How to look gorg when you’ve been crying

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024

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  • @AlexandraAnele
    @AlexandraAnele  Рік тому +541

    This is just one of those videos that everyone needs girl.

    • @marisaperez3882
      @marisaperez3882 Рік тому +2

      Girl stop, I love you 😩

    • @Geo.Naamaa4
      @Geo.Naamaa4 Рік тому +2

      Just in time 👌🏻

    • @HowdyHowdy_
      @HowdyHowdy_ Рік тому +8

      As an Overly Emotional Gay™ I am also jumping on this train 😆

    • @staceypower4327
      @staceypower4327 Рік тому +5

      Hope you’re doing okay Alex. I appreciate you. Your presence and your content helps me through my own sh!t. Sending you all the love ❤️

    • @00Bia07
      @00Bia07 Рік тому +3

      This tip about mixing the corrector with a thick/darker concealer… it’s the only thing that got rid of my dark under eye circles (without me needing to buy more stuff, just Nars corrector and concealer on top). Thank you so much

  • @rhondataylor9183
    @rhondataylor9183 Рік тому +309

    I never comment, but this has been one of my absolute worst summers and this was so helpful Alex, thank you so much. Big hugs for whatever you're crying about on your end. Fucking life, dude. Actually hugs to anyone reading this, bc you're probably here for a reason. ❤

  • @no-rq8dh
    @no-rq8dh Рік тому +163

    And y’all remember to do your skincare AFTER you’re done crying! Otherwise you’ll end up with streaks down your cheeks where the foundation didn’t properly stick and you’ll get really frustrated and start crying again🥴👍

  • @marshawilliamson8602
    @marshawilliamson8602 Рік тому +119

    I lost my precious dad unexpectedly a week ago and I’ve been crying every day since. Thank you, Alex, for giving me a way to focus on caring for myself during intense grief. 🌸

    • @sallyjordan4869
      @sallyjordan4869 Рік тому +8

      I’m so sorry! I lost my father 15 years ago, and I still miss him a ton. But the grief does, gradually, get less piercing. I wish you well, Internet stranger. 💙

    • @RespectedProfessional
      @RespectedProfessional Рік тому +7

      Grief is exhausting. Please rest and refuel. Lots of 💕

    • @anniefromq
      @anniefromq Рік тому +2

      I’m so sorry…I wish you well and huge hug ❤️🙏🏼

    • @berit5435
      @berit5435 Рік тому +4

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Lost my mom 4 weeks ago and feel your pain

    • @candyce6233
      @candyce6233 Рік тому +4

      I’m sorry for your loss. Sometimes all we can do to keep it together when it’s chaos is doing our makeup. But also there will be times when we have to give ourselves those times to just cry.

  • @dc_rocker
    @dc_rocker Рік тому +115

    Makeup is meant to make us feel good, and it can be SO frustrating to try to feel better when you're puffy and sad and your skin won't cooperate. This video is going to come in clutch when I need a boost most 😗

  • @isabellahunt7319
    @isabellahunt7319 Рік тому +154

    The chronic illness community thanks you❤️

  • @natashapapathanasiou4482
    @natashapapathanasiou4482 Рік тому +89

    A BIG hug to whoever needs it rn!!! ❤❤❤

  • @happyvalentino
    @happyvalentino Рік тому +97

    Going through a breakup, decided to listen to my sad girl autumn playlist at 12am, cue the cry, my kitten was worried about me.
    Anyway next day, eyes were PUFFED i mean holy hell i thought i got stung by a bee.
    My savior? The hanskin eye serum i had bought for my dad - he never uses it - bam, literally 2 mins and my eyes were back to normal.
    This is the makeup i did as well, feel better babes, im happy someone else is sharing this ❤❤❤

    • @JustFaving
      @JustFaving Рік тому +3

      lmao I was just about to say the same thing!

