Storytime. My Divorce Story. A brief overview of my journey through marriage
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- Опубліковано 12 кві 2019
- Support me on Patreon: / keepingitkeith I have had a few guys asking about my divorce and I thought I would share a cliff notes version of the path it took. If you would like to hear more please let me know!
Also thank you to all of my new subscribers! I am coming close to 1000 followers in a little under a week. AMAZING!
Im so grateful for the woman who told me "NO" when I proposed. She literally saved my life
@Art Demon it's are genes pushing us to have another kids
lol
@@owencook6906 well I wouldn't say our genes are pushing us to have more kids but rather we are just wanting to get laid
@@youtoo2233 Well, why else would our biological drive push is to have sex if it wasn't to further the species?
@@owencook6906 well yeah that's true it is to further the species. I guess you could say that was God's main objective with humans and animals. Most people have sex for pleasure not for procreating, that's all I was really saying. Peace
I had a lady ask me why I hadnt found a nice woman to marry yet being such a handsome successful man, I said because my self esteem isnt that low
NICE
@ Ashton757
Amen brother 👊
my boy ashton knows whats up
I would’ve loved to see her response
r/thathappened
My girlfriend has this fantasy of moving to Miami and pursuing a yoga career. I’ve told her a million times if she chooses to do that she will be on her own. The more time drags on, the more I’m preparing to move to the Ozarks and kissing her goodbye. This whole MGTOW movement has given me the confidence and logic to literally go my own way. Here I go, guys
i have found most woman have big dreams but no follow thru...has she gone to miami or done any real research on job prospects or any kind of networking?? probably not right.
working shlub exactly, so she’s either gonna go and face-plant or get stuck where we are now and hate her life anyways and I’m not for any of that lol that’s besides the fact that Miami is notoriously a shithole
What is a Yoga Career? It's a lifestyle ( religion) not a career.
Your divorce went a lot better then mine...but...good story...warn other young men.
Godspeed sir!
I posted this on another one of your videos. But I put here again:
My story: I married my wife while I was in college because I wanted to. (She was not pregnant). I got my BSEE, had a 6-mo old baby, started my career. 13 years total, 9 years at my career. Were on the rocks for at least 3 of it. I was ALWAYS WRONG! according to her - not in so many words, no, but I'd start to "dance" one way, kinda like the way she wanted, and then - "NO! that's not it. 'Dance' like this". . . .Until one day I finally told her: "I am going to be happy regardless of your feelings. I am no longer going to "dance" for you. I am going to "dance" for ME! You want in? Then do it that I want to do it."
Six weeks later she left. That LAST WORDS she told me before she walked out the door - I'll never forget them:" John, you are just not the man I want you to be." . . . let that soak in for minute.
Another three weeks I get a call from her. She tells me she's with someone else. This is the "man" she hooked up with:
1. He was on month 3 of a 12 month court ordered drug rehabilitation program. - I was NEVER on drugs. . . . NEVER EVER!!! Not even pot (which isn't a drug, I know.)
2. He was on probation after being released from prison for being part of a car thief ring. - I have NEVER been in prison, not even jail - NEVER, not even for one night.
3. He had no car. - I always had wheels, and I always made she SHE had wheels
4. He had no driver's license. - I have had a driver's license since I was 13 years old, never revoked, suspended, etc.. (Back in 1978 you could get a licence to operate a 100cc motorcycle or smaller.)
5. He had no house. - My wife and baby ALWAYS had a roof over their head - food, clothes, utilities, phone, TV - ALL! OF! IT!! I made SURE of that!!
6. He had no "real" job. He chased a road crew from town to town during the paving season, so it wasn't even annual. - Did I say I had a BSEE and a career? Yes, I think I did.
Before she hung up the phone I politely told her: "He gets ONE CHANCE with MY son. If he fucks up, I am taking him away from you FOR GOOD!! You know DAMNED WELL there is not a judge in the country who will let you keep my son with a convict, compared to what I have tor offer. He fucks up, I pull all the stops, and you won't even get visitation rights." (Turns out, we NEVER had a problem. My son wanted to stay with me most of the time anyway.)
When we hung up the phone, her words came back, and I realized - she was right. She was ABSOLUTELY right. There is NO WAY I could have EVER been that man.
THE DIVORCE: It was actually pretty civil. Finalized February 1999. We both played nice because we had to; I was ordered to pay a modest amount of child support, and I was happy to do it. No alimony, no retirement, but she did take $25k from the condo equity. She promptly pissed it away. I spent the next two years remodeling the condo, sold it , and waled away with more than twice what I paid here, for $100k more than we bought it for. Because the divorce was final, and she never came after the proceeds, I got to keep all that money!! We were awarded joint custody, but I got to keep him most of the time. She mostly just wanted to be with her loser, and I was all right with that. "You stay there, WE will stay here. . . ."
