I have a feeling… sit down videos are doing this well because of the boom TOPICS and advice. You have found a niche where moms and non moms like me can just tune in and learn, engage etc.. there are a million vlogs out there. ( Not to say your vlogs aren’t great.I LOVE THEM.) But DAMN MOMMY; you’re our rock when it comes to motherly advice. Your perspective is mind blowing. Wise beyond your age.
Just an idea also for your car videos, if you want you can have a guest on some days and just have conversations in the car too. You can grab a smoothie/ coffee and do the video etc,
This new life in Christ has given you so much wisdom.. I love it.. I’m not a mom yet but I’ve learnt so much today.. my nieces and nephews will have a thriving aunt and I’ll help their moms have their “me time “.. thank you so much for the vlog ❤
This is solid advice, it really takes a village. I’m not a mom yet but your videos help me see how I can better help the people in my life who have kids
Thank you Bonolo for sharing some nuggets on motherhood. As a new mom this was so insightful and so encouraging. I will definately press on with the prayer and shift in perspective.
Hi mama! We love the vlogs, I am not a mommy yet so i find the vlogs to be more relatable to me. Although I do definitely enjoy the sit downs. But I am here for the balance between vlogs and sit downs.
Thank so much Bonolo I needed this!❤ see when you said “rediscover yourself “! I’m definitely writing and printing this out just to set as a reminder ❤️
This video was so good, I'm definitely going to need to watch it again. Currently expecting my third and I needed this as a preparation video for the transition❤
Currently implementing a routine and sleep training my baby, boy it’s not easy😭 Sana I learnt the importance of a village as a new mom and God has been sending angels my way🙏🏽 This is a video I didn’t know I needed. God bless you and your impactful work Bonolo❤️
Beautiful sit down Bonolo. I am a toddler mom, he is two years now and even more clingy as he grows. You know I had just accepted that this phase of not having time for self will pass and have just given myself fully to this phase of focusing solely on him. I am always rushing home after work, from shopping just so I can be with him. I honestly do get tired and frustrated but never want to be where he is not. For example, on Vacations we go with him and even eating out we will always go to kids conducive restaurants. Leaving him is never a nice feeling but I am going to practise this.
A lil late but I love you and ur vlogs and the car therapy vlogs❤ they've changed my perspective and way of thinking and i just discovered ur channel a month ago ❤
Hi Bonolo, sorry I am late to watch your Vlog, I was in hospital, just got discharged today and started catching up, I really enjoy your beautiful Vlog 😍 🤩, whether is a sit down or cooking and with the kids doing motherhood, is so exceptional, you doing good ❤️ 🎉
I would love to watch the vlogs but I actually catch up on the videos mostly sit down when working so I listen instead of watching. Keeps me going and helps me not get sleepy. But thank you for this video!
Hey, you’ve mentioned sleep training a few times, even on your IG stories. If you haven’t shared before, can you please share which method you followed for sleep training? ❤
When you said “Accept the new you.” 😭😭😭😭💔 I didn’t know I was fighting the new me until recently. Rediscovery has never been soooo messy.😭🤧🥹😮💨 Thank you Bonolo for this. I’m literally in tears. 🫶🏾
Before I continue with this video,is there anyone who doesn't like you????They need a whole cleansing ceremony because Hai No banengxaki, they'll go mad when they see you in person sana♥️♥️♥️♥️
Asking for help if so hard for me, I fear being told that she’s my daughter/ I chose to have a baby etc. I asked for a weekend without baby when I went for a weekend away and I was made to feel like I am abandoning my baby. I cried so much, my baby daddy was the one that reassured me it’s okay to go away without her. It’s just two nights. And he took her for the weekend. She was well taken care of at her paternal grandparents and they loved having her. I still don’t get why my family made me feel so horrible
We love everything you post mommy❤ Is it just me or our african parents dont respect boundaries?? When you express boundaries they take it as you think you know it all and dont need their help. They make everything so difficult, difference of opinion is not allowed but i am glad i moved so far away from them....and also how do you set boundaries with the paternal side like the grandparents and your childs aunts and uncles...i feel like its tricky because you dont wanna come off as too much or wa phapha So how do you express boundaries with the paternal side especially when the father is a very soft mommys boy and doesnt wanna do it so you have to do it?
