not your fault (Good Will Hunting)
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- sean: 「you see this, holy shit...」
sean: 「is not your fault...」
will: 「i know that」
sean: 「look at me son...」
sean: 「is not your fault...」
will: 「i know」
sean: 「is not your fault...」
will: 「i know」
sean: 「no, no, you no,」
sean: 「is not your fault...」
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scene from Good Will Hunting(1997)
Directed by Gus Van Sant
Written by Matt Damon & Ben Affleck
Casting
Robin Williams as Sean Maguire
Matt Damon as Will Hunting
Ben Affleck as Chuckie Sullivan
Stellan Skarsgård as Prof. Gerald Lambeau
Minnie Driver as Skylar - Розваги
“Look at me Son!”
Such a great script just loaded with powerful subtext
I don’t think anybody could’ve ever done a better job than Robin did in this…
No one could do a really good serious scene like Robin could. He had a way of making us laugh but then again he could really make you cry and move you to tears. RIP
Absolutely. I miss him.
I thank you for speaking up
It's not your fault Robin, fuck depression
True that man
Damn. Sad ... but true. God. The irony.
Yep, it's not your fault Robin. But dame god why you don't save him stop him took his life?
Aaron Ortega
I keep my faith refuse to believe god because of you this kind of people say so: "god said do not commit suicide or you will go to hell". Are you serious? what kind of god it is? Give me a break! Dame god again!
Since Robin was commit suicide I suggest you can leave Robin along.
Aaron Ortega
I'm all for you to have your own beliefs but please don't go sprouting BS in the context that you (or god) has the answers to everyones problems. If god talks to you then good luck to you my friend and may he bless you and give you comfort in your life.
I became a therapist because of this movie. I still love it to this day... Fabulous acting!!!
More, power to you Sir to watch a movie 🎬,and say to yourself i am going to be a ,Therapist i admire you ❤️ so much, that's what i needed many years ago, and i am still haunted by it at ,70 years of age. May God bless you, take care and if you have a family them also .from Ireland 🇮🇪 ❤
As someone who was badly abused and mistreated by several adults who were supposed to take care of me, this shit hits so hard. I still cry, every single time.
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Ditto, i know you feel, God bless you and take care. 🙏 X
Me too. I always start sobbing during this scene. Sometimes I will watch this movie when I need to cry. It touches a deep hurt within me
Ditto, myself the very same, 70 years of age and it still, HAUNTS me it destroyed my FUCKING LIFE, i asked for, HELP still waiting ✋️ 😢 .God bless you 🙏 ♥️
Me too. Trauma is real damaging.
Usually I couldnt give two shits when a celebrity dies but fuck, this hit me hard. The world loses a genuinely nice person who just wanted to make people smile even when at times he might have found it impossible to do himself.
Rest in peace Mr. Williams, we'll miss you.
He was my favorite actor
Such a good actor, and he seemed like an even better person, based on his characters and interviews. RIP Williams
always reminded me of my father. good men. the both of them
This movie changed me. It's incredible and the way Matt Damon's character is portrayed as someone who doesn't care about anything and it tough on the outside-but then turns around and shows emotion to someone he finally trusts... It's always the most sad whenever you see a tough man cry because you don't expect them to break. Then when they do it just... Hhh
So kudos to you, Matt Damon.
Will actually cares, but he scares
People used to mistreatment and aggression learn quickly that showing emotional vulnerability won't help you, but showing a front of stone or aggression can, not just for external factors but internal as well. And eventually it leads to associating that response with feelings of safety, so the worse things get the more they double-down. Mistrust becomes good and safe. Pushing away people who try getting at what's underneath becomes second-nature.
And that seriously fucks a person up. There are no easy ways out. The closest thing to honest feelings is an outburst of anger, but you don't want to unleash that on the people you care more about. So you're trapped, alone, to struggle and usually fail to find a way out.
huh, I guess that's why so many people get stuck on booze or other mind-altering drugs. They feel like an additional step out of the old prison, but it's just another trap.
Being a kid bounced around from foster home to foster home I can really relate to this scene because I would blame myself for everything. I wish I had someone to tell me that it wasn't my fault
It's not your fault.
It is your fault
When parents abuse their children, the children don't stop loving the parents, they stop loving themselves. 💔🫂
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@@sarah_b_555 Damn. sad. I dislike bad people.
I'm 19 years old and have seen hundreds of movies, but this scene is the first that legitimately made me cry. Fuck that was emotional
Awww you're only 19. :)
Bang on performance s 😭👌, am too 19
Honestly
You’re 26 now
@@slashholt23 holy shit, Will .. is that you?!?!?
