I really like that you're able to learn from your mistakes and take accountability in how someone might have felt like they weren't honored in your presence. More people need to be able to see what they could be doing to push others away instead of digging in heels or lashing out. I already loved your content but this makes me respect you even more. You really do practice what you preach. Wonderful role model, I hope all young girls watch your content to see what true feminine power looks like.
I clicked on this video because I was suffering with magnetic personality attracting low value men, mean women creating lowly situations in my life. I struggled with it for months . ( Actually I didn't knew I had magnetic personality before I stepped into professional world) . But now I strong enough to handle these situations 😊
What you said really opened my eyes- happy people are the most magnetic. When i was younger i had loads of friends because i was the most happy and carefree
VICKITA! You came up on my feed this week & I’ve been obsessed! I’m in my mid 30s & I’ve outgrown so much of my wardrobe & ppl in my life. I’ve watched your video on wearing what works for you & that’s been helping me in growing my wardrobe. I just donated my last bag of clothes to my old coworker today! Your videos are supportive, clearly informative & are pushing me in the right direction. I love it. Anticipating your next video for sure. Thank you Vickita.
Came across your channel accidentally. Been watching many similar style videos and I can say you have some talent! In your more recent videos I think you are focusing on matters that are important for many and you do it in a different way.. you have some power girl! I think you are in the right direction. Keep doing what you are doing! ❤
11:34 F Scott Fitzgerald said much the same thing in his short story “Bernice bobs her hair.“ Pretty, popular Marjorie says the following to her awkward cousin Bernice “When a girl feels she’s perfectly groomed and dressed she can forget that part of herself. That’s charm. The more parts of yourself you can afford to forget, the more charm you have.“
She is so right! This is what needs to be taught in our schools all over the world💐. "Snoozing the opinions of others"... awesome!😉👍. Thank you for sharing your gift to the world my lovely😍🌹. Love from: Cape Town, South Africa 🇿🇦
I love your vibe, love your video I saw your video and then it vanished and then I asked the universe that I want your video back and here I am watching you again and your tips are very practical Thankyou 💕💕
I love u so much Vickita, I discovered u a few days ago but u make me change even more my thoughts, u pushed me more that I was trying, to make my life better. Thank u for existing, I wish u all the good things 🫂💕 greeting from Argentina 🇦🇷 you're a worldwide Queen!!!
Number three is so accurate. I grew up being this way because my environment was that way. It is not attractive or fun or helpful in anyway. That is not a way of life.
O godd.... I have manifested this amazing video ... ❤ By waythe gurl you are so stunning and beautiful... You are working so nice may be not now but soon you will get so many subscribers... Sending you love light sis❤
What I think is important to note is that you can have a great self concept and turn your negatives into positives without diminishing your human experience. You’re going to have bad days or bad moments and it’s okay to feel them from time to time as long as you don’t sit and wallow in your own sorrow. You are not a robot and you can be a human while being magnetic. For example you can say ,,I know it’s been lately harsh on me but tomorrow it’s going to get much better and I’ll be rewarded for going through this day”. That way you teach yourself self love and self understanding and build yourself up step after step. Your magnetisim won’t come right away but you will unlearn unhealthy habits without needing to put them under a rug. Address your feelings right away and let them go or else they will someday explode in your face unaddressed. Be your own best friend. But stay consistent and disciplined. Much love to you guys
First time here, i literally just posted a video on my IG story with the same themes and now I’m watching this, perfect universal synchronicity God bless you 🙏🏾
You are teaching me soo much I literally can't be anymore grateful for what your doing Im truly inspired by your content and you've helped me step into my own power! ❤️ Your very blessed
When you were giving the example of your friend and letting her feel like she was more funny and letting her shine, isn’t that dimming your own light? That’s basically just jealously and I don’t feel like we should have to dim our own light or tip toe around peoples feelings so that they don’t feel inferior. That’s exhausting and a disservice to yourself. I find your videos informative and helpful but sometimes they can be contradictory. You teach on self love and self concept but what you stated in the video is the opposite. Also, you speak about men not having standards in one video and one title of your video is men love selfish women but in your Reddit video you said men have standards and don’t like self centered women.
