0:00 Opening Song 🎵 Keep On Talking By Lionel Quick 🎵 1:50 🎵 Stockholm Love By Mathilda June 🎵 4:10 🎵 Your Good Lies By Vividry 🎵 7:10 🎬 Show Starts, 🕯 Candle Of The Evening Le Labo Laurier 62 🕯 7:45 Fragrances Of The Evening Bond No. 9 Nomad And Bond No.9 Riverside Drive 8:15 Monologue, Modern Women Can Make You Go Crazy, Not Love 19:20 Will Smith And Chris Rock 27:15 Willow Letter To Tupac 28:18 Moving Along 1:09:42 1st Caller , Married, 2nd Caller Angelina , 3rd Caller Raquel age 34, 4th Caller Wendy age 33 1:29:19 5th Caller T age 40 , 6th Caller J age 43 , 7th Caller, 8th Caller , 9th Caller 1:46:40 10th Caller Nia 29, 11th Caller, Back to 1st Caller 2:04:00 Feminine Characters And Closing Words 2:13:44 Outro
she said what she did to him at that table bc she felt no threat of backlash or him hurting her or yelling at her. A dude doing all that? He knows he's getting backlash & the women is going to yell at him & hit him. She felt so secure & safe breaking Will down to nothing right down to his face. She knew damn well nothing was going to happen to her. Where are all the women that fake care about mens mental health just in November? clearly Will needs some help in that area. Oh right.. its not November. Its not time for ya'll to start fake caring yet bc you look at it as another "trend" you need to involve yourselves in.
Willow as a child writing that letter is very disturbing. This means that Jada pumped into her mind as a child how much love that she had for 2pac all while married to her father. There's so much wrong with that.
To protect her honor, she must first be honorable. To protect her from disrespect, she must first be respectable. This woman is neither, and her husband has starred in his greatest role at her behest... playing the fool.
I’ve never heard it put this way. You’re 100% correct. The only thing I would add is that in order to protect a person, they have to need protection. Jada is much more masculine and hood than Will. Also, any woman (open marriage or not) that screws her son’s friend, that her and her husband treated like another son, and sometimes screwed him in their home…..is the lowest of the low. If Will had screwed their daughter’s friend under the same conditions, he would’ve paid a very heavy price.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* Here's the answer to your question: _"The further a society drifts from the truth, the more they will hate those that speak it."_ -George Orwell
This wasn’t a mental breakdown, Will was fine, he laughed at the joke, this was a string being pulled, Jada didn’t like the program she was watching when she saw Will laughing so she kindly grabbed the moken trol (remote control) and changed the channel because she’s the one who’s really in control of Will’s programming.
Imagine your daughter writing a letter to your WIFE’s ex thug boyfriend yearning for a nostalgia she never even witnessed. That letter is sick beyond words bruh
Edit : Apperantly i have to state the obvious I used to (and still do) love 2pac but the truth is he was just an emotional male. He hung around the wrong crowd and ultimately died because of it. He played with the pigs and got dirty , tho the myth of him has grown to exponential heights. I still love his music , but i am not a fool as to who he really was. Rip pac , also pac explained he was will smith , because women called him to nice, to soft.
I found you Kevin about a month ago. I'm a seventy year old white man. I draw much inspiration and from you and appreciate what you're trying to do for the human race. May God bless you and keep you. Rest easy my friend
You marry a woman who openly told you and showed you and the world that she’s still in love with a dead man, you deserve anything you get moving forward.
@@itsHappening-ry2ef Don’t be a moron. It is better for a man to be single than to be with a woman who doesn’t respect him and is a liability. That being said, I have a fit, feminine, young, submissive woman who respects me and brings value. If you’re going to troll the space at least try to say something remotely intelligent.
Kevin, you CAN say she is a narcissist. If Jada isn’t a narcissist then the term has no meaning and should be abandoned. She is textbook. Let’s call it out.
I'm glad he hit on the narcissistic personality disorder. I know he can't say it outright, but any of us who have been through it can see what it is. When he hit on the daughter being more like friends/sisters with their mom with no parenting dynamic, that blew my mind. Because it hit 100% with how my narcissistic ex was with her mom. I never saw that as a red flag before, but there were PLENTY enough. I won't go into the heinous things she did and ways she'd try to emasculate me and constantly make me "prove" my love, but luckily I walked away before any babies were able to enter the equation.
Nobody's truly addressing the issue. She is a full-blown Narcissist. A narcissist has no compassionate empathy!!!! They have no soul. To make matters worse, they have no real personality only a fake personality that must be validated 24 hrs a day 7 days a week addicted to admiration, affirmation, and adulation in order to validate it's false Personna. Research NPD it's real and incurable.
Look at that thumbnail picture. You can see her head has thick stubble. She is nowhere near going bald. Maybe she had a small balding patch or her hair is getting thinner but in now way shape or form is she going bald, yet people are acting like she is suffering from some sort of horrible desease. She shaved her head for attention. Those of us who are actually going bald take offense to this, lol.
6.5 months ago I left a woman who was diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, after a 1.3 year relationship. No contact currently. I had my own business generating $250,000 annualized in my first year of operations. We lived together and I was looking at wedding rings. The relationship cost me nearly everything, and almost my life. I only left when I became aware of this disorder. The lovebombing, mirroring, devaluation, discarding, gaslighting, stonewalling, lying, thieving, stalking, hoovering, triangulation, cheating, flying monkeys, etc...is all crazy making and she did it all. I was able to escape before she could accomplish her real goal. Thank God. Thank you godfather for discussing this. 🙏
@@karithema9ician657 silver lining, I know ALL of the red flags for cluster B personality disorders now and it'll never happen again. My eyes are OPEN now! These kind of people are really out here ruining lives for pleasure.
totally agree...but you think woman think Will Smith was wrong? maybe not! they will not think jada got nothing to do with it they also think Will Smith was right! bc as long as you do something in their favor and for them they can careless about right or wrong bc as men all we are is their porn!!...they have 2 men kill each other over their bad decisions
I've dated several women who had narcissistic tendencies or Cluster B personality issues and it was heartbreaking. I had to go to therapy, work with relationship coaches, take leadership courses, get close to God, pray, journal to get my head and heart right. It's taken 10 years but I'm now seeing a feminine woman that truly cares about me and she shows me everyday. Rebecca Lynne Pope called out Jada for her evil ways. Keep preaching KS.
Me too sir.... She devastated my self esteem and brought triangulation into the mix. It was a nightmare that I saw no escape from. Thank God I found channels like this and learned the truth.
The video of Jada after he assaulted Chris, spoke volumes as well. She laughed at the assault, sat there and didn't console Will either.. Normal women would never let that happen no matter how much you want to cover it up as a 'protecting your woman'. Still sickened by the whole thing.
Yes. She wanted that to happen and Will knew it. She should have immediately intervened when he slapped Chris and talked him off stage or out of the crowd and to a spot to calm down. She scowled and eye rolled at the original joke then got positively GLEEFUL once violence was happening and then again once will screamed with his face shaking Awful woman
I have searched and couldn't find a video showing her reaction to the slap. They show her reaction to the joke but not the slap. Where is the video you are referencing?
@@dontehunt3184 that’s exactly what I thought. I would’ve ran behind him, gown and all to stop him from whatever he might do. Even if it was to just talk to Chris. I would’ve told him to wait and talk backstage. She could’ve spoke peace in him, just him getting up for her was enough for that moment. It was the Oscars! Talk to him backstage.
Choosing was only the beginning. His actions rewarded the bad behaviour for many years. If he had any dignity and self-worth, he would have been giving her nothing and openly banging younger hotter women
I personally believe that she was more mad seeing Will laughing at the joke than she was that Chris said the joke. I think that "look" she shot him was more of a "you just F'd up" and Will realized what was coming his way so he redirected the conflict within himself towards Chris with no thought about the consequences. It tells me how toxic she really is because he threw away all concern for his image in fear of what was coming his way from her.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ *5/4/23* Revisiting this broadcast. Still very inciteful. Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
I would have cried that is SO wrong! Can you imagine your own blood turned against you without them even being aware of it. Oh I swear I would have slapped the shit out of her for that I’m sorry
It’s takes 9 narcissistic traits to be diagnosed/ qualify as a narcissist. She’s already basically told us she was a narcissist. Will is a Co dependent male( #1 prey for narcissist) She’s said she was a sex addict, she triangulated Will with august, devalued will, at the red table talk we saw (gaslighting , word salad, lack of empathy, not taking ownership). there are videos by Dr, Psychiatrist, therapist on UA-cam called “ the narcissist is jealous of you and your success”. Narcissist will ruin you big moments (OSCARS). Female Narcissist are big on putting men against each other… i was with a narcissist and they want to break you. They want you in the mind frame like Will.(in a trauma bond). I can keep going
One piece of input... it doesn't take 9 traits to meet the criteria for NPD. It's about 5, I believe, without the DSM in front of me. So a little lower bar for her to hit enough bullet points. I don't honestly know much about her, though. Never followed her closely - and I can't remember the last thing she did besides humiliate her husband and talk about Tupac occasionally. I wonder if Will's success had anything to do with her seeming to not work much over the years.
I am a Nurse. I live in California. I dated someone recently who essentially said I wasn't enough due to the wages I make (which are not even bad) and the success I achieved. I always thought well of myself till this person tore me down. The most insane thing was she would make me feel like the problem for the longest time will demanding praise for who she was. She even tore me down based on my genealogy. I was not datable due to habits of my mom and how she passed. I never dated a narcissist until then. Men if they abuse women its physical and illegal. Yes sometimes its mental. But women can do this without repercussion mentally and that is their default path of toxicity. It is legal and even put up with. No one cares. This last relationship has taught me so much and I would rather be alone then be with someone who can be narcissistic and manipulative. As I continue to try and date I've realized how social media has conditioned narcissists everywhere. Not bagging on a gender. Everyone is guilty of something and we should all improve. This is just my experience in dating however.
that is why you must be QUICK to cut a woman off and ALWAYS have sexual options. This is why alot of men tolerate this behavior. They typically cut off ALL of their sexual options OR never had any at all. So they tolerate madness because they still want intimacy with said woman and if she gets up and walks youre left with no sex. There is a rule of thumb players have. You must always have at least FIVE women you can casually have sex with on demand. That way if you ever meet a toxic woman you can EASILY get rid of her and on that very same day you kick her out have another woman come give you sex. They say this method is frowned on BUT ITS A LIE its how men retain thier POWER because if you KNOW you dont need the toxic woman to have sex. You can EASILY discard her the moment she displeases you. You gotta be an axxhole with women today. Maybe in the 1950s and before the nice guy approach worked but ever since the 70s to right now thats done. Women respond to being treated poorly and casually this is why the biggest axxholes in the world have the most women and the nicest of men either have no woman OR are being treated less than optimal by the one they have
"The most insane thing was she would make me feel like the problem for the longest time will demanding praise for who she was" feel ya bro. these girls are EVERYWHERE. they can do this and many other things. they have all the rights and no resposibilities.
Dwayne Wade, Will Smith, Kanye West and Stephen Curry are the poster childs of money can't buy happiness if it comes with a complementary gift of a modern woman.
The problem is these guys don't really have the mindset of men who have money and high socioeconomic status and SMV worth when it comes to dealing with women. It's like athletes and rappers who got rich fast but lack financial literacy and are stupid and then go broke. If you want to have money, wealth, success, stability and power you should learn to be emotionally detached at first.
