Yeah. And it’s dangerous. If it’s just a thought who cares but men will act. For example this woman who complained that men would grind on her because she is twerking. The men in the comments were saying that why does she go then or that she deserves it. Or she shouldn’t twerk. They do think that women do everything for them. Damn.
There is no ego more fragile than a woman who is afraid to approach the man that she’s attracted to because she fears being rejected. She disguises that fear by claiming that it’s a man’s role to “hunt” and approach women. Let’s tell the WHOLE story about what’s going on.
@@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 It is a man’s role to ‘hunt’. But if the ‘prey’ escapes their grasp, they should be able to handle it and move on to the next one. Don’t you think? It’s ok and normal for women to say ‘no’ to men’s advances. Who said men have to have their way every time they do something?
This is where the whole "how was she dressed" conversation comes from. Men really believe women's every single action is done to attract them. Sir, we don't care about men as much as you think we do.
wait, you mean women have their own lives and don’t plan and scheme to take down men they don’t even know because they’re bitter single cat ladies??? 😦
@ithoughtiwascishet1316*faints from shock* woke up fanning myself screaming this can’t be. Bitter cat ladies and baby mommas are the reason the world is bad.
Well, that SA victim exhibit that shows the clothes of actual victims dispels that stupid assumption anyway (not that we didn't already know). There are a ton of regular clothes, even children's clothes, in that exhibit. It's really sad to see.
It’s the fact that after all these years men still can’t fathom that women like to go places for their own enjoyment. You have to be silly to be looking for a man in the club and that’s why these ladies reject those men. We go to the club to dance, dress up, and have fun with our girls. We’re not looking to pick up a problem.
100% been to a Club with a few friends and their friends for New years. We were all girls, some I had never met. But we had fun all night. Dancing, talking, eating. We even ordered echother some drinks and flirted with eachother. We were basically all single and none of us were looking for a guy, we just wanted to spend time together. And there were some guys trying to get a little handsy, but we were really not that interested and tried to keep the group tight. And honestly there were also some guy groups , who were just dancing with friend and with that attitude they were kinda the more attractive type, we even talked with them a little bit, because they were not looking for a girl. Men, who seem to be bagging for attention in the Club are kinda Red flag for a lot of girls, unless they want a one night stand.
Dear men, 🗣 Being outside DOESN'T MEAN WE ARE FAIR GAME!!! Women are outside living their lives! We're not outside because we are looking for a man! It doesn't matter if the guy is Adonis or if there's a vibe. SHE IS NOT INTERESTEEEEEEEED! 😤
Can we talk about how Disney and chicflicks also messed up men's expectations of romance, flirting and dating? Can we? Because why do they think that as soon as they see a woman outside, they MUST try to talk to her? Like, wtf!
Many women do not want to have casual sex. When he say reject, what he means is reject them for casual sex. I don't understand how men don't get that dancing is fun and we don't necessarily want to go home with someone afterwards.
0:20..."in not gon lie" All he does is lie. He's a menace. This is the same troll who COMMANDED women to stop lying when they say they don't want kids.
They're gonna abuse them too and get angry when the program tells them they're being abusive. You can't even ask ChatGPT about certain topics, even in the context of discussing writing ideas, without it giving you a warning that it may be a violation of their terms of service. If ethical companies are creating them, the users are gonna have to install mods to block such warnings or their AI girlfriend/robot is gonna break up with their sociopathic behinds TOO! Or maybe they'll be Tesla bots and they'll be beaten to pieces because no such warnings will ever be programmed. Anyone who's aware of dating sims knows that the dating sim will break up with the player if the player is abusive, and it's the same in video game romances, so this could get really interesting. Unfortunately, men will have a robot/AI girlfriend at home and STILL bother flesh and blood women, trust.
It really is sad on both sides. Everyone is paranoid and unhealed. I think the goal should be decentering all relationships and leveling yourself up, because finding a true partner is rare.
Last week I got hit on while I was: Grocery shopping Leaving the DMV office Walking to the train Walking to the pharmacy Eating at a restaurant At Starbucks None of the guys took “no thank you, I’m not interested” for an answer. Most took “I’m married” for an answer (because they only respect other men). One guy kept trying even after that! He literally followed me for a block or two trying to convince me to just be “friends” with him even though I kept saying NO. His sense of entitlement to MY time was insane! 🙃 I just told him I’m actually about to go meet my husband, and that’s when I finally left me alone. And then I really did go to my husband’s office, which I wasn’t planning to do before, so my husband could walk me to the train. These men are so crazy! They really don’t care about what we want, they only care about what they want to use us for.
