How to Stay Strong During No Contact | Stoicism

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  • @stoicexcellencepath
    @stoicexcellencepath Місяць тому +23

    No. 1 - Understanding the Challenge
    No. 2 - The Power of Emotional Detachment
    No. 3 - Trusting Your Decision
    No. 4 - Embracing Discomfort
    No. 5 - Purpose Over Validation
    No. 6 - Building Resilience
    No. 7 - Accepting Reality
    No. 8 - Turning Pain into Power
    No. 9 - Shifting Focus to Growth
    No. 10 - Maintaining Long-Term Peace

  • @stoicharmonyus
    @stoicharmonyus 9 днів тому +5

    I’ve been in no contact for a month, and it’s been one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. But watching this reminds me why I started-self-respect and healing.

  • @curriemr
    @curriemr Місяць тому +9

    This is my favorite video on the subject. Listened to it often.
    She came back after 14 days of no contact. 💪

  • @StoicWisdomhtr
    @StoicWisdomhtr Місяць тому +22

    The reminder to write down why we chose no contact really resonates with me. It's so easy to forget in moments of weakness. This was the truth I needed today

  • @brianpeterson8094
    @brianpeterson8094 28 днів тому +4

    I choose my self first.

  • @DENISMICHAELOKELLO
    @DENISMICHAELOKELLO Місяць тому +11

    I met stoicism man (YOU) the day I had a break up with my girlfriend, but haven't understood you, now any lady is attracted to me like nothing including all the girls who had ignored me are pleading for another chance yet that's the only thing I DON'T. I don't know how to thank you stoicism man/community but I promise something great at my level. Am a person never thought could be, just a 2month stoicism study 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @TheStoicTribe101
      @TheStoicTribe101  Місяць тому +1

      It's incredible to hear how stoicism has positively impacted your life in such a short time! Remember, growth and self-awareness are key to maintaining those newfound relationships.

  • @NordicStoic
    @NordicStoic 9 днів тому +2

    Thank you.

  • @MarcelvanVelthoven-v9w
    @MarcelvanVelthoven-v9w Місяць тому +3

    I want to stay/become myself. I want to build my resilience find peace and power in myself. Thank you for the great message

    • @TheStoicTribe101
      @TheStoicTribe101  Місяць тому

      You’re welcome

    • @stoicharmonyus
      @stoicharmonyus 9 днів тому

      That’s such a powerful mindset! Focusing on building resilience and finding peace within yourself is the best gift you can give to yourself. Stay strong-every step you take toward self-growth is a victory. You’ve got this! 💪✨

  • @nakainiles
    @nakainiles Місяць тому +10

    I choose myself 💪🏾🤞🏾

  • @TheStoicSpirit99
    @TheStoicSpirit99 Місяць тому +4

    Love the final message about shifting focus to growth (25:06). It’s so easy to get lost in the cycle of overthinking, but refocusing on personal goals and growth truly shifts the narrative. This was exactly what I needed to hear to keep pushing forward!

  • @seffski790
    @seffski790 Місяць тому +5

    This is the deepest wake up call i ever heard, will save in own category.
    Will listen over and over .
    Thanks alot

    • @TheStoicTribe101
      @TheStoicTribe101  Місяць тому

      You are welcome

    • @stoicharmonyus
      @stoicharmonyus 9 днів тому

      Same here! Some messages just hit differently and stay with you. Repeating it helps reinforce the strength and clarity it brings. Keep it close-it’s a powerful tool for those tough moments! 🙌💪

  • @BenjaminIriso
    @BenjaminIriso Місяць тому +7

    Am ready to stay strong with no contact

  • @md.ekramulhabib8859
    @md.ekramulhabib8859 Місяць тому +3

    You educated me a lot ! Thanks a lot bro 🙏

  • @ChrisCarter-ie7zn
    @ChrisCarter-ie7zn Місяць тому +4

    I really needed this. Thank you😔

  • @TensionalityEFex
    @TensionalityEFex Місяць тому +5

    Yes. We should also keep in mind that there exists abundance, not scarcity, so its ok if the other person doesn't come back after no contact

    • @TheStoicTribe101
      @TheStoicTribe101  Місяць тому

      💯🔥

    • @stoicharmonyus
      @stoicharmonyus 9 днів тому

      Absolutely! Embracing abundance shifts your mindset to focus on possibilities, not loss. If they don’t come back, it’s their path, and yours will continue to grow in meaningful ways. No contact is about your peace, not their return. Stay open to what life has in store! 🌟

  • @shanazchipanga4101
    @shanazchipanga4101 13 днів тому +1

    Am learning. The more i was about to heal her messages pops up. And the hopes recandled and she disappears again and leaving me in distress.

  • @jonathanedwards6366
    @jonathanedwards6366 Місяць тому +3

    This is pure gold

  • @geoffrey7915
    @geoffrey7915 Місяць тому +3

    I choose myself!✌️

  • @joeldesequeira6386
    @joeldesequeira6386 Місяць тому +2

    I choose my self ❤

  • @StoicSpirit68
    @StoicSpirit68 Місяць тому +2

    Thankyou for sharing!

  • @dinesh45678
    @dinesh45678 Місяць тому +1

    Iam ready for the challenge

  • @stoicismmotivation_official
    @stoicismmotivation_official Місяць тому +2

    Silence isn’t weakness-it’s a sign of self-respect and understanding what you truly deserve.

