Harassed and Intimidated at Walmart!

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  • @AnasTrek
    @AnasTrek 19 днів тому +5

    When I first started van dwelling, I had a couple of small incidents occur at Walmarts.
    It’s been a little tough finding places to overnight but I don’t go near Walmarts anymore.
    I do use a lot of regular Rest Stops or picnic rest stops. Haven’t had issues at these places and hopefully, I never will.
    Some of them can be loud because of the big rigs but I try to park as far behind them as i possibly can to avoid having them park behind me.
    I do stay vigilant but I do understand finding places can be overtime work. Being a nomad is NOT easy.
    God bless and stay strong. 👍
    🙂🙏🦋

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  19 днів тому +1

      @@AnasTrek Thank you Ana! It’s definitely not as easy as I thought to find spots. I like the industrial areas too. Thanks for stopping by and your comments 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @catemitten5857
    @catemitten5857 21 день тому +7

    Moral is gas up Early and never fuel up at night. 7:04

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  21 день тому +1

      @@catemitten5857 absolutely the safest thing to do. Unfortunately I only had a little change in my pocket that weekend. I try to keep a minimum of a half tank since or I find a place I can stay put for a couple of days. 😊🚐🇨🇦 Thank you Kate! That’s great advice 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @BoxVanDee
    @BoxVanDee Місяць тому +17

    I really don't like camping in Walmart unless they have security. Sorry you had to go thru that.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +6

      I’ll have to change my strategy in parking Dee. I did say “What would Box Van Dee do?” Trust her instincts 🥰 Now I know you wouldn’t have parked there lol!I haven’t seen security at any of them so far but I don’t know 🤷‍♂️ Thank you for your words and advice ❤ Appreciate you always my friend 🤗

  • @CSmith-gb1sl
    @CSmith-gb1sl Місяць тому +13

    Called a "takeover", it's a new gen z thing where they wear hoodies & masks, & do car tricks in near empty parking lots.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +6

      @@CSmith-gb1sl oh ok! Thanks for that. I feel better knowing that for some reason 😊🚐🇨🇦

    • @CSmith-gb1sl
      @CSmith-gb1sl Місяць тому +2

      @@shirleyfrederickson4794 They are taking over intersections here & now blocking freeways, really pushing the envelope. Unfortunately bringing guns too, so stay safe. If they are driving Chargers & Challengers, a safe bet they aren't "targeting" you.... just being a nusance, its a new fad like the "flash mob" thing.

  • @ernurse3699
    @ernurse3699 Місяць тому +5

    I’m so sorry that that happened to you. Sending prayers for peace and protection ❤🙏🏻

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you ER Nurse and welcome. Turned out it was just good kids having fun I was told. I appreciate your comment 😊🇨🇦

  • @carcampingdude6406
    @carcampingdude6406 15 днів тому +3

    You have a great channel. Today is the first day of the first vacation I've taken from work in 6 months, so I'm using the time to check out all of my commenters and get to my missed messages.
    Most likely, they were just kids out to raise some hell. However, you absolutely did the right thing. Always, always, ALWAYS trust your gut...it is rarely ever wrong. It's better to be safe than sorry. Especially as a solo female nomad 👍
    I don't stay at Walmarts much anymore, but I did for a while when starting out. As a general rule, if I see at least a couple of tractor trailer trucks parked for the night and/or vehicle dwellers around, I consider it safer, as at least in an emergency there are other people in the vicinity, versus a completely empty parking lot where I'm all alone.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  15 днів тому +2

      @@carcampingdude6406 Thank you so much! I appreciate the support and your comment very much and am pleased you like the channel 😊 I have been preparing for van life for several years but as you know, planning and doing are two different ball games. I’m very glad I was mentally prepared and love learning from new experiences and other van lifers such as yourself. Yes, absolutely trust your instincts as they are usually bang on. Good for you taking a break and time for yourself. I’ve only just moved up north recently and parked my van for the winter. I still live in my small place like I would in the van (minimal and dual purpose belongings) but of course have luxury amenities like laundry, heat and power. I’m glad you stopped by and hope you return as I enjoy this new journey. I enjoy watching your channel as well 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @AvaPotterfieldandFriends
    @AvaPotterfieldandFriends Місяць тому +5