Such a great comment! I feel the same way, but I think it has more to do with how they think things should be done, and refusing to listen to us (moms). Yes they've raised us but we're in different times and would like to raise our kids differently. It's honestly terrible 😢
Hi momma! You take charge even if it means you have to “overstep” when it comes to your kids. Nothing and no one is worth compromising your kids and you need to get your partner to understand that 🤍
You never eve r want your kids to say you never stood up for them or protected them. If you can’t do it when they are young and helpless imagine when they are adults, you’ll keep the same habit of just saying nothing and they can grow to resent you.
Hi Bonolo. I hope you are well. I understand why you feel the need to protect yourself from certain comments. But some of us (myself) don’t have instagram. So doe that mean I am not allowed to engage with you openly because you don’t think certain comments are for the public to see?
I am always open to engagement from everyone! Let’s just keep it positive and respectful and everything is good. 😊 i think we can all agree that some things should be said face to face instead of via text and private message is the equivalent in this case 🤍
I think with vlogs it’s not you but nje the vlogging space is too saturated. There’s so many vlogs to choose from. But with sit-downs, you easily see the topic and click coz of interest. But because we love you, thanks for sharing how you would appreciate us watching your vlogs, we will❤️
I have a feeling… sit down videos are doing this well because of the boom TOPICS and advice. You have found a niche where moms and non moms like me can just tune in and learn, engage etc.. there are a million vlogs out there. ( Not to say your vlogs aren’t great.I LOVE THEM.)
But DAMN MOMMY; you’re our rock when it comes to motherly advice. Your perspective is mind blowing. Wise beyond your age.
I second this too😊 She is very wise and u can easily engage❤ Before you want it to end - its finished😅
But will watch the vlogs too thank you Bonolo
Aw thank you so much! 🙏🏽 I get that. I just worry when I drop the podcast, what will happen to the vlog channel?
Just an idea also for your car videos, if you want you can have a guest on some days and just have conversations in the car too. You can grab a smoothie/ coffee and do the video etc,
Who said we don’t like vlogs pls 😭 I’ve been binging them
Please don’t stop watching them!🥲
I enjoy them too🥰❤️
"you cannot be everything to everyone" I needed to hear that.. Thank you for this sit down😊😊
You’re most welcome 🤍
This new life in Christ has given you so much wisdom.. I love it.. I’m not a mom yet but I’ve learnt so much today.. my nieces and nephews will have a thriving aunt and I’ll help their moms have their “me time “.. thank you so much for the vlog ❤
You're so welcome! 🥰
This is solid advice, it really takes a village. I’m not a mom yet but your videos help me see how I can better help the people in my life who have kids
It really does! You’re a great friend already just for that 🤍
Thank you Bonolo for sharing some nuggets on motherhood. As a new mom this was so insightful and so encouraging. I will definately press on with the prayer and shift in perspective.
I am so glad you are enjoying it! 💖
i love how vocal you are about everything Bonolo. beautiful.
Thank you ☺️
Nna I just love hearing your voice ❤ ❤ . Love it ! 🥰 so I’ll watch any Bonolo update with joy!
Ah thank you, you're the best! 🥹🥰
Her voice is so comforting.
I really love the seat down videos , always leave having learnt something ❤️❤️
I’m so glad you enjoy them! 🥹
Oh Bonolo, listening to this soo refreshing to the soul, a good reminder ❤️.
Ah thank you lovely 🥹
Hi mama! We love the vlogs, I am not a mommy yet so i find the vlogs to be more relatable to me. Although I do definitely enjoy the sit downs. But I am here for the balance between vlogs and sit downs.
Thank you! I’m glad you enjoy them both🤍 that’s good to know I want to appeal to you all
❤Thank you, Bonolo. This was insightful! The push that I needed..
You're so welcome! I'm glad it resonated with you! 💕
Wholesome man!!!!!..i had to SAVE this one as a FAVE!!!!🥰
I love that! Thank you 🥹
Your voice is extremely soothing!
