The Disturbing Story of Melinda Pleskovic

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  • The Disturbing Story of Melinda Pleskovic
    It began like a plot from a horror film, with masked men peering through the windows of an ordinary suburban house and the chilling sound of door handles being turned in the night. Then, right on script, the strange occurrences that terrorised a Strongsville family from 2016 to 2017 culminated with a horrific stabbing murder in the kitchen of the family home - and a twist so shocking not even those closest to the family believed it to be true.
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  • @nitzalampaskis1763
    @nitzalampaskis1763 2 роки тому +897

    Out of all the 911 call snippets I have ever listened to, the operator in the beginning is the most empathic one I've heard so far.

    • @charlisays
      @charlisays 2 роки тому +65

      I thought the same. She was empathetic but also very thorough.

    • @inthelandofmorethansmall7582
      @inthelandofmorethansmall7582 2 роки тому +79

      @@charlisays I agree...
      The 2nd 911 Dispatcher, the one to speak with Bruce, did NOT seem empathetic. Not at all. Not even a lil compassionate or even sympathetic..
      I understand they have to distance themselves, but its commonly known in the Healthcare field that 'they don't care how much you know until they know how much you care' .
      I'm an RN and we have empathy, sympathy, compassion, rapport, therapeutic communication, etc... all shoved down our throats the entire time we're in school.
      I used to be an EMT and it was the same thing - the best way to avoid a lawsuit is to be kind and, if it doesn't come naturally to you, then you must create
      a decent bed side manner.
      IMO, if a medical professional has that much trouble relating to the patient or their family, if they can not seem to muster up even the minimal compassion necessary to be in that field, then he or she has no business there and should find another job.
      So when I hear

    • @inthelandofmorethansmall7582
      @inthelandofmorethansmall7582 2 роки тому +8

      But I have some questions. .
      Why didn't Bruce or Mel see red flags when Jeff was easily angered? Sent random texts? Casually texted about jacking off?
      Why did they allow such an angry person to live in their home?
      Why couldn't Bruce complete even one sentence during his interrogation? I understand he didn't do it and that he was prob in shock, but usually the interrogator will try to calm down the person acting this way. It's best to understand what they are trying to say (especially for a legal investgation). So why didn't the interrogator at least TRY to redirect Bruce or Jeff when they went off on nonsensical tangents?
      Idk, I try to put myself in the others shoes so that I may look at the situation from their eyes but in this case,, I'm struggling.
      And that says alot for me! Over and 9ver again, maybe hundreds of times throughout my life, I've been told I'm the most Empathetic, Compassionate, Considerate, Non-judgmental person that most ppl have ever met. But I admit I'm having some difficulty here.
      I'm not judging Bruce here, but I guess I am judging Jeff and the investigators.

    • @LiveFreeOrDie2A
      @LiveFreeOrDie2A 2 роки тому +48

      I’m not sure if I’m alone on this.. but, I’ve never read two people more wrong than I did Jeff/Bruce immediately after hearing their contrasting 911 calls back-to-back. Jeff seemed shaken up, cooperative, and genuine.. Bruce seemed performative, uncooperative/combative, and genuinely shady as hell calling 911 TWICE simply to bitch out the operator about local law enforcement, while totally disinterested in the active emergency response or at attempting potentially lifesaving CPR. This was definitely a reality gut check!

    • @7Mushrooms7
      @7Mushrooms7 2 роки тому +24

      @@LiveFreeOrDie2A same here. I hadn't heard this case before hearing the 911 call and the only clue I had that it was Jeff was that his pic looked like a mugshot. I thought Bruce sounded off too and that Jeff was genuinely in panic and trying to save Melinda. This is proof that every individual reacts different and we can't judge a book by its cover. Some people will be numbed by calmness when in big stress situations and some people will fake distress and act the part very well.

  • @sineadcampbell5147
    @sineadcampbell5147 2 роки тому +3065

    To hear that their son sat her funeral looking out the window waiting for his Mum to arrive is utterly heartbreaking. Such a sad story.

    • @Lizzyjaeger
      @Lizzyjaeger 2 роки тому +24

      🥺🥺🥺

    • @TheNeecyWhoCrochets
      @TheNeecyWhoCrochets 2 роки тому +41

      I cried reading your comment. 🥺🥺🥺🥺💔💔💔💔

    • @jackiescorpio6359
      @jackiescorpio6359 2 роки тому +53

      That totally broke my heart as well. How cruel, and callous and self-centered he is

    • @sineadcampbell5147
      @sineadcampbell5147 2 роки тому +50

      @@TheNeecyWhoCrochets it really is one of those "knot in the pit of your stomach" moments. His innocent lack of understanding makes it unbearable.

    • @pinkfluffydino8217
      @pinkfluffydino8217 2 роки тому +60

      I just pray that he’s eventually able to understand enough to know that if she could be there with him she would be and that she hasn’t just abandoned him! The way Jeff mistreated this kid the whole time he knew him just infuriates me to no end! In one of his interrogations he says Kyle never listened to him and he always had to just grab Kyle by the neck and make him do what he said. What a piece of sh*t! Kyle doesn’t listen to you because, whatever his issues are, he knows enough to realize you are a piece of human garbage & not worthy of being trusted or obeyed!

  • @joshalynnikolinabarba1896
    @joshalynnikolinabarba1896 2 роки тому +1326

    She was my elementary school teacher and lived in my neighborhood 😔 She was always so friendly and outgoing. She made us feel special . RIP 🌹

    • @melissamoonchild9216
      @melissamoonchild9216 2 роки тому +26

      How very sad.

    • @somethingaboutbeaute
      @somethingaboutbeaute 2 роки тому +21

      I’m sorry hunnie. ❤

    • @chefbetsy9094
      @chefbetsy9094 2 роки тому +13

      I'm so sorry that you lost someone good in your life! Sadly the collateral damage that seems to wash over so many friends and family like muddy coming in waves with dirty water washing over those in the victims inner circle of friends and family, co- workers, acquaintances or the closest of friends, fellow church Parishioners leaving so many innocent people drawn in to be effected, tainted by!the muddy, dirty waters that

    • @kathyburn
      @kathyburn 2 роки тому +6

      S Balkana porijeklom??

    • @garystafford4187
      @garystafford4187 2 роки тому +2

      I'm dizzy headed listening to the 20 year old. Then the other guy showed up and then he talks crazy🤦

  • @satansoup
    @satansoup 2 роки тому +665

    Dads interview is so chilling. Watching him make small connections and realize 😳. Poor dad. This is awful. 😭😭🖤

    • @gib59er56
      @gib59er56 Рік тому +1

      I have never seen a case like this before. I watched the entire interrogation of this filthy excuse of a human being. I was hyperventilating in pure anger. He said no, I didn`t do anything over and over like a 5 yr old caught stealing cookies. It was sickening. I hope he gets what he deserves in prison. He ain`t no Alpha male. He is pure evil and a waste of air.

    • @Jennifer_Layne
      @Jennifer_Layne Рік тому +31

      Yes! I thought the exact same thing. Jeff wasn’t right in the head, what kind of man sends a text to their fiancé’s father to say hey I’m jacking off?

    • @shellz831
      @shellz831 Рік тому

      He is not innocent. His WEAK ass is why all this happen. If he was man enough he would have kicked that pos out his house. Ealing on egg shelf in your own house because of a kid you did not create

    • @shellz831
      @shellz831 Рік тому

      The fact that the PARENTS knew this POS was a POS, but was still willing to allow their duagther to marry the POS speaks volume. Mel is dead because of her own STUPIDITY and her COWARDS-a$s husband. Bruce is a FKING FAILURE, he failed his wife, failed his duagther, failed his ENTIRE FAMILY.
      As a MAN, you NEVEEERRR allow another male that your sperms did not create to come live in YOUR house.

    • @donnamariedavidson5065
      @donnamariedavidson5065 Рік тому +8

      ​@@Jennifer_LayneOMG that is so disgusting!!

  • @bhargavipba
    @bhargavipba 2 роки тому +728

    Oh my god Bruce finally figuring out how odd those messages were and how much time he had wasted going to those different locations is truly chilling.

    • @DinoCism
      @DinoCism 2 роки тому +42

      Very. The most amazing thing about this story is that this guy could find anyone to marry him at all. He's got "failson" written all over him.

    • @SampoSaarela
      @SampoSaarela 2 роки тому +16

      I'm not trying to be disrespectful but how on earth these people didn't see what was happening? Like, there is no coincidences in the universe.

    • @kiara198923
      @kiara198923 2 роки тому +22

      @@SampoSaarela They may have but didn't want to believe it,

    • @hank1537
      @hank1537 2 роки тому

      @Stephanie Grace you are a complete fool

    • @darcygraham2430
      @darcygraham2430 2 роки тому +17

      @@SampoSaarela reminds me of Laci Peterson murder by her husband, her family believed in him for a long time and they were pretty smart people. Mel was onto this monster and that is why he killed her. A master manipulator.

  • @williepearl278
    @williepearl278 2 роки тому +2576

    Jeff is the poster child for a basement dweller but instead of his moms house it’s his fiancé’s mom. When the fiancé took a job while pregnant and he didn’t, I knew then that he was a piece of crap.

    • @berrygyrl4134
      @berrygyrl4134 2 роки тому +140

      I agree!! My son's Dad did that to me I was in college full time and worked full time the entire time I was pregnant while he stayed at home and smoked pot 🙄

    • @ScoutsPatterson
      @ScoutsPatterson 2 роки тому

      I hope he gets ravaged by the other prisoners’ meatsticks for the rest of his days

    • @ShouldHaveBeenAStripper
      @ShouldHaveBeenAStripper 2 роки тому +62

      @@berrygyrl4134 Aw, I hope things are better now though! I admire your strength there!

    • @tj6930
      @tj6930 2 роки тому

      We call them “cellar dwellers” he’s a piece of crap.

    • @gnarboots423
      @gnarboots423 2 роки тому +61

      @@berrygyrl4134 my daughter mother worked while she was pregnant but I worked 60 a week in a mill as well, told her she didn't have to work but she wanted too still feel bad about it tho for some reason

  • @dawnb3194
    @dawnb3194 2 роки тому +271

    The parents were far too tolerant for far too long and unfortunately their kindness was exploited in the worst possible way.

    • @l-train7876
      @l-train7876 Рік тому +17

      They had so many signs that he was completely nuts, and just overlooked everything. He texted them that he was j*cking off????? What in the actual f?

    • @MILLST01
      @MILLST01 Рік тому

      Guess that happens when you want to please your children at all cost. I mean the daughter had a child with him in school. So somehow they probably felt guilty and didn't want to loose her, she probably threatened to leave or harm herself or something. However Sad. He's a disgusting PIG.

    • @P9rkour90
      @P9rkour90 4 місяці тому

      Hate to see it…..but in the end they could have set stronger boundaries or boundaries in general…..trust me I know how it is considering I’ve had trouble in doing so as well

  • @risky7672
    @risky7672 Рік тому +226

    He shot her 3 times and stabbed her 35 at minimum... She knew something about him that he didn't want his fiancé to know.. The way the father was talking about what's been going on and things just start connecting is bizarre. Still don't see why he got eligible of parole after 35 yrs... Should be life w/no parole. What a waste of life.

