doing my make-up whilst musing about my novel etc

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  • @cityslug
    @cityslug Рік тому +227

    I love listening to her talk about things with so much passion and enthusiasm, it makes me feel a little less strange for feeling so intense and it’s honestly so much fun!

  • @kaninhjaerta
    @kaninhjaerta Рік тому +103

    “it’s more vulnerable to put on moisturiser on the internet than to post a poem about my traumatising mother issues” GIRL I COULDN’T RELATE MORE

  • @più_lento_28_13
    @più_lento_28_13 Рік тому +179

    “There’s nothing specific that i’m here to talk about, except for everything, so please bear with me”. Oh Dakota, that is exactly what we’re here for.

  • @soy688
    @soy688 Рік тому +90

    THE HAIRCUT IS SO SO SO LOVELYYYY!!!!!!

  • @jess-dn4th
    @jess-dn4th Рік тому +26

    felt my whole face light up when you were describing the plot and then my stomach sink bc i know EXACTLY the feeling

  • @Cydentity
    @Cydentity Рік тому +24

    I'm speaking from a 37 year old perspective, which isn't really very old, but when reading a book it's all about getting different perspectives for me. I don't care about the age, because we are all human beings and everyone of us has a different experience in life and I'm always curious to learn more about the lives of other people and what they have to say. I can totally understand though, that you hesitate to put your novel out there, because there were times when I looked back at my silly little self and thought that I was so naive and all that stuff, which is true, I was naive, but the older I get, the more I think that I haven't changed so much, when it comes to feelings and thoughts. I was just unsure of them, unsure of myself. Not sure how to express them in an incisive way and if they are valid, because I haven't lived enough to really be sure if my experience has a solid point, a solid ground it's standing on. Since the age of 30 this feeling more and more vanishes and I'm more and more reconnecting with my silly little self and telling myself that yes, infact I was very much right about most things I thought back then. Just not enough experience to validate that, not enough peers that could mirror my perspective and thoughts, not enough voices, which could echo my feelings. Now I know I wasn't so silly after all. Still silly in a way, but we are all silly in some kinda way I guess. Just silly little humans trying to figure out life at all times and that is why it's so important to hear many different perspectives from many different human beings :)
    Coming full circle with my silly little pseudophilosophical rambling, hope it made any sense, haha

  • @sherlyspipe
    @sherlyspipe Рік тому +10

    makeup is such a fun thing to do. not to doll up - absolutely not to doll up cos we’re too pretty for makeup - but it makes us feel ready for a day/night out. it is sooo girly and human-like

  • @julieta9913
    @julieta9913 Рік тому +17

    i cannot WAIT to read your novel, i bought your poetry collection when it came out and even before that i was reading your blog and you inspire me tremendously

  • @beckitbeckit
    @beckitbeckit Рік тому +35

    something something being a young writer and being so deeply and utterly inspired by dakota and feeling intimidated by her and yearning for things just out of my grasp something something

  • @SevenUnwokenDreams
    @SevenUnwokenDreams Рік тому +61

    I'm really interested in the theme of your novel. I've been writing mine for two years as well, couldn't stop tinkering with it. And now I've recently had a revelation and decided to start the whole thing over again (can you tell it's my first? I was always mostly a poet). At some point though, we've got to push that baby out into the world!

    • @Ebony.B
      @Ebony.B Рік тому +5

      What’s your novel about?! I’m writing a historical, Greek-like fantasy romance 🤍

  • @Hellenisticc
    @Hellenisticc Рік тому +91

    You know it’s extreme girlhood when I’m also doing my makeup while listening.

    • @hy.a.cinthh
      @hy.a.cinthh 6 місяців тому +1

      your account is glorious

    • @Hellenisticc
      @Hellenisticc 6 місяців тому

      @@hy.a.cinthh aww thank you💌

  • @erinsbooks
    @erinsbooks Рік тому +12

    So love the plot of your book. I really want to read it when it comes out

  • @privateacademymoonshine6719
    @privateacademymoonshine6719 Рік тому +36

    dakota we NEED more videos like this!!

  • @thebasedgodmax1163
    @thebasedgodmax1163 Рік тому +25

    Rosemary's Baby is a great movie, shame we'll never know who directed it!

  • @Lucia-ud9ue
    @Lucia-ud9ue Рік тому +3

    I absolutely adore the concept of your novel, however while you were starting to talk about it I couldn’t help but think about Marai’s Embers. It’s an amazing book that talks about the encounter of an old aristocrat and his childhood’s friend. I love how that novel describes an interesting, codependent friendship that the reader can see devolve and continuously change. It’s an intense monologue, with unexpected turns of events and the plot seems to completely change direction in every page. It touches themes of growth, difference between classes, envy, murder. It surely reminded me of the secret history, for the morbid relationships between brother like characters and the queer subtexts.
    I would absolutely recommend it, even though i believe your novel is going to take a more vampiresque turn.

