Q&A a bit about me| my relationship with my mom + how my husband proposed + baby number 3

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  • @journeywithmbali
    @journeywithmbali Місяць тому +59

    So this man gave you faith, love, a home and children 😭❤. He a good man Savannah, he a gooood man❤️😂

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому +9

      Listen!!! Oh my gosh when you put it that way yes that’s exactly it!😩❤️ sana let me go give him a son!

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 Місяць тому +20

    If Bonolo thinks anyone will sit and watch her speak for 56:06 , she’s so right because I did exactly that and watched all ads without skipping. Girl you’re so well spoken and have a calm energy. I am enjoying this episode. I just love you ❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Ah man thank you! Yoooh I felt so bad for such a long video! I glad you enjoyed it

  • @lee.ndhlovukazi
    @lee.ndhlovukazi Місяць тому +62

    The way you speak of your dad is so refreshing 🥺🫰🏽

  • @abigailmokoena7150
    @abigailmokoena7150 Місяць тому +78

    Ohh Bonolo , this was so beautiful to watch . I got to see you in a different light, positively so . Please post more of these . Absolutely beautiful

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Ah man thank you so so much. 🥹

    • @HisPrincess_
      @HisPrincess_ Місяць тому +3

      Same I admire her so much. I love how open she was when she spoke about her family structure she grew up in w no shame but proud that it shaped her to become the woman she is today 🥺❤️. I just love how she doesn’t taboo these topics so much and answers and speaks w them w so much pride love it. So bold ❤

  • @SharonLethoko
    @SharonLethoko Місяць тому +17

    I’m just gonna go ahead and say that I absolutely believe in home making,being a stay at home mom and taking care of my husband and kids. I’m 26 also and not married yet and I want to get married I know I will. In this day and age, it’s easy for women to judge each other just because one wants to be a working woman and a stay at home mom. But I love how you put it.♥️

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so so much. I appreciate that

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb Місяць тому +55

    Your parents are a true definition of putting feelings etc aside for the sake of their child.
    Hats off to the both of them.

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      My parents did amazing. It wasn’t always easy but they did gooood🥺

  • @MissSasa9
    @MissSasa9 Місяць тому +5

    The part where she says Sometimes it's not about having more. Sometimes it's about handing it over to God."
    I definitely needed to hear that in this season

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb Місяць тому +16

    Listening to your story mama; YOU are so mature and you KNOW WHO YOU ARE.
    Hats out to you. And I see glimpses of that in your daughters. You are raising LEADERS.

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Aaah man thank you. I think I’m starting to figure myself out for sure

  • @fennyganzin7239
    @fennyganzin7239 Місяць тому +9

    I love how realistic you are. It's so rare in this present-day. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. Your aura and how you articulate yourself is out of this world 💕

  • @BhonyongoNgemntu
    @BhonyongoNgemntu Місяць тому +20

    I really liked how you answered the work related question.🙌

  • @laurisacoetzee8809
    @laurisacoetzee8809 Місяць тому +2

    love it that you mentioned being a homemaker because we sometimes get looked down upon for being proud home executives. I'm a proud and happy home executive for the past 5 years now.

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      YES 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 it’s a big time job honestly

  • @zinhlemlangeni01
    @zinhlemlangeni01 Місяць тому +4

    I love how you can spill the beans and no one comes for you. Meaning everyone is comfortable with their experiences ❤❤❤❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      I think it’s because I don’t tell what’s not true and also I don’t over share. But if I did offend anyone I would also apologise

  • @nikiwejentu9565
    @nikiwejentu9565 Місяць тому +3

    I really enjoyed this Q&A! I loved the open and honest dialogue, especially the kindness in your responses. Thank you for being so authentic mama ♥

  • @NontuthukoNdlela-bq4je
    @NontuthukoNdlela-bq4je Місяць тому +7

    Bonolo I enjoy watching and listening to your authentic self❤

  • @VeyCuamba
    @VeyCuamba Місяць тому +6

    You're so authentic its inspiring ❤ God is definitely shining through you

  • @ipelengvalentianyatlo9812
    @ipelengvalentianyatlo9812 Місяць тому +6

    Hey Bonolo. The respect you have for both your Mom and Dad is beautiful. You are such a self aware hun. You acknowledge both their contributions and you don't take away from either. You clarified so much in this video. I won't lie, I also wondered about your Mom but you clarified it beautifully and respectfully. Otherwise, I relate so much to you. Kids ages. Newly Wed. It's refreshing to have someone on the net who "sees you" 🥰 Keep it coming Mrs M

