFE ...THEY HAD THE SAME OPPORTUNITIES YOU HAD,,,,,,,,,, BUT CHOSE TO DO SHIT LIKE HANG AROUND THE WRONG CROWDS,,, SITTING IN THE HOUSE ALL DAY WITHOUT A GOAL OR A PLAN,,,,,,,, DIFFERENT BABY MAMAS,,,,,,,,,,
I’ve tried to help so many people. They take it to offense. They think you’re bragging. It’s really sad. You can bring the house to the well but you can’t make them drink.
Look after your family friends inner circle and most importantly,yourself good luck j.
You probably went about it cocky. If you had a chip on your shoulder when you did noone is accepting your help.
You expected to be worshipped in return which many blacks expect. You give someone the resource and move on, noone owes you some special praise cause you helped them, even Jesus will tell you that.
Approach differently. I know narcissist who try to help but they come at people cocky.
@@ladybird491if our people take it like that then maybe they don't need the help even if someone was cocky and putting me on money I would accept it but our people got to much damn pride they damn self accept when it comes to the real enemy that's cocky as hell and really wants to be worshipped and then they willingly bow down to the European so
I don't spend money with most black owned places because alot of them far as customer service be so unprofessional and ghetto ( not all but most I've come across are)
Speak on it!!! You can’t have subpar service just because you have a black owned business and you “expect” black people to support it
In some cases, this maybe true but I think that we expect perfection from our brothers and sister with little to no room for error.
Yep & it’s always been like that.
You're right bro and if you have a problem with something and try to address it get dogged out and get ready to fight no conflict resolution ghetto and unprofessional
Facts
Remember the consciousness movement in music in the 80's through the early 90's before it was driven underground? We need to return to that.
Sadly people used that consciousness to hide their jealousy and hating whenever there is a prominent Black person.
If only more young people thought and held more conversations like this.
Then what??
Use the word ninjas.
@@supermaple1919exactly nothings gonna change and happen that’s why I’m like why even bother
@@jaysouthmusic8230 we have too much to lose to give up now if we all come together we will shake the very foundations of the universe. I am cringing right now on the thought that these white folks are enjoying this conversation these brother's are having by naming our own kind out of our names. 🙄🙄
Y'all are so correct on this topic I'm from Memphis TN the hate here is so real you can feel it in the air black on black we are our own worst enemy we need to stop putting each other down and help one another 👍
I see quite a few people try to hustle each other....we should be backing each other, not opposed to each other.
There are other people that will hustle us and brag about it.
Imagine how powerful a people can be when united in purpose...
United we stand
Divided we fall
And the white man kno it!!!
The hate is deep in our community 😔
Yes
That's not totally true in every black community on this planet. And this sometimes happens in some other races of communities on this planet also.
I stumbled on this and had it in my watch later playlist for months. Glad i found this episode. Everything i feel is in this episode. This why i dont speak, look in the direction, hold doors open or anything
Hate makes you age faster and it destroys the strings of the heart which intern takes me away from the most beloved people in my life. And nobody is more important than my son and his brother.
How the heck y’all call your own people N….r and yet still criticize them about not having their shit together??.. That language ain’t moving the process of progress at alllll!!!
@b1chronixx688it's been breaded in our DNA
We don't call each other the "N" word with the er you know that, you just want Caucasian which is to act in your natural habitat
I stopped the video and couldn’t watch it because I lost interest. I’m black btw it’s ignorant to say it that much.
😂😂😂😂😂
Omg. I feel the same. The programming from slavery is so real. 🔥
Really................lol😂
Slavery is over years ago. Lets stop playing the slavery excuse. The Asians were slaves too but they love and support each other.
Excuses.
@@1984WarnedUsAboutLeftistsI'm sick of my own race when it comes to hating I'm leaving those evil vindictive jealousy types by the waist side
@@creek3205yes really
Were not the only culture who hate on each other however we broadcast our shit the most. Everyone wants to wear the crown.
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Why do Black people worry about everybody else Instead of fixing their own race but everybody else dose
Stop dragging other cultures in our conversations, it is moving the goal post and is another problem.
NOONE SAID WE ARE THE ONLY CULTURE WHO DO. NOT EVERYONE CARE ABOUT A CROWN.
@@ladybird491 we excel at fucking each other up at every level no one will change my mind and we will never be free if this continues.
He said the N word a thousand times. Need to stop using that word.
