6 signs of male insecurity that turn women off

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  16 днів тому +21

    Want a private consultation with me? Let me help you work through any relationship questions you may have. stan.store/JessicaOSGH/p/book-a-11-call-with-me-12z6w

  • @cuttingedgeConsistentTraders
    @cuttingedgeConsistentTraders 16 днів тому +39

    No specific formula to handle women, in fact the more you keep widening this to-do list the more confusion trickles in. As a man, just look for money, pray God to give you somebody whom you share same aspirations and can get along with, then show some love, care, be the provider and leader, rest will fall in line. Keep life simple; there is lots of stress in life to handle already

    • @Dawgyjoe
      @Dawgyjoe 12 днів тому +2

      I agree with this

    • @evzy7615
      @evzy7615 6 днів тому +2

      Best statement, videos can be confusing

  • @Kossi-t7h
    @Kossi-t7h 16 днів тому +144

    Just don t care about them.don t truly ,really care.don t pretend but really don t care.and you win.

    • @josedrullon
      @josedrullon 16 днів тому +9

      Amen!

    • @franktheu3684
      @franktheu3684 16 днів тому +20

      When you want to form a meaningful relationship, you'll genuinely care. Not all the time, be spontaneous

    • @Trustee-of-The-Most-High
      @Trustee-of-The-Most-High 16 днів тому +14

      All players are losers
      Because all losers where players .
      If you don't play, you can't lose

    • @i.q.1979
      @i.q.1979 16 днів тому +4

      How can you be spontaneous about caring?

    • @i.q.1979
      @i.q.1979 16 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @versedwell
    @versedwell 16 днів тому +95

    My last relationship: I did the whole "honest and upfront" thing, and it ended in a drawn-out argument that took me off my path. I'm not saying NOT to open up fellas, but if you do, rest assured she will use it against you. She doesn't care about your feelings. Nobody does. And it's cool. It's just part of being a man. Focus on God. 🙏✝️

    • @damianhaynes3181
      @damianhaynes3181 16 днів тому +12

      I fell for the same trap. Was open and honest only for it to be thrown back into my face. Now she wonders why I don't open up anymore

    • @thrilla72
      @thrilla72 16 днів тому

      They use it as ammunition to attack you. That is the reason they ask. Guys don't fall for it

    • @georgesellu3625
      @georgesellu3625 16 днів тому +18

      I think it’s women who needs to be open or honest to her man, the moment we men open up too much, we gets boring to them, speaking from experience

    • @SiyaDube
      @SiyaDube 15 днів тому +6

      Thank you for this. This is where this advice is lacking to say what next once you have been "honest & upfront", and at times ladies will do these things because they are no longer interested. It is ok to make a decision to move on when things don't work out. Men are not the only ones responsible for making the relationship work, however, we do need to be frank about how we feel and if she gaslights you. Don't waste your time with her. Move on bro!!

    • @versedwell
      @versedwell 15 днів тому +2

      @SiyaDube I have my sights set on Jesus, my friend. The only person who can truly love without condition! 🙏✝️

  • @franktheu3684
    @franktheu3684 16 днів тому +39

    I have learnt to work and focus on my personal achievements and goals. Previously i used to constantly feel the need to talk to her, know how she is doing each and every second...that only made her uninterested in the conversations as time went by which made me feel as if she is pulling away. Instead i tried going out more with friends and enjoying my own personal time. The conversations now feel intentional and fulfilling even if it's twice a week. It is honestly true that when you shift the focus from her to you...the attraction will grow stronger Instead of fading away. Thanks Jess.

  • @markpack798
    @markpack798 16 днів тому +45

    Never get emotionally attached.. keep um at a distance ....shes always looking for a backup or already has one...

    • @feman5274
      @feman5274 16 днів тому +6

      So JUST BE PREPARED!! I've had 2 Steadies on extreme opposite sides of town for 10 years...all I can say on here.

