The Reality of OnlyFans.
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The most awful thing about Only Fans is the social environment that tells young women that this kid of exhibitionism is totally OK because it makes money.
@Nate how much money have you given to girls who don’t know your name?
It's basically selling women on the notion that being a prostitute is both a respectable profession and empowering.
It's self abasement and degredation.
That's Capitalism for you. This is what y'all wanted, right? What you think the Women weren't going to figure out they hold all the cards?
@Violent , Is that why all these men want to become "women"?
I couldn't care less about anyone who does Only Fans, I don't feel bad about people who lack the forethought enough to think about the possible long term consequences of their actions. They are adults that made an adult decision and have to live with the consequences.
The internet is forever. These girls need to learn this. The Internet doesn't care about future regrets
@Peter Harold Janak Jr eventually all humanity and knowledge will prolly be sent to space through ai and robots
yep that's why you need to make the right decisions growing up, respect yourself don't do only fans for quick money, or do it and not bitch how it effected your life.
The internet loves regrets.. will try to attack you to hurt you as much as possible.
*everyone needs to learn this. Not just girls.
@@StarSpangledShimmer but more girls are on the Internet for clout than men🤔
It is so refreshing to see a young girl who knows she made a mistake and takes responsibility for it. Not only she knows she made a mistake but she also is telling her story so other young girls don't make that mistake.
women ☕
@@rgw5991 incels☕
There is a saying that goes like "the money runs out, but the shame will remain".
It's so great to see a beautiful and smart woman that not only understands that, but also uses her intelligence to fight all that crap and educate others, all while being funny, straight to the point and just gorgeous. Thanks Brett, just seeing you doing this is enough to reinstill hope in humanity. Keep up the good work!
The shame is only because you all chose to relentlessly harass women who do it. The shame is socially constructed, it’s not natural. Before feral men completely policed women’s sexuality women wore loin cloths and danced around fires and were respected for being in touch with their sexuality. After being the goodie-Christian woman through my 20s I know men refuse to respect any woman in any context, including their modest wives. I respect these women for understanding that money will give them the lives they want while men still expect everything from them and still leave them broke. You all could do better but you won’t because you’d rather shame women than hold men accountable for anything 🤷🏻♀️
You think they care about shame? Their entire mindset is about not caring what others think and the people who don't accept them are insecure and jealous to see their success from OF
@@zeusx6479 they don't care now, but they will eventually. That's the point.
@zeusx6479 Exactly. Shame is no longer the invisible force that has power over us while men monopolize resources and harvest our sxuality for free all while keeping us compliant and subservient. It's our turn to be shameless with our bodies and powerful with our money.
@OssusLabs No we won't. We will take the money and live better than you can. You will always know Noone wants to touch you or would pay to see your body and you will always know you can't afford to touch us in real life. You all are ashamed of your addiction to us. But
we aren't ashamed of doing MUCH better than you and getting paid for it. Oh, and we have no shortage of wealthy men who want us. Your shame is a delusion of thinking you have power over us cause you're nothing without feeling like you having something over us. YOU DONT :)
Today Being an onlyfans creator is celebrated as empowering whilst being a stay at home mother is shamed as being oppressed.
Whether they like it or not i am NOT leaving my future kids at the mercy of social media.
Even if it means being a stay at home mom. (I actually want that)
Only by some
Only on the internet
@@nikemaraje5agree
I’m a stay at home mom and you should see the looks I get from people 😮
It's digital prostitution.
Yes finally someone said it
duh only simps say they aint
And people want her digits.
There is an enourmous void between pornography and prostitution
@@yagordz1064 Not really. Porn is just filmed prostitution.
one day i ate lunch with a friend of mine and his sister, the onlyfans subject came up and she kept talking about how empowering and "okay" it was, showing me some of the girls she wanted to be like, i straight up told her i would never want my hypotethical daughter to get an onlyfans because of the social consequences that could cause, because of the lack of alternative work possibilities that would close up, and last but not least the difficulty to find a serious long term relationships, long story short she answered it's people's fault if that happens and in an healthy society she should be able to do onlyfans and create porn content without it causing her any problem.. i just ended it there..
She should be able too sure, in a theoretical perfect world. And thats where she's just rejecting the reality of what the world actually is. And that an onlyfans past has a very high likely hood of catching up with you whether it theoretically should or shouldn't. People are so detached from reality these days mostly due to their entitlements. The world is always going to be a cruel place, and it just needs to be accepted so you can live accordingly to protect yourself. It dosen't mean you can't strive for things to be better. But the reality of the current day needs to be acknowledged as it will rage on regardless and swallow you up if you don't protect yourself from it. She will unfortunately learn when it's far too late. Social media has already corrupted her.
@@braddorcas9363 exactly. Just a couple weeks ago i met a family friend, a very smart 60 yo engineer, he started talking about religion (he's a very religious man) and the OF matter came up after about 30 minutes of discussion, and despite not knowing much about it he figured the matter out in a very precise way, telling me that society nowadays is creating new generations of young people attached to a wrong concept of "freedom". Taking the example of young women wanting to start an OF, they do it because they feel like they have the freedom to do that, they see creating an OF as a form of freedom to show themselves that they can do whatever they want, they see it as a form of empowerment and progression in society without being able to see the actual damage that they're doing to themselves, and also to the society itself, because it all ends up creating depressed and lonely women + a mass of incel men that pay to see their content. In his religious way of seeing things he just called it "the devil" that can't be seen but is working behind the scenes, manifesting himself in greed, wanting at all costs the latest luxury brand purse and social media.
It’s not even other people at “fault”…her own mental health if she has any will go down the drain. Adult entertainers suffer from all kinds of addictions and mental issues for a reason.
I hate the notion of it being empowering too. Men use these actresses as a quick way to fulfill their needs and that’s what OF chicks consider empowering? 😭
I worked in the industry once. Not as a p-star but behind the scenes tech guy. Its a discusting world. Nobody respected my wedding ring and my disire to stay through to my wife. The kind of discusting suggestions you get from coworkers while visible wearing your wedding ring is just onbelieveble. I am glad I left that sick world and now do honest work
No offense, but you chose to work in that field. What did you expect?
@@WheelEstate Nothing I was young and needed to learn. well I did learn
@@marcelsgroot Fair enough
This is some 11 yo kid
I am a woman in her 60's .. I remember the 'women's movement' at it's very beginnings. I am disgusted by what it has taught the women of today. From believing their bodies are simply something to hand out to the world, whether in 'real life' or 'digital'. The goal, I was told, was to learn how to 'respect' yourself, and develop your own sense of worth. It appears instead, we have had several generations of women who are intolerant of men, accept ZERO responsibility for their children, and have ZERO respect for themselves. When are women going to see this? Sad
Emma snow, can we respect this woman and her stories. Please learn some respect.
