What Makes a Woman Memorable in Bed? BAD and GREAT

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 140

  • @rare2find0918
    @rare2find0918 Рік тому +254

    There is no 'good or bad' anything....there is only COMPATIBILITY.
    We have to stop relying on unrealistic adult films, random 'how to please your man/woman' articles, misogynistic song lyrics (perpetuated by both MEN & WOMEN) etc. to dictate what creates the most pleasurable experience for us.
    Men & Women....COMMUNICATE your desires, boundaries, likes/dislikes with the people you choose to share your body with BEFORE you engage in the act.
    Having those conversations in ADVANCE will give you a better idea on if you're likely to be sexually compatible. And PSA: A physical attraction does NOT equate to automatic sexual compatibility.
    We all have preferred styles/acts that bring us pleasure, none of them are 'better' than the other.... they're just DIFFERENT.
    Learn yourself----have honest, open and judgement-free conversations (in a casual setting---doesn't have to be an interrogation lol) about your feelings on touch, how frequently you enjoy physical intimacy, boundaries, what you don't particularly enjoy, etc.....You'll be so much better off not wasting time....trying to 'create chemistry' with someone you shouldn't have taken it there with in the first place.
    And last, everyone is not for you to do the deed with.... it's okay to admire the aesthetic beauty of a person from afar and keep it moving!

    • @SharmonJarmon
      @SharmonJarmon Рік тому +13

      BEST COMMENT OF 2023 🙌🏾

    • @ailynnmckae1130
      @ailynnmckae1130 Рік тому +19

      Its crazy that so many grown ADULTS still don’t get this

    • @travismendonca
      @travismendonca Рік тому +12

      Shan needs to invite you on for the next talk!! Haha but fr this is very powerful. I agree with you 1 million percent!

    • @infinite_energy369
      @infinite_energy369 Рік тому +5

      Why weren't YOU at this debate? ❤️

    • @stephgms5766
      @stephgms5766 Рік тому +5

      Damn!!! that's the truth right there!! COMPATIBILITY!!!!!!

  • @yannanydeira
    @yannanydeira Рік тому +67

    We need a redo cause 🫥

  • @marquishahunter1
    @marquishahunter1 Рік тому +48

    Mr. Swim in the ocean is just saying words.

  • @futurephysicist13
    @futurephysicist13 Рік тому +50

    This was not it Shannon. The panelists didn't even make sense.

    • @guestoftheuniverse
      @guestoftheuniverse Рік тому +9

      Respectfully, there’s a way more productive way to give feedback. If this isn’t “it”, why not just share what you’d like to see more of? Boody is phenomenal! She’s bold enough to try something new. As people who get free education and entertainment from her, maybe we can approach this… a bit differently.

    • @SMSRN92
      @SMSRN92 Рік тому

      @@guestoftheuniverse here you are again, weirdo.

    • @guestoftheuniverse
      @guestoftheuniverse Рік тому +1

      @@SMSRN92 and here you are again too friend. I wish you a wonderful and magical day full of kindness.

  • @djxtacy1004
    @djxtacy1004 Рік тому +271

    Where ya find these cornballs 😂

  • @fiasc0b0x
    @fiasc0b0x Рік тому +56

    There seemed to be two conversations happening: "good" P in the physical sense and "good" P in skill/effort

  • @rainbeauxunicorn5237
    @rainbeauxunicorn5237 Рік тому +95

    I didn’t think this conversation was very productive. There was no standard of “good” pussy to start with so everyone was talking about different things. It was just chaotic.

  • @guestoftheuniverse
    @guestoftheuniverse Рік тому +44

    To anyone hating on this episode: respectfully, there’s a way more productive way to give feedback. If this isn’t “it”, why not just share what you’d like to see more of? Boody is phenomenal! She’s bold enough to try something new. As people who get free education and entertainment from her, maybe we can approach this… a bit differently. It’s the difference between “I’d love more structure & inclusivity in the topics” vs. “This isn’t it.”

