Oh Deb, I can’t even keep all the people in my house happy! And there’s only 3 of them, and 2 of them rely on me for survival!! Just keep doing you and the people who love you will stay!
Your videos are always GREAT and AUTHENTIC! I hope you let the critics comments roll off your back. There will always be critics and you are doing great on this channel and I love watching you. You are an important content creator. ❤
Thank you for your videos! I love all of your friends channels as well and love so much that you talk about your friends. It makes me feel like I’m a little bit a part of it when I watch. And I love that there are other people that are handbag obsessed. And you are winning! You’re amazing and so brave.
I have noticed while watching youtube that there will always be people who make negative comments or complain about the content of a video just because they want to be negative. I’m sure that there are some who are sincere, but in the end, I think they should be mindful and respectful to the creators they watch. As for me, if I don’t like a video because of the subject, then I don’t watch. I consider that a “me” problem. For instance, I don’t always watch a video about ready-to-wear because I’m a plus size woman. Those clothes mostly don’t fit me so sometimes I skip them. But if I decide to watch, I wouldn’t dream of complaining to you, Deb or any other person I follow. I say all of this because I think that you are wonderful and I enjoy watching your channel. Life is often too serious or stressful therefore indulging in a little luxury escapism is what the doctor ordered. Keep being you.
Each one of you in the “Handbag Tribe” have unique style, personalities, and perspectives. Each of you make me think and study either what I already think or to look at a different viewpoint. I so enjoy watching your UA-cam videos and love that I get your perspective on lots of things several times a week. Love your channel❤❤❤❤
Bravo to you for discovering a job/purpose that you not only love but that you are learning and growing! You are blessed. Please do not let the criticizers beat you down. I also think it's great how you, Amelia, Steph and the others are friends. It's women supporting women! I look forward to all your videos!
I enjoy the community talking about one another. It truly feels like we are having girl talk together, and it’s vital in my life. I work in a remote area and this small space provides one of the most relaxing moments in my day.
Love seeing realness! That’s why I started my little channel too! Thank you for sharing your story and I’m sorry you had a struggling transition. Looking forward to more content from you.
Deb, I knew the first time I watched your channel that you were a good and authentic person. I don't know everything about you, but I do know that you are kind and genuine and I'm not surprised that you have been a people pleaser most of your life. You will never be able to make everyone happy. I have seen you grow and find camaraderie with your fellow luxury youtubers, more of who I also watch. It is wonderful to make new friends with people that share the same passion as you. Do what makes you happy and ignore the haters. You give many of my days a bit of a lift :)
Exactly. It is actually escapism. I'm here from the beginning and I don't care about luxury bags. I just love your voice and enthusiasm. Be you. We love it
I cannot for the life of me understand why anyone would have something negative to say about you. You’re doing great! Just keep doing what you’re doing.💜💜
SENDING ALL THE BIG RIGHT BACK AT YOU , LADY !!! 💕💋 You have brought an element of light into my life , and in these ever dark and uncertain times , we all need JOY ! ❤️❤️
Remember you can't please everyone....it's not possible; I don't know how you do the number of video's you do as it is. I think you are precious; just do the best you can....that is all anyone can ask for. 😊
I think you are the one that is coming up with many interesting subjects around luxury and handbags. I totally appreciate the diversity and hearing your thoughts. I think making friends around it is organic. I am on Tik Tok sharing about luxury and I had already made friends out of it. Very few people around us in our life are interested into luxury, so it’s normal to find our people on these platforms. And yes, it’s absolutely impossible to please everyone, so the logical thing to do is just to stick to be yourself and talk about what YOU love. Let’s be honest, many just want to complain about everything without adding anything to the conversation. 😂Anyway, when I’m listening to a video, whoever is the creator, I’m trying to leave a comment. To me, it’s respecting to work under it and it’s showing support for all of you to keep going. Thank you for the entertainment!
I love when my favourite UA-camrs talk about each other. I love when you all get together because then I know there will be lots of interesting content and I’ll see things from a bunch of different perspectives, and there will be lots of unboxings.😂 Your content is amazing. I watch every single video. I too play them when I’m cooking, picking out clothes for the week, ironing, etc. Please ignore the malcontents. Imagine being upset because someone mentions their friends. 😏
Deb, first off we love you just the way you are. I love when you talk about friends. (I watch their videos too). I ADORE unboxings! I never gets old. You keep doing what you and enjoy, and we will continue to enjoy it too. Because when you are having fun, so are we!!!
Deb, you are refreshingly authentic. You faced the unknown when you started your channel. You discovered like minded people who appreciate that there are other people who share their interests. I can relate to leaving a high pressure job and starting a new chapter. Thank you for sharing your beautiful purchases and honest opinions. You are part of an awesome community. Keep up the good work, and remember you can’t please everyone. That is ok.
I love all the smaller luxury youtubers. Theres an authenticity and a genuine conversation that we dont get to have in our real lives. You, amongst your little group like Amelia and Dayle, are very appreciated to people like me who live alone with this niche hobby...