I’m 35 and I am married for context. I am too old to go to bars anymore because I can’t stand the music but when we did with friends even with rings on someone would still try to hit on one of us. A ring isn’t a sign of I am taken anymore , it’s a sign of “ I take that as a challenge for some men. We would go out to the club because we want to dress up, chat and scream without judgement. A compliment from random girls on those nights would give me an ego boost for months.
Watching your channel makes me so happy to be a lesbian. Never dated a man in my life and I’m gonna be married to my fiancé on July 2026 🎉🏳️🌈👩❤️💋👩 For all the hetero/bi women out here still trying to find a man, I pray for your protection and I hope you find him one day!
I go to bars and clubs to have fun with friends and dance. Guys , need to stop stressing, looking miserable in clubs and enjoy the club instead of just trying to hook up. It shows desperation. Women go out to have a good time. Men also need to learn how to accept reception and move on with their lives.
Personally I like going outside alone to enjoy MY company. I'm not looking for a man just because I'm sitting alone and I'm outside. The amount of dumb shit men have done to get my attention while outside has stopped me from going outside altogether. Personally, I enjoy my home much more, a bottle of wine, a book/movie, a wonderful night, and it's much cheaper.
Men, when we wear makeup, it's not for you; When we dress up, it's not for you; When I go somewhere; it's not to get you. Nothing we do is for you!!! When will they get it because I'm literally tired of them thinking we don't have lives beyond them
He is also the same guy who said, " stop saying you don't want kids"! He just couldn't handle that either. It does not surprise me he is struggling to comprehend women are not going or doing things for the sake of men.
1000%. He absolutely, positively would compete with a woman and always try to steal her confidence. He's in competition with women. He's not living his truth and makes it women's problem.
These guys will do anything besides face the facts. She wasn’t attracted to you, and wasn’t in the mood to be hit on. Going to a club or bar doesn’t mean you should automatically be responsive to every guy that shoots a shot.
We don’t need to have a reason to decline someone and even if we do, you are not entitled to hear it. Start dating men yourself and don’t reject them if they approach you, if you think men are not supposed to be rejected
Those same men are in the club every weekend so it doesn’t matter if they get the woman’s number or not they are still outside looking. Women go outside to have a good time we don’t care if we are approached, but they do.
I was hit on by a man the first night I went out to gay clubs. SMDH He folowed me outside the club and took my hand and was going on and on. Creeped me out, and I had to walk to the station after that. I was worried.
Men just CANT WRAP their minds around the fact that, women literally go to clubs just to dance and drink stress away. Like what can’t they get through their big head, sir I know why u got rejected because u think u good looking and the best thing since BUTTER BREAD.
Right? Talking about projection... How obsessed are they about women, to think that we're obsessed about them. And if you tell me we're not, they'll say 🧢 Ugh, exhausting 😮💨
I see what women mean now in terms of entitlement. They think women go to bars and clubs just to decline them when they're not even a thought in the first place. They're going to bars and clubs… To have a good time it just so happens men there also. Even if men weren't at these places, women would still go. They really think women revolve around them. That's so crazy.
I absolutely love the idea, but it is far from a simple solution. I genuinely believe (and this is backed by evidence that they continuously provide us) that if we had those and they weren’t specifically for queer women they were actually for just straight women, they would 100% get arson or bombed, or they would just wait outside to attack us. No matter how many times we try to find a way around them or away from them they find a way and then the cops blame us anyways.
Women-only communities, towns, cities, and, eventually, states are not just a great idea but a MUST. And that'll become increasingly evident as these next few years go by.
I thought they didn’t want women to accept and go home with men they meet at clubs. These same guys call women all sorts of names if they meet men at clubs.
Right! I thought all women were 304s...don't they classify hooking up with them as 304 behaviour? Or is there now a magical exception lol I thought it was "choose better" but now that's a problem
Most women go to bars and clubs to have a great time. Annoying men just happen to be there, and these males shouldn't feel entitled to these women's attention just because THEY are looking for something. Why's that dude always whining?
Seriously the double standards a woman cannot go to a bar and have A drink right, but if a woman goes to a bar, drinks and lays with a guy she get called names and if she doesn't she gets called lame
Sometimes gay men don't like it because certain types of women get very loud and touchy with gay men. I won't say what kind of women. But gay men will be happy to tell you. Maybe you already know. IYKYK
@LadyAstarionAncunin yeah, I've seen the type. Those types get thrown out of the club. Which is something we all appreciate and they do not do in straight clubs.
Nobody likes being rejected, broken up with, being cheated on, or whatever, but women don't act like this nearly as often as men. Why are they like this.
