Yes definitely had to agree You can't go out all night and then come home to woman that is there for you I can understand that he probably does not really find her as a tracker as he first did but still she's living in your home regardless
I wouldn't say this person is absolutely controlling as he's just really immature and doesn't really understand what's going on judge Lynn said it best as a woman being young your job is to go out and see what's out here in the world throughout what you want in a man... I think that she wants to be a stay-at-home wife cuz all her behaviors point to that but he still wanting to play the field and at 23 years old that's what most men are doing... I think she just picked the wrong kind of dude.... She should be with a much older man because of her maturity level
Yep I definitely have to agree with you He's wearing the giant red flag He's not old enough yet to appreciate a woman like her.. going out all kinds of time tonight during the week and then hiding his phone.,. Those are the absolute biggest red flags but I don't understand why she keeps coming back to this man The sex must be amazing I can figure out
Yeah definitely had to agree I've been watch a lot of these videos back again and I can understand why a lot of these women are acting the way they are nowadays want to use men for money because when they are good women dudes don't come home they bring home diseases things like that and this is just one case of that how can you not come home to your girlfriend or wife on a weekday at that😅
It seems like this guy really tied her down way too young He's not yet ready to be an adult man and that's really unfortunate because this woman deserves better
Definitely have to agree with you This dude is really sad.. he doesn't need to be in a relationship he needs to be in situationships he doesn't understand what he has right now He's not old enough to appreciate it...
He's doesn’t like the laughing friend, but all he does is laugh 😂and if you had a flat tire or if you're going sleep over why not text her and let her know?! That's pretty simple!
❤please don't stop your show I've binged watch all your shows it helped me make a decision to leave the guy I was seeing I love you and admire you geez you open peoples eyes I just want to continue to enjoy your show beautiful you're just everything ❤🎉
When he started I was ready to say she may be having early signs of mental health issues... turns out the lady has every right not to trust him. At least so far. Let's see...
Im so happy to be single. My ex husband never wanted me to have my friends or family talking to me. Always had some excuse about them been jealous of me and not to listen to them.
Why do these women constantly get with irresponsible dudes who don't work don't want to work don't help support the house and thank complain people need to learn to do better for themselves never depend on another person to take care of you
7:44 he’s isolating her because it’s what narcissists do. He’s not doing out of fear. Probably the fear of being called out. But that’s it. He isolates her because it’s easier to manipulate her.
My ENTIRE marriage was like this! His actions and manipulations are called " crazy making" hes does whatever he wants but controls EVERYTHING she does.....then when she calls him out he makes her seem crazy...then he has his family and friends to support him ...but all she has is him....and hes trying to convince her that IT IS HER AND NOT HIM!!!! Too much drama girl .....Run ...get counciling and grow your self esteem.....so you NEVER end up with another loser like this!!
I have to agree with you🎉 But the problem is that he's only 23 years old so you can definitely tell he hasn't really lived his own single life yet and he really won't get on board the train of manship until his thirties as we all have He's still extremely young but she's very mature... And this is the reason why younger women go after older men... Anyone that's hiding their phone from their girlfriend that's a huge red flag in itself
She is not saying be in a physical and intimate relationship with a bunch of guys but take your time and really get to know what they are really like. Their personality, character, heart, mind, spirit. What do you have in common or what don’t you have in common. Then consider if there is a possibility of something significant between the two of you that is mutual. No sex just get to know them. Then see if you have something worth building together. Dating is for interviewing: Collecting data that is. Not binding yourself to all of these dudes but to identify which one is best for you. To make a decision about being in a long term relationship perhaps. And build a true friendship that can lead to something lasting.
@@mechellcollette3927 They’re a few flaws in the Judge and your hypothesis. Problems with the failed social experiment called dating. 1)You are assuming each person knows themselves well enough to know if someone or something is good for them 2) They know enough about the other gender to understand if they are just misunderstanding the person or not 3)At some point sexual energy will cloud judgement 4) That while you are interviewing another candidate could come and grab the person you thought was the right candidate. This happens more then once and damage has accrued. 5) While attempting to find the right person time goes by and men (this happens more to women then men) decide you have age out or at least the number of women wanting that man greatly increases. 6) Each “interview” will increases the list of flaws seen before intimate connection. Creating red flags where there isn’t. I could go on wrote a paper on the topic. I call dating break ups mini divorces. So the question I ask people is; how many divorces are you going to go thru before you get married?
@@brendaserrant4755 The alternative is to go back to proper vetting. First find a male family member ( father, uncle brother) or a married couple you admire. They will be the person vetting not you. When you meet or see someone you are interested in you do not talk to them without the vetting person present or able to hear. No sex with the person and if the vetting person so no; you walk away. See the problem today is everyone thinks they know themselves yet have huge blind spots when feeling get involved.
