ALL in the MIND - Rise above PAIN

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  • Опубліковано 24 лип 2018
  • 'Do you see the beauty in life, or do you just exist? Be careful to just exist - that's dangerous'. - Elrieda Pillmann
    Elrieda has know true heart sore, losing her only child. She shares her story of how she chose to rise above the pain and see the beauty in life.
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    Who is Reflections of Life? We are Justine and Michael (previously known as Green Renaissance). We use our passion for filmmaking and our love of storytelling, to remind our audience of one simple truth - that we are all human. The more that we understand and believe in this interconnectedness, the more we will treat ourselves, one another, and planet earth with a greater sense of compassion.
    Equipment used - Sony FS7 with still lenses
    Music sourced from ArtList - bit.ly/2KfrAt2
    Butterfly (No Vocals) - by Ian Post
    Music sourced from Audio Network
    Eyelashes - by Sue Verran
    Intimate Portrait - by Philip Guyler
    Sound mix by Tamryn Breakey and Stef Albertyn
    Thanks to these guys for giving so freely of their time to assist with translations:
    Arabic - by Hanane Tadrarti
    Spanish - by Sebastián Hoch
    Croatian - by Davor Bobanac
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  • @PanJasnovidec
    @PanJasnovidec 3 роки тому +1693

    Many people are waiting for their life to change. They don't realise that their life is waiting for THEM to change,

  • @user-onyoutube868
    @user-onyoutube868 3 роки тому +154

    "Get angry, but get over it." What a wise woman.

  • @francesbriggs9163
    @francesbriggs9163 3 роки тому +575

    I've met this fabulous woman, had lunch at her house and drank her own homemade wine. A real treat.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +28

      @Frances Briggs - What a beautiful coincidence - so glad that you found Elrieda's story 💚

    • @learnsfi2422
      @learnsfi2422 3 роки тому +4

      In which country she lives

    • @DiSe7819
      @DiSe7819 3 роки тому +6

      Oh, I am so jealous! ❤️

    • @Tinyteacher1111
      @Tinyteacher1111 3 роки тому +9

      You did? Wow! What an honor!

    • @sandrineroesch8706
      @sandrineroesch8706 3 роки тому +27

      South Africa.
      You can tell from the Dutch farmhouse,her accent and what’s written on the bell
      🇿🇦

  • @borgarbui8508
    @borgarbui8508 3 роки тому +86

    '"Do you see the beauty in life, or do you just exist? Be careful to just exist - that's dangerous'." Made me cry -

    • @deborahr1723
      @deborahr1723 2 роки тому

      This statement she made also struck a chord with me. Sometimes I know Ive just existed. I will remember her and what she’s said.

  • @daniellelemay2885
    @daniellelemay2885 4 роки тому +1859

    Since my husband passing, I've been watching this video regularly. It helps me to see all the gratitude in my heart. Thank you for this.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  4 роки тому +60

      @Danielle Lemay - Sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. Thanks for sharing the comfort that Elrieda's story brings to you. We're sending you hugs and strength. xx

    • @sufibren4885
      @sufibren4885 3 роки тому +10

      ❤️❤️🌼🌻🌸

    • @arroyobaby38
      @arroyobaby38 3 роки тому +21

      Sending you GIANT HUGS and SO MUCH LOVE from New York!!❤️❤️

    • @NoNopeAndNo
      @NoNopeAndNo 3 роки тому +3

      💚👍

    • @SuperInfinity888
      @SuperInfinity888 3 роки тому +5

      Sorry for your loss ❤️🙏🏻

  • @ronnielola6594
    @ronnielola6594 3 роки тому +439

    I don't need to go for therapy... Her words are just enough... Her voice so calming.... What an ageless beauty. ❤️❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +12

      @Ronnie Lola - Thank you for appreciating and valuing her story x

    • @mountainsandmoonbeams8457
      @mountainsandmoonbeams8457 2 роки тому +5

      She's Amazing! Love her words of wisdom, very soothing to the soul💖

    • @DEForce-fm8rt
      @DEForce-fm8rt 2 роки тому +3

      All of you people are so beautiful ~Salt of the earth. Thank you Lovely Elrieda for sharing such gems and pearls of wisdom( I believe we are all a bit richer now:)
      Appreciate all that you are doing Green Renaissance.

  • @i.a.m.270
    @i.a.m.270 2 роки тому +101

    “Be careful to just exist, that’s dangerous.”This is so powerful

  • @phyllisclark4450
    @phyllisclark4450 3 роки тому +48

    I am 67 years old. I am renewed by her words with tears in my eyes. Just live!!

    • @cindygaudet1390
      @cindygaudet1390 6 місяців тому +1

      I too am 67 and learning from this lady and other videos on this channel.

  • @uksimone1
    @uksimone1 3 роки тому +1473

    Even with grey hair and wrinkles she looks like a child , with a beautful smile and eyes of joy... Beautiful message! Thanks!!

  • @QueenNoTeetha151
    @QueenNoTeetha151 3 роки тому +645

    She lost her daughter but the reality is, many would have loved her as a mother.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +28

      @QueenNoTeetha151 - What a beautiful comment. x

    • @QueenNoTeetha151
      @QueenNoTeetha151 3 роки тому +33

      @@ReflectionsofLife Thank you. It was heartfelt because I could really do with a mother like her even though I am in my forties now. I'm sure many could. She seems really lovely. Also, thanks for such a lovely channel. :)

    • @barriegrubb5682
      @barriegrubb5682 3 роки тому +17

      Such a lovely comment. You have a really kind heart.🙂

    • @QueenNoTeetha151
      @QueenNoTeetha151 3 роки тому +9

      @@barriegrubb5682 So nice of you to say. Thank you. :)

    • @hannathebrave2200
      @hannathebrave2200 3 роки тому +16

      My mom is like her.
      Similar wise soul
      I am so Grateful.
      I am so blessed.😭
      🌼♥️🌼♥️🌼♥️🌼

  • @ladyann7001
    @ladyann7001 3 роки тому +45

    I love that she says "get angry, kick a door" .... but get it over with. Yes queen, and don't feel one bit bad about it!