To talk about the example she gave, I do think it would be labelled as jealousy. I feel like that friend just felt more comfortable with her work friends than with her HS friends. It’s more like insecurity to me than jealousy tbh
You have point. I watch Vickita's videos and her take on the topics she mentions is the opposite. I think she did it for a purpose or reason. Like let's say if you want to manifest a relationship or partner you can't just manifest by wanting it. Because if you get too attached to your wants. Will you get what you want or desire? A way to combat this is the opposite of manifesting what you want and the answer is detachment or letting go. It's part of shadow work and I think that when you detach yourself from the outcome or something you want to manifest it will come to you by not wanting it or not getting too attached to it. Also, this may not work out for some people so I would recommend balancing wanting something or manifest an outcome with letting go, and I believe that would be acceptance and redirecting it. I learned this from watching Quazi Johir video on letting go and the method or technique is for people who can't seem to let go or detach from the outcome or wanting something. Also, I read a blog post how to detach to live a happier life and I'm looking forward to implement detachment in my daily life.
What do you do if you have a little boy? How do I only focus on myself when I have a 6 year old that needs attention? I also want to give him attention, because I know how it felt to feel unvalued.
Ofc Take care of yourself first so you don't accidentally like have a burnout or stuff, That will make him Apperciate you more as a Caring Mother, But also put focus on your kid too equally
Your 6 yr old needs you. Enjoy being an amazing mother to him. You can have a high self concept that includes being a good mother. You have obligation to him.. you brought him into this world.. don’t see him as a distraction or work.. see him as the gift he is.
“Condition yourself to want the things you have already had”. So precious
I really like that you're able to learn from your mistakes and take accountability in how someone might have felt like they weren't honored in your presence. More people need to be able to see what they could be doing to push others away instead of digging in heels or lashing out. I already loved your content but this makes me respect you even more. You really do practice what you preach. Wonderful role model, I hope all young girls watch your content to see what true feminine power looks like.
I clicked on this video because I was suffering with magnetic personality attracting low value men, mean women creating lowly situations in my life. I struggled with it for months . ( Actually I didn't knew I had magnetic personality before I stepped into professional world) . But now I strong enough to handle these situations 😊
What you said really opened my eyes- happy people are the most magnetic. When i was younger i had loads of friends because i was the most happy and carefree
VICKITA! You came up on my feed this week & I’ve been obsessed! I’m in my mid 30s & I’ve outgrown so much of my wardrobe & ppl in my life. I’ve watched your video on wearing what works for you & that’s been helping me in growing my wardrobe. I just donated my last bag of clothes to my old coworker today! Your videos are supportive, clearly informative & are pushing me in the right direction. I love it. Anticipating your next video for sure. Thank you Vickita.
Came across your channel accidentally. Been watching many similar style videos and I can say you have some talent! In your more recent videos I think you are focusing on matters that are important for many and you do it in a different way.. you have some power girl! I think you are in the right direction. Keep doing what you are doing! ❤
that means so much, thank you!
11:34 F Scott Fitzgerald said much the same thing in his short story “Bernice bobs her hair.“ Pretty, popular Marjorie says the following to her awkward cousin Bernice “When a girl feels she’s perfectly groomed and dressed she can forget that part of herself. That’s charm. The more parts of yourself you can afford to forget, the more charm you have.“
you’re so young to be so BRILLIANT ❤ THANK YOU THANKYOU
She is so right! This is what needs to be taught in our schools all over the world💐.
"Snoozing the opinions of others"... awesome!😉👍.
Thank you for sharing your gift to the world my lovely😍🌹.
Love from: Cape Town, South Africa 🇿🇦
SO VERY MUCH Appreciate this message ❤ 🙏🏻 very timely, I really needed to hear this. Thank you
Love, love, love all your videos! Keep up the good work. I’ve been binge watching them all. 💜
I love your vibe, love your video I saw your video and then it vanished and then I asked the universe that I want your video back and here I am watching you again and your tips are very practical Thankyou 💕💕
So grateful for your content ❤ love this preppy girly classy look!
thank you so much! grateful for you too.
