Shannon, let me say I am a black male happily married in an interracial union. I came across your post and was very moved by your authenticity. I am really desperately trying to understand this sexual indentity issue because of two of our grandchildren are going through the change. One is going from male to female the other is going the other way. Even though I have had my own struggles in my own childhood they were never sexual. Thanks again for posting it was very very informative. All the very best to you and yours.
Congratulations to you for coming out. You have the rest of your life to live. Hope you and your new partner will be together forever. Lots of love, Kate. Xxxx
Great for you. Just a few days ago I was wondering how things are with you and your family.. Go with your heart ❤ and be happy. Your family is your concern, no excuses for those with negative comments.
I takes so much courage to proclaim your authentic self. Sometimes, it takes awhile to figure out who you are. You can’t find happiness. You live the best life you can and hopefully happiness finds you.
I appreciate your candor and courage! You and Rob are doing a remarkable job at this parenting thing. Divorce is hard but many times, it is necessary. Go be HAPPY and keep your KIND heart!!!
Thanks for your update. I’m glad to hear you’re doing so well. It’s nice to see that you are so positive. I am going through this now, though a bit younger (32 today!). We have a 3 year old son and it’s incredibly tough.
Thank you for sharing this it really helps me on my path. So courageous and so kind, to yourself and others. Wishing you the best of luck and happiness in your life
You are beautiful and a very brave woman to tell about your coming out as a lesbian later on in life. I hope that your are doing well in a new relationship that you both need and want.
I think that one had to be philosophical when the question turns to so called “wasted time”. How can time in a relationship that deepens understanding with yourself, each other, and your relationship that is framed with honesty be wasted?? Maybe that is my own 20 year marriage talking, but life has such a diverse spectrum of experiences, such concerns seem overly simplistic. Thank you for your videos. Would love an update. I’ll take bad news too. You don’t have to tell us only happiness or tragedy. Life is too rich to be restricted to just that.
Amazing. You have destroyed your marriage and hurt your family to pursue selfish sin instead of harnessing self-control to fight those urges that would destroy the gifts you've been given. What a selfish generation.... You do you...
there's no right and there's no wrong? you just do things that feel good to you and others do things that feel good to them? and as long as you don't hurt anyone else it is ok? how is it you haven't hurt anyone else? How can you possibly think that you haven't hurt those you love? and before you condemn and judge my comments just realize you have no idea what circumstances i speak from
Discovering who you really are and what makes you happy is a revelation within itself. People are in a constant state of depression feeling lost, confused and alone because they don't have a sense of direction nor the knowledge of their potential or even the courage to express themselves. Loving and being true to yourself makes you a better person for you and others, no questions about that. To not take consideration of other peoples feelings would mean you are selfish but one must heal first to then help heal others. You are hearing Little Lulu and not listening. I'm sure your circumstances were not meant a direct hit to your feelings but that you took the burden to carry on the weight of those circumstances. She will take care of her own like you will yours. Live and let live.
i would love to read bobs comments on how he feels about your actions in the destruction of his marriage his family and the pain he has suffered but being a words an he will never say anything and just go about cleaning up the mess you made in others he will take the upper path. someday you will meet bob and his new family and he might just walk by you and pertend you are not there as so many other have done in the pass
Troll much? I know these people personally and they are great and so are their children. Find someone else to project your misguided, and just plain mean, thoughts upon.
another total waste. there is no future in licking cat. Those pretend relations are nothing more than a joke in society. you should of stayed with your husband and worked it out.
I’ve been Married to my wife for 5 years together for 10 years. If people who aren’t accepting F them their not real friends.
Shannon, let me say I am a black male happily married in an interracial union. I came across your post and was very moved by your authenticity. I am really desperately trying to understand this sexual indentity issue because of two of our grandchildren are going through the change. One is going from male to female the other is going the other way. Even though I have had my own struggles in my own childhood they were never sexual. Thanks again for posting it was very very informative. All the very best to you and yours.
Congratulations to you for coming out. You have the rest of your life to live. Hope you and your new partner will be together forever. Lots of love, Kate. Xxxx
Great for you. Just a few days ago I was wondering how things are with you and your family.. Go with your heart ❤ and be happy. Your family is your concern, no excuses for those with negative comments.