  • @daphnee7193
    @daphnee7193 3 роки тому +162

    As a 21 years old girl who is looking for her purpose in life, your videos are my inspiration. I only indulge in them, I cannot wait to start living a peaceful life in nature like all your interviewees.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +14

      @Daphnee Ferdinand - We send you warm blessings as you move through this grand journey and adventure that we call 'life' :) x

    • @skylights2379
      @skylights2379 2 роки тому +15

      Start where you are right now, practice mindfulness and thankfulness. Tap into that Peace . You have begun your journey already, Daphnee.

    • @vidvictor
      @vidvictor 6 місяців тому +2

      I wish I had had this knowledge at your age. Blessings to you dear one! 💕

    • @anaclark5751
      @anaclark5751 4 місяці тому +1

      The slow life. Ahhhhhhhh

  • @janedill7218
    @janedill7218 5 років тому +421

    Oh, How I relate to what I've seen. In my mid eighties, I and my dear friend of many years are about to embark on a motor trip across the United States - no schedule, just the pure joy of travel with each other.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  5 років тому +21

      That is AMAZING Jane. We're sending you the happiest of wishes for your roadtrip. Enjoy every single moment of the adventure together. You guys sound like a real inspiration! Keep tuned in during your travels - new film of inspiration out every Wednesday to keep you smiling :). Justine xx

    • @johnkoenig496
      @johnkoenig496 3 роки тому +4

      @@asbjorgvanderveer5050 Hoping you have a FABULOUS trip. SO MUCH to see !!

    • @elizdonovan5650
      @elizdonovan5650 3 роки тому +3

      I hope you had time to complete your trip. Good for you. Stay safe.
      🌲🌝☘️

    • @twinphill900
      @twinphill900 3 роки тому +5

      No time limit, no schedule what an absolute luxury that is, that many people are not aware of. God bless.

    • @lowellcalavera6045
      @lowellcalavera6045 3 роки тому +2

      It'll be awesome!!! 😍

  • @NoNopeAndNo
    @NoNopeAndNo 4 роки тому +495

    "Be careful to Just exist, that's dangerous!" 💚

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  4 роки тому +37

      @MIke J - This exact sentence is one that has stuck with me ever since we made this film. Powerful words.

    • @marisol0813
      @marisol0813 3 роки тому +13

      I felt that one❤

    • @mariedeyo7399
      @mariedeyo7399 3 роки тому +5

      @@ReflectionsofLife thats a good one and I like how this woman thanks about life. I also think if I have a bad day, I have a bad day and no one has the right to say otherwise. But what is the thinking behind your Chanel or your Videos?

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +22

      @Marie Deyo - Thanks for this comment. We wanted to use our skill and passion for filmmaking, to share stories of hope and inspiration... 'ordinary' people sharing some of their experiences and learnings through life... we can all learn from each other, and at the same time celebrate our similarities as well as differences x

    • @mariedeyo7399
      @mariedeyo7399 3 роки тому +5

      @@ReflectionsofLife ok, thanks for telling me what it is about from your side. 👍

  • @mayetabergos3427
    @mayetabergos3427 3 роки тому +88

    When I feel life becomes tougher, I always go back again to your channel and watch your videos again and again. Thank you for inspiring us and reminding that life is so beautiful.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +4

      @Mayet Abergos - So glad that you are able to find a sense of comfort and peace in the sharing of these stories 💚

    • @jascabungcag2717
      @jascabungcag2717 3 роки тому +1

      Same here

    • @thebenjiguy
      @thebenjiguy 2 роки тому

      Me too!

    • @sagerobinson6340
      @sagerobinson6340 2 роки тому +1

      Me too......these videos are such a blessing...

    • @bismitarabha1131
      @bismitarabha1131 Рік тому

      Right there with you mate! Green Renaissance is a solace through a tough time.

  • @deborah7270
    @deborah7270 3 роки тому +36

    The reason this video touches us in the deepest core of our hearts is because it is coming from an unconditional loving space from a loving soul. She has no hidden agenda but to give her message of HOPE and LOVE. Thank you for this.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +2

      @Debora Bearing - Thank you for recognising and appreciating the beauty of her inner self. 💚

  • @kylife6444
    @kylife6444 3 роки тому +200

    “It’s not big things in life that makes you happy. It’s be able to see beauty in small things”, so true! 👍

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +5

      @K&Y生活志 Life - Thanks for seeing the beauty in this story x

    • @beatereich5466
      @beatereich5466 3 роки тому +1

      I See the beauty in small things.....big things......no things........etc. The BEAUTY OF LIFE.....all included.😃

    • @litelightli2848
      @litelightli2848 2 роки тому

      agree

    • @litelightli2848
      @litelightli2848 2 роки тому

      🤘🤘🤘

  • @sylvianblue
    @sylvianblue 3 роки тому +569

    Physically do everything at a slower pace. You’ll realise how much you are rushing through life not noticing much. Slowing life down takes practice. Enjoy it and enjoy a more aware life.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +19

      @sylvianblue - Absolutely agree! And if you haven't seen it yet, we recently released a short film called 'Slowing Down - if you haven't watched it yet, take a look - I think it will resonate deeply with you. Justine x

    • @suehowardful
      @suehowardful 3 роки тому +6

      Yes...the Present is a Gift....