Since then they have lived of meager life of poverty - always seem to have money for beer, cigarettes, and tattoos, though. I own five investment properties with a respectable net worth. I am about to retire - 5 years to go. She will have to work until she is dead.
Just a quick side story: One time when I was married, the water heater broke. My family was without hot water for 18 hours. The reason it wasn't only six hours is because we discovered the problem five minutes after the hardware store closed. I couldn't get to it for another 12 hours, and then I needed the time to not only make the repair, but do an upgrade while I was there. Fast forward about 8 years. The two of them are living together. Their water heater breaks in the middle of fall. They were without hot water for almost FOUR MONTHS - through Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years! They finally got the cash from a tax refund.
Let me tell ya - I AM NOT THAT MAN!!!
Laters!
Amazing story sir. You, are by the very definition, a great man and father. Long live you and your son, peace.
John Armenta - Still your fault for marrying her in the first place. I do not feel the slightest sorry for you.
@@huckfinn9225 - Thank you sir! That is very generous of you!
@@jp3mcpherson - Thank you, sir! Since, after all, I am neither seeking pity nor want it. I am in a far, FAR better position now for NOT being married. My point is, I learned my lesson well, so I will never marry again. I hope my story can inspire others to, learn from MY mistakes so they don't have to make them.
Dang bro!!!
My ex cheated and got pregnant a month after I left for deployment...he was 60 yrs old, I was 33 at the time. Still can't figure it out. But good news is I retired at 38.
Also, I was in the Air Force. I saw what you just described happen to many airmen. A lot killed themselves and the military blamed ptsd every time. But we all know why they ended their lives...
@@poopyhole101 How any man could kill himself over a woman is insane to me. I dated a girl when I was 17 who's boyfriend topped himself after she broke up with him. Kid threw his life away at 16. I just can't comprehend it.
no survival is in our instincts. if you kill yourself. something is off in your biology. like your hormones are imbalanced etc. or in my case. lyme disease was in my brain and made me highly suicidal. but if you're genuinely healthy we will stop at nothing to survive. but ya crazy women dont help lol
@@KeithsReviews The reason men kill themselves over women is society promotes the notion that female validation is necessary for a man to live a successful life. I don't consider myself a MGTOW, but I'm glad the movement exists simply because it's one of the few causes that challenges this notion.
@@KeithsReviews Don't blame men like that,blame women and the laws.
A lot of men after a battle on the court are left with negative income because of the support he has to pay for her ex-wife,a lot of end up homeless and thrown in jail if they're paying support.
80% of women get full custody of their children after divorce and fathers are deprived of any contact with them in most cases,but they still have to pay support.
Ending your life over a relationship is indeed dumb,but divorce cases leave most men on extreme situations.
Briffault's law in action, Men. For the love of God, don't get married!
Fed Up Geo Exactly
@fed up
too late
Simple. Don't.
Enjoy your side of the MGTOW story. You proved MGTOW is freedom!
Stay free!
may day stfu simp ..
@may day I kinda agree. We're all Transgender Lesbians. And we're all broke. And live in our parents basements. Unemployed. Virgins. Neckbeards. Pretty much all the shaming labels that keep all you self-diagnosed 'Alphas' next in line to smash that sacred poon you've quested for all y'all life and that simultaneously puts the wahmin off ever wanting to offer us their snot-pockets with the promise of marriage and kids - yeah we're all that.
Now Go get 'em Tiger, us MGTOW have a load of Gay stuff to chat about in our closets.
Tried to beat you down after you gave her hospitality AFTER she was with someone else. Unreal...you got a heart of gold nothing to be ashamed about.
Looks like we got a feminist troll in the midst.
Scott Lombardi I don’t acknowledge feminazis
It looks like her comment disappeared. People like her are the reason MGTOW is growing.
shane michaels heart of gold or weakness
The sacrifices a man must make for his children. Respect sir. I am trying to ride my marriage out until my kid is nearly 18.
stay strong
Your children will need you long after 18. Thats just the beginning .
I have two for my eldest and 10 for the youngest. I don’t know if I can last that long. I’ll be in my 50s by the time the youngest is 18.
The more important question, is what picture does that pain for the kids? Remain miserable for convenience?
Be very careful when doing so-I did exactly the same before I divorced my wife-it destroyed my health in the process.
