How to be Mentally Strong- 7 Habits of Emotionally Strong People - Qasim Ali Shah

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  • @salmanqadeer4772
    @salmanqadeer4772 3 роки тому +312

    1) Self belief - to understand your self (strengths).
    2) Self Cure/Self love - have self respect, maintain your self, dress well, hygiene.
    3) Logic Vs Emotions- take situations in logic
    4) judging yourself- thank Allah for everything.
    5) Need to find reason for everything - example why someone has not replied to your messages or calls.
    6) Trying to Control and Plan everything - you cannot correct everything you want. Apply energy to things which you can control.
    7) Who Allow other's to control their lives - Don't give control about your decisions to others. Don't interfere in anyone's personal matters unless they ask. Try to decide yourself and believe in your decision.

    • @epictubber1383
      @epictubber1383 3 роки тому +2

      Thanks alot

    • @أميرةالإسلامماشاءالله
      @أميرةالإسلامماشاءالله 2 роки тому +5

      Jazkmullahu khairan katheera fidduniya wal aakhirah aamin
      May Allah bless you from the immensely blessings aamin may Allah accept your good deeds n all dawah efforts aamin

    • @ghaniali5933
      @ghaniali5933 2 роки тому

      Tyyjthogt

    • @toobaqureshi9842
      @toobaqureshi9842 2 роки тому +1

      Nashukri ⁉️
      Banda Clinically bhe depressed ho skta hai. If your brain/body has low chemicals (like Serotonin/dopamine etc) that are neurotransmitters, then they have a brainfog, body fatigue and fibromyalgia. Lecturar sahab 🙂

    • @faysalfaysi6907
      @faysalfaysi6907 2 роки тому +1

      thanks alot

  • @mdruhullah6662
    @mdruhullah6662 2 роки тому +7

    I,am Indian Muslim
    میں آپ کو استادوں کا استاد مانتا ہوں۔ میں آپ کے لیکچرز سن کر اپنی زندگی میں کئی تبدیلیاں لائی بہت کچھ سیکھا آپ کے لیکچرز سے شکریہ۔
    جزاک اللہ خیرا کثیرا۔
    اللہ آپ کے عمر میں برکت عطا فرمائے اللہ آپ سے اور کام لے۔۔۔۔آمین۔

  • @nisarbinyousuf6635
    @nisarbinyousuf6635 3 роки тому +48

    جزاک اللہ
    پیارے نبی پر ہر پل لاکھوں درود و سلام

  • @jadoonfreemixvlog
    @jadoonfreemixvlog 3 роки тому +10

    رمضان المبارک کے اس مقدس مہینے میں میری یہ دعا ہے آپ کےلیے
    اللہ تعالی آپ کو اور آپ کے والدین کو دنیا اور آخرت کی کامیابی عطاء فرمائے آمین

  • @mujeeburrahmanmujeeburrahm7665
    @mujeeburrahmanmujeeburrahm7665 4 місяці тому +1

    ماشاءاللہ
    سر آپ کے لیکچرز بہترین ہوتے ہیں ۔ تعریف کے لئے الفاظ نہیں ۔
    اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو اپنے شایان شان دنیا و آخرت کی تمام خوشیاں ، سعادتیں نصیب کرے۔ آمین

  • @rahabali6272
    @rahabali6272 2 роки тому +5

    allah hum sab ko mentally strong rakhe ameeeeen

  • @rozibibi4269
    @rozibibi4269 3 роки тому +2

    شاہ جی .ًبہت اچھا. لکچر تھا اپ کا سکون اتا ھے اپ کی باتیں سن کر

  • @Islamicbookreview
    @Islamicbookreview 2 роки тому +9

    Listening to your lecture for the 1st time and MashaAllah its very useful sir❤️ Love from India 🇮🇳

  • @nikhathfatima6820
    @nikhathfatima6820 11 місяців тому +2

    AssalaamuAlikum ,MashaAllah jazakal Allahu Khair. Such a explaintary with everything Alhumdulillah find a new vision of macro solutions.