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
So, she is financially supporting the household, she can't have friends, he doesn't defend her, he goes out all night... this man shows up weak
WRONG !!
He isn't showing up AT ALL‼️
He brings NOTHING to the table ...
Just your last five word.
She shows up weak!!
This boy is not showing up
Yes ,she is a fool putting up with him
When you are isolated, the abuse always escalates.
I just love how proficiently judge Lynn Toller tells things how it is❤
@14:36 Yeah !
We all know why he asks her to come back. He has no income !!
He needs her to keep a roof over his head, food in his belly, etc.
He's UNEMPLOYED⁉️ 😲
He's living the single life while she's completely holdng him down.
Yes definitely had to agree You can't go out all night and then come home to woman that is there for you I can understand that he probably does not really find her as a tracker as he first did but still she's living in your home regardless
He is immature, insecure & controlling.
I wouldn't say this person is absolutely controlling as he's just really immature and doesn't really understand what's going on judge Lynn said it best as a woman being young your job is to go out and see what's out here in the world throughout what you want in a man... I think that she wants to be a stay-at-home wife cuz all her behaviors point to that but he still wanting to play the field and at 23 years old that's what most men are doing... I think she just picked the wrong kind of dude.... She should be with a much older man because of her maturity level
He’s a horrible liar.
He's a bit pathetic and insecure, I think she's wasting her time
😂
He tells ridiculous stories. He is the one getting in people’s nerves.
You don't have a job and you want to choose her friends . Run girl run!
I know she misses her husband. I am so glad she has so many great memories.
I hope she don't miss him
@@bettinadavis6457they were talking about the judge
Yea everytime I watch these she talks about him and i just know she does he was a good man
@@bettinadavis6457they're talking about judge Lynn husband
Amen ❤
You can do better with your life young lady let him go and he can spend all night out without being a burden to you
That's ALL he is : a burden‼️
That red shirt is very appropriate for him
Yep I definitely have to agree with you He's wearing the giant red flag He's not old enough yet to appreciate a woman like her.. going out all kinds of time tonight during the week and then hiding his phone.,. Those are the absolute biggest red flags but I don't understand why she keeps coming back to this man The sex must be amazing I can figure out
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He gaslights her, Mr. Vague about his hide & seek, constantly controls her while she supports them!! dude, grow up. Gal, he’s a boat anchor.🙄🤦♀️
Love these shows plenty of wisdom being dropped ❤
Wish someone would have given me that life advice at 20!
It's no wonder why Emily doesn't trust Ray. He's inconsistent with his story from the beginning.
What’s with this “I don’t go out all the time”. Can’t wait to see if he tells the truth.
Yeah definitely had to agree I've been watch a lot of these videos back again and I can understand why a lot of these women are acting the way they are nowadays want to use men for money because when they are good women dudes don't come home they bring home diseases things like that and this is just one case of that how can you not come home to your girlfriend or wife on a weekday at that😅
She can dump him. She keeps choosing to go back.
Judge Toler is so wise. 20 is not for fixing them. Neither is 30, 40, 50 and beyond. You can fix lamps, furniture and cars. Never another human being
She is a smart beautiful judge
It seems like this guy really tied her down way too young He's not yet ready to be an adult man and that's really unfortunate because this woman deserves better
The friend was basically saying…”if y’all can go out to eat” y’all can pay me my darn money…
☝🏿
Just out here boldface lying, but "doesn't know why his wife doesn't trust him"...😮
Definitely have to agree with you This dude is really sad.. he doesn't need to be in a relationship he needs to be in situationships he doesn't understand what he has right now He's not old enough to appreciate it...
Anybody who may slip her a lil bit of wisdom or knowledge ..he’s against. He’s an insecure NAN…
20 is not 4 fixing them
20 is 4 moving on
💎💎💎s
He's doesn’t like the laughing friend, but all he does is laugh 😂and if you had a flat tire or if you're going sleep over why not text her and let her know?! That's pretty simple!
Get rid of him! Ridiculous. Dude…it isn’t funny .
He never loved her, she's available. Love yourself girlie, and leave that loser alone. Bet he wouldn't play a Sister lol..
❤please don't stop your show I've binged watch all your shows it helped me make a decision to leave the guy I was seeing I love you and admire you geez you open peoples eyes I just want to continue to enjoy your show beautiful you're just everything ❤🎉
He doesn't want her doing what he is doing,he is a bad liar and a clown move on girl,he thinks her friends will wake her up to his bull, and using her
Move on. This is low key toxic. He's isolating her. He don't work, staying out all night and doing lawd knows what.
When he started I was ready to say she may be having early signs of mental health issues... turns out the lady has every right not to trust him. At least so far. Let's see...
Im so happy to be single. My ex husband never wanted me to have my friends or family talking to me. Always had some excuse about them been jealous of me and not to listen to them.