    • @christinagolding5573
      @christinagolding5573 3 роки тому

      W

    • @christinagolding5573
      @christinagolding5573 3 роки тому +6

      Sometimes it's hard for people who have different circumstances for example black people and Native American Indians. Fúthermore refugees running from poverty, inequality,war. Your accent sounds Soúth African it's a
      beautiful place to live and your cottage is a dream as is it' s
      s surrounding land ànd those gorgeous cows.... unfortunately too live there for so many, like myself ít ís just a dream 💓💛💚

    • @johnybrokeit
      @johnybrokeit 3 роки тому +3

      Such a beautiful realization. I have realized it too just recently.

  • @marialane1805
    @marialane1805 3 роки тому +20

    I cried watching this! As I age, I find that the very JOY of laying on the ground giving thanks is my true medicine! And if I’m sad, I allow my tears to soak into her soil! So Blessed 🙏

  • @sunshynkat3548
    @sunshynkat3548 3 роки тому +28

    Reminds me in her words of my mother’s mother from Sweden 🇸🇪 and she was so sweet and alive till she was 100. Love and miss her and she’s always in my 💜 heart.

  • @X3000Chan
    @X3000Chan 3 роки тому +182

    "GO for life. There's enough time when you're not there anymore. Go for it while you ARE there. Be ALIVE." ♡

    • @thepsychehealer9326
      @thepsychehealer9326 3 роки тому +1

      True

    • @sunithaharish7131
      @sunithaharish7131 3 роки тому +1

      Go for life . There's time when your're not there anymore. Go for it while you Are There.Be Alive. Good one😍

    • @hannathebrave2200
      @hannathebrave2200 3 роки тому

      Example...
      Have a family, Dont be scared.
      Go for it.🌼✨🌼✨🌼✨🌼✨
      ♥️It is wonderful!!!♥️

    • @amalianavarro9273
      @amalianavarro9273 3 роки тому +1

      Living alone is beyond man's comprehension. Go for life.

    • @whylife-321
      @whylife-321 3 роки тому

      Agreed

  • @stevenbellusci9084
    @stevenbellusci9084 3 роки тому +107

    A wise woman once said “Get angry and get on with it” 👏👏♥️♥️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому

      💚

    • @beatereich5466
      @beatereich5466 3 роки тому +2

      To allow ALL that I am in every second. And to be with ME every STEP of MY WAY..

    • @mrasanjani
      @mrasanjani 3 роки тому

      @@beatereich5466 exactly... wise words❤⚘😊

    • @beatereich5466
      @beatereich5466 3 роки тому

      @@mrasanjani thank you💖

  • @anneanne9859
    @anneanne9859 3 роки тому +14

    " Dont take your baggage with you,Where will you take it?"....it hits me..

  • @innerphoenixbjw5909
    @innerphoenixbjw5909 3 роки тому +41

    I am so grateful this came upon my recommendations. In the last month and a half, my mom and brother passed, along with watching my childhood home being condemned. No matter the bumps and pits along the way, something beautiful still is with you. YOU. Continue loving yourself through the anger and tears. Love yourself and love your life. Love it as you want to live it.
    Thank you for this video.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +6

      @InnerPhoenix BJW - So sorry to hear about the rough ride of the last few months. Your words of strength and belief in the power of love are an inspiration to us all! BIG LOVE to you x

    • @vijivijayaraghavan
      @vijivijayaraghavan Рік тому

      That's a hurricane in your life ! So sorry though am seeing this after a year . Deeply touched to combined with sense gratitude to Great renaissance to share this for all of us . Hope you are doing better now

  • @kimraewonkim1509
    @kimraewonkim1509 3 роки тому +68

    Please do another video of this lady. Many thanks.

  • @ampikcnwski9753
    @ampikcnwski9753 3 роки тому +129

    It's a shame we all learn to live at the end, just before we have to leave our body!
    There are so many things to do, there no time for depression!!! Thank you very much!

    • @user-om7kn9pv8p
      @user-om7kn9pv8p 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly❤

    • @suecl7268
      @suecl7268 3 роки тому +3

      Totally agree with you!

    • @beatereich5466
      @beatereich5466 3 роки тому +10

      But it could happen that also a Depression is there for " a good reason"😉THIS is also Part of life. It depends how someone definition of " to live" is. For me...LIFE and to live it includes ALL. Many THINK living means traveling.....Dancing.....singing......painting.....laughing.........happiness......etc
      Sadness......fear.....anger.......grief.....etc. also. There is just one difference for me.....do I live consciouss. When I am sad I don't deny this Part of my life right here right now. And it is never the whole book....just a chapter called " my sad days"😉

    • @eagle4god373
      @eagle4god373 3 роки тому +4

      @@beatereich5466 True. No body likes it-but it is a part. Don't run from it-learn from it-and-this to shall pass. Don't panic.

    • @chicxulub2947
      @chicxulub2947 2 роки тому

      @@Friederike42 We all know whose fault is about most problems of the world nowadays. Just follow the money.