  • @mrsubham1157
    @mrsubham1157 3 роки тому +21

    Lots of Love and Respect from India❤
    I watch all your videos🙏🏻

  • @fazalali1895
    @fazalali1895 Рік тому +1

    Your brilliant person . Thanks for your information. Motivation 😊. Love Pakistan 🇵🇰. From Uk 🇬🇧

  • @shalishroza6007
    @shalishroza6007 2 роки тому +10

    this lecture was about me ...thanks sir now ill try to make me strong ..God bless u 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @EnglandEngland-cr2sh
    @EnglandEngland-cr2sh 3 роки тому +26

    Self believe is the greatest weapon,always improve it

  • @khanjee3651
    @khanjee3651 3 роки тому +14

    MashaAllah aap ko Allah Tallah lambi zindagi de Ameen

  • @mubeenbutt4993
    @mubeenbutt4993 3 роки тому +2

    brri himmat hoti hy wese teachers ka hi hosla hota k wo roz roz wahi batyn dohraty rehty hn me ne ye apka dusra lecture dekha 2 ki speed pe ......
    wo log bhi shayad bahadur or pukhta soch k hamil hon gy jo roz follow krty hyn aysay lecturez....
    mere liye dua krwa dyn sir k me b achi baatyn rozana ki bunyad pr follow krna shuru kr dooon...

  • @AbdulBasit-kl3nq
    @AbdulBasit-kl3nq 2 роки тому +17

    For to become emotionally strong, there must be 7 habits in someone personality, if anyone is lack in these 7 habits the person will be declared emotionally weak.
    These signs are as under...
    1)self belief: Self belief is the pillar of mentally strong personality level. Most of the people integrate in doubt of self believe but by doing so, they waste their time of struggle and the level of energy which they invest by securing proper success. Doubt in self belief can hesitate someone from their way of goal and proper acknowledge level which is necessary to do so while fighting in life journey.
    2) self love: There is difference between self love and selfish, self lover can care of himself without torturing or killing others while selfish takes the benefits of someone emotion to care of himself. In Islamic perspective, the selfish is morally sin and the society too doesn't want to accept the selfish, on the other hand self love is the main sign of true human and the prophet also emphasis his ummah to do so. We will never become a model human unless and untill we would not take the responsibility of self care and self love. Our Prophet PBUH is the role model of self love and also wants to do so by ummah too.
    3) self judgement: Judgement can be carried out on two basis, one is on the basis of emotions and other one on the basis of logic. Emotionally strong people can judge theirselves on the basis of logic, not on emotional level but weakly emotional people can on the basis of emotional power. Emotionally weak people's can hit their relation in a bad way and can hamper the societal atmosphere.
    4) Judging yourself for how you feel: some people feel theirselves mentally low on the level of friendly circle, feel that I am nothing and no one help or support me. People love those who are mentally strong and didn't abuse the situation more and more by criticizing or disrespect any one. The sign of true mentally strong people's are, they never criticize the people even the situation and never blame anything but remain positive, kindhearted and respectfull.
    5)Need to find reason behind everything: some people want to know the reason behind everything and when they people stuck in a difficult task in life, they feel regret in life and show unethical power to handle it. Strong people ignore these things which is small and have no role in their life, they just looked out it and think our it to feel what the situation behind it.
    7) Don't allow others to control you: emotionally strong people take the decision on theirselves and not intervene other peoples to control their life way and goal. Such people hurt in many ways due to problems faced by the decision which take by others to control them. Life decisions should be take by ownselves even do not involve the parents to control them.
    I did this just to improve an English and never mind it so allah Hafiz and really we are emotionally weak but now inshallah will stay strong and happy in life journey.