  • @omozeidehenre239
    @omozeidehenre239 Рік тому +8

    I really enjoy the energy of this panel. Different perspectives, great listening, and great vibes.

  • @NYKIRA
    @NYKIRA Рік тому +26

    love how the conversation was actually focused on self belief and education it's so healthy to hear this perspective, oh and water world 😂❤

  • @FoougieTV
    @FoougieTV Рік тому +38

    Just depends on how she feels about the guy... It's better depending on she feels about him and how much she is physically attracted to him... When she's really into him, it jumps, it quivers, it's effortlessly wet, it throbs, all dat.

  • @dollyrevenge98
    @dollyrevenge98 Рік тому +74

    IDK people just say anything these days. This discussion was very surface level and the panelists didn't make much sense or add to the convo apart from the one dude next to Shan.

  • @AcerbicOrder
    @AcerbicOrder Рік тому +106

    This "debate" style format is shifting this channel into the cliche relationship/dating podcast/UA-cam channel territory. 8 at the table vibes.

    • @guestoftheuniverse
      @guestoftheuniverse Рік тому +31

      Respectfully, there’s a way more productive way to give feedback. If this isn’t “it”, why not just share what you’d like to see more of? Boody is phenomenal! She’s bold enough to try something new. As people who get free education and entertainment from her, maybe we can approach this… a bit differently & less like the cliché leaving negative comments.

    • @tab0108
      @tab0108 Рік тому +5

      I agree. Very cringe.

    • @TheNinjapancake14
      @TheNinjapancake14 Рік тому +1

      Like a table talk. Is that bad?

    • @kmarcol1
      @kmarcol1 10 місяців тому

      This is my first time here and it's so cringe

    • @kmarcol1
      @kmarcol1 10 місяців тому

      ​@@guestoftheuniverseor people can be honest because this is social media

  • @TheAdelaide9
    @TheAdelaide9 Рік тому +17

    This was almost like a dr seuss book 😂

    • @guestoftheuniverse
      @guestoftheuniverse Рік тому +1

      Respectfully, there’s a way more productive way to give feedback. If this isn’t “it”, why not just share what you’d like to see more of? Boody is phenomenal! She’s bold enough to try something new. As people who get free education and entertainment from her, maybe we can approach this… a bit differently & less like the cliché leaving negative comments.

    • @nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo
      @nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo Рік тому

      facts

  • @happygucci5094
    @happygucci5094 Рік тому +9

    It was the lack of maturity for opening guy Jason.
    Not impressed by the level of maturity on this one.

  • @yannanydeira
    @yannanydeira Рік тому +64

    The two sitting close to Shan actually had something to add to the convo, the 2 on the end coulda stayed home

  • @humandesignangle
    @humandesignangle Рік тому +16

    This set is not it. Nothing goes together and that hurt me more than this mid convo. 😭

    • @guestoftheuniverse
      @guestoftheuniverse Рік тому

      Respectfully, there’s a way more productive way to give feedback. If this isn’t “it”, why not just share what you’d like to see more of? Boody is phenomenal! She’s bold enough to try something new. As people who get free education and entertainment from her, maybe we can approach this… a bit differently & less like the cliché leaving negative comments.

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 Рік тому +2

    Luv the different perspectives....so much fun

  • @ceciliaoywaya5076
    @ceciliaoywaya5076 Рік тому +2

    Dear Shan,
    Keep creating 💓
    Enjoyed the video🔆
    Love....

  • @thehotpinkrd
    @thehotpinkrd Рік тому +3

    Love the new look! And Jared is jammin as usual! 😎🔥

  • @darkmoonbeauty
    @darkmoonbeauty Рік тому +4

    I think that was a great conversation Shan. It’s good to hear different perspectives. I didn’t love the way the guy on the far left was repeatedly talking in metaphors..it felt like he was dehumanizing the convo a little…but to each their own.

  • @Babanla420
    @Babanla420 Рік тому +3

    My brethren don’t no good kitty. She asked what is good kitty and my guys started talking in poetry

  • @jadarogers9564
    @jadarogers9564 Рік тому +2

    I think this was a good conversation opener because this isnt a common topic. I think this will be different for everyone and each persons experience will vary. Its good to hear someone's perspective because maybe they dont really know the answers to these questions until the topic is opened up.