What’s crazier to me is that they’re trying to portray Will as this savior that should be proud of himself for ruining his night, his relations in Hollywood, everyone else’s night including other black icons and two of them being black women. When really Will is just what they wanna see. A black man who will sabotage his and everyone else’s life for the egotistical image of protecting his “wife”
Will knew society would condemn him for hitting a woman, so he waited for an opportunity to release all his frustrations on another man. Everybody and their momma know who really deserves to be slapped. I don’t mind protecting black women from violence, but making a harmless joke on a woman should not be grounds to assault someone. These women nowadays think they are entitled to too much protection even when they treat other people poorly.
@@truthinyan9050 Right. You have a lot of women screaming equality but they are the ones that can’t handle even a lesser negative reaction from a man even when the treatment they give to us is much harsher. If a woman cheats, we can’t publicly call them a slut without being criticized by other women. If a man cheats, he can be called everything derogatory in the dictionary and they expect no push back. Women need to understand that equality also means having to accept responsibility and critique when you do something wrong, but they want to be free and absolved from having to deal with that side of reality. So in essence, it’s them that are proving everyday that we’re not equal.
Will Smith should have told Jada, "it's just a light joke... you should be happy he's not joking about your infidelity. You are emotionally over-the-top"
I've been telling this to other people and the reaction is usually stunned silence as the realization hits. Because of this, they never quantify exactly what they want because it's a moving target or bottomless pit.
I’ve experienced this first hand . Bought the wife a brand new Jeep Cherokee 50 racks she complained remodeled her bathroom she complained bought my grown son who has no gig a 2022 hybrid Corolla she complained. I’m close to giving up and I keep asking myself why do I work so hard .
As a white man, I listen to your stuff a lot. It’s no difference at all in how all these women act. It’s ridiculous and I feel sorry for real men trying to find a wife nowadays! You spit nothing but facts!
@@SirShiv7 True. I think the guy was just trying to say that this phenomenon likely transcends racial lines and it's probably universal - or at least in western culture. Probably it has more to do with the country you're living in and its political culture than someone's racial origin. I think I've seen this among peaple of different ethnic origin.
@@davebellamy4867 Yeah, I don't think he was consciously pulling the race card or anything. Just a shame that we feel such distinctions need to be made in the first place but I digress.
My older sister is 72, she did not know of Chris Rock till now. I asked her, damn, how could someone take that hard of a hit, and not even tear up? Cuz that was a HARD slap. And she said, he probably went through a lot as a kid, and learned how to take it! Damn if my older sis wasn't right!
You have a wiae sister. Often, we develop defense mechanisms to protect us from our bullies in our youth , that carry on to our future. If we don't get therapy, which I recommend for all people of color , because we suffer from.ptsd. we should get the help we need, heal.and then help others heal before we destroy our lives and the lives of others around us .
@@CH4RLYG777 single mother households, our communities recovering from the crack epidemic in a time where half naked female, and gangster rapping men celebrities are idolized. The black community is severely damaged
Chris handled the altercation with complete professionalism under live television. He wasn't in a situation where he could defend himself since he had to place the Academy's needs ahead of his own. He made light of the situation in an entertaining manner: "Greatest night in the history of television". Chris Rock proved himself to be a true professional while under significant distress. Bravo!
If Hollywood offered Jada the lead role in GI 2 you know she would you take it in a heartbeat. "Entanglements" is used to soften the reality of adultery.
I added a few minutes ago that she should have hollered back at Chris that he should produce or direct it. The moment would have been funny, and they could have both secured that bag.
A big part of my sanity is setting boundaries with everyone & everything. A man without boundaries end up self destructing one way or another. Remain independent and sovereign respect yourself love yourself and no one can harm you. Peace
I'm glad you hit on the narcissistic personality disorder. I know you can't say it outright, but any of us who have been through it can see what it is. When you hit on the daughter being more like friends/sisters with their mom with no parenting dynamic, that blew my mind. Because it hit 100% with how my narcissistic ex was with her mom. I never saw that as a red flag before, but there were PLENTY. I won't go into the heinous things she did and ways she'd try to emasculate me and constantly make me "prove" my love, but luckily I walked away before any babies were able to enter the equation.
Wow!!! You sound like my son and what he went through with his ex wife. My ex daughter in law is crazy!!! She abuses her own mother, physically, I don’t see what my son ever saw in her. I’m concerned about my granddaughter, because she sees how her mother verbally abused my son and verbally and physically abused her grandmother, what hope do I have that she won’t grow up and be just like her mother.
I wanted to point out the damage to Willow. That little girl should know nothing of her mother’s past like that. How confusing must it be to know your father cannot make your mother happy. What this shows me is that Jada is emotionally abusive to her children. Your children deserve to not know everything about you. That is truly disgusting.
@Lisa Solier Thank you for addressing an urgent issue that has plagued so many black people...generational parental abuse. My heart goes out to his 2 children. The other son came from a better woman who cared more about her son's health and welfare. I can only imagine that Jada's mother had men in and out of her bed while she raised Jada.
This is exactly why Willow said she wanted to be in a Throuple, which is living with or married to a man and woman. How wierd for a really young person to say but this comes from that little Jada whom I've never cared that much for. 😥
I feel sorry for everyone who was/is impacted by a narcissist. No matter which gender, narcissists are destructive everywhere. A lot of women have to deal with men who have such traits, so for us, it's nothing new.
If I knew my husband was about to go on stage and do that I would have stopped him. Will’s legacy is being tarnished & overshadowed by the issues between him & Jada. I’m so disappointed & I really feel bad for Chris Rock, he didn’t deserve that.
@@Fadeout815 She will let her husband engage in a battle that she is sure the husband will not survive from coz to her , her ego is more valuable than her husband's life.
I’m from Baltimore and a lot of men have lost their freedom and life behind defending a woman that was in the wrong and called a man and he is in a grave or behind bars for the rest of his life .
Kevin, I was one of those men who become whipped, perpetually trying to appease a controlling woman. It’s humiliating when you pull into the garage and have to gather courage to face the hell that awaits inside your own home. My kids needed an intact father and a better example so I found my balls, held my ground, and eventually needed to divorce to protect myself because she was going to destroy me if she couldn’t dominate me. I should never have sacrificed my self respect nor adopted an appeasement strategy. Teach young men so that they don’t make my mistakes.
@@rod_da_poet Very ugly divorce. I survived it because I recognized how she operated and prepared accordingly with the best attorney in town. How well did I know her? I warned my attorney by email that she would probably flood the house to prevent it's sale (she wanted it for herself). Guess what happened 4 days later? It's the kids who suffer the most now. I got as much custody as possible for the sake of the kids.
I feel you right now I’m in the middle of a similar situation. I’ve step up for now but we have two children together. It’s sooo hard to separate and I’m stuck in this situation where I rather be single.
Jesus Christ loves you! I'm sorry to hear about what that women did to you. I found in the Bible that God lays out the Family home and how the Order is in His eyes. Traditional living is biblical living, and any man can have that, just go to the Lord for it. How? Having your own personal relationship with Him. Talk to Him in private and start to live His way and call upon Him. ❤️💯
IDK how I didn't see this one Kevin, I apologize. Dated what I believe to be this type of women while you were doing your thing, and it indeed drove me nuts. Want you to know I'm still tuned into your content, it's been very insightful and also entertaining! Thank you for all the time you put in! RIP
I’m still trying to figure out what happened in Will’s first marriage because it was like he made an excuse that they wasn’t compatible or something, but I noticed he’s still close with his ex wife to this day
That's why we need to speak and act in the spirit of Jeremiah, the prophet of the Lord, and speak up against evil. Not just in this case, but evil in general. To see it for what it really is and rebuke it.
I actually respect Chris rock and the fact that he didn’t move off of his spot. He was caught off guard and Will had full intent to injure him. Chris took it and held back the jokes/ insults he had in his head. That’s maturity imo
Y’all calling him soft, but he was professional and didn’t react like an emotional girl. He will continue to be invited to get his bags, Will on the other hand needs to recreate his image.
It's different. Had Chris fought Will I guarantee you his public image would go down the drain as well but honestly he's a better man than me because I woulda went harder on Jada. My next comment woulda been, "I'll keep Jada's name out my mouth the second she takes other men out of hers".
I will be married to my wife for 20 years as of next month. One thing that I established with her early on was that there would be no arguments, disagreements or negative displays in public. We leave those things for private discussion. When we’re in public, we are one.
I wrote a college essay on how I idealized Will Smith on his positive mindset, career and happy family. The struggles I see that he's exposing is what I experienced being nice and being codependent. Luckily, Im not married with no kids. No more. Thanks for this. Today we need to vet women
Will's happy family? Yeah on the outside perhaps but the reality is that family is a train wreck, you obviously didn't pay attention as a college student to the details, open marriage, transgender kids etc a recipe for disaster.
Thank you godfather Kevin. I’m a young white man, but your the dad I needed growing up. Nobody invested much time in me and I had to learn lessons the hard way. This community is so welcoming. It’s my home
That’s the problem with PRlDE of oneself. It overshadows all the interesting moments in a room because it wants to be special, or seen to be special. That’s sad for Mr. Jackson. What did he win the Oscar in? He’s definitely a hardworking actor.
Sitting here crying.When someone speaks the truth from the heart you feel the pain if what men feel... Now when i look back at pictures of will his eyes are always so sad - troubled - yet hes always smiling putting on a 'good face' - he must be so tired.
The narcissistic woman always compares you to someone irrelevant from her past, casually mentions the "success" of other men (which should be irrelevant), shares things that other people have supposedly said about you to plant seeds in your mind, always poses themselves as the victim even of their own decisions, attempts to grandstand and upstage you every chance they get, and gaslight about everything (professional liars).
@@Tenrou2 Absolutely!!! Now add to that this pop culture, one size fits all television therapy and "life coaching" teaching narcissists to LOVE THEMSELVES EVEN MORE????? Really? lol. Meanwhile, that kind of therapeutic affirmation tool is ONLY meant for serious victims of actual abuse over extended periods of time. Insane. Literally training modern women to become narcissistic.
@@johnreyes7835 Yes, regular women are basically trying to emulate actual narcissists and see it as empowering. I think most are a lost cause, if I'm being honest
Unfortunately, this is only learned the hard way. I've even allowed a narcissistic woman break my heart and she really could care less. Know your worth fellas and voice your boundaries and the issues that matter. It takes two to tango and don't tolerate any red flags or crap thrown your way. If ignored it only fills the black hole of an ego a narcissistic person has. It'll destroy you and take you away from your core being. Don't disrespect yourself that way. Hopefully Will can realize this for himself bc what he did was embarrassing.
Understand that I am female from a different generation, with Cuban parents who dressed me like a princess and sent me to a battleground inner city school.
@@colbalt95 no that’s the contrary, most of my bullies succumbed to the crack epidemic. I am successful because I knew who I was and where I came from. They just knew government assistance and survival
There’s a video of her laughing when will went to smack him and her laughing after Chris said Will smacked me. While Will is sitting down cursing the two of them show no eye contact is weird . She didn’t speak to him or stop him
Respectable women don’t let their men act like this they do whatever they have to not to make the man embarrass himself due to anger cuz we know men get angry
G.I. Jane? A strong female lead overcoming adversity to become an elite warrior? As a combat vet, I can't picture Jaeda Pinkett Smith putting duty over self.
It’s a deeply tough process revealing and confronting all your childhood traumas publicly. It’s a much bigger clearing than we expect it to be like being retraumatized.
I just feel sorry for Will that he ruined his own big moment for someone who doesn’t appreciate his sacrifice, nor does she appreciate him. A moment he’s worked his entire career for. Running up on Chris was absolutely unnecessary and it’s probably going to have more repercussions than we know now.