Yawn.
That messaging was from the corporate wing of "feminism." (ie: not feminism)
Old school womens rights advocates are not responsible for these attitudes.
@@Gingerblaze your no-true-scotsman fallacy is invalid.
and to the yawners, your sociopathic symptoms are on display.
seriously, that's on the clinical diagnostic symptoms list :
Impairments in interpersonal functioning:
1: Lack of concern for feelings, needs, or suffering of others.
As a woman in her 40’s I feel very much the same. It was something I ALWAYS wrestled with when younger because it was ENCOURAGED by the adult females in my life. It has done the opposite of respect either sex.
I went to a private school and teachers would tell us almost everyday to be very very careful with what we post because of future employers. No bikini photos, revealing clothes, smoking / drinking, don’t share controversial opinions etc.
We had multiple lessons about this topic. That was in 2016. It’s so shocking to see what teens are posting nowadays my first thought is always “what if your future employer sees this?”.
People really don’t give a fuck anymore lol
yep almost like they were teaching you responsibility and personal accountability.
Bikini could be modest (some models) and if it is from distance it could be ok (in my opinion). Besides that I absolutely agree.
Your teachers are gold for saying this.
To not reveal where you live, study, your full name is also great idea.
@@myentertainment55 More like if the subject or reason for the photo isn't you in a bikini
Yep, thats has been imbedded in kids in Ireland where I am from. Even my mom in all her experiences in life has said what you just said.
People share their entire lives on TikTok.
The wisdom, the critical thinking, the self-reflection, the analysis--from both of these women---is such a breath of fresh air in this day & age.
As an Gen X, with absolutely zero digital fotprint online, it´s scary to watch the younger generation display absolutely zero integrity regarding themselves.,
Kills me how the world tries to make ONLYFANS seem like something positive...... imagine a little girl saying when she grows up she wants to do onlyfans 🙄🤦🤦
If an adult site is locked behind a paywall then it is ok because minors can't access it. You're just virtue-signaling which is extremely detrimental to a healthy society.
@@BigRodd91 You wish. Also, most of it leaks anyway so it's free.
The old mechanics of the porn industry were that it and its audience didn't care for you. People would burn out and being able to generate a stable, ongoing income was crazy rare. You were for consumption. After the wave of novelty, appetite often diminished and you were left with social/psychological costs. For a lot of women, onlyfans has probably identical dynamics. But IF you succeed, it's through cultivating a long-term audience. If you convince 1000 men to stay with you for a year, are you really doing them a favor? Are you doing a favor to women who encounter men whose appetites and expectations are shaped via pornography? Unless you think your content is some form of therapy, it comes with the cost of enabling human weakness and preying on a flaw in human psychology. If you sell someone a wheelbarrow, they can do stuff with it. You've perhaps added value to their life. If you make 100K at the cost of indulging frailty, then you risk being something akin to a parasite.
If you take the promise of being empowered and in control at face value, then you get to move from powerless victim to having the agency necessary for being to blame. You either have to view being in control as an illusion or accept that you're a pusher in something warping society. Yay!? If you were in banking and made money by making your customers' lives worse, the left would regard you as absolutely morally repulsive. If your customer was at a disadvantage, it would be seen as predatory. The sentiment is conveyed in a song by A Silver Mt. Zion: "It's nobler to never get paid, than to bank on ...dismay" (I may have cleaned up the lyrics a smidge to avoid youtube telling me to be polite).
(sorry about the essay length content).
I would never date a woman with one. I would look down upon any dude that would.
@@BigRodd91 start living in reality...
I like that someone is owning up to their mistakes instead of playing the blame game.
Yup, it gives me hope in this generation
sadly so rare nowadays :/
Gimme
It should also be noted that when you sign up for only fans, you sign up under somebody's code, and they will make profit off of all of your profit. So underlying all of this is a little bit of a pyramid scheme. So people who are big on the platform want to normalize the platform because if people sign up under their code they won't have to work as much and still make profit. It happened with Trisha Paytas. The girl she signed up under didn't have to make any contact and was making like thousands of dollars a month like a livable salary and Trish had no idea. So there are ulterior motives.
@@brookehenderson5762 w h o a s k e d
Brett’s commitment against portraying nudity is why I will more or less guarantee I will watch and probably support every project she films. Mad respect.
Ok.
I have only recently stumbled upon The Comments Section, Brett and I am just blown away by how wholesome and realistic you are. Amid the relentless deluge of mindless anger and hate that seems to be boiling out of western society's every pore, it's so refreshing to see a young person with perspective and common sense.
This is actual women empowerment. Learning from mistakes and teaching others while not victimizing yourself for your own actions but taking accountability and sharing the lessons you’ve learned. Good on you!
This is a bold statement. So much truth to it. When we speak out our flaws and flesh desires to the Lord, he brings light to what was done in darkness which in turn cleanses us of our weakness and convicts us further. Whether you are a Jesus follower or not, this conflict is definitely spiritual.
Yes I have a lot of respect that she is using this to reach out or teach others. It is accountability and compassion.
@@Harleytrigger Man, you bring too much Jesus to this statement. But I agree with you
@@sodapop6891 no such thing as too much Jesus! He died for me so I live for Him! Give Him a chance, you’ll never regret knowing Jesus Christ!
@@Harleytrigger I respect your opinion, but you should maintain your life and behaviour according to general morals and values
Onlyfans is more of a symptom of the disease of societal decay, not the cause.
And symptoms develop into the cause of other problems
Simps are a symptom too
@@elizabethhh2460 easy way to not have the problems is not do things LIKE OnlyFans; I. E. Porn and promiscuity in general.
it’s both
@@lostallmymoney2082 Definitely, but if our society didn't normalize things like this, there would be less people on these sites
Great video! Definitely something worth watching when you want to dip your toes into the water of ANY social media platform. I feel like ALL social media has been sexualized through time putting a bad name to that platform (OnlyFans, Instagram, UA-cam, Twitter). Honestly, when it comes to "marketing" yourself, it all depends on how YOU want society to portray you, whether it be now or later in the future. Like both these young women said in this video.... If you go the route of "exposing" intimate parts of yourself, you have to be able to handle the consequences. The problem with people in this age is they dont want to hold themselves accountable for choices THEY made that turned sour.
Keep up the great work my dear!