    That sounds like a rough and scary time. Glad you left and were able to find a place to rest.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      @@AvaPotterfieldandFriends Yes I was happy to finally stay at the 3rd spot. Also it was raining 🌧️ and my wipers were crap. Oh my! 🤗🩷

  • @Mad-rs7fw
    @Mad-rs7fw 3 дні тому +1

    Walmart here doesn't allow overnight parking and security makes sure they tell you about it. Living in my car not by choice but glad to find channels like this to learn the dos and don'ts,,,

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  3 дні тому +1

      @@Mad-rs7fw good to meet you Mad. Welcome! You’ll find a great community here 😊🚐🇨🇦 Stay safe

  • @Crystalandlagreenga
    @Crystalandlagreenga Місяць тому +3

    Oh wow that is scary; glad you are ok Shirl. Be safe as you enjoy life 🤗🩵💎

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      @@Crystalandlagreenga Thanks Crystal! Doing my best. Back at ya! 🤗🩷🇨🇦

  • @Post-i5t
    @Post-i5t Місяць тому +6

    Always trust your instinct.

  • @Woodsandwizdom
    @Woodsandwizdom Місяць тому +7

    Hope you got some protection for yourself. You don't need a license for pepperspray or a tazer. FYI, a planet fitness membership is relatively cheap & many have overnight parking. Also all cracker barrel restaurants have overnight parking. Stay safe, keep stealthy

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +3

      @@Woodsandwizdom thank you Robin. Yes planet fitness and the casinos as well. I appreciate your comment 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @chrissies7305
    @chrissies7305 12 днів тому +2

    God bless you and try to keep your tank at -at least half tank… I hope you find someone to travel with too in this lifestyle. Best wishes for safe travel!

  • @mistyspleasuresoflife
    @mistyspleasuresoflife Місяць тому +3

    I am so sorry that happened to you! I don’t understand what is wrong with people 😢 So glad you find a peaceful location!! Subscribed to you, many blessings ❤

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      Awww thank you so much for your kind words! Welcome and thanks so much for watching and subscribing! 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @anitajames6659
    @anitajames6659 Місяць тому +3

    Thank goodness you are safe. I’m subscribing. Miss you lovely. ❤❤❤

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      @@anitajames6659 Thank you Anita 🤗 I appreciate that. I miss you too 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-Bits
    @Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-Bits Місяць тому +6

    Glad you are enjoying your van life as a single older gal (as there are soooooo many single gals doing the van life thing). That said, there is a major uptick, and I mean major uptick, in predators and criminals terrorizing van lifers. Especially if they find they are single gals. Things in our country are NOT getting safer, they are getting very unsafe. So put your antennas up and expect a propensity for danger out there. There are some very nasty sorts out there and more and more of them than ever.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      @@Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-Bits Thank you so much Wisdom! Yes it is a time to be cautious always unfortunately. Thanks for stopping by! 😊🚐🇨🇦

    • @Lori1Cor15
      @Lori1Cor15 18 днів тому +1

      All is calm, here.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  18 днів тому +1

      @@Lori1Cor15 I’m glad to hear that Lori 😊 Life is very peaceful here in the north 🥰🇨🇦

  • @lesbianjaycookingvlogchann2312
    @lesbianjaycookingvlogchann2312 Місяць тому +3

    Sorry you had to go through that friend...Im happy that your ok...

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +3

      @@lesbianjaycookingvlogchann2312 Thank you so much ☺️ what are you cooking today? 😋

  • @dawnnicholson6703
    @dawnnicholson6703 Місяць тому +6

    Thats the problem with van life and car camping. Hard to find a safe place now days.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      @@dawnnicholson6703 This is the only incident this far. Thank you for watching! 😊🇨🇦🚐

    • @Lori1Cor15
      @Lori1Cor15 18 днів тому +1

      Houses, too, sadly, B/c home invasions. See how this works?

