i am a christain and i am dealing with roommates who are disrespectful to me and just are plain out rude or come off smart at me and then i blow up.....please pray for me i really need my Heavenly Father to see me through this
I just did exactly the same thing and completely lost my temper when two girls that live in my house told me to F off when I told them not to park in my space. I'm so angry and upset at myself for not being able to control my temper and for acting in such a foolish way.. I need you Lord X.
" A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger "... Try to be gentle when ever u r tempted to anger in order to avoid further more conflict ... Its ok to take a step back...GOD BLESS YOU
Being angry at family is so complicated because it involves so many years of repressed emotions, but this video has helped me for the here and now and I am very grateful Dmitri, God Bless you
Honestly I think the main thing is praying. You gotta tell God you don't want to feel that way, or act that way. You gotta ask Him to transform you. He's the only one who can properly deal with the matter. Will is important too, of course, but it comes next in line, I think...
Thanks, I will try to pray to him everytime I'm so mad.... I always get random outbursts for no reason... And litteraly break stuff... Im trying di hard to be calm😭😭
I get so angry for everything! Especially towards my strong willed child! She literally just knows what buttons to press! I'm so tired of feeling awful afterwards. I pray I try but the anger just seems to take over
I’ve been praying that God takes my anger away because all I seem to do is fight. God has blessed me many of times to where I could have been in prison and people could have died. Being raised in the hood you channel you anger to control your punches and kiccs but I just want one year where I’m not fighting. Idk I know God will Handel it but please pray for me💙
You are so loved man. I know you've been blessed like me by what you said. So many mistakes but God keeps working all these things for our good. God has an eternity of no fighting prepared for you after this life. But He brings heaven to us even here as well. A whole life full of peace through our ongoing relationship with Jesus. I struggle with anger, especially a season of it right now and its painful. I'll be praying for you and hoping with you for not just a year but the rest of your life with no fighting. No one evil or any evil thing will have victory over you brother. Not if God, me and you have anything to say about it!
1. Take steps against angry actions. 2. Be kind, tenderhearted and forgiving to your angry self ( that has backed into a corner. Love that part of you 3. The way to peace is PEACE. Yes, I like these steps, hard to do when you are in an angry moment. Like you said practice is the key. Thanks for your input and insight.
Summer oh wow I can’t believe I posted this 2 years ago. Don’t do it, don’t seek revenge, it’s not worth it. Revenge ain’t the answer and it ain’t gonna make you feel better. 2 wrongs don’t make a right. An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. This is your choice but I’m just warning you before you regret it.
FeelTheLack Well it has been over a year since I made this comment. I have grown in maturity and at a point I did realize i need to grow up. I can't remember the last time I've thrown something
Deliverence of a spirit of anger repent of it ask God to deliver you!!! .when your strong in the lord ! you may be able to do self deliverence. You Speak to spirit of anger ,tell it to go in the name of Jesus ! When walking right in the Lord.note. Repent of all sin and stay in the word daily.stay away from all evil stuff and people.make up your mind ahead of time you will not get angry. Look at a list of things that make you angry. Make sure your not a rebelious person againest the things of God ?? All this is important....l'll pray for you today... if you are repent.ask GOD to change YoU!!!! Pray the our father daily..... Your in a spiritual war, Gods way wins,all else DEVlL WINs .get tough make up your mind ....
This very helpful. I am having a hard time adjusting to the changes at the hospital with the new workflow, short staff, and increasing patient volume because of this year's COVID 19. I have been finding myself having a daily tirade at work when things go wrong. I am glad I found videos like this for better coping mechanisms. If I am like Peter, I need to focus on Jesus, not the storm, wind, and waves.
Thank you for this teaching. It brought tears to my eyes. The source of my anger towards others IS my anger at myself...for trusting them, for making mistakes, for fear of not being enough, failure, etc. Even when I rail on my kids it is out of fear that I will have failed in raising them right. I love them but I am really angry at me. I feel like I've failed when they are disobedient. I never had parents that love me so I really don't know what it's like to be loved. It's hard raising children when you come from an abusive environment.