I spent most of August in Miami , and learned that it’s the Onlyfans capitol of the world . I met a few “Onlyfans Models “ and it simply doesn’t sit well with my soul very well , because I am deeply concerned for their spiritual , mental , and emotional wellbeing . 🙏 I am deeply intuitive , and I can sense when people are saying they love something when they might not be telling the whole story . Some talk is only done at a superficial level . The idea of only doing something for money alone concerns me . Women need to realize that they deserve complete freedom and happiness ON ALL LEVELS .
Brett, I don't know if you'll ever read this, but seriously thank you so much for all the content you do. I'm 18 years old and in Public school and I am very alone because I am the only girl who thinks like this and advocates for even mild conservatism. Please keep going, this is actually reaching people, I promise.
very true. i’m an 18 year old girl too (graduated) and it’s awesome to see someone like me
So true I’m still in school and Brett and the daily wire was my door opener to the moderate right Based
Youre not alone although it may seem that way. This current culture is sick and dying. Its literally in its final days. Itll be replaced with something better.
Good luck
Your quality of life will be far better than people around in the long run.
Something that my sister told when I was learning to drive. "Smart people learn from their mistakes. Really smart people learn from other people's mistakes. " We should learn what this girl is trying to tell us. Thanks
It’s an old saying, but she messed it up. The saying goes, “A smart person learns from their own mistakes. A wise person learns from the mistakes of others.”
Everyone makes mistakes on the daily. "learning from mistakes" won't stop you from making new ones.
The way it was quoted to me was "The wise man learns from other's mistakes, the fool seldom from his own."
Smart sister you have there. This is why family is so important. It doesn't take a village. It takes a family. Villages don't give a damn about you.
Your sister sounds smart. Is she hot?
Seriously mad respect to this lady for changing her life and taking a different route. I’m a 30 year old professional married woman and I can guarantee that I’ve made a ton of mistakes. Difference is that it’s not recorded online. Eventually the online world will tone down because so so many people are making mistakes like her and re doing their lives. We need to show mercy and give space for people to move forward, especially young ladies and young men! You go girl!! ❤
Mad respect from a lot of women on here, but that helps zero because there will be no respect from any quality man for pretty much the rest of her life.
@@chrishorn3661just like the criminals in jail
So proud of her for speaking out! She’s a trailblazer! I’ll be praying that God will honor her courage with true happiness and everything she needs to succeed in life. 🙏🏽
Porn has always been a major detriment to society.
Nah not so much in the eighties.
It is scary now.
People don’t think we should control female sexuality. But I honestly think we need to control everybody’s sexuality. It’s good for the individual (physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally) and it’s good for society.
@@AutomaticDuck300 wtf does this even mean?
Yes. ALWAYS.
@@WetBet I mean we need to encourage people to control their own sexuality and not be hedonistic constantly. Just because it feels good, it doesn’t mean you should do it.
I like how you're telling younger women that it's okay to say "No." I think that's the problem that young women are facing these days is that they don't understand that they can say "No." No amount of fame or fortune is worth that level of compromise.
I guess I don't understand where they would have gotten the idea that they can't say no... the ideas of boundaries and consent are more prominent now than ever before, and historically women often said no to degrading things, so why would girls now not understand that they can say no in a climate that literally affirms their autonomy to make their own decisions all the time? I'm not convinced that the issue is that girls don't understand that they can say no... I think the issue is that they've been told that nothing is degrading and it is all empowering - it is cultural; it is not an issue of not knowing they can say no (aside from ppl who came out of abusive situations where they weren't taught to set boundaries).
OnlyFans is the new vaping
brett knows how to guide people, I remember back in December when she was talking about p0r n hub, and the strange anual statistics, that was a subject almost cancelled in 2019 when the site made the statistics, and no one on UA-cam had ever made a conversation about this topic, Brett was the first one and I really believed people were not going to like it but she generated a healthy conversation in the comment section were all men agreed they had a mental obsession and they had to stop it
No the problem young women have these days is the fact they are all immoral whores selling their souls and dignity for fame and wealth, it’s a character issue not a societal issue.
It's not just onlyfans but everything in society today and that includes the alphabet group. Are there issues out there, yes but there is also help if you just look.
That girl has my utmost respect and prayers for her standing up for the truth and just everything she said is so true I pray more girls here her testimony 🙏🙏💜💜
What about the man that called her out on her BS? Where is his respect?
So now it is the utmost respectful thing to realize being a skank is not good... after being a skank for a while? My how low the bar has been dropped.
This girl broke my heart. At least she already realized and is not in denial. We all make mistakes in our youth and easy money always sounds great, but in the end what easy comes, easy goes but the consequences stay
TBH. I find Onlyfans to be my biggest red flag when it comes to dating.... The last girl I dated had an OF account, I only found out 5 months deep into our relationship. But she then told me she had one and I just couldn't continue dating her, and then she told me she thought it's ok for kids to wear Drag. I honestly find OF and Adult content to destroy both men and women and we just can't be the best versions for ourselves to each other.
ANY and ALL personal social media is a red flag. I understand online businesses and promoting such is ok. But everything else is for ego. I dont date women with egos.
Forget the Only Fans, she honestly believes kids should and can wear drag and hang around adult degenerates? Not on my watch they can't.
Lol that's rough! How did you find out she had an OF account?
Dodged a bullet right there. Pray for her from a distance, but keep all the red flags in check, for future reference. I just found out I was used by a married women for three years, while she verbally abused me and falsely accused me everyday. The part that hurts the most, is she was literally projecting all her accusations. “A pawn in a scheme” was her using me, to make her grotesque gamer boy jealous. (The type who likes to be cucked by the entire globe, all for their trophy wife)
You don’t have to answer how you found out about her secret brainwashed lifestyle. That’s nobodies business other than yours and God’s. I’m just happy you found out in 5 months that she wasn’t the one, and not years later..
If a woman even slightly exhibits the Leftard mentality, leave her immediately, and be sure to tell her why. Bc I can assure you they won’t change for the better, (especially on your behalf) and it’s just a living Hell of a waste of time, to even try.
The most I got one day was “Well maybe God is real and he put you here for me to understand everything.” But then the next day it was back to me being a power hungry male fascist who uses religion to control women’s bodies.
I also find all that shit disgusting, and so should they. All these girls pretending they legitimately wanted to grow up to be pornstars is the most heartbreaking thing ever. You did the right thing by standing your ground. And on God, she will grow to regret her past lifestyle choices.
she got the cash, now wants to clean up
As a young man I decided early on I would not pay a single penny for sexual content. As an older man with disposable income I’m proud to say that I’ve kept that promise for myself and I still don’t see the need to pay for sex of any kind.
Nice! More men need to make that decision and put all these girls out of business.
@@RisingUnderdog it's men that put these girls in the business in the first place. Demand and supply.
