how to protect your energy when you reject men + margot robbie is mid?
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Are you tired of constantly feeling drained and devalued in your relationships with men? In this episode, we discuss how to protect your energy when rejecting men and why Margot Robbie is not "mid" despite what some may say. We dive deep into the harmful rhetoric preached to women and the importance of setting strong boundaries to achieve peace and empowerment. We discuss the importance of female-only spaces and why ghosting can sometimes be the best option for women's safety.
Tune in for valuable insights and tips on securing your bag while finding the man who will be your biggest supporter. Don't settle for less than you deserve - discover your inherent worth and value as a woman and live your best life.
Keywords: femininity, dating, relationships, self-care, ghosting, male ego, discernment, female-only spaces, value-investment curve, personal growth, professional growth, well-being.
Are you tired of constantly feeling drained and devalued in your relationships with men? In this episode, we discuss how to protect your energy when rejecting men and why Margot Robbie is not "mid" despite what some may say. We dive deep into the harmful rhetoric preached to women and the importance of setting strong boundaries to achieve peace and empowerment. We discuss the importance of female-only spaces and why ghosting can sometimes be the best option for women's safety.
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"They want us insecure so we seek security from their validation". YES.
It's the breadcrumbs for me
Ive never gotten validation from men unless they were gay men
Wait unto you turn 40. Then it's the wall and the body count and yadda yadda cat lady. 😂
@@videoettaceo8900 boy this is an adult conversation
Once I politely rejected a guy and his instant reply was: "You're not that good looking anyways". I just said: "Poor you, couldn't even get with an ugly girl". I don't know what his reaction was to my reply because I left the space instantly, but you bet I felt good the whole day for matching his energy
that's a nice clapback
Excuse me ma’am? You dropped your crown ;_;
I'll be using that 😂
😂😂queen behavior 👏🏽👏🏽
Excellent response! 🥂
Men insulting women they couldn't ever get is bonkers to me. And yes, it's a frightening experience to reject a man.
It’s actually quite typical. That ego, gets me every time. Margo is the shit.
It’s actually also a pick up ‘artist’ technique called Negging.
Maybe sour grapes. The fox and the grapes from Aesop. They can’t get it so they devalue you.
It’s easier to ask it to some streamer who wouldn’t even acknowledge their presence, and call them whores😂
Exactly. An insult is low-level violence. Especially from a man to a woman. Anytime you feel threatened or intimidated, that is violence.
“Lie your way to safety” my mom taught me this long ago because she understood how dangerous it can be dealing with unreasonable men.
Yep I had one guy say "Hi" to me while shopping and because I said, "Hi" back as an auto retort I then had to spend a whole hour with this guy not letting me leave drilling me for all my details & life story I gave him all lies he wasn't getting one true thing from me it's like "dude I don't know you!" I drew the line at my phone number simply cuz I didn't have a fake one memorized and didn't want to give this "drill sergeant of love" someone else's number by mistake! The guy also never stopped doing a deep stare one me either!
@@destroyraiden Ew. I would’ve done the auto hi too and been stuck with that weirdo. Nowadays they’ll pull out their cell phone and call you to check!
I've already told someone I am not comfortable talking to them but they still won't budge and say that they'll wait for me when I've finally healed from our toxic relationship. The thing is I've already cut them off but they don't want to cut me off too, and they say that they'll keep waiting on me. How do you deal with a situation like this?
@@Arifumiko just block them from everywhere
@@Arifumiko tinycindy is right. Go no contact, if possible. Be safe and don’t bother being polite if you feel you’re in danger. This person sounds narcissistic. Narcs love stepping over your boundaries so be firm. Don’t allow them to talk their way into your home or car.
I agree with what you said beside one point: when you reject a guy by telling him you have a boyfriend it works because men view us as their property, so you're already a property of another man. And they respect that more than our right to say no
😭😭
Omg that’s terrifying
It’s true though. The second I started wearing an engagement ring and telling men, “sorry, I’m married” they immediately met my rejection with respect and admiration for my partner. 🙃
To be honest it does not work everytime but it's still a good try. I'm quite young and even I want to start wearing an engagement ring
This is a really annoying fact.
I got sick of men insulting me and getting aggressive if I said no even when I was being very very polite and kind.
So I asked a friend could I just pretend he was my partner any time I needed to fend men off.
Men loved Margot as Harley Quinn, but hate her as Barbie. 🤨
Cause they’re sick in the head.
Cause Harley Quinn runs after joker and she suffered which made them feel special.
But Barbie is on women side. Barbie talked about womens right. That's why
Cause Harley Quinn runs after joker and she suffered which made them feel special.
But Barbie is on women side. Barbie talked about womens right. That's why
@@user-og1os2xc6idon't forget the contrast in her wardrobe choices. The men didn't like birds of prey as much either. It really shows exactly how men perceive women when women are either "sluts" or "liabrarians" according to men, there's no middle ground or nuance because as far as their concerned, it's for their gaze and nothing else
The " I have a boyfriend thing" is so true. I am a lesbian, but very feminine and girly looking so I constantly get men approaching me. I used to be honest and just tell them straight away that I was gay or that I had a girlfriend because I didn't want to waste their time, and the amount of men (total strangers) that would ask to watch or proposition me for a threesome or simply not take no for an answer was staggering; and when I said no would usually get really mad and hurl all sorts of verbal abuse at me or accuse me of hating men, like what did I say about hating men? They always want what they can't have. Anyways nowadays I just tell men I have a boyfriend; an imaginary man is the only thing that shuts them up, sadly
Ugh that happened to my friend in college. The guy in our campus ministry group was a total dickhead and he was constantly flirting with me which was annoying af. He started dating another girl from our group who he eventually married (yikes) but while they were dating he asked my lesbian friend if she wanted to have a threesome with them. We both were certain he hadn’t asked his gf and just was being a disgusting warthog to her. It was sad funny and pathetic.
I’m in the EXACT same boat, and I tried all the same shit and got all the same responses and now have to give them all the same lie just for them to go away, it such bullshit🖤🌸be safe!!
Another thing to note: If a strange man asks if you got a man at home, immediately say "yes". He isn't asking if you are taken, he is assessing the potential threat of another man if he chooses to actively pursue you. He is essentially asking if you are alone and vulnerable, which is never a good sign! 🚩🚩🚩
And wear a ring on your ring finger when out alone, especially at night...it helps to keep most of those types of men away.
@@bubbles_mc_rainbowI doubt men see rings on fingers, or care if they do.
@@byJessCh depends on what country and city you live in. Where I live men will 'respect' a woman more and leave her alone if she has a ring on. Not because he actually and literally respects her, just that she appears to be another man's 'property' which is sad. I've had men go from nasty and lecherous, to 'deferential' and saying "god bless you miss!! your husband is a lucky man" once they saw my ring, 😂 it had nothing to do with actual respect for me, but whatever it got them to leave me alone.