  • @amjadmehmood1946
    @amjadmehmood1946 3 роки тому +5

    Shah sahab ap puri community k liye ek gift hen aur ekl ehsas ka nam hen

  • @khanjee3651
    @khanjee3651 3 роки тому +2

    MashaAllah Sir mei aap k lecture se mei buhath inspire hothi hon buhath acha bata thy hai

  • @shafynizamani6497
    @shafynizamani6497 2 роки тому

    Thaaaanks ... apki baten sun ke hm waqe khud ko set krne ki koshish krte haib . Allah pak apko khush rkhe .

  • @BCCDAILYPAK
    @BCCDAILYPAK 3 роки тому +1

    Ya ALLAH har insan kamyab ho har insan ko sehat izat dolat or beshumar barkatain rehmatain ata farma Ameen

  • @ZahidAli-pk9te
    @ZahidAli-pk9te 3 роки тому +4

    Jazak Allah Khair Shah Jee. Allah Ap ko aur fahm o frasat atta farmaye aur Ap isi trah ilm ki roshni k diaye jlatay rahen. Ameen

  • @hinamaahi2396
    @hinamaahi2396 2 роки тому

    Thank u so much aj Jo Kuch btay apny wo sab mujhe me they me full koshi karo gi khud ko boht thek karo........

  • @sairairfan7519
    @sairairfan7519 3 роки тому +20

    Outclass Sir 👌 May Allah give you blessed life Aameen 🤲

  • @saadhussain6842
    @saadhussain6842 3 роки тому +1

    شُکر الحمدُللہ کریں کہ اللہ نے آپکو موقع دیا ، ورنہ ہمارے یہاں ہر ممکن حد تک توڑنے کی کوشش کی جاتی ہے

  • @QasimKhan-vv9qm
    @QasimKhan-vv9qm 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u sir Allah apko jazaiy Khair dain

  • @AliRaza-bl8nv
    @AliRaza-bl8nv 3 роки тому +1

    MA shah Allah bohat khas andaz he bhai apka jitni tareef ki jay apki kam he apka har lafz zindgi ki roshni he apko Allah lanbi zindagi day ..ameen..

  • @altafhussaindogar2492
    @altafhussaindogar2492 2 роки тому

    Ma Sha Allah Shah Sahib Allah Pak apko salamat rakhey.

  • @gurmukhsinghjohal3314
    @gurmukhsinghjohal3314 3 роки тому +21

    Sir ji
    Aapka shagird hu
    Salute you from india🇮🇳😊

  • @ateequrrehman8278
    @ateequrrehman8278 3 роки тому

    Shah shb main ny bhtt motivation li h ap ky lectures sy

  • @AbdulQayyum-pu4dw
    @AbdulQayyum-pu4dw 6 місяців тому

    Asalm u alikam
    Sir Allah pak apko lambi Umar atta kry AP ki video dakh bra sabaq hasil HOTA ha AP ki madad Sy zandagi ka maqsad samj ma aata ha

  • @feelthemusic2743
    @feelthemusic2743 3 роки тому

    Thanku soo much sir i am very lucky hamy ap jesa teacher mila Allah pak ap ko seht tndrusti lmbi zindgi dy

  • @samee726
    @samee726 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much...Shah sahab....i AM from Delhi Allah aapko salamat rakhe....

  • @adamhasseeb2151
    @adamhasseeb2151 2 роки тому +5

    SHAH SAHIB YOU ARE DOING A GREAT SERVICE TO IMPROVE THE LIVES OF PEOPLE, ALLAH BLESS YOU Aameen

  • @noorulainameer2597
    @noorulainameer2597 2 роки тому

    Ap ka ek ek lafz behad khas aur eham hy sir. Pakistani's are so lucky we have great leaders.