  • @101iswhatsup
    @101iswhatsup 16 днів тому +17

    Ironically the key is focus on your goals, whatever they maybe; try to be a better you than you were yesterday; be kind, (when you're focused on your goals, and are greatful for that, you'll naturally exude confidence.)
    Clingy is a turn off on both sides.
    Work on finding yourself...then be discerning, because you'll attract attention.

  • @darliqo
    @darliqo 13 днів тому +147

    Insecurity used to creep into my relationships without me even realizing it. Synfla’s book showed me how to create an unshakeable emotional connection (Secret #6) and helped me feel more confident in myself. It’s been a game-changer in how I approach dating. Highly recommend it! 🙏

  • @LilSerphim88
    @LilSerphim88 13 днів тому +2

    I love the way you speak and articulate yourself. It embodies confidence and intelligence

  • @healthguy79
    @healthguy79 15 днів тому +9

    my ex-girlfriend got very excited when someone else whom she met randomly told her that I used to be a bodybuilder that competed at shows. I never told her this. She asked me why I never told her. She was so happy and so impressed. It never occurred to me that I was supposed to tell her about my past success.

  • @goldenremnant2610
    @goldenremnant2610 16 днів тому +12

    Trust is earned. It’s best to filter out women early on that behave as if they are still single rather than trying to control them. Just have boundaries and “let them go” if they want to constantly break those boundaries. Simple. They aren’t for you if they even desire to operate in that manner. It’s either that or the relationship doesn’t get to be serious and should remain non-exclusive.
    The reason men might want to have boundaries with a woman is because she has demonstrated that she leads with her emotions. Women that lead with their emotions shouldn’t be trusted because emotions are sudden and fleeting.

  • @williamsscotassad
    @williamsscotassad 16 днів тому +6

    You are my relationship coach.
    I thank God for sending you to my generation.
    J,you are a generational inspiration.

  • @westsi1
    @westsi1 16 днів тому +45

    Idk Jessica. A lot of times when the man has caught the women cheating, he thinks back and realizes all the signs were there, but he thought nothing of them because he was being secure. Now…if he had caught the signs before he caught the women cheating, he would be perceived as insecure? Really? Didn’t you make a video on Signs the Woman is cheating?? So how can men take them as signs while being secure at the same time??

    • @WanderingWarriorOfFaith777
      @WanderingWarriorOfFaith777 16 днів тому +7

      @westsi1 In that situation it might be best to consider calling it quits on that relationship. I agree men should be confident and have faith in Christ that things will work out positively. But Christ give us wisdom too, so if negative signs are being revealed we as men are at an ultimatum and must make a decision. To continue to tolerate and put up with the nonsense, or accept reality, take the loss and move forward. It can hurt, bad especially the deeper we love them, but it's better to know the truth sooner than later for many reasons. However, despite the pain NEVER Give Up On Life and keep your faith in Christ to lead and guide you in the best direction.

    • @piotrekmajkowski5422
      @piotrekmajkowski5422 16 днів тому +2

      There is sth like betrayal blindness.

    • @westsi1
      @westsi1 16 днів тому +1

      @ What is an example of Betrayal Blindness?

    • @vincentmartin3337
      @vincentmartin3337 16 днів тому +5

      Such an understatement!! This is an inconvenient truth for dating and a counterintuitive and un-ideal dysfunctional society.

    • @vincentmartin3337
      @vincentmartin3337 16 днів тому +2

      As half-way decent and "confident" person you try to defeat negative thoughts of insecurity. You strive to be open minded and flexible yet not naive. However, there are always things you don't have control over and that includes the other person's thoughts of you and their reception and acceptance of you.

  • @DanielUdechukwu00
    @DanielUdechukwu00 12 днів тому +2

    Jessica just finds a way to address issues that affect us (Me). Really learnt a lot from this video.
    Thank you, Jess!

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  12 днів тому +2

      I'm always here to share my insights!