That's what me and my husband said and he has left us for another women. It started out very slow, I caught on to to the lies and the manipulation that he would spiral til he was staying with her 2 nights in a row. Wee would get the other days. Now it's been 3 wks straight. We have been together 16 yrs. Married 13 this October. I thought I had found my one and only. We were best friends 1st. I put my all into my marriage, but these last 8 months I kinda fell off the road cause I knew he was cheating. I just didn't have concrete proof to lay it on him. So waiting til they turn 18 won't work. we had a conversation "hypothetical" about that long ago where we both agreed if we were to ever fall out if love we would stick it out til our daughter turned 18. Looking back I get chills cause we aren't together at all and she is 10. It's amazing how things can change and how you thought the one person you trusted with everything bailed on you. I am not putting all the blame on him, cause it takes two to make a marriage work. Maybe I got to comfortable. I have been out of work for 2 yrs cause he wanted me to stay home and pick our daughter up from school instead of his mother, so I quit my job and that was the worse thing I could've done cause I have recently found out he was talking so much shit about me not working. so he was telling his boss, coworkers, how lazy I was but telling me, I told you to quit your job don't beat yourself up. So for the sake of your children or child don't wait til 18 unless you both get Along really well.
Great Channel! I'll share your link as one of my mystery links. You need more subscribers.
I like how hes man enough to show his face.
@@WhiteLivesMatterPL Thats what they can do at best. Some people dont have enough common sense to understand that this youtube life can harm their professional life if they get doxxed. We are living in a world where you can't even say anything against women. Even our indian mgtow channels dont show their faces because of the same reason.
Absolutely
I love the Sandman!!!👊
@@sweetb0yz We live in a system where women cannot be criticised by men on their disgusting behaviour due to modern feminism. Men need to now be so careful of what we say and who to as the repercussions are severe in our gynocentric system. Sandman's anonymity makes perfect sense to me.
Dude, She knew you wanted the children. Why she used you. She was using them as pawns.
Agreed!
Stephane, that's a great comment. Use of shaming tactics and disregard for the truth is more common for the female sex after all. Men are on average less agreeable than women.
All women use their children as leverage in difficult situations. They are a means to gain long-term public sympathy, support, protection and passive incomes.
@@stephanea5364 I suppose you think she isn't badmouthing him behind his back and putting shit in their heads too??? Don't be so naive, don't worry though...the Kids will figure it all out eventually. At least this gentleman has a chance to break free of her completely and somewhat relatively unscathed. Other Men just find themselves in Jail with False Convictions and their Careers Destroyed...while the "Big Daddy State" still expects them to fork over every last penny they have...and give the Women everything they can demand and lie about on a false affidavit. She'll get it too, and all without any question!
Yes and well it seems like some wrecked or odd spirit overcomes them or an ancestry link from Mother, Grandmother we have all seen it over and over,, Man the decision making some people have or make, consciousness.... Some people's kids!!!!
Women don't marry for love. Women marry for utility. The way men and women love is different.
Love to woman means power. Love to men means slavery.
@@NiceOneZebra you a woman?
@@NiceOneZebra Cause only a woman and psychotic feminist would say that love to men means "slavery".
Taking care of the house having kids and cooking is supposed to be slavery?
annonym surfer,
No, I’m a Man. Not a Manipulated Man.
Read this:
www.naturalthinker.net/trl/texts/Vilar,Esther/The_manipulated_man.pdf
annonym surfer,
If your married, she owns you. You don’t own shit. That house your taking care of isn’t your house. The kids are not your kids. You just haven’t realized it yet.
Avoid marriage!!( I repeat , Avoid Marriage) It's their Benefits, not yours!
Men love.
Women calculate.
Brother, do not be ashamed of telling your story: it’s cathartic. We’ve all been there brother.
The modern woman aid beyond repair.
Men LOVE, women CALCULATE.
True my friend.
But isnt it ironic, since men are RATIONAL and women EMOTIONAL?
@@AIex_Kidd agreed
I avoided marriage and having kids with the wrong woman. Happy to see you doing well. MGTOW is the way
Rollo Tomasi's work has been such a game changer for me.
There are no unicorns. Sorry man
bravo sir!
Linda L get a life and stop trolling woman. Nobody cares what you think
And that's exactly what you should do. We all should avoid committing to the wrong person.
I want a divorce = she has already monkeybranched
haha
stop picking bad women, dummy, we are not all like that.
@@wills9732 - sorry, I know it hurts to be cheated on. I hope you can move on and find a better woman. We are out here, believe it or not.
@@wills9732 - and some of us are into flings, but can still be real with you. I think it boils down to figuring out what you want and sticking to your guns. Just don't be a big baby about it - we're not you moms, but we still have a lot to offer if you have your head on straight.