If I am going to a club/bar for leisure, the last thing I am interested in is meeting someone at the club for romance. Let me have my fun in peace. I think clubs/bars are one of the worst places to "look for love." More of a hookup if your into that. That's my opinion. I heard people say that too. The same way these men can "give advice" to women, they can take advice as well, rather than blame women for their them being rejected, and figure out what they need to change for women to want them.
Most women go to clubs to have a good time and party with their friends not to have men all up in their faces trying to buy them drinks to take to em home
Good women are taking themselves out the game. Some of us don't even want to be in a bar, club, or any other environment where men are subpar. Baddies are going to reject those "men" and so are the good women. Men need to step their game up and grow their 💰. Nobody wants the burdens of men and their spawns. Not in these times.
Why are they making this about themselves? lol I go to clubs to dress up, talk with my girls and dance. I don’t want your raggity drink. I can get my own. Can we just exist with out being bothered?
He is not referring to other men he is observing in these clubs, he's talking about himself and his own rejection. He would have to be on a dude's lap to hear their convos in a club. He gives weirdo vibes in this clip, so I KNOW he gives creepy in the club
You have got to be insane to think that each and every woman you ask out is going to agree to go out with you! I mean, aren't women supposed to be alone???
Not everything we do is to you, at you, or about you, fellas. It's not all about you. The world doesn't revolve around you. Grow up and get used to it.
I guess it's a weird concept to them that women go to have fun, with girlfriends, to dance... Stuff that have absolutely nothing to do with men. Crazy concept lol
What?? Why do I feel like the first guy is projecting about himself mostly - how he's the one who thinks he's attractive and upset that he got rejected? (lying and saying that he "overheard a conversation from other "attractive men".) Bruh we no there weren't no side convo you was spying on or any other guys around you. YOU is that man and you mad you got rejected. We not stupid! Steups. I hate when people come online to spin a story so they can get other people to feel sorry and validate their bs. If you gotta manipulate people on the internet like that, what makes you think you a good man who deserved anything in the first place, let alone the attention of women?? Da hell? And the fact that he thinks women go outside their house to bars and clubs for "the attention of men" - says so much about his mentality, and yet he sitting in his car, still not understanding why he got rejected. Brother need some serious therapy. Also does it not occur to these men that once you put your face/ words on the net, that other women are going to see them, and ie that could also be another reason why he got rejected? Ugh...the delusionality and audacity is strong in some of these guys. It's depressing!
Obviously his argument is bogus but lets assume its true for a moment. His point would still make in mens fault. Why is every single girl in the club jaded by the last man?
Has it ever occurred to them that maybe the woman in that moment of time isn't looking for a relationship and just went to a club for a drink and let loose a bit, i know I've rejected men either because i was seeing someone or mentally i was ready to enter into a relationship even if I'm vibing with that guy, however, because men don't do that they just enter a relationship even if they're not mentally ready to be in a relationship they'll still enter one its like that concept eludes them, also lets not act like they actively ignore women who'd be interested in them and go after women whos isn't looking for anything or is taken😑
They were "vibing" therefore, the guys "did everything right" and apparently "earned" future attention from those women. 🙄🙄🙄 Things are not always they appear. Case in point, a guy on reddit posted that he was chatting with a girl because HIS friend was trying to pick up on her friend. After a while, they all moved along. When the two guys started talking, the OP mentioned something about chatting with the girl only because he knew his friend was trying to get with the other one. Well, his friend revealed that he was only chatting with the other girl because he thought OP was trying to pick up on the one he was talking to. So, neither guy was interested but had nice, comfortable conversations anyway; each guy thought his friend was "vibing" with the young ladies. So, two ppl that knew each other well, were wrong about each other's interests, or lack thereof. It happens. Yet this guy in the vid seems to think he knows the exact situation amongst strangers. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
How does that stop men from stopping their cars in front of my home to holler at me as I walk down my driveway???????? Or stopping in the crosswalk blocking my path to cross the street safely????
He has a partial point, women only want a certain man to hit on them even those they are out and about in the clubs. Now everything situational so it bad to assume something, yeah he wrong. The biggest lie is if he you're type than 100% they will take some interest if the guy talks to them.
@@spaghettigodoriginalmedia I get what you're saying about the "if he is your type" but still, there are several problems with it. You don't know if you're the type, you don't know if the woman is straight or bi, you don't know of the woman is straight out of a relationship and the last thing on her mind is men, ir might be the right type, but not the right approach... Just leave women alone. If you're into dating and want to approach someone, learn that - No - is a full sentence.