  • @sehelm
    @sehelm 16 днів тому +8

    A start in the right direction of conquering my insecurity is seeking solid advice like this.
    I recently dated this girl who blew my mind. In 3 videos, I see why we didn't last long. It hurts knowing that I may have chased a dream girl away. Growing pains.

  • @kingty3187
    @kingty3187 13 днів тому +1

    Jessica thank you for this video. Funny enough every insecurity you mentioned in the video is what my ex (a woman) carried for our entire relationship. These behaviors made being in the relationship draining and once it ended at the 4 year mark I felt complete relief. These insecurities will happen to us men from women as well so I appreciate this video.

  • @givenmabussi
    @givenmabussi 11 днів тому +2

    A lot of men came here and basically proved uour points in their comments.
    Thank you for this.
    I struggle with most of this.

  • @piusfriday5534
    @piusfriday5534 16 днів тому +3

    Couldn’t stop watching. So meaningful and helpful

  • @dreamchaser4928
    @dreamchaser4928 16 днів тому +14

    ❤❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹🌹 my crazy part about all of this Jessica is that some of the things that you're actually speaking about a lot of women in today's time actually do this to man nowadays men are shutting down we're not even speaking on it and we're going on about our life and focusing on our journey and our success and building the foundation for ourselves

  • @dress_hood
    @dress_hood 15 днів тому +1

    You changed your outlook today ...we love it ❤

  • @festoke9677
    @festoke9677 16 днів тому +1

    We are taking it as a dose, jesssica you are helping the brotherhood Nation!! cheers and a happy new year

  • @fisherbalikci
    @fisherbalikci 16 днів тому +1

    ''show must go on, stay cool'' thats the motto i learned through my own growth men

  • @giovannimensah8786
    @giovannimensah8786 16 днів тому +3

    This is my first video to watch on ur channel this new year, thanks Jessica this year we are not settling for anything less.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  16 днів тому +1

      Welcome aboard! I'm glad you found me.

  • @franckoumbe5908
    @franckoumbe5908 16 днів тому +6

    Thanks
    I needed to hear this
    I definitely have to work on myself

  • @luminarachronicles
    @luminarachronicles 15 днів тому +158

    Steps to get better with girls:
    Start cold approaching (you’ll get better with practice).
    Join a gym or do martial arts (confidence grows with physical activity).
    Read the book Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish (it has mindset tips you won’t find on UA-cam).
    Improve your style (better clothes = better first impressions).
    Focus on self-improvement and making money.

  • @J2341tube
    @J2341tube 16 днів тому +15

    Wow. First test I've gotten a 100 percent on. That's why I quit dating.

  • @adriand2895
    @adriand2895 15 днів тому

    Exactly! Amazing content! Probably that's also what a narcissist will do( like checking her social media, sending her non stop message s.....)

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 16 днів тому +1

    Another episode for self-awareness as men
    Very pinpointed, concise & helpful
    Thanks Jess!

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  14 днів тому +1

      That's what I aim for - thanks for watching!

  • @suspiciousmind9912
    @suspiciousmind9912 16 днів тому +7

    You don't have to discuss with a woman.
    You just have to show her what your rules are. ☝🏼

  • @modougibba5226
    @modougibba5226 13 днів тому +1

    Seriously all this you mentioned is exactly how I am, apart from No.1 And I tried to change but it’s always difficult on me, I lose so many good and beautiful relationship because of insecurity and jealousy

  • @vidfreakcreations2644
    @vidfreakcreations2644 16 днів тому +1

    This is GOLD. Thank you for saving my relationship

  • @rastafari4409
    @rastafari4409 16 днів тому +1

    ❤from 🇰🇪 KENYA Jessica...❤ that gangsta look today!!Big up for the inspiration truly appreciated! More ❤.

  • @josedrullon
    @josedrullon 16 днів тому +9

    It’s one thing for a woman to say she is going to have dinner with one or two females friends. It’s another thing for her to say she is going to a bar with some female friends or she is going to some kind of women night out event. The latter is not acceptable and is disrespectful. It wouldn’t be Ok either for a married woman or one in a serious relationship to say she is going on a three day cruise trip with her female friends. It’s not all the time it’s insecurity.