At 20 i was not trying to be tied down!!! College and having fun. Shes needs to be thinking long term!!
Career,education
He's staying out all night 😮 messy
Judge Toler gave such wisdom to these two but I think they may be too young to fully receive it. Unfortunately.
Why do these women constantly get with irresponsible dudes who don't work don't want to work don't help support the house and thank complain people need to learn to do better for themselves never depend on another person to take care of you
Tires and straight up tired. Bounce.
He doesn't like that girl because she will open up her eyes to who he really is he needs to go and get a job
7:44 he’s isolating her because it’s what narcissists do. He’s not doing out of fear. Probably the fear of being called out. But that’s it. He isolates her because it’s easier to manipulate her.
Bum
Bum
Bum
A logical adult would break up with him. They both need to grow up.
My ENTIRE marriage was like this! His actions and manipulations are called " crazy making" hes does whatever he wants but controls EVERYTHING she does.....then when she calls him out he makes her seem crazy...then he has his family and friends to support him ...but all she has is him....and hes trying to convince her that IT IS HER AND NOT HIM!!!! Too much drama girl .....Run ...get counciling and grow your self esteem.....so you NEVER end up with another loser like this!!
Where do women find these dudes? How are we entertaining these types of dudes!
These comments are lighting him up 😂
He started off WRONG for him to be the real problem in the relationship. Dude is sad!
I have to agree with you🎉 But the problem is that he's only 23 years old so you can definitely tell he hasn't really lived his own single life yet and he really won't get on board the train of manship until his thirties as we all have He's still extremely young but she's very mature... And this is the reason why younger women go after older men... Anyone that's hiding their phone from their girlfriend that's a huge red flag in itself
He resembles my deceased brother a little bit, but he laughs just he did.
She's 20?? Dam, I was thinking about 30.
Stress and self conscious and someone always arguing with you and making you feel less than can really age you! Trust me I know 😢
Dude is what you call a “Bum”
She can do better
Sooo much better. Girl run 😮
I hope she did better because he is pathetic
Girl leave him he can see the bad in everyone but himself
I've been in his shoes and been with a woman living with a woman and I hadn't yet lived my own personal single life
Dont put up with him.move on girl
They both needs MATURE COUNSELING. FROM EXPERIENCE MAN and WOMAN.
They are happy that's why they laughing you are to selfish
Hr is a typical narcissist in every way.
He lying and change locks call tell hom don't bother
He is just jusing her
Such bad advice. Getting in and out relationships is damaging. There is no age that it is acceptable to be damaged
She is not saying be in a physical and intimate relationship with a bunch of guys but take your time and really get to know what they are really like. Their personality, character, heart, mind, spirit. What do you have in common or what don’t you have in common. Then consider if there is a possibility of something significant between the two of you that is mutual. No sex just get to know them. Then see if you have something worth building together.
Dating is for interviewing: Collecting data that is. Not binding yourself to all of these dudes but to identify which one is best for you. To make a decision about being in a long term relationship perhaps. And build a true friendship that can lead to something lasting.
@@mechellcollette3927 They’re a few flaws in the Judge and your hypothesis. Problems with the failed social experiment called dating.
1)You are assuming each person knows themselves well enough to know if someone or something is good for them
2) They know enough about the other gender to understand if they are just misunderstanding the person or not
3)At some point sexual energy will cloud judgement
4) That while you are interviewing another candidate could come and grab the person you thought was the right candidate. This happens more then once and damage has accrued.
5) While attempting to find the right person time goes by and men (this happens more to women then men) decide you have age out or at least the number of women wanting that man greatly increases.
6) Each “interview” will increases the list of flaws seen before intimate connection. Creating red flags where there isn’t.
I could go on wrote a paper on the topic. I call dating break ups mini divorces. So the question I ask people is; how many divorces are you going to go thru before you get married?
@laymanlogic
What do you see as the alternative?
@@brendaserrant4755 The alternative is to go back to proper vetting.
First find a male family member ( father, uncle brother) or a married couple you admire. They will be the person vetting not you.
When you meet or see someone you are interested in you do not talk to them without the vetting person present or able to hear.
No sex with the person and if the vetting person so no; you walk away.
See the problem today is everyone thinks they know themselves yet have huge blind spots when feeling get involved.
😅😮
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
@EmilioYepez7 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@EmilioYepez7 her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
He’s handsome and trifling…
Handsome 😂 okay
Reminds me of that song “He’s dumb but he’s cute “
Okay how'd she get on your last nerve....... The beginning intro was.... misleading at best
This is exactly what I came here to say.
I was wondering about that too,must be an error with the editing or something
The intro does not match the content. I agree it must be an editing issue.
@@mlm1916exactly
I think she was saying her decision making and reasoning was the thing that got on her nerves.