  • @HamzaHamza-ez4mg
    @HamzaHamza-ez4mg Рік тому

    Allah apko salamat rakhy hum jesy logo k lia.ameen

  • @bulbul1161
    @bulbul1161 3 роки тому +2

    بہت خوب
    اپ کو سن کر خوشی ہوتی ہے
    بہت احترام ہے سر اپ کیلئے

  • @sheebaabrar4318
    @sheebaabrar4318 3 роки тому +7

    Sir i just wanna say... You are superb... You explain things so well... I love the way you teach... Thank you so much sir... Lot of respect from India

  • @muhammadumarlatif6447
    @muhammadumarlatif6447 3 роки тому +8

    *بسْــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمن الرَّحِيم ​*
    *الصلواۃ والسلام علیک یا خاتم انبینﷺ*
    *​اَلسَّلَامُ عَلَیْکُم وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُه‌​*
    Dear Sir, I learned your lectures
    "Wake up with determination. Go to bed with satisfaction."
    Subha Bakhair and
    Good morning,
    Have a lovely day.

  • @princesdoll8026
    @princesdoll8026 2 роки тому

    Sir bht saraa pyaar bht sari duaen apk lye

  • @salishahnaqvi8521
    @salishahnaqvi8521 2 роки тому +1

    JazakAllah amazing lecture Sir Allah Pak apko hamesha apni Hifz.o.Imaan me rakhy Ameen Ya Rab.ul.Almeen

  • @areesharazzaq439
    @areesharazzaq439 3 роки тому +18

    جزاک اللّہ خیرا کثیرا واحسن الجزاء فی الدارین

  • @hashbrownray1304
    @hashbrownray1304 2 роки тому

    behtareen Masha Allah achy baat hain Allah paak aap ko jazak e Khair ata farmay Aameen summa Aameen

  • @khasahmed
    @khasahmed Рік тому

    Zabardast points discussed. jazakAllah sain

  • @sahriz.5934
    @sahriz.5934 3 роки тому +16

    SubhanAllah really needed to listen to this right now. Every time I need motivation I listen to his lectures and it helps tremendously Alhamdulilah. May Allah bless with success in both worlds. Ameen

  • @kulsoombibi297
    @kulsoombibi297 2 роки тому

    Jazza k Allah khair
    May Allah Pak bless u
    Brother
    and all of us

  • @SVwindsor
    @SVwindsor 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Qasim sahib, May Allah reward you for your efforts. AAP Kay pas Buhat knowledge Hai. AAP ka is Kay pechay Buhat hardwork ho GA. 33 percent walay banday AAP NAHI lagtay.

  • @amu.j7
    @amu.j7 2 роки тому

    Jazakallahkhair Qasim Ali Bhai. Apka bohat bohat shukria for such a fantastic lecture plus reminder. I will come to Lahore to meet you. I work with teens here. Slightly similar to what you are doing.

  • @Winston.Scott_007
    @Winston.Scott_007 2 роки тому

    Bht acha laga ye video dekh kr
    I really appreciate 💯

  • @bmapsx6130
    @bmapsx6130 3 роки тому +4

    Love sirr so muccccccch u leacture is my lifeeed

  • @iqrapirzada8177
    @iqrapirzada8177 3 роки тому

    Siir apk is lacture ny mare zindgee bana di.. Thank u sir

  • @moonlightx_yt434
    @moonlightx_yt434 3 роки тому +17

    Alhamdulillah i have taught my kids most of these habits i have a learnt a lot from ur lectures keep spreading positivity sir stay blessed

  • @starangal1299
    @starangal1299 2 роки тому

    Allah pak ap ki izat ko qaim o daim rakhay (ameen)

  • @munazzasharif1353
    @munazzasharif1353 2 роки тому

    اپنی عزت، اپنے آپ سے محبت، اپنا احساس

  • @harwinderkalsi4174
    @harwinderkalsi4174 2 роки тому

    Bahut Acha lecture, thank for motivation.