Thank you so much 🤍🥺
Thank so much Bonolo I needed this!❤ see when you said “rediscover yourself “! I’m definitely writing and printing this out just to set as a reminder ❤️
I'm so glad this helped! 🙏🏽 you’ve got this!
I rarely comment on your videos, but on this i have to, i love it very resourceful ❤
I am so glad you found it helpful! 🤍 thank you
This video was so good, I'm definitely going to need to watch it again. Currently expecting my third and I needed this as a preparation video for the transition❤
You got this mama! 🙌🏽 congratulations!
Just Shut up and do it! I really needed to hear this. I just love you mommy! ❤❤❤
That’s honestly the best thing I realised 🥲
Currently implementing a routine and sleep training my baby, boy it’s not easy😭 Sana I learnt the importance of a village as a new mom and God has been sending angels my way🙏🏽
This is a video I didn’t know I needed. God bless you and your impactful work Bonolo❤️
It gets easier! You’re doing great mama ❤️ I’m so so proud of you
Needed to hear this as a new mommy. Thank you so much Bonolo❤
You’re so welcome, I hope it helps! 🥹🤍
Thank you mama for helping us see that we not selfish but we filling our cup so we are good tous and the people around us 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
I’m so glad you found this helpful ❤️
Beautiful sit down Bonolo. I am a toddler mom, he is two years now and even more clingy as he grows. You know I had just accepted that this phase of not having time for self will pass and have just given myself fully to this phase of focusing solely on him. I am always rushing home after work, from shopping just so I can be with him. I honestly do get tired and frustrated but never want to be where he is not. For example, on Vacations we go with him and even eating out we will always go to kids conducive restaurants. Leaving him is never a nice feeling but I am going to practise this.
You’re doing great! 🥰 but you need to live you too. He will be better for it. 🤍
This was informs but fun to watch as well 😊Thank you babes for the gems of wisdom
Hey Bonolo i enjoy both the vlogs and sit down and m learning alot from you and thank you
You're so welcome! 🙏🏽🤍
As an expecting mom, this was so informative.
Loved the video. ❤️
You're going to be an amazing mama! 🤍
Thank you so much Bonolo for this video, I'm a first time mom and girl I am learning a lot from your videos❤❤
I love everything Bonolo wise ❤I just need to engage more ❤
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Oh I needed this ❤❤❤❤❤. Thanks Mama Kabo and Khumo
You are most welcome 🙏🏽🤍
Thank you so much for sharing ❤
You are most welcome ❤️
2:18 we love videos so much, I prefer videos even more than sit downs but I love both of your work😊😊❤you are doing very well Mrs M🔥🔥
Thank you thank you 🥹
Time alone does wonders to us mommies I also recommend ❤❤❤❤
It’s magic😍
I love it here❤... Especially the car therapy conversations❤😊
So glad you enjoy these 🥹
Top tier content! Thank you for sharing your well thought out 7 nuggets of wisdom. This is really insightful.
You're so welcome! I'm so glad you found it helpful! 😊
I love today's word of the day❤❤
Thank you so much cc for your wisdom...❤❤as a mom i never skip any of your upload 😊
I am so glad you are finding it helpful! 🥹
Also about the vlogs, I watch everything but sit downs and homemaking are definitely my favorites ❤
I love the vlogs so much and I kinda enjoy them a bit more now
Amazing! I’m so glad 🥹
I needed this. ❤ thank you
You are most welcome ❤️
Loved these tips!!!!! The bible verse even more ❤
I’m so glad they helped! 😊
Thank you mommy for this conversation ❤
You’re most welcome ❤️
this sit down convo is super necessary and informative. thank you B🥰
You’re so welcome! Glad you enjoyed it!🥰
I love love this conversation ❤
Thank you 🥹🤍
You said it all Bonolo "pray about everything" 🙌🙌🙌
Everything 🤍🤍
Love the consistency mommy ❤❤❤
Same🥹😍
You are so welcome! 🙏🏽
Boundaries; Routine, Boundaries, Routine,BOUNDARIES ‼️
✍️ I got it. ❤
Very important 👏🏽👏🏽
I love and really enjoy your vlogs
Goood🥹
Love love all your content❤ 😊
Definitely here for the consistency momma B 🍾
I'm so glad you enjoy it! 🙏🏽
This was beautiful just what I needed ❤️❤️❤️ reporting from a Toddler Mom
I am so glad you found it helpful! 😊 you’re got this!