Self respect 👍
@susanplatt5331 isn't that what I said? Maybe worded a little different.
That is so awesome! My man is the same way. I love it. ❤
mad respect for this girl. no one owns up to their mistakes these days honestly bravo
I totally understand this and have observed this for years, and not just with OnlyFans. I'm an ancient man (50 yo). I started out working for ISP's (Internet Service Providers). They would offer us employees a free website to do with as we pleased. I have seen other colleagues lose EVERYTHING because of content. They would have a picture of them at a party where they were smoking marijuana or other things that are/ were illegal at the time. Once our boss saw those pictures, they would be terminated.
I have been in the IT industry and an employee of Microsoft for the last 29 years. If I hadn't guarded my reputation, I could have 'blackballed' myself with stupid antics that were recorded on film. You only get one reputation... make sure it actually portrays who you really are and what you want to show the world.
Brett, much love and thanks for doing a video about this subject. The younger crowds need to hear this.
This girl is a rare gem. I bet there are thousands of women who don't care that their children will find their OF one day. Hope she finds peace and success in her future.
And she's gorgeous!😃👌
Did you know that not all women are conservative Christians?
she is still doing OF
this was just to promote it
@@tomerabitbuleizen4992 That’s what I’m saying, these people are blind and being played.
She told you right there in her own words. “I’m still on OF doing workout videos” there is not one person subscribing to her for workout advice, let’s be real here. She just wants the money without any of the judgement and this was her solution. Guaranteed it’s nothing but spandex and flattering camera angles. Hook line and sinker.
@@FluffyBusch yep
OnlyFans didn't ruin her life, her decision to do OnlyFans ruined her life. Accountability. People have to learn to take it.
Facts
Bingo! 👍
Indeed. After listening to her experience it seems to me she never had a single thought, good or bad, about her decisions in life.
@@constanzaferraro4752 Isnt that always the case, they only care about today cos their always forget that tomorrow exists as well and with tomorrow comes the consequences of their bad decisions.
Agreed - just commented the same exact thing.
I have to restrain a chuckle when you're (rightfully) holding someone out like this for young girls to look to on the Internet because of the... sense of relief, really, that I experienced when my 14 year old daughter asked me one day if I knew who Brett Cooper was. She then proceeded to echo your thoughts on a variety of current topics that I didn't expect her to agree with for many years, if ever. So thank you for being available to the young girls out there.
damn huge props to her for realizing that and changing!
I love seeing OF models post pictures of their new car or apartment with the caption "girl boss." Like hunni, there's nothing "boss" about Onlyfans. Real girl bosses are women who start up successful companies or purchase real estate or get extremely high paying jobs like lawyers or doctors, not strip naked for lonely men to simp over online.
So true
Soooooo true!
Most men don’t care about a woman’s money or job, unless that job involved dirty photos/videos of them, or if they were ever a whore or slut. Men don’t get to share women’s money in general anyway.
Right!
Men are the ones paying for it lol. Who cares where the money comes from,it's paying the bills
She is the perfect example of the fact that people can change, and that mercy should absolutely be extended to those that see the light. I hope things get better for her moving forward.
Edit: all I said is that people should be merciful and that I hope things get better for her, and it turned into a messy thread. People just want to be hateful on all sides, I guess. But hate isn’t getting us anywhere, so I stand by my original comment. Everyone be well!
I pray she continues to fight against the temptation to go back just for the money or because she thinks her past cannot be rectified. Once we are forgiven in GOD's eyes, we cannot really be concerned what the world thinks anymore. If confronted, you can tell them (if you want) that that time of your life you made some terrible choices, etc..... then just move forward. You're actually a NEW PERSON!!!! That was your old self......
I disagree. You dont get to just ignore all the damage you have done and people you have hurt just because you realize the error of your ways. This is the one major contention i have with the bible that i cant get over.
You shouldnt be able to be evil your entire life then on your death bed repent and have everything be fine. What a slap in the face to people who have done good all their lives.
She isn’t ignoring the damage or repenting on her death bed. She is admitting she was wrong. And that is far more admirable than what her counterparts are doing. Forgiveness is for everyone that repents (truly).
@@ohno7582 who says people don’t have to own up to their mistakes? Of course sin has consequences. I’m Catholic, and we absolutely believe this. We believe that it’s never too late in this life to get right with God, but it doesn’t mean you’re off scot free when you repent. You still have the consequences of your actions. Repenting only allows you the opportunity to begin that reconciliation with God. But God isn’t only merciful, he’s also a God of justice.
But at the same time, you do need to accept that someone can change, that someone could do wrong and comes to that realization. It’s important to pray for people for this reason. You’ve done things wrong too, if you want to be forgiven for those wrongdoings, you must also be willing to be merciful to others, especially those who hurt you.
@@bellemyjade686 exactly. That’s where I was getting at. Forgiveness is for everyone. God wants reconciliation with all.
Really good video.
I LOVE how a 'pay wall' is screen shot and recordings are free
Ohh. Good bless this girl.
Definition of, learning by fire.
I wish you nothing but the best.
My daughter is a Family Nurse Practitioner for a large hospital. A few years ago she told me that the hospital administration came down hard on employees for some of the things they had posted on social media. Some were reprimanded but several employees lost their job. Once you loose your reputation you can’t always get it back.
That's very vague. Did they lose their job because they had OF account?
@@kittygirl_thetortie498 probably yes as lot of girls who stop doing only fans couldn't go back to their jobs anymore specially if they work under with kids and stuff
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 people nowadays will cover tattoos and blur their face.
The thing is you can choose not to use all forms of social media. You don't have to use any part of social media you don't want to use. Limit you brand exposure on social media so you are able to disconnect your personal and professional life.
@@sterlinghinton6776 I was wondering that. Does everyone on OF show their face
I wouldn’t call her friend necessarily, but I had an acquaintance whose 15 year old son committed suicide because his high school friends found his mother’s Only Fans. He couldn’t take the teasing and the bullying, so he decided to opt out. She took it upon herself to deliver a soliloquy about how it wasn’t her fault at his funeral. Very sad.
I don't get why women would take it lightly, showing off their bodies to the world. of course it will come back to haunt them. not sure what is the thought process.
Couldn't even accept accountability when her actions lead to the most devastating thing that can happen to a parent. Fucking disgusting.
@@fighterx4133 Oh yeah, it´s her fault, not the idiots´ who bullied the boy.🤦♀ Kids are bullied for all possible reasons. Would you say the same thing if the boy was bullied for another reason?
Very sad is that there are morons bullying people for no reason.
@@gatanegra8815 It's her fault.