  • @meuteacher
    @meuteacher 10 місяців тому +4

    This is one of those short videos that we could/should revisit over and over again, to remind ourselves of letting go.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +1

      Wonderful to read that this video has so much value for you.
      There is a second video with Elrieda on our channel, ‘How Are You, Really?’ (ua-cam.com/video/cKu06kdGiC0/v-deo.html). Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @rawganic5183
    @rawganic5183 7 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for whoever is behind this channel. I have watched 3 of your videos in a row… this being number 3 and I feel like I have had an awakening. At 35 years old I lay here a sobbing mess… I have just come to the realization how many years I have wasted just existing. Thank you for providing me with such touching videos to lead me to this moment.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  7 місяців тому +1

      WOW, what a deeply moving message. We're glad to hear that you've found our films, and that these messages resonated so deeply within you. We share a new story every two weeks, so keep tuned in for so much more to come. We send you love and warm hugs. Justine and Michael. x

  • @Nietieismyname
    @Nietieismyname 3 роки тому +126

    Lovely South African accent and scenery. She is so wise.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +4

      @Anita Kruger - And so many other South African voices for you to enjoy in this series!

    • @tjaartesterhuyse7232
      @tjaartesterhuyse7232 3 роки тому +1

      @@ReflectionsofLife Where in SA does she live?

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +1

      @@tjaartesterhuyse7232 She lives in Botriver.

    • @tjaartesterhuyse7232
      @tjaartesterhuyse7232 3 роки тому +1

      @@ReflectionsofLife Wow, thats insane, we actually had a farm there.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +2

      @@tjaartesterhuyse7232 what a great coincidence.

  • @janetbransdon3742
    @janetbransdon3742 3 роки тому +114

    I love you and your attitude... I am 66years old and embarking on the next exciting chapter in my life. Moving to a cottage in the country ... some organic gardening and quail. Greetings from Australia X .🦘🦘🦘

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +4

      @Janet Bransdon - What a great message, and we're sending you love and kind wishes for the new adventures that lie ahead. And keep tuned in here for more inspiration - we've still got so many more stories to share. Justine x

    • @leamic564
      @leamic564 3 роки тому

      The other 99.9% hav no cottage to move too. ...U hav 99.9 easy reasons of ease

    • @farnorthhwy17
      @farnorthhwy17 3 роки тому +3

      I'd love to do the same thing, Janet. Please share how it works out for you. Friend in Canada

    • @sonyaenix2336
      @sonyaenix2336 3 роки тому +1

      @@farnorthhwy17 Hope everything is going well Mary Jane . Would love to see you cottage.

    • @thebeanspwout
      @thebeanspwout 2 роки тому

      All the best to you, Janet! Enjoy!

  • @annburke373
    @annburke373 Рік тому +9

    These people in these videos are priceless; much like all of us are in our true selves. These stories go beyond my ❤️!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      Such a a touching message, thank you Ann. We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel, it's called ‘How Are You, Really?’. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @terryklinger1648
    @terryklinger1648 Рік тому +8

    "Do you see the beauty in it, or do you just exist?" This lady and her message is beauty in itself!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Thank you for your kind words Terry, glad you enjoyed her message. Have you watched the second video with her? It's called ‘How Are You, Really?’. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Kiwiwanderer
    @Kiwiwanderer 3 роки тому +71

    Wow... powerful wisdom from such a humble quiet woman - shes wonderful

  • @TheYazzification
    @TheYazzification 3 роки тому +20

    I was diagnosed with a grade 3 cancer for the second time in March of this year and I have refused all treatment, although I am on a self healing journey at present. Watching people, like the beautiful soul in this video, gives me the inspiration to 'keep on keeping on'...because if she can overcome in the face of adversity...then so can I :-) xxx

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +3

      @TheYazzification - We send you so much healing love on your path to recovery xx

    • @TheYazzification
      @TheYazzification 3 роки тому +2

      @@ReflectionsofLife Bless you...thank you for your kind words and the wonderful messages that you put out to the collective. xxx

    • @Beth-sn9ip
      @Beth-sn9ip 3 роки тому

      Hope you are doing well and finding joy 💓

    • @TheYazzification
      @TheYazzification 3 роки тому

      @@Beth-sn9ip Thank you for your good wishes...god bless you :-) xxx

    • @fambike9670
      @fambike9670 2 роки тому +1

      God bless yes u can ! Inspiration everywhere in this channel loving it❤💯

  • @ditto6330
    @ditto6330 3 роки тому +9

    Stay close to nature It will never fail you!
    Life seems to go smoother when you don't rush it!
    Thanks for sharing!

  • @lesliechristian1941
    @lesliechristian1941 2 роки тому +47

    I discovered this channel a few days ago and immediately became a supporter. The wisdom, kindness, love and understanding that flow is the most healing therapy ever. I love the connection to nature and animals: they all have pets, a garden or a creative outlet. Simply wonderful.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  2 роки тому +1

      Welcome to our channel Leslie, so glad you found us. Thank you too for your support, we appreciate it. We are very happy you enjoy our different videos. There is a second video with Elrieda, ‘How Are You, Really?’. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @awilson5291
    @awilson5291 3 роки тому +63

    Who on earth could dislike such a incredible, moving, beautiful video

  • @basimazaidan
    @basimazaidan 4 роки тому +84

    I watched this video many times and each time it gives me hope. She is a positive beautiful young hearted woman .thank you for all your videos.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  4 роки тому +4

      @basima zaidan - Elrieda is an incredible woman - a beautiful heart and a great attitude to life. Not all times are easy, and she had her share of difficulties, but continues to shine through it all. Thanks for tuning in to watch each of our weekly films - we're working on so many more, to keep tuned in for so much more in the weeks and months ahead. Justine x

    • @thepsychehealer9326
      @thepsychehealer9326 3 роки тому +2

      Yesss thank you so much 4 showing 2 all of us dis incredible piece of life I'm wayy beyond grtful I love u

  • @nehaparmar3544
    @nehaparmar3544 3 роки тому +3

    Nothing superficial in this video .. just depth and beauty

  • @onfireforjesus8374
    @onfireforjesus8374 3 роки тому +17

    This video was very encouraging to me. I am disabled now 8 years and feel as though I have lost all my friends and at times I am alone. But learning many things through this time praise the Lord!