@@MsFadir Aye this is why people end up single, to some no is try again not good eoungh and others it no is no. Unless you go out of you're way to hit on men that you like and turns out it few & far between that you're fault for being to picky than ending up single. Now stop telling men to gain game cause getting game means the opposite of what you describe. You add malicious intent on purpose to justify it just like that man did so shame on you, it takes over 100 women for a man to find 1 women vs a women only like 5 men to find one so men must commit to game cause it re-enforced women can gain any men and men must work for it until that changed to equal terms the proper definition is crazy. Everything based on situation it about accepting faults on both sides in order to fix it. You're solution men fix it, cause I don't need to.
@@MsFadir What I said also apply to gay couple also women expect the other women to do the work also. They should not move a finger only few I meet don't have that attuide.
@@spaghettigodoriginalmedia I'm not a man, so I'm not going to pretend I know what it takes for a men to find a partner. Nor I will tell men to gain game (I also didn't say that my previous reply). I am speaking from the perspective of a woman. Before thinking that women reject men for entertainment or out of spite, remember that there can be 1000x other reasons and none of it being related to you (not you @ spaghetti, but men).
@@spaghettigodoriginalmedia Actions have consequences. If our behaviour makes us single, so be it. There are more women than men anyways. Some will eventually be single, by choice or not. That's life 🤷🏾♀️
Someone please. Lower their ego. Why is it so high? So for me, it’s either we go for free drinks, to reject for revenge or just to hook up. Not for just dancing and enjoying the music with pour friends😂. I don’t think I can marry a man. I don’t go to cubs, and if I did, it wouldn’t be for men. And I know my girls don’t go for men. Few but most don’t.
- Woman says no. Man gets angry.
- Woman makes up excuse. Man gets angry she didn't just say no.
We're d_mned if we do and d_mned if we don't. 🤷♀️
Date them and they get angry.. 😅 my husband acted like a complete doochebag at the start..
@@maddib1723and you still married him?
@@maddib1723Ex-husband correct?
Men really go through life thinking everything we do is about them SMH
Facts! The ego you have to have to look at a woman’s behavior and think it some how trickles down to you is weird.
Yeah. And it’s dangerous. If it’s just a thought who cares but men will act.
For example this woman who complained that men would grind on her because she is twerking.
The men in the comments were saying that why does she go then or that she deserves it. Or she shouldn’t twerk.
They do think that women do everything for them. Damn.
Because everything they do is with getting a w8ma2n or women.
Like most women, I’m a great multitasker. But I draw the line at existing and caring about men’s fragile egos.
Major 2025 energy! 🖤
There is no ego more fragile than a woman who is afraid to approach the man that she’s attracted to because she fears being rejected. She disguises that fear by claiming that it’s a man’s role to “hunt” and approach women. Let’s tell the WHOLE story about what’s going on.
@@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 It is a man’s role to ‘hunt’. But if the ‘prey’ escapes their grasp, they should be able to handle it and move on to the next one. Don’t you think? It’s ok and normal for women to say ‘no’ to men’s advances. Who said men have to have their way every time they do something?
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This is where the whole "how was she dressed" conversation comes from. Men really believe women's every single action is done to attract them. Sir, we don't care about men as much as you think we do.
wait, you mean women have their own lives and don’t plan and scheme to take down men they don’t even know because they’re bitter single cat ladies??? 😦
@ithoughtiwascishet1316 *clutches pearls*
@ithoughtiwascishet1316*faints from shock* woke up fanning myself screaming this can’t be. Bitter cat ladies and baby mommas are the reason the world is bad.
Well, that SA victim exhibit that shows the clothes of actual victims dispels that stupid assumption anyway (not that we didn't already know). There are a ton of regular clothes, even children's clothes, in that exhibit. It's really sad to see.
"These guys ain't ugly"
Wow, I didn't know that was the only standard. In that case, why dont you go out with them sir?
Who knew that women have other reasons to like men besides their looks 🤔 /s
Right? Not being ugly also, somehow entitles those men to the women. So, he's up here feeling entitlement for other men he doesn't even know.
It shows how empty his skull is. That is so shallow!
😂😂😂🫶
It’s the fact that after all these years men still can’t fathom that women like to go places for their own enjoyment. You have to be silly to be looking for a man in the club and that’s why these ladies reject those men. We go to the club to dance, dress up, and have fun with our girls. We’re not looking to pick up a problem.
Exactly... All the problematic men are in the clubs..full of drugs and alcohol and hunting for sleezy hook-ups in the dark. Who wants that.
Exactly!!!
Maybe, but please tell that to the women CONSTANTLY complaining that men don’t approach them.