    • @m.e.5
      @m.e.5 Рік тому +2

      I’m glad you’re expressing! Sending you love ❤

  • @nayslayer2563
    @nayslayer2563 Рік тому +67

    We had to put our bunny down yesterday who we've had since 2009... timely video, Alex! ❤

    • @AlexandraAnele
      @AlexandraAnele  Рік тому +27

      😞 I’m so sorry love ❤️

    • @nayslayer2563
      @nayslayer2563 Рік тому +25

      @@AlexandraAnele Thank you. He was a character. Lord Reginald. 🐰

    • @AlexandraAnele
      @AlexandraAnele  Рік тому +30

      LORD REGINALD 😭😭😭

    • @GunnerTheStylist
      @GunnerTheStylist Рік тому +9

      I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @RealElongatedMuskrat
      @RealElongatedMuskrat Рік тому +11

      since 2009!?! What a distinguished elderly gentleman he must've been! I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP big Reggie boy 🙏

  • @lr8607
    @lr8607 Рік тому +23

    You are such an original and I mean that in the best way. Beauty, self-deprecating humor, tips & techniques dispensed like no one else, and fearless closeups -- you're the best. Hope this helps.

  • @brihadley9271
    @brihadley9271 Рік тому +24

    Girl, this is right on time. Woke up yesterday with eye bags, post cry sesh, that I didn’t even know I could get. 😂 #divorcesucks Took some ibuprofen and it really helped with eyelid inflammation. Edited to add that movement and a walk will also help with any fluid buildup!

    • @baileydubs
      @baileydubs Рік тому +2

      I went through a divorce 3 years ago and #divorcesucks for sure. You will get through this I promise! ❤❤❤

    • @ALT-vz3jn
      @ALT-vz3jn Рік тому +3

      Oh gosh I’m so sorry hun 😢 I hope things go pretty smoothly for you all things considered.
      I divorced my cheating ex-husband 20 years ago this year; even though I had left him because he was cheating it was still a tough thing to go through. Now I’ve been married to my soul mate for 7 years, I’m so glad I got rid of the crappy husband so the good one could enter my life. A little divorce humor 😅 sending hugs, this too shall pass trust me. ❤

  • @pragyasingh2297
    @pragyasingh2297 Рік тому +8

    ok this tutorial is a solution to THE most relatable issue omg. Like sometimes just throwing on some waterproof mascara doesn't cut it and you still wanna look and feel fierce even when you're sad

  • @anali64
    @anali64 Рік тому +15

    I lost my dog on friday… she’d been with me for 13 years, ever since I was 11. I’ve been crying a lot and then you upload this video. Thank you! I’ll really need this tomorrow… Hope you and I feel better soon 🙂

    • @RespectedProfessional
      @RespectedProfessional Рік тому +1

      We lost our pup on the 13th. I feel you. We’ll get through this. Hope videos and pics of your little girl bring you joy, even through the grief ❤❤

    • @ALT-vz3jn
      @ALT-vz3jn Рік тому +1

      Awwwww I’m so, so sorry about your sweet doggo. I’m sure she’s having fun playing with all the other dogs across the Rainbow bridge. I’ll tell my dog to look out for her ❤ it takes a long time to get over losing a beloved pet, please be gentle with yourself. Hugs.

    • @anniefromq
      @anniefromq Рік тому +1

      I’m so sorry…sending you a hug. ❤

  • @americanviking9384
    @americanviking9384 Рік тому +14

    This is real life shit right here. Thank for keeping it real Alex. I hope you're feeling better. I love your guts ✌️🤎

  • @deborahshaw9077
    @deborahshaw9077 Рік тому +14

    You and I are in different demographics, and I’m sure I’m not your target audience (I’m old lol). I have fought dark circles my whole life and I have yellowish skin. I love your videos!! Thank you for always being respectful of people who can’t afford the high end products. I will purchase more expensive from time to time, but try to stick with the drugstore products. You never make me feel like I have to buy high end to look nice.

  • @lisawierzbicki4994
    @lisawierzbicki4994 Рік тому

    Love, love, love the opal sparkle shadow in the corner just faded into a nice neutral brown for the lid/crease. Fab, girl.