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  18 днів тому +1

      @ yeah. We have to be careful of our surroundings and who we open doors for 😔

  • @katy6112-8
    @katy6112-8 20 днів тому +5

    Do you have a firearm?
    Or bear spray? Please stay safe.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  20 днів тому +3

      I don’t carry a firearm. My Bear spray expired but I have pepper spray. 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @lilliantittle944
    @lilliantittle944 Місяць тому +2

    Shirl I'm glad you left when you felt unsafe. Happy you found a quiet spot to rest 💕🐶

  • @larnold7614
    @larnold7614 13 днів тому +3

    Walmart might have camaras of the parking lot. Maybe you could get license plates.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  13 днів тому +2

      @@larnold7614 maybe. But I don’t think so. Overnight parking is usually at the very end of the parking lot either at the back or very near the street at the front and right or left end of the lot. Perhaps a traffic light camera picked something up but I was okay and grateful to be able to put it in gear and go 😊 Thank you for your comment! 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @fairydust-weepthewildwinds
    @fairydust-weepthewildwinds Місяць тому +6

    Hi🙋🏻‍♀️, what state are in?, which Walmart?,
    I wonder if you can go to the Police Station and ask them if you can park your Van just to get rest?, it doesn’t hurt to try.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +4

      @@fairydust-weepthewildwinds Hi! I am in Alberta, Canada 🇨🇦 Yes I’m sure they would allow it at the police station. It did work out eventually and I’ll definitely take it in as a learning curve. Thank you Fairydust 🧚🤗

  • @wiesboonstra-fc4km
    @wiesboonstra-fc4km Місяць тому +2

    Wow girl. Im glad you are okay. Love ya

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      @@wiesboonstra-fc4km Hi Wies!!! Thanks! Very cool to see your comment here! Love you too ! 🤗🩷🇨🇦

  • @tammiebroggins
    @tammiebroggins 26 днів тому +3

    I have a bus. I have learned to never park in a store lot. I'm so sorry you had to go through that .

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  26 днів тому +2

      @@tammiebroggins oh nice! A bus would be cool. Thank you Tammie! It all worked out and I parked at the superstore 😎🇨🇦🚐 Thank you for watching! 😊🚐🇨🇦

    • @tammiebroggins
      @tammiebroggins 26 днів тому +3

      @shirleyfrederickson4794 if you keep watch I got mine for 1500 . It's in awesome shape. Most states are switching to electric and you can pick up one for cheaper than a car. My insurance and registration is cheaper than my van! Peace be with you. If you get to quartzite. Im the crazy dog lady.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  26 днів тому +2

      @@tammiebroggins ok! Good to know! I hope to go to Q next year 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @Jezzyglz
    @Jezzyglz Місяць тому +5

    Here at the Walmarts in Texas it’s common for cars to gather up and do illegal activities with their cars. Like burn outs, donuts, just cut up and listen to music before the cops break it up.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +4

      @@Jezzyglz Thanks for the heads up! I had no idea it was a thing. I love Texas BTW 😎 Thank you so much for commenting 🤠🩷🇨🇦

  • @Gukusworld
    @Gukusworld Місяць тому +4

    Im happy your safe Im praying for you

  • @rebeccalavoy6655
    @rebeccalavoy6655 Місяць тому +3

    I believe every word you said.
    I am on guard every time I walk through the parking lot of my local Walmart. I can't imagine spending a night there. Random fights have broken out, people driving recklessly, and all other sorts of odd, inappropriate, and dangerous happenings in between. Listen to the Lord, stay alert, and do as He tells you. Do not hesitate when He instructs you to act or move. Try to keep a clear or level head, despite your fear and anxiety. I have encountered many questionable and dangerous situations through the years, simply being alone and on foot, as my sole means of transportation. He has protected me on numerous occasions. There is no other explanation for me being alive or unharmed, other than for His mercy and protection. I feel for you, that you experienced this scary situation ❤

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much Rebecca, for your kind words and heart.❤️ I pray that you stay safe and warm 🤗 I’m glad you are here! Welcome!