    • @P9rkour90
      @P9rkour90 4 місяці тому +1

      Seriously

    • @bodhixxx1
      @bodhixxx1 2 місяці тому

      they will not parole that loser POS that just gives it false hope.

    • @kellym4747
      @kellym4747 Місяць тому

      Well, simply shooting her three times could’ve taken care of what she might have known that he didn’t want anyone to know. This seemed more intense along the lines of his bizarre, rapid firing, angry texts. I think he’s got something more screwed up from his past and had a lot of pent-up anger, and problems, on top of whatever contributed to this.

    • @stefan2005stefan
      @stefan2005stefan Місяць тому

      jeffy was the faked intruder the father was complaining of too.

  • @BiggestKingerFan
    @BiggestKingerFan 2 роки тому +3536

    Oh my god. This was my English teacher. Sixth grade. She was an amazing teacher, and I remember the day we all found out. It was horrible. She helped me so much during 6th grade, I was going through a lot. I remember the day before her death I talked to her, and the next day, she was just… gone. It hurts to think about it, but thank you for covering it. Edit: Coming back to this, I remember when we all found out, a lot of us gathered around her room, and the entire day I don’t think anyone did any work. I remember Therapy dogs coming in too. I think one of my best memories of Mrs. P was when I had to stay after for some missing work and she was telling me all about her soccer stuff, she was really proud of it. She was a really good woman and put up with me not doing my work-

    • @simonesmith6386
      @simonesmith6386 2 роки тому +168

      sorry for your loss. she sounds like such a beautiful person inside and out. xxx

    • @raerobeas
      @raerobeas 2 роки тому +130

      This video must have been surreal for you to watch, I can’t imagine.

    • @BiggestKingerFan
      @BiggestKingerFan 2 роки тому +132

      @@raerobeas yeah, I never thought I’d see her face again, much less on UA-cam. I had to do a double take while I was scrolling.

    • @joywilliams7657
      @joywilliams7657 2 роки тому +35

      So sorry for your loss 💗

    • @c4ketown675
      @c4ketown675 2 роки тому +26

      That is wild.....

  • @SunShinyDaysPlease
    @SunShinyDaysPlease Рік тому +131

    In the 911 call, that monster called the families house "my house"! Wtf??? A bum took over their house and started calling it his home. That's some serious entitlement there.

    • @KimmySemak
      @KimmySemak 5 місяців тому +2

      I noticed that also. what a pos

    • @sntemp
      @sntemp 4 місяці тому

      That is where he lived, I think it would be completely normal for most people to say my house if it's where they live.

  • @dxcSOUL
    @dxcSOUL Рік тому +358

    It's rare to see the spouse show genuine emotion, shock, and sadness in these types of interrogations (because they're usually the culprit). My heart goes out to the husband.

    • @smartyjonez5470
      @smartyjonez5470 Рік тому

      This josh fella seems like a real jerk

    • @ja6975
      @ja6975 11 місяців тому +2

      Usually the culprit does not mean usually the one convicted. It’s a folk notion that husbands/boyfriends kill their wives. You need an analytically robust understanding of the death of wives/girlfriends 😊

    • @smartyjonez5470
      @smartyjonez5470 11 місяців тому +7

      @@ja6975 incorrect. Every crime is different certainly but most females that get unalived , the suspect is either a boyfriend or husband or someone that knows her

    • @supposedhumanmars
      @supposedhumanmars 4 місяці тому

      ​@@smartyjonez5470 The exact reason I FINALLY left my violent ex husband. It was getting to the point that I was fearful for my life...then we had a baby. When I caught him hitting our 2 year old, that was it. We were gone. Haven't seen him in years, thankfully.

  • @alexandrasymeon5893
    @alexandrasymeon5893 Рік тому +48

    What is so heart wrenching is that Kyle looks for his mother every single day. He is the most devastated of all.

  • @RemyDarling
    @RemyDarling 2 роки тому +721

    Poor dad. You just keep seeing him pause and he's literally SEEING him SEEING his poor wife just when he's saying 'chunks', just broke my heart and turned my stomach. Traumatized man right there.

    • @suzannenichols6900
      @suzannenichols6900 2 роки тому +8

      @susan ivy Quite frankly I would like 'The Behavior Panel ' (body language people) to look at the dad as well because I didn't buy his absolute innocence either. I would really be interested in knowing if he was dating anyone else at the time or if he started dating right afterwards. I know that that's not necessarily meaning he's guilty of anything, but there was something about his interview that I just didn't like. And I didn't like his 911 call either.

    • @inthelandofmorethansmall7582
      @inthelandofmorethansmall7582 2 роки тому

      It's like he can't finish a sentence...
      It's odd.
      I have some questions though. . Why didn't Bruce or Mel think more about those weird, random texts?
      "Lib"
      "Libby"
      "Left liberal"
      "I'm jacking off"
      Those are not typical text msgs from normal ppl.

    • @MrRisingapple
      @MrRisingapple 2 роки тому +48

      @@suzannenichols6900 Are you not very bright? After seeing the whole video including trial and victim statements you still think the father is suspect? Dumb people can be so annoying..

    • @lisamh9037
      @lisamh9037 2 роки тому +23

      @susan ivy I'm a lifelong Strongsville resident. I remember hearing the husband's 911 call when this first happened and jumped to that same conclusion. So I apologize to him as well. But just goes to show you never can tell how someone is going to sound or behave in the midst of a tragedy.

    • @cheycheyfriend247
      @cheycheyfriend247 2 роки тому +16

      @@MrRisingapple people so badly want to have someone to blame and to ostrasize people who don't "act right"

  • @dianelapp
    @dianelapp 2 роки тому +630

    I really feel for Mel's husband. His account to police was hard to follow, though. He kept trailing off mid-sentence...he was obviously still processing everything that had happened that evening. I can't even imagine.

    • @cho6140
      @cho6140 2 роки тому +22

      My thoughts exactly. Jeez.

    • @pamelastevens1609
      @pamelastevens1609 2 роки тому +75

      It is the way someone completely innocent and in total shock would respond to questions right after experiencing something like that. I don't believe many people are very eloquent in that situation. It seemed very raw and heartbreakingly real.

    • @TahtahmesDiary
      @TahtahmesDiary 2 роки тому +74

      Sadly he really believed the city was getting taken over by some sort of criminals, meanwhile it was his own home that had been taken over by a criminal smdh

    • @cheycheyfriend247
      @cheycheyfriend247 2 роки тому +1

      @@pamelastevens1609 THANK YOU!! everyone who says he seemed guilty just seems like a judgemental asshole.

    • @widlipoo
      @widlipoo 2 роки тому +40

      I think he was also putting 2 and 2 together, slowly realizing that Jeff...

  • @scottsthots6880
    @scottsthots6880 2 роки тому +343

    That poor husband, you can tell he’s being completely honest and is absolutely traumatized from it. But the fact he starts putting it together is wild, the rage he must have felt knowing that Jeff did it

    • @franklinstephen3268
      @franklinstephen3268 2 роки тому +1

      Hello 👋how are you doing?

    • @TheGuardianangel247
      @TheGuardianangel247 2 роки тому +3

      I was thinking the same thing, while watching the penny drop for him.

    • @nadinekaylathefam7612
      @nadinekaylathefam7612 2 роки тому +2

      I be raging too 😈😈 poor man 😥♥️♥️

    • @jaycurry5593
      @jaycurry5593 2 роки тому +1

      I don't know how you could tell that...he seemed suspicious as hell during the phone call and interrogation

    • @donnamariedavidson5065
      @donnamariedavidson5065 Рік тому +2

      ​@@jaycurry5593no he didn't, he was in shock. DUH.

  • @kiara198923
    @kiara198923 2 роки тому +144

    This is why we have to be careful of who we bring into not only our lives but those of our families. I'm still watching, trying to figure out why he targeted her out of everyone.
    Edit: I wish they had gotten a doorbell camera/light bulb camera or some type of surveillance within the home for the so called burglaries he witnessed.

    • @sandrapisani9225
      @sandrapisani9225 2 роки тому +4

      @ImaRandomFemale I must admit, I felt the very same way.

    • @skalin23
      @skalin23 2 роки тому +7

      @Random Female apparently the police checked video fron cameras behind there yard from a local park, never saw any intruders breaking in, only him.

    • @wvrjl
      @wvrjl Рік тому +1

      I don't think those existed then, but some video cameras / security.

    • @SoloLeaux
      @SoloLeaux Рік тому +17

      I feel like he was her target because she was probably pushing him to get off his ass and be a productive human.

    • @Smurfyis730
      @Smurfyis730 Рік тому +18

      I think he did this to Melinda because she caught what Jeff was doing. She most likely found his bag of weapons and put it all together he was the one doing the breaking in the house. She most likely approached him and said I knew you were a POS this entire time and I’m telling the family. Jeff probably snapped and did this to her so that she couldn’t tell. Kyle was non verbal so he let him live because he couldn’t tell what happened. Melinda made them get a paternity test because she probably hoped Jeff wasn’t the father.

  • @hquinn8635
    @hquinn8635 2 роки тому +3147

    I feel so bad for the dad during his interview. He was putting everything together right then and there that his son in law was acting suspicious and possibly killed his wife 😳

    • @dietdrpepper15
      @dietdrpepper15 2 роки тому +181

      Yeah IN real time...he is actually going through it.

    • @ScoutsPatterson
      @ScoutsPatterson 2 роки тому +2

      I hope Jeff’s butthole ends up looking like a wizard’s sleeve after he gets to prison

    • @lica1598
      @lica1598 2 роки тому +138

      I was actually a little bit suss of dad also, during his interview. But in hindsight was probably shock?

    • @dietdrpepper15
      @dietdrpepper15 2 роки тому

      @@lica1598 Its VERY suspicious that he called the cops AGAIN! After they were already there. But considering it was that stupid guy's fault it probably seemed to him the cops did do nothing to prevent it.

    • @Peachiie_Keen
      @Peachiie_Keen 2 роки тому +183

      @@lica1598 this was what I was thinking too. I felt a little suspicious at first. Then I thought about how he was mad at the cops, then confused, and all over the place. He literally was going through so many stages of grief and seemed to be in shock as he described seeing his wife on the floor 😔

  • @cierraholcomb3433
    @cierraholcomb3433 2 роки тому +231

    Seeing how distraught the husband is, is absolutely heart breaking. You can tell how shocked and in disbelief he is about what he walked in on. Prayers for this family.

  • @KplusJmakes0312
    @KplusJmakes0312 2 роки тому +2182

    The whole thing is disgusting but when he tried to implicate Kyle in her murder that just shows the level of evil he actually embodies.

    • @lica1598
      @lica1598 2 роки тому +149

      Can you only imagine, this poor little lad, constantly checking the window to see when mommies coming home? What a waste of an extraordinary life. She could've helped so many special needs children! 💔

    • @sakaiahreign3365
      @sakaiahreign3365 2 роки тому +47

      Disgusting 😤

    • @juliannefost6351
      @juliannefost6351 2 роки тому +116

      Right! That’s what got me too. He figured he could blame it on him since he was nonverbal and couldn’t defend himself. Despicable.

    • @MegaTrivial
      @MegaTrivial 2 роки тому +40

      I wonder why nothing was said about where Kyle was in the house during this horrible attack... Did he see Jaff brutally attacking his mother?! Something tells me not, since he was still waiting for his mom to come home... It must be devestating... Jaff is dispicable and they should have thrown him out of the house when he was sending ugly dispicable messages to others and to Bruce.