@@IsaiahHollins - and you don't know that, you are assuming a lot. Be real, not ugly
Yea my wife also started having a affair with her boss as well!! He was old enough to be her dad which was sick to me. She had a hidden old man fetish!! Most likely daddy issues.
Women are attracted to looks, money, and status. Status being the #1 attribute....or even the illusion of status, which is why women fall for narcissistic sociopaths at an alarming rate.
If she thinks you'll be something special some day, she'll hook her wagon to your hitch and see how long you'll carry her through life. It's just their nature.
Bearded Hermit
Looks trump status. She cheated on him, not because of status or monkey branching, but most likely because she wanted higher pay. Women often cheat with no intention of leaving their current partner. I’ve seen it with women who try and have me as their lover.
All too common, yet such a secret in our society!
Newsflash: All women have daddy issues..
@@jasondyrkacz8270 Some WAY more than others.
Divorce was the best thing to ever happen in my life. Better then even having a kid, who turned out to be just like his mother.
My mother opened my eyes even more than my horrific experiences. While my father declines at 75 she at 65 is taking frequent holidays to Turkey with my *married* aunt and her widowed friend. That's his reward for sacrificing his potential and being a loyal husband from the age of 28. The funny thing is being red pilled I'm not surprised nor do I fucking care. Even at 65+ they will run for a ride on the carousel when circumstance permits
That's why I'm trying to teach my son early on not to be like his mother after our divorce is final.
Spielberg - 100 million for a 4 years of marriage and a prenup on a napkin...😨😨😳😳
Johnny Depp - 7 million for a lesbian who in all likelihood never loved him in the first place..😳
Heather Mills - Asked for 250 million after 6 years of marriage and a kid - GOT 50 Million.😳😨😲😨
Norma Gibson - 13K a month child support and child abuse allegations had Tyrese crying for a daughter he barely sees.😣😣
Mel Gibson = More than $300million cos they were married for many years.
These women are making prostitution look more honest and economical.
LoL
@@betagimp127 is your father well ?
@@CLIPSFAMILYGUY No, he's fucked now. In his last few years. Can barely walk.
*BG*
I never think of MGTOW as a woman hating cult or whatever.. I think the whole premise to me is about just being comfortable, and loving yourself over the female body and companionship... Men not needing validation from others in general. Some women are just terrible.. some men are terrible.. but with everything as I have seen.. women think emotionally and about resources which in turn is more terrible on average.
Greedy Pigs Mostly.
Lololol0ol her relationship with her boss is literally the PRIME example of hypergamy. Thats crazy!!!
My goodness your story is almost spot on from mine including the whole Florida thing. I’m now divorced 2 years rebuilding my life and I love my freedom enjoy your MGTOW journey brother keep up the great work on the videos!!
Pls don't tell me you're in Tampa lol... a real fuckd up town 60% divorce rate.
Linda L shut up bitch
I'm in my mid twenties and I learned a valuable lesson from my past 2 long term relationships. I'm thankful I never married and had kids with either of them, and I'm grateful one cheated on me which opened my eyes to reality. Now at 27, I can do what I want and save a lot of my money. Dating is exhausting with so many women pretending to show you feelings that are fake, and then you trying to determine if her actions and words are genuine. Nope. I'm not a gambler or a masochist. Only broke or stupid men get married or date in this day and age.
I hear you. My last girlfriend 'I love you's' came across so disingenuous. She said the words but I just didnt feel it. She couldnt even articulate what she liked about me without stumbling over her words. I should have left then and there. It's all an act. Her main concern was to be liked. Fuck being honest. If honesty would rock the boat she opted to shut up or tell a lie. She had no problems with desception, but that only went one way. Never trust a woman that proclaims to be past the immature stage. Whenever a woman says "I use to be like that when I was young and dumb, but now I've matured" you can bet she is still that same person, only better conceiled. People don't change.
Indeed, dating is exhausting. The amount of time and attention they demand is draining. They are fun but come with drama that often doesnt make it worth it.
Sky Clank dating is waste of time and money.
Iggy it's so funny how out experiences are similar. I should've left earlier as well, but one of my exes kept me drowned in pussy, so I didn't want to leave. That's how women can keep a hold of you mentally. Mgtow saved my life and wallet. I only talk to women when I have to, such as at work or school, but I'll never be involved with them in any relationship capacity. I value my mental and emotional health too much.
gbjanuary agreed sir
I feel ya mate. I'm 26, already own an appartment, saving money and working to better myself. We don't really need a long term relationship
No good deed goes unpunished.
Thats why I never help out the majority of people... especially women. (Oh, you dropped that heavy bag full of groceries, have fun picking all that up yourself)
Good story bro thanks for sharing! Stay the path! Good to see new creators like you growing! Have a great weekend!
