Glad you are enjoying your van life as a single older gal (as there are soooooo many single gals doing the van life thing). That said, there is a major uptick, and I mean major uptick, in predators and criminals terrorizing van lifers. Especially if they find they are single gals. Things in our country are NOT getting safer, they are getting very unsafe. So put your antennas up and expect a propensity for danger out there. There are some very nasty sorts out there and more and more of them than ever.
Hi🙋🏻♀️, what state are in?, which Walmart?, I wonder if you can go to the Police Station and ask them if you can park your Van just to get rest?, it doesn’t hurt to try.
@@fairydust-weepthewildwinds Hi! I am in Alberta, Canada 🇨🇦 Yes I’m sure they would allow it at the police station. It did work out eventually and I’ll definitely take it in as a learning curve. Thank you Fairydust 🧚🤗
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 They are taking over intersections here & now blocking freeways, really pushing the envelope. Unfortunately bringing guns too, so stay safe. If they are driving Chargers & Challengers, a safe bet they aren't "targeting" you.... just being a nusance, its a new fad like the "flash mob" thing.
I’ll have to change my strategy in parking Dee. I did say “What would Box Van Dee do?” Trust her instincts 🥰 Now I know you wouldn’t have parked there lol!I haven’t seen security at any of them so far but I don’t know 🤷♂️ Thank you for your words and advice ❤ Appreciate you always my friend 🤗
You make sure you have protection against evil, a good tool will have 20-30 friends with other friends on stand by. Protect yourself and if need be move on a ways, bless you and many blessings to you 🙏
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 I bought my mom a pepper spray gun at Walmart for 50 bucks that works really good. She leaves work after 11 pm at night and that's dangerous so she keeps it's ready when she leaves to walk to her car.
Here at the Walmarts in Texas it’s common for cars to gather up and do illegal activities with their cars. Like burn outs, donuts, just cut up and listen to music before the cops break it up.
I am so sorry that happened to you! I don’t understand what is wrong with people 😢 So glad you find a peaceful location!! Subscribed to you, many blessings ❤
I kind of thought it would be fun to live you know in a vehicle but now know it's too dangerous and being senior I don't want to be in that spot and I'm sorry that you're in that I'm not sure if it's by choice or you have no other choice. But I pray to God that you're safe and that he protect you.
Hello! 👋 I appreciate that, however, please don’t let this one incident stop you from Van Life. There are millions of nomads who have had no scares. There are good and bad incidents in all ways of life 🤗🩷🇨🇦 Thank you for watching!
I believe every word you said. I am on guard every time I walk through the parking lot of my local Walmart. I can't imagine spending a night there. Random fights have broken out, people driving recklessly, and all other sorts of odd, inappropriate, and dangerous happenings in between. Listen to the Lord, stay alert, and do as He tells you. Do not hesitate when He instructs you to act or move. Try to keep a clear or level head, despite your fear and anxiety. I have encountered many questionable and dangerous situations through the years, simply being alone and on foot, as my sole means of transportation. He has protected me on numerous occasions. There is no other explanation for me being alive or unharmed, other than for His mercy and protection. I feel for you, that you experienced this scary situation ❤
Hope you got some protection for yourself. You don't need a license for pepperspray or a tazer. FYI, a planet fitness membership is relatively cheap & many have overnight parking. Also all cracker barrel restaurants have overnight parking. Stay safe, keep stealthy
@@avasmeditations No you wouldnt have Ava. I’ve learned a few things from it though and will be more cautious 🥰 Thank you for coming by and commenting! That’s so special to me 🩷
First year I parked at walmarts when low on campsite funds, never a good restful sleep for me. Then I discovered the park passes for state and federal campsites, really takes down the cost so the full hook up campsites are affordable. I rest much easier when there's no danger of strangers pulling right up to my door to party or the 3 am knock. Hang in there, Shirl, it gets better.💙
@@PeaceJourney... I’m kinda getting the hang of street parking but I have a couple of favorite Walmarts that are actually quite peaceful 😊 As time goes on and I build a nest egg I definitely want to hit the road. It seems to get easier and more routine each day. I’m going to have to park Lavurn soon … more about that another time! Have no a wonderful day and thanks as always for you friendship and support. 😊🚐🇨🇦
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 my vehicle was really never even remotely stealth, so no street parking for us. You will get that nest egg built, then go follow the song of the open road, and the best part of your life will be your daily experience 😉 You got this, hang in there. Welcome, and thank you friend Shirl🧡 💜💙
I'm so sorry you had that bad experience!!! It has never happened to me, it might depend on the neighborhood maybe? You did the right thing: go away to another place where you feel safe!!! It will get better with time! I feel super safe at walmart eve time I stay there. Thank you for sharing your experience!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@Manyroadsnorules Thank you my friend. I think everyone is wound up with summer coming to an end. It felt like it was a teenage thing … I didn’t have a lot neighbor but had 911 ready to dial. Yeah it was scary Adrianna. Thank you 😊🤗
@@Manyroadsnorules awww thanks Adrianna 🤗🇨🇦 Definitely getting some tough lessons along the way 😎 My windows were frozen over this morning! BTW that exciting news is coming next week!