  • @inspiringreadings6321
    @inspiringreadings6321 Рік тому

    the outro is nice shan. much love

  • @zero1188
    @zero1188 Рік тому +15

    good ussy just something men say to gas women egos up. majority of women ussy aint no different than the other, unless they do kegel exercise and know how to work it

    • @GrandLineCharlie
      @GrandLineCharlie Рік тому +4

      I don’t believe this at all…

    • @nla5307
      @nla5307 Рік тому +3

      You say it like you know every single woman on this planet lol

  • @saradrake5621
    @saradrake5621 Рік тому +4

    I would love to hear this conversation with sapphic women bc I think it would be completely different. As a queer woman, I don’t think people with vulvas who also have sex with people with vulvas would say wetness or tightness would be requirements for good pssy. This was a very “male gaze” conversation imo

  • @tab0108
    @tab0108 Рік тому +5

    Jason is THIRSTY! Please give him some water lol

  • @andrearenea2049
    @andrearenea2049 Рік тому +3

    We need a redo. Cause WTF was this conversation even about? I would like to see an interview with just the one sitting beside Shan.

  • @Breeze2423
    @Breeze2423 Рік тому +6

    Was this just a clip? Where's the full video?

  • @theetravelhippie
    @theetravelhippie Рік тому

    thank you for this

  • @shantellee3308
    @shantellee3308 Рік тому +4

    So when I'm eating should i be asking my mouth if it's enjoying the food?🥴

  • @waltergreen6981
    @waltergreen6981 Рік тому +1

    Nice to learn

  • @FoxFaithani
    @FoxFaithani Рік тому +3

    I like what the gentleman was saying about taking to your private parts. It’s one of the most spiritually healing things you can do! Awkward at first but very fun and pleasurable 🥰

  • @theetravelhippie
    @theetravelhippie Рік тому +2

    Shan how can I tap in and be apart of the next discussion

  • @muwosim7753
    @muwosim7753 Рік тому +22

    Shan. What are your thoughts regarding intuition/gut instincts when it comes to whether or not someone is a good match for you?
    I ask that because, even though intuition is a great guide- it can often as well be flawed.
    -Xoxo

    • @NadiaPink
      @NadiaPink Рік тому +7

      Be able to recognize energy. How do you feel when you spend time with said person?
      Watch how they address you. Evaluate their actions towards you. If their is confusion that’s a problem. There should be no confusion. Love is pure,love is kind,love is not self seeking. Add those things up and be courageous enough to trust your abilities. And also ask yourself do you like this person? Is this a person you want to spend time with?

    • @loversandfriendspodcast
      @loversandfriendspodcast Рік тому +1

      @@NadiaPink beautifully shared!

    • @whoiskiradunn
      @whoiskiradunn Рік тому +2

      IMO, intuition feels like the saying, "still water runs deep." Intuition feels calm and sounds like a whisper in the back of my head that comes and leaves gently. Anxiety feels panicked and often leads to rash decisions (whether that's good or bad).

    • @NadiaPink
      @NadiaPink Рік тому

      @@loversandfriendspodcast 🫶🏽💕

    • @HenryLee666
      @HenryLee666 Рік тому +1

      I would also like to know what other women think about our body's intuition. I kinda think my vagina warns me when someone's not good for me lol. Aside from the obvious biological reasons, I think I'm more prone to having medical problems from men that are just not good for me, even if the sex if "good". Idk how to explain it, idk if anybody else feels the same 👀👀

  • @jazmekabutler4465
    @jazmekabutler4465 Рік тому +16

    Idk the guy in the primitive shirt is very cringe lmao

  • @msk5158
    @msk5158 Рік тому +9

    Ladies, wait until you become peri menopausal and see how your nahni changes on you 🤬😢

    • @DarleneNoemie
      @DarleneNoemie Рік тому +2

      lmfao how does it change?