He's asking if you are taken.
Women are sniveling pu ssies.
Grow up.
@@bubbles_mc_rainbow
That’s sound gross. I don’t have a ring on my finger and I haven’t dealt with that.
The "Margot Robbie is mid" comment is not ACTUALLY targeting Margot Robbie. All women can see that she is a gorgeous, above average looking, genetic-lottery hitting woman. When someone calls her "mid", that implies everyone less good looking or less successful is just sub-par. It pokes at the self-esteem of the everyday woman. Let's just acknowledge her beauty, talent and success. She seems like a good person too, from her interviews. And let's acknowledge ourselves. We are just as worthy of human beings as she is, we deserve respect and love. ❤
One of my red flags in people is being judgemental. Especially if their judgements seem lunatic, such as a clearly beautiful person being ugly, or a clearly clever person being dumb.
Keep your chin up, you are worthy!
I’d like to point out that in her previous roles where she was simply there to appeal to the male gaze (just from what I’ve heard, never researched this directly though) she was seen as absolutely stunning. Now suddenly, when she played the role of Barbie, all these same guys who thought she was gorgeous are calling her “mid,” just goes to show that no matter how attractive you truly are, if you don’t cater to men, they will see you as “ugly” lol. I doubt they truly see her as “mid,” they’re just mad she’s not playing the role of being their little toy to look at… and it makes them feel powerless😂 how pathetic!
@@MashedTaterz "not playing the role of being their little toy to look at" ironic that this came with the role of Barbie 😅
@@enraegen561 hahahaha true! didn’t even think about that lmfao
You nailed it 🔨
It's also an attack on anything else a woman can be, her accomplishments, and how else she can be valued.
I’m a single mom and the minute I cut off a guy, guess what, their attack is to devalue and imply that they were so gracious to pursue me and that I won’t find anyone to take me seriously because I’m a SM.
Oh yeah! Those are trash! Don't fall for the hype!
@@AyaEgbuho Yup, they are just deflecting. Like, if I wasn’t a catch, then why are you having a mantrum ?….👀
You keep ascending dear because obviously these low vibe men sour that you caught onto their bullsh*t
thank you for sharing 🫶🏽 i love the support group vibes on this thread
Love bombing then insulting is def narcissistic
The most dangerous time is when a woman leaves.
I had a boyfriend who after about 2 years of dating I didn’t see it going anywhere so I tried to break things off. He threatened to lull himself and I was coerced to stay. Every time id try to break it off he’d threaten to kill himself or he’d disappear and his family would call me worried, again forcing me to comeback.
When I finally broke it off for good, he stalked me, came to my house unannounced, was often waiting for me IN MY ROOM. Then all of a sudden it stopped and I thought he had gotten the point and was finally over it and moving on.
3 months went by, again no word from him and out of nowhere he ambushed me at gun point and assaulted me. Once the police closed in on him he committed suicide. It was truly a nightmare. My advice is to leave at the first sign of violence and do so carefully. I didn’t want to get the police involved earlier because I didn’t want to ruin his career and have that on him criminal record instead of protecting myself.
My safety should have been the most important thing but it was second to his career prospects. I see how backwards thinking that was and really wish I would have done things differently.
I am so sorry you had to experience that. I have no blame for you and you should never be blamed for his actions (I say this because I am aware of the negativity that we have to face). Thank You for sharing your experiences with us. By posting you are warning other women of the dangers that are ahead and for that I say Thank You. Please never be discourage from sharing your point of view; it is so valuable. I wish you a good life.
We are conditioned as women to sacrifice everything, even our own wellbeing and values. It's not your fault. I'm so glad you got out of that safely! Keep thriving girlie 🎉
most men look like they barely made it out of the cave yet theyre the ones to judge women by their apperance. i reccomend these males to discover what skin care, hair care, going to the gym, having a sense of style is because there's a reason why women prefer the 20% of men on dating apps!
You said it! They're not up to having the same standard of grooming, fitness and clothing and style themselves that they expect us to have, then they wonder why we reject them.
@@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 We're not expecting men to wear makeup. But a decent haircut, good grooming (hairs out of the nose trimmed, etc.), a bit of thought about fitness and clothing, and MANNERS, respectful behaviour toward women... brash behaviour turns women off.
Often men assume that they are being rejected for their looks when it is actually their poor grooming and brash behaviour that turns women off.
I agree with that, but it’s also an objective fact that women are more physiognomically beautiful than men.
Yeah, and even those cavemen with unkempt hair and untrimmed beards who dress like teenagers want to elevate theis status by hitting on the most beautiful women. The level of audacity is ...honestly almost impressive. Apparently men can be in their delulu entitled princess energy too.
They're mad cause Barbie reflects our society. Even the slogans point it out. "She's everything, and he's just Ken"
Femcels lol
@@jorgenavarro311 what part of what I said is "femcel" ?
@@bonzai9802 where's the cope? It's all facts. Studies showed the happiest women are single, whereas the happiest men are married so It goes to show who needs who. No offense, but males are a burden to women, they can be easily replaced by a d1ld0
@@bonzai9802A man here snooping in women content was is the a threat to your manhood?
Hii spoiled girlyy💅@@bonzai9802
There are literally women being killed by their ex-lovers or the man they just rejected. So yes, make sure your block game is on point. Your safety comes before men’s feelings. They should go to each other and talk about why a lot of them are so violent and still able to walk among us.
"they are lucky to breathe the same air as margot robbie. they have to convince themselves that they dont want her because they dont have her"
...they devalue it to us, [our time, body, presence, gifts] so we wont charge for it
WE are not freakin participation trophies. STOPPPP going out with people you have no interest in.
we do not owe anyone a chance to disrespect us. BLOCK THEM.
a men is the most dangerous when his ego is hurt when he feels insecure. dont give them the chance to disrespect you.
@@naomi-ey7yb nah a men is most dangerous when he has everything to win.
A crucial factor in this are mothers, the way mothers treat and train their sons also determines the way he values women. Especially with first born sons, treating them like Kings even before they learn to be knights. Be mindful of how we are treating sons vs daughters. And with fathers whether the daughter has to feel like she needs to earn her father's time / attention.