It's really rare nowadays to see a woman recognise her mistakes and be willing to deal with the conséquences along the way, i really hope for the best for this girl and may she build a happy life despite her past
It is refreshing to see women like you and pearl, who are intelligent and have a real base. God bless you.
This women is further helping so many other women who might be thinking that they want to start an OF. Mad respect to her
No she ain't, women don't listen 😂
Mad respect for realizng it's stuipd to being a hoe? How did it come to this? I thought ppl have schools and education now...yet it seems all of it is gone to waste
@@therealistshow9335 I think what feminism intended is to make nakedness to be normal and not vulgarised .
Well OnlyFans is only making nakedness more and more vulgar than ever and it's not helping anyone. Being naked is natural but selling a digital copy of your body captured on a camera online isn't natural. Idk when will they realise they are just being subjected to objectification in doing OF when feminism is strictly against objectifying women.
@@crxtube187 I being saying this
Bruhh she’s blaming Only Fans not herself so nahh she’ll probably go back to it.
It sucks that she has to learn through hindsight. But I'm glad she learned and she's using her mistakes as a means to make others better. Best of luck to the young lady and I hope she can maintain a healthy following for the healthy mental transition she made
Hindssight is the only way these younger people learn...if at all. They are too stupid to know any better. No common sense.
she did it to herself
This same forgiveness is nonexistent for young men and their mistakes
@@booyafools5897 all mistakes we make are done by ourselves.
This is such a solid video to break down about the issue. Everyone focuses on the goods and none of the bad parts. :/ like every video I’ve seen just glamorizes this shit for real? Like nobody talkin about long term consequences. It’s so overlooked
I love your content tysm for putting so much wisdom huge respect
We need Brett's mom on the show. As a parent I'd love to hear her thoughts on raising a daughter with a good moral compass and self respect like Brett has. I have a good idea but would love to hear from someone that has already achieved it. I don't want my daughter ever ending up like the girl in the video.
That’s a great idea! I believe I have heard her say that she was homeschooled. So I am guessing that has a lot to do with it.
@@Kalifornia11 Ben Shapiro
Same!
She didn't had the best childhood tho
@@Kalifornia11 how come?
This was a perfectly timed video for me. Obviously I would never start an OnlyFans, but it really wears me down to hear people bragging about money they’re making from OF and acting like it’s so easy and so positive. As someone who is working her butt off every day to make a good life for my family, it kind of hurts to see people taking the easy way out and seeming to profit massively off of it. I have to remember that there are long-lasting impacts and consequences that we can’t see, like the psychological damage of sharing the most intimate parts of you with the general public. I’m glad to have that point re-enforced for me.
Hang in there, things can get better! I believe that you reap what you sow, and the long-term implications of OF will catch up to them and haunt them. Stay strong ❤
However much they’re making, it isn’t worth it. All the money in the world can’t buy an ounce of decency.
It might sound cheesy, but and the end of the day, hard work brings true happiness and integrity to the table, not easy gained money. You've got mine and every sane human beings respect for pushing through.
@@starlime.28aah Thank you so much for your encouragement and kindness! I agree, there are long-term impacts for things like that, and it’s not worth it for a quick buck.
@@derekeastman7771 That is an incredible point, thank you! I might have to write that saying down, “all the money in the world can’t buy an ounce of decency”.
Life is complicated and mistakes are made. Learning from said mistakes is all that can be done in moments like these. Let this young lady be a example of why following the crowd is not the rite thing to do.
I didn’t know about OnlyFans until I saw your video. Thanks for speaking up and for the warning.
She's young and made a mistake that hurt no one but herself. She deserves a lot of credit for admitting to that mistake and learning from it. It's not an easy thing to do.
It does hurt her future husband and children, but other than that I agree with your comment.
@@moonie9000I am feminist and simp hater. This girl have the ability to analyse herself and takes action unlike other western girl. I’m not saying she is an ideal wife material but she’s worth give a try.
But she did hurt a lot of other people. You have to know that your actions affect those around you.
@@moonie9000 It hurts our society and cheapens women but apart from that, I agree with your comment.
@@ponaravind6497 She is not worth a try. She is the classic former adult star who finds religion, and you are the guy to put a ring on it after 550 men already stretched that ring out. That makes you a feminist.
I’m only 32 and my son is about to turn 13. I am so glad I have no social media and never posted anything inappropriate when I was young. We also monitor his internet use, but lots of kids in his class look stuff up constantly. I can’t imagine how horrible it would be for a child for their friends to find their moms only fans
In my land just because you have a baby at such a young age, like before 20, is kind of youre quite... Like an OF girl🤬... Ill turn 32 in May and never had a partner in my life.
Literally few people on my age or little younger have kids at all, very few have but theyre babies.. Lots are single, and for choice.
Only girls that had Nowadays OF reputation have teens being our age.
No wonder by natality is decreasing since 1998. For every 4 deaths theres 1 born.
It is estimated that in Spain in 10 year from 46M people well be 23M. Half of population of this keeps like this. And it will.
No one wanna make families,and those ho do are rare cases.
Thats why i coment.. It is shocking to me that someone my age has a teen as a straigh descendant. No ofense intended. It is more common that that son of yours where your younger brother than a son.
I dont known you and the reason why you have a kid 13 y.o. already, being 32.
Cases of marriage and romantic love before 25 are as rare as a natural pink elephant. And not to mention before 20s. It is Literally imposible. I even dare to say Red flag thing.
"Youre Too young to already marry and have babies, kid... Finish your studies and or Get a job, experience life hardships and make up your mind, mature your mind and personality. Then when youre around 25-30 think if is worth or not to even marry someone"
Thats What anyone woul tell you as a life advice.
Even your own parents even though they got you on theyr 21. "Those where other times, and we where ignorants and followed the age roles of the time back then" That woul be theyr excuse.
By the way.. Feel sexual atraction for the mother of a friend or school partner of a teacher if theyre sexy is way more common than you think. No need to have her on OF, just being hot and sexy mom can be a problem for teens sons. I saw it in high school in early 2000 so, even without internet this was always a thing.
Brett I really appreciate your point of view, you seem very knowledgeable about exactly what's going on, also well spoken 👏
She seems like a very sweet and smart girl. I hope she can find a way to keep working and feel better about herself. We learn from our mistakes, and she's sharing her experience so others, dont do the same that is very high of her
I was a stripper and wholly agree with both girls. It's demoralizing. It's nice to feel wanted and sexy, and also to make all that money, but the emotional trauma you're unknowingly putting yourself through is NOT worth it. As you become wiser, you'll see what a huge mistake it was.