There's always going to be a grumblebum. Ignore them! This channel is an outlet for YOU, as mine is for me, as Meredith's/Amelia's/Dayle's/Claire's/Lisa's/OMG ANYONES'S is for them, so we should do whatever the heck we want with them! 🤘🏻😘💕 x
Deb, you are yourself you are Real. I for one love watching you Ladies with your bags. Its the happiness that they bring you and that in turn males me want to watch. You cannot please everyone, something Ive recently learnt. If they don’t like what your saying or seeing then its their loss. Keep being you, you are fabulous. Shout out to the CoCo Cambon Trio ❤️
Your content is creative and I love the titles of the videos. They draw me in! Your presentation are lovely and genuine. There are some "you tubers" in the luxury space who seem to just brag about their purchases. You don't so that. Love your enthusiasm!
Morning Deb, I’m a fairly new subscriber and I so appreciate your authenticity. I love your reviews of your collection and I also like it when creators talk about prospective new bag releases and I like it when they take us out on trips to big stores that I can’t necessarily get to. I really enjoyed the NY trip footage to see places like Fashionphile because I’m probably never ever going to get the chance to visit. Keep being you Deb because watching you is my little bit of escapism 🥰
For the life of me I can never understand those who watch a luxury channel and then complain about unboxings and discussions of luxury items. There is no making those people happy and you shouldn't even try! Be authentic to yourself and don't even try to make everyone happy--think how boring that channel would be. You're doing a great job Deb!
Thank you for this post. I am always wanting to start a channel and I’ve actually recorded videos and haven’t uploaded. I think the concern on negative feedback I may receive really makes me think twice. My husband (always positive) says I should just go for it. I’ll think it over but In the meantime I will continue to watch some of the lovely people I’ve found in the luxury community. Best wishes to you. You’re always so positive and your collection is lovely. It’s a pleasure to see.
Luxury is about presentation…ie unboxing..it sounds like the people that complain about luxury…can’t AFFORD it…hence they leave nasty comments…these viewers may want to subscribe to channels that review dupes..those are much more affordable❤
Deb, ignore your haters!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are Fabulous!!! If viewers don't like unboxings they probably need to find something else to watch! I love your channel and can't wait for you to drop videos. Please keep up the AWESOME job!
I agree with what the others are saying and just wanted to add that if you don’t create content YOU enjoy then you won’t continue, similar to what may have happened with your accounting career. So keep following your passion and let the naysayers scroll on. We all evolve and, much as your content may evolve so may viewer preferences. Have a great week!!❤
It’s a handbag channel! What on earth is wrong with people! I don’t even buy anything luxury beyond Longchamp pricing…but years ago started watching 🩷💚Gwenny💚🩷 and I love her! I started watching others because of her shenanigans. I would not worry for 1 second about pleasing the silly people! ❤️❤️
I would LOVE to see you doing some more travel vlogs , I am fascinated at luxury in places like China , South America etc ..Milan looks amazing , lots of older people walking around in chic splendor, and let's not forget Paris , would LOVE to see you exploring more 😁🙏🙏❤️xxx
I love your videos, and I do enjoy them! ❤️ A lot of your content is educational and therapeutic as well! Please, keep doing what you doing and don't let those mean comments get in to you! Noone can please everyone, so for those who don't like something - simply don't watch! Looking forward for your new videos!
Like you said, you’ll never be able to please everyone. Just do you. If someone doesn’t like it, let them scroll on. I enjoy your channel. If you talk about something I’m not particularly interested in, I scroll on. I think some people are just unhappy in general. Some people are jealous. Some people can’t stand for someone else to be or do something they aren’t. So enjoy your life, your friends and family, your bags, and your channel. Let the other people blow smoke to be crude. But seriously, you are a kind and lovely woman. Don’t let the nasty ones get you down. 😊
That’s so kind. So many people can be genuine and will switch off or scroll on if they are not interested or enjoying the content. However there is a small minority who are intent on being negative and nasty. I don’t get it! Thank you so much for your support x
Ok, I’m middle market because my brand is Mulberry BUT, I agree with your title. People can’t grasp the concept ‘something is only worth what someone is willing to pay’.
Love your work, love listening to you. Always puzzled when I see negative comments on this or other channels. If someone annoys me/I don’t like their content I don’t subscribe, I don’t watch. It’s not hard is it?
My Mother's accountant just thrown the towel in, too much new regulations he said, so I wish you well. It's not common to find good friends fiends who are fellow content creators. From a viewers point of view its nice to see. All the best to you 💜
Your conclusion of doing content you would love to watch and doing what you love and are passionate about is key to success.My son is also a UA-camr and has been doing it for 12 years.He just ploughs through and people seem to stick with him and he has made a very successful career out of it. Like you he has a passion for what he does.I Love your channel. Funny that he always makes fun of me because I write Channel "Chanel" and he says to me it's not a Handbag!😂🤣
😂 love this! He has done so well sticking at this for all that time. That’s def commitment. Thank you for your support! Ps my text always changes channel to Chanel as predictive text! 😂
I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL and you do not need to do videos to please the masses. You are so real and so good at what you do.... keep doing it. I feel your authenticity, you bring your own perspective and I think you are interesting! I do not mind you dropping names in the vids because we are ALL LIKE FRIENDS =) We watch those friends of yours and although I haven't met any of you IRL, it doesn't matter...we are all in the same community and friends! Love U!!!! Do U!!!