@@HankWilliams-kp3io Nowhere mentioning feminist parenting, by the way, sorry for what you endure but that ain't feminist parenting at all, that's just authoritarian, and definitely not what the bible or Christianity teaches, they likely misunderstand the symbiosis between men and women. A man leads out of protection and not submission. Women claiming their value back isn't at a devalue of truly mature and masculine men. Love is out of will and not out of obligation. If you feel like your role is to obey women at the sacrifice of your own free will, then there's something to heal and reflect in the programming given by your parents, and the inability to voice your concerns or opinions to them. Sounds like an issue of oppression rather than an issue of gender respect. Cheers
@@HankWilliams-kp3ionever heard of those lies
This!!! 🎯!! Women also play a huge part in this!!! I can't wait for a topic on horrible mamas boys who make horrific husbands
Yeah but the men have their fathers & all the males outside of the home to undo anything the mothers do so it's one woman or your own house hold of them vs all the trends, jokes, movies, and all the men of the world they'll run into that's not winnable they still come back being sexists, disrespectful, and devaluing the woman around them on a daily, weekly, monthly basis!
literally when i rejected this one man he called me "ugly" and said he would bully me now. this man was also 30 when i was 20😂 then he apologized and said he never meant it and tried to pursue me again then i had to reject him a 2nd time and he called me ugly again-.-
Hes busted and disgusted. He's mad cuz you as a younger woman at that time wouldn't accept his older funky azz.
Good for you for standing up for yourself against that idiot 😂
Most men are just trash like that, very vindictive and at emotional maturity of 1 year old. Like, literally, you are on object to them and they feel entitled to your body. You rejected them politely? Still going to insult and sexually harass you, because objects don't have freedom of choice, dignity or feelings. We obviously exist just to please them ))
Margot Robbie is beautiful but what I find most beautiful about her is her smile and obviously I don't know her but she seems kind. She has good energy. Super weird that they are calling her a 7. I feel like when you shine bright people want to humble you so they can feel better about themselves
True her smile lights up the room. ❤.
She's one of us (Margot Robbie) she was a producer of 'Promising Young Woman' starring Carey Mulligan -- she's the whole package with a powerful opinion. The movie is a must see!!!
Yep, it’s the moth to a flame thing, our energy is so pure and then whether they get us or not, they have to try to remove our light
@@bluehorizon17 💯
@@tffnyc1033 ❤️✨
Every time i rejected a man - i removed myself from situation. In person - saying no and walking away. In internet - no and block. Sometimes just silent block, if they acting creepy. You know, some guys would text you the most unhinged things before even saying "hey". Maybe there was some nice guys who's feelings was hurt, but i value my peace and safety. Women need to protect themselves in this world, and decent men understand this. I was stalked when i was fourteen, and i don't need this again.
Thank for this video. You are speaking truth.
"Stop rewarding this despicable behavior!" YES This! Negative attention is still attention to them. Irrelevance is the best response and it ANGERS them LOL.
So true.
Isn’t it amazing how the first thing men target after they are rejected is a woman’s appearance, her age, her physical fitness. Often times women aren’t just rejecting these low minimal effort, PB&J guys, they are also rejecting the breadcrumbs that these guys offer.
They also target her single mother status, her education, and her high-earning status. The new one that these losers throw out at high-earning women is “she priced herself out of the dating market”.
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Well that's just another way of saying "What are we as men even good for anymore?"
A few of my family members & I made guy friend thru 1 of our businesses. His dad wanted us to date so bad that he began telling every1 we were. When I corrected the matter, he & his dad began talking bad about me around town & even tried to get me fired. I also worked as a pharmacy tech whilst attending school & helping with our family businesses. They had friends who worked higher up in the pharmaceutical company (I won't name here), & they threw away my contract for I signed for a raise. This is all only part of the story, not even half the details. Rejecting men can cause hell to freeze over for certain women. Praying for every good soul to always be protected and blessed.🌻
I'm really sorry this happened to you, this is awful.
I call it the modern bullying: we are not allowed to say "no", and we aren't protected from their revenges especially when they are in a powerful position.
I'm in a similar situation right now, It's affecting me to the point I need therapy
@@glxy1671 Please seek therapy and resources to give you options. If you aren't aware of your options, ask social services, Blackburn center, and dial 411 for resources. Trust me it isn't worth your sanity. Is anything worth your sanity is too expensive.
@@kantik2118 It's definitely not a new thing, just look at Harvey Wein blackballing those actresses coz they rejected his vile ass.
I have rejected men and given them "closure". It generally ends with a lot of insults and disrespect
Yes, made the same mistake, never again 😊 this idiots can suffer with my silence
Thank you for this video. I literally just had a breakdown like 20 mins ago because i kept getting comments on my instagram on how "ugly" I am. Things like "you look like a man" or "why do you look like that?" But in person people are always complimenting me and im always getting asked out. I deleted all my posts out of a saddened rage but I'm gonna be okay.
🥹keep your chin up bestie. the devil works overtime in some people 🙏🏽
Instagram is filled with these low-quality chromosomes, block them and enjoy your beauty
@@SilentTripno fr. Like guys be calling girls a 5 on a good day whilst they literally have no hygiene, are old enough to be their father and no picture
F*** those haters! Don't stop posting your beautiful self on your Instagram page, start deleting unwarranted hate comments!
@@monicadavis6336I second this. Beta males (who are more than likely incels) are invading women’s spaces, including their Instagram, and they’re attacking them because they’re losing, and they HATE it. Your reality is that many people IRL find you attractive and ask you out. Don’t let some keyboard warrior a$$clown get you down.
It's very true! Men do devalue us the minute they're rejected, like he turns into a completely different person, like Mr. Hyde. I had a friend of 10 years, I rejected him, and it didn't matter how long we've known each other, he became the worse friend I've ever known, insulting me. I don't even have a boyfriend that treated me as bad. So be careful, just stay away from their hurt egos.
The sad thing is even when you tell some men that you're not interested because you're already in a relationship or that you're married, they'll still try to convince you to give them a chance. Talkin' bout 'he doesn't have to know'. If these men have anything, it's audacity.
Men have nothing but audacity !
But you're the "attention seeking whore"
I’ve been insulted, shamed and told I would regret it only for rejecting men! I REFUSE TO ACCEPT LOW VALUE MEN and yes envious women support it !
I will also add something that men have thrown at me to try to diminish me. Here is the quote “you’re not what I usually go for“ meaning that I’m sub par as far as their expectations of physical beauty and you’re right, I remove myself from those men immediately. As well I can honestly say the ones that have said this, well they’re not oil paintings themselves.
BBMEM: "you're not what I usually go for"
You: "Then don't, byeeee" 💅
Once I came accross INCEL movement I started fearing men..😢
Don’t fear them. Just ignore them. They’re just rejected and refuse to work on themselves
If Margo Robbie is mid, then that just means women are blessed with being inhumanely good looking on average. Which is good. They literally can't win with that argument
It’s exhausting just being a woman, grown men feel entitled to you and they do not care if you are a child, in fact they like that. As young women we’re just blank pages waiting to be claimed and written on, because in their eyes we’re not even people, we’re property. I honestly spend most of my time protecting my friends from these horrible predators and that’s fucking terrifying. We’re just kids, we shouldn’t have to be scared of grown men trying to hurt and exploit us, but we are because given the chance they will.