  • @andreamortimer2610
    @andreamortimer2610 3 роки тому +11

    What a beautiful woman: so wise, so much at peace with herself and life 💖
    I think when she says, "Be careful to just exist, that's dangerous!" she's telling all of us that if we don't live in the moment, right here, right now, it'll become the past that we will never be able to recover ...
    I always liked the saying:
    "Yesterday is history,
    Tomorrow is a mystery,
    Today is the present - that's why it's called a GIFT!"

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому

      @Andrea Mortimer - That is a beautiful saying, thanks for sharing 💚

  • @ElsieJoy39
    @ElsieJoy39 3 роки тому +11

    What a wonderful soul you are and I envy you. In the midst of this pandemic, and well over seventy, I find myself existing, life hurts. This pandemic has taught me that people are selfish, at least in England. It is me,me,me all the time with no thought of care for anyone else. Life hurts. Thank you for this short glimpse of a life well lived and full of hope, made me cry.

  • @anjou6497
    @anjou6497 2 роки тому +6

    .." so get angry, but get it out..". So well said, and so hard to do. Her voice is so resonant, so sweet, wiping away tears..What a treasure she is. The filming is so beautiful too. Thank you ! 💜🌱💜🌱✨

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  2 роки тому +1

      You are welcome Anjou, we are so glad you enjoyed listening to her. There is a second video with Elrieda, ‘How Are You, Really?’. We hope you like it too. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @beelittle_4836
    @beelittle_4836 3 роки тому +11

    The lady must be very beautiful when she was young. She is still indeed, with cute smile. I like see her calmness and wisdom as well.

  • @EcoPing_HQ
    @EcoPing_HQ 3 роки тому +63

    Really beautiful video and very inspiring. "Get angry" is great advise. As "it's ok to not be ok" it's also ok to be angry

    • @beatereich5466
      @beatereich5466 3 роки тому +2

      Yes. Angry....crying.....sad......joy.......fun.....fear.......doubts......
      I don' t fight it. I let it BE HERE.....I FEEL it....I eat it up! And breathe...breathe.....it moves....breathe.....moves.....like a Wave.....if I don' t Grap it......it moves.

    • @beatereich5466
      @beatereich5466 3 роки тому +2

      For me us the lost important thing to Trust myself and allow fully what IS HERE ALREADY. No resistance. When I accept then the Situation can change....and offen the Situation does not change but MY PERSPECTTIVE in the Situation.......and gehen I can See more solutions.

    • @raymiebusch4180
      @raymiebusch4180 3 роки тому

      Society shuns anger and you are out casted when you show anger.

  • @carolnorton2551
    @carolnorton2551 3 роки тому +47

    Some people get smarter with age and some get WISE.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому

      @Carol Norton - Beautiful!

    • @eagle4god373
      @eagle4god373 3 роки тому

      I have always said-Age does not automatically equal wisdom. It takes some examination and courage.

    • @whylife-321
      @whylife-321 3 роки тому

      True

  • @fatimaezzahra2496
    @fatimaezzahra2496 3 роки тому +3

    ' Be careful to Just Exist,it's dangerous '
    How powerful this deep phrase on me,how it has effect on my heart and how magically it affect my mind when stuck in in deep depression..Am I really become just Exist?
    Disappointed answer...I hope I would listen to this delightful film that gives me peace and wisdom, I hope I'd have someone like her💙 in my life, She's a Real Mother❤🌸

  • @Aum_shantishantishanti111
    @Aum_shantishantishanti111 3 роки тому +6

    I love seeing the light of knowing in older peoples eyes .

  • @TheOrganicGypsy
    @TheOrganicGypsy 5 років тому +70

    Fantastic!! So beautifully done. The light beams through her hair. Beautiful story and message, it moved my soul.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  5 років тому +2

      Elrieda is a special lady - strong yet gentle at the same time! And we're glad that you enjoyed her story. Stay tuned for so much more to come in the weeks and months ahead, with a new film out every Wednesday.

    • @yasami1
      @yasami1 4 роки тому +3

      ... and through her eyes - love and life - beaming! She reminds me so much on my own Granny.

  • @mahuamajumder3330
    @mahuamajumder3330 3 роки тому +5

    She speaks from her heart . ' Face the life square at the face' and 'Be careful not just to exist'. are heart inspiring.

  • @patriciapankow1774
    @patriciapankow1774 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for recommending. It truly hit home. "Life is not in a box."

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  2 місяці тому

      It's a pleasure. We are glad her message spoke to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @GB-he1zc
    @GB-he1zc 2 роки тому +5

    This lady is so true, so lovely, so calming, like when physical pain is gone that we wish the psychological
    pain would do the same. Thank you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching, we are glad you liked her message. We have a second video with her, ‘How Are You, Really?’. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @kerry-anne39
    @kerry-anne39 3 роки тому +17

    "Just living is not enough....one must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower."🌸by Hans Christian Andersen. Blessings to this lovely lady with the lovely silver hair on this heart-warming video🌠

  • @winnerkimjinusolodebutaug2786
    @winnerkimjinusolodebutaug2786 3 роки тому +17

    "Be careful to just exist. That's dangerous."
    "Be alive"

  • @anjou6497
    @anjou6497 2 роки тому +2

    Her name, Elrieda, like some fairytale...beautiful. 🌷🌱🌻🌾🌱

  • @Vanessa-jr2mb
    @Vanessa-jr2mb 3 роки тому +12

    I don't have anyone to give me these talks. I'm happy I found you and others to fill the void. Thank you UA-cam nana😭✝️💚

    • @Vanessa-jr2mb
      @Vanessa-jr2mb 2 роки тому

      @@deadwendy6870 thank you. You're very sweet. I hope this comment finds you well. Wishing you a fantastic day.

