SELFIE LOVE vs SELF LOVE
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
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This series has literally changed my life xxxx
fab Tino FACTS
same!!
fab Tino no lies. I have been getting my whole life right.
Me too. It's rare to see a UA-camr having honest conversations about these type of topics.
fab Tino girl trust me. I can relate on so many levels 👌🏾
"MY INSECURITIES MAKE ME HUMBLE AND WHEN I AM HUMBLE I AM RELATABLE AND WHEN I AM RELATABLE I CAN HELP PEOPLE"
YASSSS BREEENY SIS!!!👡
THE REALIST WOMEN ON UA-cam
SA-RA K SA-RA K She really is tho
This is a fact
Those snapchat filters are a trap. Very eurocentric in terms of how it changes the features. I'm loving the WOKE Breeny
I agree!
I've deleted and disconnected myself from all social media for 2yrs now so I could learn about myself, be more productive and positively involved & influential to people i interact with
I really feel like you're going to become a successful speaker, we're probably looking at the next Oprah or the female version of Tony Robbins...
Mawusse Agba - Amen 😊
Yes! The Christian version of Tony Robins!
Some men will sacrifice a good heart,a good woman for good looks..Preach!!
This soul surgery series is one of the best series invented on UA-cam, loving ur hair color btw
I got rid of all social media and Breeny I cannot tell you how much I have grown mentally and emotionally. There are still things I have to work on, but I can now work on those things without feeling validated on social media. I don't even miss it.
I shaved my head last week and it was the most freeing thing ever! This series is partly the reason why I did it, never felt so free and confident. I have been getting a lot of compliments, but deep down, I know I am validated and valued by Christ and that's been keeping me going. I do the constant reminders of telling myself that "I am beautiful, I am smart and I am intelligent" (it helps a lot). But thank you soo much for sharing your journey, you've given me so much insight on this.
"Selfie+ Selfish" true... I really love these videos. But this one?! Hmm! I don't think people realize how much they rely on social media especially Instagram and Snapchat? I barely use social media and this is the most reason why. You don't see it now, but overtime, you lose yourself and the simple and great things in life when all you rely is a reflective screen.
"End Times!!!" in the bible it says "they will be lovers of themselves" the term "SELFIE" very subtly introduced! I hear you sis 💯
I too am guilty, but your video is so enlightening 😊 thank you!
Love the scripture reference you gave at 2 Timothy 3:1-5
Dear Breeny,
first of all you are such a beautiful women inside out, you have such a beautiful soul. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS SERIES! I am so happy and proud that finally someone is using her reach to adress a very important topic, which is very often ignored. You have encouraged and inspired me to work on my mental health and to change many things in my life. The things you adress are so important and things that really matter in life. I wish you all the best and that you reach your 1 million subcribers with this kind of topics and not hauls, pranks, challenges etc. ! May the Lord continue to bless you!
Patricia Chloé - Thank you so much! ❤️
I think when teenagers go overboard with the selfies... Its to be expected, because teenagers are typically selfish, and they kinda have the right to be because they really have nothing but themselves to worry about at that age.
When fully grown women with jobs and families do it, its kinda pathetic to me when they think of themselves as the best thing to take a pic of. I've noticed that my friends that have full lives, with good friends, travel and hunger for knowledge and passion for new experiences, very, very rarely take selfies. Like, maybe if they got a new hairdo, or just happened to be wearing something the feel particularly amazing in. I have other friends who literally post nothing but selfies, and it just makes me think they must have really sad, empty lives, because they put SO MUCH IMPORTANCE on these likes. It looks like their self worth is tied up in "likes", to the point where they are forgetting about getting out and actually enjoying life.... They're too busy looking at their reflection, they are missing out on everything else.
Very well said...that's why I'm barely on social media\facebook. Can't stand seeing ppl on my timeline posting crazy stuff, a million selfies, and being desperate for "likes" and attention....
Boobalopbop your youtube name caught my eye cos i remember you commented on one or two supersize superskinny video...
....i also agree with your comment.
honestly love your channel girl. you're real!
Girl this is so powerful! I agree with everything you said. You can't live your life trying to fit a particular standard of beauty because beauty is subjective. What's beautiful to one person can be ugly to another. You will never win trying to play the beauty game. However, if you have a beautiful soul people will look past your exterior and love you for who you truly are. My soul sister, I Love you. Blessings 💕xx
Tee TV - AMEN ❤️
please make videos more frequently!! you helped me overcome my depression. Thank you so much Breeny, I feel like you're my older sister. I Love you!!