Exactly! My wife and I talked about this the next morning. And she said exactly what you did. My thought was if he cared so much about protecting his wife? Then he did the wrong thing. That was the time to console her and show support. Touch her hand, lean over and kiss her on her bald head, say “I love you”. But what happened shows you the true dynamics of their relationship. Very dysfunctional, disrespectful and violent.
I was in a relationship with a narcissistic women previously, and the similarities are uncanny. The triangulation, the manipulation of reality (gaslighting), the erosion of Will's self-worth and her refusal to take any accountability. I hope Will can find a great therapist who specialises in supporting survivors of narcissistic abuse.
Same here. Your comment is 100% on point: The similarities are uncanny. Jada Pinkett is a mentally VERY abusive woman. Will Smith is the victim in this marriage. She's playing nacissistic "mind games" day and night ... this guy is completely mentally screwed ... and him losing it at the Oscar's is the result of that.
@@itsHappening-ry2ef It depends on the company. If you are not in good company when you are alone then you have a serious psychological problem. The best company you can ever have is yourself.
Wow Chris' monologue in the beginning. I felt my heart hurt even more for him. I am so proud of how he carried himself. But even more insightful is that what Will did literally could've retriggered Chris' childhood trauma. Strength is really in restraint, not in compulsion.
I thought that Will Smith embarrassed himself. He is a very highly educated man and surely should have been able to understand the context within which the joke was made. Besides which, GI Jane is a strong, beautiful woman - where's the insult in that?!!
It's not even a bad joke. How can you be mad with someone saying you are potentially grooming yourself secretly to earn 300million dollars. It's like me getting mad at being likened to Super Man just because I have muscular inflammation or something.
@@tomite2001 No, it would be the same as if you were a paraplegic and someone made a joke about you being in the running for Superman. Then as you did, one could ignore the subtext making fun of your similar situation to Christopher Reeve and act like it's a compliment that you could be the next Superman. Not defending either side, just making the correct comparison for your statement.
Damn that Willow letter is WILD. I can’t imagine if, as a dad, I saw my daughter write that about another man. This runs deep. It was so funny to see people make the argument that this was about some hair loss condition joke. This shit goes so deep, James Cameron couldn’t get down there (props if you get that joke/reference 😁)
That’s the same thing I said, I can’t imagine my daughter writing a letter like that to a dead man, I’d really have to leave that marriage because that means my wife has already corrupted my daughter. I would have to leave
That letter situation got me really sad for Will! 😮 so Jada was talking to her kids about her ex who died! This is wrong of her, I feel for will “So my mommy and I can be happy” what???? And her dad is there 😫 😢
@@jamalhaleemtucker8425 I wonder y he didn’t leave her! And for him to be saying I wish I was like pac to her!! What??? he spent the whole time trying to please her when everybody else would give the world to have her Will!!
@@jamalhaleemtucker8425 Alot of these new age women have done this to their daughters Its not a new thing it's just not spoken much These women who think they settled for less When in fact it was the man who lowered his value That man could live a decent happy life
I started following his UA-cam account a couple months ago. There's gems on there such as "I'm crying again." No woman on earth wants her man to be crying in public always emoting n shit. Jada may be the devil but this is ALL Will's fault
@@Charlie_Alpha_Lima When PEOPLE don't address their issues from childhood, EVERYONE will suffer!! I agree with Kevin, we must get PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HELP!!!
"A Narcissit can do with a glance, what a novelist can't even do with words." Damn Kevin that was good lmao , that arrow flew true and straight into my heart when you said that one.
@@VINOCHILEZI When a negative person has conditioned someone over time- to jump when they say jump, soon enough all the narcissist has to do is begin to speak, and their victim will be in mid air already. Without having to read a single command.
Thank you for reiterating that a woman does not understand how men perceive other men, and that they do not understand male violence. I would argue that the more heinous violence between men is likely caused by a woman as opposed to a dispute between two men.
That’s why I’m divorced, my 12 year old son told me last year, Dad I see why your not married. He told me so many women are confused and confrontational. He sees how peaceful my life is, how happy I am and why I’ll never remarry. He’s starting to figure it out.
Will Smith said about Tupac: "I hated that I wasn't what he was in the world, and I suffered a raging Jealousy. I wanted Jada to look at me like that"... Why not find a woman who DOES look at you like that! To many women Will would the apple of their eye, a capable and dynamic man that's extremely attractive that makes them feel something in side. Why try to get a woman who doesn't see you like that to see you like that?
Love or infatuation or whatever Will has for Jada is not rational. It doesnt matter there are 1000s or even millions of women who can do that for Will. He wants JADA to look at him like that. Not anyone else. This can be fixed but in order to fix a problem Will has to realize that she is a problem.
@@Stayhappylifestyle that's why he is going through what he's going through inside of him counting his losses and move on. she's a narcissistic woman and he's so far gone he is mentally on trigger.. trying to find some type of masculinity back.
Noone could ruin Will's reputation so Jada set him up starting with red table to help him ruin himself. She never deserved him 😔Will should have stayed with his 1st wife. She truly respected him.
Jada must have asked the most powerful witches in Romania to put a spell on him because even in his acceptance speech he looked like he was in a trance..... Chris rock looks and acts normal
That’s wtf I’m saying. Everyone is so focused on Will Will Will. Yet when you watch the replay, it’s clear as day who’s spite and vindictiveness was fueling 90% of that slip. Hint: It wasn’t Will’s
I somewhat agree with you, I don’t think she purposefully trying to ruin him, it’s just how these modern women are built. Which is Basically to “Only Worry about themselves” at all cost without thought for anything or anyone else!!! That kind of Woman is a Man Killer! That’s why Men have to be Dominant Alpha Males to survive that type of Woman.
I had an idea about Will actually trying his hardest to make Jada notice, but I had no idea it was this bad. Willows' letter, Will living in a deceased Tupac shadow still, him as a 9 year old seeing domestic abuse between his parents...it just adds up to what we commonly know. And also Chris Rock's past, being bullied and abused. It's shocking how people, especially allot of women, don't see what influence women can have on a man. That is a certain power over somebody's mind, if abused, can break a person
Boo fu++ing hoo. We ALL deal with crap, and somehow, most of us refrain from simpdom, violence, and narcissism. Make no mistake, anyone who walks that red carpet suffers from some level of narcissism. It's in their DNA. It's why they are in Hollywood in the first place.
A lot of women do realise it's damaging to others they do not care, hence they take advantage of it as there's no real consequences for that behaviour and it's hard to prove it openly. The consistent bias in divorce court actions for women settlements and instantly taking the side of women in allegations even when they caught twisting things and no harsh consequences is more proof. It is a compound result of the behaviour you mention. People tend to act right when they realise there's consequences directly on them, which is hardly the case for women. Either no consequences or hardly anything. So no reason for them to change as they benefit. However long term it backfires when children grow up realising what was told to them by mum was either lies or twisted half truths. Take away the benefits of settlements and believe women instantly, likely see a lot of misbehaving women behave and change very quickly when they know they will be eating rats and rice and worse because of their actions.
Kevin saved me from getting with a girl just like this. I'm pulling 130k at 33 and cannot believe I thought it was 'manly' to compromise on some of these things.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ This has been the best breakdown of this situation to date. Rest easy KS. You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
Some women are on this channel now because they’re embarrassed about how they’ve behaved as well. Reflecting on Kevin’s message truly feels like atoning/repenting and narrowly avoiding a life sentence.
I've been saying this about Will and Jada for years, so I'm not at all surprised about anything that has transpired with this couple. She is toxic and has broken Will all the way down. I also find it disturbing that people gloss over the fact that she had an affair with her son's friend. Jaden brought August into their home. Can you imagine how disgusted people would be with Will if he had had an affair with one of Willow's friends that she brought into the home? It's bad enough that she had an affair and had no remorse about it, but the fact that it was with her son's friend takes it down to another low. Also, I hate that Will chose that moment to try to prove that he can be as tough as Tupac. Sad and disgraceful.
I think the majority of people glossing over are women! Men finally have a platform and voice look at how they are constantly attacked fir speaking truth. No its not all women but a critical majority.
@@jarvisaddison8560 As a woman, I find that so disappointing. During the whole entanglement thing, I was shocked that so many women actually supported and celebrated her for that.
I had a good childhood but the thing I learned early that really helped me. Was once I got over the fear of getting beat up or bullied and to stand up no matter what. No one bothered me.
Will Smith is a coward. He’s right. him being small and unable to do anything when he was a kid didn’t make him a coward. Him being controlled confusingly by a woman is where he’s being a coward
@@darrellphy7128 he needs understand that his wife and himself are helping to destroy his legacy. And I don’t think his wife cares too much about his legacy. It appears she wants to be the biggest star in the house at her husband’s detriment.
I feel so bad for Chris Rock. All the abuse he’s gone through yet he’s so genuine and down to earth. What happened to him at the Oscar’s was downright evil. Will smith deserves all the humiliation his wife is putting him through. I’m so sick of people saying “he was defending his wife’s honor”. HIS WIFE DOESNT HAVE ANY HONOR!!!!!! SHES A HOLLYWOOD ENTANGLER
Yup made me laugh hearing people come with that defending her honor BS. The women has no respect for herself or her husband. He has been driven mad by her public humiliation of him that's all. Also if you have an open so called marriage, be discreet for crying out loud.
I agree. You have it completely right! Will is being abused by his wife and scared of her. My mom is a narcissist and I have been a afraid of her all my life and I tired my best. I finally decided to move on and protect my son. We are both doing better.
I recently learnt that 1 in every 5 persons is a narcissist or have narcissistic tendencies, as soon as I spot any kind of manipulative tendencies in any one I call them out on it immediately I honestly hate manipulation.
I'm glad I came across your comment because I honeslty believe it too that there are way more narcissists than people think. I actually agree it is 1/5
'Fun girls' don't necessarily make good wives. In my experience, they tended to be flighty and impulsive. Good girls make good wives as they tend toward modesty, prudence, and stability. The nice girl some of us fronted on back in high school is the one you take to meet your family and friends. Too Short spit game on that topic well over 20+ years ago. I can't judge anyone, since from personal experience, I learned quickly the distinction between the two. I expressed no desire for commitment with fun girls upfront, but I would consider good girls for relationships. The distinction between types was crystal clear after a few minutes of conversation. Admittedly, I met my wife with bad intentions (she was looking fine and built) since I wasn't meeting any women I could take seriously; however, her bearing, articulate nature, and positive disposition turned my lust into intrigue. Now, we're going on 23 years of marriage.
@Big Stacks -You are 100% correct. Luckily, I had an uncle whom taught me this at a very young age. The problem is in the black community, not too many pass down this priceless advice and some are informed but choose to ignore.
@@freesparks1931 Right, my pop (RIP) taught me to be discerning when it came to women. Plus, my mom (RIP) was a modest, conservative woman so I had a template for wifely attributes. In fact, I was shocked when I saw my mom dance for the first time, doing 'The Twist' while cooking when it came on the radio (she cut quite a rug too). 😁😁😁 I think a lot of the wild stuff is learned vicariously by seeing such behavior growing up. Plus, my generation (Gen X) was less sexual than this current generation. For instance, getting a kiss was an accomplishment for us whereas getting some he*d is common now, so I hear. Back in my day, being a fun girl wasn't reinforced as much as it is now. Very few girls got pregnant in high school back then as well, so norms in that regard were a bit stricter. In essence, fun girls were easier to distinguish from more proper girls back when I was single.