    • @judeirwin2222
      @judeirwin2222 2 роки тому +2

      In Italy some years ago, a lonely older man put an advertisement in a newspaper to ask if anyone had a family without a grandfather, because he hoped to be “adopted”. Family with children but no grandparents approached him, invited him into their circle, and the whole family benefitted. Now, I believe, there are “adopt a granny or grandad” programmed in some countries. But what a brave and wise man he was to make himself vulnerable. To truly love, and to be loved, that is what you must do.

  • @canoslo6126
    @canoslo6126 3 роки тому +18

    This was a great one to watch after yesterday was spent working on a retaining wall garden making us both a bit stiffer than usual this morning! But I am grateful. Only four years ago, I was still very ill, in constant pain, needed help to rise from a chair, and could not walk without assistance. I never knew if I would garden again, much less on a hill! But here I am, and although I am not up to the 8-12 hours working outside that I used to do, I CAN do so much more now than I thought possible.
    That time of nonnegotiable inaction was very difficult, but there were many many gifts!
    When all you can do is sit and watch, you see the world differently than when you are focused only on the next task on your list. You learn to see more clearly what is essential and what is not. Is my life richer for getting one more chore done? Or for taking the time to watch bees and butterflies gathering nectar from beautiful flowers? Do I add a moment to my life by getting done faster? Or by taking the time to soak in another sunset? I have a limited number of them; we all do. Why waste any more of them?

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +1

      @CA Noslo - Powerful comment! Thank you for sharing. And we are so happy to hear that, day by day, you get stronger. Keep the body moving. Sending you much love. x

    • @pjsopinion8028
      @pjsopinion8028 2 роки тому

      Thank you for your response to this video. Your comment moved me almost as much as the video itself. Words to live by. Blessings to you. Love and Light. ❤️🙏🏼

  • @energy_thru_art
    @energy_thru_art 3 роки тому +10

    This is beautiful - in all it depicts. The calming setting, the gentleness, yet strength and youthfulness of the lady speaking, her heart-touching message with such great words of wisdom to all. I just want to hug her so and smell the earth and flowers with her. 💖 Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @vidvictor
    @vidvictor 6 місяців тому +1

    This is beautiful in so many ways…her wisdom, her sweet voice, the photography, the music. Thank you for this. ❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  6 місяців тому

      Our pleasure! So happy you liked so many aspects of the video.
      There is a second video with Elrieda on our channel, ‘How Are You, Really?’ (ua-cam.com/video/cKu06kdGiC0/v-deo.html). We hope it speaks to you as well. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @ditto6330
    @ditto6330 3 роки тому +2

    Oh What a beautiful Woman and a beautiful soul. She has so much Wisdom to share with others.
    She is so full of life and so strong! I know I've learned lots from her already! We never know if we're going to be here tomorrow so today is the day to start on anything that is going to bring you all the Joy and Happiness all the smiles in the World.
    Thanks for sharing!
    What a beautiful story about her life.
    God Bless her heart.
    Thanks for sharing!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you - we have just done a second follow up film which will go live early January I am sure you will love it. Thanks for your kind message.

  • @The72Nana
    @The72Nana 3 роки тому +38

    I want to grow old like you. Such a loving heart.

  • @lindawentink2725
    @lindawentink2725 3 роки тому +21

    "Be able to see beauty in the small things". So true🥰

  • @tieuphungduong641
    @tieuphungduong641 3 роки тому +1

    No words can describe the pain of the mother losing her child.

  • @mikewagenblast8504
    @mikewagenblast8504 3 роки тому +1

    "All in your mind" Precious and treasured. Thank you.

  • @Croaghaun71
    @Croaghaun71 3 роки тому +13

    These films might be the most beautiful I've seen on UA-cam. Excellent idea of making these. Simply wonderful. 🌹

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +2

      @Croaghaun71 - Thanks for your beautiful note, and we're glad that you've found our channel and are enjoying the stories. Keep tuned in - we have so much more to still share. Sending you much love from across the seas in South Africa. Justine x

  • @juliepiemonte1281
    @juliepiemonte1281 3 роки тому +26

    I got very angry after my husband died. I was so angry at God. I threw myself into hard physical work. I'm much more like myself now. I can think clearly again. I don't feel like hiding anymore, but I do love my quiet privacy. I'm at the point where I'm making some connections again and it's not so agonizing. Grief is a cruel irony. It's been two and a half years.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +5

      @Julie Piemonte - Dear Julie. We are so sorry to hear of your husbands death. We send you love and strength, and know that the sun does come out again. We recently shared a story about coping with grief, called 'Through the Storm' - it might help in some small way?! ua-cam.com/video/tB98ldnUcTE/v-deo.html. We send you big hugs, filled with love and kindness. Justine x

    • @juliepiemonte1281
      @juliepiemonte1281 3 роки тому +4

      @@ReflectionsofLife How kind of you. I'll check it out. Thank you!😺

  • @jimsmith9853
    @jimsmith9853 3 роки тому +32

    My Grandparents have been gone for many years now and I find myself desperately needing and trying to recall their advice and words of wisdom on life and its challenges.
    Since I have discovered your channel and videos I have been able to visit with them , and they with me , in a way once again.
    Thank you for the gift you have given me.
    Peace and God bless to you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +2

      @Jim Smith - This is incredibly touching Jim. We are glad that you can find a sense of reconnection and resonance here in these stories. BIG HUGS to you x

    • @chicxulub2947
      @chicxulub2947 2 роки тому +1

      We can learn from them even when they fail...