  • @mozav9
    @mozav9 Рік тому +6

    Omg those eye contour sticks are what I've been looking for!! Thanks for introducing me

  • @marybird5940
    @marybird5940 Рік тому +20

    The sinus infection that refuses to let go, huh? I’m sure Boo is helping like all torties, they’re so calm and not at all insane 🙄 Beauriful look!

  • @LauraLVTGW
    @LauraLVTGW Рік тому +10

    You make my day, every time you post. I appreciate your knowledge, talent and expertise. Thank you for sharing. Your personality, humor and sincerity make me happy. Thank you for being you! Many blessings💖💖💖

  • @idalynnlove
    @idalynnlove Рік тому +3

    The cat at the begening 😭😭
    Love the look btw ❤

    • @AlexandraAnele
      @AlexandraAnele  Рік тому +2

      😂 She just THREW herself

    • @idalynnlove
      @idalynnlove Рік тому

      @@AlexandraAnele mine does that too, cats being cats

  • @reinaet
    @reinaet Рік тому +13

    Thank you for this! My 6 month old and I are quarantining with covid right now so there have been lots of tears. Thank you for brightening up my day. ❤

    • @damndanim
      @damndanim Рік тому +1

      Hope you recover well! Poor you and your baby 🥲

    • @JillKnapp
      @JillKnapp Рік тому +1

      I hope you both are feeling better soon. 'Vid is noooo fun at all.

    • @ALT-vz3jn
      @ALT-vz3jn Рік тому

      Awwww I’m so sorry mama and baby ❤😞 husband and I had Covid a couple of weeks ago, it sucked. I hope you were able to get the Paxlovid for yourself, it helped us a lot. It’s so hard to rest when you have a sick baby.

  • @cocacherry9240
    @cocacherry9240 Рік тому +1

    love how we got long and short videos!!!!

  • @alicepirola7077
    @alicepirola7077 Рік тому +9

    Thanks for doing this! I sprained my back and have been in extreme pain & crying for 3 days. Very helpful techniques. Hope you are feeling better today. As always, you are the Queen! ❤

  • @3396kj
    @3396kj Рік тому +5

    Perfect timing. I’ve been crying constantly this summer thanks to the guy that broke my heart 🥲 come thru Alex! Lol

  • @RunningNotStopping
    @RunningNotStopping 2 місяці тому

    Dude around 22 minutes you said think of it as a sphere with the shadows and I'm like wow .... That works for my brain! Thank u so much. Love ya baddie

  • @heyhay100
    @heyhay100 Рік тому +2

    Love, love your artistry! I never write comments, but was so inspired by this crying/feeling blah video. Super helpful. Another idea for you: how to approach some kind of make-up when sweating is involved (hot/humid weather, perimenopause, anxiety, etc.)

  • @tyranosorus_bex
    @tyranosorus_bex Рік тому +2

    nowadays the crappy days far outweigh the good days, so having looks like this in the tool kit are extra helpful 💕

  • @firnheledien
    @firnheledien Рік тому +1

    The simplicity and elegance of the eye and the fine tip on the light eyeliner is something i haven't seen before!

  • @valerieinto
    @valerieinto Рік тому +1

    I feel like this is gonna be one that people keep coming back to and more people will keep discovering bc realness. Thanks for taking advantage of a not-fun condition your face was in and using it to help more people than you'll ever know.

    • @valerieinto
      @valerieinto Рік тому

      ps I'd been hearing about concealer pencils related to kbeauty so thanks for bringing those in! What an idea!

