I think in same way you make the Marriage officially, so you're Mr Mrs. The prenuptial should be part of asking the Marriage official. Especially these days, the times that we are living in, we are very low in tolerance, very few are trying to work hard to make it work. Catherine Zeta-Jones married Michael Douglas they are still married. She agreed to sign the prenuptial agreement very happy, she said she's not going into a marriage to take his money. So I agree with premature agreement, life insurance and a will. As a single mother of 4, life insurance and will is a must have.
Wow... you make so much sense and I must confess this is the first example given to back up Prenup that has made me pause for a second thought. Thank you so much for taking time to post your thoughts. Thanks....This is BabaShola by the way....I can only imagine Yewande laughing her head off....Lol
Very nice. I was glad you enlightened your co-host and viewers about the benefits of prenuptial agreements. Just to add, I think it’s also good protection against potential or intentional gold diggers if you are a millionaire or billionaire or even very comfortable financially. Majority of people in this category will never marry without a prenup. It makes sense especially if you are marrying someone without that wealth or less wealthy who you didn't build it together. People can change or get carried away in this life. As a woman, I don't mind being asked to sign one but can use it as an opportunity to arrange a suitable payout to protect myself financially for my time etc. if the wealthy person makes a choice to move on. You should wisely seek legal advice from prenup experts before you sign. All should be agreed. In an ideal world and Christian context, none of this should matter but if it comes up, it can be managed correctly so people can relax and enjoy the marriage without mistrust, fear, scheming or any other evils. Check what happened with some well known public figures such as Kevin Costner and Jeff Bezos and their messy divorces to mention a couple of examples. Bless you and keep up the good work🙏🏼
A will is useful at the point after the death of the marker, a prenup is useful for both being alive and at the death of the maker. I think we need to understand the difference about the two
Thank you Oluwadamilola…whilst I appreciate your comment, I believe the discussion centred more on the effectiveness of Prenup and not its difference from a ‘will’. Do you believe in prenup Oluwadimilola? And if you do, could you kindly tell us why you do. 😊
@@mattersoftheheartUK my response was centered on when the both speakers where talking that they prefer the prenup over the will... That aside, I appreciate the insights you are sharing. My answer to your question will be relative, in the sense that if I have something to protect, like the female speaker right said, I would want a prenup to safeguard my legacy.
Really made me think, my default would have been not even to have “prenup” in my vocabulary. Marriage is an amalgamation of two people but a prenup seems to assume from the get go that it’s bound to fail. My naivety assumes we work on relationships but reality clearly demonstrates differently. Really made me think
It's like buying a car and taking insurance; it's like having a fire extinguisher in the home. No one hopes for any negative eventualities. But modern legal structures help protect us against such. Likewise, in marriage, humans are human and prone to change in outlook, behavior, or objectives. That's the purpose of the pre-up.
This is an interesting one. I agree with having both a will and a Prenup. The Prenup I discovered is not a western concept. It is very common practice in the Jewish and Islamic religion. In the Jewish culture the prenup is called a Ketubah and is basically a wedding contract drawn up and signed by witnesses from both sides on the obligations of the husband to his wife and if in any case he is unable to fulfil it or decides to leave the marriage. It lists what the wife will be entitled to if he divorced her as it was normally the men that initiated divorce . It can be a bit tricky but it does work for some . ua-cam.com/video/5JG0Zrao9fY/v-deo.htmlsi=guKvW7yV9JgHI5Jo
I think in same way you make the Marriage officially, so you're Mr Mrs. The prenuptial should be part of asking the Marriage official.
Especially these days, the times that we are living in, we are very low in tolerance, very few are trying to work hard to make it work.
Catherine Zeta-Jones married Michael Douglas they are still married.
She agreed to sign the prenuptial agreement very happy, she said she's not going into a marriage to take his money.
So I agree with premature agreement, life insurance and a will. As a single mother of 4, life insurance and will is a must have.
Wow... you make so much sense and I must confess this is the first example given to back up Prenup that has made me pause for a second thought. Thank you so much for taking time to post your thoughts. Thanks....This is BabaShola by the way....I can only imagine Yewande laughing her head off....Lol
Very nice. I was glad you enlightened your co-host and viewers about the benefits of prenuptial agreements. Just to add, I think it’s also good protection against potential or intentional gold diggers if you are a millionaire or billionaire or even very comfortable financially. Majority of people in this category will never marry without a prenup. It makes sense especially if you are marrying someone without that wealth or less wealthy who you didn't build it together. People can change or get carried away in this life. As a woman, I don't mind being asked to sign one but can use it as an opportunity to arrange a suitable payout to protect myself financially for my time etc. if the wealthy person makes a choice to move on. You should wisely seek legal advice from prenup experts before you sign. All should be agreed. In an ideal world and Christian context, none of this should matter but if it comes up, it can be managed correctly so people can relax and enjoy the marriage without mistrust, fear, scheming or any other evils. Check what happened with some well known public figures such as Kevin Costner and Jeff Bezos and their messy divorces to mention a couple of examples. Bless you and keep up the good work🙏🏼
Points very well made. Thank you so much for taking time to share your thoughts. Very much appreciated.
A will is useful at the point after the death of the marker, a prenup is useful for both being alive and at the death of the maker. I think we need to understand the difference about the two
Thank you Oluwadamilola…whilst I appreciate your comment, I believe the discussion centred more on the effectiveness of Prenup and not its difference from a ‘will’. Do you believe in prenup Oluwadimilola? And if you do, could you kindly tell us why you do. 😊
@@mattersoftheheartUK my response was centered on when the both speakers where talking that they prefer the prenup over the will... That aside, I appreciate the insights you are sharing.
My answer to your question will be relative, in the sense that if I have something to protect, like the female speaker right said, I would want a prenup to safeguard my legacy.
Really made me think, my default would have been not even to have “prenup” in my vocabulary. Marriage is an amalgamation of two people but a prenup seems to assume from the get go that it’s bound to fail. My naivety assumes we work on relationships but reality clearly demonstrates differently. Really made me think
It is indeed thought provoking. Thank you so much for taking time to comment. And we admire your podcast, hope to see it soonest. 🙏🏾
It's like buying a car and taking insurance; it's like having a fire extinguisher in the home. No one hopes for any negative eventualities. But modern legal structures help protect us against such. Likewise, in marriage, humans are human and prone to change in outlook, behavior, or objectives. That's the purpose of the pre-up.
This is an interesting one. I agree with having both a will and a Prenup.
The Prenup I discovered is not a western concept. It is very common practice in the Jewish and Islamic religion. In the Jewish culture the prenup is called a Ketubah and is basically a wedding contract drawn up and signed by witnesses from both sides on the obligations of the husband to his wife and if in any case he is unable to fulfil it or decides to leave the marriage. It lists what the wife will be entitled to if he divorced her as it was normally the men that initiated divorce . It can be a bit tricky but it does work for some .
ua-cam.com/video/5JG0Zrao9fY/v-deo.htmlsi=guKvW7yV9JgHI5Jo
Thank you Chidinma for your comments. It is interesting to know.