I got a divorce after 25 years. She ripped my heart out of my chest, took my son, then court raped me. MGTOW Monk is the path for me.
Go for full custody!
My MGTOW story started like most of us, my girlfriend of 8 yrs told me she didn't feel same about us and wanted to split up. Out of the blue for me but she had it all planned out. She told me there was nobody else, she was just unhappy. So I started worked out what my plan and a few days passed, I was making some food and her phone was on the counter. A text came in from " Christopher " !! Turns out she was cheating with a guy from her work and that was the real reason for the break up. She lied straight to me face about it, couldn't believe I fell for her bullshit ! Just focusing on myself now, done with dealing with shit from women.
It's called monkey branching. The breakup and soft landing is always planned. By the time they breakup with us everyone knows about it already. We're the last one to find out about it. 99.999% of them will do this 100% of the time.
@@Jenocide999 exactly what she did man ! Even put on the waterworks before I found out the truth, then tried saying she didn't tell me because she didn't want to hurt me. Fuck her, the bloke can have the bitch ! She'll do the same thing to him when the next branch comes along
She was a girlfriend for 8 yrs? She didn't cheat... it was time to move on
I like you. We all appreciate your content. Helps young men.
Woman are all living 2 lives the one your part of and the one she is leaving you for
this is why i like this guy. he isnt afraid to talk about his situation. i appreciate a man who is open and honest and doesnt hate women whilst going MGTOW. Hate eats you alive
calling another man a beta and then paying for your ex wifes new apt? LOL
G w lol wow bruh... bet you get all the ladies, don't ya?!
this dude is FULL of walking contradictions... he actually referred to his own body as 'im not just going to give THIS away you have to work hard for it' lmao all these guys think they are 10's and deserve 10's and even then it's not good enough... most of these men at some point got hurt by a woman and instead of getting therapy they go mgtow? makes sense.... anyone that swallows this 'red pill' are signing up for a lifetime alone. decades of bitching about women and alone.. bitter old men. Not you necessarily , since you are the only one that has said anything that wasn't just out right woman hating.
smith, cher....top ten reasons why men prefer to be alone:
1) you get to spend your money any way you want without having to ask for permission
2) you can sleep in and nap anytime you want
3) you can eat whatever you want without someone nagging you
4) your life is drama free
5) you have peace and quiet
6) you don't have someone controlling your every move
7) you aren't forced to spend time with anyone's hostile, boring in-laws and obnoxious, scumbag friends
8) you can devote your time to your hobbies and passions
9) you never have to pick between your family/friends and your wife
10) you never have to deal with the pressure of keeping a woman happy (which is impossible because you enjoy chaos and misery so much)
@@chersmith7441 I don't disagree
You said she didn't clean when you were married, but in another video you said she spend all Saturday doing laundry.
The divorce was on her mind before you ever got married. They always plan for an out.
Marriage for women has become the equivalent of a career path.
My heart broke when he revealed he let her stay for a year at his place. He's s better man than I am.
Believe me they always have prospects waiting in the wings in case of emergency .The reason i got divorced was from checking messages on her laptop
@Noble Failures lmao. Damn. That sucks. Dead giveaway.
@@doubledown8229 I would've said "Suffer Bitch" and hung up the phone!
men deserve so much better
men who go MGTOW are good at picking the wrong women, but they refuse to look at themselves, and blame all of us, instead. So convenient.
@@carlyellison8498 can you clarify your claim!
@@s1leh - yes! Men won't pick a "boring" woman, because she doesn't excite them. So, they pick a "dime" (10/10 looking) woman, who is an attention hoe. And then they wonder why she successfully manipulated him.
there are plenty of us who are good looking (not 10/10, whatever that means) and who can and will treat a man right - and communicate our intentions clearly, not manipulate. But you guys LOVE the ones who mind fuck you. Sad.
@@carlyellison8498 In this day and age 99% of women are taking revealing photos and posting twerking videos on social media. Stop kidding yourself. Women and children are loved unconditionally and men are only loved if they have something to provide. No woman loves a man unconditionally and is willing to build with them. Feminism and Gynocentric Laws (favoring women and shunning men) created MGTOW. The cat is out of the bag and the philosophy is growing at a rapid pace. What does a woman actually provide to a man these days? Most women are in debt. Most women identify as extreme feminists that want to shun men. Most women support abortion which mean killing kids. Most women have standards so high that the majority of the male population can't match up to it. Many women support body positivity movements where they say it's ok to be fat and not take care of themselves. Many women are single mothers and expect men to be captain save a hoe. Many women expect that as long as they give sex they don't have to do anything else. Many women expect men to pay for everything even though they are working and making the same if not more money than men in some cases in careers. If women cared about men then they would march to the senate/congress and overturn some of these anti-male laws but they won't. Just saying.