Thank you for this. I work in a hospital with a lot of nurse bullies. And I have seen in the past that they have the potential to destroy careers and lives. So I appreciated your point about feeling as though you are backed into a corner. I also liked your point about forgiving. I was always looking at the situation with shame for not having been a "good witness" when I couldn't keep up with their impossible demands and avoid their incessant hostility by working harder. In time, I learned that over 70% of nurses are from dysfunctional and/or abusive backgrounds so those are the coping mechanisms they use on the job. So the idea of forgiving abusive behavior, instead of letting it terrorize me has increased my peace, and I am hoping it will help change my response to the bullying. I've always tried to maintain self control of my anger, but it seemed to get rerouted into uncontrollable tears (even on the job, even in front of my boss), which then made me feel ashamed. So your point about forgiveness seems to have given me new hope. Forgiving the nurse bullies because they probably came from an abusive background, as well as forgiving myself for not being able to perform so well (be a "good witness" and glorify God), that I can avoid their attacks. You may have shown me another way to "overcome evil with good". Thank you!
This is so good and inspiring. It made me think that also showing something that one isnt really feeling is to lie. Thank you very much and wish a nice day
I seriously need this, I sadly have good memory and problems with anger, I did stop once talking to my younger sister, my own younger daughter and almost I ruin everything with my older sister when she became friend with someone I absolutely dislike despite she told me that does not change the fact that she is my sister and she loves me, my wife had to talk to me after I crushed my sandbag now I feel grateful with my wife for that but the cold in my heart after the heat no matter how justifiable it was is painful, I need to bring more of God’s love in my life by all means
I've always have had a heart of gold...that will help anybody...BUT I HATE I get so angry....about anything...I'm going practice being MORE KIND🤞🏽❤🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐
God will work with you. You are a new creation. I'm dealing with the same thing. Just the thought of you wanting to not be like that shows you are wanting to be different. I'll say a prayer for you do same for me!
This is very helpful. The only other things I would add is that we should pray and ask God to heal our hearts. Singing a chorus or a hymn is always helpful too. Take a bath or a shower. Do some exercise.
Thank you for this. I needed that right at this juncture. It makes so much sense vs the new age hooey most people tell you do to when anger strikes lol. Thank you again.
I love your calm demeanor, this is helping my feel less stressed. My question to you is do you take your own advice? And I don't mean that in a rude way. Thanks so much for this positive video, God bless.
I Want the D After Marriage He cannot have that nerved to tell if he don't applied it... i'm Thankful he is an example to us human that there is hope... a hope to change if you humbled yourself to ＪＥＳＵＳ...and learning to depend in Him and not to yourself.
I'm very angry about something right now but honestly telling me "oh Jesus doesn't want you to be angry be happy" doesn't help anyone I'll just pray Jesus works better. Not one preacher or my brothers and sisters in Christ gives me an answer beside don't be angry
This topic is especially important and exceedingly underemphasized today. Here is another great sermon on the topic (Jon Courson preaching from Numbers 27). Jon is illustrating that anger is what cost Moses his opportunity to enter the promised land, and how anger is a symptom of a polluted heart. An angry Christian misrepresents God. Hurting someone with angry words is equivalent to murder in God's sight: ua-cam.com/video/aQ7THmKXpPQ/v-deo.html
I forgive everyone. I Got Human feelings of dissapointnent, Sadness ir anger, but i forgive always. My problem is not forgiving others or hold grudges, my problem is forgiving myself when i dissapoint the Lord, myself or those i Care for. That is really hard, and that hate Can manifest into anger.
There is a time to be angry. Jesus was angry over hypocrisy and injustice. To be at peace with evil is to agree with evil. It can actually be a sin to NOT be angry in certain circumstances.
yes I agree with u michael that is righteous anger. anger not for self but anger because the actions the people did was dishonouring God in Matthew 21:12
How about the time when the money changers were in Jesus' father's house or the temple, so he came in with anger and knock over the tables, whip people out of the place. He did this because he found great disrespect in their actions, and he said you will not turn my father's house into a den of thieves. Jesus was very justly right in his actions toward them in their way they were acting.