    • @seking3734
      @seking3734 Рік тому

      @@DarleneNoemie I’m 50 and feel like it has lost grip and muscle-tone. If it gets too wet, I might as well be somewhere polishing my nails.😩If it gets too dry, it’s extremely uncomfortable and painful. HOWEVER, sometimes your body will surprise you and allow you to have the most amazing sex of your life 😂

    • @DarleneNoemie
      @DarleneNoemie Рік тому +2

      @@seking3734 omg 🤣 - so the normal side of it was the consistency? Cause I feel like our yoni don’t perform the same all the time. I’m in my 30’s and my girl is great, but every so often she acts up just like you stated lol. I think its hormonal (which fluctuates) more than it is ALWAYS the bomb lol. What do you think?

    • @seking3734
      @seking3734 Рік тому +1

      @@DarleneNoemie I was definitely GOODT in my 30s 😄. So yep, it’s mainly the hormonal changes.

    • @nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo
      @nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo Рік тому

      wait what happens?!

  • @mariahvankleef9451
    @mariahvankleef9451 Рік тому +5

    This is low quality input

  • @myrabodian526
    @myrabodian526 Рік тому +1

    An introduction of who those people are and the subject would be nice. Also They sit so low that the energy is also low.

  • @raemahhenderson1602
    @raemahhenderson1602 Рік тому

    I LOVE THAT YOU BROUGHT COCO!!

  • @ailynnmckae1130
    @ailynnmckae1130 Рік тому +15

    Honestly I love this channel but this video made no sense 😂I feel like y’all said a whole bunch of nothing, other than Shan and the two people on her sides… The ones on the end added nothing to the conversation unfortunately. It was too surface level and you know that’s not what your audience responds to so I don’t get it. Maybe if it was a longer video it would’ve been better, By the way I’m not trying to come off as rude just offering some constructive criticism

  • @SS-lb5dk
    @SS-lb5dk Рік тому

    Wow Orlando. Just WOW

  • @relaxedmind2474
    @relaxedmind2474 Рік тому +6

    Interesting 😂😂😂

  • @kadelu1137
    @kadelu1137 2 місяці тому

    This was pretty funny tbh😂❤ but expected something else because of the title of the video tbh. Would love to hear actual in real life examples from the people what made it memorable

  • @Angelinoah8
    @Angelinoah8 Рік тому +5

    Love these new debate panels!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @IsraelTorrellas
    @IsraelTorrellas Рік тому +5

    Not my favorite group of people. Jason erks

  • @blondiiejx
    @blondiiejx Рік тому +2

    Kegels are being mentioned multiple times. Is it not true that every pelvic floor specialist says to not do it because it is very bad for your pelvic floor. Is it not a myth and outdated idea or am i wrong?

    • @OriMidara
      @OriMidara Рік тому +4

      I’ve never heard this. Ever

    • @GrandLineCharlie
      @GrandLineCharlie Рік тому +1

      @@OriMidara I never heard that shit either. Kegel it up girl lol

    • @charmsearing5043
      @charmsearing5043 Рік тому +1

      That's not true. I'm taking human sexual psychology now and it's suggestioned. It helps strengthen all the other organs around the vagina, and keep them in place, as well as strengthen the bladder.

    • @nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo
      @nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo Рік тому +1

      @@OriMidara I have. I literally went to a pelvic floor specialist because insurance covered it and I asked them to teach me keegles and they asked me if I was experiencing any problems and I said no and then they said in that case theres no good reason to do them at all.

  • @EdwardSanchezProductions
    @EdwardSanchezProductions Рік тому +1

    This is a great discussion

  • @charmsearing5043
    @charmsearing5043 Рік тому +4

    I think the topic is good as far as a conversation starter. But maybe bring ppl with a sex education on to discuss it who are a little more self-aware and conscious of sex and the effects it has on mind, body, and spirit. The way it was discussed is a slippery slope that can do more harm than good, if ppl are looking for a healthy sex life and trying to gain a better understanding of themselves and their sexuality.