  • @ajmalali5590
    @ajmalali5590 2 роки тому

    بہت ہی پیاری باتیں ۔ thanks .sir

  • @mathwithumair6394
    @mathwithumair6394 3 роки тому +6

    بندہ بندے کے ساتھ نہیں رہتا ، بندہ بندے کی عادات کے ساتھ رہتا ہے۔ (قاسم علی شاہ)

  • @shahzadi3827
    @shahzadi3827 2 роки тому

    Asslam o Alikum 😊😊😊 main bht Khush hn k ap logu ko heel karny ka zariya hn main bht pareshan thi apki Batain sun k sakun mil gea h

  • @hasanbhai8158
    @hasanbhai8158 2 роки тому

    جزاک اللہ خیرا بہت خوب زبردست ماشاءاللہ 👍

  • @anamsattar2036
    @anamsattar2036 3 роки тому +1

    ہمیشہ سلامتی کی دعا سر جی ۔ ❤️

  • @KalsumQureshi-t3c
    @KalsumQureshi-t3c Рік тому +1

    Mash Allah
    Great❤

  • @aquariuslibra6729
    @aquariuslibra6729 3 роки тому +5

    Sir God bless you . You are a blessed man great motivational speaker Allah apko lmbi zndgi sehat day ameen sum ameen

  • @worldvlogs962
    @worldvlogs962 2 роки тому

    Shah Sahib ko sunte sunte meri himat hosila barA haii Allah pak ap ko zindagi den Ameen

  • @inspirationalvideos1712
    @inspirationalvideos1712 3 роки тому +7

    Sir I am your thankful because you made me a stuggleable person
    Thank you sir

  • @mathwithumair6394
    @mathwithumair6394 3 роки тому +7

    How beautiful u motivate us, sir... Allah bless u sir

  • @00practice_hub
    @00practice_hub 3 роки тому +1

    You explained very well thanks alot .Allah Pak app ko sehat kai sath zindagi Naseeb krain Ameen sum Ameen .

  • @aftabahmad2187
    @aftabahmad2187 2 роки тому

    Janab Qasim Sahab. Asslam-u-alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh. Aap ek nafabaksh insaan hain jo kai zindagion ko badal chuki hongi and ye qayam rahega insha Allah. Allah aapko hamesha khush rakhe, dunia aur aakhirat me kaamyabi aur izzat ataa farmaye. Aameen. Aftab Ahmad (India)

  • @ksqvlogs
    @ksqvlogs 2 роки тому +1

    Jazk Allah khair for sharing

  • @zoyasworld-q5y
    @zoyasworld-q5y Рік тому

    I am emotionally weak but now I will notice it and trying to become strong.
    Thankyou sir Qasim ❤

  • @shayanal11111
    @shayanal11111 6 місяців тому +2

    Sir mjy ap jesa speech krny ka bhot shoq hai. Me b esi banu.

  • @ummerabeea
    @ummerabeea 2 роки тому

    جزاک اللّٰہ خیراً کثیراً

  • @jahangir105
    @jahangir105 2 роки тому

    Bhoot Kuch Sekhna ko Mila Thank you Sir

  • @imamanoor6504
    @imamanoor6504 2 роки тому

    Right sir Allah pak apko bhot kush rkhy Ameen

  • @farahkazmi3338
    @farahkazmi3338 3 роки тому +30

    You are a wonderful person who is making a difference in people lives!! 👍🌈

  • @muhammadsajidsajid3690
    @muhammadsajidsajid3690 3 роки тому

    3 sra point mery Ander Hy but alhamdulillah qasim shb k lecture ka kafi aser ho rha hy umeed Hy mn khud ko cover krlon ga

  • @sheezayousafzai8497
    @sheezayousafzai8497 3 роки тому +8

    You're my inspiration

  • @shaistaanjum8356
    @shaistaanjum8356 2 роки тому

    JazaKAllahu khairun kaseera for sharing it

  • @abayal2906
    @abayal2906 2 роки тому +1

    background py jo quotes show horahy hain that's also very motivational with this video

  • @zamirkazmi2100
    @zamirkazmi2100 3 роки тому +1

    Qasim Ali shah sab excellent zinbaad

  • @RizwanKhan-nf8fs
    @RizwanKhan-nf8fs 3 роки тому +12

    Great lecture and really learned a lot about emotions, very helpful and very informative... Qasim Ali sb now big fish of Pakistan

  • @malikmunir7634
    @malikmunir7634 3 роки тому +11

    Allah bless you

  • @zerotoinfinity.
    @zerotoinfinity. 3 роки тому +2

    Sir jazakaAllah.
    Allah salamat rkhe.