I love you so much Bonolo.Thank you for this video.I am learning alot❤
Ah, you’re so welcome! 🥹
@bonolo_mphamo Still waiting for more.We enjoy the vlogs too keep them coming mama
We absolutely love the vlogsss!!!❤ pleaseee❤
Yeeees!🥹🥹
Definitely needed this vlog. From number 1 to 7.
Thank you Bonolo
You're so welcome! 🙏🏽
We are watching Bonolo❤❤
I love listening to you talk and on the vlogs you talk less😊
Sana I get tired of talking bandla 🥲🥲 please just watch the vlogs 😘
A lil late but I love you and ur vlogs and the car therapy vlogs❤ they've changed my perspective and way of thinking and i just discovered ur channel a month ago ❤
Ah man that’s so amazing, thank you 🥺
Girl we watch the sit downs, vlogs everything you post .... love it
You're the best! ❤️
Yooooh 😭😭😭😭😭😩😩😩, let me go watch the vlogs. Vlogs overwhelm me but for you, I will watch them from now on 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾❤️❤️❤️.
You!!! Ah I appreciate youuuu🥹🥹
No ways, I love vlogs more that sit down!
Every has their thing 🥹
we enjoy vlogs so much, will do our best to engage. beautiful and very informative video. i appreciate this ❤❤❤
I'm so glad you enjoyed it! 😊 please please
Talk about consistency gal , well done👏❤
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Thank you so much Bonolo for this video❤🥺
You are most welcome ❤️
Woow this was such a powerful vedio learnt a lot ❤❤❤
Thank you, I hope it’s helpful ❤️
Hi Bonolo, sorry I am late to watch your Vlog, I was in hospital, just got discharged today and started catching up, I really enjoy your beautiful Vlog 😍 🤩, whether is a sit down or cooking and with the kids doing motherhood, is so exceptional, you doing good ❤️ 🎉
So glad you are doing well and that you enjoyed the vlog 🙏🏽🤍
I’m not a mom, but this spoke to me sana!
You are so young and blessed!!!
It’s applicable to us all❤️
I would love to watch the vlogs but I actually catch up on the videos mostly sit down when working so I listen instead of watching. Keeps me going and helps me not get sleepy. But thank you for this video!
That’s awesome! 😊
I enjoy the motherhood content more from you ❤😍♥️
🤍🤍🤍
Hey, you’ve mentioned sleep training a few times, even on your IG stories. If you haven’t shared before, can you please share which method you followed for sleep training? ❤
I did the cry it out method! I’ll be posting a video next week on sleep training 😌
Boundaries boundaries boundaries!!!!!!!!
Big time!!🔥🔥
This is so helpful.Thank you ❤
You're so welcome!
number two must bepreached more often in my world omg
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Vlog 🥹please and thank you☺️
I always look forward to" car therapy sessions " thank u❤❤
Me too! 🙏🏽🤍
We love these car sessions. ❤
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we love the vlogs we love everything
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When you said “Accept the new you.” 😭😭😭😭💔 I didn’t know I was fighting the new me until recently. Rediscovery has never been soooo messy.😭🤧🥹😮💨
Thank you Bonolo for this. I’m literally in tears. 🫶🏾
You are so welcome. Ah man 🥺🥺🤍🤍
We love the chats. Please chat in the vlogs. Love hearing your voice inside of background music. Even if it’s playing in the background. ❤
I’m so glad you enjoy them! 🥰 guys I can’t always be talking bandla 😂
I really enjoy these car therapy conversations bandla ❤️
I’m go glad 🤍
This video is for everyone ❤
Subscribing to Ur channel it's the best thing I've ever done ✅ ❤ thank mummy
Ah man thank you so so much 🥺
Before I continue with this video,is there anyone who doesn't like you????They need a whole cleansing ceremony because Hai No banengxaki, they'll go mad when they see you in person sana♥️♥️♥️♥️
Not everyone can like you and not everyone should like you. Thats even weirder 🥲 I can’t trust people that are too liked
Hi mommy I'm new to this Channel but I enjoy your sit downs videos ❤,please do a mommy daughter's vlog I miss seeing the kids love them they cute ❤
I appreciate you! I am so glad you are here 🥹🤍 gosh the kids are growing and in shy to keep them on camera but lots of Christmas content coming up!