Here's where the issue lies though. And this goes from men and women. People end up creating the problem they don't want. Fun Girls do not make good wives but wives pay dearly when husbands go and cheat with these fun girls. To a wife and husband who is a good man or a good woman, when they get cheated on for a thug or a fun girl, they feel they either have to become that for their partner to want them or they end up leaving or becoming bitter or destructive... Like Will. By people taking advantage of good men and women, they ended up creating a very thing that endangers good men and women.
The more that comes out about Chris Rock's past the worse this situation gets. Not only has Chris been bullied through out his life but he is terrified to fight back because he almost killed somebody. He damned if you do damned if you don't his mind. That's a horrible space to be in.
Kevin, you are an intellectual individual to be able to break down of the one common traits of selfish beings in today's society. It still baffles me to see how modern woman have sabotaged their partners for themselves to be in the spotlight. I'm fortunate that my mother has shaped me to respect my partner, and to hear your intake, it has definitely polished the knowledge I've learned as a child. I pray for you to continue your impact on modern times to be better.
I bet I was one of the first people that recognized Jada as a narcissist. I couldn’t believe how many people (women especially) was applauding Jada’s actions in the beginning.
You're kind of far behind, in a few decades you're going to realize they don't care that much about men and that's why you came to the conclusion you came to today. when you dig deeper you'll figure it out.
So many gems in this episode that relate to me and why I left my wife yesterday. You can’t lead someone that doesn’t want to be led and I refuse to turn into Will and Kanye because I married someone that drove me crazy. It’s sad that a person would rather choose chaos to soothe their ego rather than follow her husband who follows God and enjoy a life of stability. But this community and message opened my eyes and helped me connect more with God. Thank you KS for your message to men. More of us are waking up and now I’m ready to sell out to femininity.
I'm a woman and I commend you for choosing you, your peace, and peace of mind over other people. Misplaced loyalty keeps so many of us stuck in bondage to unhealthy situations.
You are a blessing and an asset to black men Kevin. Thank you for all you do! I'm a little older than you. Your analysis has shown me the weak points and holes in my life. Your blunt honesty is refreshing. I still am striving to be my best personally, physically, and financially. I am very particular about women I get involve with. Right now I'm just focusing on improving me! Then I will vett women in my life.
Time stamps
0:00 Opening Song 🎵 Keep On Talking By Lionel Quick 🎵
1:50 🎵 Stockholm Love By Mathilda June 🎵
4:10 🎵 Your Good Lies By Vividry 🎵
7:10 🎬 Show Starts, 🕯 Candle Of The Evening Le Labo Laurier 62 🕯
7:45 Fragrances Of The Evening Bond No. 9 Nomad And Bond No.9 Riverside Drive
8:15 Monologue, Modern Women Can Make You Go Crazy, Not Love
19:20 Will Smith And Chris Rock
27:15 Willow Letter To Tupac
28:18 Moving Along
1:09:42 1st Caller , Married, 2nd Caller Angelina , 3rd Caller Raquel age 34, 4th Caller Wendy age 33
1:29:19 5th Caller T age 40 , 6th Caller J age 43 , 7th Caller, 8th Caller , 9th Caller
1:46:40 10th Caller Nia 29, 11th Caller, Back to 1st Caller
2:04:00 Feminine Characters And Closing Words
2:13:44 Outro
Thank you Sir...
the MVP as usual, thanks brother
You’re a king amongst men. Thank you kindly, Sir.
God’s Work!
Thanks bro 👊🏾
"only women, children and dogs get loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something." - Chris Rock
Unfortunately! 🤷🏽♂️
That is a deep statement. It’s sad but unlocks a wealth of education regarding the burden on a man’s shoulders in this world.
I felt that
He said that in 2019 and was proven right smh.
she said what she did to him at that table bc she felt no threat of backlash or him hurting her or yelling at her. A dude doing all that? He knows he's getting backlash & the women is going to yell at him & hit him. She felt so secure & safe breaking Will down to nothing right down to his face. She knew damn well nothing was going to happen to her. Where are all the women that fake care about mens mental health just in November? clearly Will needs some help in that area. Oh right.. its not November. Its not time for ya'll to start fake caring yet bc you look at it as another "trend" you need to involve yourselves in.
Willow as a child writing that letter is very disturbing. This means that Jada pumped into her mind as a child how much love that she had for 2pac all while married to her father. There's so much wrong with that.
She puts out a terrible image of mothers and black women. The more we learn the darker it gets.
Exactly. Sick af, willow has no respect for Will.
Imagine how Will must feel! This would bring me to tears and drive me insane!
Tupac isn't an old flame, he's a frickn forest fire. Poor kids
@people today look at this ya baldheaded eagle
To protect her honor, she must first be honorable. To protect her from disrespect, she must first be respectable. This woman is neither, and her husband has starred in his greatest role at her behest... playing the fool.
Facts
🎤 dropped
ouch, very true
Damn that was well said.
I’ve never heard it put this way. You’re 100% correct. The only thing I would add is that in order to protect a person, they have to need protection. Jada is much more masculine and hood than Will. Also, any woman (open marriage or not) that screws her son’s friend, that her and her husband treated like another son, and sometimes screwed him in their home…..is the lowest of the low. If Will had screwed their daughter’s friend under the same conditions, he would’ve paid a very heavy price.
This man was a truth teller. I don't understand why some people where happy he passed on. May his soul rest in peace.
I could not agree more. He genuinely cares about the people he speaks with, that’s why the kid gloves are off.
Just got cyber slapped. I’m good tho😌
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
Here's the answer to your question:
_"The further a society drifts from the truth, the more they will hate those that speak it."_
-George Orwell
Lies won and rule wars and other things .
If you don’t have PEACE within your own home you have nothing. That is what Will Smith proves. We watched a mental breakdown. This is Sad.
facts
We sure did, and he still in it sadly
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Can you imagine what life is like in their home bearing in mind what has been made public? Will Smith does not call the shots.
This wasn’t a mental breakdown, Will was fine, he laughed at the joke, this was a string being pulled, Jada didn’t like the program she was watching when she saw Will laughing so she kindly grabbed the moken trol (remote control) and changed the channel because she’s the one who’s really in control of Will’s programming.
Imagine your daughter writing a letter to your WIFE’s ex thug boyfriend yearning for a nostalgia she never even witnessed. That letter is sick beyond words bruh
It’s sad not sick
@@vanessa9024 that shit is sick! And sad!
@@godvibesonly7137 what exactly did she even say in the letter , an how tf does will know about it let alone the whole world
@@nugs562 there’s a picture of it my guy
First thing first, do the DNA test
That letter to Tupac is very, very telling. This is way deeper than Chris Rock.
Willow penning this letter to Tupac... WTF???
Edit : Apperantly i have to state the obvious
I used to (and still do) love 2pac but the truth is he was just an emotional male.
He hung around the wrong crowd and ultimately died because of it.
He played with the pigs and got dirty , tho the myth of him has grown to exponential heights.
I still love his music , but i am not a fool as to who he really was.
Rip pac , also pac explained he was will smith , because women called him to nice, to soft.
Willows letter shows how much Jada is taking the piss.
They letter is disrespectful of its real
@@uzimasta3 yeah it’s definitely real
I found you Kevin about a month ago. I'm a seventy year old white man. I draw much inspiration and from you and appreciate what you're trying to do for the human race. May God bless you and keep you. Rest easy my friend
SALUTE
Amazing
You are right. Kevin was full of knowledge and wisdom. Glad I found his videos.
“Judge a woman with your eyes closed”. Couldn’t have said it better.
So good
Can’t be said any better
I wonder how much time I wasted in my youth figuring that out the hard way.
What if when you open eyes and she ugly as hell?
Most of these women are chosen based on their looks, skin color, status, sexual prowess, and butt size by well-intentioned men.
You marry a woman who openly told you and showed you and the world that she’s still in love with a dead man, you deserve anything you get moving forward.
Tupac would have left her on the streets a single mother
@@destroyerarmor He definitely wouldn’t have bred her. They were cool and all but Pac knew that was recreational use only.
@@destroyerarmor this is deep but I agree
@@itsHappening-ry2ef
False. I have a girlfriend. She’s Caucasian and thin.
@@itsHappening-ry2ef Don’t be a moron. It is better for a man to be single than to be with a woman who doesn’t respect him and is a liability. That being said, I have a fit, feminine, young, submissive woman who respects me and brings value. If you’re going to troll the space at least try to say something remotely intelligent.
"And if a woman really loved you she wouldn't want you to martyr yourself." Damn....that hit hard
So true
Realest shit I read all YEAR!!! 💪🏿
Almost as hard as Will hit Chris
Or prefer you act a fool and jeopardize your life and career over nothing.
She is going to leave him. Within twelve months, guaranteed.
Kevin, you CAN say she is a narcissist. If Jada isn’t a narcissist then the term has no meaning and should be abandoned.
She is textbook. Let’s call it out.
I'm glad he hit on the narcissistic personality disorder. I know he can't say it outright, but any of us who have been through it can see what it is. When he hit on the daughter being more like friends/sisters with their mom with no parenting dynamic, that blew my mind. Because it hit 100% with how my narcissistic ex was with her mom. I never saw that as a red flag before, but there were PLENTY enough. I won't go into the heinous things she did and ways she'd try to emasculate me and constantly make me "prove" my love, but luckily I walked away before any babies were able to enter the equation.
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She is definitely a narcissist. I told my husband this on the day the will thing happened.
Nobody's truly addressing the issue. She is a full-blown Narcissist. A narcissist has no compassionate empathy!!!! They have no soul. To make matters worse, they have no real personality only a fake personality that must be validated 24 hrs a day 7 days a week addicted to admiration, affirmation, and adulation in order to validate it's false Personna. Research NPD it's real and incurable.
Look at that thumbnail picture. You can see her head has thick stubble. She is nowhere near going bald. Maybe she had a small balding patch or her hair is getting thinner but in now way shape or form is she going bald, yet people are acting like she is suffering from some sort of horrible desease. She shaved her head for attention. Those of us who are actually going bald take offense to this, lol.
6.5 months ago I left a woman who was diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, after a 1.3 year relationship. No contact currently. I had my own business generating $250,000 annualized in my first year of operations. We lived together and I was looking at wedding rings. The relationship cost me nearly everything, and almost my life. I only left when I became aware of this disorder.
The lovebombing, mirroring, devaluation, discarding, gaslighting, stonewalling, lying, thieving, stalking, hoovering, triangulation, cheating, flying monkeys, etc...is all crazy making and she did it all. I was able to escape before she could accomplish her real goal. Thank God.
Thank you godfather for discussing this. 🙏
You had a fatal attraction on ya hands 👌🏾 good you was quick on your feet. Could’ve ended horrible. I hate a stalking women it’s childish and scary.
@@karithema9ician657 silver lining, I know ALL of the red flags for cluster B personality disorders now and it'll never happen again. My eyes are OPEN now! These kind of people are really out here ruining lives for pleasure.
Your experience will be worth more than any money. Protect your light
I hope you get everything together man
Flying monkeys?🧐....thank goodness you escaped.
Women will accept that Will Smith is wrong but will not accept that Jada had a role in driving Will to act in a manner that is irrational
totally agree...but you think woman think Will Smith was wrong? maybe not! they will not think jada got nothing to do with it they also think Will Smith was right! bc as long as you do something in their favor and for them they can careless about right or wrong bc as men all we are is their porn!!...they have 2 men kill each other over their bad decisions
Accountability?