I could listen to Soul Surgery all day
Yes, we must start appreciating what we do have instead of what we don’t have.
I watch you're videos and it really started to make me evaluate myself.
I'm going through my own self love journey and have been since I was young.
to all the young girls watching this even reading this you are beautiful do not conform to societies beauty standards god broke the mold when he made you
social media is the devil himself we're never gonna to be perfect and that's the truth.
god loves you no matter what.
So greatly worded! Wish more people were humble and down to earth like you! You are glowing!
mizzstar21 - thank you ❤️
LOL Never clicked a notification sooooooo fast!!! Love You Breeny, I wish I could go to your meet and greet!!
I love this. Thanks for sharing. I been out of social media in order to start loving myself more and stop seeking perfection and others evaluation. Keep talking the true. love from CostaRica
This segment speaks volumes .. I myself can admit that I was starting to become a person who was so fixated with Snapchat . I would think about what I was going to do on a day or what I was going to wear so I could show it to others. I then decided to delete the app from my phone for a while and eventually I lost my Iphone which until this day I do not own one . I am in a place where I could now look back and just realise how closed I was in a world of narcism .
Isn't she amazing? Yes she's. Love you from Ireland .
Your soooo genuine &&& real I love that about you !! You omg even have to try ... your message is real an I really appreciate it ! Other real people need to hear what you saying 💯
“Humble yourself or I’ll wipe off your eyebrows” 💀😭 ... the realest statement ever !! People really turn into another person when it comes to vain standards of beauty
THIS IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING I HAVE EVER SEEN. I have taken 3 pages of detailed notes and I am readyyyyy for internalizing all and loving myself, my authentic self, unconditionally and grow myself through slow progress and not instant gratification, and through self-love.
I stopt using snapshat since 1 year cz it makes me feel not enough when i see a normal picture of me
And it is so good
your sooooooo courageous and inspiring! Im so happy that you stand up and try to change or let me say open our minds. Send you much love, your follower from Germany.
Not trying to be shady, but I really like you they way you are now because you seem so real. Love these soul surgery videos. You are really changing the beauty/fashion youtber"game". X x x
Speaking what you don’t see until it becomes realty is law of attraction. I live by this! Repetition and having a positive mental belief is a major key 👌🏾 ... love you right now while working on yourself from the inside out and you’ll always win
You are such an inspiration. Please continue doing this if you can ! Have so much respect.
Love you so much for this
I'm 25 and trying to be myself feels like I'm insulting people. After watching this I wanna explore myself even more
Venessa Crusoe - Be FREE! ❤️
Wish I could take a picture of my soul at the start of this series and then again after because I can feel the change. I was stuck stagnant in my walk with God but you've got me moving again so thank you girl 💖
SinnyM - wow!! praise God!! ❤️
It's crazy, because my Dad was having a talk with me and i was obsessed with taking selfies every second and he told me that it's becoming a bad habit and can turn into a sickness. I thought he was joking but i realized i had a personal issue and wanted to feel comfortable within myself but i lacked confidence. I've learning a lot and on my journey to change and becoming a better me this has helped me on my journey and may God continue to bless you because he's using you and this platform for a reason.. God bless.
Everyone needs to hear this, thanks
Your videos help me through all the trials and tribulations I go through on a daily. I started to type in another relationship video and God directed me to you. Keep being great.I really appreciate it
Breeny you look absolutely beautiful darling. Great message Queen.
To not focus on externals, you have to understand WHY we are here on earth. We are all balls of energy, energetic beings confined & restricted in a physical body. The goal is for us to push & learn to MASTER our energy instead of being fooled by the physical world. When you focus on physicals, you don't use your energy. Ie looking at a woman's beauty focuses only on her physical. To love her for her ENERGIES of patience, kindness etc means she has to show those energies. But if only her external is looked at, she never has to work on being a patient, kind person & therefore she never learns how to successfully embody these energies. This is why the world is set up by higher powers to have you obsessing on external things, to keep you from mastering your energies & growing spiritually. If you don't grow, you get stuck on earth, being born again & again (reincarnation) until you learn how to MASTER energy. This is what "Be in the world, not of it" from the Bible means. We are 4D beings living in a 3D reality to test us & make us more advanced souls. Ok done with the deepness. 😂👽✨
God knows how long I been waiting !
