Bramty deserves an apology from his mom. No one has the right to sent pictures of someone giving birth without their permission. Don’t matter the culture etc.
@@AlexCisNails I doubt that, even Luis said he think’s his mom wouldn’t feel sorry for doing that to this day because she’s old school, something like that
I would like to see Luis interview Bramty about her side of the family, the dinamic with her mom, how her brother getting arrested affected her and what happened with her other brother and not having communication!
same :/ all they’ve talked about is Luis’ side of the family-which is fine but it is getting repetitive. It would be interesting to see Bramty talk about her family and her childhood, relationships now, etc, but i guess it’s too much to ask for. It’s been interesting watching them speak openly about their marriage and obviously not everything has to be shared but she should share.. just my opinion! i completely agree with you haha (:
i NEVER thought luis was the bad guy for saving money for them and limiting bramtys money… that’s literally THE SMARTEST thing a man can do for his family and he got them a house within a year! if i was bramty i would’ve been so grateful for his mentality not bitter 😭
@@alyssaholcomb5466 The point is, that they were very young and alone away from their families with no help. He was their only source of income while she was home with the baby. He was doing right by them in that financial aspect. He wasn’t trying to be controlling he was trying to be responsible. She was just accustomed to her ways prior to having Penelope. She wasn’t used to being the whole house wife/mom. He did the best he could. She should be grateful he didn’t abandon her with a kid and no money.
@@alyssaholcomb5466yeah definitely! i’d way rather have a home for my family than some extra spending money, aka sacrificing for a better life for my kids
@@MizBoriMoon I hate when people say a mother should be grateful the father didn’t leave. F that, he’s as responsible for that child as she is. I understand that he didn’t intend to be controlling over the money, but that’s what he was. He has grown so much since then and I’m so proud of him. But regardless, what he did at the time was controlling. He left her at home with their baby, without money or a car. He might be the one working but she’s still a full time mother raising his kids. They should decide together what to do with THEIR money. It’s not all his choice. They should make those decisions as a team, he shouldn’t control those choices.
@@alyssaholcomb5466 you would value your shopping addiction over saving up for a family home that'll be for you and your family for life time?!?! Damn.
Sometimes people like that truly don’t believe they don’t have any mistakes from the past, or flaws. And then when you have yes men around you, there’s never any accountability. Not her, just saying in general 😂
Bramty holds so much resentment towards luis for penelopes birth.. it wasnt 100% his fault. he was young and his mom took advantage of him, she should've known better as a mom and as another woman.
I completely agree with you, she says that it’s in the past and that they moved in and he didn’t know better yet he keeps repeating and showing so much resentment, she shows that it is clearly not in the past in her mind and i don’t know… I truly feel bad for Luis sometimes he’s very humble and you can tell he’s ashamed and regrets his action but if he already said sorry it shouldn’t be brought up again like this. It’s humiliating at this point.
@@SuperLalarock Yes, just Yes And i did not say they weren’t. They were and he apologized and changed. Healthy relationships require forgiveness and it’s not okay to keep rubbing it in your partners face ver and over again. 👏🏻
Because you guys married so young. You both grasped grown adult responsibilities so fast at an immature minded time. I totally understand all the toxic things you guys went through because my husband and i went through the same thing we got married at 18 while I was pregnant I had to learn to be a wife and him provide for me and then eventually a household. We were both immature at the time so there were soooo many fights and crying. But we’re finally at a point in our marriage where we got the hand of everything. There’s respect love and equality We’re 6 years together now and everything is great now it took a longggg time but we did it
Exactly. A lot of ppl are quick to jump the gun or “ I would’ve left him blah blah” but there’s a reason for everything and some of those things can be worked through and taught.
It’s not the fact that you interrupt. It’s that you blame him for everything and have this attitude that you haven’t made any mistakes and that you taught him everything and he’s only better because of you. You have many faults too Bramty. AND that only his family is talked about even when he was uncomfortable. Let’s talk about your brother that’s in jail again…or your ex sister in law.
And you constantly bringing up everything you feel he did wrong even tho you “forgave” him is going to eventually be a reason for the downfall of your marriage…
EXACTLY!!! She always wants to take credit for him changing , if he didn’t want to change he didn’t have too, if he didn’t want to be better he didn’t have to but he did it himself. She acts like she’s so good and better than him and belittles him so bad!! I don’t understand how people can still watch her and stand her.
2:30 - I feel like she still keeps pinpointing his past flaws when she has plenty of them herself. Bramty, you have some growing up and healing to do yourself. I have ADHD but would never disrespect and be inconsiderate to my husband at a restaurant like that because you’re “adhd” and impatient? Nahh, you’re just controlling and think you’re superior cause he aint going nowhere.