I don't realize how people like my children, my husband and even family members are being rude, mean and down right evil to me most of the time until it's too late. They tend to take advantage of me and disrespect me and when they're at it around round 4 or 5 I may explode or just lash out. I've prayed my heart out. I've pleaded with God, I've asked God to help me be kind, humble, patient, forgiving and void of pride for decades. I've gone to counseling, I've read scripture, I've listened to Christian audios and UA-cam Christan videos to no avail. The ones who I love the most are the ones who hurt me the most hence the ones I lash out to the most. My hurt, my anger and my pride get in the way when my family is being mean, rude and disrespectful to me. In the heat of the moment I forget or I can't seem to find calmness and patience and my pride stands bigger and taller against my will. Sometimes I think that I'll never change and that I'm not destined to heaven because there is no change in me. 💔 P.s I wish this video would talk about or explain how to handle anger at the moment or in the heat of the moment. Like what should I respond to a deliberate mean comment from a disrespectful daughter in the very moment she is being mean on purpose because she enjoys to see me fall, be weak and get angry to later talk about how mean I am and how much I need help. What to do in that very moment?
this video came at a good time for myself those 3 things i know i have bt like everybody else who isnt perfect i dropped the ball and saw red! i often wonder off alone with out god and i know its a bad practice i need to stop right now coz it wouldnt of happend otherwise thankyou for sharing this post i have been so selfish in my own ways and terrible to family members who didnt diserve the nasty things ive said i live god and always have i slipped up and im repenting for that this helped thank u
Thank you so much for this video. Watching this video made me feel a little bit at peace. I have to forgive myself and show myself the love of Jesus before I do that for everyone else. I think that too much of the time we give and give to others and not to ourselves and not to God.... deep...
I have been suppressing so much anger during my pregnancy. Everyone has taken out their stress on me and are only focusing on their own needs. I expect little, and have been trying to be patient, kind, understanding, and just want people to leave me alone if you are not in a good headspace- but they can’t even do that. I’m vulnerable and feel exhausted... trying to do the right thing, but I’m burning in side, please pray for me!
I was punching a wall earlier. Couldn't control my anger whatsoever. Seems like my thoughts have built up over the course of many years causing me to expel what I had growing inside.
As a HUMAN we have anger ... it’s what we do with it that matters but don’t be a door mat sometimes your wrath is what’s needed don’t let people keep trying u like a sample show them your a full course meal
I seem to be in constant anger recently, though, notedly, it's always been a problem I've attempted to suppress. Just now, it seems God is allowing it to surface that I finally have to face up to it. Doctors prescribed me antidepressants 20 years ago for anger and I am better on them than off, only I feel no other emotions, not sad, but not happy. Just yesterday I began to question God, whether He can even assist me whilst I am without emotion. I am constantly saying that I repent, only to be followed by another outburst of cuss words, I remind myself of my mother who was a foul mouthed lunatic when I was growing up, I've worried that, like her, I'll have to wait for the aging process to mellow me down. I hate myself, but again, cannot feel or express it. I hope God will speak if He needs me to come off Prozac, but, so far, nothing. I have halved my dose and am pretty much in constant prayer, I even dreamt the night before last, after yelling a profanity in my dream, someone said, "that is the only language you understand." It has really gotten beyond my own control that I'm uncertain your method would be possible for me, then again, there may be a reason your video was on my feed. Surely He knows that I surrender, even when my heart and emotions appear to be hardened. I know there is no hope for me without Him and believe I've given up "trying"..
This might help people that don’t have deep rooted repressed anger from childhood. I need God’s help and guidance to get to the root and get it out and be healed. First step is recognizing it....I have been pushing it down for so long I didn’t even know how much was in there.
While at work, I have one speed. I work until there is no more work to do. I see other people taking advantage of me, and they will leave work for me and act like they never saw the not so fun part of our job. I struggle to stay positive and happy like I am when everyone is doing their share and pulling their own weight. I feel guilty because I want to love everyone and share the light of Jesus but I feel like I don't represent him well when I'm throwing things around. Everyone here at my workplace is 10+ years older than me, I'm only 21, so they don't think anything I have to say is worth listening to. I've told my manager but it seems to get worse after. I've come real close to showing them how much work I do by quiting on the spot but I know that will only hurt myself.
This video is especially timely. I was just told by someone that they were ignoring my calls because of how demanding I was, and I didn’t even realize it. I feel like such a bad person and a bad Christian. I know God loves me but I can’t seem to be able to love me
Matthew Billings that would depend on your reasons for wanting to do so. I.e. if you want better health, then no. If you want to be attractive to your spouse (husband/ wife) and are doing to please them no. If you want others to praise you for your good looks or to get laid yes. It is all about motive. Have a blessed day.