    • @Lori1Cor15
      @Lori1Cor15 18 днів тому

      Ours is tranquil. Good neighborhood

  • @avasmeditations
    @avasmeditations Місяць тому +2

    Wow. I would not have liked that situation at all. Glad you got out of there.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      @@avasmeditations No you wouldnt have Ava. I’ve learned a few things from it though and will be more cautious 🥰 Thank you for coming by and commenting! That’s so special to me 🩷

  • @VintageConversation
    @VintageConversation 22 дні тому +5

    Footage would have made for a great video for your channel, too bad. Going forward remember to always film everything, better to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  22 дні тому +6

      @@VintageConversation Good point, However, I wasn’t thinking of the channel at the time and had my phone on 911. Thank you for watching and commenting 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @PhoenixRisingAZ
    @PhoenixRisingAZ Місяць тому +11

    That sounds so random. Why would 6 cars purposely target you for no reason, especially at walmart where there is constant traffic through out the day. Did walmart not have security patrolling the parking lot

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      @@PhoenixRisingAZ I found it weird. But it lasted for a half hour or more and they were consistent. It was closing time Sunday and didn’t see any security. The one truck actually followed me for a bit after I left and I managed to lose him at a traffic light. 🤷‍♂️ Made no sense but it happened. Thank you for watching Phoenix Rising 😎🇨🇦

    • @PhoenixRisingAZ
      @PhoenixRisingAZ Місяць тому +2

      @@shirleyfrederickson4794 you bet 😀 that is scary, it was a good thing you left, I'm glad you made it out safely. Be careful out there .

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +3

      @@PhoenixRisingAZ thank you Phoenix 😊 I sure will. You too!

    • @3generations393
      @3generations393 Місяць тому +5

      The general public thinks it's ok to harass homeless people. Thank God we have the ability to start our "home" and escape the demons. Those on foot bear the brutality 🙏 May God have mercy 🙌 Thank you Jesus for keeping Shirl safe. I have had the local sheriff headquarters pulled up on my cell in case I could not loose my perpetrator 🙏 Stay safe out there my friends 🙏❣️

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +5

      @3generations393 Thank you for this beautiful message and prayer 🩷🙏🤗

  • @Manyroadsnorules
    @Manyroadsnorules Місяць тому +2

    I'm so sorry you had that bad experience!!! It has never happened to me, it might depend on the neighborhood maybe?
    You did the right thing: go away to another place where you feel safe!!!
    It will get better with time! I feel super safe at walmart eve time I stay there.
    Thank you for sharing your experience!!!
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      @@Manyroadsnorules Thank you my friend. I think everyone is wound up with summer coming to an end. It felt like it was a teenage thing … I didn’t have a lot neighbor but had 911 ready to dial. Yeah it was scary Adrianna. Thank you 😊🤗

    • @Manyroadsnorules
      @Manyroadsnorules Місяць тому +1

      @shirleyfrederickson4794 again very sorry! But, you're beginning a stronger lady, mean nomad!!! 🥰

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      @@Manyroadsnorules awww thanks Adrianna 🤗🇨🇦 Definitely getting some tough lessons along the way 😎 My windows were frozen over this morning! BTW that exciting news is coming next week!

  • @CamperVan-K
    @CamperVan-K 18 днів тому +2

    That sounds scary. We have that a lot in places where I park. They are just young lads revving their suped-up cars. It is a bit intimidating though. Especially at 2 in the morning.
    Sorry you had to go through that. Makes you wonder what they would have done had you gotten out and showed them who you were. But I guess it's best not to do that.
    Always best to be able to get into the driving seat and park in a way that you can drive out easy and quickly - like you did. You obviously know the 'laws of vanlife' for ladies.
    Best to you. Kaye

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  18 днів тому +2

      @@CamperVan-K Hi Kaye! Thanks so much! I’m still learning but am glad I made the choice that I did. At the end of the night I ended finding a great new place to park and have since returned 🥰🚐🇨🇦

  • @judahtribe7
    @judahtribe7 Місяць тому +4

    Our Walmart does not allow overnight parking

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      @@judahtribe7 Yeah not all of them do. I have a favorite I went to once a week. Sometimes for two days! 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @EveningShadeLori
    @EveningShadeLori Місяць тому +4