Honestly I understand her and agree, I have the same tendencies with friends n family or any convo where i interrupt and ADHD is has areas in situations it is high tendency. and it may still b shown in other areas but convo may b more prone for her as it is me doesn’t mean she hella had ADHD it is a spectrum damn near everyone has it and diff levels and opposite spectrum and for many it doesn’t cause any difficulties or struggles where dr. feel the need to have them tested
Ohhh Bramty… that’s annoying so we cook, we clean, take care of our kids, laundry etc I’ve never left a comment like that cause idc but you can’t say stuff like “they’ve let themselves go and have nothing too offer” believe me not all of us have it like you do and we don’t need UA-cam money. Another thing, is your family perfect? Because it seems it’s always about Luis family or Luis mom never nothing about your brothers, your mom your ex sister in law your nephew you never met 🤷🏻♀️
I don’t think she meant in the sense that you have to have it like she does in order to fulfill the qualities she’s speaking of. She is simply saying..and Luis said this as well.. there are other things to appreciate that a woman does in a relationship than being a housewife. Having a mindset of your own, being independent, adding value into the relationship..that’s important too. Also, attacking Bramty with your comment about her family being imperfect was unnecessary as it has nothing to do with the topic of discussion.
Everything is meant to happen though. If Louis didn’t restrict you and give u a small allowance, you wouldn’t have made that haul and you probably wouldn’t be where you’re at right now. Luis played a big factor & you don’t see that at all😂
Since Luis’ mindset has changed so much over the years, I would love to know how he felt when they first started living together and Bramty didn’t cook and he had to work and stuff
I appreciate your honesty and sharing your experiences because you never know who could be helping or even helping them to understand how they can do things differently. I love your guys podcasts!
@@MariaHernandez-fc4tc damn you can’t even spell my name right lmao 🤣 it’s right there babe. And when did I say I did? You’re the one over here talking like you know her MARÍA 😂
Bramty, thank you for speaking up about labor !!! For some odd reason, my husband doesnt see my point of view about who is allowed in the labor room but you literally took the right words out my mouth! I legit explained and expressed my feelings to him regarding this topic and he understood clearly when you talked about it !
I don’t mind Bramtys personality I like the way she is! I saw the comments of people not liking how she’s hosting but loving the podcasts. So I like the beginning how bramty addressed the comments in the beginning! Goes to show she’s taking this serious - this podcast is great! ❤
I have a lot of respect for Luis for this episode. He so obviously loves his family & only has seemed to move with good intentions. But I wanna see an episode of bramtys mistakes & her taking it as gravely as he is.
Maybe they're going to go through Luis' family's first? and then her family next... cus I think I saw a comment where she said she will talk about her fam as well
@@bs9547 hopefully cause these past 4 episodes it has only been about Luis’ mistakes and his family problems even his brothers problems before her own..
Why does Bramty blame Louis “100%” she said it herself it’s YOUR day of giving birth. Speak up and say something if you don’t feel comfortable which she’s good at doing clearly
It’s kinda messed up that every video is bashing Luis and his family. And Luis is just taking it. That’s why I stopped watching the Bramfam it’s always belittling to Luis
This episode was literally meant to give Luis the chance to talk about his redemption arc. You can’t talk about the mistake someone made without it being considered belittling? That’s not how the real world works.
Facts aren’t bashing someone. Truth sometimes feels uncomfortable but you gotta say it. I feel like she is an independent hard working woman who feels confident enough to share her opinion. Instead of always feeling offended when we see another woman standing up for herself Let’s lift her up! And after being with someone for many years if you guys are completely open to understand each other’s feelings and povs, you can have this conversation without feeling bashed by your significant other 💯💯💯👌 plus I bet Luis is resting right now with no hard feelings 😉
I feel like this podcast just turned to therapy sessions for them. lol I was expecting tea and all i felt like i was there with you guys just hearing you guys talk together.
Unless a doctor says you have ADHD I don't think you have it, I just think after years of doing UA-cam, you're just very time conscious and a little impatient with hearing others thoughts like you said, because you already know the answers, so it's part of being selfless and patient with others. I notice it with a lot of female UA-camrs in their videos, as soon as someone else speaks they sorta force themselves to be patient and to listen, but you'll see them get aggravated a little bit. It's very common for women to feel this way, especially with men/women who have shown signs of immaturity or have hurt us in the past. We kinda don't want to "deal" with them subconsciously and it manifests in our actions/behaviour. It happens a lot in leadership positions. Like an ego thing. For some people it's a sign of narcissism of always wanting to be centre of attention or have all the wisdom to share. Or people who have no peace within them and are almost like a ticking time bomb. I've noticed that kind of selfishness manifest in people too. The best thing is embracing the Holy Spirit from Jesus Christ which has the fruits of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control and just having a caring, compassionate and considerate heart.
Tbh I feel like I’m learning so much from watching your guys podcasts and I admire you both for being so transparent and completely honest. You tell it straight up and now I know how to approach those certain things better. Love you both, love your family and pls keep blessing us with amazing content 🩵🩵🩵
So many young dads can relate to what Luis talked about in this one, so awesome and mature of you guys to talk about these things and open up about them 🙌🏼
He said you taught me how to be a man in certain ways. An amazing display of humility and courage in one statement. Amazing conversation and display of maturity from you both. Thank you for sharing
lol bramty said she smart, good vocabulary and doesn’t stutter but says “dezzzision” also we get the same old news about Luis’s family let’s get some other hot tea 😩
I’ve been with my husband for almost 9 years (married for 6) we have 1 daughter and are currently expecting another girl. My husband will be 32 & I will be 27. He’s in the military, we are stationed in Hawaii. I relate to you guys so much, and I genuinely admire the length of your relationship because there’s no many people who know how to stick it out with each other these days. Love that about you guys 🩷
Girllll.. i had an emergency C-section and it happened so fast I wasn’t numb and I felt everything!!! So as soon as they pulled my daughter out they immediately put me to sleep. I was asleep for hours, my husband FaceTimed both of our parents to show them the baby and my mother in law took screenshots and posted all over Facebook tagging us both… there was 200+ comments from our family/friends BEFORE I even met my daughter!!!!!