Nice video Dmitri! Definitely gonna try this. I have a question though...what if someone close has that issue too and they’re always pushing your buttons and lashing out for anything big or small? I can’t have a normal conversation with them without them getting mad about something I have kept my distance to the point where I don’t talk to them. In the past I’ve forgiven them and they said they were gonna try to change but it didn’t last
I'm in the military. In my career field people are horrible. I always try to treat even the worst people in my job like I would my own family. It has gone to exhaust me mentally. I have all but given up on these Godless, selfish, horrible people. I am honestly very close to losing my mind on them. What do I do? This struggle is literally killing me mentally
Lately, I've been having anger issues and I've been upset and having bad days, I feel like I did something really bad and I want to get closer to God and Jesus, can anyone help please?
I'm boiling inside, family together but my home is not worthy of visiting. It's days of going to the other 2 kids houses, but I guess my house is too beneath them. Even though they come here and store their crap on my property, still don't even come to my house. And they act mad at ME I'm broken over it.
I am not quick tempered but I just don't want to feel angry when I deal with people talking mess about me in front of me. I don't need to worry about angry actions because God FORCIBLY shuts my mouth when I got comebacks and weakens my arms when I'm in a physical fight. I just don't want to feel offended anymore when I go through conflicts. No parezco como una mexicana pero yo sé bastante a hablar con gente quién no habla inglés. Soy morena (negra)
Lately I've been getting angry for everything, I really need God's help
paulette Hernandez repent for being angry is all you need he will forgive you ❤️❤️❤️ ask for his guidance
if only he existed :/
@@JustLeonOfficial he does exist
Life Of Lypo he does
same
I’m angry at how easily angry I get
Same 😔
Me too
Same here and at this very moment I'm feeling angry. It's so hard to shake
i am a christain and i am dealing with roommates who are disrespectful to me and just are plain out rude or come off smart at me and then i blow up.....please pray for me i really need my Heavenly Father to see me through this
Amen.
I'll be praying for I understand, God's grace is good I pray for you and I may be filled with the Holy Spirit everytime we are angry.
You'll get through it, it's not easy but you could work something out. Prayer will lead to a progress and even a solution.
i am in the same situation😢😢😢
I just did exactly the same thing and completely lost my temper when two girls that live in my house told me to F off when I told them not to park in my space. I'm so angry and upset at myself for not being able to control my temper and for acting in such a foolish way.. I need you Lord X.
" A gentle answer turns away wrath,
But a harsh word stirs up anger "...
Try to be gentle when ever u r tempted to anger in order to avoid further more conflict ...
Its ok to take a step back...GOD BLESS YOU
That’s exactly what triggers me to become angry. When I receive a harsh answer it lowers my self esteem, making me bitter and sad.
I've been surrounded by foolish people, it's extremely hard to live in peace and not be angry. Pray for me so that I can escape this trap!
we do our part to stop being angry. but God through us is what truly gets rid of all anger and bitterness
Troy Bremer no one gives a single shit
Harmer The Inkling calm down
@@harmergames647 I do, calm down
Chinwe Ibe nigga that was 2 years ago stfu 😂😂😂
@@harmergames647 no kid. Calm down.
Being angry at family is so complicated because it involves so many years of repressed emotions, but this video has helped me for the here and now and I am very grateful Dmitri, God Bless you
Im know what you are feeling. I feel like crap and on top of it i patiently listen to my mother yelling at me and bossing me and im 26.
Honestly I think the main thing is praying. You gotta tell God you don't want to feel that way, or act that way. You gotta ask Him to transform you. He's the only one who can properly deal with the matter. Will is important too, of course, but it comes next in line, I think...
Thanks, I will try to pray to him everytime I'm so mad.... I always get random outbursts for no reason... And litteraly break stuff... Im trying di hard to be calm😭😭
✨"Let me wrap the arms of my heart around you"✨. Such golden words🤗. We should be kind to ourselves so that we can implement that behavior to others❗
I get so angry for everything! Especially towards my strong willed child! She literally just knows what buttons to press! I'm so tired of feeling awful afterwards. I pray I try but the anger just seems to take over
I’ve been praying that God takes my anger away because all I seem to do is fight. God has blessed me many of times to where I could have been in prison and people could have died. Being raised in the hood you channel you anger to control your punches and kiccs but I just want one year where I’m not fighting. Idk I know God will Handel it but please pray for me💙
You are so loved man. I know you've been blessed like me by what you said. So many mistakes but God keeps working all these things for our good. God has an eternity of no fighting prepared for you after this life. But He brings heaven to us even here as well. A whole life full of peace through our ongoing relationship with Jesus. I struggle with anger, especially a season of it right now and its painful. I'll be praying for you and hoping with you for not just a year but the rest of your life with no fighting. No one evil or any evil thing will have victory over you brother. Not if God, me and you have anything to say about it!