I love u so much Vickita, I discovered u a few days ago but u make me change even more my thoughts, u pushed me more that I was trying, to make my life better. Thank u for existing, I wish u all the good things 🫂💕 greeting from Argentina 🇦🇷 you're a worldwide Queen!!!
Hi lovely!! Thanks for such a kind comment and I’m so happy to have you apart of the community! Rooting for you 🙏🏼❤️
Girl this is so valuable, tq for doing this … I love you 😘… I literally have to write these things down and remind myself .. practice makes perfect 🎉
You're so welcome! love you back!
@@VickitaTrivedi hi darling💋💋💋🤎
Number three is so accurate. I grew up being this way because my environment was that way. It is not attractive or fun or helpful in anyway. That is not a way of life.
I’m 51 and resonate with alll your advice on this video and others of yours. I must subscribe!!! ❤
Thank you Vickita for this amazing advice. I feel so blessed to meet you in my life.❤
You're so welcome! The feeling is mutual 💖
O godd.... I have manifested this amazing video ... ❤ By waythe gurl you are so stunning and beautiful... You are working so nice may be not now but soon you will get so many subscribers... Sending you love light sis❤
Thank you so much!! Sending love right back to ya!
What I think is important to note is that you can have a great self concept and turn your negatives into positives without diminishing your human experience. You’re going to have bad days or bad moments and it’s okay to feel them from time to time as long as you don’t sit and wallow in your own sorrow. You are not a robot and you can be a human while being magnetic. For example you can say ,,I know it’s been lately harsh on me but tomorrow it’s going to get much better and I’ll be rewarded for going through this day”. That way you teach yourself self love and self understanding and build yourself up step after step. Your magnetisim won’t come right away but you will unlearn unhealthy habits without needing to put them under a rug. Address your feelings right away and let them go or else they will someday explode in your face unaddressed. Be your own best friend. But stay consistent and disciplined. Much love to you guys
Can you do a video on how to turn your magnetism OFF so ppl leave you alone 😭 I need to protect my energy
First time here, i literally just posted a video on my IG story with the same themes and now I’m watching this, perfect universal synchronicity God bless you 🙏🏾
Very well said!!! I completely agree! Loved this, thank you ❤
I walk into any room... Like I OWN it.
I walk into any room.... Like it's nothing
That's because You are Sovereign👑😉👍😘.
Lovely explanation. You connected the dots so nicely . Everything is so dependent on all the reasons you've mentioned here.
Listening to you feels like therapy ❤
i love that & u
Gurlll... i wish you millions of subscribers.. you are so so pretty.. i like your hairstyle.
Thank you so much!! Millions of subs on the way ✨
This is truly great content. Your about to be on repeat as apart of my morning meditation 😁
There is something about you i just love! ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thank you for sharing your knowledge.
awww thank you!!!
I know this is off topic but u literally have such beautiful eyes ❤
Be true… and authentic, this video is on the edge with advising to suppress emotions and reality.
Literally not one ounce of this video is encouraging that
The fact you use to think that when you are literally one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen perspective is amazing
this is so kind, Thank you so much. And I agree, perception is reality!
Just 2 mins into this video and subscribed
wow I just was bored of all these advice videos and books. This helped me a lot now thanks ❤
This video is chefs kiss, thank you 😘
You are an inspiration! Thank you.
Sis love you so much I needed this
Came across your video and this message HIT…thank you for posting it Wish I could have saw it sooner
Thank you so much for this message. I needed this redirection so much. ❤🙏
This is so good! Thank you💗
i love u ..thank u so much i needed this so much❤❤❤❤❤
You are so, so Amazing!
You are the only person who doesn't make me cringe at the word "juicy" 😂💃✨💅
hahahhaha
Your eyes are very pretty and you too❤and your contents always rock n roll👏💞
aw thank you!
so much wisdom in u !
hello, ma'am please make a video on dealing with self-consciousness. thankyou
This video was amazing and made me grateful I already practice these things ❤
Grateful for your content 🙏🏽
and im grateful for you!
can you please do a video specifically focusing on Dharma?