You have a very realistic view on life : don't you ever change it and let someone talk you into the relationship/ marriage BS. 40 yo, was baby trapped by a nerd who played the good Guy/ savior card on me and pursued me for more than a year.
My advice be aware of their manipulation tactics and protect yourself/ your friends. Living childfree & drama free is the New peace of mind. Frim experience, 99% of them aren't worth it, are fake and switch, and use marriage/ babies to trap women.
Please get support or talk to an older person that you trust at home and school if these predators are bothering you or your friends.
Yes, you can also speak up in real life! And btw: no men & no baby! 🎉
Stop being a fucking groveling dog and grow the fuck up.
Grown men don't give a fuck about you.
If they do, it's because you're probably sexually developed and you look like an adult. 99% of them will walk away when you tell them your age.
Maybe you really are evolved to obey and submit if you're going to be this much of a sniveling puss y.
2:30 "They cannot access women in real life so they try to access women online by invading their spaces". 👏👏👏👏 This devaluing women and then continuing to invade their space is sick. If they don't like women, they should leave them alone. Not try to inflict emotional or psychological harm to manipulate and/or use them.
Preach girl, preach! This is amazing. You are so articulate, and this video was so incredibly helpful!
when women hate men, they avoid them. when men hate women, they hurt them🥺
testosterone is one hell of a drug🤡
This! So many times i see online where men invade women spaces and I’m like “why are you here? Do you need a pad like wtf.” This is why women reject you. It’s you.
When I was a cashier at Walmart, people asked me out all the time. One was so hurt I rejected him (because I was literally with someone, I didn't even have to lie) he CAME BACK and held me hostage at the register so he could accuse me of lying and being ugly. He even filmed me??? These guys are freaks. Don't give them the time of day. Honestly, if you can get away with it, pretend you didn't hear them and leave the whole pleace. Make sure you have someone with you, too.
This is so true I knew a below bare minimum effort guy and he was always just talking shit about women. If a girl had a rich boyfriend he would shit on her saying she's a gold digger and what not. Later I got to know, in the bgrnd he was getting rejected by all these girls he was shitting on. So he basically was just furious he couldn't access them.
I hate the rating of women's attractivness by numbers . I also hate the "dating market" as people are not shares on the stock market or products on a shelf. It is all so disgusting and I want to stay single for the rest of my life over having to deal with any of this ever again.
Funny how they call her mid but found her to be the hottest thing ever when she was playing Harley Quinn. A character that was so manipulated by a man and sexualized.
2 of the sweetest boys I’ve ever met who will UNDOUBTABLY make wonderful husbands and fathers did not have fathers present.
The difference is they had strong mothers who were loving, present, and honest with them about why their father wasn’t present and they see that male behaviour as negative.
I think that’s the main difference. They didn’t have a father, but they had exceptional mothers.
I dated a guy who had both parents the father being quite successful and him basically being the sons hero. Well he was a horrible misogynist and that was passed down from his rich daddy. On the outside you’d think everything was perfect.
@@Nonabacha43 I am now in my 40s and never married because I just never found the right match for myself, but I have come to this same conclusion in recent years. It's not that I *won't* date a guy who did not have at least one sister, but my preference 1,000 times over is that they do, and that they are close to them. It makes a HUGE difference IMO.
That’s something I’ve noticed too. A lot of people like to claim that criminals (in that of male criminals) are like the way they are because they had no fathers in their lives. And maybe that might be true to some extent, but one thing I’ve also noticed is that these criminals tend to have pretty poor or toxic relationships with their mothers as well. I don’t think the main cause to a terrible person’s life is the absent parent, it’s the parent that’s raising them that’s the main cause to how they end up in life. And if the child has an unhealthy relationship with the parent who’s raising them, then most of the time they’re not gonna come out as a mentally healthy adult.
There may be truth to that - my husband grew up with 2 sisters so he’s pretty sensitive to women’s issues. He’s very sweet ♥️
My bf has a lot of little cousins that he thinks of as sisters. Some of em are around my age as well. And he is the best man I’ve ever dated in my life. Very high emotional intelligence and keeps me grounded.
I loved the Barbie movie, and it was spot on psychologically speaking. Men are realizing that they are NOT living up to their highest potential and so they want to cut the women down.
Yes 😮 how sad is that
Women hold men back every step of the fucking way.
They would be if not for females.
People think women are jealous of women.
But in my opinion men are jealous of women more than they are jealous of men.
Their ego ☕
Men liked Margot as Harley Quinn but not as Barbie. Cause Harley Quinn runs after joker and she suffered which made them feel special.
But Barbie is on women side. Barbie talked about womens right. That's why
I indirectly rejected a guy who I used to work with and he did everything in his power to "try" to make my work life hell. This would include jumping into conversations I would have with other male colleagues. Highlighting my mistakes in an extremely dramatic way or he would run and tell my managers I'm being "uncooperative". Low key trying to boss me around or speak down to me but would get mad & storm off if I stood up for myself. I would be having lunch with a few of my close colleagues and this guy would invite himself over and divert the whole conversation to him. He was nice when I first met him and I would often catch him staring but then he just started acting weird. I think he assumed I was messing around with another colleague who I gave my number to. I never give out my number in a work setting but gave it because he offered to add me to the departments group chat so I could keep up with any work updates they had but he never did and I also naively assumed he was into men until he asked me out for a drink date but was politely declined. I'm very shy and quiet and sometimes I think this can come across either snobby or either naive and easy but I always find myself attracting spiteful, petty guys who start off as nice.
Yikes! Men can be totally revengeful psycho bitches and hold a grudge for decades!
I have done so much reading now to try to pick up sooner if there's a problem. And watch and take things slowly (& always assume there's an ulterior motive).
Right now, I've got 3 men in my local area I'm avoiding by being careful when and where I go, and 2 more blocked on the phone.
Sometimes I think there are just horrid people marauding around globbing in to anyone they can, so it isn't always us attracting them - they're just there.
As my Mom used to say don't eat where you sh##. Men as friends or otherwise in the workplace was a NO NO. I kept it strictly professional. Even during company events I kept a safe distance between myself and male coworkers. Also get you a fake boyfriend photo and place the pic on your desk, get an engagement ring.
@@khrisi9410 I will definitely take that approach the next time this happens. I have for sure learnt my lesson.