  • @jessdixon7240
    @jessdixon7240 Рік тому +2

    being here since almost the beginning it’s fascinating listening to your accent change

  • @pinkcockroach
    @pinkcockroach Рік тому +3

    I genuinely adore you Dakota and your existence brings comfort to mine < 3

  • @sofiasantato
    @sofiasantato Рік тому +1

    when you started talking about your novel I almost teared up because it speaks so deeply to me, as someone who had a crush on their now best friend's who's aroace, and now I have a partner and don't know what to do with my feelings

  • @grotesquegrl
    @grotesquegrl Рік тому +7

    i will off myself, THE lady dakota is writing a novel with the same theme as mine 😭 also i agree with everything you said about saltburn, i loved how original it was and when i opened the app i saw a man complaining about it. "too many plot twists" yeah right

  • @eightgoblins
    @eightgoblins Рік тому +2

    Dakota, you always astound me with your words, and I feel that particularly in this video. You have so much wisdom and I love the way you blend such insight and genuineness into everything you do. Your viewpoints and the cadence you express them with are so so inspiring and truly have the most positive and refreshing impact. I wish you the best in everything you do xx

  • @EternalYapper
    @EternalYapper Рік тому +1

    DAKOTTAAAA. I adore you so much, augh I could listen to you talk for hours!! Such a candid video was lovely to see, very intimate, I feel like we’re telling each other something over a phone call. You did once say parasocial intimacy is important. And also!!!! The hair is gorgeous!! Im losing my shit over it! Please m’lady im clinging to the only hair growth I’ve ever managed, you’re making me want to hack it all off again

  • @morgannerose
    @morgannerose Рік тому

    the plot of your novel just descibed my entire life omg

  • @effpng
    @effpng Рік тому +2

    the novel description!!! i’m so excited Dakota 💜💜💜

  • @erraticskul
    @erraticskul Рік тому +2

    arghhbdfbr a chit chat video of dakota. i didn't even realize how much i needed it.

  • @xveronicastasx
    @xveronicastasx Рік тому +7

    your content is always so comforting 😊
    p.s. you look gorgeous (as always)

  • @Fatimahcore
    @Fatimahcore Рік тому +1

    Your honesty in expressing your true self is commendable and i love everything about you friend,
    😍❤️XO

  • @ltqteehee
    @ltqteehee Рік тому +1

    im obsessed. we need a podcast omg

  • @margztgz
    @margztgz Рік тому +1

    the vibe is fantastic

  • @billyalarie929
    @billyalarie929 Рік тому +1

    This video is incredibly charming and wonderful and beautiful and you’re absolutely amazing and delightful
    EDIT: OMG I HATE STORIES SET WITH MODERN TECH
    I thought I was fricking alone in that!!!!

  • @milalobo6055
    @milalobo6055 Рік тому

    DAKOTA I NEED THIS BOOK! girl im screaming, I need it on a spiritual level

  • @hero72127
    @hero72127 Рік тому +2

    The novel sounds IMPECCABLE

  • @lunairis8709
    @lunairis8709 Рік тому

    this video has became my favourite of yours ever, including all your tiktoks. it felt so human and sweet.

  • @Sayantika_Sarkar
    @Sayantika_Sarkar Рік тому +1

    I can't tell you 😭 how I look forward to your videos 🥺✨ they bring such joy ❤️

  • @Jasmine-bg5cu
    @Jasmine-bg5cu Рік тому +1

    I NEEDDDD TO READ UR BOOK!!! also I love videos like this that feed my little parasocial friendship with you

  • @inesfinesse3165
    @inesfinesse3165 Рік тому +3

    you made my week by posting this

  • @justinxcinema
    @justinxcinema Рік тому +1

    If you would live in my town, I think I would have fallen for your vibes💎Thanks for bringing many people and myself into the world of books

  • @marionapina
    @marionapina Рік тому +1

    “What I say goes” yes ma’am 🫡

  • @laurenschenck5355
    @laurenschenck5355 Рік тому +2

    I am so excited for your novel I can’t wait ❤

  • @indigo_diary
    @indigo_diary Рік тому +1

    AHH so excited to hear the themes of your novel! It sounds great. Am looking forward to read it

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza Рік тому +2

    Your hair!!! You look so pretty!!! ❤

  • @mabel.222
    @mabel.222 Рік тому +1

    you are exactly how i picture camilla from the secret history

  • @beedoesstuff.
    @beedoesstuff. Рік тому +1

    dakota i love u , also ur novel sounds so fitting for jackieshauna?? (yellowjackets girlies will get me)

  • @juli3836
    @juli3836 Рік тому +1

    I'm so excited for your novel to come out! I hope it's available in Argentina

  • @memoires-blessees
    @memoires-blessees Рік тому +1

    I cannot wait for your novel to destroy me

  • @quinni241
    @quinni241 Рік тому

    the novels about toxic homoerotic best-friendships ?!!! i am so excited

  • @adellmorth6517
    @adellmorth6517 Рік тому +2

    oh the blurb of your upcoming novel deeeeeeeefinetly hit me lmao.. girls being so much more than lovers, yet a lot less, while becoming women together?..yea..