It just him sound ignorant.
We do
@@summer8041 he responded to me and said "no" he wouldn't stop using the word. When I questioned him more , he stopped responding
That's part of the problem while the community is stuck where it's at. Can't detached away from it, tired of hearing and being referred to as the N.
“I ain’t seen so many clothing brands in my life”
🤣🤣
Facts. I used to work at a warehouse and damn near everyone on my shift had a clothing brand 😂
It's called Willie Lynch... implemented by slave master to turn each other against each other. It has never changed. I really enjoyed the conversation, fellas!!! 💯
As a black person.. I agree and disagree with some of the things my brothers are saying..
Speaking from experience .. I helped my black brothers who couldn't find a way out of their financial struggle.. I really did all of that without expecting anything from them.. Just from pure brotherly love..
Guess what😢
Brothers guess what 😢..
I regret every good deed I showed to those MotherPhuckaz.. I lost everything I worked for because of those MF...
I had to start alone from scratch , had to build up my business reputation again.. Which was difficult .. Long story short..
I don't blame some Black people who don't want to get some blacks involved in their business.. Because it is dangerous .
Unfortunately slavery was a long term goal....😢
This is tooo real and need to be posted everywhere
I'm 70 years old. I'm a former beauty queen, successful Television and Radio personality. All of the hate I've ever received has been from other black people !
I'm sorry about that but they got lotta racist white people an brown people you rember that
No veiws because its to real
Thanks make sure you like and subscribe to the channel! We got more conversations like this that people are scared of having coming soon!
Way too real
I know right
Because they haters
Too much use of the N word IMO. I think the younger generation thinks that's so cool and tough sounding.
Yep. Niggas this & Niggas that
Yup
They dropped so many N bombs I couldn't focus on the points they were tryna make.
When black ppl do attempt to support one another it is never appreciated.
Women hate on one another so much. I always compliment my black people men and women. Im 70 years young and young women black women hate on me. Im young at heart dress how i like. But younger black women doesn't like to see me coming. Hate on because im not changing. Now if i walk around looking like a bomb which sometimes i do they seem to accept me. Its so funny to me.
Wish these Black Men could speak the English Language properly and without all the cussing. If you look back in time the Black Man spoke correct language and No cussing. I was watching Black leadership back in the Sixties on You Tube. What well spoken gentlemen and articulate they were. Language is Not a Culture or Race, it's just Language.
They cursed a lot back then they just knew when to turn it off & be professional
I only talk to BM or BW if it's needed to be fair ignoring is already tough because most ALWAYS look for some type of conflict.
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The last time i received unnecessary drama from BM was in the gym think about that in the gym.. what happened is there was this older BM above the age of 45 who was always supporting me and he start to change up on me because of the other older BM who clearly had no job or purpose the one BM who was always supporting me start to let it get to him and the insulting started a couple of days later.
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Believe me when i say this i never did something to the guy to receive all of those bad words 4 days in the week.
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I forgot to mention that his switch up on me always happened when the other older BM were around in that same year even my barber who used to do my locs start to talk bad about me all of the negativity came back from the other BM who clearly didn't like it that i lift heavy and i'm buff..
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My barber said "that n*** is probably big but can't fight" before i knew it i had 6 BM hating on me everytime.
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Since that year i always look the other way when it comes to BM this unnecassary drama coming from them will never stop i rather stick to my own.
More respect, less trying to floss on the next man.
More owning up to own shortcomings.
Less sensitivty to painful truths.
Less "no new friends" mentality.
Less money over values & morals mentality.
Less acceptance of gangster and ho culture.
More understanding of what creating a child/family entails.
Active rejection of people promoting negative and false stereotypes (indivs and corporations).
More emphasis on education and not seeing it as "wyatt man isht".
= a much more healthy and productive African American collective.
You can be rich with a good job, an you can give your homeboy $50,000 who just came home from jail to help him get back on his feet, an he would turn it down, an say that not enough money for him. He'll ask you to give him a $100, 000. An he'll he hating on you when you tell him no you can't give him $100, 000. He should be thankful that you're a true homie, an you still looked out for him, cause you didn't had to do it.
Now a days or it’s been this way for like the last 30 years or more. Afro Americans experienced worst treatment from people in their own ethnic groups.