I've dated several women who had narcissistic tendencies or Cluster B personality issues and it was heartbreaking. I had to go to therapy, work with relationship coaches, take leadership courses, get close to God, pray, journal to get my head and heart right. It's taken 10 years but I'm now seeing a feminine woman that truly cares about me and she shows me everyday. Rebecca Lynne Pope called out Jada for her evil ways. Keep preaching KS.
Glad you got out of that
I know what you mean my brother
Pls send a link about Rebecca Lynn Pope. I’m clueless
Me too sir.... She devastated my self esteem and brought triangulation into the mix. It was a nightmare that I saw no escape from. Thank God I found channels like this and learned the truth.
Yall keep goin after them 7's 8's an 9's that's way.
Masterful… I don’t think we understand just how revolutionary this brother is.
The video of Jada after he assaulted Chris, spoke volumes as well. She laughed at the assault, sat there and didn't console Will either.. Normal women would never let that happen no matter how much you want to cover it up as a 'protecting your woman'. Still sickened by the whole thing.
Yes. She wanted that to happen and Will knew it.
She should have immediately intervened when he slapped Chris and talked him off stage or out of the crowd and to a spot to calm down.
She scowled and eye rolled at the original joke then got positively GLEEFUL once violence was happening and then again once will screamed with his face shaking
Awful woman
I have searched and couldn't find a video showing her reaction to the slap. They show her reaction to the joke but not the slap. Where is the video you are referencing?
Facts!!! She is really evil! She wasn’t afraid of the repercussions for her man or nothing.
Straight up evil. 😢😢
A good woman would have never let him make it on stage..
@@dontehunt3184 that’s exactly what I thought. I would’ve ran behind him, gown and all to stop him from whatever he might do. Even if it was to just talk to Chris. I would’ve told him to wait and talk backstage. She could’ve spoke peace in him, just him getting up for her was enough for that moment. It was the Oscars! Talk to him backstage.
This is Will’s fault. He chose a woman who chose a man that was his opposite. He chose a woman that he inherently knows never chose him.
He chose a controlling narcissistic woman who did not want to marry him. She was in tears of unhappiness the day of their wedding.
@@TheRonaldbaxter exactly he dig his own grave
Choosing was only the beginning. His actions rewarded the bad behaviour for many years.
If he had any dignity and self-worth, he would have been giving her nothing and openly banging younger hotter women
@@TheRonaldbaxter women control access to sex men to relationship
he chose a th0t
I personally believe that she was more mad seeing Will laughing at the joke than she was that Chris said the joke. I think that "look" she shot him was more of a "you just F'd up" and Will realized what was coming his way so he redirected the conflict within himself towards Chris with no thought about the consequences. It tells me how toxic she really is because he threw away all concern for his image in fear of what was coming his way from her.
He didn't want to hear her mouth in the car
Yes this is more likely, I agree
This!!!!!!!!!!!!
Great point @Anthony Fillon.
Spot on!!!!
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
_Tappin' in from South Central LA_
*5/4/23*
Revisiting this broadcast. Still very inciteful.
Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated.
🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
As a father if my child wrote a letter to a man who has passed away just because she hears her mom grieving over this would be devastating.
I would have cried that is SO wrong! Can you imagine your own blood turned against you without them even being aware of it. Oh I swear I would have slapped the shit out of her for that I’m sorry
@@DevinObi I would have disowned her for real.
Relationship dysfunction erectile dysfunction. Doctor prescribed 2 packs...🤦🏾♂️will just can't win.
@@DevinObi 🤣🤣
@@shawnvire4941 yup
It is better to dwell in the wilderness than in a house with a contentious and angry woman. Proverbs 21: 1
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I believe that is Proverbs 21:19
It’s takes 9 narcissistic traits to be diagnosed/ qualify as a narcissist. She’s already basically told us she was a narcissist. Will is a Co dependent male( #1 prey for narcissist) She’s said she was a sex addict, she triangulated Will with august, devalued will, at the red table talk we saw (gaslighting , word salad, lack of empathy, not taking ownership). there are videos by Dr, Psychiatrist, therapist on UA-cam called “ the narcissist is jealous of you and your success”. Narcissist will ruin you big moments (OSCARS). Female Narcissist are big on putting men against each other… i was with a narcissist and they want to break you. They want you in the mind frame like Will.(in a trauma bond). I can keep going
Jada admitted she was a sex addict? That's ummarriagble in itself.
One piece of input... it doesn't take 9 traits to meet the criteria for NPD. It's about 5, I believe, without the DSM in front of me. So a little lower bar for her to hit enough bullet points.
I don't honestly know much about her, though. Never followed her closely - and I can't remember the last thing she did besides humiliate her husband and talk about Tupac occasionally.
I wonder if Will's success had anything to do with her seeming to not work much over the years.
"Trauma Bond"-genius!
Spot on!
PERFECTLY SAID!!👏👏👏✌✌
I am a Nurse. I live in California. I dated someone recently who essentially said I wasn't enough due to the wages I make (which are not even bad) and the success I achieved. I always thought well of myself till this person tore me down. The most insane thing was she would make me feel like the problem for the longest time will demanding praise for who she was. She even tore me down based on my genealogy. I was not datable due to habits of my mom and how she passed. I never dated a narcissist until then. Men if they abuse women its physical and illegal. Yes sometimes its mental. But women can do this without repercussion mentally and that is their default path of toxicity. It is legal and even put up with. No one cares. This last relationship has taught me so much and I would rather be alone then be with someone who can be narcissistic and manipulative. As I continue to try and date I've realized how social media has conditioned narcissists everywhere. Not bagging on a gender. Everyone is guilty of something and we should all improve. This is just my experience in dating however.
that is why you must be QUICK to cut a woman off and ALWAYS have sexual options. This is why alot of men tolerate this behavior. They typically cut off ALL of their sexual options OR never had any at all. So they tolerate madness because they still want intimacy with said woman and if she gets up and walks youre left with no sex. There is a rule of thumb players have. You must always have at least FIVE women you can casually have sex with on demand. That way if you ever meet a toxic woman you can EASILY get rid of her and on that very same day you kick her out have another woman come give you sex. They say this method is frowned on BUT ITS A LIE its how men retain thier POWER because if you KNOW you dont need the toxic woman to have sex. You can EASILY discard her the moment she displeases you. You gotta be an axxhole with women today. Maybe in the 1950s and before the nice guy approach worked but ever since the 70s to right now thats done. Women respond to being treated poorly and casually this is why the biggest axxholes in the world have the most women and the nicest of men either have no woman OR are being treated less than optimal by the one they have
Sorry you had to experience that. California women are… something else.
@@tobisupersmart You are definitely not wrong. I wish the people were as good as the weather.
Should have just walked out when she said that
"The most insane thing was she would make me feel like the problem for the longest time will demanding praise for who she was" feel ya bro. these girls are EVERYWHERE. they can do this and many other things. they have all the rights and no resposibilities.
Dwayne Wade, Will Smith, Kanye West and Stephen Curry are the poster childs of money can't buy happiness if it comes with a complementary gift of a modern woman.
Damn hate to see my dawg Steph make the cut 😔
💯...men stay on the path
The problem is these guys don't really have the mindset of men who have money and high socioeconomic status and SMV worth when it comes to dealing with women. It's like athletes and rappers who got rich fast but lack financial literacy and are stupid and then go broke. If you want to have money, wealth, success, stability and power you should learn to be emotionally detached at first.
@@tjleaf3510 shi!!!!! He might next!!
So true!
It's amazing how many people still hold to the flawed belief that Will Smith had to slap another man to "protect" and undignified woman.
He slapped him because he was talkin
Emotional Damage..
Reputation and self-image down the drain and for what for a woman that doesn't give a damn about him.
It's mostly women and simps that are thinking this BS. DANGEROUS people.
What’s crazier to me is that they’re trying to portray Will as this savior that should be proud of himself for ruining his night, his relations in Hollywood, everyone else’s night including other black icons and two of them being black women. When really Will is just what they wanna see. A black man who will sabotage his and everyone else’s life for the egotistical image of protecting his “wife”
Will knew society would condemn him for hitting a woman, so he waited for an opportunity to release all his frustrations on another man. Everybody and their momma know who really deserves to be slapped. I don’t mind protecting black women from violence, but making a harmless joke on a woman should not be grounds to assault someone. These women nowadays think they are entitled to too much protection even when they treat other people poorly.
They think that no one should ever get to criticize or joke about them at all. Like they are royalty.
You are right about wills misplaced anger.
@@truthinyan9050 Right. You have a lot of women screaming equality but they are the ones that can’t handle even a lesser negative reaction from a man even when the treatment they give to us is much harsher. If a woman cheats, we can’t publicly call them a slut without being criticized by other women. If a man cheats, he can be called everything derogatory in the dictionary and they expect no push back. Women need to understand that equality also means having to accept responsibility and critique when you do something wrong, but they want to be free and absolved from having to deal with that side of reality. So in essence, it’s them that are proving everyday that we’re not equal.
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Very well-said bro. I co-sign it 100%. God bless.
And they still not satisfied lol
Will Smith should have told Jada, "it's just a light joke... you should be happy he's not joking about your infidelity. You are emotionally over-the-top"
RIP to the man who held attempted to break the mirror of social media and bring men and women to reality of what it meant to have a partnership
Funny cuz he didn't live by his own advice
@@kayisloveable in what way ?
@Trap twice married twice failed, died without anyone who gave a damn about him by his side. Oh how Karma got him at the end.
Women be so caught up on not LIKING the messenger that they can't even properly process the message. We are living in the last days
If you want to make a woman unhappy, give her exactly what she asks for.
I've been telling this to other people and the reaction is usually stunned silence as the realization hits.
Because of this, they never quantify exactly what they want because it's a moving target or bottomless pit.
Facts
My pops told me never treat them too good.
I’ve experienced this first hand . Bought the wife a brand new Jeep Cherokee 50 racks she complained remodeled her bathroom she complained bought my grown son who has no gig a 2022 hybrid Corolla she complained. I’m close to giving up and I keep asking myself why do I work so hard .
@@saleesellers239 Because when you give them things that they haven't earned, they think you're weak and only resent you for it.
As a white man, I listen to your stuff a lot. It’s no difference at all in how all these women act. It’s ridiculous and I feel sorry for real men trying to find a wife nowadays! You spit nothing but facts!
Why do you guys do that? Tell what race you're from? I mean its the internet , genuine questions i just see it all the time the ''As a white..'' Bit
@@goiufro Every ethnicity does it. It's just social conditioning - this society has been trained to place value and meaning on skin color.
@ronin. Seyi maybe he feels like Kevin is talking to black men but he says as a white man he relates. Idk
@@SirShiv7 True. I think the guy was just trying to say that this phenomenon likely transcends racial lines and it's probably universal - or at least in western culture. Probably it has more to do with the country you're living in and its political culture than someone's racial origin. I think I've seen this among peaple of different ethnic origin.
@@davebellamy4867 Yeah, I don't think he was consciously pulling the race card or anything. Just a shame that we feel such distinctions need to be made in the first place but I digress.
My older sister is 72, she did not know of Chris Rock till now. I asked her, damn, how could someone take that hard of a hit, and not even tear up? Cuz that was a HARD slap. And she said, he probably went through a lot as a kid, and learned how to take it! Damn if my older sis wasn't right!
You have a wiae sister. Often, we develop defense mechanisms to protect us from our bullies in our youth , that carry on to our future. If we don't get therapy, which I recommend for all people of color , because we suffer from.ptsd. we should get the help we need, heal.and then help others heal before we destroy our lives and the lives of others around us .