    • @erinw8787
      @erinw8787 2 роки тому +17

      @@MegaTrivial he would not have connected any of that with her being dead and not coming back

  • @ProudMarineMom24
    @ProudMarineMom24 Рік тому +26

    So sickening for him to take this loving woman from her family. It brought tears to my eyes.

  • @lostmojo
    @lostmojo 2 роки тому +797

    Why does a young woman want to marry a man, who doesn't work when she's pregnant and working and who lives in her parents' basement at their expenses? He must have been such a manipulator.

    • @nadirimyers6643
      @nadirimyers6643 2 роки тому +110

      I think with some women (me included) we fall for potential instead of falling for the person they showing us they are now and I think with a lot of ppl it’s like a “in for a penny in for a pound” mentality where it’s like they already have a kid together/ wanna get married and to break it off would be like failing in a sense…. I’m not saying that’s what she thinking but from experience that’s usually what it is. Plus I don’t think anyone thinks that they SO gonna kill they mother and hurt you like that. Like no matter how they hurt you. You never think they gonna take it that far

    • @wickedlee664
      @wickedlee664 2 роки тому +26

      Maybe he was packing heat.

    • @M1985-
      @M1985- 2 роки тому +40

      @Shanna Crossman Same. She must be desperate and dumb. I dated an abuser for 5 years. Never got pregnant in 37 years. It’s almost like contraceptives work…

    • @mudmudmudmudmud7605
      @mudmudmudmudmud7605 2 роки тому +158

      @M
      You call her desperate and dumb then in the next sentence you said you been with an abuser for five years.

    • @nicoledoubleyou
      @nicoledoubleyou 2 роки тому +40

      @@mudmudmudmudmud7605 maybe they were desperate and dumb, too, haha

  • @vickiesmith5081
    @vickiesmith5081 2 роки тому +630

    Any man that sends his wife off to work when she’s pregnant & he’s capable of working himself, sets of flags to me & then he tries to make everyone else look guilty. What a piece of work !!
    My condolences to the family and I hope they one day get to move forward in a healthy way.

    • @kadeelacayo4806
      @kadeelacayo4806 2 роки тому +24

      Whoa whoa whoa , pregnant women can work dude get outta here with that nonsense

    • @ronnieallie8490
      @ronnieallie8490 2 роки тому +28

      @@kadeelacayo4806 it's not nonsense. You just don't have a clue.

    • @justadildeau
      @justadildeau 2 роки тому +12

      Pregnant people, not pregnant women. Get with the times, jeeeze

    • @MelaNone
      @MelaNone 2 роки тому +14

      @@justadildeau pregnant “birthing person” 🤣

    • @leechan1
      @leechan1 2 роки тому +22

      @@kadeelacayo4806 you're missing the point.

  • @murrayshekelberg9754
    @murrayshekelberg9754 2 роки тому +366

    Poor Kyle. That breaks my heart. It can tough when children have cognitive, social and/or communication problems. His mom was probably the whole world to him and he was going to need her for his entire life. I hope he is doing ok and has someone he's truly at ease with.

    • @Savewormswhenitrains555
      @Savewormswhenitrains555 2 роки тому +43

      Mrs pleskovic was my teacher and always talked about how much she loved Kyle. He was just as lively as her. She adored him very much. I remember the pictures she had up in her classroom and his smiley face. I hope his life is much better now

    • @wvrjl
      @wvrjl Рік тому +15

      Yes, I felt so incredibly bad for him.

  • @Savewormswhenitrains555
    @Savewormswhenitrains555 2 роки тому +10

    Mrs pleskovic was my teacher in 6th grade. She was very strict but very kind. Her personality was so vibrant.

  • @flowergirl4612
    @flowergirl4612 2 роки тому +587

    Wow, him trying to blame Kyle is disgusting. You took his mother away from him and then try to blame him for the murder and take 2 people from that family? I don't get how people can be so evil seriously. Jeff had a beautiful baby and wife and 2 full families who loved him. Why ruin your life like this? Why ruin people who cared about you lives.

    • @sandrabentley8111
      @sandrabentley8111 2 роки тому +42

      Because he was a loser! No job, no prospects. A manipulator, liar, talker with no action. What Anna saw in him is beyond me.

    • @CherylSimser
      @CherylSimser 2 роки тому +10

      @@sandrabentley8111 He surely comes across as super creepy and he didn't hide his strange, vile, and unlikable personality from what Mel's husband described. Is it possible that they all overlooked these traits because of their deep love of Kyle , regardless of his condition? I'm trying to make some sense out of their acceptance of Scully. Edit as I'm watching this for the second time: Perhaps it is possible to love to the point you can overlook even the most evil traits in a person and disregard reality? This is beyond heartbreaking and totally baffling to me.

    • @judywright4241
      @judywright4241 2 роки тому +8

      Especially since all he had to do was pack up and split. It would have hurt his fiancée, her parents might be upset but they would heal from THAT!

    • @CherylSimser
      @CherylSimser 2 роки тому +8

      @@sandrabentley8111 I am watching this for the second time and this Scully person is beyond despicable and evil. I too wonder how anyone and I do mean anyone. how they could find even the smallest iota of something to like about this vile Scully to the point where they would even consider him as a son-in-law and be willing to support him. Anna's attraction to him and wanting to marry him confuses me endlessly.

    • @herehere3139
      @herehere3139 2 роки тому +5

      @@CherylSimser I think you are correct, about because of their sons ds condition, they are prone to love someone despite what disabilities or "flaws" they may have, and therefore it was more natural for them to overlook Jeff straight weird bs. I hate that ppl like him exist. I've come across ppl like him in ways.. they are nothing but a waste and harmful to a good society. Sorry not sorry tho, bad people who don't seek help for themselves can go away for good. I hate seeing good people who try making life happy for others and themselves be taken advantage of, used, and hurt. Bleehh

  • @316lvmnoneofyourbusiness7
    @316lvmnoneofyourbusiness7 2 роки тому +389

    At first, I was in disbelief at how Mel's husband, Bruce, reacted.
    How can this man, whose just seen his wife's murdered body go on complaining about the lack of security and help from the police department?
    Then I read 2 replies from Ncoker 7 and Old Man doing High Kicks in Black Socks.
    It gave me pause to self reflect on my behavior when trauma has hit me and/or my family and the reactions I've gotten from others - especially being a woman.
    I realized that Bruce is a person who sets aside his grief, horror, and anger to take care of what needs to be done and to make sure that everyone else is ok. Then can he finally deal with is emotions. I am the same way.
    God bless this family, help them to heal and celebrate the life they had with their mother and wife.

    • @jbmaitre5758
      @jbmaitre5758 2 роки тому +49

      I am so glad your comment finished the way it did - people victim blaming the husband in this story or worse claiming he was GLOATING on the phone is just horrific makes my blood boil Mel & Bruce were a terrific couple, who sadly opened up their home to a psychopath... Jeff thought he was smarter than everyone else - he is going to live a nightmare in prison that's for sure!!!

    • @jbmaitre5758
      @jbmaitre5758 2 роки тому +32

      @@fritzsmith3296 "A ploy to act shocked - hoping police would believe he is a victim"???? WHAT????? So Bruce is playing the victim "card" and Mel was just asking for it?? What the fuck????

    • @ruskimuejek665
      @ruskimuejek665 2 роки тому

      Kyle did it

    • @banjoj8579
      @banjoj8579 2 роки тому +39

      @@fritzsmith3296 This is the worst take I've seen so far. You obviously have no experience with human psychology and, with all due respect, you should probably keep your opinions to yourself more often.

    • @inuchan74
      @inuchan74 2 роки тому +24

      I am the same way. When my brother died I took care of everything and everyone else first. I kept it together because someone had to. And it's actually easier to get thru things that way. It's easier to be angry and on a mission, focusing on something besides yourself. And then later alone, fall apart.

  • @kari8434
    @kari8434 2 роки тому +667

    So this is my aunt.. and this is the 3rd channel do a video on her.. this on is DEFINITELY the most detailed
    And thank you for being respectful of everything.. and for the thoughts and prayers

    • @jramsey9690
      @jramsey9690 2 роки тому +43

      So sorry for your family.

    • @ifoundit4842
      @ifoundit4842 2 роки тому +22

      Im So Sorry for Your Loss...
      I Luv the Tribute ..'Its On Mel'
      Clearly Mel Spread the Love & Gave The Best of Herself to Everyone She Encountered...
      May God Bless You All

    • @Liza-cl2gb
      @Liza-cl2gb 2 роки тому

      Sorry for your loss. He is so ugly and creepy hope you all find peace.

    • @rempanda
      @rempanda 2 роки тому +18

      I'm so devastated for you and your family. Mel acted as incredible mother by opening her home to Jeff in order to give her daughter and grandchild a chance for a great future, another commenter spoke about Mel as their teacher and how amazing she was as a teacher and as a person, she was clearly a very kind hearted and wonderful human being.
      Jeff is a piece of shit and just a disgraceful excuse of a human. I just hope that these videos talking about this horrific event allow others to maybe notice some warning signs and how to keep themselves safer. I hope you and your family are doing well despite all this, and I know grief never truly goes away but I hope you've all found some joy still in life.

    • @PolySpikeAndWave
      @PolySpikeAndWave 2 роки тому +26

      How is Kyle doing?

  • @ncallaway9731
    @ncallaway9731 2 роки тому +99

    No one in the comments mentioning how Anna (Jeff’s ex fiancé) turned around a couple times during her impact statement & while her sister & father were reading their impact statements to the judge. She turned right around & quickly stared at Jeff right in the face. I love that. She showed no fear & let him know what a monster he is.

    • @ehrro
      @ehrro Рік тому

      Yet she choosed a trash of a man.

    • @bambinaforever1402
      @bambinaforever1402 Рік тому +7

      Why would she have fear - he is behind bars

  • @alluremonroe6850
    @alluremonroe6850 2 роки тому +982

    I was suspicious of Mel’s husband but during the interview you can tell he was trying to put the pieces together and realizing things at that moment. You can really see him putting the puzzle together in real time. It’s heartbreaking 💔

    • @blockraven22
      @blockraven22 2 роки тому +80

      From the phone call, I thought it was the husband too. Jeff sounded believable. Goes to tell how wrong first impressions can be.

    • @brittanyturner5148
      @brittanyturner5148 2 роки тому +25

      It was heartbreaking to watch Bruce start to put it all together.
      I thought Jeff sounded suspicious on the phone with dispatch because he repeated several times that they all got to the house at the same time and went into the house together. Then when Bruce called 911 talking about things being a miss around there and that police have done nothing yet Jeff is on the phone saying no I can’t think of any one who would want to hurt the family. I was thinking why did he not say that to dispatch.
      Last what struck me as “off” I would NOT be standing in the yard with my baby when there is a killer on the loose! You go to a trusted neighbor, get in the car with your child and leave the area, something anything but stand there out in the open where this crazy person could kill me and my baby! Well he is the killer so he did not need to go to a trusted neighbor he knew right where the killer was! So sick that Simone can be capable of something like this.