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Aw thank you for the kind words 🥰

  • @naledikomsana3443
    @naledikomsana3443 Місяць тому

    That sermon on confidence at the end! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤

  • @Zabenguni824
    @Zabenguni824 Місяць тому +4

    Ooh man i love you Bonolo may God protect you and your family! You such a calm soul

  • @khayntamo
    @khayntamo Місяць тому +5

    I appreciate your honesty. You just say it how it is. And what a journey you’ve had, it’s really interesting ❤

  • @ATHENKOSIDLOVA
    @ATHENKOSIDLOVA Місяць тому +1

    I loved this video and how intentional you were throughout! The word of the day is always a blessing, thanks Bonolo.

  • @Gayatri_FlowerPower
    @Gayatri_FlowerPower Місяць тому +2

    Definitely a Dlamini princess. Absolutely beautiful Bonolo Mphamo 🌺

  • @ziyandavego2541
    @ziyandavego2541 Місяць тому +3

    Beautiful video Bonolo, enjoyed it. Questions answered gracefully 😇. Thank you for letting us in

  • @zamaguma99
    @zamaguma99 Місяць тому +9

    Thank you so much for describing your dynamic with your mom. You helped me find my words. It's that she's tender, gentle and kind hence my direct communication often feels mean in comparison.

  • @tapamohlala91
    @tapamohlala91 Місяць тому +3

    You are such a smart momma💗💗💗💗

  • @asiphediza5145
    @asiphediza5145 Місяць тому +26

    Your consistency is unmatched ❤🎉

  • @rachelsmith7729
    @rachelsmith7729 Місяць тому +3

    "The fact is the word of the day" loved that❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Yup! Everything is doesn’t compare 🤍

  • @njabulodlamini270
    @njabulodlamini270 Місяць тому +3

    Capricorn girlies are UP!!! Your videos are always amazing Mrs Mphamo💗

  • @GaopalelweMoerane
    @GaopalelweMoerane 20 днів тому

    🥰 aaw man this felt like one of those long overdue catch ups with your girls over cute drinks and stuff!
    Co-parenting, blended families it’s never easy hey but we soldier on kaone re tla reng?
    Yes to the Word of the Day 🫡💖, enjoyed it so much on your wedding vlog!

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  19 днів тому +1

      I’m glad you enjoyed the Word of the Day! And the whole video! Lovely catching up 😂🤍

  • @Bassie_komane
    @Bassie_komane Місяць тому +3

    Thank you for sharing the word of the day. I love it so much🙏... your radiance says it all. God is good all the time, even in hard times.✨️

  • @phindilehlongwane7811
    @phindilehlongwane7811 Місяць тому +5

    I had to pause the TV and quickly type my response, that whole explanation about your siblings killed me.. because men! 😂😂😂
    I love how your family is so involved and supportive in your life. You're an amazing mom, I'm really enjoying this chapter of your life ❤❤❤ God bless you 🙌🏾

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Thank you lovely 😂 men are not good people but we love them sana

  • @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369
    @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 Місяць тому +2

    Shuuu Child!!! I don't think I have ever seen/ heard you this honest❤
    You are saw raw!

  • @thatotlhowe
    @thatotlhowe Місяць тому +6

    ❤❤❤
    I would really love to witness my future daughter or son being raised by their father, especially a confident father. You spoke so well about your dad and it made sense why he cried on your wedding day. 😊

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      He is my first love. Honestly my dad and I will always understand each other. We raised each other 🥹

  • @Viktri_r
    @Viktri_r Місяць тому +3

    You are so beautifully articulate. I wish I could express myself as well as you do

  • @prettysekgopo3026
    @prettysekgopo3026 22 дні тому

    oh what an encouraging video, i love love it

  • @xoliswakali15
    @xoliswakali15 Місяць тому +5

    I love what you said about your confidence coming from God. I feel the same way... I have always been confident and self - assured. But life tested me... Now I just don't depend on myself like that ❤️

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Love that! It’s unwavering and the biggest blessings

  • @sithabilemdletshe8591
    @sithabilemdletshe8591 Місяць тому +8

    This was a really beautiful video. Your story is special and your journey will continue to be special BECAUSE you work in PARTNERSHIP with God, our Saviour! Amen!

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 Місяць тому

    I loved this. I loved your honesty. God is using you just as you are. I got teary whilst watching this. God is more than able ❤. Blessings to you and your beautiful family.