@@lariuswilliams9023 what ptsd do black people suffer exactly?
He took that hard slap because his last name is rock
@@CH4RLYG777 single mother households, our communities recovering from the crack epidemic in a time where half naked female, and gangster rapping men celebrities are idolized.
The black community is severely damaged
Being abuse, bullying or racism. I suffered PTSD growing up in the hood.
Chris handled the altercation with complete professionalism under live television. He wasn't in a situation where he could defend himself since he had to place the Academy's needs ahead of his own. He made light of the situation in an entertaining manner: "Greatest night in the history of television". Chris Rock proved himself to be a true professional while under significant distress. Bravo!
If Hollywood offered Jada the lead role in GI 2 you know she would you take it in a heartbeat. "Entanglements" is used to soften the reality of adultery.
Yup! She’d be all over that role!👊🏾💯
I added a few minutes ago that she should have hollered back at Chris that he should produce or direct it. The moment would have been funny, and they could have both secured that bag.
Kevin is apart of my sanity & grounding, contributing to fact that I’m not going crazy.
Yessir stay solid …… You are not Crazy my Brother.
Facts
JLP (Jesse Lee Peterson) and Larry Elder are also great guys who keep me grounded in this clown world of today.
A big part of my sanity is setting boundaries with everyone & everything. A man without boundaries end up self destructing one way or another. Remain independent and sovereign respect yourself love yourself and no one can harm you. Peace
Indeed
Will Smith did not go up there to defend his wife’s honor. He went up there to save what’s left of his manhood...
Huge difference.
With a sucker punch?
by fucking it up some more
And still has even less of it now...
Exactly he did this to get his masculinity back
That’s why he was smiling after he hit Chris rock, that dumb ass was actually proud of himself
I'm glad you hit on the narcissistic personality disorder. I know you can't say it outright, but any of us who have been through it can see what it is. When you hit on the daughter being more like friends/sisters with their mom with no parenting dynamic, that blew my mind. Because it hit 100% with how my narcissistic ex was with her mom. I never saw that as a red flag before, but there were PLENTY. I won't go into the heinous things she did and ways she'd try to emasculate me and constantly make me "prove" my love, but luckily I walked away before any babies were able to enter the equation.
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Good I’m sorry
Wow!!! You sound like my son and what he went through with his ex wife. My ex daughter in law is crazy!!! She abuses her own mother, physically, I don’t see what my son ever saw in her. I’m concerned about my granddaughter, because she sees how her mother verbally abused my son and verbally and physically abused her grandmother, what hope do I have that she won’t grow up and be just like her mother.
Praise God!
I wanted to point out the damage to Willow. That little girl should know nothing of her mother’s past like that. How confusing must it be to know your father cannot make your mother happy. What this shows me is that Jada is emotionally abusive to her children. Your children deserve to not know everything about you. That is truly disgusting.
Narcissist do that. She Makes everything about her and is always a “victim”
You're correct.
@Lisa Solier Thank you for addressing an urgent issue that has plagued so many black people...generational parental abuse. My heart goes out to his 2 children. The other son came from a better woman who cared more about her son's health and welfare. I can only imagine that Jada's mother had men in and out of her bed while she raised Jada.
Yep! I cringed when Jada did the RTT episode about sex and Willow was just at the table like a grown ass adult. Too much !
This is exactly why Willow said she wanted to be in a Throuple, which is living with or married to a man and woman. How wierd for a really young person to say but this comes from that little Jada whom I've never cared that much for. 😥
He actually opened the flood gate for every comedian to eat his ass up and every platform is analyzing their relationships as if it's their own
I never knew about Willow's letter. That is absolutely horrible. Will should have left Jada then.
I feel sorry for everyone who was/is impacted by a narcissist. No matter which gender, narcissists are destructive everywhere. A lot of women have to deal with men who have such traits, so for us, it's nothing new.
If I knew my husband was about to go on stage and do that I would have stopped him. Will’s legacy is being tarnished & overshadowed by the issues between him & Jada.
I’m so disappointed & I really feel bad for Chris Rock, he didn’t deserve that.
She doesn't care because secretly, Jada is jealous of Will 's accolades and accomplishments.
@@lhistoireenvideo5877 💯
A good woman would have completely stopped their husband or diffuse the situation. She didn’t do either. I’m sure she is jealous of him.
@@Fadeout815 She will let her husband engage in a battle that she is sure the husband will not survive from coz to her , her ego is more valuable than her husband's life.
I’m from Baltimore and a lot of men have lost their freedom and life behind defending a woman that was in the wrong and called a man and he is in a grave or behind bars for the rest of his life .
Exactly, they think they're fooling everyone talking about alopecia.
And now they're out there smashing other men. Could never be me.
Eye been saying EXACTLY this for YEARS now....
I'm from Highlandtown, and I agree brotha
Just Baltimore? Try planet Earth 😉
Kevin, I was one of those men who become whipped, perpetually trying to appease a controlling woman.
It’s humiliating when you pull into the garage and have to gather courage to face the hell that awaits inside your own home.
My kids needed an intact father and a better example so I found my balls, held my ground, and eventually needed to divorce to protect myself because she was going to destroy me if she couldn’t dominate me.
I should never have sacrificed my self respect nor adopted an appeasement strategy. Teach young men so that they don’t make my mistakes.
Brother that was me too. I wasn't alone
I was in your shoes, and had to do the same thing. I feel ya. Question. Was your divorce ugly? Because my ex did everything to make my life miserable.
@@rod_da_poet Very ugly divorce. I survived it because I recognized how she operated and prepared accordingly with the best attorney in town. How well did I know her? I warned my attorney by email that she would probably flood the house to prevent it's sale (she wanted it for herself). Guess what happened 4 days later?
It's the kids who suffer the most now. I got as much custody as possible for the sake of the kids.
I feel you right now I’m in the middle of a similar situation. I’ve step up for now but we have two children together. It’s sooo hard to separate and I’m stuck in this situation where I rather be single.
Jesus Christ loves you!
I'm sorry to hear about what that women did to you.
I found in the Bible that God lays out the Family home and how the Order is in His eyes.
Traditional living is biblical living, and any man can have that, just go to the Lord for it.
How?
Having your own personal relationship with Him. Talk to Him in private and start to live His way and call upon Him.
❤️💯
IDK how I didn't see this one Kevin, I apologize. Dated what I believe to be this type of women while you were doing your thing, and it indeed drove me nuts. Want you to know I'm still tuned into your content, it's been very insightful and also entertaining! Thank you for all the time you put in! RIP
Kevin once again has a point; tbh, Jada has that Jezebel spirit while Will has the spirit of Ahab
Ghurl, IKR! I’ve been sayin it.
This right here!! Hit it right on the nose!!
I’m so glad people finally see it , I saw that YEARS AGO!
I’m still trying to figure out what happened in Will’s first marriage because it was like he made an excuse that they wasn’t compatible or something, but I noticed he’s still close with his ex wife to this day
That's why we need to speak and act in the spirit of Jeremiah, the prophet of the Lord, and speak up against evil. Not just in this case, but evil in general. To see it for what it really is and rebuke it.
I actually respect Chris rock and the fact that he didn’t move off of his spot. He was caught off guard and Will had full intent to injure him. Chris took it and held back the jokes/ insults he had in his head. That’s maturity imo
He felt a serious azz whoopin comin on.......that's why he held his tongue.......🤣
@@mcole442 real talk, he wanted no smoke with Will 😂😂😂
@RFM Recordings he's soft, no way around it...U can clearly tell he wasn't bout that life.
Y’all calling him soft, but he was professional and didn’t react like an emotional girl. He will continue to be invited to get his bags, Will on the other hand needs to recreate his image.
It's different. Had Chris fought Will I guarantee you his public image would go down the drain as well but honestly he's a better man than me because I woulda went harder on Jada. My next comment woulda been, "I'll keep Jada's name out my mouth the second she takes other men out of hers".
I will be married to my wife for 20 years as of next month. One thing that I established with her early on was that there would be no arguments, disagreements or negative displays in public. We leave those things for private discussion. When we’re in public, we are one.
Exactly
I agree
I wrote a college essay on how I idealized Will Smith on his positive mindset, career and happy family. The struggles I see that he's exposing is what I experienced being nice and being codependent. Luckily, Im not married with no kids. No more. Thanks for this. Today we need to vet women
Will's happy family? Yeah on the outside perhaps but the reality is that family is a train wreck, you obviously didn't pay attention as a college student to the details, open marriage, transgender kids etc a recipe for disaster.
Your first mistake was idolizing another human being just like yourself.
I’m a woman, and I totally agree with you, John Jim.
Are you serious?
“Today”? Bidch, u
need to be discerning
who you allow into your
*family.* Is this news really?
Thank you godfather Kevin. I’m a young white man, but your the dad I needed growing up. Nobody invested much time in me and I had to learn lessons the hard way. This community is so welcoming. It’s my home
Jordan Peterson is another great man.
😊🤝
You know the saddest part about all this with Will at the Oscars? Samuel L Jackson won his first Oscar that night tooand nobody is talking about it.
That’s the problem with PRlDE of oneself. It overshadows all the interesting moments in a room because it wants to be special, or seen to be special.
That’s sad for Mr. Jackson.
What did he win the Oscar in? He’s definitely a hardworking actor.
It was the lifetime achievement award at that! Well deserved.
Thank you for sharing this!
Wow really I didn’t know that! Shout out to Samuel L Jackson! Wow
Dang I didn't even know Samuel l Jackson won an award
Sitting here crying.When someone speaks the truth from the heart you feel the pain if what men feel... Now when i look back at pictures of will his eyes are always so sad - troubled - yet hes always smiling putting on a 'good face' - he must be so tired.
Will is a defeated and emasculated man. Their relationship is hyper-toxic. What a nightmare of an evening.
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ sʜᴀʀɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜᴛs,ғᴏʀ ᴍᴏʀᴇ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʀᴀᴅɪɴɢ ɪᴅᴇᴀs,ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs...........
𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
±𝟏𝟔𝟎𝟔𝟑𝟓𝟐𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟕
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For protecting a black woman, his wife. After the second time of Chris Rock insulting Jada on national TV. Gotcha 👍🏿.
@@prettycoolmonk15 here we go
the sex must be miserable (will smith is Jerry from Rick and Morty in my eyes week and pathetic)
@@roninhubbard9059 you damn right
The narcissistic woman always compares you to someone irrelevant from her past, casually mentions the "success" of other men (which should be irrelevant), shares things that other people have supposedly said about you to plant seeds in your mind, always poses themselves as the victim even of their own decisions, attempts to grandstand and upstage you every chance they get, and gaslight about everything (professional liars).
Yes, it's remarkable how good they are at manipulating when you see it in action. Also, the way they compulsively lie is like drinking water to them.
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@@Tenrou2 Absolutely!!! Now add to that this pop culture, one size fits all television therapy and "life coaching" teaching narcissists to LOVE THEMSELVES EVEN MORE????? Really? lol. Meanwhile, that kind of therapeutic affirmation tool is ONLY meant for serious victims of actual abuse over extended periods of time. Insane. Literally training modern women to become narcissistic.
@@johnreyes7835 Yes, regular women are basically trying to emulate actual narcissists and see it as empowering. I think most are a lost cause, if I'm being honest
Unfortunately that's the majority of women out in the field nowadays
If Will would have smacked Chris over a joke about himself these same women would be talking about toxic masculinity
💯
Facts
It was a text book gender swap. The chick had the Man hair, while the Man did the Woman's slap.