    • @cpfs936
      @cpfs936 2 роки тому +3

      Think of how many times that poor guy second-guessed himself. And Kyle...😪

    • @madsdee7803
      @madsdee7803 2 роки тому +12

      He realised he was being gaslighted by the psycho. Jeff had made them all scared and tired. They were all living on no sleep I bet while he was over there scheming. Sickening what these manipulators do to good people.

    • @curtisk2286
      @curtisk2286 2 роки тому +2

      @@blockraven22
      Same here

  • @welshcar
    @welshcar 2 роки тому +252

    Felt so bad for her husband, seeing him putting it all together was heartbreaking 😢

  • @jackpayne4658
    @jackpayne4658 2 роки тому +253

    You can see Bruce putting together all this slightly odd personal experience with Jeff, and slowly realising - yes, he did this.

    • @ritawashere5787
      @ritawashere5787 Рік тому +12

      I have a feeling Jeff's parents were thrilled that their son got to live with Mel and Bruce. They didn't have to deal with the pathological liar that had visions of grandeur.

    • @SonjaHamburg
      @SonjaHamburg Рік тому +2

      NO, watch the full interview‼️ This channel lies! Most of the behaviour he described is a college friend of the dad who is his main suspect. How dare this channel cut a victims interview into a lie. They suffered enough

    • @monstermatt3453
      @monstermatt3453 Рік тому

      @@SonjaHamburgI was just thinking the same thing. It was his friend Mark who he was talking about when he was saying the worst things. Evil of the Channel to do that

    • @Janesgirl22
      @Janesgirl22 11 місяців тому

      ​@@SonjaHamburgIt is edited badly. Bruce's whole interview, long as it is, is really worth the watch.

    • @sbenz29
      @sbenz29 10 місяців тому

      @@SonjaHamburg YEP. Came here to say the same. So much wrong information here, and it's really misleading

  • @tiffanysantiago516
    @tiffanysantiago516 Рік тому +41

    How was this Jeff guy able to fool an entire family . This is insane .

    • @11_EVERYTHING_OEFx2
      @11_EVERYTHING_OEFx2 Рік тому +12

      When you only want to see the good in someone, your vision becomes hazy. “Seeing the world through rose tinted glasses, red flags look like ordinary flags.”

    • @Anna-br9jt
      @Anna-br9jt 7 місяців тому +1

      They gave him the benefit of the doubt. He fooled them, but he's not fooling the police or us.

    • @colonthree
      @colonthree 7 місяців тому

      Naivety is a disease caused by lack of a point of reference, which means poor education.

    • @jeffro4kag206
      @jeffro4kag206 3 місяці тому

      They were doing what most parents do supporting their child, and knowing that this is their grandbaby that's all it takes for someone like this monster to pull the wool over their eyes. It will be ok they thought😢

  • @niccadle3999
    @niccadle3999 2 роки тому +106

    Watching the husband start to put things together In his head that something doesn't make sense and listening to him describe what happened was so hard for some reason, it was surreal.

    • @janerohr8055
      @janerohr8055 2 роки тому

      What a loser

    • @cherrelleg8276
      @cherrelleg8276 Рік тому

      He was a really nice person to take the kid in so they can get married and have an advantage in life. I wish I had that type of support I got kicked out at 18 and didn’t have anything but a mattress and microwave in my apartment. I remember when I thought getting cash back from a bank card was a perk 😂😂 I didn’t know it was coming out of my bank account

  • @elmorgano81
    @elmorgano81 2 роки тому +686

    The Dad is such a good example of shock and reminds me how everyone reacts differently to shock. During his 911 call I was suspicious of him until his interview and hearing the emotion and him putting things together. The brain is crazy the things it will do to protect you when in shock, clearly during the moment it kind of blanked the fact his wife was murdered horribly and focus on the harassment they'd been victims of. Really interesting to see, though equally heartbreaking. Thoughts and prayers go to the dad and his family, so sad.

    • @yummycookie3429
      @yummycookie3429 2 роки тому +26

      Same here. I was sure the husband did it just from listening to 911.

    • @lvlysticgirl
      @lvlysticgirl 2 роки тому +8

      @@yummycookie3429 same!!

    • @BackrowErnie
      @BackrowErnie 2 роки тому +25

      I’m embarrassed to admit that I also thought her husband was guilty after hearing his 911 call- and even the details about him going in and out of the crime scene. It’s indeed an important reminder that there is no single, expected, or “right way” to behave in traumatic situations. Reminds me of when everyone jumped on Amanda Knox’s behaviour at that crime scene and refused to believe she was innocent EVEN THOUGH there was not a speck of her dna anywhere on or near the crime scene. People couldn’t move past their “gut instincts” about her in spite of undeniable evidence proving her innocence. Anyway, years later and here I am thinking this poor husband actually committed his soulmate’s horrific murder -because he didn’t act “the way I would have acted”. A reminder to always wait for the facts, and the evidence.

    • @orfamayQ
      @orfamayQ 2 роки тому +47

      My first thought during the 911 call was that it's easier to be angry at the police than to face the horror of the fact that his wife was brutally murdered. I think he focused on trashing the police as a coping mechanism in order to avoid the much more painful emotions that were about what he just had witnessed. I didn't find that suspicious at all.

    • @michaelknight5295
      @michaelknight5295 2 роки тому +22

      During his 911 call I knew he was genuine. I'm sure the operator knew it too. Been thru very bad situations hopefully you will never have to go through. During crisis situations anger and disbelief, combined with mixed emotions is a normal part and a common part often.

  • @autumn111155551
    @autumn111155551 2 роки тому +546

    Shows that you can’t always go by how people sound in the 911 call. Jeff sounds like he’s truly shocked and upset. Bruce does not sound as emotional or upset. So someone listening to the 911 tapes might be more inclined to say Bruce did it.

    • @itsjustmaddisen
      @itsjustmaddisen 2 роки тому +36

      There’s actually a show about this. I think it’s called “Killer On the Line” or something similar. It’s very twisted how believable some of them sound and it’s sickening.

    • @MrAerohank
      @MrAerohank 2 роки тому +45

      Right? The way Bruce sounded you would think he was calling about someone having sliced his tyres.

    • @billieo5108
      @billieo5108 2 роки тому +39

      He seems like a very level headed person + he has a special needs child so it makes sense for him to have a steady voicem

    • @selfesteem3447
      @selfesteem3447 2 роки тому +18

      That's what I thought too because poor Bruce was complaining and if you'd listen to what he was saying it's almost as if he was setting up what the case would be we're giving excuses for what he as a proposed murderer would want the detectives, like already giving excuses and Alibis and such.

    • @trishfox3483
      @trishfox3483 2 роки тому +6

      That was my thought too he sounded emotionally disconnected

  • @charliemurphy9022
    @charliemurphy9022 2 роки тому +27

    Listening to the character of Mel with all she gave, as kind hearted, generous, and giving as she was, makes me realize I need to use her story of character to just become half the person she was and I would be someone so amazing.. I say just half, because I could never reach her level... RIP All regards and Condolences to the family..

  • @gldylox
    @gldylox 2 роки тому +728

    It’s terrible that this young man’s immediate family didn’t give any words of warning about past behavior or incidents with their son. It’s clear that they were just glad that he wasn’t their problem anymore.

    • @Susabel
      @Susabel 2 роки тому +61

      It said they were high school sweethearts. You'd think he would have had problems in high school and that Anna would have seen signs but then again he was manipulative.

    • @joyceedwards3336
      @joyceedwards3336 2 роки тому +42

      Probably happy he wasn’t living with them

    • @juliesutton5994
      @juliesutton5994 2 роки тому +34

      That was my first thought too, but who knows what the dynamics of his family were?

    • @brittanyturner5148
      @brittanyturner5148 2 роки тому +36

      I agree who knows what happened he may have told his parents some big lie about her family and he had to live there to protect Anna and Aurora, that’s far from the truth but who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️ or maybe at home he was just a bum basement dweller video gamer and they were not aware of or in denial that he could possibly be a murder.
      The whole thing is just so awful!

    • @CornbreadOracle
      @CornbreadOracle 2 роки тому +46

      Being sick of someone’s shit doesn’t always mean there is reason to think they’re dangerous. Case in point: after 30 something years of her making my brother, my parents, and her own children miserable with her antics, I’m sick of my sister-in-law’s shit. But I have no reason to think she’s going to kill anybody.

  • @energeticpink
    @energeticpink 2 роки тому +111

    While watching the husband you can tell during his interrogation that he was totally reliving it and putting all the pieces together all at the same time

  • @misty3016
    @misty3016 2 роки тому +434

    jesus watching bruce describing walking in and finding mel was torturous. you can see how distraught he is, even with how well he is keeping himself together, the way he talks about the scene is heart breaking

    • @ny3974
      @ny3974 2 роки тому +11

      I know right!
      Heartbreaking. The poor man almost seemed to look like he was lying, (obviously he wasn't) but if you seen an iterigation with him an you didn't already know it was the boy who committed this henius crime you would think it was Bruce. May his beloved wife rest in peace 🙏

    • @danniitheaussie
      @danniitheaussie 2 роки тому +14

      "Torturous" was my exact thought too. That poor man finding his wife like that, he actually handles himself quite well in reality.

    • @danniitheaussie
      @danniitheaussie 2 роки тому +10

      @@ny3974 I agree, if you didn't know better, his persona could be perceived as guilt.

    • @ny3974
      @ny3974 2 роки тому +9

      @@danniitheaussie absolutely, his stuttering, unable to clearly speak a sentence.. of course grief is personal to every individual and people handle it in many different ways but the poor man sounded guilty.

    • @janelle009
      @janelle009 2 роки тому +6

      I agree. I could tell by how he spoke that he was being honest. But I can absolutely see how many cops would see it as guilt. Which is scary...

  • @SunShinyDaysPlease
    @SunShinyDaysPlease Рік тому +64

    Those parents lost control of their own household. That bum moved in, took over and was calling all shots. Even when and where they would eat out. And you know he did NOT pay for dining out with no job. He should have been making dinner every night considering everyone in that house worked. Except for him!

    • @bluedistortions
      @bluedistortions Рік тому +3

      Well said. Parents who spoil their children often are thanked this way. It's a common thread in parentalcide.. a grown toddler who has never been told "no."

    • @mojo6098
      @mojo6098 3 місяці тому

      Nice way to blame the victims for their own murders.

  • @sandratalbot2199
    @sandratalbot2199 2 роки тому +99

    It totally confounds me how these people think that they’ll get away with what they’ve done.

    • @kathrynellison5636
      @kathrynellison5636 2 роки тому +1

      I think it was a rage killing. And people that plan murders think they are smart enough to get away with it.

    • @amyyoung2804
      @amyyoung2804 2 роки тому +11

      One of the hallmarks of sociopaths..everyone else to too stupid to get it and they're so brilliant. How wrong they are.

    • @I_Ace
      @I_Ace 2 роки тому +5

      A sociopathic trait is impulsivity and lack of planning, morals, lack of understanding/care of reprocussions.

    • @Authorised-q5s
      @Authorised-q5s Рік тому +1

      ​@@amyyoung2804😂

  • @bellesblues
    @bellesblues 2 роки тому +122

    My heart goes out to the Pleskovic family. What stands out a mile is what kind, Loving and gentle people they all are . Rest in peace Mel x

  • @deadbeatarpan5755
    @deadbeatarpan5755 2 роки тому +61

    Bruh her son looking out the window expecting her to return during her funeral is so heartbreaking man

  • @thaiscorreaa
    @thaiscorreaa 2 роки тому +14

    You can feel the disbelief in this lady judge's voice. The way she served his sentence was so powerful. I could feel her rage and will to serve justice to Mel's family and friends. I wish strength and peace to this family and specially to ms. Anna: your daughter - lovely little Aurora - will love you and your family, she will be loved and cared for. You guys will be her fortress and her cradle.