@@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 use your brain
Small % complain about it - rest complain about that they don't leave them alone
@@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13who is complaining? Last time I checked women have become apathetic
Women really go to the club to have fun with their friends. Very few are on the hunt for men when they go out.
Why not go to gay clubs??? Stay away from straight men
100% been to a Club with a few friends and their friends for New years. We were all girls, some I had never met. But we had fun all night. Dancing, talking, eating. We even ordered echother some drinks and flirted with eachother. We were basically all single and none of us were looking for a guy, we just wanted to spend time together. And there were some guys trying to get a little handsy, but we were really not that interested and tried to keep the group tight. And honestly there were also some guy groups , who were just dancing with friend and with that attitude they were kinda the more attractive type, we even talked with them a little bit, because they were not looking for a girl. Men, who seem to be bagging for attention in the Club are kinda Red flag for a lot of girls, unless they want a one night stand.
Dear men,
🗣 Being outside DOESN'T MEAN WE ARE FAIR GAME!!! Women are outside living their lives! We're not outside because we are looking for a man!
It doesn't matter if the guy is Adonis or if there's a vibe. SHE IS NOT INTERESTEEEEEEEED! 😤
FAAAAACCCTS!! 😄👍
Me and my girls never went to clubs to hook up with guys. We went to party let down our hair! I didn't even accept drinks from men.
Can we talk about how Disney and chicflicks also messed up men's expectations of romance, flirting and dating? Can we? Because why do they think that as soon as they see a woman outside, they MUST try to talk to her? Like, wtf!
Many women do not want to have casual sex. When he say reject, what he means is reject them for casual sex. I don't understand how men don't get that dancing is fun and we don't necessarily want to go home with someone afterwards.
0:20..."in not gon lie"
All he does is lie.
He's a menace.
This is the same troll who COMMANDED women to stop lying when they say they don't want kids.
The AI Girlfriend Robots aren't coming fast enough.
Facts 😂😂😂😂
Had a conversation with a man talking about how soon men won't need to rely on women because they'll have robots instead.
I said "You promise?"
They need to hurry up and have discount ones for the broke dusties.
THIS!! 100.
They're gonna abuse them too and get angry when the program tells them they're being abusive. You can't even ask ChatGPT about certain topics, even in the context of discussing writing ideas, without it giving you a warning that it may be a violation of their terms of service. If ethical companies are creating them, the users are gonna have to install mods to block such warnings or their AI girlfriend/robot is gonna break up with their sociopathic behinds TOO! Or maybe they'll be Tesla bots and they'll be beaten to pieces because no such warnings will ever be programmed.
Anyone who's aware of dating sims knows that the dating sim will break up with the player if the player is abusive, and it's the same in video game romances, so this could get really interesting. Unfortunately, men will have a robot/AI girlfriend at home and STILL bother flesh and blood women, trust.
How do they manage to make everything about them??? 😩😩😩 it’s a special skill at this point 🤦🏾♀️
It really is sad on both sides. Everyone is paranoid and unhealed. I think the goal should be decentering all relationships and leveling yourself up, because finding a true partner is rare.
When your gender is getting offed by the other routinely, you should absolutely be “paranoid”. Common sense isn’t paranoia.
Last week I got hit on while I was:
Grocery shopping
Leaving the DMV office
Walking to the train
Walking to the pharmacy
Eating at a restaurant
At Starbucks
None of the guys took “no thank you, I’m not interested” for an answer. Most took “I’m married” for an answer (because they only respect other men). One guy kept trying even after that!
He literally followed me for a block or two trying to convince me to just be “friends” with him even though I kept saying NO. His sense of entitlement to MY time was insane! 🙃
I just told him I’m actually about to go meet my husband, and that’s when I finally left me alone. And then I really did go to my husband’s office, which I wasn’t planning to do before, so my husband could walk me to the train.
These men are so crazy! They really don’t care about what we want, they only care about what they want to use us for.
I have had that happen to me before. I am sorry I know it's not very nice. It feels violating almost. Stay safe
My sister gets the "What's that got to do with me?" when she tells them she's married. SMDH
I’m 35 and I am married for context. I am too old to go to bars anymore because I can’t stand the music but when we did with friends even with rings on someone would still try to hit on one of us. A ring isn’t a sign of I am taken anymore , it’s a sign of “ I take that as a challenge for some men. We would go out to the club because we want to dress up, chat and scream without judgement. A compliment from random girls on those nights would give me an ego boost for months.
I'm so scared for younger ladies in the dating scene. These men are not well at all.
Who did this? Who did this to them? Who got them to believe that MOST WOMEN are walking around waiting for men to approach them?
