I love listening to her talk about things with so much passion and enthusiasm, it makes me feel a little less strange for feeling so intense and it’s honestly so much fun!
I'm speaking from a 37 year old perspective, which isn't really very old, but when reading a book it's all about getting different perspectives for me. I don't care about the age, because we are all human beings and everyone of us has a different experience in life and I'm always curious to learn more about the lives of other people and what they have to say. I can totally understand though, that you hesitate to put your novel out there, because there were times when I looked back at my silly little self and thought that I was so naive and all that stuff, which is true, I was naive, but the older I get, the more I think that I haven't changed so much, when it comes to feelings and thoughts. I was just unsure of them, unsure of myself. Not sure how to express them in an incisive way and if they are valid, because I haven't lived enough to really be sure if my experience has a solid point, a solid ground it's standing on. Since the age of 30 this feeling more and more vanishes and I'm more and more reconnecting with my silly little self and telling myself that yes, infact I was very much right about most things I thought back then. Just not enough experience to validate that, not enough peers that could mirror my perspective and thoughts, not enough voices, which could echo my feelings. Now I know I wasn't so silly after all. Still silly in a way, but we are all silly in some kinda way I guess. Just silly little humans trying to figure out life at all times and that is why it's so important to hear many different perspectives from many different human beings :) Coming full circle with my silly little pseudophilosophical rambling, hope it made any sense, haha
makeup is such a fun thing to do. not to doll up - absolutely not to doll up cos we’re too pretty for makeup - but it makes us feel ready for a day/night out. it is sooo girly and human-like
something something being a young writer and being so deeply and utterly inspired by dakota and feeling intimidated by her and yearning for things just out of my grasp something something
I'm really interested in the theme of your novel. I've been writing mine for two years as well, couldn't stop tinkering with it. And now I've recently had a revelation and decided to start the whole thing over again (can you tell it's my first? I was always mostly a poet). At some point though, we've got to push that baby out into the world!
i cannot WAIT to read your novel, i bought your poetry collection when it came out and even before that i was reading your blog and you inspire me tremendously
I absolutely adore the concept of your novel, however while you were starting to talk about it I couldn’t help but think about Marai’s Embers. It’s an amazing book that talks about the encounter of an old aristocrat and his childhood’s friend. I love how that novel describes an interesting, codependent friendship that the reader can see devolve and continuously change. It’s an intense monologue, with unexpected turns of events and the plot seems to completely change direction in every page. It touches themes of growth, difference between classes, envy, murder. It surely reminded me of the secret history, for the morbid relationships between brother like characters and the queer subtexts. I would absolutely recommend it, even though i believe your novel is going to take a more vampiresque turn.
i will off myself, THE lady dakota is writing a novel with the same theme as mine 😭 also i agree with everything you said about saltburn, i loved how original it was and when i opened the app i saw a man complaining about it. "too many plot twists" yeah right
when you started talking about your novel I almost teared up because it speaks so deeply to me, as someone who had a crush on their now best friend's who's aroace, and now I have a partner and don't know what to do with my feelings
Dakota, you always astound me with your words, and I feel that particularly in this video. You have so much wisdom and I love the way you blend such insight and genuineness into everything you do. Your viewpoints and the cadence you express them with are so so inspiring and truly have the most positive and refreshing impact. I wish you the best in everything you do xx
DAKOTTAAAA. I adore you so much, augh I could listen to you talk for hours!! Such a candid video was lovely to see, very intimate, I feel like we’re telling each other something over a phone call. You did once say parasocial intimacy is important. And also!!!! The hair is gorgeous!! Im losing my shit over it! Please m’lady im clinging to the only hair growth I’ve ever managed, you’re making me want to hack it all off again
This video is incredibly charming and wonderful and beautiful and you’re absolutely amazing and delightful EDIT: OMG I HATE STORIES SET WITH MODERN TECH I thought I was fricking alone in that!!!!
oh the blurb of your upcoming novel deeeeeeeefinetly hit me lmao.. girls being so much more than lovers, yet a lot less, while becoming women together?..yea..
Will your first book be available again? I would love to get it (willing to pay that awful international shipping), but it's not available anywhere. :(
“it’s more vulnerable to put on moisturiser on the internet than to post a poem about my traumatising mother issues” GIRL I COULDN’T RELATE MORE
“There’s nothing specific that i’m here to talk about, except for everything, so please bear with me”. Oh Dakota, that is exactly what we’re here for.