Shaving my head was an amazing liberation. Your soul Breeny is gorgeous. You could be in garbage bags and be beautiful bc you can’t hide that spirit of yours.
that moment when this week episode spoke to areas where you are struggling!!!! Thank you Breeny Lee I really needed this week's reminder. 😊
This series is so empowering and very needed for the culture!! You are making a statement and difference💕 I’m so inspired by your courage💪🏾
I’m so thankful to have found your channel these are the words my soul have been craving for Self Love you are amazing continue to speak the truth ❤️
Speak what you want not what you see cause the law of attraction gives you what you want to be
Thank you so much for this series Breeny!! Helping young girls everywhere in a time where we need it most!
oh my gosh Breeny SPEAK IT!!! OPEN THE EYES OF THE BLIND!!!
Hey Breeny ! Merci pour toutes ces vidéos et ces messages profonds. J'apprends l'anglais et j'apprends aussi à travailler sur moi même, la vision de moi-même, ma confiance ! Que Dieu te bénisse 🤗🤗🤗 Vraiment enrichissant ! Yours videos gives me a strengh 💪💪💪👍👍 😁😁
You are just amazing, I love how you keep empowering everyone
I came across your channel by accident last year ...tuned in since then . I must say I always found you were beautiful even without makeup. Happy that you are embracing your natural beauty . All the best to you mama.
Love this very good. So true it’s very concerning that we don’t love our selves as God made us . We are made in the image of God . May God help us all to see ourselves as he sees us.
I am so proud of you Breeny. You have gone so far already and you are such an inspiration. I agree with every word you say, especially what you said about slow progress. Everybody is looking for short cuts but THERE ARE NO SHORTCUTS to self love and happiness. It is a slow, tedious, hard work. I've seen people looking for shortcuts and you know what? Ironically they have NEVER progressed, because all they have done is they wait for something to happen that would change their life. But this something is an illusion! There is no magic something that will change your live overnight. The magic is in us and we have to discover it. And this is the love you are talking about. Only when you struggle, take challenges, set the bar higher and higher, suffer failures and celebrate success, this is when you can find your real self and your power, and with your power you know there is nothing you cannot do. God bless you and I am looking forward to another brilliant video of yours :)
Estera Edu - Yes!! thank you so much ❤️
This so real, I noticed recently that I stopped posting my pics cos I realized I never looked beautiful. I love you so much, I don't have to be perfect for others
selfie? it's the back camera that phucks me up!!
Lovely video.
You are the reason i am the way i am. Love you so much!
Massive thumbs up to you, such an important and inspirational message, you are so wise beyond your years, wish I had heard this message at a young age it would have saved me from years of self loathing and low self esteem. I shall be sharing this message with my teenage daughter. Thank You ❤️
I love this authenticity
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Saw you on First Dates in 2020 - started following your amazing awe-inspiring videos. I salute you Queen for your truth and light on your journey in life. You are beautiful in and out.
You have been a wonderful confirmation! Much much appreciation! I stripped down many years ago, and no regrets. My nose, my hair, my skin, I made a conscious decision to appreciate. I used to make money off of what I looked like when I was muscled up as a fitness trainer. So many in the fitness industry can cover up insecurities with muscles (for example at the fitness competitions many dehydrate themselves to win the competition and look ripped for one day. And will take steroids, and do things unhealthy to the body which I observed wasn't even about health. We can take something so positive, like exercise and grooming and turn it into something obsessive, like over exercising. Well I thoroughly enjoy taking care of my body temple and hair, though I feel so comfortable with me. It has been and continues to be a journey. Any hoo, thank you for sharing. :)K
Thank you so much
This series is so empowering. Thank you.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 yes!! Your words really helped me through the mental space I was in especially when I just got out of a relationship for myself... almost compromised because a man wanted me to be slim and he was a narc. I believe God brought me here to
Listen to
You because it is literally lifting a hold
Off of
My mind I thank you so much!!!
Breeny seriously the word that you are preaching throughout this series is just 🔥🔥🔥 Thank you so much 😘
🤔"When u know who u are, u know who u aren't"🙏🏾.. yaaasss... those mean words don't define u boo😘❤️
Not only are you an amazing speaker...you are GORGEOUS. Total bonus.
Ooooh wooww your channel has literally changed my life. Love your talk videos and now soul surgery yaaasshh !!!
Love it hunny your such amazing warm person it was a pleasure meeting you the other week xx
Amen girl!!! I wish I was in Europe to come to your event. You deserve the support.