That sounds so random. Why would 6 cars purposely target you for no reason, especially at walmart where there is constant traffic through out the day. Did walmart not have security patrolling the parking lot
@@PhoenixRisingAZ I found it weird. But it lasted for a half hour or more and they were consistent. It was closing time Sunday and didn’t see any security. The one truck actually followed me for a bit after I left and I managed to lose him at a traffic light. 🤷♂️ Made no sense but it happened. Thank you for watching Phoenix Rising 😎🇨🇦
The general public thinks it's ok to harass homeless people. Thank God we have the ability to start our "home" and escape the demons. Those on foot bear the brutality 🙏 May God have mercy 🙌 Thank you Jesus for keeping Shirl safe. I have had the local sheriff headquarters pulled up on my cell in case I could not loose my perpetrator 🙏 Stay safe out there my friends 🙏❣️
I slept at Walmart last two nights. So hot still so my window is down. I feel safe because my protector is Jesus. Another week of this heat and i will get to roll up my window. But very safe so far here❤
@@LuisaLoren That’s great Luisa! It was my first experience and I won’t let it deter me for sure. I am going back to one of my favorite Walmarts next week for a night or two 😊🇨🇦Thank you for watching!
Hey Shirl 💜💜 I do know that when I worked at Murphy’s USA in Amarillo,Tx which is in Walmart parking lot- on Friday and Saturday nights there would be a crowd of people ages like 15-20ish yrs old gather in the outer edges of Walmart parking lot to hangout. They were very noisy and revving engines squealing tires ect... just having fun. Just thought maybe that’s what was happening there with Walmart you were staying at. I guess some Walmart’s allow this so young people have a safe place to gather for a few hours a night on weekend. Idk about other places but maybe that’s all it was. 😊💜
Yes you are bang on! Someone else said it’s a gen c thing. I just talked to the door greeter and he said that’s what it is. I’m going to stay here tonight. Face the fear! Lol
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 you're welcome just make sure you don't have reflectix in your front side windows I've only been knocked on twice in 6 years and I think that was the reason. 🤣
You are very sweet Martin 🤗 My plan has always been vanlife and nomad retirement. I was mentally prepared for this as prices increased and opportunities declined. Thank you for your heart felt comment. I have some wonderful news I’m sharing this week 😊 and I’ll explain then. My backstory is coming soon too. Stay well my friend 😊🚐🇨🇦
@@michellehawkins1027 you got that right Michelle 😊 My nieces and nephews were all checking out the van at Thanksgiving dinner last night. They think I’m cool 😎lol
So bummed to hear this happened and I certainly it isn't a trend. Just surprised that this happened in Canada.....I expect this from good ol' Murica but not Canada.
@@GloWe724 I sure will. I am houseless and after practicing in the van began living in her full time due to dire circumstances. Yes, I will do a background video for sure! Thank you 😊🩷🇨🇦
they didn't harass you lol just stupid teens doing burnouts in carpark i used to do same calm down all woman like using the word harassing without it happening
@@randomcro24 I think now that was probably the case. It was my first time experiencing it tho and it felt how it felt at the time. Thank you for stopping by! 😊🇨🇦🚐
Glad you are enjoying your van life as a single older gal (as there are soooooo many single gals doing the van life thing). That said, there is a major uptick, and I mean major uptick, in predators and criminals terrorizing van lifers. Especially if they find they are single gals. Things in our country are NOT getting safer, they are getting very unsafe. So put your antennas up and expect a propensity for danger out there. There are some very nasty sorts out there and more and more of them than ever.
@@Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-Bits Thank you so much Wisdom! Yes it is a time to be cautious always unfortunately. Thanks for stopping by! 😊🚐🇨🇦
I’m so sorry that that happened to you. Sending prayers for peace and protection ❤🙏🏻
Thank you ER Nurse and welcome. Turned out it was just good kids having fun I was told. I appreciate your comment 😊🇨🇦
Hi🙋🏻♀️, what state are in?, which Walmart?,
I wonder if you can go to the Police Station and ask them if you can park your Van just to get rest?, it doesn’t hurt to try.