  • @rynoX88
    @rynoX88 2 роки тому +74

    Big red flag when the detective ask him one simple question and the dude starts talking about all this random sh*t and what his baby ate. that has guilty all over it.

    • @dietlindvonhohenwald448
      @dietlindvonhohenwald448 2 роки тому +6

      Scary that this psycho was in charge of a baby, he is the kind of person who could quickly loose his patience and hurt a baby. I do not understand what his girlfriend ever saw in him at all. There must have been warning signs and red flags.

    • @lindaarrington9397
      @lindaarrington9397 2 роки тому

      @@dietlindvonhohenwald448 I know

    • @mymai5859
      @mymai5859 2 роки тому

      When he called emergency after finding Mel stabbed, Jeff spoke more about himself...how he'd eaten with Bruce & came home together ...how he had the children outside...how he was standing by the red vehicle. If you were scared of an attacker why on Earth stand outside vulnerable - go stay in a safe room inside!

  • @DancingSk3L3tons
    @DancingSk3L3tons 2 роки тому +90

    Whelp, Kyle at the funeral brought up some tears I didn't know I had left in me. I'm not a religious man but I'm genuinely going to pray to give Dad the strength to be there for his children the best he can. As a father I couldn't even imagine what he must be going through.

  • @gpippind
    @gpippind 2 роки тому +95

    I guess having life easy raising his baby with his girlfriend and living rent-free didn't appeal to him. He'd rather be separated from family and spend 35 years in prison for something he had no reason for or business doing, ending someone's life who welcomed you into their home and showed you kindness.

    • @gracielacanales9548
      @gracielacanales9548 Рік тому +2

      Amen exactly ugh even his whole demeanor the way he Carried himself he seemed to look right in place with the jailhouse orange jumpsuit on damn boy fix your posture and hair prob too much work for his entitled self

  • @charityblume4049
    @charityblume4049 Рік тому +7

    I don’t think I have ever felt so truly sad as to hear the judge say how her son with downs looks for her every day because he can not understand what has happened 😢 Thank you for this story.

    • @ashleyquam
      @ashleyquam 28 днів тому

      This part broke my heart. My father just passed last week from natural cause and my younger sister has downs and we were there when it happened and she just kept saying dad ok..dad ok 😢

  • @informanti
    @informanti 2 роки тому +474

    Jeff had everything anyone could ask for, real things, things that really matter.. he had a roof over his head, a soon-to-be wife, a beautiful baby girl, a wonderful family who let him into their home, and his health. He had been provided with every opportunity to be a good husband, father, and son-in-law, but he destroyed all of it. In the process, he destroyed the people who so graciously supported him, and the ripple he caused will continue to stretch far and wide.
    I will never understand how someone could so easily look past that.. to not see the opportunity to have an amazing and fulfilling life. Now, his beautiful little girl will have to grow up knowing what a monster her father is, and I pray she's able to live the good life that her father didn't want.

    • @andysalter7192
      @andysalter7192 2 роки тому +42

      I understand not wanting those things , I am far more happier being a single guy doing my own thing and have been with women who want the whole kids and marriage and the big extended family but I couldn't think of anything I could want less ! BUT I will never understand killing anyone, if he was unhappy he could have moved on .
      Shit , just packing a bag and taking off without saying anything would have been better, FAR better!!
      The whole " white picket fence and kids " isn't the idea of a " perfect life " for everyone.
      Not that I am trying to excuse this shit heads choices

    • @yellowblanka6058
      @yellowblanka6058 2 роки тому

      This girl and her family were WAY more than what that bloated piece of shit deserved...not sure WHY she would be involved with him or what she saw in him.

    • @sandrabentley8111
      @sandrabentley8111 2 роки тому

      To him he had nothing. No job, no future, no money, lived in a basement, was a slob and a loser.

    • @zukosmom3780
      @zukosmom3780 2 роки тому

      I wish they had thrown him out

    • @informanti
      @informanti 2 роки тому +17

      @@andysalter7192 That's totally understandable, but the difference is, he said and pretended like he _did_ want those things. Of course it's okay to _not_ want that kind of life. I'm sure at some point, early in life, everyone feels that way, I know I did.. feelings can change with time, but sometimes they don't, and that's perfectly fine too
      But yeah, you should always be upfront and honest with whoever you're in a relationship with, and if the two ideals don't align, it's better to know before it goes too far. This man however, if you could call him that, was a coward for not doing so. Well, he's much more than that, but you know what I mean lol

  • @HelRayzer12
    @HelRayzer12 2 роки тому +85

    Watching the husbands interview is so interesting yet so damn sad. Everything is being pieced together the more he talks yet he's still completely shocked that all this happened. I've never watched an interview like this where he never once sheds a tear yet you know for a fact that he's completely innocent. What a sad state of affairs.

    • @PeacepiperF20
      @PeacepiperF20 2 роки тому +7

      A lot of men wont show emotion in front of other people. Its not really that surprising. He's also in shock clearly.

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +2

      @@PeacepiperF20 I agree with you...especially from Bruce's generation a lot of Men are ingrained not to show tears in public

    • @PeacepiperF20
      @PeacepiperF20 2 роки тому +2

      @@raintree3383 yeah im only 28 and im still trying to open up a bit. We feel it inside we just don't express it on the outside.

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +1

      @@PeacepiperF20 I know honey....my youngest son is your age and will only cry in front of me.....Keep working on it...you are still so young and I am proud that you are so self aware..you are certainly very bright and I wish you all the warmest wishes love from Canada

    • @PeacepiperF20
      @PeacepiperF20 2 роки тому +1

      @@raintree3383 thank you

  • @Clever.medicine
    @Clever.medicine 2 роки тому +108

    I think Mel was onto Jeff. I think she grew suspicious of the odd goings on and realized it was Jeff. That's why he killed her. Just a hunch.

    • @lisamh9037
      @lisamh9037 2 роки тому +16

      His lies were all about to be exposed is what I think. I think Mel getting the call that Jeff hadn't paid for his part of the reception hall kicked it off, and Mel started figuring Jeff out and confronted him about it. She ended up having to pay his part. She was probably pretty mad and let him have it. It was only days until the wedding. All of the full interrogations are on UA-cam...Jeff,Bruce, Anna and Megan. Might be Blue Dot Crime channel if I recall correctly...

    • @ddl4374
      @ddl4374 2 роки тому +3

      Me too

    • @madsdee7803
      @madsdee7803 2 роки тому +7

      @@lisamh9037 yeah sociopaths don't like being outed for their lies. Like all of the men who've killed their wives/wives and kids because the wife found out they didn't have a job/were not going to be studying at university etc.

    • @sbenz29
      @sbenz29 10 місяців тому +2

      I think there's more to it.

  • @andrewrobertson3894
    @andrewrobertson3894 Рік тому +12

    What a horrible story.
    Dad did very well holding it together when he was clearly still pretty close to the brink.

  • @weekendnomad5038
    @weekendnomad5038 2 роки тому +206

    This made me think of a quote I’ll share “If love could have saved you You would have lived forever” this woman was clearly SO loved by her family and the community. She had a loving soul. May she rest peacefully

    • @jennybeam7226
      @jennybeam7226 2 роки тому +8

      I LOVE this. Needed to hear it right now too. Thank u4 sharing & I hope they find peace as well ❤️‍🩹

    • @WickedBoo13
      @WickedBoo13 2 роки тому +2

      Oh I think I'll have this put on my mom's urn. That's beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

    • @dstinnettmusic
      @dstinnettmusic 2 роки тому

      Pretty sure people say that about their pets….just saying, not the most apt quote in my opinion

    • @KateRiver13
      @KateRiver13 2 роки тому

      Only if love was enough

  • @samuelidredd8921
    @samuelidredd8921 2 роки тому +90

    Those track pants didn't just have traces of blood, They were absolutely drenched in it.

    • @williepearl278
      @williepearl278 2 роки тому +16

      My thoughts exactly

    • @EndoThePain4
      @EndoThePain4 2 роки тому +7

      Right?!

    • @ddl4374
      @ddl4374 2 роки тому +1

      RIGHT?!?!🥶😱😭

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +5

      This channel shows pictures and clips that aren't actual so maybe the sweats shown were not actually Jeff's

    • @sheilamadonia-maberry9701
      @sheilamadonia-maberry9701 2 роки тому +2

      Ya, "trace" is the wrong word choice.

  • @Finneganbeginagain1
    @Finneganbeginagain1 2 роки тому +94

    It’s weird to me that people question what his motive for this was when it seems so obvious. He stole money from them and created the break in stuff but it was the $6500 that gave him the motive. He had exhausted every lie he could think of to get out of paying and felt desperate for his lies to not be revealed. He said he had family money but was really a lazy thief. 33 years isn’t long enough. He’ll only be 53.

    • @mudmudmudmudmud7605
      @mudmudmudmudmud7605 2 роки тому +14

      Other than killing someone in self-defense or by accident you should get life without the possibility of parole.

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому

      53 is still young and a lot of time to have a life...what a POS

    • @AutumnBRreeze
      @AutumnBRreeze 2 роки тому +1

      @@mudmudmudmudmud7605> Agree

    • @lcam9241
      @lcam9241 2 роки тому +3

      @@mudmudmudmudmud7605 I hear you ....but that would pose an even bigger danger to the corrections officers. If these prisoners don't have any incentive to behave, it would be even worse in there. Just my opinion.

    • @mudmudmudmudmud7605
      @mudmudmudmudmud7605 2 роки тому +4

      @@lcam9241 But there are people doing life already and murdering someone should easily qualify for that sentence. You take away the little perks they do have if they misbehave like tv,books,being out with others and other things. Taking away those things are an incentive.

  • @hollyx6371
    @hollyx6371 2 роки тому +18

    One of the most chilling cases I've ever heard, rest in peace, Melinda.

  • @clumsytriangle2436
    @clumsytriangle2436 2 роки тому +84

    Listening to her husband describing how he found her breaks my heart. That poor man.

  • @inuchan74
    @inuchan74 2 роки тому +150

    Kyle waiting for his mom at her funeral just broke my heart. My son wouldn't understand either so that one hit me real hard.

    • @ClandestineGirl16X
      @ClandestineGirl16X 2 роки тому +9

      I agree. It had me in tears.

    • @maddytunbridge4798
      @maddytunbridge4798 2 роки тому

      My son has Down Syndrome, autism and is non-verbal so it hit me hard too. My son wouldnt be able to comprehend something like that either.

    • @DancingSk3L3tons
      @DancingSk3L3tons 2 роки тому +8

      That really was the worst. I think you have to be pretty cold hearted if that one didn't make your eyes tear up at all.

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +3

      My grandaughter wouldn't understand either being two.....I couldn't even imagine

  • @TexMomHollie
    @TexMomHollie 2 роки тому +133

    I'm a single mom of a 10 year old with down syndrome. That line about the funeral ripped my heart out! I'm hugging my boy extra tight tonight

    • @melcollins3039
      @melcollins3039 2 роки тому +6

      Yes I think the cruellest part in all this is that Kyle lost his Mum. I too have special needs children and nobody knows them quite like I do.

