THIS is why self-improvement isn't working for you (3 reasons)

There are some mistakes I've made in self-improvement that are common but aren't talked about on YT. I want to walk you through what mistakes and obstacles I've had in self-improvement and how to overcome them. Also, stop watching andrew tate sigma edits on yt lol
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Titles for algoRHYTHM:
How to actually start self-improvement
How to Destroy your current self
You're PROBABLY a LOSER
Stop watching self improvement videos.
for those falling off self improvement
How to Escape Self Improvement Ruts
How to Improve Yourself Right NOW
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Andrew Tate
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[@piecia4446]

Wow! So my cousin (he is 12 years old) is watching all this self improvement, sigma edits etc. A few years ago he was the joking, happy kid but now he is silent, when we (my family) want to do something together like playing football (soccer) he started to just going into some room, and lonely watching these videos. Hes social skills are falling apart and i dont know what should i do, because i really want him to get back on the correct track. I ve been thinking about telling his dad, to make him talk with him to stop watching UA-cam Shorts, but I dont know if its the best solution. Overall i dont think self improvement is bad, but when ur just sitting on the couch and not doing anything it is not good

[@thoughtsfromhieu]

Yeah I get that, and kudos for you for caring about your cousin, there's just a lot of different interpretations of self-improvement. Some people just watch motivational videos, others focus on specific habits, and some focus on philosophies like red-pill and stoicism, etc right?
I would say self-improvement itself isn't the issue, because it sounds like your brother isn't necessarily trying to improve himself, but he's just consuming self-improvement content for motivation. This is just a problem with shorts and this why I don't do shorts, it focuses more on motivation than actual good advice and information you can do.
What I'd do in your situation is to ask him questions on his interpretation of self-improvement, what he's doing, his progress so far, because if you try to discourage his interest in self-improvement you're just going to distance yourself from him. I wouldn't recommend forcing him off shorts because that'll won't address the real problem - he's not taking action.
What I recommend doing is to do things together that reflect his goals and beliefs. For example, if he values discipline and working out, but he's not actually doing the thing, you should help him take action. Like show him football is a great workout, because you guys can do push-ups and do run laps together and it'll help him take action. He'll actually be doing the self-improvement and not just watching YT shorts online xd
I hope this helps :)

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[@asamayer738]

Thank Hieu. I am now a monk that lives on a mountain in Thailand. I still have retained all my friends though. I love you.

[@thoughtsfromhieu]

read my text NOW lol