Damn. You're 💯% right
Kevin himself is a manipulator. Where is his successful relationship?
Unfortunately, this is only learned the hard way. I've even allowed a narcissistic woman break my heart and she really could care less. Know your worth fellas and voice your boundaries and the issues that matter. It takes two to tango and don't tolerate any red flags or crap thrown your way. If ignored it only fills the black hole of an ego a narcissistic person has. It'll destroy you and take you away from your core being. Don't disrespect yourself that way.
Hopefully Will can realize this for himself bc what he did was embarrassing.
I was bullied as well, I’m 56 now. That doesn’t go away. Hurt people hurt people. It’s affected how I deal with female and male relationships.
It goes away if you fight the bully win,lose or draw…
@@jimmythemuscle9612 truth. But when you fight the bully, society claims the bully is the victim. Wash your hands of them. 😑
Yu just weak minded unfortunately. They win when you give in
Understand that I am female from a different generation, with Cuban parents who dressed me like a princess and sent me to a battleground inner city school.
@@colbalt95 no that’s the contrary, most of my bullies succumbed to the crack epidemic. I am successful because I knew who I was and where I came from. They just knew government assistance and survival
Jada could've stopped Will. she allowed him to do it and she didn't protect him
True also she must have seen will laughing first then curating his behaviour(for the worst later) that's also not a win as a couple
There’s a video of her laughing when will went to smack him and her laughing after Chris said Will smacked me. While Will is sitting down cursing the two of them show no eye contact is weird . She didn’t speak to him or stop him
She doesn't give a shit about him.
Honestly that act surprised lot of ppl. Only Will Smith knows what he was gonna do on stage
Respectable women don’t let their men act like this they do whatever they have to not to make the man embarrass himself due to anger cuz we know men get angry
G.I. Jane? A strong female lead overcoming adversity to become an elite warrior? As a combat vet, I can't picture Jaeda Pinkett Smith putting duty over self.
I don't know what Tiffany Haddish was talking about, I've never heard people use GI Jane to disrespect women.
@@SMD2x Those who will never find the strength within to rise above will always make noise to talk down those who try.
Exactly, I thought the joke was a compliment
G. I Jane joke still can't believe it 😂😂😂😂😂
@@SMD2x 💯!! Tiffany was on some garbage.
It’s a deeply tough process revealing and confronting all your childhood traumas publicly. It’s a much bigger clearing than we expect it to be like being retraumatized.
I just feel sorry for Will that he ruined his own big moment for someone who doesn’t appreciate his sacrifice, nor does she appreciate him. A moment he’s worked his entire career for. Running up on Chris was absolutely unnecessary and it’s probably going to have more repercussions than we know now.
Yes
Its needs to have severe repercussions, and maybe that will shake him out of his jada stupor.
Exactly! My wife and I talked about this the next morning. And she said exactly what you did. My thought was if he cared so much about protecting his wife? Then he did the wrong thing. That was the time to console her and show support. Touch her hand, lean over and kiss her on her bald head, say “I love you”. But what happened shows you the true dynamics of their relationship. Very dysfunctional, disrespectful and violent.
Will smith will be fine.
@@YounghomieSmith No he won't
All beauty is temporal, everyone eventually gets used to that beauty. A woman’s true value is in her mind and heart.
Facts
It’s on her willingness and ability to fulfill her role. That’s the main course.
That is her prime importance everything else is secondary to that!
" looks last a decade or two, cooking lasts a lifetime. " - an old adage.
I was in a relationship with a narcissistic women previously, and the similarities are uncanny. The triangulation, the manipulation of reality (gaslighting), the erosion of Will's self-worth and her refusal to take any accountability. I hope Will can find a great therapist who specialises in supporting survivors of narcissistic abuse.
Same here. Your comment is 100% on point: The similarities are uncanny. Jada Pinkett is a mentally VERY abusive woman. Will Smith is the victim in this marriage. She's playing nacissistic "mind games" day and night ... this guy is completely mentally screwed ... and him losing it at the Oscar's is the result of that.
@@itsHappening-ry2ef being alone isn't the same as lonely. Will is with her and he's out here putting his fortune at risk to defend a jezebel. Sad
@@itsHappening-ry2ef It depends on the company. If you are not in good company when you are alone then you have a serious psychological problem. The best company you can ever have is yourself.
Whew I feel you my brother I almost married one of those types. Got out with a little of sanity left. I'm currently in therapy because of it
@@itsHappening-ry2ef lol and your husband is miserable
Thank you Kevin, for opening our eyes, ears, and 💕
He wil be mist but his work will help us for ever may he rest in power
Wow Chris' monologue in the beginning. I felt my heart hurt even more for him. I am so proud of how he carried himself. But even more insightful is that what Will did literally could've retriggered Chris' childhood trauma. Strength is really in restraint, not in compulsion.
Absolutely !
Facts 🗣
I thought that Will Smith embarrassed himself. He is a very highly educated man and surely should have been able to understand the context within which the joke was made. Besides which, GI Jane is a strong, beautiful woman - where's the insult in that?!!
Damn that’s really enlightening Tash. . . . Good stuff
@@ianjustin4389 Yup not a insult at all😳, actually would’ve been dope to bring back GI Jane! 🤷🏽♂️
I promise you, if Will and Jada ignored CR's GI Jane joke nobody would have remembered it. That joke had a very short shelf-life.
frankly the most offensive part of that joke was the implication that she could act well enough to carry a Hollywood movie.
It's not even a bad joke. How can you be mad with someone saying you are potentially grooming yourself secretly to earn 300million dollars. It's like me getting mad at being likened to Super Man just because I have muscular inflammation or something.
Nobody would have even heard it.
@@tomite2001 No, it would be the same as if you were a paraplegic and someone made a joke about you being in the running for Superman. Then as you did, one could ignore the subtext making fun of your similar situation to Christopher Reeve and act like it's a compliment that you could be the next Superman. Not defending either side, just making the correct comparison for your statement.
Yu are right, there was no need for this.
Damn that Willow letter is WILD. I can’t imagine if, as a dad, I saw my daughter write that about another man. This runs deep. It was so funny to see people make the argument that this was about some hair loss condition joke. This shit goes so deep, James Cameron couldn’t get down there (props if you get that joke/reference 😁)
That’s the same thing I said, I can’t imagine my daughter writing a letter like that to a dead man, I’d really have to leave that marriage because that means my wife has already corrupted my daughter. I would have to leave
The Abyss…..😵💫👊💯
That letter situation got me really sad for Will! 😮 so Jada was talking to her kids about her ex who died! This is wrong of her, I feel for will
“So my mommy and I can be happy” what???? And her dad is there 😫 😢
@@jamalhaleemtucker8425 I wonder y he didn’t leave her! And for him to be saying I wish I was like pac to her!! What??? he spent the whole time trying to please her when everybody else would give the world to have her Will!!
@@jamalhaleemtucker8425 Alot of these new age women have done this to their daughters
Its not a new thing it's just not spoken much
These women who think they settled for less
When in fact it was the man who lowered his value
That man could live a decent happy life
Lmao. “ I NEED TO KNOW TO WILL”. Lmao. Kevin’s funny and brilliant. God bless Kevin’s soul.
Will's first wife must be shaking her head, and laughing her ass off.
I started following his UA-cam account a couple months ago. There's gems on there such as "I'm crying again." No woman on earth wants her man to be crying in public always emoting n shit. Jada may be the devil but this is ALL Will's fault
@@Charlie_Alpha_Lima When PEOPLE don't address their issues from childhood, EVERYONE will suffer!!
I agree with Kevin, we must get PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HELP!!!
Maybe , she is . He’s still got his $300 mill. She’s still his Ex… Stay current.
@@thepeoplesprincipaltpp8776 300 mill means NOTHING if you don't have SANITY and PEACE.
@@joijoi888
True. Robin Williams and Anthony Bourdain had money but not peace. We see what happened to them.
It is better to live in the DESERT, than with a brawling unfaithful woman in a big house.
Gather you're WILL-power and leave her!!!!!
It is written and so it shall be!!!!
That's not exactly what the scripture says but you get the general idea.
"A Narcissit can do with a glance, what a novelist can't even do with words." Damn Kevin that was good lmao , that arrow flew true and straight into my heart when you said that one.
Bruh!!!
I’m going to be honest and say that I don’t understand. Please may you help me by explaining what that means. Thank you in advance.
@@VINOCHILEZI When a negative person has conditioned someone over time- to jump when they say jump, soon enough all the narcissist has to do is begin to speak, and their victim will be in mid air already. Without having to read a single command.
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Thank you for reiterating that a woman does not understand how men perceive other men, and that they do not understand male violence. I would argue that the more heinous violence between men is likely caused by a woman as opposed to a dispute between two men.
📱ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝🧬
✚▫️𝟏𝟓𝟔𝟏𝟕𝟓𝟗𝟐𝟓𝟗𝟖✉✔
ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ◦◦◦◦....
That’s why I’m divorced, my 12 year old son told me last year, Dad I see why your not married. He told me so many women are confused and confrontational. He sees how peaceful my life is, how happy I am and why I’ll never remarry. He’s starting to figure it out.
Dammm at 12?
That's a shame
sad
Amen to that! I’m in that same yacht!
Dammm.........💯✌️
I feel so bad for people that want to be accepted by people that don’t like them.
Exactly
damn but true
Very true, I used to feel like this but I’m slowly learning to let those people go
That shit is called insanity lol
Deep.
Narcissism is so commonplace today, especially in the black community, it is daunting! RIP brother. Blessings
Will Smith said about Tupac: "I hated that I wasn't what he was in the world, and I suffered a raging Jealousy. I wanted Jada to look at me like that"... Why not find a woman who DOES look at you like that! To many women Will would the apple of their eye, a capable and dynamic man that's extremely attractive that makes them feel something in side. Why try to get a woman who doesn't see you like that to see you like that?
Exactly
My entire point!
It's too late, they're trauma bonded because of her chaotic behavior
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Love or infatuation or whatever Will has for Jada is not rational. It doesnt matter there are 1000s or even millions of women who can do that for Will. He wants JADA to look at him like that. Not anyone else. This can be fixed but in order to fix a problem Will has to realize that she is a problem.
That letter is heart breaking to see your daughter writing about someone she’s never met.
She purposely teaches his own daughter about Tupac that is insulting and disrespectful
Will accepted all the bullshit
@@Stayhappylifestyle that's why he is going through what he's going through inside of him counting his losses and move on. she's a narcissistic woman and he's so far gone he is mentally on trigger.. trying to find some type of masculinity back.
Noone could ruin Will's reputation so Jada set him up starting with red table to help him ruin himself. She never deserved him 😔Will should have stayed with his 1st wife. She truly respected him.
Jada must have asked the most powerful witches in Romania to put a spell on him because even in his acceptance speech he looked like he was in a trance..... Chris rock looks and acts normal
That’s wtf I’m saying. Everyone is so focused on Will Will Will. Yet when you watch the replay, it’s clear as day who’s spite and vindictiveness was fueling 90% of that slip.
Hint: It wasn’t Will’s
I believe Jada is trying to get him primed for a divorce so she can come up.
I somewhat agree with you, I don’t think she purposefully trying to ruin him, it’s just how these modern women are built. Which is Basically to “Only Worry about themselves” at all cost without thought for anything or anyone else!!! That kind of Woman is a Man Killer! That’s why Men have to be Dominant Alpha Males to survive that type of Woman.
@@kingwillie206 yep and I hear there's no prenup...
Found you too late in my life. You were a national treasure. RIP, good sir.