I’m on the same wave length as you. I left my 13 year career and decided to film a video for fun. Now it has turned into a side job for me. I am struggling juggling work & UA-cam. There just isn’t enough time for it all lol. I don’t make nearly enough to quit my day job and just do UA-cam.
You’re doing amazing Melissa. It’s def takes up a lot of time to put content together. I am very lucky to be able to have a go at UA-cam without worrying about earning. I’m much older than you though! X
I am so confused by people watching a channel about luxury handbags and then being annoyed by unboxings. If they aren't interested in these bags then why are they watching? And if you only bought a bag or two a year, then you'd have a pretty boring luxury handbag channel. I also love learning about other channels by creators linking each other. Thank you for the wonderful fantasy escapism content in this very stressful time.
I love what you’ve said in this video. As an accountant myself, I totally understand where you’re coming from and what sort of stress you’ve been through. Because of it, I’m 100% resonate with on why you’ve started your channel. It’s a fun place to talk about bags, luxury and things we love with like minded people cos Knowing someone like us in real life is rare as we often being judged as materialistic and superficial, so we tend to play things down. I’m so glad I found your channel and just subscribed. ❤ Carry on with the great content with your channel, love your sincere views on bags, pls don’t let the moaners get to you. I’ve only have 350 subscribes for my channel, the number of dislikes on some of my videos are insane😂 what can we do, smile, flick the hair, give them a side eye 😂😂😂
You need to do you. Make videos that make you happy. If anything looks repetitive to me I just move on. No negative comments are needed. Don’t give the trolls your energy. They don’t deserve it.
Deb: You are correct in saying your viewers don't actually know you. In my opinion, you seem to be a genuine, transparent and kind person. I also think you are very sensitive. I follow your videos and read the comments. Unless you immediately delete the negative comments, there are very very few. You can't invite comments and not expect contrasting views. Continue to be yourself and enjoy what you're doing. Let the truly negative, jelousy inspired comments speak for the unkind writers. ♥♥♥
Thank you. Yes it’s very hard not to be affected by negativity. I have put myself out there and do invite comments. I just hope they are constructive and kind. We are all learning and evolving and I’m navigating this as my channel grows as I’m dealing with this for the first time x
Ignore the haters and don’t feed the trolls! I think there are people who are miserable in their own lives, and they use social media as an outlet to release all their misery and negativity. Nothing you do or don’t do will change that. Enjoy yourself and focus on all the positive comments!
I know from the outset that your bag choices won't be my bag choices (even when funds allow), but that's okay, (it's more than okay because I'd like to think my style is individual). Neither do I get triggered by you buying more than I do, I don't buy above my means, and I don't envy those who have more. Mention your UA-cam friends as much as you, and they are comfortable with - thats how I found you all, one led to another, and so on! And stay true to yourself. Yes, your content and YT style will probably evolve with time. It'd be weird if it never ever changed as you grow and evolve. As for unboxings, how are you supposed to show different luxury bags if you never get anything new, and again, you have more spending power than me. That's totally fine, I may envy the odd purchase (in a good way), but that's only because I like the bag! As a viewer, I try to show respect, I'll try to make my comments and any criticism positive, and the latter only when asked for. There's no need for me to say I think something is hideous, but articulating why I don't think it's for me can be done in a respectful manner.
This is exactly how it should be! We all love diff things and that’s what makes the world go round. How we go about articulating that is down to common decency and respect. I appreciate your support x
You know Deb, we all love bags that it !!! We all have a price point, yours is much higher than mine hun , I love your Hermes 35 black my dream bag will I ever on one no probably not , but hey ho , I just bought a red leather Kurt kirger I’ve Wanted for a while I’ve wanted a red bag for a while ,,,,, why Deb it’s coming up to amestice day my dad’s birthday nov 11th I have a lovely poppy scarf and just wanted an extra pop of colour , does it matter hun keep goi g be yourself hun ❤and do want you want to do ❤
I enjoy your videos . I love your content . I can feel how authentic you are and how hard you work to come up with ideas everytime . There's just one thing , if I may say . I hope it doesn't come out as criticism . I hope you accept it as constructive feedback . I really think your bags are too good for that shelving unit behind you . The wall color is too dull and the black shelf unit and black furniture are kind of uninteresting ( at least for me ) . Part of enjoying looking and appreciating bags is the display . As a viewer that's all I see during the video . Pls don't be offended , it's just how I perceive things .
Thank you for your support. I’m not offended in the slightest. We all have diff tastes and that is how it should be. Would be a boring world if we all liked the same aesthetics. I appreciate not everyone likes such neutral backgrounds but I like it. I love grey and black. Plus I hope it lets the colours of the bags do the talking. Totally understand if you don’t like the shelving but I hope you understand that I do like it x
Meredith can't take criticism. She is very defensive. And to be honest, she is snooty. Also, even though channel like yours are solely about luxury un-boxings, it has become un-relatable due to the amount of bags you purchase and is what subscribers begin to question. Many YTbers, clearly, have been outed, only to create content for the sole purpose of unboxing a bag, only to return it right after. It's become misleading, a lie.