Does Bramty not know that she can tell her nurses if she doesn’t want someone in the room and they will kick them out for her? Lol why is she not taking accountability for that?
@@sindyb9120 yeah girl, you’re a patient in a hospital room that you’re paying for. It’s not a free for all entry. You can also request a new nurse if you don’t like the one you have…
Whatttt!!!! I tried to do this and they said they couldn’t do that it’s up to the couple to discuss 😖 and this was COVID season girl I need to go to your hospital lol
@@roxanaordonez7099 I gave birth July 2020 and no visitors were allowed so I got lucky. But my sisters a nurse and she told me what the patients rights are in hospitals.
Honelsty feel like this was the biggest improvement in the podcast, less interruptions less degrading more accountability and more honestly! Thank u bramty for taking advice! Keep growing y’all ❤
I’m gonna correct you Bramty! The man is the head and the woman is the crown!!🙌🏼 proverbs 12:4 says “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband”. I like that so much more than being a neck you literally make your husband a king!!
The topic about not cooking for your man is a Hispanic/ all around thing in general. It goes way back in the days where that was the main thing woman are meant to do “cook for their man” after a long day of work. Things are definitely different in this generation where it still becomes controversial! The topic should be equal now and days, why can’t men cook for their wives? It shouldn’t be a big deal as what people make it 🙏
Love how genuine you guys are, that’s the reason why I will always support you guys. You guys have gone thru some thick thick problems but have come out stronger. I’ve gone thru a couple thing bramty has gone thru so I know where she’s coming from. But my question is, how do you keep from becoming a cold hearted person after going thru all that? I feel like I’ve become cold and over protective of my relationship because of past issues.
From my understanding, Luis allowed his mom into the delivery room when Bramty said no, but since his mom probably insisted Luis at the time didn’t know how to tell his mom no so she was let in.
Honestly appreciate how you guys admit mistakes. Marriage is hard. But you learn from certain things & keep pushing forward. Can relate as I’ve been with my partner since we were 17-18 as well, now married as well.
I 100% feel you. I always interrupt and I can’t stop!! It’s true like you said, my brain just hops forward and I’m already thinking of the next thing. I have to work and to consciously look at the other person and do nothing but listen to their words and make sure I think them through
I appreciate the flaws you guys show in your relationship. It shows growth and how long you’ve come and you still are dedicated to each other. So many UA-cam couples pretend to be picture perfect and then suddenly divorce . Y’all are so real for that
My husband and i make 10 years in october, we’ve been together since 17/18 and we are literally just like you guys 😂 the mommas boy things back in the day, teaching him how to be a man, him limiting my spending (i was and still am financially irresponsible 🤪) its so refreshing seeing a couple BE REAL!!!
Those are exactly the women coming after you for not cooking: the ones that only have THAT to offer but absolutely nothing else. It stems from insecurity. I can promise you 99% are not business women or making good money.
honestly i love the podcast & i’m not one to comment at all but i notice how everything is just luis luis luis.. like i don’t think he gets appreciated enough for his positive traits but it’s definitely just an observation 😅
Dude Bramty needs to realize she should have spoken up for herself. At the end of the day if your man didn’t do what you wanted you still had the right to not allow them into the room at the end of the day… after the first ruined birth why would you allow that to happen again. It’s not all of Luis’s fault when you also allowed it.
Right. Like Gordo said in his LIVE anyone who can read a recipe can cook. Just gotta wanna do it or at least try. Has nothing to do with being intimidated with her lol 🥴
We need a raw video of what went down with bramty and her older brother and now the stuff that went down with her younger brother. Now thats the tea i want to know about
It’s immature to not over consume? I use 100$ and I’m happy and healthy? Not all of us are over consumers 😂 I love my husband for his budgeting skills:) Another episode where bramty is perfect and no one else is😂
Though Brampty is very goofy at times, she also definitely demonstrates lots of emotional maturity and Luis you are a REAL man to admit how your wife stayed with you through your growth!! Power couple! Real relationships take work!!
It’s 2023 men can cook for themselves we are working wives we can cook or not..we both working adults. men can cook too. We are not their moms to cook for them and do everything for them.
Bramty if it makes you feel better, my sister asked me if she could watch my daughter while I was giving birth to my son and she left because she had plans to see a movie. At least she called my dad to take her place but they kept it a secret because they knew I would get mad. I found out 30 minutes after I gave birth and my husband had to go back home.
😮 I would love the PODCAST be able BRAMTYS STEP FAMILY....and what happened about her brothers JEFF and her DAD. We always talk about Luis dad and mom. But I would love talk about what happened after meeting her family.