I love listening to her talk about things with so much passion and enthusiasm, it makes me feel a little less strange for feeling so intense and it’s honestly so much fun!
THE HAIRCUT IS SO SO SO LOVELYYYY!!!!!!
I'm speaking from a 37 year old perspective, which isn't really very old, but when reading a book it's all about getting different perspectives for me. I don't care about the age, because we are all human beings and everyone of us has a different experience in life and I'm always curious to learn more about the lives of other people and what they have to say. I can totally understand though, that you hesitate to put your novel out there, because there were times when I looked back at my silly little self and thought that I was so naive and all that stuff, which is true, I was naive, but the older I get, the more I think that I haven't changed so much, when it comes to feelings and thoughts. I was just unsure of them, unsure of myself. Not sure how to express them in an incisive way and if they are valid, because I haven't lived enough to really be sure if my experience has a solid point, a solid ground it's standing on. Since the age of 30 this feeling more and more vanishes and I'm more and more reconnecting with my silly little self and telling myself that yes, infact I was very much right about most things I thought back then. Just not enough experience to validate that, not enough peers that could mirror my perspective and thoughts, not enough voices, which could echo my feelings. Now I know I wasn't so silly after all. Still silly in a way, but we are all silly in some kinda way I guess. Just silly little humans trying to figure out life at all times and that is why it's so important to hear many different perspectives from many different human beings :)
Coming full circle with my silly little pseudophilosophical rambling, hope it made any sense, haha
felt my whole face light up when you were describing the plot and then my stomach sink bc i know EXACTLY the feeling
makeup is such a fun thing to do. not to doll up - absolutely not to doll up cos we’re too pretty for makeup - but it makes us feel ready for a day/night out. it is sooo girly and human-like
something something being a young writer and being so deeply and utterly inspired by dakota and feeling intimidated by her and yearning for things just out of my grasp something something
I'm really interested in the theme of your novel. I've been writing mine for two years as well, couldn't stop tinkering with it. And now I've recently had a revelation and decided to start the whole thing over again (can you tell it's my first? I was always mostly a poet). At some point though, we've got to push that baby out into the world!
What’s your novel about?! I’m writing a historical, Greek-like fantasy romance 🤍
i cannot WAIT to read your novel, i bought your poetry collection when it came out and even before that i was reading your blog and you inspire me tremendously
dakota we NEED more videos like this!!
Rosemary's Baby is a great movie, shame we'll never know who directed it!
You know it’s extreme girlhood when I’m also doing my makeup while listening.
your account is glorious
@@hy.a.cinthh aww thank you💌
So love the plot of your book. I really want to read it when it comes out
I absolutely adore the concept of your novel, however while you were starting to talk about it I couldn’t help but think about Marai’s Embers. It’s an amazing book that talks about the encounter of an old aristocrat and his childhood’s friend. I love how that novel describes an interesting, codependent friendship that the reader can see devolve and continuously change. It’s an intense monologue, with unexpected turns of events and the plot seems to completely change direction in every page. It touches themes of growth, difference between classes, envy, murder. It surely reminded me of the secret history, for the morbid relationships between brother like characters and the queer subtexts.
I would absolutely recommend it, even though i believe your novel is going to take a more vampiresque turn.
i will off myself, THE lady dakota is writing a novel with the same theme as mine 😭 also i agree with everything you said about saltburn, i loved how original it was and when i opened the app i saw a man complaining about it. "too many plot twists" yeah right
being here since almost the beginning it’s fascinating listening to your accent change
I genuinely adore you Dakota and your existence brings comfort to mine < 3
when you started talking about your novel I almost teared up because it speaks so deeply to me, as someone who had a crush on their now best friend's who's aroace, and now I have a partner and don't know what to do with my feelings
Dakota, you always astound me with your words, and I feel that particularly in this video. You have so much wisdom and I love the way you blend such insight and genuineness into everything you do. Your viewpoints and the cadence you express them with are so so inspiring and truly have the most positive and refreshing impact. I wish you the best in everything you do xx
your content is always so comforting 😊
p.s. you look gorgeous (as always)
arghhbdfbr a chit chat video of dakota. i didn't even realize how much i needed it.