Love 🥰 watching your vlog 😅
Glad you enjoyed! 😂
Asking for help if so hard for me, I fear being told that she’s my daughter/ I chose to have a baby etc. I asked for a weekend without baby when I went for a weekend away and I was made to feel like I am abandoning my baby. I cried so much, my baby daddy was the one that reassured me it’s okay to go away without her. It’s just two nights. And he took her for the weekend. She was well taken care of at her paternal grandparents and they loved having her. I still don’t get why my family made me feel so horrible
I’m so sorry you went through that. Just remember that your village doesn’t have to be family, create a stable and suitable village that supports you🤍
@@bonolo_mphamothank you Bonolo❤️
You look so pretty ❤
You are too kind! 💖
Aww, I do like vlogs though.
We love vlogs sisi🥹🫶🏽
"thank you Lord that my kids are running around driving me crazy"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 let me tell you one thing, you are important to my sanity ok
You’re so welcome! It’s truly a crazy and beautiful journey 😂🙏🏽
Omg i want so bad to watch this whole vid on motherhood but my 7 months old and 5 year old are make it so hard with all the noise😅😢😂
Wait for bedtime 😂😘
We love everything you post mommy❤
Is it just me or our african parents dont respect boundaries?? When you express boundaries they take it as you think you know it all and dont need their help. They make everything so difficult, difference of opinion is not allowed but i am glad i moved so far away from them....and also how do you set boundaries with the paternal side like the grandparents and your childs aunts and uncles...i feel like its tricky because you dont wanna come off as too much or wa phapha
So how do you express boundaries with the paternal side especially when the father is a very soft mommys boy and doesnt wanna do it so you have to do it?
Boundaries? African parents they take offence when you set them
Such a great comment! I feel the same way, but I think it has more to do with how they think things should be done, and refusing to listen to us (moms). Yes they've raised us but we're in different times and would like to raise our kids differently. It's honestly terrible 😢
Hi momma! You take charge even if it means you have to “overstep” when it comes to your kids. Nothing and no one is worth compromising your kids and you need to get your partner to understand that 🤍
You never eve r want your kids to say you never stood up for them or protected them. If you can’t do it when they are young and helpless imagine when they are adults, you’ll keep the same habit of just saying nothing and they can grow to resent you.
Hi Bonolo. I hope you are well. I understand why you feel the need to protect yourself from certain comments. But some of us (myself) don’t have instagram. So doe that mean I am not allowed to engage with you openly because you don’t think certain comments are for the public to see?
I am always open to engagement from everyone! Let’s just keep it positive and respectful and everything is good. 😊 i think we can all agree that some things should be said face to face instead of via text and private message is the equivalent in this case 🤍
I think with vlogs it’s not you but nje the vlogging space is too saturated. There’s so many vlogs to choose from. But with sit-downs, you easily see the topic and click coz of interest. But because we love you, thanks for sharing how you would appreciate us watching your vlogs, we will❤️
Thanks lovely! ☺️
I look forward to these car conversations
I enjoy them too🤍
I’m not a mom but being a mom is about being calm 🤣 otherwise you will explode 🤯 just be zen 🧘♀️ & pray ❤️
No it’s not. Sometimes being a mom is about losing your mind or crying. It’s just not realistic to be calm and zen all the time. It’s a lot of work.
help in new zealand is soooooo expensive.
NO WE LIKE VLOGS B!!!!
Got it!!😂🤍
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