  • @At327
    @At327 11 місяців тому

    Saved this for a rainy day, my mom just died so Ill be going back to this video A LOT 😢

  • @sharlyt3557
    @sharlyt3557 Рік тому

    LOVE the sparkly purple with the brilliant blue top 🤩

  • @lamiaferdousy3355
    @lamiaferdousy3355 3 місяці тому

    watching your old videos as you’ve taken a break ❤ I hope you’re enjoying your time ❤

  • @jackandlill
    @jackandlill Рік тому +5

    I have a calico too!! I grew up with one & now I have my own...they are soo beautiful 😺😻❣

  • @chrishirecat
    @chrishirecat Рік тому

    Thanks Alex. Been going through heartbreak. Really needed this. Spend most of my days crying these days lol

  • @barbarawright9123
    @barbarawright9123 Рік тому +7

    Thoughts? I think Beautiful! You always slay whatever makeup look you're going for.

  • @carryledwards
    @carryledwards Рік тому

    You look beautiful! I really love the shimmer shadow you used, it's gorgeous.

  • @carolclarke5839
    @carolclarke5839 Рік тому

    This ended up looking so pretty! and love the added addition of Kitty Cat Xxx🥰

  • @kagitsune
    @kagitsune Рік тому +9

    Hannah Louise Poston also has tutorials for two very cute, naturalistic ways of approaching this: one for when you want to lean into the blah (and make it cute), and one where you have to look polished and put together, despite feeling like shit. It’s amazing how changing one’s outer appearance can help you feel a bit better, too. ❤

  • @daniellegeissinger4573
    @daniellegeissinger4573 Рік тому

    God bless you for this! Chronic eye water-er here, and this is life!

  • @BarbaraT.
    @BarbaraT. Рік тому

    I'm only at the beginning of the video, but I want to say: what a genius, much needed concept for a tutorial video. Thank you!

  • @lmikos6124
    @lmikos6124 Рік тому +1

    Oh my goodness. When i cry, my eyes get so swollen i can't open them. I just call out of work or school when they get crazy.
    Its awful haha. : (
    I hope you're doing okay, alex. You're awesome.

  • @rebekahcranwell6421
    @rebekahcranwell6421 Рік тому

    I'm liking and commenting because I love you.
    Boo is beautiful!

  • @infjness
    @infjness Рік тому

    I love you, je t'aime, te quiero.
    there, i said it in all the languages i know.
    therapy is expensive, and you're here doing this for free. i love these "keeping it real" type of videos. also love your cat. hugs to you both

  • @susanmyers7313
    @susanmyers7313 Рік тому

    That color of blue looks stunning on you

  • @Blawbin
    @Blawbin Рік тому +1

    I just learned so much from this! I love how authentic you are, always. I needed these tips for the harder days. GAME CHANGER for me as a spoonie! You’re amazing and your company helped me feel calm after a difficult day. Thank you! XOXOXO

  • @stp4779
    @stp4779 Рік тому

    The Nightfall Opal is... ohmygod so gorgeous

  • @lindseyxayachack2408
    @lindseyxayachack2408 Рік тому

    Relatability = 110%

  • @GhosstRyder
    @GhosstRyder Рік тому

    I definitely need this once in a while. I LOVE this delicate pretty look. ❤️❤️❤️😘😘

  • @audreyso1201
    @audreyso1201 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Alexandra for this super interesting video, it will come in handy when I have just cried or been sick.....The make-up is very pretty. Good day to you😪😪😪😪

  • @paulettemckinley502
    @paulettemckinley502 Рік тому

    Love love the bright eyeliner trick!❤️

  • @marianneblackfeather5253
    @marianneblackfeather5253 6 місяців тому

    Hi Alex. This is a great vlog because we see your BFA serve you well where you teach us about orbs and spheres and how light hits them (eyes). You are an asset to us all. ❤

  • @terikirwanthomas6223
    @terikirwanthomas6223 Рік тому +1

    Hope you're feeling better 🤗 The makeup looks beautiful! It's so important as a step to help you feel better when you've been upset and/or ill. It's therapeutic in itself! It also gives you something else practical to focus on ❤

  • @x.jasonn
    @x.jasonn Рік тому

    BRO the way the cat jus let himself fall is so fucking funny 😭😭😭 literally me fr

  • @kaylafitz2147
    @kaylafitz2147 Рік тому

    I'm a little late watching this.. But this video I really needed, iv been suffering with my anxiety an crying a lot... Like a lot so thank you soo much for this video your just so calm and absolutely beautiful

  • @Krise343
    @Krise343 Рік тому

    My thought is that you are unfairly, absolutely gorgeous. Grateful for this tutorial.