As you know Meredith is a dear friend of mine and she is anything but snooty. She’s a fabulous lady who I’m proud to call a friend. That aside my channel is about sharing my thoughts and feelings over these beautiful items. It is not meant to be about who has the most or who can buy what. So please take it for what it is. Escapism and entertainment- none of my friends in this community buy for content and then send back items so you don’t need to worry about anyone’s credibility or authenticity x
@@Wildunfiltered Believe me when I say Meredith can't take criticism. Even her SA in Sydney, welcomes her in-store and calls her Madam Meredith (according to a claim she made in a video of hers). There's an innuendo when someone is addressed that way and I doubt she caught the implications of it. And she does come across likes she's better than anyone of us.
@dapperlygrungy3189 I take people as I find them personally and Meredith is a wonderful human. Very loving generous and a world away from your comments. Take it from someone who knows her well x
I always wonder why people watch if they aren't interested or they have negative commentary ... It's not mandatory. I literally read a comment somewhere that said ... What a waste of money, go feed a hungry cat That might or might not be true I love cats and supporting hungry animals But this isn't the ASPCA it's a luxury handbag channel ... Don't watch, it's really that simple
You can’t drive in two lanes at the same time, you’ll have to pick one and stick to it. Some people will leave and more will come that like what you’re doing. I’m having similar struggle at about the same subscriber count and it’s frustrating. I’ve been watching you on and off for years and the only thing i really haven’t liked is your stance on Balenciaga.
@@Wildunfiltered that’s kind of you. Regarding Balenciaga, in your video on September 26th titled “Turning Down a Sold Out Bag…”, at 10:43 you start discussing the brand and whether they deserve a second chance and you say that you and Dayle discussed it and “at some point we all have to move on” Really? From what they did and what that campaign implied? It seemed to me in that video that your moral compass aligns with sweeping that under the rug in order to give yourself permission to buy something pretty which is a huge problem for me and it seemed it was a big issue for many others as well. Every brand has its problems, that is for sure, but for me Balenciaga crossed the rubicon and I will be hard pressed to ever consider supporting them in any way, even peripherally.
You’re going to get judged, especially on UA-cam. The problem is not with your audience. It would be nice if you could accept constructive criticism. Interacting with your subscribers is a two-way street. I was attracted to your channel because of the “unfiltered” title but I didn’t realize that “unfiltered” only applies to you. Be more respective and open-minded to people’s comments that you may not like to hear because it’s been statistically proven that for each one complaint, there are 5,000 other people who don’t bother voicing their complaint. You need to put your own insecurities aside and not be triggered by a critical comment. Instead, you should appreciate the person taking time and caring to try to help you. And, responding in a passive-aggressive sweet comment is not the way to go. No need to name drop. No need to a$$ kiss. No need to be the victim and fish for support. Just be you. Some people will like you and others won’t but try to learn from those that don’t because often times, they’re not wrong. Lighten up a bit.
Unfiltered means we can chat about anything without fear of judgment- it doesn’t mean people should be free to be negative or to be unkind. You are always welcome to watch or not watch. The choice is yours. I think we are all allowed our own opinions and I am allowed to disagree with comments if that is how I feel. That doesn’t mean I haven’t been respectful to the point. It just means I don’t agree. Surely that’s how it should be.
@@Wildunfiltered There's no such thing as no judgment or all positive comments. I don't know where you came up with that definition of "unfiltered". "What does it mean to be unfiltered? Not having been toned down, censored, or edited."
My definition is being able to express our feelings without fear of repercussions or consequences of airing those feelings. Being able to say how we feel without someone deciding we are wrong or being negative. Just being free to express.
Oh Deb, I can’t even keep all the people in my house happy! And there’s only 3 of them, and 2 of them rely on me for survival!! Just keep doing you and the people who love you will stay!
😂 this is so true! I can’t make everyone happy when I’m alone so there’s no chance! 😂
True, same in my house.... cleaning, cooking, laundry and have sex with my husband when tired😂😂😂😂😂😂
Always fun to watch you. It’s like sitting down with a friend for coffee.
Love this x
Your videos are always GREAT and AUTHENTIC! I hope you let the critics comments roll off your back. There will always be critics and you are doing great on this channel and I love watching you. You are an important content creator. ❤
Thank you so much! I’m loving it x
Thank you for your videos! I love all of your friends channels as well and love so much that you talk about your friends. It makes me feel like I’m a little bit a part of it when I watch. And I love that there are other people that are handbag obsessed. And you are winning! You’re amazing and so brave.
Thank you so much. It does take some courage to try but it’s so liberating x
I have noticed while watching youtube that there will always be people who make negative comments or complain about the content of a video just because they want to be negative. I’m sure that there are some who are sincere, but in the end, I think they should be mindful and respectful to the creators they watch. As for me, if I don’t like a video because of the subject, then I don’t watch. I consider that a “me” problem. For instance, I don’t always watch a video about ready-to-wear because I’m a plus size woman. Those clothes mostly don’t fit me so sometimes I skip them. But if I decide to watch, I wouldn’t dream of complaining to you, Deb or any other person I follow. I say all of this because I think that you are wonderful and I enjoy watching your channel. Life is often too serious or stressful therefore indulging in a little luxury escapism is what the doctor ordered. Keep being you.
Yep there are def some people who take delight in being negative. Dressing it up as advice doesn’t make it ok to be unkind.