    • @sandrapisani9225
      @sandrapisani9225 2 роки тому +4

      @@melcollins3039 and that this sweet boy doesn't quite comprehend what's happened and continues to look for his mom .. heartbreaking .. R.I.P. Melinda

    • @STI2000
      @STI2000 Рік тому +2

      Growing up I had a second cousin with Downs. Back then patients were referred to as Mongoloids. I’m so happy we have evolved from the medical “Dark Ages”. I have nothing but respect and compassion for you and your family.

    • @joshdean5867
      @joshdean5867 Рік тому

      @@STI2000 mongoloids 🤣🤣🤣

    • @MegaSmk
      @MegaSmk Рік тому +2

      @@STI2000 chill, it's just language. there were times, when the "idiot" was a medical term. "Mongoloid" was correct until a few decades ago. People meant exactly the same thing that they do when they say "down syndrome" today. Now just quickly stop assuming that everything rotates around your personal and subjective understanding of things, open your mind and imagine a time a few decades into the future - I'm pretty sure we'll be using another word and scoffing at ourselves in retrospect for having ever said "down syndrome".

  • @Aotearoa267
    @Aotearoa267 3 місяці тому +3

    Such a sad and shocking event for this family. God Bless them.

  • @arustyshadyplaceakakatie5087
    @arustyshadyplaceakakatie5087 2 роки тому +89

    The dispatch officer who spoke with Jeff in the beginning did a phenomenal job. Keeping in good communication with Jeff while getting information

    • @expressivepets1
      @expressivepets1 2 роки тому +7

      You're kidding right?

    • @arustyshadyplaceakakatie5087
      @arustyshadyplaceakakatie5087 2 роки тому +1

      @@expressivepets1 no not at all. I think she was very engaging in the conversation.

    • @cocksure8430
      @cocksure8430 2 роки тому +2

      @@arustyshadyplaceakakatie5087 I commented the same thing, I think she was very reassuring, while at the same time ascertaining all the facts, making sure he was OK before passing him onto police.
      Lots of other posts are condemning her, but I don't get why??

    • @sexi8784
      @sexi8784 2 роки тому

      I think it’s because her voice is very off putting to some. At first i thought “I would hung up on this lady!” but now i can see in her words that she was very caring.

  • @dae4444
    @dae4444 2 роки тому +647

    We need more 911 operators like the first woman. She was calm n showed compassion while collecting all the small necessary details

    • @deftones8717
      @deftones8717 2 роки тому +48

      Agreed… I’ve heard wayy too many 911 recordings where the dispatchers have zero compassion and they take it personal when the callers are in distress and crying and/or screaming or whatever, and rather than empathizing and realizing that the caller is just in a really crazy situation and is emotional, they act insulted and frustrated and start copping an attitude.. if you are sensitive and have thin skin and get triggered easily, you probably shouldn’t get into such a hectic position that requires that you keep your composure and remain professional .. but yeah, there are some realllllly messed up 911 calls out there that made my blood boil. This woman was amazing though 🤟🏻even though it turned out that she was being kind to the actual perpetrator lol. The one time a sweet operator picks up, it’s the killer on the other end 😆

    • @ohsuzeyq_
      @ohsuzeyq_ 2 роки тому +77

      Never heard a 911 operator that said sorry for the circumstances

    • @julief2830
      @julief2830 2 роки тому +12

      @@ohsuzeyq_ Me either....very heartfelt

    • @lucysphotosfromar
      @lucysphotosfromar 2 роки тому +57

      @@ohsuzeyq_ and you shouldn't she was the most unprofessional 911 operator. You don't ask questions and then give answers or talk over the caller. Horrible. As well as the first interview.
      A first interview is not writing the report. What an unprofessional department.

    • @CaptKPinksies
      @CaptKPinksies 2 роки тому +38

      @@lucysphotosfromar I was gonna say, she assumed the husband attacked the victim and mentioned it to the caller.

  • @Offu-cz9wl
    @Offu-cz9wl 2 роки тому +113

    Man when the father Bruce spoke it gave me chills and made me tear up. God bless this poor family. I can’t even begin to image the hardship Kyle goes through daily waiting for his mother to come home. Praying for these fine individuals 😔🙏🏼

    • @conniehenrys6823
      @conniehenrys6823 2 роки тому

      @susan ivy 1

    • @BrendaSP13
      @BrendaSP13 2 роки тому +5

      @susan ivy I didn’t know who was guilty - the husband’s call didn’t raise any red flags for me, at all

    • @cmont4064
      @cmont4064 2 роки тому +2

      @susan ivy well stated, Thank you. Nope I did not know who murdered Mel but I thought Jeff on his 911 call was over explaining, other than that I would have not thought he was guilty.

    • @cheycheyfriend247
      @cheycheyfriend247 2 роки тому +3

      @@cmont4064 "over explaining" lol okay. idk its bizarre we expect people to act any sort of way in a traumatic situation. everyone is different.

    • @cmont4064
      @cmont4064 2 роки тому +1

      @@cheycheyfriend247 you are right , I may have been watching to many crime analysis 😁With Love from Washington State 💚🌲

  • @1stsharkb8
    @1stsharkb8 8 місяців тому +4

    The husband's interview was hard to watch. When they make him relive everything and you can see he starts suspecting that their harrasser and now murderer has been living in his house, eating his food, and screwing his daughter. Someone he KNEW was a loser but tried to help because his daughter had a child with him. So sad.

  • @nikiyadansby1847
    @nikiyadansby1847 2 роки тому +98

    The interviews and interrogations were incredible! The police did a fantastic job. God bless that family, unfortunately kindness is Not always rewarded. Be careful who you let into your life. When your spirit says no, you say no.

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +2

      So true Well Said

    • @E-Kat
      @E-Kat 2 роки тому +2

      Nothing less is ever expected from the police; that’s exactly what their job involves! Nothing out of ordinary and they’re getting paid for it well.

    • @aridyaacob3172
      @aridyaacob3172 2 роки тому +2

      But some people can be clueless about a person’s character especially when they’re young. And being clueless, they can be easily manipulated. Be more discerning, ladies. Get your mum’s advice about someone and pay attention to it.

    • @misscortez6621
      @misscortez6621 2 роки тому +2

      Best statement ever🙏♥️

  • @julietkerr7915
    @julietkerr7915 2 роки тому +114

    As a mother to a son with “special needs” this breaks my heart even harder. That poor young man who won’t be able to understand why his mother went away forever. Thankfully he has an amazing family around him but what a senseless awful tragedy by a pathetic narcissistic piece of 💩

    • @sarah0706
      @sarah0706 2 роки тому +4

      I agree, I am also a mother of a special needs son and daughter, it really does break my heart too. God bless you

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +3

      I am friends with two families who have a child with severe Downs.....both Mothers are terrified to die first knowing their child would be completely terrified and lost every day searching and waiting for them.....might seem an odd thing for Mother's to say but I understand it comes from love and protection

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +1

      @@sarah0706 God bless you !!!!

    • @sarah0706
      @sarah0706 2 роки тому +3

      @@raintree3383 what u say is so true, we had my Aunty pass away about a month ago and the down cousin was and still expecting mum to come home.

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +2

      @@sarah0706 That is crushingly sad....thank you so much for replying to me and love to your Family from Canada

  • @donculotta1551
    @donculotta1551 2 роки тому +130

    The saddest part of all is the fact that Kyle will never understand that his mom will never be home again and, I have no doubt, has been looking out the window for her to this day.

    • @rempanda
      @rempanda 2 роки тому +3

      It's a myth that people with down's don't understand death - they absolutely do. But what we do see is a very delayed reaction to death, sometimes it may be 6 months later and sometimes it may be 6 years later. And they will experience it all very vividly in that moment of onset grief and often outsiders will assume the loss was very recent due to how vividly that person is experiencing the loss. So Kyle will be aware but that connection between cognitive knowledge and acceptance takes much longer than in a neurotypical person.

    • @moriA503
      @moriA503 2 роки тому

      😭😭😭

  • @oscargreat
    @oscargreat 7 місяців тому +5

    What a great dispatcher (the first). Light-years ahead of what they use to be like. The second is what they use to be.

  • @shiftessfaustus7782
    @shiftessfaustus7782 2 роки тому +17

    Bless his heart. Bruce was still in shock during the interview. Wishing I could hug him.

  • @sliving7386
    @sliving7386 2 роки тому +97

    Jason Forbis have the best voice for fear file's.... PLEASE DONT CHANGE HIM

    • @LeiliMana
      @LeiliMana 2 роки тому +4

      I agree!
      There's podcast called "Minds of Madness" and the guy sounds just like him. It's a great podcast

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +1

      @@LeiliMana I will check it out

    • @E-Kat
      @E-Kat 2 роки тому

      Whom?

  • @andrewknaff9220
    @andrewknaff9220 2 роки тому +73

    I’ve heard this case before but this video has so much more content than any other video I had seen about it. Thanks for that. Such a sad case!

    • @cathymcquistion467
      @cathymcquistion467 2 роки тому

      I heard this on another YT channel, not sure whose it was. It was rather confusing. The history and murder where talked about then just all of a sudden Jeff was arrested. This video actually goes in depth. Heartbreaking

    • @blacktooth3336
      @blacktooth3336 2 роки тому

      Mr. Ballen

  • @NicOneRockRec
    @NicOneRockRec 3 місяці тому +3

    40:45 The fact this guy actually got a girl is mind-blowing. Not to mention a pretty girl who was willing to have his child (She had to be worried her baby girl would come out looking like him 100%). She let him sit at home and be lazy all day while she worked. She was even going to marry him! He hit the jackpot and either didn't realize it or just didn't care.

  • @traceyo428
    @traceyo428 2 роки тому +321

    Why would the judge give him life with parole? This crime is especially heinous. It was clearly planned. And extremely violent.

    • @WonderWhatHappened
      @WonderWhatHappened 2 роки тому +48

      I don't know for sure but I believe he took an Alford Plea to avoid the death penalty and to forgo a trial. Which just admitting that there is overwhelming evidence that he committed crime but not admitting to actually killing her. Having done that, he's giving a life sentence ( In Ohio he serves 30 years and then can go in front of parole board who can release him but more than likely won't . But it's still possible.) The other three years were added to the sentence so he will actually serve 33 years and then face a parole board. You can bet that anyone that is involved will be there pleading them not to let him out.

    • @Mixchur
      @Mixchur 2 роки тому +12

      It's appropriately called WYT privilege.
      Only FATHOMABLE excuse.given the
      diabolical,horrendous details of this
      case.

    • @sleek1297
      @sleek1297 2 роки тому +6

      I know!!! It doesn’t make ANY sense

    • @BarkingShark
      @BarkingShark 2 роки тому +29

      With parole doesn't mean the parole board will ever grant it to him. You can guarantee the family will make numerous letters and appeals that will lead to never being let out. I think the sentence was great, especially if you are into true crime you know of TRULY horrid sentences.

    • @sleek1297
      @sleek1297 2 роки тому +16

      @@BarkingShark yeah hopefully the parole board would never grant release but it also sucks for the family to have to relive it every time he’s up for parole. But you are right, there are some pretty horrid sentences that are given out for heinous crimes so I suppose this was a win.