  • @ritviksandhya7446
    @ritviksandhya7446 3 роки тому +2

    Love u grandma. U r a true inspiration

  • @pallavis6388
    @pallavis6388 3 роки тому +10

    I feel so fortunate to come across this video really...I am.greatful to get such lovely message from this beautiful lady in the video. I feel peace when I was watching n listening to her 😊 Actually we need such people in our lives in our family too! 💖

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому

      @Pallavi S - So glad to hear that Elrieda's story resonated with you. There are many beautiful around us all, every day. That's what we try to show with these films. We've shared over 150 stories so far, so enjoy them all :) And we're working on many more still to share x

  • @feminahlychhochannel
    @feminahlychhochannel 3 роки тому +6

    This is one of the best Channel I've ever come across in my life.
    I'm sure whoever watch videos like these will have their lives changes for the better from realising things we always overlooked.
    Life is a journey, and the journey itself is a home too ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому

      LOVE this - 'the journey itself is a home too'.
      Thanks for sharing these words with us. And so glad that these stories make your heart smile.
      Justine and Michael 💚

  • @melanieazura7720
    @melanieazura7720 3 роки тому +12

    "Will I ever be able to laugh again?" That was the same question that I have when my mother passed away. Home feels like empty now without her. But thanks to this video, gives me some realization that " you shouldn't carry baggage with you". That you'll be okay in time and just trust the process. Just go on with your life. I'm sure my mother don't want to see me get stuck on that part of life. I love your channel, hope to see more beautiful content from you 💕

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +1

      @Psalm's Diary - Sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. But we are glad to hear that Elrieda's story brought you a little bit of comfort. We're working on a follow up story with Elrieda that we'll be sharing in a few weeks time, so keep tuned in x

    • @litelightli2848
      @litelightli2848 2 роки тому

      same so sad when my mother passed away last year

  • @ArunGoelSwaraYogi
    @ArunGoelSwaraYogi 3 роки тому +2

    Let go, even if it is anger. Get angry and let go all of it, so that you don't carry any baggage. Salutations to this brave and marvellous lady.

  • @garrybowers2006
    @garrybowers2006 3 роки тому +112

    I need to learn how to live again .my wife passed away march 4th 2019 been broken since

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +21

      @Garry Bowers - Oh dear Garry. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. Have hope and continue to believe that things will get better. I don't know if it'll help at all, but you might want to watch one of our recent films, called 'Through The Storm' - I hope that it brings you some sense of comfort to know that you are not alone, and that the sun does shine again. ua-cam.com/video/tB98ldnUcTE/v-deo.html. MUCH love to you. 💚

    • @garrybowers2006
      @garrybowers2006 3 роки тому +4

      @@ReflectionsofLife Thank you so much for that totaly understand what every one said 💜💛🧡💚

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +1

      💚

    • @jessicaarancibia6477
      @jessicaarancibia6477 3 роки тому +7

      Be strong Garry, the life is a mysterious ♥️

    • @barriegrubb5682
      @barriegrubb5682 3 роки тому +7

      God bless you dear soul. I am so sorry for your loss. Please stay close to those who are dear, safely.❤🙏

  • @coleenbrotherton
    @coleenbrotherton 6 років тому +24

    Such inspiration from a beautiful soul💞

  • @angelinabiswalo2134
    @angelinabiswalo2134 2 роки тому +2

    I looove this lady. I've lost three important men in my life. My father, my husband, and my son. Each time I did not think I'd ever smile again. But now I do; I recall all their good qualities and the memories we made together; and I smile. Then I say a silence prayer for them and for me.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  2 роки тому

      So sorry to read of your losses dear Angelina. But so special to hear that you are able to smile again - that those precious memories of time spent together, are able to carry you through and bring joy to your heart. We send you love. Justine and Michael 💚

  • @chionun1028
    @chionun1028 3 роки тому +5

    After all ,nothing last forever in this world.even our precious one . we just live our life until the time comes to us.

  • @elainearchibald9020
    @elainearchibald9020 4 роки тому +30

    Beautiful in every way! Surviving the pain of losing a child and continuing on in life with enjoyment!!! TFS

  • @janetscully3337
    @janetscully3337 3 роки тому +3

    Lovely lady. She's privileged to be living in such a beautiful place surrounded by the natural world. I can respect her journey and the pain she encountered.

  • @rizwanashaikh1032
    @rizwanashaikh1032 3 роки тому +5

    Beautiful
    I lost my mom at early age....
    And Lost of loved one makes ur very weak....
    God bless every child and every mom on this earth as its very important ❤❤❤
    Thank u

    • @litelightli2848
      @litelightli2848 3 роки тому

      loss my mother recently difficult for me to accept😪😪😪😪

    • @rizwanashaikh1032
      @rizwanashaikh1032 3 роки тому

      @@litelightli2848
      Trust Allah
      Be strong and remember she is with u always....
      Stay safe

  • @kathypahkala5354
    @kathypahkala5354 3 роки тому +4

    I am adopting this beautiful lady as my virtual Grandma - so peaceful and I love her wisdom

  • @longlost8424
    @longlost8424 3 роки тому +13

    time being a construct of the mind, while all about precious moments of joy, fleetingly pass us all by........ opportunities to feel, to be, are always present to those who choose. always remember that this is your life, no one else's. no one gets to tell you how to live it, no one gets to live it for you.........