Each one of you in the “Handbag Tribe” have unique style, personalities, and perspectives. Each of you make me think and study either what I already think or to look at a different viewpoint. I so enjoy watching your UA-cam videos and love that I get your perspective on lots of things several times a week. Love your channel❤❤❤❤
Wow, thank you! Really appreciate it x
Bravo to you for discovering a job/purpose that you not only love but that you are learning and growing! You are blessed. Please do not let the criticizers beat you down. I also think it's great how you, Amelia, Steph and the others are friends. It's women supporting women! I look forward to all your videos!
Thank you so much. I honestly love our community x
If I’m totally honest I will watch whatever content you put out because I just enjoy watching you ! ❤
You’re very kind x
All we can do is stay true to ourselves, some people will like us, some won’t. Keep being you my friend because you are fab x
Thanks love. As always appreciate you x
Deb you will never please all of the people all of the time my love , just be yourself and live your life and enjoy ❤
Exactly x
I've been quietly here for many months. Love your content. Keep on going!
Thank you so much. Thank you for commenting! X
I love your authentic chatty content and your unboxings. I can live vicariously through you as I can’t afford to shop atm. 😂
Oh thank you!🙏🏻
I enjoy the community talking about one another. It truly feels like we are having girl talk together, and it’s vital in my life. I work in a remote area and this small space provides one of the most relaxing moments in my day.
Aw I love this! This is why I love my channel and building a community. X
Love seeing realness! That’s why I started my little channel too! Thank you for sharing your story and I’m sorry you had a struggling transition. Looking forward to more content from you.
Aw thank you so much. Good luck with your channel x
Deb, I knew the first time I watched your channel that you were a good and authentic person. I don't know everything about you, but I do know that you are kind and genuine and I'm not surprised that you have been a people pleaser most of your life. You will never be able to make everyone happy. I have seen you grow and find camaraderie with your fellow luxury youtubers, more of who I also watch. It is wonderful to make new friends with people that share the same passion as you. Do what makes you happy and ignore the haters. You give many of my days a bit of a lift :)
Aw that’s so lovely. Thank you so much. Means a lot x
Exactly. It is actually escapism. I'm here from the beginning and I don't care about luxury bags. I just love your voice and enthusiasm. Be you. We love it
Thank you so much. Appreciate your support x
I cannot for the life of me understand why anyone would have something negative to say about you. You’re doing great!
Just keep doing what you’re doing.💜💜
Thank you so much! Haters gonna hate!
Don’t listen to the trolls and negative people. You are doing just fine. I love your style and all you share with us.❤
Thank you so much ☺️
SENDING ALL THE BIG RIGHT BACK AT YOU , LADY !!! 💕💋 You have brought an element of light into my life , and in these ever dark and uncertain times , we all need JOY ! ❤️❤️
Aw thank you so much x
Remember you can't please everyone....it's not possible; I don't know how you do the number of video's you do as it is. I think you are precious; just do the best you can....that is all anyone can ask for. 😊
You’re very kind x
I think you are the one that is coming up with many interesting subjects around luxury and handbags. I totally appreciate the diversity and hearing your thoughts. I think making friends around it is organic. I am on Tik Tok sharing about luxury and I had already made friends out of it. Very few people around us in our life are interested into luxury, so it’s normal to find our people on these platforms. And yes, it’s absolutely impossible to please everyone, so the logical thing to do is just to stick to be yourself and talk about what YOU love. Let’s be honest, many just want to complain about everything without adding anything to the conversation. 😂Anyway, when I’m listening to a video, whoever is the creator, I’m trying to leave a comment. To me, it’s respecting to work under it and it’s showing support for all of you to keep going. Thank you for the entertainment!
Aw I love this. Yes we can find so many amazing things on these platforms. I’ve made some amazing friends x
I love when my favourite UA-camrs talk about each other. I love when you all get together because then I know there will be lots of interesting content and I’ll see things from a bunch of different perspectives, and there will be lots of unboxings.😂 Your content is amazing. I watch every single video. I too play them when I’m cooking, picking out clothes for the week, ironing, etc. Please ignore the malcontents. Imagine being upset because someone mentions their friends. 😏
Thank you so much. You’re very kind. X
You are doing a wonderful job. Ignore trolls. Your bags are lovely and so are you. ❤️❤️
Thank you so much!
You keep being you Deb that’s why we all watch you i throughly enjoy your videos ❤
Thanks so much. That’s very kind x
The thing that comes with growth is criticism unfortunately- lean into it, there is heaps to learn and even more to ignore! Love your work Deb!
Wise words my love! 😍
I love your friendly, fun, warm take on handbags. Keep going.
Oh thank you!
Deb, first off we love you just the way you are. I love when you talk about friends. (I watch their videos too). I ADORE unboxings! I never gets old. You keep doing what you and enjoy, and we will continue to enjoy it too. Because when you are having fun, so are we!!!
That’s so kind x
I also listen to you when I do other things at home. You have such a lovely voice and inspiring content :-) I hope you continue your vlogs :-)
Thank you so much!☺️
I don't understand why people would be annoyed when UA-camrs talk about one another, especially if it's in a supportive way.
Beats me!