One of the most emotionally encapsulating moments in cinematic history. I can't even imagine how Matt Damon or Ben Affleck took the news of Robin's passing. The three of them created something so timeless in the form of Good Will Hunting.
Rest in Peace Robin...thoughts are with his family and his friends.
Sometimes I just watch this part and think to myself, it's not MY fault...
I watch this part and think to myself, it's my fault I don't tell the people struggling in my life this.
I watch this and think to myself... I’m not like him, everything IS my fault. I’m not only my own cause of suffering, but also one for those around me.
It's not your fault.
What happened
But it is. It is your fault.
i was neglected as a kid... tormented through teenage "coolness".. and felt inundatedly inferior in adulthood, fearful of its repercussion and never successfully went beyond the "liking" stage of a woman... till I gave up on love and starting buying it, literally with a per hour basis. I watched this at 24 yrs old, broke down completely... 27 now, still trying. But really, whatever happens... it truly is NOT your fault.
Are you getting help? If you want just emai me
im in your position too
Very similar story with me except the sexual assault. Empathy coming your way :). Be easy on yourself. Your dad must have had a terrible childhood himself. Now, I find helpful to open up to people and Love, and I think you could try to do this too- it's the only way for any of us :). May you find peace :)
Think what you said is right. Mum told me once about how she spbasically watched her two sisters get hit by their stepmother. But it turns out that her own stepfather had hit her when she was a child. Mum just did whatever she said because she was afraid of being hit. Their dad also use to hit them a little but no more that what was regular back then, and he use to hit himself a bit, not sure why. I haven't had any actual full-on experience with anything like that so I guess I have no real right to comment on this video at all, but I just felt like writing this. Feel free to tear it up :) love this scene in the movie
Without a miracle worker like Sean in your life, it may take you a lifetime to find yourself. :(
how can anyone dislike this scene? its one of the most beautiful scenes ever written and acted in
It's not your fault exactly beautiful movie and beautiful man Robin Williams you are surely missed and also Matt Damon you're a wonderful thank you so much for making this movie
Sean kept telling him "It's not your fault" to help him purge those suppressed feelings, so Will cried like the little kid he was who used to get abused
I was on the verge of tears when I saw that scene ~_~
The best of a really good movie!
This movie is so powerful that it happened to so many of us
Profound
so deep adele cant roll in it
Correct and Dr. Spock (the Fraud) didn’t help matters either..
It’s a movie 🤣
I grew up with domestic violence, saw my dad bully my mum, make her cry. The times she'd turn away from me so I'd not see her sobbing... He'd use me as an excuse, find reasons to shout at me and hit me. She'd protect me and so he'd take it out on her. I ran away from home when I was 17 because I figured if I was gone he'd stop bullying her but he didn't stop. I lost her to cancer a few years ago, she was only 47 when she died. She was one of the kindest, compassionate loving people I have ever known. She endured so much pain both physically through illness, mentally and because of him (he tried to kill her once, figured if he beat her on the temples of her head it'd do the job.) Every day I live with guilt that I should have done more to protect her, to save her. If I had done something then maybe she'd still be alive. I hate myself for it and honestly feel that I don't deserve to be loved so I always end up pushing people away. My dad once told me that I wasn't wanted, that I was born as a weapon against my mums parents. That's what weapons do... They destroy lives, they're not meant to be loved. People tell me it's not my fault and that I was far too young to save her the night he tried to kill her but I just can't make myself believe it.
Feel better man and spread your message to make others aware that domestic violence is not a joke.
Hey .. I'm just a stranger but thank you for sharing your story. I can't imaging the way you are feeling at this moment. It really got to me. I really do not know how to say something nice to tell you. But only that you are not alone my friend.
I expierenced domestic violence in my childhood as well, then emotional abuse from my mom. I am healing those wounds. I found that other people whom you meet in your life let you see the good in yourself. That is what I wish for you. To heal and have an amazing life.