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +1

      @Long Lost - Beautifully said!

    • @longlost8424
      @longlost8424 3 роки тому +3

      @@ReflectionsofLife thank you. the back portion (from always remember, down) is from a life discussion with my mother when I was 5, back in 1967. a mantra I've lived my entire life through.......

  • @vanzrealm
    @vanzrealm 3 роки тому +15

    “Be careful to just exist, that’s dangerous”

  • @rojanaa
    @rojanaa 3 роки тому

    I watched it 4 times and shared with all my close colleagues and friends ... how lovely is this beautiful woman

  • @matildahsu4600
    @matildahsu4600 3 роки тому +3

    Sorry to hear her losing her daughter. She is so strong to keep her life moving. No easy to do it.

  • @kimraewonkim1509
    @kimraewonkim1509 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you very much for the beautiful video. Such a inspiring woman. Please do another video on her.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +1

      @Kimraewon Kim - She is definately a REAL inspiration. And great idea - we'll pay her another visit soon and see if we can create another film together :)

    • @cathleen537
      @cathleen537 3 роки тому

      @@ReflectionsofLife Please do. I'm in my mid sixties and have always known I would live a very long life.
      I regularly search for inspirational people who are over seventy in books, films, and online.

  • @nicola5950
    @nicola5950 3 роки тому +3

    Food for the soul. Just beautiful. Thank you!

  • @TheKingbrucus
    @TheKingbrucus 2 місяці тому

    Everytime I feel ready to give up I come to this channels videos… and they always get me grateful and crying . Thank you all so much for these amazing videos and all the love and wisdom you share ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  2 місяці тому +1

      You are most welcome. We are really touched by your message. So glad the videos we share help you when life is not easy. We trust that there will always be the right message for you that encourages you.
      We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel, it's called ‘How Are You, Really?’ (ua-cam.com/video/cKu06kdGiC0/v-deo.html). Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @bettyjean1872
    @bettyjean1872 3 роки тому +3

    Just taking the time to sit on my bed and read this twice... what a message thank you!....Earthing is a big part of her life!....❣

  • @donnawoodford6641
    @donnawoodford6641 3 роки тому +35

    How did we ever think that life was going to the mall shopping?

    • @eagle4god373
      @eagle4god373 3 роки тому +5

      Pretty meaning less. I would rather be digging a hole and planting something.

    • @marleyite
      @marleyite 3 роки тому

      @@eagle4god373 : I would rather watch paint dry.

  • @Amanpreetkaur2295
    @Amanpreetkaur2295 3 роки тому +4

    She said all the things I have reiterated to myself and my friends, and written in my diary for years. To be alive, to live fully and not merely exist, to feel fully, be angry, scream, cry and expand your heart by letting it feel all emotions deeply. To not live life in a box and find magic in the mundane. This video seemed like listening to all my letters to self. :) Thank you for sharing her thoughts. ❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому

      @Amanpreet kaur - So glad that this story found such a deep resonance with your heart. Thank you for taking the time to really appreciate her story x

  • @ALEZANDAR
    @ALEZANDAR 4 місяці тому

    Today the warmth from your touch opened the wounds of my heart like a flower in full bloom, thank you!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience, beautifully written. So grateful her words could touch you so deeply.
      We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel, it's called ‘How Are You, Really?’ (ua-cam.com/video/cKu06kdGiC0/v-deo.html). Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @AbeetSekharV
    @AbeetSekharV 3 роки тому +1

    Just existing is over right now. Thank you 🙏 ❤️

  • @sbrichcreek
    @sbrichcreek 6 років тому +21

    Simply beautiful.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  6 років тому +2

      Glad that you enjoyed it - Elrieda is such a wise soul!

  • @nh7853
    @nh7853 3 роки тому +4

    This lady is so beautiful in so many ways. Even the tough experiences in her life made her heart soft and beautiful. God was simply refining her already beautiful soul. Thank you for this film it made me shed tears and smile at the same time. Much love

  • @birzulapatru4443
    @birzulapatru4443 3 роки тому +1

    I watch this video noe and then,and i would like to meet this gorgeous lady ,and say thanks for giving me so much peaceful and confidence !Thank you from the bottom of my heart beautiful lady whit a child soul!💞

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  3 роки тому +1

      @Birzula PATRU - Thanks for appreciating her story. I'm not sure if you've seen it, but we did a follow up story with Elrieda just a few weeks ago - it's called 'How are you, really?' - check it out on our channel x

  • @FNARMITHAJAYAGOPAL
    @FNARMITHAJAYAGOPAL 3 роки тому +1

    Such a lovely grandma ♥️🌹😊

  • @sara_george
    @sara_george 4 роки тому +10

    How did u ever think of creating such good videos . amazing .I like .so much

  • @sushiandsambar6277
    @sushiandsambar6277 4 роки тому +8

    Thank you for sharing the wonderful messages...

  • @drchabaddelafontaine9304
    @drchabaddelafontaine9304 3 роки тому +2

    Awesome... I am ALIVE and look forward to everyday... Thank you for your goodness and being so real about living in the NOW ❤️ 🙏 😇

  • @jocelynpocdol2888
    @jocelynpocdol2888 3 роки тому +1

    Wow ! Very nice video,I.love her the way she handle her life! I l learned from her .Thanks and God bless 💗💗💗💓🙏