If ppl don’t like it they will move on. Just be you, your beautiful self
I wish people would move on rather than leave negative comments x
Deb, you are refreshingly authentic. You faced the unknown when you started your channel. You discovered like minded people who appreciate that there are other people who share their interests. I can relate to leaving a high pressure job and starting a new chapter. Thank you for sharing your beautiful purchases and honest opinions. You are part of an awesome community. Keep up the good work, and remember you can’t please everyone. That is ok.
Thank you so much. Yes it does take some courage to start a channel and put yourself out there but it’s def been worth it. So liberating x
Own your vibe, Deb! Keep being authentically you, and let the world catch up. 🔥
Yes! Thank you!🙏🏻
I love all the smaller luxury youtubers. Theres an authenticity and a genuine conversation that we dont get to have in our real lives. You, amongst your little group like Amelia and Dayle, are very appreciated to people like me who live alone with this niche hobby...
Aw that’s lovely. X
There's always going to be a grumblebum. Ignore them! This channel is an outlet for YOU, as mine is for me, as Meredith's/Amelia's/Dayle's/Claire's/Lisa's/OMG ANYONES'S is for them, so we should do whatever the heck we want with them! 🤘🏻😘💕 x
Well said! Can’t believe you get any Grumblebums on your channel!
Deb, love ALL of your videos AND your friends - I follow them all. Be true to yourself and I will keep watching. Haters gonna hate - ignore them!
Thank you so much x
I love listening to you. I find you intelligent, witty and inspiring. Pls keep up the good work.
Wow, thank you. That is so kind x
Deb, you are yourself you are Real. I for one love watching you Ladies with your bags. Its the happiness that they bring you and that in turn males me want to watch. You cannot please everyone, something Ive recently learnt. If they don’t like what your saying or seeing then its their loss. Keep being you, you are fabulous. Shout out to the CoCo Cambon Trio ❤️
Yes! The trio! X
Your content is creative and I love the titles of the videos. They draw me in! Your presentation are lovely and genuine. There are some "you tubers" in the luxury space who seem to just brag about their purchases. You don't so that. Love your enthusiasm!
Thank you so much! You’re very kind xx
Morning Deb, I’m a fairly new subscriber and I so appreciate your authenticity. I love your reviews of your collection and I also like it when creators talk about prospective new bag releases and I like it when they take us out on trips to big stores that I can’t necessarily get to. I really enjoyed the NY trip footage to see places like Fashionphile because I’m probably never ever going to get the chance to visit. Keep being you Deb because watching you is my little bit of escapism 🥰
Thank you so much for your support and also for taking the time to subscribe and comment. This is why I love my channel x
I watch UA-cam while I do my workouts. And you are one of my favorites ❤😊
Aw that’s fabulous! What workout do you love doing? X
For the life of me I can never understand those who watch a luxury channel and then complain about unboxings and discussions of luxury items. There is no making those people happy and you shouldn't even try! Be authentic to yourself and don't even try to make everyone happy--think how boring that channel would be. You're doing a great job Deb!
Thank you so much x
Stay the course, Deb! I learn much from you and your friends.
Thank you, that means a lot x
Love you Deb! So glad you started your channel :)
Love you too! Very grateful for your friendship and support xxx
Thank you for this post. I am always wanting to start a channel and I’ve actually recorded videos and haven’t uploaded. I think the concern on negative feedback I may receive really makes me think twice. My husband (always positive) says I should just go for it. I’ll think it over but In the meantime I will continue to watch some of the lovely people I’ve found in the luxury community. Best wishes to you. You’re always so positive and your collection is lovely. It’s a pleasure to see.
You are half way there if you have already ready recorded some 🎥
Just make a start. It’s soooo liberating!
Luxury is about presentation…ie unboxing..it sounds like the people that complain about luxury…can’t AFFORD it…hence they leave nasty comments…these viewers may want to subscribe to channels that review dupes..those are much more affordable❤
I work in accounts too, it really is hard. Mental fatigue.
Stressful beyond belief!
I appreciate your commitment to posting consistently. You, Jess, Meredith, and Amelia are the handful of UA-camrs that do.
It’s a lot of work. But we love it x
Deb, ignore your haters!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are Fabulous!!! If viewers don't like unboxings they probably need to find something else to watch! I love your channel and can't wait for you to drop videos. Please keep up the AWESOME job!
Thank you so much! That is so kind x
I like what you talk about!!! Don't let the naysayers get you down.
Thank you. I’ll try x
I am watching you as I work right now! I love heating you speak about your passions.
Thank you so much x
I agree with what the others are saying and just wanted to add that if you don’t create content YOU enjoy then you won’t continue, similar to what may have happened with your accounting career. So keep following your passion and let the naysayers scroll on. We all evolve and, much as your content may evolve so may viewer preferences. Have a great week!!❤
Thank you so much x
Thank you for you! You always make me smile:))
Aw thank you x
It’s a handbag channel! What on earth is wrong with people! I don’t even buy anything luxury beyond Longchamp pricing…but years ago started watching 🩷💚Gwenny💚🩷 and I love her! I started watching others because of her shenanigans. I would not worry for 1 second about pleasing the silly people! ❤️❤️
Aw love this! Thank you so much. Gwenny is the best!