  • @misspetite9285
    @misspetite9285 Рік тому

    This eye look is stunning wowwwww

  • @deborahfurman3022
    @deborahfurman3022 Рік тому

    GOOD For u DUDE! Just cant! BTW your blush brush ROCKS!!!!!!!

  • @groove2me
    @groove2me Рік тому

    Hope you are feeling better. Thank you for sharing 💫You are a gift💫.

  • @amadeusverardina
    @amadeusverardina Рік тому +4

    I don’t know how is it possibile, literally I was looking for makeup inspiration after a long day of crying (btw I feel you my girl) since tomorrow I have to hang out with my friends and this popped up. If this is not the universe I don’t know what this is ahaha thank you so much anyway, hope everything is going to be better💓
    Ps: we have the same looking cat ahahah

  • @paula-zzz
    @paula-zzz Рік тому +1

    your skin looks GREAAAAAT

  • @baileydubs
    @baileydubs Рік тому +1

    This is great! Whenever I’ve been sick or crying, and I do my normal makeup, I look like a shitty ghost. All these tips are super helpful!!

  • @stacym6076
    @stacym6076 Рік тому

    You look absolutely gorgeous. And I should take your suggestions about adding more warmth.

  • @kamikessel
    @kamikessel Рік тому

    Thank you for this in-depth tutorial. I'm sorry to hear you have been crying and sick. hang in there.

  • @jeanetteprice6277
    @jeanetteprice6277 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for this. The heat and allergens have been blowing up my whole head. These are good tips.

  • @jenniferrichardson8474
    @jenniferrichardson8474 Рік тому +1

    Another great tip for reducing undereye puffiness is to apply a small amount of Preparation H to the area. I know it sounds weird, but many top models have sworn by this trick for decades. In fact many of them keep a tube of it in their purse or make up bag for reducing puffiness before a shoot or runway show.

  • @clarissaa.4393
    @clarissaa.4393 Рік тому +1

    I love that you keep it real! I’ll remember this one for sure. Hope you feel better soon ❤

  • @MiladyMarie
    @MiladyMarie Рік тому +1

    Youre a genius

  • @nawarRushdi
    @nawarRushdi Рік тому

    Hi Alex, I hope that all your days will be filled with happiness and you'll never have to cry again ❤

  • @sarahallegra6239
    @sarahallegra6239 Рік тому

    I misread the title as “how to look like you’ve been crying,” and now I honestly kinda want to see that too. 😂 This is stunning and very helpful, thank you!! That shimmer is GORGEOUS ✨

  • @camillecarlson3858
    @camillecarlson3858 Рік тому

    Definitely bought that eyeshadow.

  • @MichelleWall13
    @MichelleWall13 Рік тому

    As I watch this, I can’t help but worry and feel for you. Sending you some of my best mental energy you way. Just in case💜

  • @deborahfurman3022
    @deborahfurman3022 Рік тому +2

    Lymphatic drainage. This is awesome. Love the multi tasking. I add frozen eye roller to really make that s##t go way. Paint away!❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @floraluxla
    @floraluxla Рік тому +1

    Love the intro, cat flop, and sound effects! Super fun!!

  • @SC-trix
    @SC-trix Рік тому

    Feel better ❤

  • @triciag7040
    @triciag7040 Рік тому +2

    Every time you say "I'm exploring a new contour..." 😅
    Elf Halo Glow is a HG. I'd love to see it in a pressed version. I'm also curious about the concealer pen you used, although the Natasha Denona concealer has been my go to.

  • @SC-trix
    @SC-trix Рік тому

    I absolutely appreciate this video in every way.

  • @donnadunagan9045
    @donnadunagan9045 Рік тому

    I love you and your videos! Always so natural, normal and always beautiful!!