    • @thrilla72
      @thrilla72 16 днів тому +1

      Quietly pull back your attention, start focusing on everything but her

    • @josedrullon
      @josedrullon 12 днів тому

      @@thrilla72 Amén!

    • @donald7188
      @donald7188 11 днів тому

      You're right do not trust them they messed over us from the beginning in the garden of Eden

  • @zefult
    @zefult 16 днів тому +9

    Crazy I gave my wife the independence she wanted , focused on myself & interests ..For years we let each other do as we pleased because we trusted & loved each other.. wasn't until recently I found out that all those years she had a 2nd relationship full on affair with another man behind my back .. Only thing giving her freedom did was give her freedom to cheat..

    • @feman5274
      @feman5274 16 днів тому +3

      American Female? What'd You Expect? ALWAYS PROTECT YOUR INTEREST/INVESTMENT! Sorry Jessica.

    • @donald7188
      @donald7188 11 днів тому

      You're right I don't know what the hell Jessica is talking about now I try to stay warm and they messed over us from the beginning in the garden

    • @josephmario9231
      @josephmario9231 10 днів тому

      Worst mistake was to give your woman freedom.. women crave for attention and if she doesn't give you that she'll give it to another man.. again it's all best when a woman is happily focused on you and your success.. I think that's why your goals matter more than hers.. a woman was made for a man as the Bible says and not the other way around..

  • @elsiemunoz199
    @elsiemunoz199 16 днів тому +2

    You are not what you say you do!
    You are what you do
    ✌🏻👽

  • @kokoyaro
    @kokoyaro 16 днів тому +13

    If wonen were honest and straightfoward instead of mendacious, men would never behave like that towards them.
    I think young men get on the edge and try to protect their relationships only because of women's childish proclivity to make serious mistakes that ruins themselves and the relationship

    • @justmakesomethingdope
      @justmakesomethingdope 3 дні тому

      @@kokoyaro the obvious solution is to not date young… I think dating is highly inadvisable prior to 25 years. If most people waited until then to start seeking and forming relationships, so many issues in the west would virtually disappear.

  • @erickhambinga4748
    @erickhambinga4748 16 днів тому +1

    You saved a life with this one.

  • @phillipwashington6925
    @phillipwashington6925 11 днів тому +1

    I think what's also important as a man, in order to resurface from an insecure feeling, is being mindful, not to be so emotionally vulnerable, as to allow your ego to get wounded every time there's an undesirable twist and turn in a relationship with a woman. Instead, look into building up your self-value as a human being. Never allow yourself to get so emotionally invested in anyone, just to feel a sense of self worth, just to compensate for your own inadequacies. Feel me?

  • @jamaneforrester168
    @jamaneforrester168 13 днів тому +4

    Just be yourself men! All this trying to please a woman is a full time game and job nobody hasn’t got time for that in this day and age. If she likes you, she likes you for you! And your unique personality.

  • @kennyxxora5098
    @kennyxxora5098 16 днів тому +10

    Beautiful.
    Relationship is not for me, sadly. Keep up the good work Jess.

    • @josedrullon
      @josedrullon 16 днів тому +2

      @@kennyxxora5098 I am with you on this one.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  16 днів тому

      Thanks, and I hope you find what you’re looking for!

  • @theCentralPlayer.
    @theCentralPlayer. 12 днів тому +1

    Hey, i'm not gonna lie but the background music kinda got me hooked for SURE

  • @oluwakayodesamuel4739
    @oluwakayodesamuel4739 11 днів тому +1

    Scarcity create value 💯

  • @kobecentral3529
    @kobecentral3529 13 днів тому +1

    If you've been cheated on you'll always put her to strict check.
    Better end everything than trying to forgive her.
    Insecurity word should be in the same sentence as manipulative.
    You can't be manipulative and seek absolute care and comfort in return.