Thank you for your comment. Unfortunately, both the manosphere and feminists on UA-cam make this a hard topic to speak out about. You either have to 100% support Onlyfans, or there’s no changing. Because the redpillers claim you don’t regret the decision, you regret the consequences. With that logic, you don’t regret drinking your liver into the ground, you regret your liver giving out on you.
So what was demoralizing about dancing for you? I've been on stripper web for years and I don't see this topic often.
I've heard this story before. Pinocchio thought he was a real person, too. Weren't you stripping to pay for college or some other charade. It's not the Spanish Inquisition, you should see what's coming. You're selling your body. What's surprising about what happens?
@Alexia Kelley Apologies for that one. Unfortunately men and women are at each other's throats. I could do better about this.
I know exactly what you mean, although I was a hooker. Didn't mind it at the time but definitely notice the effects later on.
It's so comforting to see a Gen Z raised so proper. The thought process and mindset of Brett is so underrated. Even the older generation have so much to learn from this young lady.
Honestly she is the only exception I think majority of them being woke dumpster
She wasn’t raised proper if she started an Onlyfans. Women that sell themselves for sex all telling society they was sexually abused as a child & their family failed to protect them..
Define proper
That’s because they 3d printed Ben Shapiro in female form. Lol
As a old generation person myself, we were taught in school(public) not to do drugs and if we did, they show us the consequences of our actions.
They also taught us about safe sex and not to put yourself out there in the world. They even thought us about weapons(from all categories) and what to look out for, if anyone has them on school ground. If we happen to see any of said items, we were told to inform any teacher asap.
Lastly, my parents raise me to be disciplined and punish me accordingly if I did something wrong.
So I’ll say with confidences, that it’s a media and parent fault for today generations. They let the media raise their kids and parents stop disciplining their kids for there bad behaviors.
Thank you for this video Brett Shapiro.
The very concept that you can share your intimacy with random strangers on the internet while giving up having a normal private life and think this is perfectly okay just because it will bring you some money for a while is just beyond me. What's even scarier is the fact that random strangers follow and look up to other random strangers who have nothing valuable to share or add to their lives. People have literally gone insane.
As a man who has subscribed to Onlyfans models before, I can say that I was a hypocrite for long time. I would say how much I was against Onlyfans and what it is doing to women but when in private I would still subscribe to them. And I think that is a lot of men. We have to do better as men and not feed into these services. We can take the power away from these services because without our money they don’t have a business. It is hard to do but we will be much better off in the long run if we conquer that craving of wanting sex all the time.
This exactly this! I really appreciate your honesty because as You mentioned most people just watch and pay and still says they r against. It doesn't work that way.
I'll never pay. With dating apps, I could get laid within the week. I've had a girlfriend for almost a year now, and she'd have sex every day, if we could, so no need to look at that stuff, even for free.
Very true. I have once taken a look at an OF account. So that makes me a hypocrite too. I would like to say that as long as prostitution is illegal in most parts of the U.S. and other countries, things like OF, Porn, and strip clubs will continue to exist. Right or wrong, men are looking for an outlet. Think about it. Strip clubs either don’t exist or they don’t do well where prostitution is legal. And I’m sure that OF doesn’t get a lot of subscribers from countries where prostitution is legal. I think the biggest problems with OF is the fact that the internet provides the illusion to the OF worker that they are not wannabe porn stars and that the work is some how less damaging than porn or prostitution. But in some ways it can be worse because the internet is forever.
I'm guilty too.
I'm disgusted with womens promiscuity.
But then I find myself on Pornhub.
It didn't hit me till recently.
And i've been wanting to quit porn/masturbation for awhile now.
I don't even like porn anymore.
While i agree with you that men need to stop simping, and they need to stop spending money on women online, I think I can safely say it will never happen. Not until the whole system collapses, and all the weak men are forced to either die or toughen up. Basically we need an all-in world war at this point to stop the stupidity, and as much as I hate the beta orbiters and simps who are ruining lives (including their own) I don't actually think a catastrophe or world war is preferable.
It's a conundrum, frankly.
Don't you just love how women will scream from the rooftops, "Don't objectify me." But it's OK for those same women to objectify themselves on Only Fans because, well, they're making money of exposing themselves online. And they "justify" it by saying it make them "empowered."
I'm beginning to wonder if we've become too shallow, self-absorbed and stupid to be allowed to continue surviving as a species.
Agreed
That last paragraph was well said lol
and that's what it boils down to, don't objectify me, unless i am on only fans then give me money, but i will bitch later how it effected me.
I couldn't agree more
I made this point to a female on UA-cam, she responded with "well we are consenting to being objectified when we post such content on social media"
I was shocked 😳
So true... I wish more people had similar attitude to yours 🙂
@Brett Cooper thank you for standing by your morals. I wish more girls/women would stand up for these principles. The world would be a safer place. Keep up the good work.
I was telling my husband that only fans will probably be one of the leading causes of suicide in children with mothers or parents who were involved that get bullied down the line
But I don't know why the realize it too late.
OnlyFans isn't the cause of anything. The usage type these people decide on for themselves might be, but that isn't OnlyFans' responsibility. People often overlook the fact that so much other type of content exists on OnlyFans, erotic is only one of them. Everyone can decide for themselves how they use the platform.
Thats not onlyfans' fault, its just weakness
@@roberttranceedm yes that's what it's become synonymous with. Many ppl don't even think about the other things OF is used for. The first time i ever heard it being used was for sex work and many others like me, it was the same. Speaks for itself. And of course ppl are responsible for their own actions... But accessibility can be many people's last temptation.
It's either that, or sex becomes so meaningless we get a new epidemic of pre teen STIs
I’ve been a stripper for over 3 years, but I’ve always refused to make any onlyfans. A lot of customers and my regulars ask me to do it. But the internet it truly forever !! It’s one thing for people to come into the club and watch my stage dance live vs having a carbon copy forever. My club is extremely strict ab having any phones out and are really great ab preventing people from recording.
Anyway, now onto the next topic, when I started dancing it was sold to me as empowering, beautiful this and that. But years into it, I despise it. It’s disgusting, I’ve lost count on how many times I’ve been molested. People will be like “just walk out of a room” but when a man is waving $1000 in your face and your rent is due the next day you’d be surprised what morals you begin to let go off. Any dancer I know that has been doing it for over 3 years says the same thing, they despise it but it’s so easy to get caught in the industry.
I came from a section 8 family and I’ve been able to do a lot of great things with the money I’ve made. And I’m hoping this will be the last year.
I wish you good luck and pray you can exit the profession quickly. You may not be able to have as many nice things as you once did, at least in the immediate term, but stay strong! God bless you.
turn to Christ, sister! He wants far more for you than that life for real 💝
Highly doubt it. Been to strip clubs, very easy to take pictures without phones
God bless you! Everybody make mistakes, i hope you can get out of this.