The pettiness 😂😂😂 that'd be me as well not gonna lie. Sometimes our partners can be selfish and not think about having a clean home and not accumulating mess. But for reals though, thank you both for talking about your problems and how a couple can truly work as a team to become better for each other and individually. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!! real talk! Love y'all bramfam stay blessed 💕
Poor luis, more I watch this podcast more I feel bad. He’s brainwashed to thinking he’s wrong and he needs to be better, it’s the past bramty get over it how many more apologizes do you want him to tell you!! yet he doesn’t see it and thinks we are criticizing her. He’s such a good guy , sucks he picked the wrong one
The people that we’re talking clearly are not fans of you guys to know that you have grown now. I see you two. You two are amazing people and even amazing parents! Your kids are lucky to have you!
A good marriage is always ready to forgive and learn from mistakes you both were learning to be all things a husband a wife and parents! It’s okay to take a breather and forgive yourself and each other to better every day! That is true love!
I agree with you Bramty! A woman/Wife is not obligated to cook it should come naturally because they enjoy cooking not so they can fit that “perfect” woman/wife role.
It is NOT 100% Luis’ fault. I blame his mother most because she put HIM in this situation to have to choose between his mother and wife as a teenager that he was, also she’s at fault for the childhood Luis had and not giving him a better father to teach him how to treat his wife. Period.
Bramty deserves an apology from his mom. No one has the right to sent pictures of someone giving birth without their permission. Don’t matter the culture etc.
Frs that's messed up
Im sure she’s done it if they have a good relationship now. Im sure bramty wouldn’t allow a relationship to form otherwise
@@AlexCisNails I doubt that, even Luis said he think’s his mom wouldn’t feel sorry for doing that to this day because she’s old school, something like that
Littrally, the amount of privacy invaded is sad. She definitely deserves an apology.
@@pixiedust_833 oou you have a point 🤔
I would like to see Luis interview Bramty about her side of the family, the dinamic with her mom, how her brother getting arrested affected her and what happened with her other brother and not having communication!
Facts
Same its annoying the past episodes is all abt shaming his family how they would treat her in the past
same :/ all they’ve talked about is Luis’ side of the family-which is fine but it is getting repetitive. It would be interesting to see Bramty talk about her family and her childhood, relationships now, etc, but i guess it’s too much to ask for. It’s been interesting watching them speak openly about their marriage and obviously not everything has to be shared but she should share.. just my opinion! i completely agree with you haha (:
Yessssssss 🎉 34:44
Yes for real she needs to give Luis more credit.. she paints him so bad but how does she look 🤔
i NEVER thought luis was the bad guy for saving money for them and limiting bramtys money… that’s literally THE SMARTEST thing a man can do for his family and he got them a house within a year! if i was bramty i would’ve been so grateful for his mentality not bitter 😭
That’s how I know we are all so different. If a man limited my spending and made me feel that isolated I would leave. Mental health > money
@@alyssaholcomb5466
The point is, that they were very young and alone away from their families with no help. He was their only source of income while she was home with the baby. He was doing right by them in that financial aspect. He wasn’t trying to be controlling he was trying to be responsible. She was just accustomed to her ways prior to having Penelope. She wasn’t used to being the whole house wife/mom. He did the best he could. She should be grateful he didn’t abandon her with a kid and no money.
@@alyssaholcomb5466yeah definitely! i’d way rather have a home for my family than some extra spending money, aka sacrificing for a better life for my kids
@@MizBoriMoon I hate when people say a mother should be grateful the father didn’t leave. F that, he’s as responsible for that child as she is. I understand that he didn’t intend to be controlling over the money, but that’s what he was. He has grown so much since then and I’m so proud of him. But regardless, what he did at the time was controlling. He left her at home with their baby, without money or a car. He might be the one working but she’s still a full time mother raising his kids. They should decide together what to do with THEIR money. It’s not all his choice. They should make those decisions as a team, he shouldn’t control those choices.
@@alyssaholcomb5466 you would value your shopping addiction over saving up for a family home that'll be for you and your family for life time?!?! Damn.
We need an episode of Bramty’s flaws/mistakes from the past lol
no really
She thinks she is perfect! She only points her finger to others except for her family and herself, she is problematic, narcissist, bossy…
FR!
fr bc its all about luis’s mistakes always
Sometimes people like that truly don’t believe they don’t have any mistakes from the past, or flaws. And then when you have yes men around you, there’s never any accountability. Not her, just saying in general 😂
I feel like bramty always wants to make Luis the bad one and expose his flaws but when it comes to her she’s so defensive 😂
Frr
Ugh yesss. “
Right, can we get an episode about Bramtys flaws?
I agree
Totally agree, she’s starting get annoying…honestly I couldn’t finish watching the whole thing.
Bramty holds so much resentment towards luis for penelopes birth.. it wasnt 100% his fault. he was young and his mom took advantage of him, she should've known better as a mom and as another woman.
YESSSSS 100% AGREE WITH THIS COMMENT !!!!