  • @goldenremnant2610
    @goldenremnant2610 16 днів тому +2

    1:30 - This seems obvious.
    Best case scenario is when your woman learns of your accomplishment(s) from yet another woman or someone else that she also has a high esteem of. You get to have the glory in her eye but also claim humility.

  • @Uncleblvck-f7b
    @Uncleblvck-f7b 13 днів тому +1

    My policy in relationship is that heartbreak comes and theres nothing i can do bout it so whatever happens happens

  • @carltonbrownGO
    @carltonbrownGO 16 днів тому

    You’re brilliant, Jessica 🙌🏾🔥

  • @Nakogeeempire
    @Nakogeeempire 16 днів тому +1

    You’re always on point. So helpful ❤❤🎉

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  16 днів тому +1

      Appreciate the love!

    • @Nakogeeempire
      @Nakogeeempire 15 днів тому

      @ you’re welcome pretty queen 🫅 ✊🏿💕

  • @TheAyanrinde
    @TheAyanrinde 13 днів тому

    Self development..that's what I had being working on since I had being rejected because of a very awkward decision that I took and pulled my business in a very big way

  • @SiyaDube
    @SiyaDube 15 днів тому +5

    These pieces of advice often make it seem as though men are solely responsible for making relationships work, which isn't fair. They overlook situations where women may lose interest and intentionally act in ways that undermine the relationship. Men shouldn't be held accountable for actions beyond their control. It's important to recognise when it's time to accept the loss and move on with dignity. Honesty and self-respect go both ways, and no one deserves to be played. However, take the time to figure things out first so you know what to work on when you move forward, gents.

  • @Imhotep397
    @Imhotep397 12 днів тому

    Also, not criticizing people for the things they would generally be criticized for anyway doesn’t make you a jealous person for being honest, but you may be judged for it.

  • @2sidesjay
    @2sidesjay 15 днів тому +5

    Modern women should come with an instruction manual, shit is tiring, always focus on yourself first kings

    • @BigAllan95
      @BigAllan95 11 днів тому +1

      U a genius bro. Which is why I just eat and eat AND EAT

  • @Spacedust1911
    @Spacedust1911 16 днів тому +21

    In other words: Be a player and have other women. Women are usually only loyal if they don’t have many options.

  • @owadsmedia9874
    @owadsmedia9874 16 днів тому +2

    Relationship prophetess lol
    Great !👌❤️

  • @Truth82189
    @Truth82189 15 днів тому

    Good talk, Doc

  • @francoismarc3
    @francoismarc3 16 днів тому +3

    This works in reverse as well.

  • @shodan198
    @shodan198 16 днів тому

    Love in such a way the person feel free to be who they really r

  • @faithsamuel5838
    @faithsamuel5838 15 днів тому

    I started dealing with my own insecurities when I start focusing more on my self growth

  • @kaalexis1188
    @kaalexis1188 16 днів тому +1

    The work is Done!❤

  • @OsatoTheo
    @OsatoTheo 16 днів тому

    ...soo teaching ...God bless u jessy

  • @abdulkarimandama9876
    @abdulkarimandama9876 13 днів тому +1

    😢 you are always beautiful and you sound too good

  • @zlatnik82
    @zlatnik82 14 днів тому

    Gr8 points. Grateful 🙏🏽

  • @abdulrahamadinoyi5808
    @abdulrahamadinoyi5808 14 днів тому +1

    Thanks a lot I really appreciate ❤

  • @DooGeeye
    @DooGeeye 16 днів тому +3

    is like" wanting a woman I shouldn't be wanting" 😂

  • @soofamousmann
    @soofamousmann 15 днів тому

    So helpful. Learned so much from you. 😊

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  14 днів тому +1

      Awesome! Thank you!

  • @obichukwuchrist8518
    @obichukwuchrist8518 16 днів тому +2

    You look fresh, Jess!