I am not a Christian but I love Jesus and this video has helped me a lot
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Anupama Sahoo Where do baby’s come from mommy? Why do I hear noises from your bedroom? Mommy sometimes you scare me 😢. Hug me!!!
Anupama I pray you become converted and not just love Jesus butax accept him into your life, amen.
1. Take steps against angry actions.
2. Be kind, tenderhearted and forgiving to your angry self ( that has backed into a corner. Love that part of you
3. The way to peace is PEACE.
Yes, I like these steps, hard to do when you are in an angry moment. Like you said practice is the key.
Thanks for your input and insight.
I really got serious anger issues. When I’m angry I feel like I want to throw things, or hit someone, or get revenge.
Let go angers cut the ties that bind u
Summer oh wow I can’t believe I posted this 2 years ago. Don’t do it, don’t seek revenge, it’s not worth it. Revenge ain’t the answer and it ain’t gonna make you feel better. 2 wrongs don’t make a right. An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. This is your choice but I’m just warning you before you regret it.
Summer that’s what I usually do when I’m upset. I still got anger issues but I learned how to prevent myself from getting angry.
Same here. It really sucks, plus It's a horrible feeling.
😂 me too omg
I have anger problems, when I get mad I snap and start throwing and breaking things it sucks.
Those thoughts to break n smash sometimes come from the enemy. They're telling you to do those things. So next time rebuke the enemy.
Throwing and breaking things when angry comes from immaturity.
FeelTheLack Well it has been over a year since I made this comment. I have grown in maturity and at a point I did realize i need to grow up. I can't remember the last time I've thrown something
Good on you guy! Hope you've also learned that it wasn't caused by some "enemy" but yourself.
Deliverence of a spirit of anger repent of it ask God to deliver you!!!
.when your strong in the lord ! you may be able to do self deliverence.
You Speak to spirit of anger ,tell it to go in the name of Jesus ! When walking right in the Lord.note.
Repent of all sin and stay in the word daily.stay away from all evil stuff and people.make up your mind ahead of time you will not get angry. Look at a list of things that make you angry. Make sure your not a rebelious person againest the things of God ?? All this is important....l'll pray for you today...
if you are repent.ask GOD to change YoU!!!! Pray the our father daily.....
Your in a spiritual war, Gods way wins,all else DEVlL WINs .get tough make up your mind ....
This very helpful. I am having a hard time adjusting to the changes at the hospital with the new workflow, short staff, and increasing patient volume because of this year's COVID 19. I have been finding myself having a daily tirade at work when things go wrong. I am glad I found videos like this for better coping mechanisms. If I am like Peter, I need to focus on Jesus, not the storm, wind, and waves.
I have such a hard time forgiving myself and other people who deliberately hurt me :( I'm trying to learn. Thank you
Thank you for this teaching. It brought tears to my eyes. The source of my anger towards others IS my anger at myself...for trusting them, for making mistakes, for fear of not being enough, failure, etc.
Even when I rail on my kids it is out of fear that I will have failed in raising them right. I love them but I am really angry at me. I feel like I've failed when they are disobedient.
I never had parents that love me so I really don't know what it's like to be loved. It's hard raising children when you come from an abusive environment.
Thank you for this. I work in a hospital with a lot of nurse bullies. And I have seen in the past that they have the potential to destroy careers and lives. So I appreciated your point about feeling as though you are backed into a corner. I also liked your point about forgiving. I was always looking at the situation with shame for not having been a "good witness" when I couldn't keep up with their impossible demands and avoid their incessant hostility by working harder. In time, I learned that over 70% of nurses are from dysfunctional and/or abusive backgrounds so those are the coping mechanisms they use on the job. So the idea of forgiving abusive behavior, instead of letting it terrorize me has increased my peace, and I am hoping it will help change my response to the bullying. I've always tried to maintain self control of my anger, but it seemed to get rerouted into uncontrollable tears (even on the job, even in front of my boss), which then made me feel ashamed. So your point about forgiveness seems to have given me new hope. Forgiving the nurse bullies because they probably came from an abusive background, as well as forgiving myself for not being able to perform so well (be a "good witness" and glorify God), that I can avoid their attacks. You may have shown me another way to "overcome evil with good". Thank you!