@@fairydust-weepthewildwinds Hi! I am in Alberta, Canada 🇨🇦 Yes I’m sure they would allow it at the police station. It did work out eventually and I’ll definitely take it in as a learning curve. Thank you Fairydust 🧚🤗
Called a "takeover", it's a new gen z thing where they wear hoodies & masks, & do car tricks in near empty parking lots.
@@CSmith-gb1sl oh ok! Thanks for that. I feel better knowing that for some reason 😊🚐🇨🇦
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 They are taking over intersections here & now blocking freeways, really pushing the envelope. Unfortunately bringing guns too, so stay safe. If they are driving Chargers & Challengers, a safe bet they aren't "targeting" you.... just being a nusance, its a new fad like the "flash mob" thing.
I really don't like camping in Walmart unless they have security. Sorry you had to go thru that.
I’ll have to change my strategy in parking Dee. I did say “What would Box Van Dee do?” Trust her instincts 🥰 Now I know you wouldn’t have parked there lol!I haven’t seen security at any of them so far but I don’t know 🤷♂️ Thank you for your words and advice ❤ Appreciate you always my friend 🤗
Thats the problem with van life and car camping. Hard to find a safe place now days.
@@dawnnicholson6703 This is the only incident this far. Thank you for watching! 😊🇨🇦🚐
You make sure you have protection against evil, a good tool will have 20-30 friends with other friends on stand by. Protect yourself and if need be move on a ways, bless you and many blessings to you 🙏
@@johnevans1969 You betcha 👍 Thanks again 😊
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 I bought my mom a pepper spray gun at Walmart for 50 bucks that works really good. She leaves work after 11 pm at night and that's dangerous so she keeps it's ready when she leaves to walk to her car.
Always trust your instinct.
@@Post-i5t you bet! Thanks!
That sounds like a rough and scary time. Glad you left and were able to find a place to rest.
@@AvaPotterfieldandFriends Yes I was happy to finally stay at the 3rd spot. Also it was raining 🌧️ and my wipers were crap. Oh my! 🤗🩷
Oh wow that is scary; glad you are ok Shirl. Be safe as you enjoy life 🤗🩵💎
@@Crystalandlagreenga Thanks Crystal! Doing my best. Back at ya! 🤗🩷🇨🇦
Thank goodness you are safe. I’m subscribing. Miss you lovely. ❤❤❤
@@anitajames6659 Thank you Anita 🤗 I appreciate that. I miss you too 😊🚐🇨🇦
Sorry you had to go through that friend...Im happy that your ok...
@@lesbianjaycookingvlogchann2312 Thank you so much ☺️ what are you cooking today? 😋
Im happy your safe Im praying for you
Much appreciated 😊🇨🇦
In most of Florida you can't even stay in a Walmart
@@michellepasc7564 I hear that is happening all over. Luckily we still have several here plus multiple other options. Thank you 😊🚐🇨🇦
Shirl I'm glad you left when you felt unsafe. Happy you found a quiet spot to rest 💕🐶
@@lilliantittle944 Thanks Lily 🤗🩷
Here at the Walmarts in Texas it’s common for cars to gather up and do illegal activities with their cars. Like burn outs, donuts, just cut up and listen to music before the cops break it up.
@@Jezzyglz Thanks for the heads up! I had no idea it was a thing. I love Texas BTW 😎 Thank you so much for commenting 🤠🩷🇨🇦
I am so sorry that happened to you! I don’t understand what is wrong with people 😢 So glad you find a peaceful location!! Subscribed to you, many blessings ❤
Awww thank you so much for your kind words! Welcome and thanks so much for watching and subscribing! 😊🚐🇨🇦
I kind of thought it would be fun to live you know in a vehicle but now know it's too dangerous and being senior I don't want to be in that spot and I'm sorry that you're in that I'm not sure if it's by choice or you have no other choice. But I pray to God that you're safe and that he protect you.
Hello! 👋 I appreciate that, however, please don’t let this one incident stop you from Van Life. There are millions of nomads who have had no scares. There are good and bad incidents in all ways of life 🤗🩷🇨🇦 Thank you for watching!
I believe every word you said.