It's a bold move on the part of all of you guys to open up about your experiences in the UA-cam comments of all places, which are famous for being inhabited by swarms of dickheads who'd make you regret putting yourselves in such a vulnerable spot. I'm not going to be one of those dickheads. Suffice to say that we've all been through shit in our lives, a lot of us have done stuff we're not proud of (me included), and many of us came out of that life experience loathing ourselves. It sucks to be there. My solution has been cultivating a sort of "joker" attitude, albeit without the desire to lash out against the world. More like a sort of hard sense of humor towards life and towards myself as well (in Russia, where I'm from, you really can't survive otherwise). Working on diminishing your ego also helps. Just understand that nobody's soul is completely untarnished, some people have done way more horrible shit than us. Understand that in the grand scheme of things whatever we did, no matter how much we want to beat ourselves up for it - doesn't really matter all that much (like Homer Simpson said - you can't go through your life constantly blaming yourself, just blame yourself once and get on with your life). In a way beating yourself up for something that you did "wrong" is an act of inflating your sense of self-importance and ego. Are we really that significant that our wrongdoings bear all that much meaning? Don't think so. Therein lies the path to freedom, in my opinion - in attaining that understanding. Another important aspect is not running away from your pain. Feeling it through to the end. Hopefully we all encounter more compassionate people in our lives, people willing to understand and to forgive. I mean, people who judge are the worst. I've come to realize that the people who's kneejerk reaction is to immediately judge and frown upon someone who made a misstep - they can go fuck themselves. But what's most important is to not be that person in relation to yourself, because you aren't someone you can tell to fuck off. I guess it'd be appropriate to end this long post by saying - first and foremost, let's be compassionate and forgiving towards ourselves. It's a much more gratifying way to live than self-destruction day in day out. As for any pain that might linger - well, let's just allow that pain to be a reminder to always do the right thing. We can't change the past, but the present and the future are very much in our hands.
No one should have to endure that esp a child. So sorry you went through that pain, and that you lost your mother, she sounded like a wonderful person. You have a story to tell, and can use your future to help others...God Bless you
Very few movies get to me but dang did this scene hit me hard.
God bless you Robin Williams, if I could I'd go back in time and save you. Let you know just how much we all love you and how much we miss you
one of the few movies to make me cry. it's so hard to watch another man struggle with abnormal behavior due to parents lack of love. powerful performance.
Rest in Peace Robin Williams, He was one of a kind, there will never be an actor like him, he leaves behind some great films and tv shows
He reached that moment in life where his true gift of making other People laugh or cry had come to an end. He never liked to do sequels, and was forced to for alimony from two previous divorces. He was turning into something he was not, forcibly. How can a man be happy in life if you are not who you are. God rest your soul robin. You were one of a kind and will be missed by millions. Say hi to Farley while you're up there.
And Belushi!
Please don't spread bullshit. He had an incurable degenerative disease that would have made him suffer and bedridden for years before it finally took his life. He made a choice about how he wanted to live and die. Please respect that choice and not turn it into something else. He was open about his mental health and addiction issues and gave a lot of inspiration to people on how to get help. He lived and died as an example of personal choice and resilience.
When you can't fight back you blame yourself. Talk to people with problems, you'll be amazed how often this same story is told.
This scene is amazing, Robin nails it.
You know this scene goes to Robin but I have to respect Matt here too, he went through so many emotions.. almost like dealing with an animal.. first 3 times he says it, Matt is looking away showing avoidance.. 4th and 5th times he's looking him in the eye but defiant.. after that point he's backed into a corner and can't escape so the fight or flight mode starts kicking in and he becomes defensive.. anyone else he would've snapped and probably beaten to death, but because of how much Sean means to him, he can't, and it breaks him.. that's what I feel that line means when he says "not you Sean," because he runs himself out of options bringing him to that point he has always been terrified of: vulnerability.
The only real Father he's ever known. ❤️
Remember getting goosebumps when I first watched this, if there was ever a film that painted my life it's this. True master RIP chief and always remember whatever happened it wasn't your fault. Legend
Robin. It's not your fault.
RIP Robin Williams
I Just came online to watch some clips from my favorite roles he played. A great loss for the world. RIP Robn
Marshall Rosenberg it's not your fault.
Its not your fault either ;)
Thank you Robin Williams and Matt Damon for making a movie that shows even adults have childhood demons they haven't conquered and how in this world there are few people who will say "It's not your fault" and actually mean it.
Your beautiful spirit lives on in all of us Robin Williams...
...RIP dear prince.
Such a wonderful, vulnerable scene
I love this movie. During the course of the movie Sean call Will "Sport or Chief". But at the end he says "Good luck son". Calls him son. Call an orphan son. Will never had any parents in his life. And now he has an confidant and a good friend. So beautiful. Love it.
In here too, he says “look at me son”
Could you imagine the result of him saying...
"It's all your fault"?
PIlotrcm Probably shooting up the uni...