Deb I love your videos you are honest and authentic, always be yourself and don’t worry about what anyone else says!!!❤
Thank you so much x
I would LOVE to see you doing some more travel vlogs , I am fascinated at luxury in places like China , South America etc ..Milan looks amazing , lots of older people walking around in chic splendor, and let's not forget Paris , would LOVE to see you exploring more 😁🙏🙏❤️xxx
Great video ✨ I really enjoy your videos 🙂
Thank you so much!
I love your videos, and I do enjoy them! ❤️ A lot of your content is educational and therapeutic as well! Please, keep doing what you doing and don't let those mean comments get in to you! Noone can please everyone, so for those who don't like something - simply don't watch!
Looking forward for your new videos!
Thank you so much!! Really appreciate your support x
I love your videos. I always look forward to your videos and listen to them as I make dinner or doing chores ❤
Love this!
Like you said, you’ll never be able to please everyone. Just do you. If someone doesn’t like it, let them scroll on. I enjoy your channel. If you talk about something I’m not particularly interested in, I scroll on. I think some people are just unhappy in general. Some people are jealous. Some people can’t stand for someone else to be or do something they aren’t. So enjoy your life, your friends and family, your bags, and your channel. Let the other people blow smoke to be crude. But seriously, you are a kind and lovely woman. Don’t let the nasty ones get you down. 😊
That’s so kind. So many people can be genuine and will switch off or scroll on if they are not interested or enjoying the content. However there is a small minority who are intent on being negative and nasty. I don’t get it! Thank you so much for your support x
Well said! Keep your great content coming!
Thank you! Will do!
Ok, I’m middle market because my brand is Mulberry BUT, I agree with your title. People can’t grasp the concept ‘something is only worth what someone is willing to pay’.
Exactly x
Love your work, love listening to you. Always puzzled when I see negative comments on this or other channels. If someone annoys me/I don’t like their content I don’t subscribe, I don’t watch. It’s not hard is it?
Thank you so much. You would think so eh? X
My Mother's accountant just thrown the towel in, too much new regulations he said, so I wish you well. It's not common to find good friends fiends who are fellow content creators. From a viewers point of view its nice to see. All the best to you 💜
Thank you so much. Yes the regulation side is no fun x
Your conclusion of doing content you would love to watch and doing what you love and are passionate about is key to success.My son is also a UA-camr and has been doing it for 12 years.He just ploughs through and people seem to stick with him and he has made a very successful career out of it. Like you he has a passion for what he does.I Love your channel. Funny that he always makes fun of me because I write Channel "Chanel" and he says to me it's not a Handbag!😂🤣
😂 love this! He has done so well sticking at this for all that time. That’s def commitment. Thank you for your support! Ps my text always changes channel to Chanel as predictive text! 😂
Don’t stress about any negativity. Just keep being authentically fabulous. “Smile & wave” 😂😂😂😂❤
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I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL and you do not need to do videos to please the masses. You are so real and so good at what you do.... keep doing it. I feel your authenticity, you bring your own perspective and I think you are interesting! I do not mind you dropping names in the vids because we are ALL LIKE FRIENDS =) We watch those friends of yours and although I haven't met any of you IRL, it doesn't matter...we are all in the same community and friends! Love U!!!! Do U!!!
Love this!
Nearly 2.5yrs…Where has that time gone 🥰
Flown by!
I also follow all your UA-cam friends🤩. So I love when you mention them❤
Thank you 🙏🏻
I so look forward to your videos. I love all of it. Please don't stop. (Also I actually found Amelia and Meredith through you!)
Aw that’s amazing. They are amazing ladies x
@@Wildunfiltered They are indeed. And so are you!
I’m on the same wave length as you. I left my 13 year career and decided to film a video for fun.
Now it has turned into a side job for me. I am struggling juggling work & UA-cam. There just isn’t enough time for it all lol. I don’t make nearly enough to quit my day job and just do UA-cam.
You’re doing amazing Melissa. It’s def takes up a lot of time to put content together. I am very lucky to be able to have a go at UA-cam without worrying about earning. I’m much older than you though! X
I am so confused by people watching a channel about luxury handbags and then being annoyed by unboxings. If they aren't interested in these bags then why are they watching? And if you only bought a bag or two a year, then you'd have a pretty boring luxury handbag channel. I also love learning about other channels by creators linking each other. Thank you for the wonderful fantasy escapism content in this very stressful time.
Thank you. 🙏🏻 I love this channel as we can chat about bags we love and see it for what it is - entertainment escapism but also connection x
I love what you’ve said in this video. As an accountant myself, I totally understand where you’re coming from and what sort of stress you’ve been through. Because of it, I’m 100% resonate with on why you’ve started your channel. It’s a fun place to talk about bags, luxury and things we love with like minded people cos Knowing someone like us in real life is rare as we often being judged as materialistic and superficial, so we tend to play things down. I’m so glad I found your channel and just subscribed. ❤ Carry on with the great content with your channel, love your sincere views on bags, pls don’t let the moaners get to you. I’ve only have 350 subscribes for my channel, the number of dislikes on some of my videos are insane😂 what can we do, smile, flick the hair, give them a side eye 😂😂😂
Love this! And congrats on starting your channel. Yes I needed an outlet to find like minded people as many people in my real life just don’t get it!