She had planned this the whole time, to divorced you in Florida
That she did.
Agree. A year before most likely.
Yeppers... It was all planned Bro... She probably figured you'd get a great attorney in Pittsburgh and thought she could divorce rape you in another state... My ex tried that bullshit hoping for a move from up North to the Carolinas... Pissed her off that I balked at the last minute😂🤣😂
I don't know how divorce laws in Florida compare to those in Pennsylvania, but it's not uncommon for a woman to request a move before a divorce for two reasons.
1: The new location has divorce laws that are more favorable to the woman.
2: The current house will go to the husband by state divorce laws because he owned it before he met her or because he inherited it or something along those lines. If they sell the house and buy a new one together, the new one is fair game for her to get all of or at least half of.
3: She's met somebody online who lives at the new location.
Of course he says in the video that her job moved her there, but that may have been because she put in a request to move to a different location.
Absolutely.. She also planned the whole "bring me back to Pittsburgh charade.. and he paid for all of it.. With time and money.. Bummer.. He should have left that bitch in Florida and she would have had to send the kids to live with him up north anyway.. I don't get the login of bringing that nightmare back to his home city.. Let alone paying for it.. From the day my wife left, the only thing she gets from me is a brick, and that is only if she is drowning..
Years ago, I told my ex wife that we love differently.... my eyes are now open and deep down I must have subconsciously realised I was a utility
My biggest redpill was when my own mother cheated on my dad while he was in the hospital recovering from a heart attack. She still doesn't understand why I don't talk to her.
she's looking for an ATM not looks
Looks for ONS
Sounds like most women!
Flying up on subscribers. Keep doing good stuff man!
Thanks for talking the time to make the video and for putting yourself outhere. You are a great communicator.
It is worse today than ever, as it started back in the 1970s, when women started to go to work to help support the family, because many women rather stay home and raise the kids, as the economy got inflated and people got into deep in debt living pay check to pay check, as the government help to push you into it as they also went off the gold standard in the 1970s, and as you young people never learn to save your money for retirement.or a rainy day!!!!
it was all done on purpose, the fake environmental movement was created to remove all factories from the US and thats when the economy started to crash in the late 60s and through the 70s. it was all done to bring marxism to the US
Like hear REAL true experiences. They carry a lot of weight. Appreciate you putting yourself out here on UA-cam. Helping men to grasp the realities of modern marriage, LTR, dating & women in general.
You can be proud that you did your best and for your genuine love and concern for your kids. You have your priorities stacked up right.
I thought I was alone. Thanks for sharing bro. I here a lot of pump and dump advice but I'm on your wavelength. I'm looking out for me, myself and my kids. Thanks again
Good luck and we are here for YOU thank you for keeping us STRONG
Welcome aboard the MGTOW train brother!
how boring....humans are pairing animals and generally social creatures...
Welcome to the club Brother.
I was a late learner as well.
love these buddy ! thanks you ! .. I realized I am very lucky. your feelings towards women is what I have come to terms with myself. thanks
Good work mate. You come across as a sound, level-headed bloke who played your cards well and have come out on top. All the best.
I work with a man who believes in MGTOW and He introduced me to this concept. I would like to share my story and maybe it can be an encouragement to someone. I'm a female, grew up in a Christian home, and read a book about saving myself for my husband called Sex Has a Pricetag when I was 17 years old. I thought I would be married by 26 or 27 years old but met my husband and got married at 28 years old (I'm currently 29 years old). I kept myself pure for Him and was able to give myself to him on our honeymoon. I'm a one man woman and all men are called to be a one woman kind of man. This concept is found in Genesis 2, a true story of love in it's purest form. ONE MAN with ONE WOMAN for life period. After reading Genesis 2, there is the book of Ruth which is a story of commitment and love between Ruth and Boaz despite cultural differences, and then finally Proverbs 31, the greatest example of what women should strive for and what men should look for in a future spouse. I understand that there are probably not many believers here, but if we want to thrive in our lives, we have to see and read the blueprint for our hearts and lives found in God's Word. Yes there are evil women out there. Proverbs 5 and 6 provides practical tips and signs to watch for in a bad woman. My heart goes out to those who have been deeply hurt by the human being who was supposed to love you most. But there is good news: God never changes, Jesus love you, and "though my father and mother forsake me, the LORD will receive me" Psalms 27 10. Also, there is great hope, but only in Jesus (John 19-20). Do you believe in Him? He believes in you, so much so to die for you. "Greater love has no man than this then to lay down his life for his friends" John 15:13.