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I completely agree with you, she says that it’s in the past and that they moved in and he didn’t know better yet he keeps repeating and showing so much resentment, she shows that it is clearly not in the past in her mind and i don’t know… I truly feel bad for Luis sometimes he’s very humble and you can tell he’s ashamed and regrets his action but if he already said sorry it shouldn’t be brought up again like this. It’s humiliating at this point.
No, just no
Her limits and intimacy was broken and violated and that’s messed up 👏🏻
@@SuperLalarock Yes, just Yes
And i did not say they weren’t. They were and he apologized and changed.
Healthy relationships require forgiveness and it’s not okay to keep rubbing it in your partners face ver and over again. 👏🏻
Not only the delivery but the whole pregnancy. We will NEVER forget who hurt us or neglected us while we were pregnant
Tea the people want to know…why did you guys separate the two times we know about in the past?
YESSSS
Yes when he went to Virginia for a while
They needed a break because they weren’t getting along they said it in a vlog
@@katherinecabrera6080 lol obviously but people want to know what was the actual issue….
i mean they kinda cover it here. he was immature at the time not acting right and she was fed up.
Because you guys married so young. You both grasped grown adult responsibilities so fast at an immature minded time. I totally understand all the toxic things you guys went through because my husband and i went through the same thing we got married at 18 while I was pregnant I had to learn to be a wife and him provide for me and then eventually a household. We were both immature at the time so there were soooo many fights and crying. But we’re finally at a point in our marriage where we got the hand of everything. There’s respect love and equality We’re 6 years together now and everything is great now it took a longggg time but we did it
Same I think it's always hard at first for every marriage when you're still young
Exactly u learn to respect your partner
Exactly. A lot of ppl are quick to jump the gun or “ I would’ve left him blah blah” but there’s a reason for everything and some of those things can be worked through and taught.
Same🫶🏽
It’s not the fact that you interrupt. It’s that you blame him for everything and have this attitude that you haven’t made any mistakes and that you taught him everything and he’s only better because of you. You have many faults too Bramty. AND that only his family is talked about even when he was uncomfortable. Let’s talk about your brother that’s in jail again…or your ex sister in law.
And you constantly bringing up everything you feel he did wrong even tho you “forgave” him is going to eventually be a reason for the downfall of your marriage…
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EXACTLY!!! She always wants to take credit for him changing , if he didn’t want to change he didn’t have too, if he didn’t want to be better he didn’t have to but he did it himself. She acts like she’s so good and better than him and belittles him so bad!! I don’t understand how people can still watch her and stand her.
@@viviana9002 I totally agree with you.. that’s something I dislike from bramty. She belittles her husband and she puts herself all the way to the top
Or the fact that she used to leave at the restaurant when she's done leaving him finish his plate and paying the bill ... narcissist much I think
2:30 - I feel like she still keeps pinpointing his past flaws when she has plenty of them herself. Bramty, you have some growing up and healing to do yourself. I have ADHD but would never disrespect and be inconsiderate to my husband at a restaurant like that because you’re “adhd” and impatient? Nahh, you’re just controlling and think you’re superior cause he aint going nowhere.
Been watching every Thursday since the first pod came out, you guys are killing it I’m obsessed w u bramty
Same 🥺🥰
Ughhh LUIS stop feeling so bad. It wasn’t that bad… you are a GREAT man and I hope you know that.
Leaving him at the restaurant is crazy
Bramty, you cannot pick and choose when you have ADHD
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She’s Gemini most of them do😂
Exactly she is using it as an excuse to be rude and inpatient
Honestly I understand her and agree, I have the same tendencies with friends n family or any convo where i interrupt and ADHD is has areas in situations it is high tendency. and it may still b shown in other areas but convo may b more prone for her as it is me doesn’t mean she hella had ADHD it is a spectrum damn near everyone has it and diff levels and opposite spectrum and for many it doesn’t cause any difficulties or struggles where dr. feel the need to have them tested
Ohhh Bramty… that’s annoying so we cook, we clean, take care of our kids, laundry etc I’ve never left a comment like that cause idc but you can’t say stuff like “they’ve let themselves go and have nothing too offer” believe me not all of us have it like you do and we don’t need UA-cam money. Another thing, is your family perfect? Because it seems it’s always about Luis family or Luis mom never nothing about your brothers, your mom your ex sister in law your nephew you never met 🤷🏻♀️
True
I don’t think she meant in the sense that you have to have it like she does in order to fulfill the qualities she’s speaking of. She is simply saying..and Luis said this as well.. there are other things to appreciate that a woman does in a relationship than being a housewife. Having a mindset of your own, being independent, adding value into the relationship..that’s important too. Also, attacking Bramty with your comment about her family being imperfect was unnecessary as it has nothing to do with the topic of discussion.
Let’s talk about bramty’s family !!!
Yassssssss!🙌🏼
Everything is meant to happen though. If Louis didn’t restrict you and give u a small allowance, you wouldn’t have made that haul and you probably wouldn’t be where you’re at right now. Luis played a big factor & you don’t see that at all😂
I agree. They also wouldn’t have gotten a whole HOUSE within a year. That’s a huge accomplishment. He did that for his kid/family.