Nor did he stick around long enough for more men to find out about him. 10/31/2022
“What if this was Sharia Law?”🤓
I had an idea about Will actually trying his hardest to make Jada notice, but I had no idea it was this bad.
Willows' letter, Will living in a deceased Tupac shadow still, him as a 9 year old seeing domestic abuse between his parents...it just adds up to what we commonly know. And also Chris Rock's past, being bullied and abused.
It's shocking how people, especially allot of women, don't see what influence women can have on a man. That is a certain power over somebody's mind, if abused, can break a person
Boo fu++ing hoo. We ALL deal with crap, and somehow, most of us refrain from simpdom, violence, and narcissism. Make no mistake, anyone who walks that red carpet suffers from some level of narcissism. It's in their DNA. It's why they are in Hollywood in the first place.
Exactly...I've mentioned this before. To troubled pasts fell right in line that particular night.
A lot of women do realise it's damaging to others they do not care, hence they take advantage of it as there's no real consequences for that behaviour and it's hard to prove it openly.
The consistent bias in divorce court actions for women settlements and instantly taking the side of women in allegations even when they caught twisting things and no harsh consequences is more proof. It is a compound result of the behaviour you mention.
People tend to act right when they realise there's consequences directly on them, which is hardly the case for women. Either no consequences or hardly anything. So no reason for them to change as they benefit. However long term it backfires when children grow up realising what was told to them by mum was either lies or twisted half truths.
Take away the benefits of settlements and believe women instantly, likely see a lot of misbehaving women behave and change very quickly when they know they will be eating rats and rice and worse because of their actions.
We know. A woman worth having keeps it in mind and protects it.
That’s why I won’t ever let a woman get that close to me.
You topped it when you said... "not even Carlton has these problems!"🤣
Genius Kevin... Genius!🎯
“He over there enjoying his BOILED chicken “ 🤣
its sad to say that but its true
@@Jay.isaiah joke is old.
@@whywhywhywhy7559 it was funny…Don’t ruin a good time.
"...little d nrg, average pay..." = my new pick up line & dating app profile! weed out the diggers off rip
Kevin saved me from getting with a girl just like this. I'm pulling 130k at 33 and cannot believe I thought it was 'manly' to compromise on some of these things.
Build build build.. vet every single woman and you literally might need to travel. Build a home in a rural area that values family
Maaaannnn, if only Kevin was around in my 20's.
@@AaronMitchell ☝I'd be retired already
Dont be a beta bucks. If you cant get them broke, it just means theyre using now lol
Congratulations brother. Glad u dodged that.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
_Tappin' in from South Central LA_
This has been the best breakdown of this situation to date.
Rest easy KS. You are appreciated.
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That letter from willow to Tupac hit me. I would rather die single and childless than to be with a woman that’s longing for another man
True that is just to painful
Facts. Betrayal by your own seed. Gotta hurt BAD
Period, you can't compete with a ghost, I learned that the hard way.
Super on point. I’m embarrassed about what I’ve allowed women in my life to do, thinking I didn’t deserve better.
Some women are on this channel now because they’re embarrassed about how they’ve behaved as well. Reflecting on Kevin’s message truly feels like atoning/repenting and narrowly avoiding a life sentence.
you are in good company, a lot of good men share that story.
We’ve all been there in the past, stay strong 💪🏾
Tell me about it man.
I've been saying this about Will and Jada for years, so I'm not at all surprised about anything that has transpired with this couple. She is toxic and has broken Will all the way down. I also find it disturbing that people gloss over the fact that she had an affair with her son's friend. Jaden brought August into their home. Can you imagine how disgusted people would be with Will if he had had an affair with one of Willow's friends that she brought into the home? It's bad enough that she had an affair and had no remorse about it, but the fact that it was with her son's friend takes it down to another low. Also, I hate that Will chose that moment to try to prove that he can be as tough as Tupac. Sad and disgraceful.
Nikki: Totally agree.
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I think the majority of people glossing over are women! Men finally have a platform and voice look at how they are constantly attacked fir speaking truth. No its not all women but a critical majority.
@@jarvisaddison8560 As a woman, I find that so disappointing. During the whole entanglement thing, I was shocked that so many women actually supported and celebrated her for that.
August was also physically and mentally ill. Jada is sick and a predator
I had a good childhood but the thing I learned early that really helped me. Was once I got over the fear of getting beat up or bullied and to stand up no matter what. No one bothered me.
Will Smith is a coward. He’s right. him being small and unable to do anything when he was a kid didn’t make him a coward. Him being controlled confusingly by a woman is where he’s being a coward
When the whole world is saying something about a person… it’s time to wake up.
It’s because he’s a good man and a gentleman and been fed this modern BS. He just needs to heal.
@@darrellphy7128 he needs understand that his wife and himself are helping to destroy his legacy. And I don’t think his wife cares too much about his legacy. It appears she wants to be the biggest star in the house at her husband’s detriment.
I feel so bad for Chris Rock. All the abuse he’s gone through yet he’s so genuine and down to earth. What happened to him at the Oscar’s was downright evil. Will smith deserves all the humiliation his wife is putting him through.
I’m so sick of people saying “he was defending his wife’s honor”.
HIS WIFE DOESNT HAVE ANY HONOR!!!!!! SHES A HOLLYWOOD ENTANGLER
AMEN
She didn’t deserve for him to protect her feelings she’s garbage
I was hoping for Bad Boys FL part 2, now not so much
Yup made me laugh hearing people come with that defending her honor BS. The women has no respect for herself or her husband. He has been driven mad by her public humiliation of him that's all. Also if you have an open so called marriage, be discreet for crying out loud.
She belongs to the streets.
I agree. You have it completely right! Will is being abused by his wife and scared of her. My mom is a narcissist and I have been a afraid of her all my life and I tired my best. I finally decided to move on and protect my son. We are both doing better.
Good for you and your son.
@@reeanne8843 right. To *her* .
Funny how he ain’t nice to
*you* , his daughter 🙄
I recently learnt that 1 in every 5 persons is a narcissist or have narcissistic tendencies, as soon as I spot any kind of manipulative tendencies in any one I call them out on it immediately I honestly hate manipulation.
I'm glad I came across your comment because I honeslty believe it too that there are way more narcissists than people think. I actually agree it is 1/5
Big respects ✊ to the OG’s like “Kareem” and “Jim Carrey” for not condoning this behavior.
Jim spoke facts. Will is lucky Chris isn’t suing.
'Fun girls' don't necessarily make good wives. In my experience, they tended to be flighty and impulsive. Good girls make good wives as they tend toward modesty, prudence, and stability. The nice girl some of us fronted on back in high school is the one you take to meet your family and friends. Too Short spit game on that topic well over 20+ years ago. I can't judge anyone, since from personal experience, I learned quickly the distinction between the two. I expressed no desire for commitment with fun girls upfront, but I would consider good girls for relationships. The distinction between types was crystal clear after a few minutes of conversation. Admittedly, I met my wife with bad intentions (she was looking fine and built) since I wasn't meeting any women I could take seriously; however, her bearing, articulate nature, and positive disposition turned my lust into intrigue. Now, we're going on 23 years of marriage.
Wise words.
Baltimore women mentality.
@Big Stacks -You are 100% correct. Luckily, I had an uncle whom taught me this at a very young age. The problem is in the black community, not too many pass down this priceless advice and some are informed but choose to ignore.
@@freesparks1931 Right, my pop (RIP) taught me to be discerning when it came to women. Plus, my mom (RIP) was a modest, conservative woman so I had a template for wifely attributes. In fact, I was shocked when I saw my mom dance for the first time, doing 'The Twist' while cooking when it came on the radio (she cut quite a rug too). 😁😁😁 I think a lot of the wild stuff is learned vicariously by seeing such behavior growing up. Plus, my generation (Gen X) was less sexual than this current generation. For instance, getting a kiss was an accomplishment for us whereas getting some he*d is common now, so I hear. Back in my day, being a fun girl wasn't reinforced as much as it is now. Very few girls got pregnant in high school back then as well, so norms in that regard were a bit stricter. In essence, fun girls were easier to distinguish from more proper girls back when I was single.
Here's where the issue lies though. And this goes from men and women.
People end up creating the problem they don't want.
Fun Girls do not make good wives but wives pay dearly when husbands go and cheat with these fun girls.
To a wife and husband who is a good man or a good woman, when they get cheated on for a thug or a fun girl, they feel they either have to become that for their partner to want them or they end up leaving or becoming bitter or destructive... Like Will.
By people taking advantage of good men and women, they ended up creating a very thing that endangers good men and women.
The more that comes out about Chris Rock's past the worse this situation gets. Not only has Chris been bullied through out his life but he is terrified to fight back because he almost killed somebody. He damned if you do damned if you don't his mind. That's a horrible space to be in.
Facts I’m praying for them both
Life.
No excuse. He is grown.
@@vanderumd11 no excuse for what?
@@bobbybigfellow8516 being "scared" to defend yourself
Kevin, you are an intellectual individual to be able to break down of the one common traits of selfish beings in today's society. It still baffles me to see how modern woman have sabotaged their partners for themselves to be in the spotlight. I'm fortunate that my mother has shaped me to respect my partner, and to hear your intake, it has definitely polished the knowledge I've learned as a child. I pray for you to continue your impact on modern times to be better.
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I bet I was one of the first people that recognized Jada as a narcissist. I couldn’t believe how many people (women especially) was applauding Jada’s actions in the beginning.
People don't know about Narsism
There are millions but our voices are shut down
they are still clapping for her
what boggles my mind is how many still applaud her behavior.
Nah... you'd probably loose that bet. Anyone with a smidgen of observational skills could see that from a mile away 💯
All this situation has taught me is that women don't understand what it is to operate and navigate in the world as a man AT ALL.
You should’ve already known.
You're kind of far behind, in a few decades you're going to realize they don't care that much about men and that's why you came to the conclusion you came to today. when you dig deeper you'll figure it out.
So many gems in this episode that relate to me and why I left my wife yesterday. You can’t lead someone that doesn’t want to be led and I refuse to turn into Will and Kanye because I married someone that drove me crazy. It’s sad that a person would rather choose chaos to soothe their ego rather than follow her husband who follows God and enjoy a life of stability. But this community and message opened my eyes and helped me connect more with God. Thank you KS for your message to men. More of us are waking up and now I’m ready to sell out to femininity.
My ex told me "peace" is boring...it's so sad they miss the "joy" in simple things...they are miserable and want you to feel their pain always
Sorry you going thru that but I’m happy for you for choosing your peace of mind & learning from the mistakes of others.
God bless you brother...Similar situation for me and I had to leave to maintain my peace. KS is on point and waking up men and women alike...
Good luck & God speed brother....
I'm a woman and I commend you for choosing you, your peace, and peace of mind over other people. Misplaced loyalty keeps so many of us stuck in bondage to unhealthy situations.
You are a blessing and an asset to black men Kevin. Thank you for all you do! I'm a little older than you. Your analysis has shown me the weak points and holes in my life. Your blunt honesty is refreshing. I still am striving to be my best personally, physically, and financially. I am very particular about women I get involve with. Right now I'm just focusing on improving me! Then I will vett women in my life.
Wish more gentlemen did this, instead of settling for not being lonely. Each of us, deserve the best person we can get, in our lives.
All men
This how you know Kevin is a real one. He understands the value of an average woman who just wants to bring a man peace.
The only value in a woman is to bring a man peace? Why aren't men responsible for their own peace?
@@blogintonblakley2708 That isnt even close to what I said you big dummy. Learn to read