If the going gets tough never forsake Jesus. stay and scripture and i hope your marriage is fruitful and prosperous. You can set a good example for others as a women and a christian.
I've met plenty of Christian women who Quote these verses and are actual.. . Scumbags...
divorced yet ?
I really want to relocate but i don't think i could leave my kids. Tough decision.
themanwithnoname I'm with ya on that. Would to move and have a fresh start. But I couldn't leave my daughter, at least not till she is a bit older.
themanwithnoname It’s all I think about (relocating) but the thought of leaving my nine year old son with my ex🤦🏼♂️
The hell I went through during my marriage and divorce I could write a mini series. I’m single now for six years and I love it!!!
I'm really sorry things went that sideways for you. It is very sad that marriage is such a paper-ring thing these days, but I'm glad there are folks like you out there giving everyone a heads up and a chance to hopefully make better decisions. I thank my parents at least once a month for having stayed together (36 yrs and counting), especially watching what my husband goes through w his ex and the havoc it brings for my step kids. All the best to you and your kids :)
Women are usually two steps ahead of we men. You must pay close attention and verify what they tell you.
Dear Conservative N'at, with all due respect, don't pay too much attention (concentration) on subscription numbers. Don't want you to accumulate members as the church does without forgetting the 'essence' of the message or channel. Anyway, good luck on your endeavor 💚🙏
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I love this one!! Thanks man! This helped a lot
Great videos man, I'm glad I found your channel.
Love the Emitt Smith jersey. I am big DC fan! Don't hate!!
Mah mahn! Respect of the highest degree for putting your kids first! 👌
Keep up the good work brother! Just stumbled across you today and watched a few of your vids. Clearly you're just getting started, but you show a lot of promise. BTW, I'm a banker and I love my job, LOL.
Wow N'at! That was incredible!!!
this stuff needs to go main stream
Somehow I got trapped into a relationship. I needed a roommate and she was new in town. I was dating, but she was super nice to me. She kept trying to be My friend. My advice, if you are forced to have a female roommate, do not talk with her too long, do not socialize, make it clear this is a business relationship. I don't care how horny you are.
Good choice mate. You are a catch for them I am glad you have seen the truth. Bless you and your kids!
Holy FUCK! Your blowing up in subs. Shows that your making an impact! Congrats bro & keep up the good work!
Always follow your heart - but don't forget to take your mind along ;-)
Is it okay that I'm just 19 and I already took my red pill this early on? I can't really care for women anymore if I'm honest, I learned the truth early on in my life.
Great story man. Good for you for being an awesome dad and husband. You seem like the type of guy I would have a beer with.
Thanks for sharing. Sounds rough! I’ll stop worrying about not being married at 30!
Rule of thumb (for men, especially): don't get involved long-term with women that look substantially better than you. It will never end well. If you are hooked up with a 10, when you're only a 7, you'll be used, cheated on and discarded once you hit any hardship. Women always have options, especially if they are 7+ on the SMV scale, and they will readily take advantage of any and all opportunities.
Yeah even a 4 will have a backup. There are a lot of horny dicks out there
Great video. Lots of truth to your words Bro. We all have our own chick horror stories. Short version - Me: Honest hard working 100% faithful. Showed her and told her I Loved her every day. Our marriage was my priority. Her: Lied, (alot) cheated on me, got fired from 2 jobs in a row (I should have started asking questions then).. and when we separated.. worked real hard and went out of her way to make me believe it was my fault. And she had me convinced it was my fault for a little while. Then I found out the truth about a lot of things. Moral of MY story. I WAS an idealist. I believed that if you did the right thing.. good things happen. I believed that honesty begets honesty. I believed that your word is your bond. I was wrong. The only time honesty exists with chicks is when it is convenient to be honest, or easy to be honest. I found MGTOW about a year ago. No going back for me. from now on.. I stay true to myself. If a female can handle that ride,, that's cool. If not.. there's the door. I ride a Harley.. if she wont get on the back,, there's the door. I have a souped up Muscle Car.. if she won't go out in it on Friday or Saturday nights.. won't go to Car Shows.. Cruise Ins.. there's the door. I'm starting a new career soon, I'm gonna focus on making some real $$. If she has a problem with my career being a priority.. sorry babe.. I'm out. I'm much better off long term the MGTOW way ! Keep The Faith Brothers
I appreciate your content brother. I am sorry that she stopped loving you and I was gonna say some harsh things about her but out of respect for you, I’ll bite my tongue and part with: “Stay Strong” Brother. Love from NZ. ❤️🇳🇿
You are such a great man and father, I'm in a similar situation and so happy that I'm living the peaceful and happy life I've always deserved, also my biggest joy is teaching and loving my children because I've failed at a few things in life but I won't as a father.