When I was 11, a grown ass man started hitting on me in a store. I awkwardly didn’t reply, and he said “you think you’re too good to talk to me, bitch?” I was so hurt and confused that I just cried and couldn’t even explain to my mom when she asked me what’s wrong.
Ewww that dude must get arrested what a weirdo omg, glad you're safe though, those kind of men have some serious problems....
seriously most men should be locked inmental health institutes. That is full crazy sht behavior and is totally bizarre they can do sht like this sistematically and not get punished
No one asked for your sob story.
When I was 13, a grown woman groped my balls.
Bad people exist. Get over yourself.
story time !!
i was reminded of the times men have expressed interest in me and hit on me (it was mostly in college and at work).
i'm usually friendly, or at least, civil with everyone that i meet, and i dislike being rude (?) to people even for the slightest things i.e. i would let someone go before me in line when i've been standing there for longer, etc. BUT
every single time a guy expresses his interest in me in a romantic or sexual way, they always would backhandedly say stuff like "i am too nice to reject people" or "you're a nice person so you wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings", etc.
besides pissing me off, i am disgusted beyond belief that i reject them harshly and quite "rudely". something like "no thanks, nasty guys aren't my type", and they would retaliate by calling me ugly, bitchy, just all kinds of names. i'd usually respond by saying "honey, i think you should look in the mirror first before calling someone else ugly".
unfortunately, because of me rejecting men (and sometimes women), i had to quit my last job. a guy, who was kinda high up in the management, was flirting with me even after my countless rejections.
turna out he had a live-in gf (which i obviously wasn't aware of), she tried to throw hands w me physically, it got to management and instead of ensuring my safety or at least listening to my side first, they kept on blaming me and asking if i purposefully flirted with him.
i quit right there and then. no use staying in a work environment like that.
What an absolute scrote. Good on you for leaving toxic spaces that don’t serve you
Sue them I am pretty sure those are workers rights violations right there
Sometimes it’s just hate and misogyny and they resent settling for some of us. My ex started on year 1-4 of slut shaming me hard, telling me he was out of my league, regularly telling me I was worth less not being a virgin. in the end after I was leaving, calmly called me l prostitute and porn star for doing cam modeling for 2 months 7 years before which was more coercion anyway since my first ex controlled me and controlled the money made and didn’t let me see the pets unless I did what he wanted. He said he didn’t respect me and he treated me like trash. Men want to lead but they are almost always the problem. I told him before we dated and made sure he was cool with it. They manipulate to access you and then use you for sex and the emotional receptacle for their insecurities and hate.
Ive had men scream in my face after they followed me and incessantly asked me for my number and say things like, "You're not that cute anyways!"
Do you live in NYC? They love doing this in NY 🙄
When they’re not throwing punches
That’s probably why mum mom enrolled me in judo classes when I was a kid. Though another factor that devalues women’s self esteem is other women comparing how many guys hit on her, or how many boyfriends she’s had. To me sounds desperate for attention, yet any attention makes her feel superior.
Those are male identified women. Obsessed with male validation and attention..they will go as far as betraying and even unaliving other women all for the sake of being picked by males
That's awesome builds character too! And now you're bad ass! 😊
Agree with everything you say, and I rarely comment because I feel a little shy to comment online, but I have to add to this conversation.
It feels like a lot of men even miss the point of what attractiveness is. Have you ever met someone so attractive, JUST your type and beautiful? But as soon as you approach them or say hi, they come off as uninterested and bored. Bored with you, bored with life and don't really respond to anything. They have no hobbies, or interests. They *become* unattractive.
Being an attractive woman is to be interested in LIFE! To be a good sister, mother, daughter, FRIEND! To love what you do, to keep working on yourself and keep going when life feels so tough and hard. THAT is attractive. SO ! When a man says you're 'mid', or calls someone beautiful 'mid', what they are not seeing is what makes you so bloody attractive; the soul you carry, the hardships and trauma you've had to push through, how beautiful it is when you look after yourself or smile. It's obvious these invertebrate men online would have no idea what being attractive really is if it slapped them in the face!
true. the sad thing is a significant number of men aren't that deep (deep enough to be interested in a self-possessed, healed, rise-above-difficult-circumstances-and-shine kind of woman)... a lot of them literally HATE that about us.
I was in the restaurant with my Polish friend (a girl) and her American friend (a guy). The American guy was hitting on me and giving me compliments during the whole meeting. However, my Polish friend got so drunk she left us for a moment to go to the toilet (to vomit). Meanwhile, he asked me to leave her and go to his place. I not only refused but I also scolded him for wanting to leave our friend alone. He ended up throwing fries at me and while leaving showed me the middle finger and called me the B-word.
Wooh, so much hate towards you just because you refused 🥴 you did great by standing for your friend and not letting her alone it's always dangerous to be alone as a woman and even more with alcohol in the body. He was trash you didn't miss a thing by leaving him 👋🏻
Aww I'm so happy you didn't leave your friend, dziękuję ❤❤❤
Sounds like an American. Dodged a huge bullet.
Some inc*l. So glad you ladies got safe❤❤
Men "we dont like women who wear too much makeup"
Also men: "Margot Robbie without makeup is mid"
Your comment is so right on! You can't win in so many of these situations. Too many men are catch-22 ppl b/c they are such egotistical control freaks - basically narcissists. If they can't control you, they will either abuse you or cheat on you. I have been stalked a lot in my lifetime and it made me so scared that it scared me out of marriage which is one of the reasons I never got married.
My stepdad Ron had to even chase this one stalker off in his car b/c he kept coming around and one night, Ron was over and he took the 20th call of the night from this creep who kept calling me. The guy had told me earlier, "you're not that good looking anyway" when I told him I wanted no more contact w/ him but of/c he had told me on our one and only date b4 this that I was gorgeous. I always always get this very predictable treatment as these fools are SO predictable. As soon as you reject them, you can see it in their eyes - the resentment, the spite, the devil himself...I always tell myself, 'it's coming, wait for it, wait just another second - here it comes - 'the you're not all that' line that I always here right after they built me up to tell me how great I was and how much they wanted me. It's been an ongoing pattern w/ 90% of the guys I've ever known since high school. I was always the 'stuck up bitch' or slut or whore, etc, b/c I rejected guys I wasn't interested in. In today's insane culture, I am now called the 'Karen'!
Ron told the to get a life and cussed him out and the guy said "I'm taking your daughter out whether you like it or not" - super crazy creepy stuff - kind of like the movie 'Fear'. He came to my apt. and banged on door and said he was coming to take me on a second date and Ron answered the door w/ his 6"4 frame and large football body in the doorway. "If you call or visit or touch my daughter, I'll kill you with my bare hands you weasley bastard!" and the guy ran to his car and then Ron ran after him, followed him in his car and ran him off the road. My stepdad was always my hero like that w/ bad guys.