I am on guard every time I walk through the parking lot of my local Walmart. I can't imagine spending a night there. Random fights have broken out, people driving recklessly, and all other sorts of odd, inappropriate, and dangerous happenings in between. Listen to the Lord, stay alert, and do as He tells you. Do not hesitate when He instructs you to act or move. Try to keep a clear or level head, despite your fear and anxiety. I have encountered many questionable and dangerous situations through the years, simply being alone and on foot, as my sole means of transportation. He has protected me on numerous occasions. There is no other explanation for me being alive or unharmed, other than for His mercy and protection. I feel for you, that you experienced this scary situation ❤
Thank you so much Rebecca, for your kind words and heart.❤️ I pray that you stay safe and warm 🤗 I’m glad you are here! Welcome!
Hope you got some protection for yourself. You don't need a license for pepperspray or a tazer. FYI, a planet fitness membership is relatively cheap & many have overnight parking. Also all cracker barrel restaurants have overnight parking. Stay safe, keep stealthy
@@robinwheatcraft6034 thank you Robin. Yes planet fitness and the casinos as well. I appreciate your comment 😊🚐🇨🇦
Wow. I would not have liked that situation at all. Glad you got out of there.
@@avasmeditations No you wouldnt have Ava. I’ve learned a few things from it though and will be more cautious 🥰 Thank you for coming by and commenting! That’s so special to me 🩷
Wow girl. Im glad you are okay. Love ya
@@wiesboonstra-fc4km Hi Wies!!! Thanks! Very cool to see your comment here! Love you too ! 🤗🩷🇨🇦
First year I parked at walmarts when low on campsite funds, never a good restful sleep for me. Then I discovered the park passes for state and federal campsites, really takes down the cost so the full hook up campsites are affordable. I rest much easier when there's no danger of strangers pulling right up to my door to party or the 3 am knock. Hang in there, Shirl, it gets better.💙
@@PeaceJourney... I’m kinda getting the hang of street parking but I have a couple of favorite Walmarts that are actually quite peaceful 😊 As time goes on and I build a nest egg I definitely want to hit the road. It seems to get easier and more routine each day. I’m going to have to park Lavurn soon … more about that another time! Have no a wonderful day and thanks as always for you friendship and support. 😊🚐🇨🇦
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 my vehicle was really never even remotely stealth, so no street parking for us. You will get that nest egg built, then go follow the song of the open road, and the best part of your life will be your daily experience 😉 You got this, hang in there.
Welcome, and thank you friend Shirl🧡 💜💙
@@PeaceJourney... such a beautiful message 🥰🤗🩷 Thank you so much …
Our Walmart does not allow overnight parking
@@judahtribe7 Yeah not all of them do. I have a favorite I went to once a week. Sometimes for two days! 😊🚐🇨🇦
I'm so sorry you had that bad experience!!! It has never happened to me, it might depend on the neighborhood maybe?
You did the right thing: go away to another place where you feel safe!!!
It will get better with time! I feel super safe at walmart eve time I stay there.
Thank you for sharing your experience!!!
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@@Manyroadsnorules Thank you my friend. I think everyone is wound up with summer coming to an end. It felt like it was a teenage thing … I didn’t have a lot neighbor but had 911 ready to dial. Yeah it was scary Adrianna. Thank you 😊🤗
@shirleyfrederickson4794 again very sorry! But, you're beginning a stronger lady, mean nomad!!! 🥰
@@Manyroadsnorules awww thanks Adrianna 🤗🇨🇦 Definitely getting some tough lessons along the way 😎 My windows were frozen over this morning! BTW that exciting news is coming next week!
Paid trolls... it's their "job"
I can’t imagine 😳 I think now it was just kids burning donuts 😊It was an experience non the less
That sounds so random. Why would 6 cars purposely target you for no reason, especially at walmart where there is constant traffic through out the day. Did walmart not have security patrolling the parking lot
@@PhoenixRisingAZ I found it weird. But it lasted for a half hour or more and they were consistent. It was closing time Sunday and didn’t see any security. The one truck actually followed me for a bit after I left and I managed to lose him at a traffic light. 🤷♂️ Made no sense but it happened. Thank you for watching Phoenix Rising 😎🇨🇦
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 you bet 😀 that is scary, it was a good thing you left, I'm glad you made it out safely. Be careful out there .
@@PhoenixRisingAZ thank you Phoenix 😊 I sure will. You too!