the plot of your novel just descibed my entire life omg
DAKOTTAAAA. I adore you so much, augh I could listen to you talk for hours!! Such a candid video was lovely to see, very intimate, I feel like we’re telling each other something over a phone call. You did once say parasocial intimacy is important. And also!!!! The hair is gorgeous!! Im losing my shit over it! Please m’lady im clinging to the only hair growth I’ve ever managed, you’re making me want to hack it all off again
the novel description!!! i’m so excited Dakota 💜💜💜
im obsessed. we need a podcast omg
Your honesty in expressing your true self is commendable and i love everything about you friend,
😍❤️XO
the vibe is fantastic
“What I say goes” yes ma’am 🫡
This video is incredibly charming and wonderful and beautiful and you’re absolutely amazing and delightful
EDIT: OMG I HATE STORIES SET WITH MODERN TECH
I thought I was fricking alone in that!!!!
The novel sounds IMPECCABLE
I can't tell you 😭 how I look forward to your videos 🥺✨ they bring such joy ❤️
this video has became my favourite of yours ever, including all your tiktoks. it felt so human and sweet.
DAKOTA I NEED THIS BOOK! girl im screaming, I need it on a spiritual level
you made my week by posting this
I cannot wait for your novel to destroy me
AHH so excited to hear the themes of your novel! It sounds great. Am looking forward to read it
I NEEDDDD TO READ UR BOOK!!! also I love videos like this that feed my little parasocial friendship with you
Your hair!!! You look so pretty!!! ❤
I am so excited for your novel I can’t wait ❤
you are exactly how i picture camilla from the secret history
If you would live in my town, I think I would have fallen for your vibes💎Thanks for bringing many people and myself into the world of books
oh the blurb of your upcoming novel deeeeeeeefinetly hit me lmao.. girls being so much more than lovers, yet a lot less, while becoming women together?..yea..
dakota i love u , also ur novel sounds so fitting for jackieshauna?? (yellowjackets girlies will get me)
I'm so excited for your novel to come out! I hope it's available in Argentina
I loved this video...please do more I enjoy listening to you talk
WRITE THE NEXT NOVEL IN THE 60'S!!
Oh I would so love to read your novel one day❤️
Saltburn was genius I stand by that
the novels about toxic homoerotic best-friendships ?!!! i am so excited
love this podcast-like video!! i know it's not your niche (vibe? thing?) but a podcast from you would be muah!!! love you always xx
yeah…. i’m gonna need this book in my hands asap
Do you have a video on finding and cultivating your own writing style?
i adore you omg
love your chatty videos
I feel like you’re our online literary and prose-y friend.
this was so so so so magick
Saltburn was just ❤🍑🍒✨absolute magic.
aaaa I love your style!!
so pretty!
NEED THIS BOOK SOON
your hair looks lovely
loved this video so so much
my mom and i loved saltburn
ajhjsksnah i am so excited for your novel
What do you think is the hardest part of writing a novel?
going to the genius herself for advice...good 1 Miguel
mother is mothering, y'all. It's been a while since I watched your content Dakota, hopefully this comment finds you well ♡
It truly is an honor to experience this 💘💘
Spent so much time trying to glimpse your rings - where are they from?
I love you Dakota Warren
Will your first book be available again? I would love to get it (willing to pay that awful international shipping), but it's not available anywhere. :(
Does someone know where I can buy a choker like that 💘? Lady Dakota is always so gorgeous and im so excited for her novel
Omg the not liking technology in books is so real I cannot stand modern technology in art. I want everything to be set ambiguously
You look so amazing Dakota so beautiful and fabulous ❤
me watching this while cutting my hair:
have you ever read piranesi? I just finished it recently it's made me dive into susanna clark, highly recommend to anyone reading this
i can’t begin to explain what piranesi has done to me, it was unfathomable!
i would read ur novel in any form btw
only real ones know Rosemary's baby was directed by nobody 🔥🔥
💙💙💙💙
❤❤❤
Adore you.
i looove the new hair, and if you happened to dye it brown i might just die,, just saying
Day to celebrate
cool
i’m still reading and have yet to make a dent in it, but Gray by Pete Wentz is a good dark and gloomy read
I would eat this book tf up