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      I appreciate you. Thank you🥹🥹❤️❤️

  • @nothandosekgoto9265
    @nothandosekgoto9265 Місяць тому +18

    I speak for the whole Village when i say more car talks would be AMAZING.

  • @kealebogamokate1532
    @kealebogamokate1532 Місяць тому +2

    This was a great inside to your life, love you girl, I love your assertiveness and confidence ❤❤❤❤

  • @siyathokozansizwane5369
    @siyathokozansizwane5369 Місяць тому +2

    Really enjoyed this story session. And diving Into the word. So good. 😊 I love this season for you. You thriving and shining.

  • @lwandlemadinda
    @lwandlemadinda Місяць тому +7

    I actually didn't realize that I have not yet subscribed, so I have! 2) Babe I did not realize you are so young LOL. 3) I love the parts where you unpack the verse of the day in your understanding, conviction and testimony - please include this on all if not most of your videos. Have confidence in this too. I love it.

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Oh my gosh I hope you subscribed now! Thank you thank you. 🥹

  • @karabomokgatle4596
    @karabomokgatle4596 Місяць тому +2

    Hi mommy🥹. I enjoy these so much because you are more vulnerable and open with us. Thank you for the word of the day and unpacking it. Loved this video so much!!❤️❤️ and may God continue to bless the work of your hands.

  • @kgomotsomotau7105
    @kgomotsomotau7105 Місяць тому +1

    Watched this video beginnning to end and I was so drawn. Too good. Enjoyed every bit of this video!❤

  • @seopedibaitsile6584
    @seopedibaitsile6584 Місяць тому

    That part where you spoke about God being your helper and in your marriage...GOLD!

  • @surprisemadula
    @surprisemadula Місяць тому +22

    Fellow Maths Literacy girlie 🤣💗

  • @nokukhanya.buthelezi_
    @nokukhanya.buthelezi_ Місяць тому +2

    "What is the truth, is the word!!!! 🙌🏽"

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Facts! Everything else I’m saying is not as important as that word!

  • @khanyothandeka3206
    @khanyothandeka3206 Місяць тому

    Really really loved this video, I love this Christian Bonolo and everything you share.♥️🌸

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      😂 I’ve always been Christian. I’ve just matured over the years. But thank you 🤍

  • @andilesello953
    @andilesello953 Місяць тому +1

    I really enjoy listening to you Bonolo ... May God lead you on this journey ❤

  • @wewemhlaba7593
    @wewemhlaba7593 Місяць тому

    You are loved and appreciated this side❤ I could listen to you speak all day.

  • @tisetsosheron7598
    @tisetsosheron7598 Місяць тому

    I enjoyed this video soo much 🥺❤️
    It’s sooo nice to get to know you Bonolo.Being a home maker , mom & wife is definitely your calling, your face just glows up when you talk about taking care of your family and kids 🥹❤ may God give you the strength to continue being the amazing mom and wife that you are❤❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому +1

      I’m so glad you enjoyed it! 💖 thank you thank you 🥹🥺❤️

  • @veemphuti
    @veemphuti Місяць тому

    First time seeing you on this platform.
    You're such a gem❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Welcome to the village! 😊 thank you so much 🥹

  • @katlegomarthabuys5286
    @katlegomarthabuys5286 Місяць тому +2

    Thoroughly enjoyed everything, but more specifically loved when you spoke about scripture and God❤️

  • @noloMoemedi
    @noloMoemedi Місяць тому +18

    Umama yomthandazo❤❤❤, glory be unto God. I pray that you continue on these route, as we are going along with you (fellowship is imperative), sharing his goodness, encourages people. For me particularly, is to remember not to reference the world, but God in all things in my life, be it motherhood, marriage and all relationships. The world tries to instill fear and insecurities in us, but listening to you right now, just opened my eyes up to the fact that only God can and should be our reference, our core and foundation. Thank God for you Mrs Mphamo, thank you for your vulnerability❤.