God bless you!
Thank you so much for this short but powerful message!! I can't wait to share it with my students
Thank you for making this video, I can’t tell you how much it has helped me
This is exactly what I needed right now. Great video! Thank you!
Thank you for simple and loving message.
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Thank you, your video gave me a better understanding and wiser way of handling my temper.
Thank you so much....I soooooo needed this wisdom.
The cure to bitterness is forgiveness
This is so good and inspiring.
It made me think that also showing something that one isnt really feeling is to lie.
Thank you very much and wish a nice day
I seriously need this, I sadly have good memory and problems with anger, I did stop once talking to my younger sister, my own younger daughter and almost I ruin everything with my older sister when she became friend with someone I absolutely dislike despite she told me that does not change the fact that she is my sister and she loves me, my wife had to talk to me after I crushed my sandbag now I feel grateful with my wife for that but the cold in my heart after the heat no matter how justifiable it was is painful, I need to bring more of God’s love in my life by all means
I want to feel better and never get angry again this will help thank you.
I've always have had a heart of gold...that will help anybody...BUT I HATE I get so angry....about anything...I'm going practice being MORE KIND🤞🏽❤🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐
I'm just always angry from when I wake to when I go to bed and it's so frustrating I don't know what to do
God will work with you. You are a new creation. I'm dealing with the same thing. Just the thought of you wanting to not be like that shows you are wanting to be different. I'll say a prayer for you do same for me!
This is very helpful. The only other things I would add is that we should pray and ask God to heal our hearts. Singing a chorus or a hymn is always helpful too. Take a bath or a shower. Do some exercise.
Thank you a lot for the ways I can handle my anger
Thank you for this. I needed that right at this juncture. It makes so much sense vs the new age hooey most people tell you do to when anger strikes lol. Thank you again.
Thank you
i was so angry at myself just now
I love your calm demeanor, this is helping my feel less stressed. My question to you is do you take your own advice? And I don't mean that in a rude way. Thanks so much for this positive video, God bless.
I Want the D After Marriage
He cannot have that nerved to tell if he don't applied it... i'm Thankful he is an example to us human that there is hope... a hope to change if you humbled yourself to ＪＥＳＵＳ...and learning to depend in Him and not to yourself.
I’m Christian but this video frustrated me even more.
I'm very angry about something right now but honestly telling me "oh Jesus doesn't want you to be angry be happy" doesn't help anyone I'll just pray Jesus works better. Not one preacher or my brothers and sisters in Christ gives me an answer beside don't be angry
it might be very bad but scriptures about God getting revenge works better
im very sorry if I sounded angry im ok now I read Romans 12:19
This topic is especially important and exceedingly underemphasized today. Here is another great sermon on the topic (Jon Courson preaching from Numbers 27). Jon is illustrating that anger is what cost Moses his opportunity to enter the promised land, and how anger is a symptom of a polluted heart. An angry Christian misrepresents God. Hurting someone with angry words is equivalent to murder in God's sight: ua-cam.com/video/aQ7THmKXpPQ/v-deo.html
Thank you and God bless❤️
Thank you for many things about and in this video.
Good word brother. Right on time for me.
This is a very helpful and amazing video! God bless!
I forgive everyone. I Got Human feelings of dissapointnent, Sadness ir anger, but i forgive always.
My problem is not forgiving others or hold grudges, my problem is forgiving myself when i dissapoint the Lord, myself or those i Care for.
That is really hard, and that hate Can manifest into anger.
Thank you so much Uncle!
Thank you!!! 🙏🏻🙌🏻🕊
He who is slow to anger
is better than the mighty,
he who rules his [own]
spirit than he who takes a city.
- Proverbs 16:32
There is a time to be angry. Jesus was angry over hypocrisy and injustice. To be at peace with evil is to agree with evil. It can actually be a sin to NOT be angry in certain circumstances.
What jesus did was just anger
yes I agree with u michael that is righteous anger. anger not for self but anger because the actions the people did was dishonouring God in Matthew 21:12
How about the time when the money changers were in Jesus' father's house or the temple, so he came in with anger and knock over the tables, whip people out of the place. He did this because he found great disrespect in their actions, and he said you will not turn my father's house into a den of thieves. Jesus was very justly right in his actions toward them in their way they were acting.
