i deleted him. and started regretting it？
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- Опубліковано 9 тра 2024
- hi love,
the kind of decisions you make for yourself will make you the person you are today.
don't undervalue the decisions we take daily and be proud of the times when we have stood strong on the core principles and values.
love you and loving this world 💗.
00:30 first encounter
1:50 my initial thoughts
3:15 the turning point
4:40 i had to call it off. again.
5:20 my reflections
7:01 starting to be depressed...
7:44 i started regretting it...
8:00 my counter move & outro
Don't doubt yourself. We as women don't have the privilege to second guess red flags. Proud of you and your proactive approach. Lots of love and stay strong. You did the right thing.
thanks for the love 🥹🥹 and thank you for being proud of me 💗
I think almost always that "gut feeling" is the right decision. Sometimes we convince ourselves that things are how we wish them to be. When in reality, things are what they are. keep your standards high, and don't settle until it feels right. but thats just opinion, life is complicated. most importantly love yourself first, enjoy being healthy and alive. And also take it easy on yourself. you are doing an amazing job just existing. trust me i promise
thanks love 💗 life is really so complicated when mixed with everything you're trying to figure out and sometimes i give myself too much doubt whether i made the right decisions at times
“Love at first site, or crushing, is a feeling mostly experienced by women. Men, we need to digest hard feelings before it begins to occupy existence, especially if she’s a doll-of-a-time.”
thanks for sharing a different perspective, appreciate it 💗
You did the right thing sis
thank you love 💗🤗
Maybe you felt he was moving too fast and his intentions were not 100% sincere or maybe there were some other things you did not like about him and the attempted kiss was the final straw.
true... actually like you said that was the final straw on the camel's back
and before that i was trying to find some "logical" reasons other than me personally not feeling the passion
Regret after making a difficult choice is almost always a given. The loss bias is strong in all of us, and decisions that we make when we feel right about at the time can still haunt us after the fact. Whether it is a decision about a relationship, an investment, or a career, it is natural to feel this way. Ultimately, I practice meditation and stoicism and try to control these emotions and not let them get the better of me. You, and you alone, are in control of your decisions, as well as, your emotions. When we allow emotions to control our decisions, many times they can be manipulated or hijacked in times of fear, uncertainty, and doubt to push us to make the wrong decision. It must have been very tough for you to go through this and share this, thank you, and I will be praying for you.
thank you love 💗 thank you for the reminder i will constantly try to remind those myself as well 💗 let's keep practicing
High standards because you don't want to get hurt but on the other hand you don't want to be lonely? The key is to pick that exact right person at a you a young age and give your all... life is complicated. today its like everything is a situationship.
high standards because don't want to settle with a wrong person or someone i don't like and on the other hand it was good to have some human interactions and company
yeah like i mentioned in the video humans are multifaceted and complex as we're changing our thoughts constantly
and it would be great to know who's the exact right person or at least how does he or she look like
@rosalineglobal but that top successful gentleman who would be a good match for you will also have high standards but since both have high standards the relationship won't work. Fathers know who's good or bad usually. Also commitment from that right guy gets harder as you get older.
@@napsterfreak15 i get your point and seems like it too with the age that gets me very anxious
not sure how you define success
for me a job he doesn't dislike and preferably passionate about, knows what he wants, and a somewhat stable income for the foundation of a family
high standards in turns of integrity, authenticity, genuineness, and having some aesthetics in some areas of life as the standards could be different for others
not sure if this is a lot of ask for
(might just delete this later)
but then even if someone has physically met almost all the bullet point (like in this case) it could still feel unnatural to be with bc the attraction is not there
and it makes it all just complicated as relationship is not an exact science 💔
@rosalineglobal that's a good definition of successful I would say.
Having high standards for the type of guy is all good and well.. its during the relationship that too high standards could hurt the connection but also the high standards could make you not get a decent guy and then you have waited way too long. I know it's hard for the woman and easy to say as a man but ya its the harsh reality we live in. A woman's prime is way younger then a man and then there's the fertility issue.
In my opinion, you did the right thing. If you have someone else to talk to, I feel like you would not be thinking about him right now.
hahaha you're so on point my love
that's why i needed to make this video just to talk it out and let it leave my head
@@rosalineglobal I do hope you feel better soon. 🤗 And that's a really good way to release your emotions. Talking about it helps you articulate and process your thoughts better. Other people's perspective kind of help sometimes too but what you think and feel is more important. You got this! 💗
Dang that's brutal.
sorry bro 🫣
Maybe you need a kind of relationship where you will be in a leader role and a relatively submissive boyfriend with a large scale of sensitivity to your mood. However in such a case he will be less masculine then rough ones.
Horrible advice. that usually never works out in the long run
it was hard for me to reply to this comment but thank you 😆
@@napsterfreak15 thats exactly what i was thinking