The patriarchy....other men
Their mama telling them how special they are and p0rn
Societal Programming
Male Entitlement. They think women are men’s property. We wear makeup wigs get plastic surgery loss weight FOR THEM. Pure Male delusion.
Hollywood and the Christian right.
Watching your channel makes me so happy to be a lesbian. Never dated a man in my life and I’m gonna be married to my fiancé on July 2026 🎉🏳️🌈👩❤️💋👩 For all the hetero/bi women out here still trying to find a man, I pray for your protection and I hope you find him one day!
I’m ace and feel like I have dodged a bullet by having no desire for romantic relationships. It just sound like a headache leading to heartache.
I didn't before, but I think I'll start now.
he definitely looks like what he’s talking about 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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🤭This comment cracked me up!😅
Exactly 😂😂
It's weird that men actually think women only go to clubs for men... and even if they were vibing doesn't mean she wanted romance from him
I go to bars and clubs to have fun with friends and dance. Guys , need to stop stressing, looking miserable in clubs and enjoy the club instead of just trying to hook up. It shows desperation.
Women go out to have a good time. Men also need to learn how to accept reception and move on with their lives.
Ain’t nobody checkin’ for you ninjas.
The projection is on brand.
Personally I like going outside alone to enjoy MY company. I'm not looking for a man just because I'm sitting alone and I'm outside. The amount of dumb shit men have done to get my attention while outside has stopped me from going outside altogether. Personally, I enjoy my home much more, a bottle of wine, a book/movie, a wonderful night, and it's much cheaper.
"They are not ugly". Well maybe for YOU. And yeah, imagine, girls go to clubs to have fun and to dance, no shit
Men, when we wear makeup, it's not for you; When we dress up, it's not for you; When I go somewhere; it's not to get you. Nothing we do is for you!!! When will they get it because I'm literally tired of them thinking we don't have lives beyond them
He’s giving sassy 😂
He is also the same guy who said, " stop saying you don't want kids"! He just couldn't handle that either. It does not surprise me he is struggling to comprehend women are not going or doing things for the sake of men.
1000%. He absolutely, positively would compete with a woman and always try to steal her confidence. He's in competition with women. He's not living his truth and makes it women's problem.
These guys will do anything besides face the facts. She wasn’t attracted to you, and wasn’t in the mood to be hit on. Going to a club or bar doesn’t mean you should automatically be responsive to every guy that shoots a shot.
I don’t go to clubs anymore after my cousin killed a woman who rejected him.. Yeah he’s in prison..
We don’t need to have a reason to decline someone and even if we do, you are not entitled to hear it. Start dating men yourself and don’t reject them if they approach you, if you think men are not supposed to be rejected
How many men does it take to change a lightbulb? One: he climbs on the chair, inserts the bulb, and waits for the world to revolve around him 😘
Those same men are in the club every weekend so it doesn’t matter if they get the woman’s number or not they are still outside looking. Women go outside to have a good time we don’t care if we are approached, but they do.
🤔This is exactly why we used to go to gay clubs, all the fun & none of the hassle 😝
@@UsernamedJory So true! 💃🏾
Unfortunately where I live the XYs followed and ended up getting the place closed from 🔫🔫😩🤦🏾♀️
I was hit on by a man the first night I went out to gay clubs. SMDH He folowed me outside the club and took my hand and was going on and on. Creeped me out, and I had to walk to the station after that. I was worried.
Men just CANT WRAP their minds around the fact that, women literally go to clubs just to dance and drink stress away. Like what can’t they get through their big head, sir I know why u got rejected because u think u good looking and the best thing since BUTTER BREAD.
Right? Talking about projection... How obsessed are they about women, to think that we're obsessed about them.
And if you tell me we're not, they'll say 🧢
Ugh, exhausting 😮💨
They dont got enough blood in their body to think with the brain in their big head when it all goes to their little head. We need women only spaces
I see what women mean now in terms of entitlement. They think women go to bars and clubs just to decline them when they're not even a thought in the first place. They're going to bars and clubs… To have a good time it just so happens men there also. Even if men weren't at these places, women would still go. They really think women revolve around them. That's so crazy.
Simple solution: women only bars and clubs!!
I absolutely love the idea, but it is far from a simple solution. I genuinely believe (and this is backed by evidence that they continuously provide us) that if we had those and they weren’t specifically for queer women they were actually for just straight women, they would 100% get arson or bombed, or they would just wait outside to attack us. No matter how many times we try to find a way around them or away from them they find a way and then the cops blame us anyways.
Women-only communities, towns, cities, and, eventually, states are not just a great idea but a MUST. And that'll become increasingly evident as these next few years go by.