  • @annihilxte
    @annihilxte Рік тому

    This is something I’ve mastered as I am an emotional wreck who cries all the time lmao, but I liked hearing your tips and tricks. I break out in hives if I cry really hard so I like the idea of using a slightly warmer undertone of foundation than normal to offset some of the discoloration. Thank you so much for sharing this! We love you Alex! ❤

  • @nancyhowell7735
    @nancyhowell7735 Рік тому +1

    You always look fantastic!

  • @debrajane7622
    @debrajane7622 Рік тому

    Love this look!! And I love how you explain all the details of the makeup application! Hope you’re feeling much better! ❤

  • @airdew3308
    @airdew3308 Рік тому +2

    You are such a fantastic artist. I really enjoy your videos. Thanks, girl. So random….but I love that your tools are always clean. Haha!

  • @caitlinmclaren2021
    @caitlinmclaren2021 Рік тому

    The way this came in clutch today😢 thank you girl!!! ❤

  • @spinfan1
    @spinfan1 Рік тому

    Gorgeous as always. Hope you are feeling better.

  • @beckyann2000
    @beckyann2000 Рік тому

    Love these tips and that shimmer/reflective eyeshadow is stunning!! Hope you feel so much better soon! 🙏🏻💕

  • @chrisgreek4285
    @chrisgreek4285 Рік тому

    Thank you so much Alexandra! I have been ill for a few months now, and I am going to visit two of my children and their families in a couple of weeks. My skin is something that I don’t know what to do with it, and my face is swollen from one of the medications, so I don’t even recognize myself in the mirror. These tips will be really helpful to help avoid those dreaded pitiful looks from the fam. I’m not even reaching for fabulous…. I’m aiming for non-traumatizing! LOL

  • @soniat3094
    @soniat3094 Рік тому +1

    Lol, i was crying while watching your video :')

  • @agony-aunt
    @agony-aunt Рік тому

    What a great video Alex, lots of fantastic tips. As always TBH. You explain colour theory so well and your blending techniques are goals. You're imperfect and real and thats why I love you!

  • @trinhtwinz
    @trinhtwinz Рік тому

    Another beautiful look! I agree Don’t underestimate a good sheet mask!

  • @jessietipton6718
    @jessietipton6718 11 місяців тому

    Thank you!!! I needed this!

  • @sandilang3845
    @sandilang3845 Рік тому

    You are an incredible artist and look beautiful!

  • @golsaemami3540
    @golsaemami3540 Рік тому

    I LOVE your facial expressions girlll 😂❤️ thank you for this video

  • @sandybrand3230
    @sandybrand3230 Рік тому

    You look sooo pretty🥰

  • @minsooha2816
    @minsooha2816 Рік тому

    This is perfect timing cuz as of me watching this video I am crying my eyes out 😭 (everything is okay I’m just in my feeling right now)

  • @britneyanddiannebeals-gigu7225

    You’re so real for this video

  • @angelbecks985
    @angelbecks985 Рік тому

    Thank you for this! I really needed it!

  • @rachelrae860
    @rachelrae860 Рік тому +1

    I forgot to say just like Mary Poppins practically perfect in every way 🌹

  • @truesavings1988
    @truesavings1988 Рік тому

    GORGEOUS❤❤❤

  • @debrakiviat5097
    @debrakiviat5097 Рік тому

    I learned alot about lightening dark and darkening light. And, hydrating. Thankyou you are so amazing and funny, and gorgeous!!! I wish you could make a list of all the products you use each video cause it's hard to keep track so we can buy them cause you mention them very fast and it's hard to hear and write them down while looking at what you are doing.

  • @roseofmidwoodbrooklyn2414
    @roseofmidwoodbrooklyn2414 Рік тому

    Express is a good word. Basically lymphatic massage. But massage out and down and the towards the neck to flush it all out

  • @faizamhabib
    @faizamhabib Рік тому +2

    this looks amazing although your face looked swollen in general when you started. Hope you feel better soon ❤