Peace brothers let me start off by saying I appreciate you having this discussion because it's a serious situation with us as a nation of people. And the answer is right in front of us in any Bible the book of Deuteronomy chapter 1 through 68 explains why we're in the condition that we're in right now as we speak now you're specific question in this video can be found in verse 28 and 54 no I don't know if you Brothers believe in the word of God but when you read those verses you can't deny that they fit us to a T I pray that you will read it and give your response May the most high bless you and your families
Thanks for the discussion brothers very good
Because everyone is kings and queens their own kingdoms at war with each other its very fitting in a symbolic way
The most hate and least support and zero help has been from black people . I try so hard to not let it effect me but I’m done .
I own a Haircare business and I’m doing very well. I did an event yesterday for some sorority ladies (DST) I’ll just say. They didn’t support the vendors(black owned women) and was a waste of our time. I’m done too.
1:36 this is the MAIN facto right here, he said It
Covetousness (Greed and Lust). The desire to have other peoples "stuff"... often lead to hateful acts and feelings. Crabs-in-a-Barrel syndrome will manifest.
When black folks say they don’t know why we hate on one another, it comes from a naive place.
They also mention about bragging and boasting in the Bible...and idolatry and they also say The Lord giveth and taketh away. It's best to stay humble. Yes, Willie Lynch. I remember my Uncle John teaching RIP Uncle John 😊 I remember the verse , Wrath is cruel, anger is outrageous, but who is able to stand before envy? 🇺🇲🙏🕊️🙏🇺🇲
"Ill give you 15 for dis boi"🤣
Facts they do it al the time
Very true! Money dont make someone wise, there are plenty of wise people not sacrificing their health and time to chase the bag. Blacks chasing bag but not chasing diet coaches and healthy eating.
Facts chasing the bag just to impress other people, braking ya self down and what’s funny is just taking on more debt. Do what works for you.
I’m a female left my city to do better for me and my children and got so much hate always say oh u think u better nor do I act that way I just carry myself in confidence
It's the lack of structure alot of us idolize them other groups who keep their family in tact.
TALKING DIRT ON PEOPLE to other people is Baring false witness!
Especially if it’s all lies
Without even watching the video and answering the title's question, because we're conditioned to hate ourselves in an anti black world. No one else shares our experience. Now that we're aware, its on us to do better
Glad I came across this channel
This is facts tell my black people to wake up been held back way to long big me up like I big you up how hard is that 💯💯💯💯
We blacks are too busy fighting the white man to like us when we should be doing that so unite and work together,
Come people we know our issues so why aren't we improving ourselves individually as a whole. We're still at the starting line at this race. I'm not excluding myself. How much do we have to be on the same subject on our issues. 🤦
All facts in this episode
The world is full of people who don’t have their own identity… let’s start there
In NYC the diaspora wars is serious we do not support eachother but go into the other communities in NYC like China town( more like Asian village) and they got each others back no matter what country they are from they link together because of their similarities and they respect and support one another. We are lost in ignorance and wanting to be better or more superior than one another.
Bro, this video had me cracking up!
Yoo we can over come this shit in work together
I agree with supporting black businesses. The problem is, some places cut corners and don’t give the best service. They expect you to just deal with it to “buy black”. It makes other black reputable black businesses look bad
Music industry finds a lot of impressionable and easily influenced young aspiring artists and ecourages/incentivizes them to produce content that keeps the black community and black household divided and in decline. Most of these artists especially nowadays never even lived the lifestyle they rap about, they're just paid and told to make, sell and promote the music and what's in it and they have target demographics. I agree that there is a form of engineering and conditioning going on but these spirits, principalities and interests involved go deep and spread wide across entertainment, politics, education etc. They hide in plain sight too. Good example is the democratic party, the party that fought abolitionists to keep slavery legal, same party that formed the KKK and now the same party that says if you don't vote for their commander in chief then you ain't black.
The “music” is straight fecal matter quality today in every single way, painful to the eardrums.
PTSD
CAME FROM OUR ANCESTORS DURING SLAVERY 😢.
GREAT POINTS!!!!
That jacket and bass hat hit different 🎉
Answer,,it's called post traumatic slave syndrome...
People hate me so I hate them it's simple as that , but we have few genuine people
Not only ur partners but ur brothers and u right they never let u knw that what the hate is all about
EVERY HUMAN BEING LIVING NEED TO STOP USING CURSE WORDS 😢.