    • @HisPrincess_
      @HisPrincess_ Місяць тому

      House Executor who’s firm in Christ and acknowledges him in all her ways 😭🙌🏽❤. Literally watching my future self 🥺🤞🏽

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Shuu! Thank you thank you so much. I truly appreciate this. Thank you

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Love that! Yeees

  • @lindyn4
    @lindyn4 Місяць тому

    I knew the answer to confidence was your dad... What a present and supportive father does to girl child yah really

  • @nish9341
    @nish9341 Місяць тому +2

    Love everything about your craft, I mean the amount of work you put in for us to enjoy... is soo appreciated💌💃🏾

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Ah man thank you. This means so much thank you

  • @lee.ndhlovukazi
    @lee.ndhlovukazi Місяць тому +3

    The lore on your family is so interesting 😊

  • @nthatisiletshego
    @nthatisiletshego Місяць тому

    Bonolo this was beautiful to watch and very profound. There’s a lot of substance in what you’ve shared. God bless you ❤

  • @preciouschauke3109
    @preciouschauke3109 Місяць тому +2

    Really enjoyed this video, thank you so much for sharing ❤

  • @mfundisozuma5810
    @mfundisozuma5810 Місяць тому +8

    All I did was admire your beauty and your glow today! 🥹you’re so gorgeous Bonolo!

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Ah man I’m blushing! Thank you so much 🥹

  • @zenandemzantsi2519
    @zenandemzantsi2519 Місяць тому +1

    A great segment this was hey✨🤌🏽,i love how you closed it off with unpacking a bit of scripture…wholesome!

  • @siyathokozansizwane5369
    @siyathokozansizwane5369 Місяць тому +2

    I really love who you becoming bonolo 🙌🏽😊

  • @thatoraofelane
    @thatoraofelane Місяць тому

    I enjoyed you so much. Thanks for sharing snippets of your life with us. ❤️

  • @andykompton
    @andykompton Місяць тому

    Loved how honest these answers were❤

  • @conniemohlokonya
    @conniemohlokonya Місяць тому +1

    Oh how I enjoy listing to Bonolo speaking ❤
    Pls do not skip the ads

  • @MpumiKMbonane
    @MpumiKMbonane Місяць тому +18

    I thought I’d only watch 30 minutes and move on to something else, but I’m glad I stayed on. Your storytelling was gripping and the word of the day was clutch. You’re doing great mama ❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Wow! Thank you so so much Mpumi, I appreciate that thank you

  • @ChwaneloM
    @ChwaneloM Місяць тому +4

    I started watching you when you first created your channel with your now husband 🥹 and I remember how you shared the story of how you guys met and today you guys are married with kids😍it’s been beautiful to watch you grow mama❤️❤️

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      It’s insane! I can’t believe you have been around that long. I love that! 🥹🥹

  • @Katleho-mafisa
    @Katleho-mafisa Місяць тому +1

    I don't know how many times I've played the last part🥺, this was beautiful thankyou Bonolo ❤

  • @leratoximbi8858
    @leratoximbi8858 Місяць тому +2

    I absolutely love your content. Thank you for being you

  • @bridgetsebolai6207
    @bridgetsebolai6207 Місяць тому +1

    Oh beautiful Bonolo thanks for introducing us to you I appreciate that very much ❤

  • @lelomasumpa
    @lelomasumpa Місяць тому +1

    From what I've seen, you're doing so well as a house executive. So inspiring ❤❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much! But I truly only show the good for the protection of my family and also my page is a positivity only space

  • @moitse_
    @moitse_ Місяць тому +1

    such a wholesome video🥰🥰🥰

  • @sandemalgas7860
    @sandemalgas7860 Місяць тому +4

    Hello from another SAHM❤ glad we have a SA rep on this platform.

  • @mandilakhentsokota2640
    @mandilakhentsokota2640 Місяць тому

    Honestly!!! I enjoyed watching this video ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @MissSasa9
    @MissSasa9 Місяць тому

    I absolutely absolutely loved the last part of this video. I love this phase of your life and your journey with the Lord currently including the fasting. I especially loved that you clarified that you are a Christian and not merely "spiritual" outside of Christ.
    This was beautiful. May the continue to bless you and enlarge your territory. You have gained a subscriber ❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Ah man, thank you so much! 🙏🏽 yeah very important to be specific

  • @lihlezwakala5
    @lihlezwakala5 Місяць тому

    Loved the word of the day ❤️

  • @fatimamoorad
    @fatimamoorad Місяць тому

    Congratulations on passing the 15K mark 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @eramight
    @eramight 27 днів тому

    I love your emphasis about the scripture being a fact. It's my first time seeing your video and I really enjoyed hearing about you.

  • @RueHaze
    @RueHaze Місяць тому +7

    22:32 this was my reality too. But I moved in with my dad when I was 15 best thing that ever happened to me. 🩶🍡my mom was great too, I just feel it’s so important to live with your father as a girl.
    Thanks for the video.

