@@elizabethtaylor6903 you’d be surprised how many people (especially women) do that!! It has more to do with their self worth. If someone doesn’t value themselves the way that they should, they tend to overlook the crappy way someone is treating them and hang on to the “good” parts or they just believe that, that is all they deserve.
I have had this conversation with a friend more themes than I can remember. So many times that I stopped saying it. I had to replace it with “ if you like it I love it” and change the subject.
If a man tells you that he doesn’t want to marry you… why are we even trying to figure it out with why’s? Just him saying he doesn’t want to marry you should be good enough for you to walk away.
Lord, I LOVE THIS EPISODE!!!! JUDGE TOLER really stepped in his behind regarding his selfish, manipulative atrocious behavior 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. He needed to experience that. I hope it embarrassed him a little. She gave her some much-needed sound advice. I hope that she moved on.
That man keeps telling her he don't want her an to leave but she insisted on staying an letting him hurt her, if a person keeps telling you over an over again they don't want you LEAVE
I don't usually want to insert Judge Mathis into judge Lynn's cases but the way he said his name correcting Judge Lynn Was RUDE. I NEEDed JUDGE MATHIS TO POP OUT AND SAY DON'T COME IN HERE MAD AT ME TALKING CRAZY TO ME! I'M NOT THE ONE TO PLAY WITH DON'T TALK TO ME LIKE I'M HER!!
I like the way how she thanked Joe the bailiff for the tissue when he gave it to her, I've notice not many of the females would thank him when he does that. I like Joe he's so handsome.
It takes alot of different actions to post a d pic on a group chat. Point being, no way you can post without thinking. He blamed her & minimized his wrongdoing in the same sentence! She should run instead of seeking his approval. Never let a man pregnant you but say you’re not good enough to be his wife.
It's sad that we actually have to teach these men how to treat you, how to run a household, how to be a husband/father, a provider/supporter. We are nurtures so we learn as we go and have common sense that most men don't have. Their mothers didn't teach him about manhood so they jump from woman to woman looking for mother roles
You are very wrong. A man don't need to be taught anything.he would absolutely love a woman the correct way. For the right woman the woman he wants the problem is most women love the man more than he loves her😊
I don't get women who want to be married for the sake of being married or having a wedding and if it's a good happy relationship or not is second place. Like seriously half the couples don't even like each other.
Man or woman when a person know they can leave and come back anytime, you are going to be their blanket, if they walk out 2 times let that be their last time of you being with them
I've been there, let him come back twice after telling me he didn't want me, and he could do better. After all that, he tried to come back a third time, and this time, I SHUT IT DOWN, QUICK!!!!
This dude seemed completely unbothered through the entire episode even when his wife was breaking down he is more interested in defending himself and being right than fixing anything about his relationship
When you’re love partner isn’t bringing in money to the home and they know you need it, but they still don’t contribute it can make anyone angry/frustrated/resentful etc.
A person will only do what u allow. She needs to go and stop standing in court asking why he do this and that. Just leave lady. I'm saying this cause I was her and looking back, I was a big ass dummy. As others say, when someone shows u who they are, believe them!
We don’t want to accept it but we need better mail role models in the black community. This is why you see guys like this man child on the screen. They are getting this behavior from somewhere
It's her tax return and are not even married. Why is he depending on what she does with her money for the household and not worry about his own since he is supposed to be the leader? Men are supposed to take financially spiritually and emotionally..
You men want to be Kings but don't know how to be a King can't provide for his Queen and children men are supposed to be a provider he wants her to spend all of her money he doesn't want her to have her our transportation or get a education so he can control her, putting pictures of his manhood on the internet SHAMEFUL HE IS NOT EVEN HANDSOME HE said he doesn't want her she should LEAVE HIM and find a real MAN HE IS NOT EVEN HANDSOME 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️ as fast and as far as you can don't have anything else to do with him. He comes back to her because he CAN USE HER and knows she cares about him. Run Run Run don't look back.
It's a mess regardless of how it's pronounced. & it's hard to feel sorry for someone who's too stupid for their own good, she basically signed up for this
Men want a woman to treat them like KINGS but are peasants don't have KING money and WANTING HER MONEY HE didn't want her to get a Car because she would be more independent and not have to depend on him he has CONTROL ISSUE GIRL RUN, spend your money the way you want and make him pay his child support.