God knows the real.. People will have more than you and close the door on the same ones they say they love 💥🤣
I just heard the n-word like 10k times 😂
THE WILLIE LYNCH IS STILL IN FULL EFFECT NO CAPPING
Why i dnt do buisness with my mothers ppl(blacks) its always,always,always a fkn problem! 🇵🇷♥
They bad mine envious. Hate to see you rising
So many layers to this
I am traumatized. My own family puts me down. I already have hardly any family, no kids and single. I don't find any happiness in living.
God read your Bible
@@IDONTGOTTIME Will do
🙏's for you !! You're a wonderful Human being .... 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Speaking facts I seen ninjas hating on other ninjas cause of success.I been in the studio with ninjas,and other ninjas online do the most hating bruh.
The number one question is not why they’re hating but why are you chillin with haters?? It’s the need for validation and lack of self esteem.
I think you have to also look as Black people do help other black people but may prioritize people in their network… and sometimes people in their network aren’t who they came up with… I don’t think it’s typical that when black people who are in position of power or leverage for opportunity just hate on other black people and/or people who they came up with.. we have to stop just believing that and start trusting each other but also find ways to make ourselves useful to eachother.
Here is an undeniable fact when it comes to black folks in America. If you reach a certain level of success you are going to get hated, flaked on and ghosted by other black people. You are not going to have a lot of true friends. When so called friends or associates see my home, my successful marriage or that the women tend to gravitate toward me over them(even though I’m completely faithful to my wife) they won’t hang around for long. Unless they’re benefiting off hanging with me. Like, if you’re the type of guy that others guys get girls just by hanging around you then they may stay in your circle for a little just based on that. But they still will eventually flake and are not true friends.
I’m close to having massive success but not there yet & I have ppl flaking/ ghosting me, I rarely get invited any where or they cancel on me last second I’m not even successful yet , but I don’t care I like being by myself I know who is in my corner
Simple, I got mine you better get yours. Jealousy plain and simple 😢
This group of males is too busy wanting to be in charge individually as opposed to collectively keeping it structured.. the major difference of now vs then..
I’m tired of this since slavery ish. Black folks during slavery stuck together more then nowadays!!! They listened to each other in higher numbers than nowadays!!
Real talk
Dude in the orange hate is actively hating as he is not allowing the other man to offer his theories as a collective analysis along with his theories of the origins of self hatred. Ive worked black guys who flow in that same direction. They'd usually add to what youve said with saying "Not just that, but..." or "Nawl, it aint about (insert what you just said previously), then they offer their replacement theory. I listened to one of my friend's daughter talk about how her boyfriend failed to ask some of his friends specific questions their involvement in a situation where they were badmouthing him behind his back. I told her that he needed to "dissect" their accounts of what they actually said. She replied, "Nawl, it aint about him needing to dissect anything, he just needs to know the right questions to ask them". I said, "Is that NOT a dissection of their accounts? Wtf😮. I almost fucking lost it. These incidents happen ridiculously to often. Smh...
Cuz we feel there’s not enough to go around. As a whole we lack an abundance mindset.
Im Jamaican and i dont understand half of what black Americans are saying. 😂
But yea we have that in Jamaica too. Its called Badmind.
Why y’all use the N word so much
I'M 81YRS.
I ALWAYS WONDER WHY MY RACE OF HUMANS ARE SO VERY MEAN TO EACH OTHER. 😢😢😢😢😢
MOST OF MY RACE GO OUT OF THE WAY TO WORSHIP 🛐 ANOTHER HUMAN RACE.
I GIVE EACH HUMAN BEING RESPECT ALL RACES.
RACE OR COLOR 🎉. 😊
First of all why do we have to relate to one another as the N word. Go figure?🤔
Self esteem and stop blaming white people
Real convo
real ass podcast
18:58 💯
I love my black people I love my black men stop saying that all blacks hate on blacks..... I love black black black black black black black STOP IT!!!
Finding blacks hating on black not rare at all the truth needs to be spoken
It’s too the point I’m fear telling a mf anything beneficial so I just mind my business
Lil baby said money is everything to him do u agree?
So didn’t, Katt Williams just do this??
This video is 2yrs old … this is before katt! 😂
Yeah we hate each other. It's usually someone different from the other that will get the most hate just for not being a part of the clique or not being a groupie with the hive mind. This is an old issue .
Breaking that cycle is the??
I helped my people make money with crypto… more money than they ever had.. now they all hate me for it… shit crazy
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