Co-dependency is a nasty web to be caught in. Let her go. See!
That "downward" talk you say she has is called "millennial upspeak".
Yeah. Don't forget vocal fry.
@@WY_WY663 a guy on Rogan had it recently, and i couldn't take it. lol. It's almost an apologetic and feminized way of talking.
This is my 1st time Seeing your channel Welcome to the family and Good content my brother
You are probably one of the most level headed people I have come to admire. The fact that you offered your ex wife to move back in with you after she done you the way she did, you clearly where thinking about your kids. Most people probably gave you hell for that. I am in the beginning stages of me and my husband separating. He cheated, I found out, he only felt bad cause he got caught. I am very easy going, don't like confrontation, you know I try to be logical in every situation dont want to say anything I can't take back, and its probably why I get ran over all the time. I am a heart on the sleeve kind of person. We have a daughter together. She adores her father and I would never tarnish that image for her just because I'm hurt. It's not about me anymore like you said it's about the kids. So this has really helped and you definitely deserve major props for doing what you did. I am a subscriber now and I am so so glad I ran across your channel.
Good for not tarnishing his image. Lashing out on others hurts kids more than it does adults.
Was your ex a party girl?
Couldn’t even sit through all of this, too painful to listen too. Peace be to you brother.
Hey brother. Your story was interesting! I wish well for you and your children. Regards.
Keep up the good work my brotha we need you.....!!!!!
Great story. Thanks for admitting that helping your wife was the wrong move. It was the wrong move. But you manned-up and admitted it. *fist bump*
I was MGTOW before there was such a thing. I got rid of my last wife 21 years ago and have been happily divorced ever since. I firmly believe that in today's society there are absolutely zero advantages for a man to get married. Better to go out on ass patrol, get your ashes hauled and then leave with no strings attached.
Thank you for sharing your story. You are obviously a stand up dude to help out after what she did during the marriage. It is great that you put your kids first which not everyone is willing to do.
New subscriber. I'm digging story time 👍🏻 I'm in Wheeling,
Wheeling sucks
"WE were pregnant?"
You were not pregnant friend.
Couples have always said that.
@@deadartist8827
Really?
Not the couples I know.
Sounds like a woman's idea and phraseology.
@@lenilenape How old are you?
@@lenilenape What kinda circles you run in?
@@lenilenape Ah, I'm 46. Yeah, I don't run in those kinda circles either. Mostly military, conservative, Christian folks.
You are a good dad. Still very blue pill, though. Try and get over that.
Why the guilt? You never owed her anything. She cheated and left you.
Bud, you're SO real. I've been consuming MGTOW content for years and those providers always talk a super big game to which, of course, I could never hope to subscribe because of my current condition (red pilled while married, mercifully to a largely non-feminist woman) but in just a few short videos you've helped me to feel that there might still be hope for me on the horizon.
Seems like he hasn't met his second future ex-wife yet😂
“She’s immediately started dating her boss” BETA!😂
Happened to my father. Mother tired to take me and my brother luckily I was 15 at the time. And I told the judge no way in hell I'm staying with her
I Enjoyed hearing your story, sounds like you’re a great father.
As a women I have experienced the same situation. More then once...I have the stable well paying job and very giving of my love, time and support. My very long term relationship just ended in December. We came together both working (he was in the car busines as well) both had cars and bank accounts. First he sold his car, using mine when needed, then started to move from job to job- store to store stopped working completely. Two kids at home. Before I new it he was home everyday using my car, im working 10 hour days and he is not. Now he has no job, no car, no bank account. Took me while but i told him you have to go. Anyway it happens to women as well. Im glad you saw the light and are well. Thanks for your story
he was a stay at home dad?
@@CLIPSFAMILYGUY Nope, the kids were late teens and not his. He wanted to live "off grid." He would brag to his friends that he lived in the same town he grew up in but nobody knew where to find him. And by nobody I mean the police, the IRS and the Orange County District Attorney. They were all looking for him.
Can't turn a ho into a housewife.
The 6 most depressing times in my life were from women.Dont do it. They will put you in your grave early.I promise .
great story bro. impressive bucket collection!
I’ve always said my ex was socially stunted at age 13 and she’s now 58. Totally bizarre. Wish the internet and you guys were all around when I was 22.
Your ex-wife sounds like a real winner? Is she still single? What's she doing Friday night? :-O
GOD BLESS YOU 🙏 MY MGTOW BROTHER.
I really like listening to your auditions. Love from Poland❤️
Great story. Sounds like you handle the situation with wisdom. Congrats.
You're story is becoming exceedingly common these days. Your ex-wife doesn't seem to have many moral scruples.