    Hey Shirl 💜💜 I do know that when I worked at Murphy’s USA in Amarillo,Tx which is in Walmart parking lot- on Friday and Saturday nights there would be a crowd of people ages like 15-20ish yrs old gather in the outer edges of Walmart parking lot to hangout. They were very noisy and revving engines squealing tires ect... just having fun. Just thought maybe that’s what was happening there with Walmart you were staying at. I guess some Walmart’s allow this so young people have a safe place to gather for a few hours a night on weekend. Idk about other places but maybe that’s all it was. 😊💜

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      Yes you are bang on! Someone else said it’s a gen c thing. I just talked to the door greeter and he said that’s what it is. I’m going to stay here tonight. Face the fear! Lol

    • @EveningShadeLori
      @EveningShadeLori Місяць тому +1

      @@shirleyfrederickson4794 My experience was they are usually a good group of kids👌😊

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому

      @@EveningShadeLori I think so too. My imagination got away on me cause I was surrounded. Should have parked on the other side. 🤷‍♀️😊🇨🇦

  • @johnevans1969
    @johnevans1969 Місяць тому +5

    You make sure you have protection against evil, a good tool will have 20-30 friends with other friends on stand by. Protect yourself and if need be move on a ways, bless you and many blessings to you 🙏

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому

      @@johnevans1969 You betcha 👍 Thanks again 😊

    • @theomartin7339
      @theomartin7339 Місяць тому

      @@shirleyfrederickson4794 I bought my mom a pepper spray gun at Walmart for 50 bucks that works really good. She leaves work after 11 pm at night and that's dangerous so she keeps it's ready when she leaves to walk to her car.

  • @moosehand8721
    @moosehand8721 13 днів тому +1

    Stand your ground, they are cowards.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  13 днів тому +1

      @@moosehand8721 I was ready to but as you saw I just chose to leave. Thank you for commenting! 😊🚐❤️

  • @PeaceJourney...
    @PeaceJourney... Місяць тому +2

    First year I parked at walmarts when low on campsite funds, never a good restful sleep for me. Then I discovered the park passes for state and federal campsites, really takes down the cost so the full hook up campsites are affordable. I rest much easier when there's no danger of strangers pulling right up to my door to party or the 3 am knock. Hang in there, Shirl, it gets better.💙

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      @@PeaceJourney... I’m kinda getting the hang of street parking but I have a couple of favorite Walmarts that are actually quite peaceful 😊 As time goes on and I build a nest egg I definitely want to hit the road. It seems to get easier and more routine each day. I’m going to have to park Lavurn soon … more about that another time! Have no a wonderful day and thanks as always for you friendship and support. 😊🚐🇨🇦

    • @PeaceJourney...
      @PeaceJourney... Місяць тому +1

      @@shirleyfrederickson4794 my vehicle was really never even remotely stealth, so no street parking for us. You will get that nest egg built, then go follow the song of the open road, and the best part of your life will be your daily experience 😉 You got this, hang in there.
      Welcome, and thank you friend Shirl🧡 💜💙

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      @@PeaceJourney... such a beautiful message 🥰🤗🩷 Thank you so much …

  • @Gukusworld
    @Gukusworld Місяць тому +7

    I kind of thought it would be fun to live you know in a vehicle but now know it's too dangerous and being senior I don't want to be in that spot and I'm sorry that you're in that I'm not sure if it's by choice or you have no other choice. But I pray to God that you're safe and that he protect you.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +3

      Hello! 👋 I appreciate that, however, please don’t let this one incident stop you from Van Life. There are millions of nomads who have had no scares. There are good and bad incidents in all ways of life 🤗🩷🇨🇦 Thank you for watching!

    • @Lori1Cor15
      @Lori1Cor15 18 днів тому +1

      It is fun and freeing. There are safe places to sleep. Home invasions would be worse.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  18 днів тому

      @Lori1Cor15 How long have you been in your van Lori?

  • @IzzyOnTheMove
    @IzzyOnTheMove 23 дні тому +2

    Hey Shirl, I just discovered your channel and I thought, "that looks like BC"! I watch Chrome, Emi etc. Selling my house to go full nomad next year with my cat without a vehicle (I don't drive, I'm an AirBnB dweller LOL.) Nice to discover you!