Since Luis’ mindset has changed so much over the years, I would love to know how he felt when they first started living together and Bramty didn’t cook and he had to work and stuff
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I appreciate your honesty and sharing your experiences because you never know who could be helping or even helping them to understand how they can do things differently. I love your guys podcasts!
I love how bramty has no problem with constructive criticism this is how you grow. You can tell she is a loving person deep down.
Actually she does
@@MariaHernandez-fc4tc oh ok I didn’t know you knew her personally
@@nayelli1764 you do or what Nayeli
@@MariaHernandez-fc4tc damn you can’t even spell my name right lmao 🤣 it’s right there babe. And when did I say I did? You’re the one over here talking like you know her MARÍA 😂
Bramty, thank you for speaking up about labor !!! For some odd reason, my husband doesnt see my point of view about who is allowed in the labor room but you literally took the right words out my mouth! I legit explained and expressed my feelings to him regarding this topic and he understood clearly when you talked about it !
This is why we do this! This comment makes us happy. Sometimes it takes some one else and different ways of saying something… especially for men
Y’all went through so many things but they only made y’all stronger as a couple and that’s what inspires me so much about you two 💗
When are we gonna hear the story of bramTEA and her side of the family ?
Out of all the podcast their is I'm so obsessed with this one! I'm always ready for the next one.
I don’t mind Bramtys personality I like the way she is! I saw the comments of people not liking how she’s hosting but loving the podcasts. So I like the beginning how bramty addressed the comments in the beginning! Goes to show she’s taking this serious - this podcast is great! ❤
I have a lot of respect for Luis for this episode. He so obviously loves his family & only has seemed to move with good intentions. But I wanna see an episode of bramtys mistakes & her taking it as gravely as he is.
Why are all the topics targeting Luis and his family ??
fr.. i love bramty but she comes across a little cocky like shes better and she never makes mistakes only luis.
Maybe they're going to go through Luis' family's first? and then her family next... cus I think I saw a comment where she said she will talk about her fam as well
@@bs9547 hopefully cause these past 4 episodes it has only been about Luis’ mistakes and his family problems even his brothers problems before her own..
Why does Bramty blame Louis “100%” she said it herself it’s YOUR day of giving birth. Speak up and say something if you don’t feel comfortable which she’s good at doing clearly
She did & they didn’t listen to her. She’s not gonna keep “speaking up” while in labor pushing a baby out?
@@reneecervantes4524 she never stated the mil wouldn’t listen to her. She only ever says that it’s all up to Louis for the mil not listening to HIM.
It’s kinda messed up that every video is bashing Luis and his family. And Luis is just taking it. That’s why I stopped watching the Bramfam it’s always belittling to Luis
This episode was literally meant to give Luis the chance to talk about his redemption arc. You can’t talk about the mistake someone made without it being considered belittling? That’s not how the real world works.
I don’t think it’s bashing. He openly wanted to talk about it, if he were getting bashed he wouldn’t want to continue the topic about his family
That's their reality and if they decided to share how they felt online they can rightly do so
I’m pretty sure he wasn’t forced. Ya forget how entertainment is. Like relax lol
Facts aren’t bashing someone. Truth sometimes feels uncomfortable but you gotta say it. I feel like she is an independent hard working woman who feels confident enough to share her opinion. Instead of always feeling offended when we see another woman standing up for herself Let’s lift her up! And after being with someone for many years if you guys are completely open to understand each other’s feelings and povs, you can have this conversation without feeling bashed by your significant other 💯💯💯👌 plus I bet Luis is resting right now with no hard feelings 😉
I feel like this podcast just turned to therapy sessions for them. lol I was expecting tea and all i felt like i was there with you guys just hearing you guys talk together.
Unless a doctor says you have ADHD I don't think you have it, I just think after years of doing UA-cam, you're just very time conscious and a little impatient with hearing others thoughts like you said, because you already know the answers, so it's part of being selfless and patient with others. I notice it with a lot of female UA-camrs in their videos, as soon as someone else speaks they sorta force themselves to be patient and to listen, but you'll see them get aggravated a little bit. It's very common for women to feel this way, especially with men/women who have shown signs of immaturity or have hurt us in the past. We kinda don't want to "deal" with them subconsciously and it manifests in our actions/behaviour. It happens a lot in leadership positions. Like an ego thing. For some people it's a sign of narcissism of always wanting to be centre of attention or have all the wisdom to share. Or people who have no peace within them and are almost like a ticking time bomb. I've noticed that kind of selfishness manifest in people too. The best thing is embracing the Holy Spirit from Jesus Christ which has the fruits of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control and just having a caring, compassionate and considerate heart.