  • @mikehochstein9907
    @mikehochstein9907 Місяць тому +1

    I CHOOSE MYSELF

  • @MutimbaHumanikwa-f5s
    @MutimbaHumanikwa-f5s Місяць тому +2

    I'm now ready

  • @ElikanaRaroa
    @ElikanaRaroa Місяць тому

    just broke up with my girl gotta stay strong saving this

  • @stoickingdomoffical
    @stoickingdomoffical Місяць тому +4

    *Staying strong during no contact is not just about resisting the urge to reach out-it’s about rediscovering your own power and reclaiming your peace. Stoicism teaches us that true strength comes from within, from mastering our emotions and focusing on what we can control. This period is an opportunity, not a punishment-a chance to grow, to reflect, and to rebuild the foundation of your inner world. It’s a time to remind yourself that your value does not depend on someone else’s presence. Embrace the silence as a space for self-discovery and resilience. Have you ever experienced a moment when distance brought you closer to understanding your true self?*

  • @DougMayo-c7o
    @DougMayo-c7o Місяць тому +1

    I chose my growth to be the best person I can be for myself n for her if not her the best person I can be n a new relationship will be a long time before I even think about a new one I will wait to see what becomes of us if it's ment to be I will know lest I have time to find myself

  • @luckytingwe4339
    @luckytingwe4339 Місяць тому +2

    I'm ready

  • @ToteHammer215
    @ToteHammer215 Місяць тому +6

    Bruhhhh why is this showing up right after my girl left me. I’m about to sit in the dark and tune in like a audio book

    • @TheStoicTribe101
      @TheStoicTribe101  Місяць тому +1

      Sometimes the universe has a funny way of dropping things into our lives right when we need them. Hope this video helps you through it!

    • @Mr89siR
      @Mr89siR Місяць тому +2

      Don't sit in the dark for too long brother.

    • @ToteHammer215
      @ToteHammer215 Місяць тому

      @@Mr89siR ngl bro, that shit actually had me somewhere else mentally atleast it felt like it

    • @stoicharmonyus
      @stoicharmonyus 9 днів тому

      Man, sometimes the universe has a way of throwing stuff at you when you need it most. Sitting in the dark and reflecting while tuning in might just give you the clarity and strength you’re looking for. Hang in there-you’re not alone, and this is just the start of your comeback story. 💪

  • @maoritzyo4574
    @maoritzyo4574 Місяць тому +2

    Ready

  • @aef5790
    @aef5790 2 дні тому +1

    I choose myself.

  • @tshepangletsika5413
    @tshepangletsika5413 Місяць тому +2

    I choose myself

  • @marshallhennington4369
    @marshallhennington4369 Місяць тому +2

    I chose myself

  • @nakainiles
    @nakainiles Місяць тому +1

    This the one

  • @RobertAnthonySamson
    @RobertAnthonySamson 20 днів тому +1

    🙏❤️💪

  • @steveeyjames
    @steveeyjames Місяць тому +1

    Bro How Can I Get A such ai voice similar like yours

  • @pretekstimedia
    @pretekstimedia Місяць тому +1

    I love you

  • @christopherovideo3646
    @christopherovideo3646 Місяць тому +1

    I just Myself

  • @carriegraf-ti2oc
    @carriegraf-ti2oc Місяць тому +1

    It's my turn

  • @UltimateStoicism
    @UltimateStoicism Місяць тому +1

    What if the discomfort you fear is actually your transformation in progress?

  • @saman1823
    @saman1823 Місяць тому

    Broo please reply. She has a new boyfriend. She was block me. 😢 what can i do

    • @TensionalityEFex
      @TensionalityEFex Місяць тому +4

      Dude, you haven't been learning much from Stoicism. Go back and rewatch until it sticks😊

    • @PeterMalibongweQwabe-hy1dg
      @PeterMalibongweQwabe-hy1dg Місяць тому

      Focus on yourself & what matters to you (Your Peace) move on & don't say nothing

    • @saman1823
      @saman1823 Місяць тому

      Broo whatbis truly successfull men mean

    • @WalterAnderson-m6p
      @WalterAnderson-m6p 28 днів тому

      Get laid by a new girl

  • @saluumisaid8471
    @saluumisaid8471 Місяць тому +2

    I don’t know if you read my mind but I hv learn a lot from this presentation ❤🙏🏽 all respect 🫡

  • @Whitecat2304
    @Whitecat2304 Місяць тому

    if they text u in between the no contact then??

  • @BarriBobbs
    @BarriBobbs Місяць тому +2

    I chose myself

  • @eanbriscoe
    @eanbriscoe Місяць тому +1

    I'm ready

  • @armstrongoodo
    @armstrongoodo Місяць тому +1

    I choose myself

  • @MagavonToby
    @MagavonToby 15 днів тому +2

    I chose myself

  • @EzekielOise-t6u
    @EzekielOise-t6u Місяць тому +2

    I'm ready

  • @Leonard536
    @Leonard536 Місяць тому +1

    I choose myself

  • @LuvasiaCollins
    @LuvasiaCollins 11 днів тому +2

    I’m ready

  • @adamzeckry5780
    @adamzeckry5780 Місяць тому +2

    I choose myself

  • @Juan_Campos80
    @Juan_Campos80 27 днів тому +1

    I choose myself