@@gaysniper of course, our boy pulling up with the camera obscura
When I learned you DON'T have an only fans was when I started to follow you!
I know I would stop immediately if you folded and got an OF.
I'm so glad you're one of the few bright stars out there. Helping other young girls walk the path of being an online personality!
Amazing brave girl, im so happy for her ❤ she found the truth❤
“Stop sexually objectifying me!!!”
“Well…if I can make money off of it, it’s ok”
*makes an onlyfans
Yeah it’s called “consent”
@@angels_avi8589it’s called hypocrisy 😂😂if you put yourself out there naked or dressed like a skank you’re gonna get objectified. 😨 crazy right!?
@@angels_avi8589 it's also called hypocrisy
@@SirCharles824 not exactly. People exploit stuff that doesn't belong to them all the time unfortunately.
@@angels_avi8589 *hypocrisy is the word you're looking for
First thing I was taught going into my freshman year of college was “your reputation is all you have, defend it with your life” and I’m honestly thankful I was told that, I wish a lot of my friends thought that way too though.
People can use that against you. Everyone wants to desperately shield their reputation and now you are subject to manipulation from those who hold power over you because of your precious reputation
I'd say that's taking it too far. In the end at the very least to yourself and your own identity, the truth should matter more than whatever reputation you have... that's also how you become immune to black mail and such. I'm not saying reputation isn't important but when it comes down to it, I won't be manipulated into doing or not doing a certain thing not even if it makes the whole world believe I'm a horrible person.
Brett, you're gorgeous, smart, beautiful, thank you for creating genuine content :) Also you got my sub from this video
Your videos are a constant delight! 😄🌟
I’m a young woman and it’s so nice having a role model like you. Thanks for helping young women in these challenging times ❤️
congrats on having a good role model
who is she?
I choose asmr reading over onlyfans any day. We are worth more than our bodies🫶
same here
We need to normalize bullying these type of this behavior again.
This what “a woman for women” looks like. She’s looking out for other women because of the choices she made. I think she’s great!
Women need to have common sense and realize OF is never a good idea. It doesn't take a genius to realize this.
I remember way back in '95 when WWW started getting popular and ISPs started popping up everywhere. The people were so different. Nobody trusted online purchases until paypal came around. But I specifically remember the discussion on email and the internet. Never put anything out there that you don't want others to know about because once you hit that send button you can't get those packets back. It amazes me that almost 30 years later, that warning was not emphasized to future generations, or perhaps they simply do not care and their ability to critically think has been reduced by that much.
She's really trying to hold it together, but you can see how much she's hurting. I hope she powers through and comes out better on the other side
Yes I noticed that too. Tbh she seems like a genuine nice person and its so sad seeing people like this ruined by social media. Sad asf
You know, Brett is kinda the perfect example of how you don’t need to sexualize yourself to have guys be attracted to you, be popular, or even.. make money.
The majority of outfits I see her wear are quite conservative in todays world. Yet guys are still going crazy, her videos get crazy views, and she makes (I would assume) a great living.
There's a difference between the 2 types of women. Brett has self respect and wants men to respect her as a human like everyone else. OF girls want to attract men who see them as a sex object because apparently that's "empowering"
@WildWinterberry $20 says you only started watching her videos because she is hot. Get off your high horse. You cant try to break down how many billion people in 2 types 😂. I'm also willing to beat you've watched porn
That’s cause she’s pretty…..🙄
I watch her as she is an actual smart woman. Feminism has corrupted a lot of women to being very obnoxious and men hating and while there are good women, feminists are still very annoying.
@@mister_padilla6105and we don't actually have to live with her. Who knows what she's like in person.
😃
Honestly, the whole concept of only fans reminds me of the documentary of the most hated man on the internet. The only thing different is that they tricked u into thinking it was your idea and choice
"It's disrespectful to my future husband & children".....spot on
Can I just say my 1st time meeting you both but I love both of your mentality as we can do alot
It’s so weird that we got to a point in society where people can publicly announce their porn and it’s just like a business announcement, instead of the shameful thing it is. It’s so creepy….
the fall of Rome
"It's so weird that we got to a point in society where people can publicly announce they work as an uranium miner and it's just like a business, instead of the dirty thing it is. It's so creepy... I'm not going to date a guy working in an uranium mine. My children can get two heads because of it." ... Work is work is work, it might lower your lifespan, but that is what you are paid for, but why shame people for their choices, picking vegetables in the field in the dirt is a litteral dirty job, but why not call farmers sluts for selling thier body to the farm owner in exchange for cash. The change from the olden days is that it happened illegally, slavery and human trafficking have both been officially delegitimised, but saying sex-work is immoral is the same like saying farming is immoral, then fix your morals, because otherwise you go a step back, and make farming illegal, leading to more slavery. It's a balancing act, too strict rules, more people going against the rules to do what they want, if tomorrow the world bans cars, because cars kill the most people per passenger of the transport options(as in everything else is safer), how many moralists will then up their moral game and abandoned their cars and how many will continue to drive, and now that you know driving is bad for everyone's health, will you stop driving without a ban? One is "bad" choices leading to "bad" outcomes as is the other, why the love one and hate the other.
And talking about bad, I'll have to ask who's bad because my bad and your bad most likely differ. How can anyone make a just system out of an individual's moral judgement, when it will clash at least once with everyone elses? 100% of religious denominations think 99% of religious denominations are bad.
@@user-zn4pw5nk2v You're so far lost ...
@@azevedo1046 maybe i am, maybe you are, who can tell, but know this everyone is roughly the same metaphorical distance from the truth and correctly judging their own or somebody elses ability, so you can also be just as lost. In other words, you can always say "you are wrong", but saying it doesn't make it true.
@@azevedo1046 check the Finnish or Norwegian prison system, healthcare, Canada or Portugal recreational drug laws, Netherlands? Sex-work legalization, go outside the US, see what is true libertarian freedom, touch some grass and tell me again and i'll believe you that I'm lost.
I remember when cellphones were the new thing and the conversation was about sexting, how sending one photo could ruin your life. Now people are willingly going online and exposing themselves to the masses and just not thinking about the repercussions.
Yes but the incentive is money 💵. It is prostitution. No other way to sugarcoat the exchange of sex material for money.
Have watched your videos before but just got subscribed today :)
There is a dopamine hit and addiction on both sides of the pornographic industries it’s not just a lust for money and instant gratification but a yearn for recognition and attention.