  • @lucylul7184
    @lucylul7184 Рік тому +1

    I loved this video...please do more I enjoy listening to you talk

  • @elisabethn3913
    @elisabethn3913 Рік тому +1

    Oh I would so love to read your novel one day❤️

  • @huntermirpuri
    @huntermirpuri Рік тому

    Saltburn was genius I stand by that

  • @Ebony.B
    @Ebony.B Рік тому +1

    I feel like you’re our online literary and prose-y friend.

  • @kailamichelle.h
    @kailamichelle.h 9 місяців тому

    Do you have a video on finding and cultivating your own writing style?

  • @ic3peak276
    @ic3peak276 Рік тому

    aaaa I love your style!!

  • @stellasreadingagainohno
    @stellasreadingagainohno Рік тому

    yeah…. i’m gonna need this book in my hands asap

  • @AbsintheSugar
    @AbsintheSugar Рік тому

    Saltburn was just ❤🍑🍒✨absolute magic.

  • @taylag2380
    @taylag2380 Рік тому

    this was so so so so magick

  • @kararooney6191
    @kararooney6191 Рік тому

    i adore you omg

  • @jesusloveskayla
    @jesusloveskayla Рік тому

    so pretty!

  • @pavlinamestakova4729
    @pavlinamestakova4729 7 місяців тому

    Will your first book be available again? I would love to get it (willing to pay that awful international shipping), but it's not available anywhere. :(

  • @lustforlife7792
    @lustforlife7792 Рік тому

    love your chatty videos

  • @viioletmoons
    @viioletmoons Рік тому

    NEED THIS BOOK SOON

  • @crumblecrumble99
    @crumblecrumble99 7 місяців тому +1

    WRITE THE NEXT NOVEL IN THE 60'S!!

  • @saige2975
    @saige2975 Рік тому +1

    my mom and i loved saltburn

  • @morgannerose
    @morgannerose Рік тому

    your hair looks lovely

  • @mavsepiphany
    @mavsepiphany Рік тому

    loved this video so so much

  • @beacosta2489
    @beacosta2489 Рік тому

    Does someone know where I can buy a choker like that 💘? Lady Dakota is always so gorgeous and im so excited for her novel

  • @roxyg4548
    @roxyg4548 Рік тому

    It truly is an honor to experience this 💘💘

  • @Lifeisabsurd123
    @Lifeisabsurd123 Рік тому +7

    mother is mothering, y'all. It's been a while since I watched your content Dakota, hopefully this comment finds you well ♡

  • @dellaxrose
    @dellaxrose Рік тому

    ajhjsksnah i am so excited for your novel

  • @sopsey
    @sopsey Рік тому

    Spent so much time trying to glimpse your rings - where are they from?

  • @a-yam943
    @a-yam943 Рік тому

    Omg the not liking technology in books is so real I cannot stand modern technology in art. I want everything to be set ambiguously

  • @maxlupin
    @maxlupin Рік тому

    I love you Dakota Warren

  • @laurenschenck5355
    @laurenschenck5355 Рік тому +1

    You look so amazing Dakota so beautiful and fabulous ❤

  • @rainqd1889
    @rainqd1889 Рік тому +1

    have you ever read piranesi? I just finished it recently it's made me dive into susanna clark, highly recommend to anyone reading this

    • @vim622
      @vim622 Рік тому +1

      i can’t begin to explain what piranesi has done to me, it was unfathomable!

  • @MiguelOcampo
    @MiguelOcampo 11 місяців тому +1

    What do you think is the hardest part of writing a novel?

    • @galacticwizard4082
      @galacticwizard4082 11 місяців тому +2

      going to the genius herself for advice...good 1 Miguel

  • @snowingonolympus8588
    @snowingonolympus8588 Рік тому +1

    i would read ur novel in any form btw

  • @Slowdive52
    @Slowdive52 Рік тому +1

    only real ones know Rosemary's baby was directed by nobody 🔥🔥

  • @obs3ssed662
    @obs3ssed662 Рік тому +1

    me watching this while cutting my hair:

  • @melyibarra809
    @melyibarra809 Рік тому +1

    💙💙💙💙

  • @ItsAllFluff
    @ItsAllFluff Рік тому

    Adore you.

  • @bzztthundaa
    @bzztthundaa Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @idontexist6366
    @idontexist6366 Рік тому +1

    i looove the new hair, and if you happened to dye it brown i might just die,, just saying

  • @melyibarra809
    @melyibarra809 Рік тому

    Day to celebrate

  • @zeldasaurusrex1647
    @zeldasaurusrex1647 Рік тому

    cool

  • @whoisxenon
    @whoisxenon Рік тому

    i’m still reading and have yet to make a dent in it, but Gray by Pete Wentz is a good dark and gloomy read

  • @WitchRapture
    @WitchRapture Рік тому +1

    I would eat this book tf up