I don't realize how people like my children, my husband and even family members are being rude, mean and down right evil to me most of the time until it's too late. They tend to take advantage of me and disrespect me and when they're at it around round 4 or 5 I may explode or just lash out. I've prayed my heart out. I've pleaded with God, I've asked God to help me be kind, humble, patient, forgiving and void of pride for decades. I've gone to counseling, I've read scripture, I've listened to Christian audios and UA-cam Christan videos to no avail. The ones who I love the most are the ones who hurt me the most hence the ones I lash out to the most. My hurt, my anger and my pride get in the way when my family is being mean, rude and disrespectful to me. In the heat of the moment I forget or I can't seem to find calmness and patience and my pride stands bigger and taller against my will. Sometimes I think that I'll never change and that I'm not destined to heaven because there is no change in me. 💔
P.s I wish this video would talk about or explain how to handle anger at the moment or in the heat of the moment. Like what should I respond to a deliberate mean comment from a disrespectful daughter in the very moment she is being mean on purpose because she enjoys to see me fall, be weak and get angry to later talk about how mean I am and how much I need help. What to do in that very moment?
If you are so triggered just walk away.
I advice you pray to Jesus to ask Him to help another angry argument with a loved one.
Pray ahead of time and often.
This would be a nice video for my boss, though it can apply to every one as well.
this video came at a good time for myself those 3 things i know i have bt like everybody else who isnt perfect i dropped the ball and saw red! i often wonder off alone with out god and i know its a bad practice i need to stop right now coz it wouldnt of happend otherwise thankyou for sharing this post i have been so selfish in my own ways and terrible to family members who didnt diserve the nasty things ive said i live god and always have i slipped up and im repenting for that this helped thank u
God is by far more of a better man than I am.
Thank you so much for this video. Those advices will surely help us a lot
May God bless you !
if only he existed lol
Thank you so much for this video. Watching this video made me feel a little bit at peace. I have to forgive myself and show myself the love of Jesus before I do that for everyone else. I think that too much of the time we give and give to others and not to ourselves and not to God.... deep...
Shaylah M. God doesn't exist
Harmer That is a bold claim, can you prove it?
JimmyJam he really ghosted 2 years ago lol, we all know Gods real
I have been suppressing so much anger during my pregnancy. Everyone has taken out their stress on me and are only focusing on their own needs. I expect little, and have been trying to be patient, kind, understanding, and just want people to leave me alone if you are not in a good headspace- but they can’t even do that. I’m vulnerable and feel exhausted... trying to do the right thing, but I’m burning in side, please pray for me!
I was punching a wall earlier. Couldn't control my anger whatsoever. Seems like my thoughts have built up over the course of many years causing me to expel what I had growing inside.
Im a Christian and i got angry all the time the worst thing is i cant control anger . Thank you for this
The way to peace is peace...... ✌
Thank you for this
As a HUMAN we have anger ... it’s what we do with it that matters but don’t be a door mat sometimes your wrath is what’s needed don’t let people keep trying u like a sample show them your a full course meal
I seem to be in constant anger recently, though, notedly, it's always been a problem I've attempted to suppress. Just now, it seems God is allowing it to surface that I finally have to face up to it. Doctors prescribed me antidepressants 20 years ago for anger and I am better on them than off, only I feel no other emotions, not sad, but not happy. Just yesterday I began to question God, whether He can even assist me whilst I am without emotion. I am constantly saying that I repent, only to be followed by another outburst of cuss words, I remind myself of my mother who was a foul mouthed lunatic when I was growing up, I've worried that, like her, I'll have to wait for the aging process to mellow me down. I hate myself, but again, cannot feel or express it. I hope God will speak if He needs me to come off Prozac, but, so far, nothing. I have halved my dose and am pretty much in constant prayer, I even dreamt the night before last, after yelling a profanity in my dream, someone said, "that is the only language you understand." It has really gotten beyond my own control that I'm uncertain your method would be possible for me, then again, there may be a reason your video was on my feed. Surely He knows that I surrender, even when my heart and emotions appear to be hardened. I know there is no hope for me without Him and believe I've given up "trying"..
Five months later, nothing has changed except I've stopped using Prozac. I have a demon, I feel it moving in my stomach.
Freedom in Christ Grandma how dare you steal money from me. Now go buy me new makeup 💄.
thank you i feel like this helped 🙏🏾
This might help people that don’t have deep rooted repressed anger from childhood. I need God’s help and guidance to get to the root and get it out and be healed. First step is recognizing it....I have been pushing it down for so long I didn’t even know how much was in there.