  • @AkwasiAcheampong-rr3jz
    @AkwasiAcheampong-rr3jz 16 днів тому +1

    Very insightful

  • @pesocheco
    @pesocheco 16 днів тому +4

    U can do all 6 and if she really attracted to u she’d still talk to u anyway

  • @dakuug87
    @dakuug87 8 днів тому

    Thanks JOS for this great peace.
    Growing up, I heard and only knew about “a nagging woman”. Today, nagging is more associated with men than women because of this early show of concern to get issues resolved and forge a better relationship. How do I handle such without appearing or being tagged a nagging man?

  • @kaybtalk
    @kaybtalk 16 днів тому +5

    I’m so insecure
    It’s like this video was describing me..
    I’m sick and tired of being this way. I tried so many times but I just can’t change😢😢

    • @KnwledgeIsP0wer
      @KnwledgeIsP0wer 16 днів тому +1

      Always ask yourself what would you do if "you truly loved yourself" ... how would you act if you had utmost self respect for yourself.... I think if you focus on these things, it will elevate you to a higher frequency. It's not easy, as you have to constantly pull these thoughts into your mind and reframe your mindset ...

    • @kaybtalk
      @kaybtalk 16 днів тому

      @@KnwledgeIsP0wer thanks man, will see how best I can do that..
      I’m really tired of this insecurities
      It keeps destroying my relationships

    • @josephmario9231
      @josephmario9231 10 днів тому

      There's nothing wrong either being insecure bro.. that's completely a natural and don't try to fight it.. Be who you are... every puzzle in Life requires a solution.. and some puzzles can't be solved...

  • @kosemoja8348
    @kosemoja8348 9 днів тому

    So always don’t care even when you are in a relationship act like it doesn’t exist

  • @StephanTsikirayi-x3n
    @StephanTsikirayi-x3n 16 днів тому +1

    Thanks Jessica

  • @damianhaynes3181
    @damianhaynes3181 16 днів тому +6

    I'm very guilty of the passive aggressive behavior. Confrontation has never been my strong suit but listening to this has made me realize how childish it is. I guess sometimes avoiding Confrontation does more damage than hitting it head on

  • @bentilprince3210
    @bentilprince3210 16 днів тому +3

    This is great….❤

  • @Umesh__FF__gaming009
    @Umesh__FF__gaming009 16 днів тому +73

    if you’re not ready for real change, skip the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it’s too much for most people.

    • @markuslc1888
      @markuslc1888 16 днів тому +1

      thanks for the warning, i was about to buy it, but thanks to you, i ve decided to skip it.

    • @StrongStyleJudoAction
      @StrongStyleJudoAction 15 днів тому

      Bot!

    • @markuslc1888
      @markuslc1888 15 днів тому +1

      @@StrongStyleJudoAction i know just wanted to troll him :P

  • @SizwelesleySibisi
    @SizwelesleySibisi 10 днів тому

    This was helpful

  • @vaughnalexander32
    @vaughnalexander32 12 днів тому +1

    women come & go, my boi.

  • @RKHBLD
    @RKHBLD 15 днів тому +1

    Can you talk more about the female psychology to allow us to find out why a woman will say one thing and do another or where you do everything for her and she cheats and leaves or just stops talking for weeks and you gave her space but she was emotionally already out of the relationship

    • @josephmario9231
      @josephmario9231 10 днів тому

      If a woman asks for space bro.. just dump her.. a woman that respects you will be open enough to inform you what she's going through.. that infact is what builds a secure relationship... She goes silent let her be and let nature take its course..

  • @randybernard8612
    @randybernard8612 13 днів тому

    Thank you.