  • @SARTV-18
    @SARTV-18 3 роки тому +9

    Ya ALLAH REHAM KAR POORI DUNIYA PR IS PAK MAHINAY KA WASTA MAF KARDAY HAMAIN
    HATALAY APNAY AZAB HUM PAR SAY AMEEN REHAM.

  • @naseerahmed2249
    @naseerahmed2249 2 роки тому

    Thanks sir App k bataye howe sare points pre utarte han magar inshallah paractice karna hai sahi hone ki

  • @mohammadmumtazahmad2307
    @mohammadmumtazahmad2307 2 роки тому +1

    Mohtram Qasim Shah sahib,
    Sir, I listen to a lot of motivational speakers including yourself.
    I rarely comment on anything, this time I am impressed with your topic and research and posting here.
    I appreciate your this topics as well. You successfully described the signs of the emotional people. I am a public speaker too and have a few people in my team who need some mentoring/help.
    Moving forward please if you may provide some practical solutions to this issue that would be great.
    Jazak Allah Khair,
    Mumtaz

  • @homeopathichealth2570
    @homeopathichealth2570 3 роки тому +2

    I always motivate by your tips

  • @labaikyahussain1487
    @labaikyahussain1487 3 роки тому

    اس کو بولتے ہیں ارادہ ۔۔ جس کا ارادہ قوی ہوگا تو آپ کے لیے ہر کا آسان ہیں ۔۔۔ وہ کبھی ناکام نہیں ہو سکتا۔۔

  • @shaguftahayat9510
    @shaguftahayat9510 3 роки тому +2

    Jazak Allah awsam lecture

  • @haadimum.8969
    @haadimum.8969 3 роки тому +6

    Believe on your self.

  • @ayeshaghaus640
    @ayeshaghaus640 3 роки тому

    Thnku uncl for ur lectures shaid Allah pak ne apko hm jese logo ki himmat bndhane ke lye e bheja h😊😊

  • @sidrashah3664
    @sidrashah3664 3 роки тому

    Jazakallah o khairan kaseera

  • @qadrijee7337
    @qadrijee7337 2 роки тому

    Salamat rahe ba karamat rahe taa qayaamat rahe

  • @cutemunda2404
    @cutemunda2404 3 роки тому

    MashaAllah Allah pak apko achi seht wali lambi zindagi nawazy

  • @shaziyaanjumahmed7036
    @shaziyaanjumahmed7036 3 роки тому

    Jazak allahu Khairan kasira sir Aaj aap ne indirectly hamare bohot help ke

  • @itsabouteverything4u
    @itsabouteverything4u 2 роки тому

    Love you sir, Thanks for sharing

  • @arshiyaafroze3652
    @arshiyaafroze3652 Рік тому

    Awesome lectures janab qasim sir, I am learning many things from your lectures. Thank you, allah aapko jazai khair aata karre, I want to become like you

  • @naheedazeem1499
    @naheedazeem1499 3 роки тому +2

    Brilliant lecture MaashAllah JAZAKALLAH KHAIR

  • @chefsardarhasan7668
    @chefsardarhasan7668 2 роки тому

    Shukriya janab for self love

  • @daheemimtiaz5054
    @daheemimtiaz5054 2 роки тому

    Ap ka bht shukria jazak Allah ❤️

  • @kiakamp
    @kiakamp Рік тому

    mashAllah well explained 😊❤ Stay bless you...

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    mashallah as kinat ka sab s haseen bhy Khusbho lagya krty thy very interested word