  • @thegutter4047
    @thegutter4047 2 роки тому +70

    Imagine how the fiancé feels every day , the amount of guilt and grief . Her mother was brutally murdered by the man she was gonna marry and who she has a child with . This story is so tragic and senseless

    • @sean85ster
      @sean85ster 2 роки тому +3

      There is something odd about that whole story though. I am not sure why his wife made that speech to never allow Jeff to walk the streets again - after what he did.
      She still had intended to marry this guy if this was never found out. Yet she speaks clearly about this guy calling him a boy - a liar etc.
      (All of which musteve been true prior to the murder aswell).
      I dont know - its just weird that she is convinced that he is a monster. But if he was never found guilty? I mean its a guy she intended to marry.

    • @nancimarie
      @nancimarie 2 роки тому +3

      @@sean85ster If I found out the man I loved killed my parent, my opinion would change pretty fast to. The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference.

    • @NunYaaBizz
      @NunYaaBizz 2 роки тому

      @@nancimarie where you read that? an oprah magazine?

    • @nancimarie
      @nancimarie 2 роки тому

      @@NunYaaBizz Nope, just good old broken heart has taught me that.

    • @NunYaaBizz
      @NunYaaBizz 2 роки тому

      @@nancimarie maybe you need to see a doctor the heart is important organ

  • @JME1186
    @JME1186 2 роки тому +43

    The narrators voice sounds like the ideal evening radio DJ voice. “Sounds from the globe, brought to you by the fine folks at WPLG 96.5; ride home in rhythm” . Lol I love it!

  • @peggyrebeck4683
    @peggyrebeck4683 3 місяці тому +2

    May this person think about what he did to a beautiful soul for the rest of his life behind bars

  • @lillianbrand1728
    @lillianbrand1728 2 роки тому +100

    There's a very sad boy waiting and waiting for his mom to come home, unable to comprehend that she will never be coming home. Baby Aurora having to grow up and be told that her "father" is the remorseless killer of her granny. What in the hell did the daughter of Mel see in this lump of lard?????? Hope the fellow prisoners enjoy him!!!

    • @thelunchlady8276
      @thelunchlady8276 2 роки тому +19

      Haha. Lump of lard.

    • @Avalonserena
      @Avalonserena 2 роки тому +11

      She met him in high-school. I wouldn’t place much judgement on her.

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +5

      @Shanna Crossman WTF...she was a teenager..what is wrong with you ?

  • @ShouldHaveBeenAStripper
    @ShouldHaveBeenAStripper 2 роки тому +257

    One of the things I love about this channel is the condolences they present to the victims and their loved ones in the beginning of the episode. Such a sweet gesture. Sad story all around but very well done.❤

    • @tiffanysadlertlc
      @tiffanysadlertlc 2 роки тому +9

      More true crime channels should be more empathetic to the victims. There are some good ones out there but definitely some big ones that don’t. I use to watch Bailey Sarian but she doesn’t show enough respect to the victims in my opinion. And she has blown up hugely in the past couple of years.

    • @wildechild5
      @wildechild5 2 роки тому +4

      I agree I don't hear that enough from creators. It's a kind and lovely gesture.

    • @hatethatuloveme2365
      @hatethatuloveme2365 2 роки тому +1

      Why? Do u think the families actually watch true crime... every single video.. you'd have to be as nonfuckgiving as me to watch ur own shitshow on UA-cam lmao every channel every story about it.. secondly. What effect do those words have? As a member of the field, I can say for a fact ones sensitivity definitely decreases with exposure.... this is hours of research and editing. This channel due to its analysis actually divulges I to every word said.. no offense to the channel but its weird to me that you love this generic auto-response. Auto responses are called that because of their intent to make u feel comfort. Lol

    • @hatethatuloveme2365
      @hatethatuloveme2365 2 роки тому +1

      Respect the victims??? Their dead! Theres not any on issue with alive people that you can use that frustration toward... ? Now were advocating for random dead people we never met. We empathize them because they're dead but want respect for them as though they're alive??? 🤦‍♀️

    • @wildechild5
      @wildechild5 2 роки тому +10

      @@hatethatuloveme2365 calm down and give it a rest. No one wants to hear your blah, blah, blahing. If you don't like it then move on.

  • @gic8849
    @gic8849 2 роки тому +119

    He nailed that 911 call. Damn. This guy is so dangerous

    • @lisamh9037
      @lisamh9037 2 роки тому +22

      True! Not only did I think based on the dad's 911 call that he seemed suspicious... I also thought this spud was very natural and innocent on his 911 call. I was totally fooled.

    • @gic8849
      @gic8849 2 роки тому +22

      I didn’t think the dad was suspicious at all. He just must be an alpha-type. I can very easily see my husband cracking off like that, because he would feel it should’ve never been allowed to happen to begin with.
      They called the police numerous times.
      He thought it was someone outside of the family home; someone who would’ve had to come to his home, from some place else, so if the police “did their job” they should’ve been able to stop them, or at least, identify them, much sooner.
      He needed to place blame, immediately, to justify his wife’s murder. His brain isn’t the type to panic, or to mourn first, it’s most likely always been primed to fight first, feel later.
      He must’ve been forced to cope with some type of trauma early on in his life to react like that. But, his reaction isn’t an uncommon one.
      Looking at only the 911 calls? I’d never, ever be able to accurately guess which one did it. But if I had to choose one, without knowing any better, I’m sure I’d say the father did it lol..this is because the other is an absolute sociopath and knows exactly how to behave, by watching others. He pulled it off, flawlessly.
      And the father only knows what’s genuine, to him. Genuine can sometimes be off-putting.

    • @debravan1167
      @debravan1167 2 роки тому +2

      Really? I knew it was Jeff once I heard the phone call. He didn’t sound innocent to me. He sounded irritated, annoyed and rude. He also couldn’t answer simple questions like how old her son was. Which he should know. Then I knew it was him.

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 2 роки тому

      @@gic8849 Yes! I never suspected the father. Plus it was revealed early on who committed the act.

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 2 роки тому

      @@debravan1167 Me too.

  • @crypton_8l87
    @crypton_8l87 Рік тому +29

    How can such a person be set free after 33 years??? Prison will only make him even more of a monster! He deserved the death penalty and nothing less.

    • @w1lf1ewoo
      @w1lf1ewoo Рік тому

      believe it or not some people do mature and reform..and it will be up to him to prove it when the time comes, he's only 20 and childlike... I understand vengeance but I think the sentence is relatively fair.

    • @gracefullikeagazelle
      @gracefullikeagazelle Рік тому

      @@w1lf1ewoo "Childlike"?? Are you nuts? What 20-year old "child" (and father to a small child) plots the murder of his mother-in-law-to-be months ahead of time and performs elaborate, criminal and terrifying ruses to provide his monstrous self with a way out? You're a joke and he is a monster. PERIOD.

    • @ireckon6791
      @ireckon6791 Рік тому

      I wonder if he's still blaming Mel and claiming self defense and "I don't remember" ​@@w1lf1ewoo

    • @bkpk4hisapplesauce
      @bkpk4hisapplesauce 10 місяців тому

      oh yeah I bet Jeff with definitely change because narcissists change so easily ​@@w1lf1ewoo

    • @vincedidiana5781
      @vincedidiana5781 9 місяців тому

      That’s just when he goes in front of the parole board for the first time. I highly doubt he’ll get released the first opportunity. A lot will depend on his behavior in prison and if he tries to better himself in many ways. My buddy, although not a murderer, had a 3 year sentence originally and was out in 20 months because he got his degree and behaved well.

  • @melodiefrances3898
    @melodiefrances3898 2 роки тому +123

    The amount of trauma and heartbreak that one monster can cause is unfathomable.
    My heart goes out to this family 😭💔❤️

  • @bynder1818
    @bynder1818 2 роки тому +243

    He was clearly going to be exposed for the lying, manipulative, narcissist that he is. There were obvious red flags that the daughter didn't see (lacked the experience to) but the mom, she knew it and was going to protect her daughter at all costs. Just absolutely heartbreaking!

    • @espectrodelayautja6320
      @espectrodelayautja6320 2 роки тому +12

      People still use narcissist completely wrong. Lol. Just throw the most common term of current times out there.

    • @phoeberaymond8781
      @phoeberaymond8781 2 роки тому +7

      It sucks cause you can see in the victim statements that she is probably going to feel guilty for this for the rest of her life.

    • @raintree3383
      @raintree3383 2 роки тому +8

      @@phoeberaymond8781 I pray she finds peace....the only one to blame is Jeff

    • @sandrabentley8111
      @sandrabentley8111 2 роки тому +16

      I think his girlfriend saw everything, all his flaws and still decided to stay with him. He didn't even work, contributed nothing. Looked after the baby? Maybe. They said part time in the video. Guy was a deadbeat.

    • @SantinoCorleon1
      @SantinoCorleon1 2 роки тому +2

      He’s a freaking case study on narcissism

  • @denisestover2416
    @denisestover2416 2 роки тому +235

    I have been on both sides of the Emergency Service's. I was a medic, an Emergency Medical Dispatcher, a 911 Dispatcher, a police and fire dispatcher. Listening to so many 911 calls it is so, so, SO irritating to hear the 911 dispatcher at first not engaged and then when hearing the seriousness of the call, decide that attention is needed and start throwing things out there instead of listening from the beginning.
    It is terribly embarrassing to hear dispatchers not listening to the caller, not because the caller is over emotional or crazy stuff is going on, but because they weren't listening to begin with. Very, very frustrating!
    Please know, many dispatchers care about what they're doing and people they're helping (or trying to help). Don't judge us by dipsh*ts like this lady!

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 2 роки тому +58

      This is nothing. There’s a case where a woman called 911 while her car was sinking and she was trapped in the vehicle. The dispatcher was cold and uncaring and basically just kept telling her to “calm down “.
      The women drowned to death while on the phone. She got no compassion whatsoever in her last moments of life.
      THAT one was torturous to listen to. You can find it on UA-cam but I’d advise against it. It’s heartbreaking and infuriating. I wanted to strangle the woman who took that call. Why get a job like that if you don’t give a damn or have any empathy?

    • @marleylove510
      @marleylove510 2 роки тому +23

      @@supernova11711
      Omg, I know exactly what you’re talking about! Out of every single 911 call I have heard out of years of listening to 911 call, that is absolutely the worst call I have heard, and probably will be the worst ever! I actually think about it even when I’m not even watching UA-cam and it bothers me to the core 😞.

    • @marleylove510
      @marleylove510 2 роки тому +20

      I thought I was the only one that thought dispatch was kind of rude. I felt bad, I’m glad you said what you said because I believe wholeheartedly that most, if not 99% of dispatch are kind and caring people who take their jobs seriously. Ty for your services 🙏🏼.

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 2 роки тому +16

      @@marleylove510 I know! It’s one of those things that never leaves you. Thinking of what that poor woman went through just kills me.
      Screw that dispatch woman, I hope she was fired.