She needs to dump HIM THE NARSASIST and find a REAL MAN ONE WHO cares about her he just uses her if a man can call you out of your name you don't need him.👎 hope she went her own way he won't marry her and he won't change.
"Never let a man tell you they don't want you more than once". I felt that deep in my soul.
It’s the truth
YESSS
Amen to that
Stop feeling like you are obligated to keep taking these men back.
Doing the right thing with the WRONG person will NEVER get you good results! So true.
Self value is so important
Shes a damn gorgeous woman she needs someone who loves her and treats her like a queen
Gorgeous??? 😂😂 stop
I hope she ran far, far away from that leech. I hope she got some self-esteem and confidence about herself!!
She won't 🏃
@@elizabethtaylor6903 Yeah. They hardly ever do.
Doing the right thing with the wrong person will never bring the result. Absolutely right.
Don't do right things with the wrong person Judge Lynn Toler rocks 🙏🤭
He comes back because you keep letting him.. sheesh!!!! 🥴
If he was so bad, why she keep taking him back.
@@elizabethtaylor6903 you’d be surprised how many people (especially women) do that!! It has more to do with their self worth. If someone doesn’t value themselves the way that they should, they tend to overlook the crappy way someone is treating them and hang on to the “good” parts or they just believe that, that is all they deserve.
I have had this conversation with a friend more themes than I can remember. So many times that I stopped saying it. I had to replace it with “ if you like it I love it” and change the subject.
Typical woman
If a man tells you that he doesn’t want to marry you… why are we even trying to figure it out with why’s? Just him saying he doesn’t want to marry you should be good enough for you to walk away.
🤷🏽♀️
He’s standing there talking abt she’s not good enough to be wife when he’s not even good enough to be a side dude
Lord, I LOVE THIS EPISODE!!!! JUDGE TOLER really stepped in his behind regarding his selfish, manipulative atrocious behavior 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. He needed to experience that. I hope it embarrassed him a little. She gave her some much-needed sound advice. I hope that she moved on.
The dangling of the engagement ring game🎣🐠💍
Tell her the TRUTH Judge Lynn.
That man keeps telling her he don't want her an to leave but she insisted on staying an letting him hurt her, if a person keeps telling you over an over again they don't want you LEAVE
But if she stays after all that, then she deserves whatever hell that gets heaped on her...the epitome of Red Forman would call a "dumb ass"🤣🤣
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I don't usually want to insert Judge Mathis into judge Lynn's cases but the way he said his name correcting Judge Lynn Was RUDE. I NEEDed JUDGE MATHIS TO POP OUT AND SAY DON'T COME IN HERE MAD AT ME TALKING CRAZY TO ME! I'M NOT THE ONE TO PLAY WITH DON'T TALK TO ME LIKE I'M HER!!
Well then get the damn name right the first time, and no one would need to corrected, including Lynn toler🤣
I like the way how she thanked Joe the bailiff for the tissue when he gave it to her, I've notice not many of the females would thank him when he does that. I like Joe he's so handsome.
It takes alot of different actions to post a d pic on a group chat. Point being, no way you can post without thinking. He blamed her & minimized his wrongdoing in the same sentence! She should run instead of seeking his approval. Never let a man pregnant you but say you’re not good enough to be his wife.
It's sad that we actually have to teach these men how to treat you, how to run a household, how to be a husband/father, a provider/supporter. We are nurtures so we learn as we go and have common sense that most men don't have. Their mothers didn't teach him about manhood so they jump from woman to woman looking for mother roles
The responsibility dont belong to the spouse or the mother...its for the FATHER to do.😐
Some boys just don't want that RESPONSIBILITY, so you can't teach them. So🏃♀️🏃♀️
Stop blaming the moms
You are very wrong. A man don't need to be taught anything.he would absolutely love a woman the correct way. For the right woman the woman he wants the problem is most women love the man more than he loves her😊
Because women rush men into relationship and marriage before they're really ready for marriage or a relationship.
I don't get women who want to be married for the sake of being married or having a wedding and if it's a good happy relationship or not is second place. Like seriously half the couples don't even like each other.
So true
CHILDREN will never, never, NOT ever change a boy/man, if that's not what he WANTS. FACT!!!!
Girl you are not a door mat girl let him go, he doesn't care about you
All that good advice and I bet she is still with him.
Man or woman when a person know they can leave and come back anytime, you are going to be their blanket, if they walk out 2 times let that be their last time of you being with them
I've been there, let him come back twice after telling me he didn't want me, and he could do better. After all that, he tried to come back a third time, and this time, I SHUT IT DOWN, QUICK!!!!