Dear men: leave women alone
@@maryjanerx The End 😂😂
Word ❤
I thought they didn’t want women to accept and go home with men they meet at clubs. These same guys call women all sorts of names if they meet men at clubs.
Right! I thought all women were 304s...don't they classify hooking up with them as 304 behaviour? Or is there now a magical exception lol
I thought it was "choose better" but now that's a problem
They told us to choose better. WE are better. Therefore, we chose ourselves.
Most women go to bars and clubs to have a great time. Annoying men just happen to be there, and these males shouldn't feel entitled to these women's attention just because THEY are looking for something. Why's that dude always whining?
Seriously the double standards a woman cannot go to a bar and have A drink right, but if a woman goes to a bar, drinks and lays with a guy she get called names and if she doesn't she gets called lame
That's why my girls and I only go to gay clubs. Specifically gay men clubs. You get to dress how you want dance and vibe, and nobody bothers you.
Sometimes gay men don't like it because certain types of women get very loud and touchy with gay men. I won't say what kind of women. But gay men will be happy to tell you. Maybe you already know. IYKYK
@LadyAstarionAncunin yeah, I've seen the type. Those types get thrown out of the club. Which is something we all appreciate and they do not do in straight clubs.
Nobody likes being rejected, broken up with, being cheated on, or whatever, but women don't act like this nearly as often as men. Why are they like this.
Women go to clubs to wear a cute outfit, dance, make memories with the girls, take pics. If you meet a nice guy then cool.
If I am going to a club/bar for leisure, the last thing I am interested in is meeting someone at the club for romance. Let me have my fun in peace.
I think clubs/bars are one of the worst places to "look for love." More of a hookup if your into that. That's my opinion. I heard people say that too.
The same way these men can "give advice" to women, they can take advice as well, rather than blame women for their them being rejected, and figure out what they need to change for women to want them.
Some of us just enjoy music and dancing
Go to gay clubs, and stay away from straight men then
Most women go to clubs to have a good time and party with their friends not to have men all up in their faces trying to buy them drinks to take to em home
TBH, If women had an option to go to a women's only lounge/bar/club that's where many would go.
Good women are taking themselves out the game. Some of us don't even want to be in a bar, club, or any other environment where men are subpar.
Baddies are going to reject those "men" and so are the good women.
Men need to step their game up and grow their 💰. Nobody wants the burdens of men and their spawns. Not in these times.
Smh so we can't just go out to dance and listen to music?
If the men were so handsome why don't you date them then boy?
Why are they making this about themselves? lol I go to clubs to dress up, talk with my girls and dance. I don’t want your raggity drink. I can get my own. Can we just exist with out being bothered?
Lol they project... So much... If u pay attention you'll learn just what they do based off what they think we do 😂.. It's science.
True. I've noticed it.
I go to a bar to have a drink with friends. A lot of men think they’re the centre of the universe.
He is not referring to other men he is observing in these clubs, he's talking about himself and his own rejection. He would have to be on a dude's lap to hear their convos in a club. He gives weirdo vibes in this clip, so I KNOW he gives creepy in the club
You have got to be insane to think that each and every woman you ask out is going to agree to go out with you! I mean, aren't women supposed to be alone???
The first guy is weird , we go to the club to have fun . We don’t want to hook up with men all the time .
Not everything we do is to you, at you, or about you, fellas. It's not all about you. The world doesn't revolve around you. Grow up and get used to it.
I guess it's a weird concept to them that women go to have fun, with girlfriends, to dance... Stuff that have absolutely nothing to do with men. Crazy concept lol
What?? Why do I feel like the first guy is projecting about himself mostly - how he's the one who thinks he's attractive and upset that he got rejected? (lying and saying that he "overheard a conversation from other "attractive men".) Bruh we no there weren't no side convo you was spying on or any other guys around you. YOU is that man and you mad you got rejected. We not stupid! Steups.
I hate when people come online to spin a story so they can get other people to feel sorry and validate their bs. If you gotta manipulate people on the internet like that, what makes you think you a good man who deserved anything in the first place, let alone the attention of women?? Da hell? And the fact that he thinks women go outside their house to bars and clubs for "the attention of men" - says so much about his mentality, and yet he sitting in his car, still not understanding why he got rejected. Brother need some serious therapy. Also does it not occur to these men that once you put your face/ words on the net, that other women are going to see them, and ie that could also be another reason why he got rejected? Ugh...the delusionality and audacity is strong in some of these guys. It's depressing!
Obviously his argument is bogus but lets assume its true for a moment. His point would still make in mens fault. Why is every single girl in the club jaded by the last man?
Get out of the car!!!! Every time I see this XY he is in his car!!! Weird!!!!