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  23 дні тому +1

      Sweet! What a great idea! An Air BmB Nomad! Pleasure to meet you Izzy! I am familiar with Chrome and Evy and have seen some of their content. Thanks for stopping by and saying hi! 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @debrareed-prewitt7127
    @debrareed-prewitt7127 19 днів тому +3

    Drunk kids on a Sunday night? As long as you reported in to Walmart Customer Service and had their knowledge and permission you were good. suggestion, next time park right under their surveillance cameras. Good luck and God Bless.

  • @cjmajor9598
    @cjmajor9598 Місяць тому +4

    As long as you're stealthy motels are a good place to park at night.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      @@cjmajor9598 Thank you CJ! I’ll check that out this weekend! 😎🩷🇨🇦 Thank you for the pointer

    • @cjmajor9598
      @cjmajor9598 Місяць тому +2

      @@shirleyfrederickson4794 you're welcome just make sure you don't have reflectix in your front side windows I've only been knocked on twice in 6 years and I think that was the reason. 🤣

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +3

      @cjmajor9598 another good point CJ! I did have my reflectix showing. 🤔 Thanks again!

  • @ShellyEdwards-ul9zf
    @ShellyEdwards-ul9zf Місяць тому +3

    Oh wow, I’m a new subscriber

  • @michellepasc7564
    @michellepasc7564 Місяць тому +4

    In most of Florida you can't even stay in a Walmart

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      @@michellepasc7564 I hear that is happening all over. Luckily we still have several here plus multiple other options. Thank you 😊🚐🇨🇦

    • @kjbull2728
      @kjbull2728 14 днів тому +1

      People are allowed to park in our Walmart. I’ve even seen some of the cars. Be there for two or three days at a time without moving.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  14 днів тому +1

      @ we are allowed too but not all of them. It is up to the management of the store. This one was on iOverlander and I hadn’t been there before. Looking back I think it must’ve just been teen fun. I enjoy Walmart parking occasionally. I have a favorite that I stayed for 2 days immobile 😎. Have a good night Michelle 😊🇨🇦

  • @AiryanneMarchese
    @AiryanneMarchese 20 днів тому +3

    Where was Walmart Sercurity??

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  20 днів тому +2

      Not sure. Perhaps there are none once the store has closed. It was a Sunday too. 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @theomartin7339
    @theomartin7339 Місяць тому +5

    I couldn't let my grandma out in a van at night.so sad😢

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +3

      You are very sweet Martin 🤗 My plan has always been vanlife and nomad retirement. I was mentally prepared for this as prices increased and opportunities declined. Thank you for your heart felt comment. I have some wonderful news I’m sharing this week 😊 and I’ll explain then. My backstory is coming soon too. Stay well my friend 😊🚐🇨🇦

    • @theomartin7339
      @theomartin7339 Місяць тому +2

      @@shirleyfrederickson4794 I just subscribed. You be safe Shirley

    • @michellehawkins1027
      @michellehawkins1027 Місяць тому +1

      I don't think she needs permission..😅

    • @theomartin7339
      @theomartin7339 Місяць тому

      @@michellehawkins1027 yes I know

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      @@michellehawkins1027 you got that right Michelle 😊 My nieces and nephews were all checking out the van at Thanksgiving dinner last night. They think I’m cool 😎lol

  • @Southerncookingbackwoodsliving
    @Southerncookingbackwoodsliving Місяць тому +2

    Stay safe , new subscriber 😊❤

  • @victoriahall933
    @victoriahall933 27 днів тому +2

    Stand Tall Gurl❤

  • @HaveCheetahWillView
    @HaveCheetahWillView Місяць тому +5

    So bummed to hear this happened and I certainly it isn't a trend. Just surprised that this happened in Canada.....I expect this from good ol' Murica but not Canada.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +3

      @@HaveCheetahWillView yeah it was unpleasant for sure Patrick. I was a little bummed once the initial fear left …

  • @happycamper65
    @happycamper65 Місяць тому +7

    Paid trolls... it's their "job"

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      I can’t imagine 😳 I think now it was just kids burning donuts 😊It was an experience non the less

  • @0dulesduds
    @0dulesduds 17 днів тому +1

    Where does youtube send your payment check to a p.o box?