  • @MySistersAlive
    @MySistersAlive Рік тому +3

    Shan is the exact example of a modern day woman (which is not a bad thing depending on the person), she is pro choice right?

  • @sigthom3711
    @sigthom3711 Рік тому

    The two on the end talk like ppl in the instagram comments section lol

  • @synschoolinyounoobsakathemaske

    I love these debates, always funny and entertain. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I would love to apart one of these debates

  • @SMSRN92
    @SMSRN92 Рік тому +4

    This was a no. Lol.

    • @guestoftheuniverse
      @guestoftheuniverse Рік тому +1

      Respectfully, there’s a way more productive way to give feedback. If this isn’t “it”, why not just share what you’d like to see more of? Boody is phenomenal! She’s bold enough to try something new. As people who get free education and entertainment from her, maybe we can approach this… a bit differently.

    • @SMSRN92
      @SMSRN92 Рік тому +1

      @@guestoftheuniverse Respectfully, I love Shan and all of her content. This conversation was cringe, and for the most part it was in no way informative or entertaining. Thank you for taking the time to sift through comments and reply to others.

  • @kaitlynhaffner743
    @kaitlynhaffner743 Рік тому +5

    Can you do a discussion on cut and uncut men? Circumcised and uncircumcised men when it comes to sex and health?
    Even ideas of making that decision for our sons upon birth.
    I love this channel and the podcast!

    • @AishaandLife
      @AishaandLife Рік тому +1

      I second that! Not much is spoken about that

  • @Bdchi3
    @Bdchi3 2 місяці тому

    "Have you spoke to your yoni?" Okay ill look for the answer somewhere else.😅

  • @mandysway9729
    @mandysway9729 Рік тому +1

    Jason🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @mmf9765
    @mmf9765 Рік тому

    Is Jason a comedian 😂🤣

  • @nefaru5896
    @nefaru5896 8 місяців тому

    Very interesting: It would be also interesting to hear a group of lesbian women discussing the same topic:

  • @ACE2015
    @ACE2015 Рік тому

    I was thoroughly entertained with this!😂 I liked their viewpoints and for me made it a more relaxing experience talking about pussy

  • @anatavarez6916
    @anatavarez6916 29 днів тому

    I just lost bfain cells

  • @CoCoBwaire
    @CoCoBwaire Рік тому

    🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @EverHopeful555
    @EverHopeful555 Рік тому +2

    Nah we need a redo!

    • @guestoftheuniverse
      @guestoftheuniverse Рік тому +1

      Respectfully, there’s a way more productive way to give feedback. If this isn’t “it”, why not just share what you’d like to see more of? Boody is phenomenal! She’s bold enough to try something new. As people who get free education and entertainment from her, maybe we can approach this… a bit differently.

  • @yourmothermissesyoucallher3220
    @yourmothermissesyoucallher3220 Рік тому +11

    This conversation was very cis male hetero centric. Didn’t really feel productive idk

  • @chandlersearcy4281
    @chandlersearcy4281 Рік тому

    i normally like your panelists Shan, but they were kind of stale. I feel like they should have debated more. They all kind of just stated their points and nodded their heads at the others' pov

  • @rohitbodra6561
    @rohitbodra6561 2 місяці тому +1

    neediness and clinginess on only bed i think🤔

  • @ninety_three_93
    @ninety_three_93 Рік тому

    🧐😁

  • @nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo
    @nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo Рік тому

    the woman with the undercut is conceited. instant turn off

  • @whisperywind8768
    @whisperywind8768 Рік тому +3

    The acoustics were off :(

  • @bex8364
    @bex8364 Рік тому +1

    Terrible guest … decreased quality of poscast

  • @mikaylapyatt1767
    @mikaylapyatt1767 Рік тому

    #GPE #GoodPusshyEnergy

  • @robertlloydlincolnrobertskoy
    @robertlloydlincolnrobertskoy Рік тому +1

    Just beautiful all day long, yes please.....✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🍉🍍🍊🥥🥑🍆🥕🌽🥝🍓🍒🌶🥒🫑🍎🍐🍑