  • @Gustitells
    @Gustitells 16 днів тому

    Passive aggressive-i agree though if I happen to address it then you out then don't expect me to text you again . We move regardless

  • @hezechris
    @hezechris 16 днів тому

    Thank you Jessica

  • @ebenezerarmah5544
    @ebenezerarmah5544 16 днів тому +1

    i like your necklace, Jess

  • @wealthfit001
    @wealthfit001 16 днів тому +1

    Looking so fresh ❤

  • @Ahmadali-rz1xg
    @Ahmadali-rz1xg 16 днів тому +3

    Men don’t talk like I feel
    Stop telling men how to talk
    Most of this need to be told to a woman honestly

    • @donald7188
      @donald7188 11 днів тому

      You're right it's called reverse psychology the minute you let your guard down you hit and guess what time using their psychology on you you are being taught to let your woman do whatever she want

  • @You12movie
    @You12movie 16 днів тому +1

    Yup. 😂. Me. So that's why.

  • @oluwasanmisireyussuf8758
    @oluwasanmisireyussuf8758 16 днів тому +1

    This describes me and I just lost someone precious to me
    How I can fix it?

  • @devonsansoucy2702
    @devonsansoucy2702 16 днів тому +1

    Your eyes are crazy beautiful holy 😮

  • @EmmanuelAddy-ri1rs
    @EmmanuelAddy-ri1rs 15 днів тому +2

    Jessica, these advices are not for modern women. Think of what happened in Equatorial guinea. A minister sleeping with more than 400 women. Where were their husbands? I can't let my woman make men her friends. No way. Those who are humble, listen to their husbands and experience good marriages. Those who cannot be controlled always regret at last. Thank God we have some women from homes not houses.

  • @Blueringangel
    @Blueringangel 16 днів тому +4

    I’m a strong independent woman! Lol Such hypocrisy.

  • @C901-r8i
    @C901-r8i 15 днів тому

    Tell us more about those insecurities that rather certain types of women, because that happens too. Maybe certain types of situations or women like control I don’t know if you understand me.

  • @tupacshakur4935
    @tupacshakur4935 4 дні тому

    Hi Jes!
    I recently met this girl that I really like and want a lasting relationship with. Unfortunately, I think I may turned her off by constantly texting her. How can I win her back? We are still together but I feel she is loosing interest in me. I want to make it right.

  • @alaoAbiodun-s4g
    @alaoAbiodun-s4g 16 днів тому +1

    Nice 👍

  • @MjbSulliet
    @MjbSulliet 13 днів тому +1

    I still get pretty to me who very clingy to their beautiful ladies. That's wasted of time . Simple way trust yourself work on your goals to accumulate money and keep yourself health ie by eating well, dressing and getting enough sleep. Life is to short to waste on someone called woman whom u never born with.

  • @BughraAta
    @BughraAta 16 днів тому

    Do you mind making a video on the border line of being responsible for her & “insecurity” of asking her where she is, what who she is hanging out with?
    In one video we heard,finally, man to be responsible for her behavior, make sure she is behaving
    In another, almost similar thing turns into “insecurity”
    If she is in a relationship, maybe even have a child, still wants to have her “freedom” like the way she was single. What’s a man to do?

  • @vincentmartin3337
    @vincentmartin3337 16 днів тому

    Ironic, these tips are very ideal however our society is not "ideal".

  • @piotrekmajkowski5422
    @piotrekmajkowski5422 16 днів тому +2

    Please do tell me why she is loosing me?

    • @donald7188
      @donald7188 11 днів тому

      Because she using reverse psychology on you and think you are stupid

  • @AkwasiAcheampong-rr3jz
    @AkwasiAcheampong-rr3jz 16 днів тому

    Address issues head in straight and honest

  • @inhumanjoey310
    @inhumanjoey310 16 днів тому +4

    Fellas never listen to a woman for relationship advice

    • @donald7188
      @donald7188 11 днів тому

      You are so right she is reverse psychology on some of these men and they are so weak for it

  • @allthingsspontaneous9884
    @allthingsspontaneous9884 14 днів тому

    Is it even worth it?

  • @emekadavid4939
    @emekadavid4939 15 днів тому

    I have got to really fix the passive aggressive part of me

  • @KevinMurray-s9t
    @KevinMurray-s9t 16 днів тому

    ON POINT.