After that dramatic incident, I never heard from that creep again but my history w/ controlling-type men and stalkers and immature man-babies is so rich, I could write a book. These men are all about egos and control. It's disgusting beyond belief. I love seeing women like this content creator use her voice in such a powerful way. Good for her!!
@@kaitlynkarol4600 yeah, I've learned that if the average joe on the street will say or do anything to feel like they're more powerful than you, especially as a woman.. they'll do it. But women at any age can find a man, but unless they're financially successful it's so much harder for them to find a woman cause lonely men are in abundance. If a man can't enhance a woman's life, most women who know better & know their worth as the Divine feminine.. most smart ladies nowadays think "what's the point then? I'm better off with a man who enhances my life not give me stress."
They absolutely do devalue what they cannot access. Not just women. Careers, education, culture, money. And considering the source it’s really quite silly. I saw a man on the internet attempt to drag women over 30. This dude looked like Staypuff with a beard. 😂 These men love to gaslight. They really do hate the idea that you might be fine without them because they are most definitely not fine without you. Remember, the goal is control and subjugation. If I fuck with your head and make you feel like you are less valuable then you are, then I can get access to you. It’s absolutely a manipulation. What you need to remember is, if you’re not so great and he’s settling, then why is he even bothering talking to you at all? Shouldn’t he be buddied up to a “10”? Look at him--Is he a 10? Being able to answer those questions for yourself will shake that programming shit off quick.
The “I have a boyfriend/ husband” line does not work by the way.
I have a bf absolutely does not work I had a man who I rejected who was 15 years older than me 45 I was 28 telling me how iam old and nobody will want me and he is in his prime !!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Men who are saying she’s mid most likely want to be her.
This video cane out at the perfect time lmao. I was literally crying yesterday cause my male co-worker called me ugly yesterday and for some reason I was triggered and when I got home I cried and felt so insecure.
@@Imliterallyherebro Thank you 💕 I really should report him cause he says a lot of stuff that make me uncomfortable
@@azuraseleniteOmg that’s terrible! What are you waiting for sweetie, PLEASE report him to HR, he’s getting away with shit like that if you let him go unpunished. If your colleague starts out with nasty comments and then when he gets the chance to be alone with you, who knows if he isn’t going to take it a step further and try and physically assault you?
I hope he doesn’t follow you on any social media, doesn’t have your home address and that you have ways to protect yourself because sometimes these incels can resort to stalking and violence to ‘teach you a lesson’ when they get caught. Sorry I absolutely don’t mean to scare you but it’s better to be aware and prepared of the things these type of men are capable of then to have it happen and not know what to do.
Do you know if any of your other female colleagues have had him be rude to them? If so, then you can go to HR together and support each other.
Remember It’s all a reaction because of his own shortcomings and anger, don’t take anything he says personally because his goals is to douse your fire, he wants to see you become insecure and unhappy. Don’t let him get to you bestie. Stay safe and good luck 💕
Edit: I just saw your pfp, you are a mix of beautiful and cute. Precious 🥰 Now I know for sure he’s trying to break your confidence. You do you and stay your beautiful self girl, don’t let any man mess with you!! Especially no toxic office troll 🙄
You are beautiful. You are a bad ass. He's probably secretly in love with you and sniffs your chair every time you get up ❤😅
@@Imliterallyherebro Thank you so much 😭 he specifically targets me even my other co-workers have tried calling him out but then he says it's just a joke. It's so weird cause he'll flip and try being nice when someone calls him out or I do. Either way I'm very grateful for your words🤧
@@udontevenwannaknowbruv Thank you so much these comments really made my day I know I shouldn't rely on external validation but it just feels really nice to hear you guys are amazing I really wish the best for all of y'all 😭😭
Ill never forget when i was online dating. This guy i was talking to for a few days wanted to meet up. I was about to meet him at a bar. But when he kept texting me to hurry up and started getting aggressive with his words, so i completely ghosted him and blocked him. I just got a bad feeling about him. Glad he showed his true colors before i met him.
I think a highly overlooked point is that barbie didnt want to oppress the kens at all, she wanted to de-center the patriarchy and have a fair society, and resolved to fix the mistakes she had made before
I feel like the man who called Margot Robbie mid is jealous inside of her spotlight and success
"If men do not have anything they will have the audacity." Genius!
Bestie, I can't explain how intelligent I think you are. You can take the most complex topics about human behavior and explain them in such a fun and understandable way. Your awareness around human behavior and your ability to recognize patterns in BBMEF (below bare minimum effort men) is just one of the reasons why your subscribers will skyrocket. Best of luck to you in whatever you want in life, thank you for posting this content.
Hi, new subscriber from Germany here. We must know our value and protect ourselves. Yes, for years I didn't even own a car because there were always enough drivers around to transport me. Don't be afraid about getting old. My great aunt rejected a man who wanted to marry her when she was 80 years old because he was below her standard. A widowed friend found a new life partner at age 80.
The most DANGEROUS situation is when his ego gets hurt. YOU PREACH!
This is so good! I blocked a guy I went out with bc he was doing too much and was very lazy with the “date” . This guy calls me 4 times from different numbers, and when I answer he’s yelling on the phone. Almost felt like I had to apologize.s he kept saying I was being unreasonable. Long story short I told him to not reach out to me anymore and he said I had issues.
@kogo8107 to add a cherry he said he will tell his homegirls about me blocking him and tell me what they say. 😕
Margot is gorgeous. She’s a 10/10. 💕
First time I saw comments calling Margot "mid" or not that beautiful I was confused for a second. Then I remembered that's exactly how insecure guys talk. No person of sound mind would say that, cause they have no reason to tell lies.
I love being a woman
same🫶🏽🫶🏽
Never go down to a man's hellish level, just keep it moving.
Men who can’t access women also end up saying they’re “trans” to get into our spaces. Thanks for your video. Wish more women realized this shit.
Lots of men go Trans to avoid being unwanted. There's a saying that women would get with another woman if she's hot than with the guy nobody wants.
That’s unfortunately true, and I fear for young Gen Z girls who haven’t yet realised the dangers of sharing spaces with predators like that. Women’s empathy is weaponised against us, these men know exactly what they are doing.
This! They’ll be the ones who still present as male and make no effort to “pass”. They aren’t even thinking of lobbing off their nasty peens. They also are the ones to make the most noise when they’re rightfully ejected out of our spaces.
I am glad the women in these comments aren't delusional and aware of this bs. Recently, there was an IT conference for women and a bunch of straight men called themselves non-binary/trans and took up women's spaces 🤦♀️ this is why men shouldn't be allowed in women's spaces
@@yami_mamiI am seeing the pattern lately, they go trans, and suddenly they decide to play sports with women because it's easier to fight biological women or they do s*x work because women are paid more in that industry 😒 which made me question their existence.