Oh my gosh that would be just... Terrible
The powerful breakthrough and acceptance of the truth. At this point, he releases himself from that heavy psychological burden that has been eating at his core. Now he can move forward with his life without carrying the baggage from the past. Sadly, the majority of people don't get to this point and carry thier psychological burden into the workplace, career, relationships and leave a wreckage along the way.
Exactly, I also think that Will is so smart that he already knew the psychological reasons why he was the way he was, hence when he said " so, uh, what is it like, will has an attachment disorder, all that stuff". he didn't need to be told that, he already knew, what he needed was someone to show him caring, understanding, trust, friendship, etc... someone he trusted to open up to where he could release his burdens and be shown that he can count on others.
The first time I saw this movie I was 13, this scene stuck with me since then, such an amazing performance by both actors! I saw it again last week and remembered why I loved it so much. Definitely on my top 5 favorite movies of all times, it keeps me trying when I'm feeling there's no point in it.
3:10 "Don't fuck with me, Sean! Not you!"
Fucking with you, he may be. But look where he is. Sean is right in your face. He is not going anywhere. He is not leaving you. He is not abandoning you.
He is here for you, Will.
You can let it out.
Everytime I see this scene I can't help but tear up a bit. Even though it might seem a little funny to some people nowadays for being a bit dramatic and somewhat cliched, To see this character- who has had a rough life and many people throughout his life wounding him, being reached out to by his psychologist and being told that he's a good person underneath and the abuse he's suffered isn't his fault, I just find it so touching.
This is simultaneously the most hilarious and yet, most touching movie scene I have ever seen.
The amazing thing is, Matt Damon and Ben Affleck wrote this movie. So many many great scenes. My hat is off!
Rip. Robin
Simply unbelievable. I am not obsessed with celebrities but there was a certain quality to Robin, a certain goodness and familiarity. R. I. Peace buddy
What a great scene between Matt and Robin. Basically a father and son scene
I totally relate with it’s not your fault. As an adult I thought I wasn't taking enough responsibility for my neglected childhood. I felt like sucking it up, and I wanted to move on so bad.
Every breakthrough in healing I thought I was healed. For 8 years.
It’s not until I stopped blaming myself and my behavior. Until I said I’m sorry and forgave myself.
You first identify that you even have a self. That came 7 years into my journey.
Now I can finally feel free and healed. Whether you use the word fault or responsibility. It is on them, my parents.
You won’t get an apology or a full acknowledgment (maybe you will). I confronted them and they know I felt neglected.
But it’s about relieving yourself of the burden. I’ve been crying for myself lately.
To anyone who experienced neglect from their parents. You’re stronger bc of it. And it’s not your fault 😀
Whenever I want to feel like crying I come to see this scene.
Rest in piece Robin Williams, you will never be forgotten ;_;
Im so very sad that Robin has left us :-(. This scene has always been amongst my favourites of all movies. Reason being, I always felt Robin (despite being an amazing actor), played the character 'sean' so effortlessly. The character being a deep & meaningful, caring & compassionate guy...just like Robin really was. God bless you Robin, we will all miss you so very much X
I don't know how many times I've seen this movie, but it's ALOT. And each and every time I watch this scene, I still lose it. When 'Sean' starts sobbing? Gets me EVERY time.
That's acting my friends.
This scene breaks me every time I watch it. What a truly incredible movie!
Gut-wrenching scene. Gets me every time, without fail.
I love this scene... i keep seeing it again and again. Gets me everytime. Damons performance is amazing and so is Robins. It's terrible being cornered like that... =(
one of the most memorable scenes of the entire movie. Usually this is the first scene I think of when I think about this movie.
A masterpiece. Only a Robin Williams could have done that so beautifully. ----WolfSky9
This movie was a success on every level! Kudos to Matt, Ben and Robin Williams.
he does this so well, i can really relate to this scene because i went through nearly the exact same thing 10 years ago, not with counselling but with the domestic violence that he experienced as a child, not many people know how badly it fucks you up, even for me 5 years ago when it stopped i still think about it everyday of my life, so for those of you who know someone going through this, do what u can to help them like my friends did their best to help me
It’s not your fault
hope everything worked out for you man!
One of the reasons why I think that Matt Damon and Ben Affleck graced the world with this script is that the core of it is the relationship between Will and the therapist.
Anybody could write and direct the scene in the bar when Matt Damon lectures the smart guy but that's not what the movie is about.
I'm not the one to really cry over movies, but this made me bawl. It's so freakin' sad...
this movie is like fresh air ..ive seen this at least 20 times and really helPs me in so many ways .