Tbh I feel like I’m learning so much from watching your guys podcasts and I admire you both for being so transparent and completely honest. You tell it straight up and now I know how to approach those certain things better. Love you both, love your family and pls keep blessing us with amazing content 🩵🩵🩵
“You just said “like” after saying that” I DIED🤣🤣
So many young dads can relate to what Luis talked about in this one, so awesome and mature of you guys to talk about these things and open up about them 🙌🏼
The way y’all both say “decision” made me giggle😂
I couldn't 😂🙈😫
For forever I've always noticed that way that word is said lol 😂
He said you taught me how to be a man in certain ways. An amazing display of humility and courage in one statement. Amazing conversation and display of maturity from you both. Thank you for sharing
lol bramty said she smart, good vocabulary and doesn’t stutter but says “dezzzision” also we get the same old news about Luis’s family let’s get some other hot tea 😩
I’ve been with my husband for almost 9 years (married for 6) we have 1 daughter and are currently expecting another girl. My husband will be 32 & I will be 27. He’s in the military, we are stationed in Hawaii. I relate to you guys so much, and I genuinely admire the length of your relationship because there’s no many people who know how to stick it out with each other these days. Love that about you guys 🩷
Let’s talk about Bramtys family now ! All about luis, can’t wait for bramty side
Girllll.. i had an emergency C-section and it happened so fast I wasn’t numb and I felt everything!!! So as soon as they pulled my daughter out they immediately put me to sleep. I was asleep for hours, my husband FaceTimed both of our parents to show them the baby and my mother in law took screenshots and posted all over Facebook tagging us both… there was 200+ comments from our family/friends BEFORE I even met my daughter!!!!!
Does Bramty not know that she can tell her nurses if she doesn’t want someone in the room and they will kick them out for her? Lol why is she not taking accountability for that?
Girl even I didn’t know that and I’ve had two
@@sindyb9120 yeah girl, you’re a patient in a hospital room that you’re paying for. It’s not a free for all entry. You can also request a new nurse if you don’t like the one you have…
It’s sad how many women suffer unnecessarily because they don’t know their rights as a patient.
Whatttt!!!! I tried to do this and they said they couldn’t do that it’s up to the couple to discuss 😖 and this was COVID season girl I need to go to your hospital lol
@@roxanaordonez7099 I gave birth July 2020 and no visitors were allowed so I got lucky. But my sisters a nurse and she told me what the patients rights are in hospitals.
Luis is definitely a keeper 😊
Why don’t you guys make a separate channel for your podcast??
girl the way you keep pronouncing decision 😂
😂 I’ve always noticed that
LMAO YES
“Dezzzzizzion”😂
I pronounce it like that too lmao. It’s definitely due to Spanish being our first language.
Will you guys talk about the break you and Luis had ?
Love the fact that you both are always clothes matching every podcast!!! So cute
Honelsty feel like this was the biggest improvement in the podcast, less interruptions less degrading more accountability and more honestly! Thank u bramty for taking advice! Keep growing y’all ❤
I’m gonna correct you Bramty! The man is the head and the woman is the crown!!🙌🏼 proverbs 12:4 says “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband”. I like that so much more than being a neck you literally make your husband a king!!
The topic about not cooking for your man is a Hispanic/ all around thing in general. It goes way back in the days where that was the main thing woman are meant to do “cook for their man” after a long day of work. Things are definitely different in this generation where it still becomes controversial! The topic should be equal now and days, why can’t men cook for their wives? It shouldn’t be a big deal as what people make it 🙏
Love how genuine you guys are, that’s the reason why I will always support you guys. You guys have gone thru some thick thick problems but have come out stronger. I’ve gone thru a couple thing bramty has gone thru so I know where she’s coming from. But my question is, how do you keep from becoming a cold hearted person after going thru all that? I feel like I’ve become cold and over protective of my relationship because of past issues.
Nah girl get into the second labor lol we’re here for it 😂😂
How is Luis fully to blame. If it’s his mom that was invasive?
From my understanding, Luis allowed his mom into the delivery room when Bramty said no, but since his mom probably insisted Luis at the time didn’t know how to tell his mom no so she was let in.
Luis was the one to put his mom in her place, and didn’t. He was the part of relationship with bramty not his mom
@@Lua91B gotcha!
Honestly appreciate how you guys admit mistakes. Marriage is hard. But you learn from certain things & keep pushing forward. Can relate as I’ve been with my partner since we were 17-18 as well, now married as well.
i love that she interrupted him again bringing in the dogs and introducing them LMAOOO
“Desigen” 😂😂❤️
I really like this podcast episode ! Sharing your obstacles in your marriage and how you overcame it is so helpful to other couples! Love you guys ❤
you guys should talk next about the businesses you guys had and what had happened to them and how the Airbnb is going
I appreciate y’all being real and not a cookie cutter family! ❤
I 100% feel you. I always interrupt and I can’t stop!! It’s true like you said, my brain just hops forward and I’m already thinking of the next thing.
I have to work and to consciously look at the other person and do nothing but listen to their words and make sure I think them through
“Hey guys! It’s a brand new day!!” “Hey heyyyyy!!” OG Bramfam here and loving the podcasts!!!❤
I appreciate the flaws you guys show in your relationship. It shows growth and how long you’ve come and you still are dedicated to each other. So many UA-cam couples pretend to be picture perfect and then suddenly divorce . Y’all are so real for that
My husband and i make 10 years in october, we’ve been together since 17/18 and we are literally just like you guys 😂 the mommas boy things back in the day, teaching him how to be a man, him limiting my spending (i was and still am financially irresponsible 🤪) its so refreshing seeing a couple BE REAL!!!