    • @marleylove510
      @marleylove510 2 роки тому +17

      @@supernova11711
      What I heard, I don’t know how true, but it was her last day on the job, and she was found of no wrong doing 😡, because I think it was looked into. But my gosh, she was so insensitive and incompetent, makes me wonder how she handled other call in her time as a 911 dispatch. I often think of that poor woman and hope she is resting peacefully in heaven, (if that was her belief) but nonetheless resting peacefully in her afterlife. I hope the dispatch lady has an unhappy life and thinks of the last words she said to that woman. I know that’s probably mean of me, but that’s how much it impacted me. I wish I could have told her she was going to be ok, or tried to make her last moments more caring and comfortable.
      Sorry for caring on like this but that was so repulsive to me. I’m glad I’m not the only one woh thought she was horrible.

  • @sigmachad5331
    @sigmachad5331 2 роки тому +4

    Seeing the spouse start realizing all the strings in the web of lies is truly something else...
    We're all addicted to these videos.. But I have never seen one quite like this.. Truly chilling.

  • @TheToVaR101
    @TheToVaR101 2 роки тому +32

    The way Bruce was putting the pieces together in his interview with the officer… it’s crazy yet heartbreaking to see 💔

  • @teslagirl1
    @teslagirl1 2 роки тому +292

    What caused Jeff to murder Mel may have been as simple as her finding out the truth behind one of his many lies...or as innocuous and predictable as Mel having a kind, motherly talk with him about what he needed to do to be a good husband to her daughter and a real father to her granddaughter. She was a teacher...and I imagine there might have been many teachable moments in Jeff's life with her family, but as a kind person and a good mom, she probably let 99% of the small stuff slide. Whatever happened, I imagine his plan for after the murder might have been to keep living in his father in law's house, letting his father in law support them all...until father in law either happened to find out something Jeff was hiding or said the wrong thing...like "when will you get a job, Jeff?" Clearly he wasn't considering what the absence of Melinda's income might mean to his own comfort and, if he had, might have just thought that his fiance or her dad could just work more hours, but you can't start killing a household's wage earners and expect to have the same standard of living. It's a good thing police locked him up before he killed another member of the family who took him in.

    • @dmreddragon6
      @dmreddragon6 2 роки тому +23

      I see it pretty much the same way.
      This way of thinking that others (usually family) should be supporting them, and their murderous response when that is threatened seems to be more, and more common amongst a certain demographic.

    • @7Mushrooms7
      @7Mushrooms7 2 роки тому +21

      I totally agree with this. I've never met someone like Jeff but had someone in the family that presented some similar traits: he felt entitled to be supported by others and when someone presented the slightest bit of resistence to this, he'd lash out and do revenge acts against them. In addition I think that Jeff was probably one of those sociopaths that you don't even need to cross him out rightly. You can be the kindest person to him but if you do or say the slightest thing that upsets them, even if you don't even know you did something perceived as such to them, he'll out a target on your back. He might be smilling in your face for years after the fact just waiting for the right moment to exert the revenge. Volatile enough to cause damage for the smallest things but cold and calculated enough to plan it properly. Those are the most dangerous people.

    • @teslagirl1
      @teslagirl1 2 роки тому +9

      @@7Mushrooms7 Agreed. I think you and I probably learned young to be close students of human behavior...it's the best self defense.

    • @mudmudmudmudmud7605
      @mudmudmudmudmud7605 2 роки тому +1

      @Whereis TheSerenity
      What demographic are you talking about?

    • @KamalasFakePolls
      @KamalasFakePolls 2 роки тому

      @@mudmudmudmudmud7605 Burn Loot Murder and Antifa

  • @XleilaniX
    @XleilaniX 2 роки тому +175

    It's so sad that Jeff never had an ounce of remorse at all. No valid reason to do that to Mel and his supposed to be future family.

    • @lica1598
      @lica1598 2 роки тому +15

      Only that maybe Mel had caught him in a lie? But we'll never know unless he talks.

    • @subrosa4792
      @subrosa4792 2 роки тому +4

      I think he was supposed to be paying for a part of the wedding, and clearly didn’t have the $.

    • @7Mushrooms7
      @7Mushrooms7 2 роки тому +6

      She caught him in a few lies about the wedding. But this murder was definitely planned so I don't think it was a matter of snapping after a confrontation. He conjured turning riders alibi for over a year and he planned things to keep Bruce out of the house in time to commit the murder.

  • @doobies3912
    @doobies3912 6 місяців тому +2

    Bruce had genuine emotion you can see he doesn't care how he looks because it's genuine

  • @CeeBee781
    @CeeBee781 2 роки тому +244

    As soon as I heard Bruce’s 911 call I thought, “He killed her”. He immediately starts churning out explanations: break ins, the son is with her, he has Down syndrome. Then he says “her face hit the ground”. That isn’t something you’d say unless you saw it happen. He starts placing blame: on the neighbors, for not “watching the area”, on the police, on the city, etc. I’d only just heard the call but I’ll be damned if he didn’t kill her or have something to do with it.
    Just goes to show, you can’t jump to conclusions. It’s true what they say: everyone texts differently. Apparently, his immediate response was to try to figure it out, come up with an explanation. In The 911 call, he displayed a lot of behaviors that guilty people will display. Talking to much, trying to explain, placing suspicions in the dispatchers mind, placing blame in others. But he didn’t do it.

    • @ediblefredible
      @ediblefredible 2 роки тому +11

      yes! almost same for me; usually true crime videos that start with a 911 recording, it turns out that they're the culprit. but i was thinking to myself "this guy sounds pretty genuine, this must not actually be who did it". felt gross realizing i got duped so easily, lol

    • @natbaker2561
      @natbaker2561 2 роки тому +19

      same. As soon as I heard that I was like....🧐🤔 how would you know her face hit the ground. Then scrambling to find an excuse for the killing and not wanting to attempt CPR.

    • @kathleen7849
      @kathleen7849 2 роки тому +11

      Yeah, to me the son-in-law sounded more natural and actually shaky and the husband sounded guilty.

    • @Stokedhavok
      @Stokedhavok 2 роки тому +2

      Cee Bee
      Well said! I had the same initial suspicions as you!

    • @Stokedhavok
      @Stokedhavok 2 роки тому

      Kathleen
      Yes! Same!

  • @jayt9882
    @jayt9882 2 роки тому +178

    It's extraordinary isn't it, the different types of being who inhabit this world. Impossible to believe that we're all the same species sometimes. My heart goes out to all who loved Mel.

    • @worldunited4903
      @worldunited4903 2 роки тому +4

      Spiritual warfare...all sorts of spirits yes

    • @brittanyturner5148
      @brittanyturner5148 2 роки тому +4

      It is! People in general amaze me! Some good, some even extraordinary, others it is more of a disgusting amazement.

    • @jadezee6316
      @jadezee6316 2 роки тому +3

      same species does not mean same brains.....which btw are good things to use once in a while...

  • @sparty94
    @sparty94 2 роки тому +59

    never heard of this case, this guy jeff is a real piece of work. i hope the pleskovic family can find some peace and healing, but it's got to be difficult after such a horrible betrayal.

    • @OnBakePlatinum
      @OnBakePlatinum Рік тому +2

      If you watch his full interigation, you will hate him even more. He acts like the whole thing is beneath him. Then when he is found out, he just sits there saying "I didn't do anything" at least 100 times. If I was in the room, I would have smacked the shit out of him.

    • @Nikki_with_the_blikki
      @Nikki_with_the_blikki Рік тому

      ​@@OnBakePlatinumOMG YES! THAT INTERROGATION WAS BLOOD BOILING! He's such an effing loser, you just want to ch*ke him😤 The epitome of a parasite that wormed his way into a nice family, completely undeserving of their any of their love and compassion. I hope they make a meal of him in prison.

  • @mel.driaaa5637
    @mel.driaaa5637 8 місяців тому +4

    To take this woman’s life & then carry her casket is disgusting ……

  • @TheTaurean
    @TheTaurean 2 роки тому +86

    I have to say..this is The Best video you guys have ever done on this channel. Impeccable editing from the interviews, the 911 call, victim impact statements. Just great work overall 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this was a story I’ve never heard of but one of the saddest.

    • @cho6140
      @cho6140 2 роки тому +4

      The subtitling could've been better.

    • @Brind-amour
      @Brind-amour 2 роки тому +4

      @@cho6140
      Just go away.

    • @raerobeas
      @raerobeas 2 роки тому

      @@Brind-amour Who pissed in your wheaties this morning

  • @roboticzamat
    @roboticzamat 2 роки тому +42

    The 911 lady was so lovely, caring, and professional.
    Bless her..

  • @BeedotWill
    @BeedotWill 2 роки тому +28

    This case absolutely broke my heart. He’s beyond evil-and poor Kyle..My goodness.

  • @mlf1980
    @mlf1980 2 роки тому +15

    poor Bruce and Kyle.. I cannot imagine the pain of learning it was someone under their own roof 💔

  • @SurlyHannah
    @SurlyHannah 2 роки тому +37

    Not the first time I'd heard this case but this was very in depth and well done!
    This story drives me mad with how senseless this crime was, and how absolutely heartless this guy acted after the fact, implicating the husband and special needs boy even.
    Keep him in a box for eternity, imo.

  • @Kilee2014
    @Kilee2014 2 роки тому +50

    My heart breaks for him. Its so sad and you can see him reliving finding his wife dead. Poor Kyle who was left alone with his mother's body.. I hope they are starting to heal now that this person has been convicted.

    • @cathymcquistion467
      @cathymcquistion467 2 роки тому +6

      While I feel for the entire family, my heart broke over poor Kyle home alone with his murdered mom.

  • @montanaelkwhisperer1744
    @montanaelkwhisperer1744 2 роки тому +80

    Since when are 911 operators homicide detectives? Asking about forced entry, dogs, who's this person?...who is that person?...how old are they?...after the cops got there, she was STILL asking him non-emergency related questions. That was THE most bizarre 911 conversation i've ever heard in my entire life!!

    • @emiliestratman4153
      @emiliestratman4153 2 роки тому +16

      I AGREE....it just seems like these 911 operators switched jobs....from the Walmart .... to becoming 911 operators....WITHOUT any schooling....!!!

    • @emiliestratman4153
      @emiliestratman4153 2 роки тому +14

      YEP....and there are SO SO MANY MORE of these strange 911 operators that DO NOT LISTEN to their CALLERS in distress....CRAZY, right?

    • @oldmandoinghighkicksonlyin1368
      @oldmandoinghighkicksonlyin1368 2 роки тому +50

      Sometimes the purpose is to keep people calm and focused.
      Or it's to glean more information to feed to police who are heading into an unknown situation.
      911 operators have a difficult job, don't dump on them.

    • @emiliestratman4153
      @emiliestratman4153 2 роки тому +7

      @@oldmandoinghighkicksonlyin1368 ......OLD MAN...of course it is NOT a genaralty.....BUT, as a true crime fan...I've HEARD so many DISPACTERS, ...NOT LISTENING....asking stupid questions OVER and OVER again....instead of TRYING to REALLY understand the grave SITUATION of the callers....

    • @truth4004
      @truth4004 2 роки тому +9

      @@oldmandoinghighkicksonlyin1368 shouldnt she have been asking about the woman bleeding on the floor? Like CPR and stopping bleeding etc?

  • @MoonlightMenagerie
    @MoonlightMenagerie Рік тому +10

    It is agonizing to watch the Dad’s interview. Seeing him piece it all together and relive it was just horrible. I don’t want to even type the killers name but he deserves to rot. I hope this family is able to find some peace and healing.