You are BEAUTIFUL, BRAVE, and SO AMAZING! ❤️
Shannon, we need an update on your life, if you want to share what you have been up to lately.
Yes! Please
Hear hear!!
I'm so glad you followed your heart and found your "happy". Much love to you my friend!
Thank you my friend!!! I’m glad we both followed our hearts!
@@shannonharmstrong i bewt that your x doesnt feel the same now that you broke his heart and soul this was the cowards way out
I takes so much courage to proclaim your authentic self.
Sometimes, it takes awhile to figure out who you are.
You can’t find happiness. You live the best life you can and hopefully happiness finds you.
Love your hairstyle. Very cute.
I appreciate your candor and courage! You and Rob are doing a remarkable job at this parenting thing. Divorce is hard but many times, it is necessary. Go be HAPPY and keep your KIND heart!!!
Thank you!!
I WONDER HOW BOB REALLY FEELS NOW i bet that his feelings Are totalydifferent but beewing a real man he will never lower himself to her level
You look so healthy and happy. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so happy that you found yourself 💛
I would love for you to share a life Update… I hope you and your family are well during these extraordinary times. Hugs Diane
Thanks for your update. I’m glad to hear you’re doing so well. It’s nice to see that you are so positive. I am going through this now, though a bit younger (32 today!). We have a 3 year old son and it’s incredibly tough.
Good for you ! I hope you continue to do well and have a happy life !
stop encouraging this nonsense you clown.
@@bdawg9386 Keep playing around.
@@cherishtheday2223 wow how can you support a home and family wrecker
Thank you for sharing this it really helps me on my path. So courageous and so kind, to yourself and others. Wishing you the best of luck and happiness in your life
You are beautiful and a very brave woman to tell about your coming out as a lesbian later on in life. I hope that your are doing well in a new relationship that you both need and want.
i'm happy for you!
I think that one had to be philosophical when the question turns to so called “wasted time”. How can time in a relationship that deepens understanding with yourself, each other, and your relationship that is framed with honesty be wasted?? Maybe that is my own 20 year marriage talking, but life has such a diverse spectrum of experiences, such concerns seem overly simplistic.
Thank you for your videos. Would love an update. I’ll take bad news too. You don’t have to tell us only happiness or tragedy. Life is too rich to be restricted to just that.
Good news for you. You look happy....
lOVED UR STORIES!!
Yep you find out quick who’s real friends and family. My ex and I are still friends and coparenting.
Amazing. You have destroyed your marriage and hurt your family to pursue selfish sin instead of harnessing self-control to fight those urges that would destroy the gifts you've been given. What a selfish generation.... You do you...
there's no right and there's no wrong? you just do things that feel good to you and others do things that feel good to them? and as long as you don't hurt anyone else it is ok? how is it you haven't hurt anyone else? How can you possibly think that you haven't hurt those you love? and before you condemn and judge my comments just realize you have no idea what circumstances i speak from
Discovering who you really are and what makes you happy is a revelation within itself. People are in a constant state of depression feeling lost, confused and alone because they don't have a sense of direction nor the knowledge of their potential or even the courage to express themselves. Loving and being true to yourself makes you a better person for you and others, no questions about that. To not take consideration of other peoples feelings would mean you are selfish but one must heal first to then help heal others. You are hearing Little Lulu and not listening. I'm sure your circumstances were not meant a direct hit to your feelings but that you took the burden to carry on the weight of those circumstances. She will take care of her own like you will yours. Live and let live.
i would love to read bobs comments on how he feels about your actions in the destruction of his marriage his family and the pain he has suffered but being a words an he will never say anything and just go about cleaning up the mess you made in others he will take the upper path. someday you will meet bob and his new family and he might just walk by you and pertend you are not there as so many other have done in the pass
Troll much? I know these people personally and they are great and so are their children. Find someone else to project your misguided, and just plain mean, thoughts upon.
It sounds like you are angry about the hurt and pain. Understandable but your opinion is just a projection.
another total waste. there is no future in licking cat. Those pretend relations are nothing more than a joke in society. you should of stayed with your husband and worked it out.
another DRAMA QUEEN