Thank you for standing up for women , very refreshing content ! ❤
🥹🥹thank you
agreed x
@@therealmanifestelle You are the best UA-camr 💕
Resonated with this so much. I rejected someone and did my best to be kind, but the situation kept getting worse to the point that I quit my job (even after reporting him, the situation wasn’t taken seriously enough). Figuring out finances has been hard, but having peace being away from him has been priceless.
i even had men lash out at me when i told them the I have a boyfriend line.
Yesterday I was coming back home from college with public transport when a strange man who gives out tickets approached me and asked me how I was doing several times, I replied once but he kept hovering around me and repeating the same question, I was irritated and ignored him then he tried getting close to me several times so I just played it cool and ignored him. The next day the same thing happened, he kept asking how I was doing and ogling at me. I was annoyed and I just ignored him but next he started saying that I was bragging (yes I am pretty but I really don't care about how I look or desperately try to get others attention) and it was a stupid because I wasn't even paying him any attention, I literally just wanted the stranger gone and ignored him. Next he said that I would never get married as an insult just because I ignored the fucker. I ignored him though but I'm still mad. I don't get why pathetic men who have a poor mentality and disrespect for boundaries like him approach girls that they can never be with and get their ego bruised and then begin to insult to insult us like we are the problem. Like why would you be chasing something you can't afford?
This time I am not keeping quiet the next time I see the idiot I'm gonna give him a piece of my mind.
No girl, he wants the attention, even if it's negative attention
But if you were ever forced to say something, be like "oh, I didn't pay any attention because that's not how you talk to me" lol
I learnt this from an older woman
literally 3mins into the video and I automatically subscribed. YOU SPEAK FACTS GIRL. Men honestly cannot stand not being the center of the universe it is insane.
Yes! Women don’t have to explain anything. Block without goodbye. I’m not risking my sanity for a random dude.
"You do not owe anyone the chance to disrespect you" ‼️‼️‼️
I think I needed to hear this. I am objectively not an attractive woman, but I experience the devaluing, even from men I have no romantic connection to, in situations that have nothing to do with dating. So I have believed myself to be worthless from a very young age. I still struggle with self esteem - but I am trying to fight the feeling. Brainwash myself into thinking I am not unattractive, and not worthless. Will definetely check out more videos.
A great way to reprogram your subconscious script is through affirmations or askformations. The key is listening while in a drowsy sleepy state because the conflict between your subconscious and your current low self esteem thoughts that reside in your conscious mind will be eliminated which clears the pathway to input new thoughts or a new way of thinking. Listen to Goddess affirmations, beauty affirmations or self love affirmations every night for 6 weeks or longer, it can take up to a year to reprogram your mind to love yourself.
I'm so excited for the Barbie movie feels so good to be discovering and expressing my feminine side. Margot is awesome, and no sulking man-children tantrum will take that away from her. 👸🏼 Also, I wear rings to deter male interest. Very effective.
I too am a ring girly hehe 🤫 😉
I’ve been thinking to do this! Use it as a deterrent lol
I honestly feel that every women suffering from low selfworth should watch your videos. I've only watched a few and I feel so much better already. I feel like I need to wash the dirt off of myself and put on my crown.
The issue also is when you reject a man and then they give you the "you are ugly" comment that you might believe it, thus lowering your selfworth and standards permanently and dating these jerks that do not value you because you don't value yourself and it will just spiral down from there.
Thank you for giving women back our selfworth!
I had lost myself completely because of this and suffered for many years but because of you I found myself again. Thank you ❤
Listening to Elle made me realise that I had so little seld respect that I was putting a BBLM who treated me disgustingly on an absolute pedestal, being desperate for crumbs of affection from him. In a short time my outlook shifted and I went from infatuation to complete and utter repulsion with a hint of pity in a heartbeat, I literally don't want him to ever touch me again.
Now I'm just angry at myself for wasting so much energy on him instead of pouring it into myself.
Once I rejected a guy I was dating cause he proposed a date that was not ok for me… I openly said it was not a gentleman or something… he told me I am no Jessica Alba so what kind of date or courtship do I want ?
I honestly didn’t care cause it’s obvious me and Jessica Alba are not even the same ethnicity, we are of an opposite ethnicity… so I really didn’t take an offense (I was also very young at the time).
But that proves they want to push you down to accept things below your value
even when you tell them you have a boyfriend and its true, they still try like "he doesnt have to know" so the only way to reject a guy nowadays is to just ignore them and keep walking
She woke up and choose FACTS. Keep speaking up girl
I've been in each and every situation you mention in this video. I was insulted, humiliated, threatened with violence over me and my family, ignored, bad talked behind my back. All because I dared to not be available for them. A lot of men are decent though, but the ones who arent't, are very traumatizing for our mental health and self worth. Protect yourselves in advance!
I wear a fake wedding ring whenever i am alone on planes, on holidays or other situations I might get hit on. I wasn't insulted because I rejected, maybe because i am a bit intimidating ,but they were acting in a way to make me feel guilty... Poor me kind of behavior
GURLLLLLLLL YESSSS!! omg preach! I'm legit crying cuz every word you said is so True and I (like many other girlies im sure) was going crazy from being "cancelled" or shunned down for blocking, ghosting guys, etc when all I want is some damn PEACE. In person, it's so terrifying to reject a man that's why I barely go out even though I'm in my "golden age."
GIRL!!! I totally agree with you!! Men always want to "INSERT" themselves in every convo women have. It's like they highkey NEED to be everywhere else they won't be peaceful ever. They're so annoying fr!! And also Margot Robbie is a total queen, she has female admirers which is more important because I would rather be admired and adored by a female than be validated by a male. I love your content totally, you're amazing with all the content for women because it's honestly so helpful
@@Hadex518hello, I’m not a lesbian, I’m high key straight but do not enjoy admiration from men. I would much rather only be spoken to by men I approach.
@@Hadex518 firstly, there is nowhere in OPs comment where she says or even insinuates she’s a lesbian. That’s just you reaching. Second, you don’t speak for all or ‘most’ women. Lastly, I am not the exception, most women I know would also rather not be admired by male strangers and only appreciate admiration coming from men they’re actually into. Saying you would rather be adored by females not males doesn’t make you lesbian. How old are you, 5?
@@Hadex518 There you go again with your assumptions🙄I am not a masculine feminist, I actually happen to be a very girly girl. I’m a girl’s girl and proudly so. I made my account way earlier in life, but now it’s just a profile name. You’re incapable of thinking broadly and take everything at face value it seems. Also, I read her comment and that statement still doesn’t allude to her being a lesbian. Finally, you’re a disgusting person. There is no such thing as m*nor attracted person, you’re just a p*dophile and predator. Get help, loser!