The general public thinks it's ok to harass homeless people. Thank God we have the ability to start our "home" and escape the demons. Those on foot bear the brutality 🙏 May God have mercy 🙌 Thank you Jesus for keeping Shirl safe. I have had the local sheriff headquarters pulled up on my cell in case I could not loose my perpetrator 🙏 Stay safe out there my friends 🙏❣️
@3generations393 Thank you for this beautiful message and prayer 🩷🙏🤗
I slept at Walmart last two nights. So hot still so my window is down. I feel safe because my protector is Jesus. Another week of this heat and i will get to roll up my window. But very safe so far here❤
@@LuisaLoren That’s great Luisa! It was my first experience and I won’t let it deter me for sure. I am going back to one of my favorite Walmarts next week for a night or two 😊🇨🇦Thank you for watching!
Damn this sucks, I'm sorry honey.
@@johnevans1969 Thank you John 😊 I’ve come to realize it was probably just kids having fun and I got spooked 😱 Thank you for watching! 🚐🇨🇦
Hey Shirl 💜💜 I do know that when I worked at Murphy’s USA in Amarillo,Tx which is in Walmart parking lot- on Friday and Saturday nights there would be a crowd of people ages like 15-20ish yrs old gather in the outer edges of Walmart parking lot to hangout. They were very noisy and revving engines squealing tires ect... just having fun. Just thought maybe that’s what was happening there with Walmart you were staying at. I guess some Walmart’s allow this so young people have a safe place to gather for a few hours a night on weekend. Idk about other places but maybe that’s all it was. 😊💜
Yes you are bang on! Someone else said it’s a gen c thing. I just talked to the door greeter and he said that’s what it is. I’m going to stay here tonight. Face the fear! Lol
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 My experience was they are usually a good group of kids👌😊
@@EveningShadeLori I think so too. My imagination got away on me cause I was surrounded. Should have parked on the other side. 🤷♀️😊🇨🇦
Oh wow, I’m a new subscriber
Welcome Shelly! Thank you for your support 🩷🇨🇦
Your welcome ❤
As long as you're stealthy motels are a good place to park at night.
@@cjmajor9598 Thank you CJ! I’ll check that out this weekend! 😎🩷🇨🇦 Thank you for the pointer
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 you're welcome just make sure you don't have reflectix in your front side windows I've only been knocked on twice in 6 years and I think that was the reason. 🤣
@cjmajor9598 another good point CJ! I did have my reflectix showing. 🤔 Thanks again!
What Walmart location?
It is in Alberta. It turns out it was just kids having fun. I don’t think now that they knew I was in the van.
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 Huntington Beach I have story
I go to Walmart when I have diarrhea
@@viewviewview1236 run! 🏃♂️ Lol! Yeah good place to be. Washrooms are always clean too! Thanks for stopping by! 😊🚐🇨🇦
I couldn't let my grandma out in a van at night.so sad😢
You are very sweet Martin 🤗 My plan has always been vanlife and nomad retirement. I was mentally prepared for this as prices increased and opportunities declined. Thank you for your heart felt comment. I have some wonderful news I’m sharing this week 😊 and I’ll explain then. My backstory is coming soon too. Stay well my friend 😊🚐🇨🇦
@@shirleyfrederickson4794 I just subscribed. You be safe Shirley
I don't think she needs permission..😅
@@michellehawkins1027 yes I know
@@michellehawkins1027 you got that right Michelle 😊 My nieces and nephews were all checking out the van at Thanksgiving dinner last night. They think I’m cool 😎lol
So bummed to hear this happened and I certainly it isn't a trend. Just surprised that this happened in Canada.....I expect this from good ol' Murica but not Canada.
@@HaveCheetahWillView yeah it was unpleasant for sure Patrick. I was a little bummed once the initial fear left …
Stay safe , new subscriber 😊❤
Thank you new Southern Friend and welcome! ❤️🇨🇦
So what’s your story? Are you homeless? If so by choice or? Do a video with some backstory please.
@@GloWe724 I sure will. I am houseless and after practicing in the van began living in her full time due to dire circumstances. Yes, I will do a background video for sure! Thank you 😊🩷🇨🇦
Glad you’re resilient; with back up plans for just in case scenarios. 🫶🏽 Stay vigilant.
@@Phabulous_1 Thank you! 😊🇨🇦
Hello new subscriber
Awesome! Welcome and thanks so much! 🤗🇨🇦
New sub here!
@@fiftiesandfabulous That’s great! Thank you so much for joking us Fabulous! 🩷🇨🇦🚐
New sub here
@@constitutionalrepublic1966 awesome! Thank you so much! 😊🚐🇨🇦
they didn't harass you lol just stupid teens doing burnouts in carpark i used to do same calm down all woman like using the word harassing without it happening
@@randomcro24 I think now that was probably the case. It was my first time experiencing it tho and it felt how it felt at the time. Thank you for stopping by! 😊🇨🇦🚐