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  17 днів тому +2

      @@0dulesduds I have no idea Odule. I am not monetized yet but I think they let you know and tell you what to do next. Good luck! 🍀😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @fiftiesandfabulous
    @fiftiesandfabulous Місяць тому +2

    New sub here!

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      @@fiftiesandfabulous That’s great! Thank you so much for joking us Fabulous! 🩷🇨🇦🚐

  • @kgs2280
    @kgs2280 25 днів тому +2

    Would the police actually help you or even come out for a situation like that? Have you ever had that happen? I guess I’m just not very trusting that police would “bother” to help a woman sleeping in her van “just because” some guys are revving their engines and such as that, even though that sounds like a very scary situation. Glad you got away. Many times that is the best move, just get away because that might be the one thing you can do. Happy trails!

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  22 дні тому +4

      Hi KGS! I apologize for the late reply. I was certain I had but must have gotten distracted and forgot to send lol! Yes, I think they would have responded. I had 911 on my phone ready to dial if needed. Because I was uncomfortable though, I think the best choice was to leave the situation. Thank you so much for watching! 😊🚐🇨🇦

    • @Lori1Cor15
      @Lori1Cor15 18 днів тому +2

      They would, here! They gave protected us and I have seen them arrest boy racers.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  18 днів тому +1

      @@Lori1Cor15 hats great Lori! I was ready to dial but didn’t have to as I left but I think they would have come if I needed them.

    • @kgs2280
      @kgs2280 17 днів тому +1

      @@shirleyfrederickson4794 Thanks. That’s good to know. Sorry for my late reply, too, I cant believe that four days have passed!

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  17 днів тому +2

      @ oh no worries! I appreciate the reply! It’s not always easy to respond right away. Have a super day! 🤗🚐🇨🇦

  • @Gukusworld
    @Gukusworld Місяць тому +2

    Hello new subscriber

  • @constitutionalrepublic1966
    @constitutionalrepublic1966 Місяць тому +2

    New sub here

  • @LuisaLoren
    @LuisaLoren Місяць тому +4

    I slept at Walmart last two nights. So hot still so my window is down. I feel safe because my protector is Jesus. Another week of this heat and i will get to roll up my window. But very safe so far here❤

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +1

      @@LuisaLoren That’s great Luisa! It was my first experience and I won’t let it deter me for sure. I am going back to one of my favorite Walmarts next week for a night or two 😊🇨🇦Thank you for watching!

  • @jazzyflorida3757
    @jazzyflorida3757 13 днів тому +1

    😅😅❤

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  13 днів тому +2

      @@jazzyflorida3757 Glad you liked it Jazzy! Thanks for watching 😊🚐🇨🇦

  • @GloWe724
    @GloWe724 Місяць тому +6

    So what’s your story? Are you homeless? If so by choice or? Do a video with some backstory please.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +7

      @@GloWe724 I sure will. I am houseless and after practicing in the van began living in her full time due to dire circumstances. Yes, I will do a background video for sure! Thank you 😊🩷🇨🇦

    • @theunaccompaniedsenior
      @theunaccompaniedsenior День тому

      Are you daft? She's living in her car. That's homeless. Whether someone chooses it or not, is both irrelevant and none of your fncking business.

  • @AlonzoJ-pf4dt
    @AlonzoJ-pf4dt Місяць тому +4

    What Walmart location?

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому +2

      It is in Alberta. It turns out it was just kids having fun. I don’t think now that they knew I was in the van.

    • @AlonzoJ-pf4dt
      @AlonzoJ-pf4dt Місяць тому

      ​​@@shirleyfrederickson4794 Huntington Beach I have story

  • @johnevans1969
    @johnevans1969 Місяць тому +5

    Damn this sucks, I'm sorry honey.

    • @shirleyfrederickson4794
      @shirleyfrederickson4794  Місяць тому

      @@johnevans1969 Thank you John 😊 I’ve come to realize it was probably just kids having fun and I got spooked 😱 Thank you for watching! 🚐🇨🇦

  • @Phabulous_1
    @Phabulous_1 Місяць тому +4

    Glad you’re resilient; with back up plans for just in case scenarios. 🫶🏽 Stay vigilant.