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому +1

      I fully agree. A girl needs their father 🙏🏽

  • @Mordeluxe.
    @Mordeluxe. Місяць тому

    So excited to dive into this 🥰

  • @keneilwemajola4297
    @keneilwemajola4297 Місяць тому

    Am sooo proud of you 👏🏽 nana 💕🙏🏽

  • @vukonalaurette8753
    @vukonalaurette8753 Місяць тому

    This is my favorite video , really enjoyed it 😊 I love u❤

  • @happym3585
    @happym3585 Місяць тому

    What a wonderful catch-up thank you momma 🌸💕🎀

  • @sophyledwaba3696
    @sophyledwaba3696 Місяць тому

    The word of the day spoke to me, thank you❤

  • @MagadaniMulalo
    @MagadaniMulalo Місяць тому +1

    Queen of consistency LETS GO!!!!

  • @sabusiswadlamini6729
    @sabusiswadlamini6729 Місяць тому

    The last part Wow , love this for you ❤

  • @sipelelemadlulela789
    @sipelelemadlulela789 Місяць тому +30

    Please do a sit down or q and A with your dad

    • @audelshathokoa8810
      @audelshathokoa8810 Місяць тому

      Please do 🙏🏾

    • @HisPrincess_
      @HisPrincess_ Місяць тому

      CANT WAIT FOR THIS ONE SHUUUU LETS BE PREPARES TO TAKE SOME PEARLS OF WISDOM AND TEARS 😭❤️

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому +1

      If he was for it then I really would. Maybe for podcast though ☺️

  • @nomphelomfukeli3421
    @nomphelomfukeli3421 Місяць тому

    I love your openness, your way of living. I remember how you kept me sane during postpartum cz our daughters were born around the same time. Much love Mme Mphamo❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      I am so glad I could help you through that time 🥰 ah man thank you

  • @keneilwemajola4297
    @keneilwemajola4297 Місяць тому +2

    I love the way you love God❤️

  • @thatoselikane9176
    @thatoselikane9176 Місяць тому +1

    Ohhh bonolo ❤️ i really enjoyed this vlog

  • @ronellecandice1536
    @ronellecandice1536 Місяць тому +8

    Omg Bonolo i literally wowed when i heard you also born on the 9th of January 😭😭😭because i ammmm, hey sis, im a 33 year old Capricorn… no kids, no husband yet and listen, i relate to you because girl… i get you. Love your content I see myself in you so much, imagine, 26 and 33 yet I learn so much because you in a different season. I love this man🥺🥺🥺

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Oh wow, I love that! Capricorn queen! 🥰

  • @nkepengmarumo3648
    @nkepengmarumo3648 Місяць тому +1

    I truly enjoyed this video so authentic

    • @nkepengmarumo3648
      @nkepengmarumo3648 Місяць тому

      Ohh wait I came to the comment section prematurely little did I know there is more. The verse of the day was meant especially for me . Thank you Bonolo ❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Thank you 🥹

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      I’m so glad you enjoyed it

  • @Mordeluxe.
    @Mordeluxe. Місяць тому

    This was so beautiful...More car therapy videos will be fun...and you are so self aware so this was quite insightful as much as it was about you ❤

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Ah man, thank you so much! I'm really glad you enjoyed it!

  • @klichynails
    @klichynails Місяць тому

    Thank you Bonolo I really enjoyed the video I really appreciate it ❤

  • @lethabomokobake
    @lethabomokobake Місяць тому

    Loved this so much, I feel like I know you now❤

  • @khanyodee2958
    @khanyodee2958 Місяць тому +6

    The sound on this video 👌

  • @abigalharuzikanwi8950
    @abigalharuzikanwi8950 Місяць тому +1

    I really loved this video❤❤❤ keep it up

  • @sihledikiza6827
    @sihledikiza6827 Місяць тому

    You have two new subscribers in me and my besty thank you very much😂love these car therapy sessions

  • @pheladintefeng
    @pheladintefeng Місяць тому

    Home executive ❤❤ Love that!!!😊

  • @lintle7198
    @lintle7198 Місяць тому +1

    Bonoloooooooo, love love love your essence of being. well damnn wow

  • @aviwebatala5636
    @aviwebatala5636 Місяць тому +1

    Aah this video really touched me as I'm in a season of battling with self-confidence..
    Thank you

    • @bonolo_mphamo
      @bonolo_mphamo  Місяць тому

      Ah man please pray about it, please 🤍