Being in high school 20 years ago, it was a taboo to become a stripper/“model”. Literally like 2 women I went to school with went down that route. Now it’s so glamorized and deemed normal.
they probably taught respect "respect women and their choice whatever" made it appear as normalized. But it was in best interest in protect whole society!
(so effective that it made adults felt jealouashamed of themselves into shaming from children to college)
Same even 8 years ago just before all this started it was frowned upon & embarrassing. It’s scary how fast social conditioning has changed the common mindset
I didn't know being a stripper is glamorized and deemed as normal nowadays 🤔
It’s literally not 😂 the same amount became strippers/OF creators in my school. Two isn’t many. Most people don’t want to do it, hell most I went to school with don’t even use social media much. It’s just tik tok and people being open so people think it’s easy. I do actually think OF is better than traditional porn cause it’s YOUR account, not going to some sketchy place or being abused by a company like many strippers are.
well women doing SW is the longest career in human history…its weird that its this way knowing that information
and your right to be how you are , it just looked very enticing cuz everyone is doing it , doesnt mean its right, and everyone respects you way more the way you are .
I grew up before the internet, and although I LOVE the easy access to information, I am very concerned about the easy access to the intimate parts of people: bodies, beliefs, personal facts, and reputation. Easy money is easily gone without financial knowledge, and we all get older. The world I grew up in is gone, but the consequences of our actions are still there. As a society, we will learn to navigate this as we do all change. It’s just that in the meantime, an unfortunate amount of people will have to have the bad experiences that will shape the change. Thank goodness some young people speak out now, even when it’s unpopular and poorly received.
Brett,
Thank you so much for bringing awareness to what pornography does to people. I myself struggled with porn addiction and everyone I told laughed and acted like it was nothing. My friends finally had to sit me down and tell me to get my life together because of how bad it got. I don’t want anyone else to go through what I went through and I’m glad you’re bringing this to light
Same.
I’m 100% in agreement. Brett is amazing at what she does.
Kudos to you for working on it!
My partner is a PA, it's been very very difficult for our family but we are working on it. So many little aspects that become important but people don't want to talk about it. Addicts will believe it's all fine and under control but it's not. I hope your journey is a good one
@@Kaybye555 Thank you so much for that heart warming message. I hope your partner overcomes their addiction. Love and support is what got me through mine. Having someone there to tell me things are going to be okay made a world of difference
I’m raising two little girls (6 and 10) and I cannot tell you how much I appreciate your insightful videos. The internet has so many dark corners and as a parent, staying educated on the dangers is so important, especially in this day and age.
tell them to keep away from blacks... they will ruin their lives
Awesome video 👍
Good Evening Young Lady,
Thank You Brett for giving these young girls an out! When a young only fans girl mentioned she lies about her "JOB" my only thought was; "if you have to lie about your work, change it!".
The only part this episode doesn't cover is the human trafficking side. Young girls locked in rooms about the size of a prison cell doing "porn/only fans" type content to work off debt to gain their freedom. It's ugly and no one wants to consider it but it is real and happening. Should a young girl escape the life or earn enough to get out, she is destroyed by this past she had no control over. Where are the compassionate people to help these "sex workers"? Where is the computer geek that could erase much of the content to protect them for their future? Who is attempting to see where these "influencers/sex workers/ only fans woman are and how did they get into this life? Is anyone truly looking out for them that are victims?
AMERICA, you are in my prayers
Hoka Hey
Thank God for this woman that he changed her heart and that she is currently giving her life to Him. This is made my day.❤️ Thank you so much Brett for posting this.
Why are you thanking Brett for posting the video? Were you about to do the Only fans and changed your mind😂?
She says she is. That’s easy.
@@donelmukiza2357 no but to make this video for public for girls like the one in the video
Like you mentioned, I have a lot of respect for this girl. It takes a lot to come out to say you've made a mistake and try to help others that may be heading down that path.
She only ''regrets'' it because she thought 10K+ each month from just taking naked pics would be consistent . she only made the video because her money dropped off a lot probably for several months. Probably also made the video as a desperate attempt to show whatever top 4% guys she is interested in that she is changed blah blah
Respect for sharing her story.
You are just an adorable bundle of happy energy. Love it.
Online prostitution should never be a woman's ambition. Our society needs smart, driven, strong women who respect themselves.
You had them...many chose a different path. The reality is that seks and seks work pay$. An attractive woman's body is basically a built in gold mine. Not sure how they could really know what poor really means when they can tap that natural resource for trade anytime. Few men have those kinds of safety nets.
We need them to be chaste, humble, and loyal. Make the patriarchy great again.
'Smart, driven and strong' are ALL masculine traits. Women should start acting like women.
@@ohhellyeah2878boooo
Why is everyone speaking about women when sick men are the problem, the same reason sugar daddies exist. Y’all should stop blaming woman blame the men who have always sexualiz3d women! This is Pathetic
I had the same issue with musical theater acting in so cal. Even in musical theater, there’s so much sexualization and I lost out on so many auditions because I wouldn’t do those scenes. Eventually I started getting a rep as being “inflexible” and got pushed back to exclusively background roles because I made a mistake in not researching a role fully only to be surprised by something degenerate and sexual after I’d accepted. And of course I was fired and replaced when I told them I wasn’t comfortable doing that and asked if it could be removed 😂 I definitely got worked out and had to give up on that dream. Still makes me sad because there’s nothing like it but maybe when I’m old and not in that ingenue age range, I can come back and still get some good parts.
What "musical theater acting" are you talking about? There are a handful of musicals I can think of with questionable content, but as you wrote yourself, with very little research these could easily be avoided. The American musical canon is replete with G-rated work. Doesn't seem like the off-chance of encountering unsuitable material should stop you from pursuing what you describe as your "dream" career.
@@cwbrooks5329 it makes sense though. When you are a performer you will be put forward for roles you LOOK right for. If she’s pretty and young she will be put forward or right for pretty young women roles, which tend to be the more risqué parts unfortunately. And if you’re blacklisted, there’s no coming back from that.
This will haunt her for the rest of her life. No good man will be ok with knowing this and then his family and friends knowing this. Imagine, everyone you know will know what your girlfriend or wife looks like naked.
Smart, courageous kid. I’m very impressed.
This whole video deserves a giant Amen. My father said something that has really stuck with me throughout the years and it is this: “Implement long term goals into short-term execution.” People do need to think when they sell their bodies online of who will see it who is perhaps not in their life yet. I hope if/when this woman becomes a mother she can have the discernment to tell her children the right thing that will help teach them both the dire and chronic consequences and guilt this can bring on someone while still respecting her. It is all true. You’re worth more than creating this. You’re worth more than indulging in it. It’s not cliche to say. It is the truth and you can overcome it all.