Vikita you are LIT 🔥
You are teaching me soo much I literally can't be anymore grateful for what your doing Im truly inspired by your content and you've helped me step into my own power! ❤️ Your very blessed
Awesome video ❤. Thank you so much!
M sure ur channel will grow much more and help a lot more people
This is great! Thanks so much
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When you were giving the example of your friend and letting her feel like she was more funny and letting her shine, isn’t that dimming your own light? That’s basically just jealously and I don’t feel like we should have to dim our own light or tip toe around peoples feelings so that they don’t feel inferior. That’s exhausting and a disservice to yourself. I find your videos informative and helpful but sometimes they can be contradictory. You teach on self love and self concept but what you stated in the video is the opposite. Also, you speak about men not having standards in one video and one title of your video is men love selfish women but in your Reddit video you said men have standards and don’t like self centered women.
To talk about the example she gave, I do think it would be labelled as jealousy. I feel like that friend just felt more comfortable with her work friends than with her HS friends. It’s more like insecurity to me than jealousy tbh
You have point. I watch Vickita's videos and her take on the topics she mentions is the opposite. I think she did it for a purpose or reason. Like let's say if you want to manifest a relationship or partner you can't just manifest by wanting it. Because if you get too attached to your wants. Will you get what you want or desire? A way to combat this is the opposite of manifesting what you want and the answer is detachment or letting go. It's part of shadow work and I think that when you detach yourself from the outcome or something you want to manifest it will come to you by not wanting it or not getting too attached to it. Also, this may not work out for some people so I would recommend balancing wanting something or manifest an outcome with letting go, and I believe that would be acceptance and redirecting it. I learned this from watching Quazi Johir video on letting go and the method or technique is for people who can't seem to let go or detach from the outcome or wanting something.
Also, I read a blog post how to detach to live a happier life and I'm looking forward to implement detachment in my daily life.
I think that friend is really insecure & can't see people being themselves
what do i do when i am constantly outshined by my friend? i closeoff and feel really bad the way i am just there ignored, in the background.
Great videos, thank you!
Love how to the point this is 😍
Vickita rocks!
right back at ya!!!
Ty so much❤❤❤much love.
What do you do if you have a little boy? How do I only focus on myself when I have a 6 year old that needs attention? I also want to give him attention, because I know how it felt to feel unvalued.
I think she means something like be clear about what you feel or think about a situation not too only observe yourself at all times. Best wishes!
Ofc Take care of yourself first so you don't accidentally like have a burnout or stuff, That will make him Apperciate you more as a Caring Mother, But also put focus on your kid too equally
Your 6 yr old needs you. Enjoy being an amazing mother to him. You can have a high self concept that includes being a good mother. You have obligation to him.. you brought him into this world.. don’t see him as a distraction or work.. see him as the gift he is.
This is a great video.
You are going great work ❤
Nicely put ❤❤❤❤ thanks alot
This vid was awesome
Deep meaningful content👏
Im glad :)
Fantastic advice x
This is Awesome ❤
Put this on repeat 💯
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Love your advice
thank you! 💖
Thanks 🙏🏽
Love ur energy
thanks :)
the moment i clicked into your vibe..i was like subscribe 😂❤
I really love your videos...
thank you so much!
She is smart and beautiful
Very admirable idea and energy and beauty but it would be better if you practice speaking slowly.
You are looking like a barbie😍😍
Dharm 🕉️
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Vickita I want to heal my chronic illness... it really hurts a lots... all time in pain... please help what can I do?
DM me on IG
Until you are healed, learn self hypnosis...it is a valuable skill and will be useful for you in many situations
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Dharma ‐> doorma
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Bible based advices…. I love those very 🥰 much
So glad!
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i love you too much then me didi behan sister duniya sa maha harha hayha apkha dwar jha sa harha kha jahugha behan sister❤😂🎉😮😮😊😊
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Sorry bhn tu to bilkul bhi magnetic nhi lg ri h...ghni sari surgery k bad bhi😂😂😂😂
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