I was never in a situation where someone would ask me out or ask my number. I have this scenario in my head that if a man asks me out I would just say no because I’m not interested but after what you just explained I will now say that I have a boyfriend because you’re right, safety comes first. Even if I’m a straight forward person I can’t risk my life this way. I’ve never thought about it that way but from now on I’ll be more careful.
bro i was never in that situation either but then this one guy asked for my number. I gave it and then he followed me around for like half and hour. Finally he comes up to me and demands we have dinner there and then. I had to sprint out of the mall for my life. Men just are not worth it.
There's this one guy who practically BEGGED me to see him again, saying he had the best time before and he wanted to cook more for me blablabla so sweet and... creepy.
I rejected, bc I can't with his ego, telling me all the time how much money he had BEFORE. He then messaged me saying I was ugly anyway and I'm not worth it and all the insulting words he can type.
My only regret was not blocking him before that. 😂
This definitely resonates with me right now. I used to hang out with a current coworker quite a bit and we were deciding whether or not we should date. He would constantly complement me saying that I was "gorgeous" and that I don't know that as well as "sexy." However, I am asexual, so we realized it wouldn't work out in the end because he is quite sexual. He even asked me if we could try for a month and I said no. Later on, I realize if I bring up anything positive someone has said about me (especially from another man), he tries to push it down. He later said "he wouldn't say all that" when someone said I was beautiful and deserve to be treated like a princess. This switch was very confusing, but now makes so much sense.
Agree with literally all of this 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 And yes - the, “I have a boyfriend,” line is my *favorite* way to reject. The only one I use anymore. Highly recommend, lol
Yes. I spent decades politely saying no and explaining why if they asked, then getting insulted.
I have a right to say no and be respected, but pretending I was another man's property was just easier in the end.
@@Hadex518 typical sexist nonsense actually. Plus you've entirely missed the point of the comment, but never mind.
And they say to you, I’m not jealous
I had a very long list of blocked numbers for this specific reason. I once told a guy I was dating about it and I felt strange when he told me he didn't have a blocked list. I thought for a second that there must be something wrong with me for having such a long list, but now I know I am not the only one and the my reason for it is completely valid. Thanks to this support group, I feel a lot better about this.
Im telling you IM TAKING NOTES SIS ❤
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can we also talk about the bbmlem behavior of guilt tripping a woman after rejection: "oh I guess I'll never find love now", "I've spent so many nights crying myself to sleep wishing I could have you", "can't you see how much this is hurting me to not be with you?". Manipulating a woman''s empathy to get what they want. Just as devaluing/harmful to a woman as the post-rejection insults.
I stopped explaining myself. I say goodbye and immediately leave or block. I don’t went to hear the reply. It’s usually rude and insulting. I turned down a guy in a club and I suspect he paid three bouncers to jump me as I left. I got them fired but what a terrifying experience. As a woman, I find many men to be shifty grifters and dangerous. I have a kind, loving and brilliant father, an amazingly creative and talented step-dad and a couple trustworthy male friends so I know good men. But being attractive and successful hasn’t won me points with anyone but myself lol!
What i've noticed is that women are supposed to feel bad about being a 5/10 or whatever, but a 5/10 woman is roughly equivalent to a man we would call 8/10 in terms of bangability (as in I would equate sleeping with a random 5/10 woman to sleeping with a random 8/10 man ... Even tho i'm a straight lady lol). The scale for men basically had to be recalibrated cos they are usually so darned fugly
Yah the mathematical rating for beauty doesn’t make sense… the human body is a work of art! You can’t just slap a number on it. Art is about feeling, expression, soul. BUT. You’re right. If you did put a number to it… women are on average more appealing to look at than men. It’s also men’s FAULT women are so pretty bc they sexually selected for beauty (think the opposite with birds). So to hear them complaining and sour graping is hilarious.
@@schuylergeery-zink1923 that too. I remember as a 9 or 10 year old hearing boys in my school talk about how a woman on telly had a good body. I remember being thoroughly confused about what it meant. I thought a body is just a body. Unless there's something srsly broken about it, surely it's not good or bad? Presumably the 9 year old boys also didn't know wtf they were talking about either but were parroting sth their older brothers or even uncles/dads had said. And presumably they have continued to do that for the rest of their lives 😂
Whenever I guy asks me out that I'm not into I just pretend to not hear him/ignore him until he moves on. It's safer that way imo.
Facts. No filter. Love this so much, thank you for telling it like it is. ❤❤❤❤
thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽
Calling Margot Robbie mid and then rating her above average, like they're really gonna be bad at lying and math and then insult anyone else, let alone a popular celebrity? That's not just giving xy, that's giving x-why are you even here
Yep! Like, since when was "7" average ya fool? 🤣 the average of 10 is 5.5. Insecure men swear they are the voice of authority but can't do simple, quick maths. ARITHMETIC.
They’re esteem is low so in order to access women they need to get their esteem low too.
Girl! Please discuss the Keke Palmer and Halley Bailey situation. Ladies this is not about race anymore, it was never about race. This about women protecting each other from dusty, crusty and violence men.
What happened to Keke Palmer and Halley Bailey?
I tell them I have a husband & they have the audacity to tell me to take off my ring. Weirdos
OMG! This is so true I thought I was crazy for sending a message and expeditiously blocking them. They will try and text back so fast with the craziest insults.
Don’t let them have that energy exchange girlies
i just subbed an hour ago and we alr getting new content?? LOVE U QUEEN, ND SO REAL BARBIE IS A GIRLS GIRL INDEED
thank you bestie! happy you joined us here
I don't know where I heard this but it is so true: Women say things they don't mean to cheer you up, men say thing they don"t mean to break you down.
I remember I was having a great time hanging out with my gay guy friends on a night out, and one of my friend's dates that they invited to join us told me, "you know, you're pretty, but you're not THAT pretty" and because I was tipsy drunk, I was hurt a lot more than if I had heard that if I was sober. Although most gays are women-allies, this guy was still a man and I don't know what he was trying to do to me with that comment. Maybe I was too busy having the time of my life and he didn't like how happy I was hanging out with all these gay men that he couldn't have? I don't understand but damn did he really try to dig at me by commenting on my appearance
We don’t owe men who aren’t of interest to us free therapy to talk through their inability to process rejection, we as traditional high value women in the modern world must prioritize our highest treatment at all times from everyone-if we wouldn’t want our daughters, future daughters, etc exposed to lesser behaviors, we must also honor ourselves. We deserve the absolute world but it must come first from within!
Omg I've done the free therapy thing... Never again :/