This my uncle 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
It was the wrong time to be mean to her.
I love Judge Lyn. She educates and uplifts women
Don’t do the right thing with the wrong person so deep
This dude seemed completely unbothered through the entire episode even when his wife was breaking down he is more interested in defending himself and being right than fixing anything about his relationship
When you’re love partner isn’t bringing in money to the home and they know you need it, but they still don’t contribute it can make anyone angry/frustrated/resentful etc.
Hè is a real jerk 💔
A person will only do what u allow. She needs to go and stop standing in court asking why he do this and that. Just leave lady. I'm saying this cause I was her and looking back, I was a big ass dummy. As others say, when someone shows u who they are, believe them!
We don’t want to accept it but we need better mail role models in the black community. This is why you see guys like this man child on the screen. They are getting this behavior from somewhere
Sad situation here
This episode was for me cause honey they will take until u have nothing else to give
Hi my sister why you make the decision to have one child for This mam who refused to marry to you move on girlfriend
It's her tax return and are not even married. Why is he depending on what she does with her money for the household and not worry about his own since he is supposed to be the leader? Men are supposed to take financially spiritually and emotionally..
But......he did ask you to leave.....at least a couple of times😮
Whats the update??!!! Wish we knew
Little boy in grown body
The husband got another lady bottom line
Its abusive to your kids to cuss their mother out in front of them...
She needs to leave this man child and run he don't love you and he don't love his self. 😎
That’s right judge tell them both
It would a good thing to aquire some level of maturity before cohabitation..
Or just being in a relationship in general.
Never understood the whole females fighting about a guy thing , id throw hands with anyone if needed but over a guy. In love always be gracious
Amen! NOBODY, MALE OR FEMALE, deserved to be fighting over. You don’t lose what you don’t have.
When a man starts getting marital of wifely benefits from a woman, why would he want to commit? So sad some women don't learn...
she was cheating? too bad for her, she should get kicked out of the house
I'm a fan of DC ❤😂
Amen 🙏
Sis you don't own him and can't stop a man from cheating
Poor Thing
If you didn’t see nothing else leave no lady
what was the text that caused her to leave? It's BS that women always get excused for cheating behavior
The husband need help and youth management
she read him well. was on his ass
26 really 😮
Who've seen the crimestopper photo that looks like Ki Ki?
Is he the only man in the wold wake up girl smell the coffe
He's a drunk. Gurl find yourself somebody else.
She would have never been staying with me a year and not paying bills
You men want to be Kings but don't know how to be a King can't provide for his Queen and children men are supposed to be a provider he wants her to spend all of her money he doesn't want her to have her our transportation or get a education so he can control her, putting pictures of his manhood on the internet SHAMEFUL HE IS NOT EVEN HANDSOME HE said he doesn't want her she should LEAVE HIM and find a real MAN HE IS NOT EVEN HANDSOME 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️ as fast and as far as you can don't have anything else to do with him. He comes back to her because he CAN USE HER and knows she cares about him. Run Run Run don't look back.
It's a mess regardless of how it's pronounced. & it's hard to feel sorry for someone who's too stupid for their own good, she basically signed up for this
No unh uhhhh
Funny video
You should’ve gotten married
EW.
I was on her side until he mentioned about the economic situation re her tax rebate which she didn't share with him. Judge Toler glossed over that.
Men want a woman to treat them like KINGS but are peasants don't have KING money and WANTING HER MONEY HE didn't want her to get a Car because she would be more independent and not have to depend on him he has CONTROL ISSUE GIRL RUN, spend your money the way you want and make him pay his child support.
She does not have to share her tax return. It is a return based on her income
Where's his tax return. She does not have to share her tax return with her boyfriend, not even her husband. Please
Go back to 16:03 and listen to how she says she gave him $300 of her income tax
@@juicedupgenie
For Something thats what she Said.
Yes, he is Judge
You have to catch him having sex
Happy she got replaced smh she just blows off men concerns
He needs to dump her fasts and find a better women
She needs to dump HIM THE NARSASIST and find a REAL MAN ONE WHO cares about her he just uses her if a man can call you out of your name you don't need him.👎 hope she went her own way he won't marry her and he won't change.
I say she too much drama and needy
When a man starts getting marital of wifely benefits from a woman, why would he want to commit? So sad some women don't learn...