I think anyone, regardless of whether it was physical, mental or emotional (or all the above) abuse can relate to this scene. As someone who was mentally and emotionally (and somewhat physically) abused by my father, this scene always hits me so hard.
I still think this movie was underrated. It was a beautifully acted film. And this scene has one of the great cries in film history.
Oh, and I finally want to add that this scene is made all the more powerful because throughout the entire film we don't see will displaying any vulnerable emotion. He's the tough, know-it-all, i dont give a fuck youngster. In this scene, he lets his feelings that have been buried for all those years out for the first time. I could never imagine will crying in the first half of the film, but you believe it in this scene. This is why Matt Damon is awesome, he is so convincing in this role.
the most hugely emotional scene in this entire movie., just absolutely loved it; loved the movie
That hit me... Damn!
what a beautiful movie! bring me down to tears every time I watch it!
I cried like a fucking baby
Diana Rodriguez im crying now
this is is made the moment when Sean(Robin Williams) is smiling as he hugs Will. Shows he needed to get to that point with Will that would have the best chance of helping him. Love this scene...
"why the wrench?" "because fuck him, that's why"
choosing the wrench, the most harmful 'weapon', purely to hide fear of his attacker.
so powerful.
I always thought it was because a wrench would knock him out quicker to take away the satisfaction from his dad beating on him.
Well duh .. the wrench was gonna be the one no matter what he chose
Best movie scene ever
One of Robin's best scenes.......IMHO"s.....
Amazing acting...
The bit where he says ''Cause fuck him, that's why' always hit me really hard. Really shows the strength of his character.
Yeah, he realized he had to make a decision to become hard to his inner core so he could survive that phase of his life
ahhh... this scene is AMAZING!! So, so powerful. If only this worked in real life, to just repeat it till they believe it...
I wonder how Matt is coping....
he must be devastated :(
This is the best scene in the whole movie... it just ... sticks with you forever.
R.I.P Robin Williams.
The best scene of one of the greatest movies ever.. I first laughed when the proff kept saying "It's not your fault" and then, cried. I cant watch the scene right now because I would cry and im in the school.
Wow this was really well shot, how did you get Robin Williams and Matt Damon to star in your video. And with Chinese subtitles, I'm impressed. Very well written too. Did you get an academy award for this video? Screw thumbs down I'm giving this thumbs way up!
Such an emotional scene, but genius! Love Matt and Robin ❤️
RIP ROBIN
The movie was not a tear-jerker in the typical sense,… but GOD!! This scene hits hard… 🥺
To 'fckuen' - firstly, thankyou very much for this amazing scene (:
secondly, I'm not sure if anyone's already said, but the proper line is:
"You see this? All this shit" NOT "holy shit" (:
The film is probably one of my favorites of all time, definitely more than worthy of the oscars that it won, I just find it baffling that Matt Damon and Ben Affleck wrote it on their own, it's such an intelligent script.
And no, Kevin Smith had no help in the writing, only the production (:
Favourite scene of any movie ever.
Just breaks my heart. It's so perfect.
well... shit...
omg matt damon is an UNBELIEVABLE actor!! he has such passion and emotion in this scene!
plot twist: it was his fault
Fuck you dipshit
Saw this film when it first came out. I'd forgotten how wow this scene was
The most touching scene of the whole movie. And IMO the scene that won Robin WIlliams the Oscar.
The chance to finally break the last of Will's defenses.....
Such a moving, incredible scene.
Now that's what I call a real actor!!!
Every time I watch this scene, I get teary eyed...
just the way he clings to Seans shirt i think is the most powerfulo part of all. It just shows his desperation and complete breakdown
matt damon is the best actor the world has ever seen... his talent level is insane.
wow.....all that hate and disgust bottled up for years.....all the hidden emotions .... released within a short amazing moment...just saw the movie and thought it was AMAZING
the look on his face at 3:33. awesome - he knows he finally broke through
bravo damon and williams, bravo
What I love the most I think, apart that it's an incredible scene without the use of music which is so rare, is that when he let's go he says "I'm sorry". I think that we sometimes feel overwhelmed and we cry about our hardship but when we truly let go and accept, we feel sorry for the hurt we did, and do, because of our pain. Not the biggest Matt Damon fan, but holy shit did he dig deep and showed something honest here.
This scene had me bawling my eyes out.
When I saw this a long time ago I was amazed and crying, because it was some of the most convincing acting I'd seen at that point.
Brilliant acting, brilliant research and well, that's it.
i love the piano at the end