This episode was so good! Proud of you guys for listening to and implementing the criticism 😊
Those are exactly the women coming after you for not cooking: the ones that only have THAT to offer but absolutely nothing else. It stems from insecurity. I can promise you 99% are not business women or making good money.
honestly i love the podcast & i’m not one to comment at all but i notice how everything is just luis luis luis.. like i don’t think he gets appreciated enough for his positive traits but it’s definitely just an observation 😅
Dude Bramty needs to realize she should have spoken up for herself. At the end of the day if your man didn’t do what you wanted you still had the right to not allow them into the room at the end of the day… after the first ruined birth why would you allow that to happen again. It’s not all of Luis’s fault when you also allowed it.
Yall have grown so much and shows that if you really want a relationship to work . It's possible.
// I love how you guys coordinate your outfits to match each other
I enjoy the podcast more when it’s just you two. ❤
yes i feel like guests should be once in a while and not so often, i really find it more calm and entertaining when it’s both of them.
Bramty you can be all you are and still cook sis lol
Cooking is essential, at least learn even if u don't do it every day
Specially since u have kids
Right. Like Gordo said in his LIVE anyone who can read a recipe can cook. Just gotta wanna do it or at least try. Has nothing to do with being intimidated with her lol 🥴
She does know basics anyway she just doesn’t enjoy it and since Luis does it she doesn’t need to
I loved when Bramty described luis clothes rotting in the corner lmao 😂😂😂😂
I don’t think Luis made toxic decisions… as a partner you have to work together to achieve those goals together.
We need a raw video of what went down with bramty and her older brother and now the stuff that went down with her younger brother. Now thats the tea i want to know about
The way Ik bramty was ITCHING TO INTERRUPT lolllll I’m the same bc my mind works too fast
I still wanna know why Luis moved out that one time lol
It’s immature to not over consume? I use 100$ and I’m happy and healthy? Not all of us are over consumers 😂 I love my husband for his budgeting skills:)
Another episode where bramty is perfect and no one else is😂
Lmfao not me thinking they were moving their feet the same way and it just being Luis' feet in both frames 🤣🤣🤣
Though Brampty is very goofy at times, she also definitely demonstrates lots of emotional maturity and Luis you are a REAL man to admit how your wife stayed with you through your growth!! Power couple! Real relationships take work!!
It’s 2023 men can cook for themselves we are working wives we can cook or not..we both working adults. men can cook too. We are not their moms to cook for them and do everything for them.
exactly
Bramty if it makes you feel better, my sister asked me if she could watch my daughter while I was giving birth to my son and she left because she had plans to see a movie. At least she called my dad to take her place but they kept it a secret because they knew I would get mad. I found out 30 minutes after I gave birth and my husband had to go back home.
When I first watched Bramty’s UA-cam videos I liked her instantly bc she was so real. She has never changed! 😵
The interrupting is the Gemini in us girl 🤣 my brain works at 100 mph lol
Stop that stupid nonsense, being rude is not a horoscopes 🤣
I love the way Bramty says “decision” lol
How is Bramty married with 3 kids and she's GLOWING ✨
Because she works out 💪 I need to work out leave me a comment to get motivation lol
I’m obsessed with y’all’s podcast y’all are doing amazing and the tea is so good!!
😮 I would love the PODCAST be able BRAMTYS STEP FAMILY....and what happened about her brothers JEFF and her DAD. We always talk about Luis dad and mom. But I would love talk about what happened after meeting her family.
The pettiness 😂😂😂 that'd be me as well not gonna lie. Sometimes our partners can be selfish and not think about having a clean home and not accumulating mess. But for reals though, thank you both for talking about your problems and how a couple can truly work as a team to become better for each other and individually. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!! real talk! Love y'all bramfam stay blessed 💕
You have every right to speak how you feel Bramty. You’re a very strong person and I admire that.
Poor luis, more I watch this podcast more I feel bad. He’s brainwashed to thinking he’s wrong and he needs to be better, it’s the past bramty get over it how many more apologizes do you want him to tell you!! yet he doesn’t see it and thinks we are criticizing her. He’s such a good guy , sucks he picked the wrong one
The people that we’re talking clearly are not fans of you guys to know that you have grown now. I see you two. You two are amazing people and even amazing parents! Your kids are lucky to have you!
I’m obsessed with your show! Love how you guys are matching btw
I love this!! Did Luis go to therapy? Hes super emotionally intelligent
A good marriage is always ready to forgive and learn from mistakes you both were learning to be all things a husband a wife and parents! It’s okay to take a breather and forgive yourself and each other to better every day! That is true love!
Omg I love how bramty is taking the comments and bettering 💓
I agree with you Bramty! A woman/Wife is not obligated to cook it should come naturally because they enjoy cooking not so they can fit that “perfect” woman/wife role.
U better get into the 2nd pregnancy!! We want the tea bram"tea" lol
Can we talk abt your family and not just abt Luis.
Junie was like who tf are you guys talking to 👀…😂
It is NOT 100% Luis’ fault. I blame his mother most because she put HIM in this situation to have to choose between his mother and wife as a teenager that he was, also she’s at fault for the childhood Luis had and not giving him a better father to teach him how to treat his wife. Period.