This is motivating!! Be yourself, be authentic. Such a powerful message. ♡♡♡ Thank you
Absolutely love this series Breeny! The filter convo is so on point and true!
👏👏👏👏👏 speechless, one of the best inspirational videos ever seen!!! Keep on keeping on Breeny , you are on so something extraordinary ! God bless you 💝✨💝
*Love this.* We all need to love ourselves on the inside. Love & accept ourselves for the beautiful souls that we are. Loved your message. ✌🙋💜
THIS TOUCHED MY SOUL!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE REALNESS! Xxx
you're so real and inspiring! watching your vids are so therapeutic!!
This is a powerful message and I am happy at the fact I clicked to watch this video ... it has literally shown me what life is really about and not trying to please people and finding inner peace and just being happy with your flaws ... the Snapchat filter part was very interesting and I relate to it ...
Great message ❤️
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this is soo deep! You are a great speaker Breeny. way to go!!
Breeny is so beautiful
This is still relevant In 2020
Your true beauty shines more with a natural look ....although your looks with wigs are cool
This is too good and too real. Breeny I applaud you 👏🏽 amen sister friend for this, everything so spot on 🙏🏽 thanking God for these new videos you are making 🙌🏽
So glad I found your channel💛
so glad to came across your videos, this convicts ma heart, it speaks to me on another level. m watching you speak n m like how do you know all of this about me. I love you Breeny, you're such a great inspiration. Thank you!!
I love this so much. I recently decided I needed to love myself because I could love another. I was dragging myself down causing me to feel insecure. Being told in past relationships that I was beautiful or pretty I would get upset and accuse them of lying to me but as of a few days ago. After watching a few of your videos I asked myself why I was talking myself down. So thank you so much. Telling us what we need to hear because I know, I was never told anything. Like what your saying now. ❤
Absolutely looooove this!😊 Society today is founded upon VANITY and makes people forget what truly matters and that is: Self love. Everything you said is incredibly POWERFUL from social media and looking at our reflections in shop windows etc. Intentions are everything. Why do we need to care about other people's opinions?
I am so amazed with how far God has taken me, because i think i used to care a lot more about how others perceived me. (Still working on this)I used to think other people were staring because i look really BAD and then i counterattacked that thought. with: NO maybe it is because you are tall and you look wonderful! stop being so silly. When i finally had the chance to look at my reflection, i realised that i looked great. It's all in our heads! We have to challenge the negative thoughts that make us obsess about silly things.
God bless you Breeny. It's wonderful to listen to something so meaningful!❤
Queenof TheNile - You hit the nail on the head!! and I love how you turned the negatives into a positive. When I walk down the street and people look at me I know it's because I'm fabulous and not because there's something wrong (my friends always wanna fight everyone that looks lool) self love is the only love xx
Thanks for the lovely reply! It is indeed! that made me laugh! Your friends wanting to fight everyone that looks LOL!
Hey Breeny. Thank you for this video. I have been struggling with self love. I honestly believe that I am a kind hearted and funny person. But it's hard to relate to people when people judge you by your physical appearance. I'm overweight and I'm constantly reminded. It makes me feel horrible. Sometimes i feel like something is wrong with me. But thank you for reminding me that its what's cultivated on the inside. I'm going to watch all your soul surgery videos❤God bless you
So deep!!! you are a great speaker breeny. way to go
You are encouraging me more and more with every video,,, I have been on this journey myself and just stumbled on your videos! THANK YOU!
Hey Breeny, I love your message. Please keep inspiring people with your words.
You are amazing, beautiful inside and out thanks so much for these inspiring videos they really help me love myself ❤☺
Such a good message!!! More young girls need to hear this
Loved this so much, your words spoke to me. Amazing!
wow this series is really life changing. thank you sooo very much💛
Needed this! Love it❤️ thank you for being obedient and doing this series!
You have inspired me to love my natural self.
Love your channel. Continue to inspire and empower us.
omgasssh! I'm loving your videos so much breeny. It really gets me through my days. I tried to tell someone exactly what you've been saying and they didn't want to hear it and go sooo angry. some people just don't want to work on themselves from the inside out or not ready to because it can be quite exposing to yourself when you remove these masks. Can't wait for your next video. You are truly inspiring 💖💖💖
So much wisdom. This video is truly amazing!!🙌🏼 wow
I really love who real you are, also you inspired me in so many ways.❤️❤️❤️
sudani girl - thank you so much xxx