Many need deliverance for a spirit of anger
What helps is to give your problem to God know that God will deal with it .
Thanks you sir.
Just broke a window because of anger:( GOD HELP ME
Did He?
I often get angry with my husband and we get to exchange words and also action but than at the end we sit down and ask forgiveness from each other
asena Weleilakeba Sam idk why you love Danny sooo much. He cheated on his boyfriend.
Guess why I am here. 😁
Please pray for me to rid myself of anger and past trauma.
Amen thank you💕
This is very good
If you expect God to forgive you then you have to be able to forgive others
While at work, I have one speed. I work until there is no more work to do. I see other people taking advantage of me, and they will leave work for me and act like they never saw the not so fun part of our job. I struggle to stay positive and happy like I am when everyone is doing their share and pulling their own weight. I feel guilty because I want to love everyone and share the light of Jesus but I feel like I don't represent him well when I'm throwing things around. Everyone here at my workplace is 10+ years older than me, I'm only 21, so they don't think anything I have to say is worth listening to. I've told my manager but it seems to get worse after. I've come real close to showing them how much work I do by quiting on the spot but I know that will only hurt myself.
Hi, How are you doing in your work situation? Is it the same?
Very good
Thank you 👼godbless
Prayer Warrior Eric you’re sooo silly. You don’t cook chicken 🐔 with your feet’s XD.
Thank you dimitri
Thank you this makes so much sense.
Mandi Wolf Grandma I’m hungry. Go make me a burger 🍔 and buy some chocolates while you at it. Thank ❤️.
My family and exams push me to be not okey these days especially. Thanks god for eveything.
Thank you!
Thanks for posting this, I just blew up at my wife, but this time just flew off the handle, ugh I feel so bad about it...
Don Stevens No love isn’t easy. Who told you that?
Thank you this helped me so much
Thank you so much
Venting is the key for me.but how eho and where to do it is still confusing.
So when my father is yelling at me of anger what do i do. And when my parents fight each other what do i do?
This video is especially timely. I was just told by someone that they were ignoring my calls because of how demanding I was, and I didn’t even realize it. I feel like such a bad person and a bad Christian. I know God loves me but I can’t seem to be able to love me
Very good!
April Mom I don’t want to go to school. It boring and my teachers are all crazy.
Im feeling anger,frustration,hatred Im letting God knows cuz honestly I dont know how to stop it.
Thank YOU FATHER GOD
this don't help I've never been so angry but that's that
Thank you so much you helped me
Thanx a lot😊
I have a question..is wanting to build muscle and be in shape considered being vain?
Matthew Billings that would depend on your reasons for wanting to do so. I.e. if you want better health, then no. If you want to be attractive to your spouse (husband/ wife) and are doing to please them no. If you want others to praise you for your good looks or to get laid yes. It is all about motive. Have a blessed day.
Nice video Dmitri! Definitely gonna try this. I have a question though...what if someone close has that issue too and they’re always pushing your buttons and lashing out for anything big or small? I can’t have a normal conversation with them without them getting mad about something
I have kept my distance to the point where I don’t talk to them. In the past I’ve forgiven them and they said they were gonna try to change but it didn’t last
I'm in the military. In my career field people are horrible. I always try to treat even the worst people in my job like I would my own family. It has gone to exhaust me mentally. I have all but given up on these Godless, selfish, horrible people. I am honestly very close to losing my mind on them. What do I do? This struggle is literally killing me mentally
i'm always get anger with no reasons :< i'm overreacting about everything pleasss pray for me
Lately, I've been having anger issues and I've been upset and having bad days, I feel like I did something really bad and I want to get closer to God and Jesus, can anyone help please?
Please pray for me and my family.
Thank you!! :)
I'm boiling inside, family together but my home is not worthy of visiting. It's days of going to the other 2 kids houses, but I guess my house is too beneath them. Even though they come here and store their crap on my property, still don't even come to my house. And they act mad at ME I'm broken over it.
I am not quick tempered but I just don't want to feel angry when I deal with people talking mess about me in front of me. I don't need to worry about angry actions because God FORCIBLY shuts my mouth when I got comebacks and weakens my arms when I'm in a physical fight.
I just don't want to feel offended anymore when I go through conflicts.
No parezco como una mexicana pero yo sé bastante a hablar con gente quién no habla inglés. Soy morena (negra)