I used to go to clubs to DANCE and have FUN, not to catch a man. 😄 That's no fun at all.
8:27 clubs for men are a place to get women. Clubs for women are places to dance and drink and have fun with friends
🤭That manbaby at the start is hilarious!! He THINKS men are so special, that women go out just to reject men!!??!! 🤣🤣🤣
That boy needs therapy FR!!!🤣🤣
7:19 Facts😂❤
Babe please make your videos slightly longer!!!! i like listening to you and hearing your lovely voice
okay I’ll try ☺️ thanks
6:56 : Exactly! I got hit on when I was noticeably pregnant. Ok, not all pregnant women have a partner but it's still creepy to get hit on like that.
Has it ever occurred to them that maybe the woman in that moment of time isn't looking for a relationship and just went to a club for a drink and let loose a bit, i know I've rejected men either because i was seeing someone or mentally i was ready to enter into a relationship even if I'm vibing with that guy, however, because men don't do that they just enter a relationship even if they're not mentally ready to be in a relationship they'll still enter one its like that concept eludes them, also lets not act like they actively ignore women who'd be interested in them and go after women whos isn't looking for anything or is taken😑
They were "vibing" therefore, the guys "did everything right" and apparently "earned" future attention from those women. 🙄🙄🙄
Things are not always they appear. Case in point, a guy on reddit posted that he was chatting with a girl because HIS friend was trying to pick up on her friend. After a while, they all moved along. When the two guys started talking, the OP mentioned something about chatting with the girl only because he knew his friend was trying to get with the other one. Well, his friend revealed that he was only chatting with the other girl because he thought OP was trying to pick up on the one he was talking to. So, neither guy was interested but had nice, comfortable conversations anyway; each guy thought his friend was "vibing" with the young ladies. So, two ppl that knew each other well, were wrong about each other's interests, or lack thereof. It happens. Yet this guy in the vid seems to think he knows the exact situation amongst strangers. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
6:51 Women go out to socialise / drink / dance. Men go out to get/hunt women
Approach the men that you want. Problem solved.
@@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 that's not gonna stop us from being approached by people we don't want
How does that stop men from stopping their cars in front of my home to holler at me as I walk down my driveway???????? Or stopping in the crosswalk blocking my path to cross the street safely????
😂😂😂
He has a partial point, women only want a certain man to hit on them even those they are out and about in the clubs. Now everything situational so it bad to assume something, yeah he wrong. The biggest lie is if he you're type than 100% they will take some interest if the guy talks to them.
@@spaghettigodoriginalmedia I get what you're saying about the "if he is your type" but still, there are several problems with it.
You don't know if you're the type, you don't know if the woman is straight or bi, you don't know of the woman is straight out of a relationship and the last thing on her mind is men, ir might be the right type, but not the right approach...
Just leave women alone. If you're into dating and want to approach someone, learn that - No - is a full sentence.
@@MsFadir Aye this is why people end up single, to some no is try again not good eoungh and others it no is no. Unless you go out of you're way to hit on men that you like and turns out it few & far between that you're fault for being to picky than ending up single. Now stop telling men to gain game cause getting game means the opposite of what you describe. You add malicious intent on purpose to justify it just like that man did so shame on you, it takes over 100 women for a man to find 1 women vs a women only like 5 men to find one so men must commit to game cause it re-enforced women can gain any men and men must work for it until that changed to equal terms the proper definition is crazy.
Everything based on situation it about accepting faults on both sides in order to fix it. You're solution men fix it, cause I don't need to.
@@MsFadir What I said also apply to gay couple also women expect the other women to do the work also. They should not move a finger only few I meet don't have that attuide.
@@spaghettigodoriginalmedia I'm not a man, so I'm not going to pretend I know what it takes for a men to find a partner. Nor I will tell men to gain game (I also didn't say that my previous reply). I am speaking from the perspective of a woman.
Before thinking that women reject men for entertainment or out of spite, remember that there can be 1000x other reasons and none of it being related to you (not you @ spaghetti, but men).
@@spaghettigodoriginalmedia Actions have consequences. If our behaviour makes us single, so be it. There are more women than men anyways. Some will eventually be single, by choice or not. That's life 🤷🏾♀️
Someone please. Lower their ego. Why is it so high?
So for me, it’s either we go for free drinks, to reject for revenge or just to hook up.
Not for just dancing and enjoying the music with pour friends😂. I don’t think I can marry a man.
I don’t go to cubs, and if I did, it wouldn’t be for men. And I know my girls don’t go for men. Few but most don’t.
Yeh and what if I do chumps?? ⚔️🤣🤣🖕