You need to do you. Make videos that make you happy. If anything looks repetitive to me I just move on. No negative comments are needed. Don’t give the trolls your energy. They don’t deserve it.
So true. I try to respond to everyone but it gets harder when there is negativity x
Deb: You are correct in saying your viewers don't actually know you. In my opinion, you seem to be a genuine, transparent and kind person. I also think you are very sensitive. I follow your videos and read the comments. Unless you immediately delete the negative comments, there are very very few. You can't invite comments and not expect contrasting views. Continue to be yourself and enjoy what you're doing. Let the truly negative, jelousy inspired comments speak for the unkind writers. ♥♥♥
Thank you. Yes it’s very hard not to be affected by negativity. I have put myself out there and do invite comments. I just hope they are constructive and kind. We are all learning and evolving and I’m navigating this as my channel grows as I’m dealing with this for the first time x
Keep being you ❤
Thank you 🙏🏻
Ignore the haters and don’t feed the trolls! I think there are people who are miserable in their own lives, and they use social media as an outlet to release all their misery and negativity. Nothing you do or don’t do will change that. Enjoy yourself and focus on all the positive comments!
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I love listening to your accent.😊
Thank you! 😃
always love everything all ladies so wonderful
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I know from the outset that your bag choices won't be my bag choices (even when funds allow), but that's okay, (it's more than okay because I'd like to think my style is individual). Neither do I get triggered by you buying more than I do, I don't buy above my means, and I don't envy those who have more.
Mention your UA-cam friends as much as you, and they are comfortable with - thats how I found you all, one led to another, and so on!
And stay true to yourself. Yes, your content and YT style will probably evolve with time. It'd be weird if it never ever changed as you grow and evolve. As for unboxings, how are you supposed to show different luxury bags if you never get anything new, and again, you have more spending power than me. That's totally fine, I may envy the odd purchase (in a good way), but that's only because I like the bag!
As a viewer, I try to show respect, I'll try to make my comments and any criticism positive, and the latter only when asked for. There's no need for me to say I think something is hideous, but articulating why I don't think it's for me can be done in a respectful manner.
This is exactly how it should be! We all love diff things and that’s what makes the world go round. How we go about articulating that is down to common decency and respect. I appreciate your support x
You know Deb, we all love bags that it !!! We all have a price point, yours is much higher than mine hun , I love your Hermes 35 black my dream bag will I ever on one no probably not , but hey ho , I just bought a red leather Kurt kirger I’ve
Wanted for a while I’ve wanted a red bag for a while ,,,,, why Deb it’s coming up to amestice day my dad’s birthday nov 11th I have a lovely poppy scarf and just wanted an extra pop of colour , does it matter hun keep goi g be yourself hun ❤and do want you want to do ❤
Sounds amazing! Love a pop of red x
❤❤❤you be you❣️✌️
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I enjoy your videos . I love your content . I can feel how authentic you are and how hard you work to come up with ideas everytime . There's just one thing , if I may say . I hope it doesn't come out as criticism . I hope you accept it as constructive feedback . I really think your bags are too good for that shelving unit behind you . The wall color is too dull and the black shelf unit and black furniture are kind of uninteresting ( at least for me ) . Part of enjoying looking and appreciating bags is the display . As a viewer that's all I see during the video . Pls don't be offended , it's just how I perceive things .
Thank you for your support. I’m not offended in the slightest. We all have diff tastes and that is how it should be. Would be a boring world if we all liked the same aesthetics. I appreciate not everyone likes such neutral backgrounds but I like it. I love grey and black. Plus I hope it lets the colours of the bags do the talking. Totally understand if you don’t like the shelving but I hope you understand that I do like it x
Don’t answer the people in the comments. Just do what you want.
Yep I try to respond to everyone but it’s getting harder to respond to people who clearly want a fight x best to ignore. X
Meredith can't take criticism. She is very defensive. And to be honest, she is snooty. Also, even though channel like yours are solely about luxury un-boxings, it has become un-relatable due to the amount of bags you purchase and is what subscribers begin to question. Many YTbers, clearly, have been outed, only to create content for the sole purpose of unboxing a bag, only to return it right after. It's become misleading, a lie.
As you know Meredith is a dear friend of mine and she is anything but snooty. She’s a fabulous lady who I’m proud to call a friend. That aside my channel is about sharing my thoughts and feelings over these beautiful items. It is not meant to be about who has the most or who can buy what. So please take it for what it is. Escapism and entertainment- none of my friends in this community buy for content and then send back items so you don’t need to worry about anyone’s credibility or authenticity x
@@Wildunfiltered Believe me when I say Meredith can't take criticism. Even her SA in Sydney, welcomes her in-store and calls her Madam Meredith (according to a claim she made in a video of hers). There's an innuendo when someone is addressed that way and I doubt she caught the implications of it. And she does come across likes she's better than anyone of us.
@dapperlygrungy3189 I take people as I find them personally and Meredith is a wonderful human. Very loving generous and a world away from your comments. Take it from someone who knows her well x
I always wonder why people watch if they aren't interested or they have negative commentary ... It's not mandatory. I literally read a comment somewhere that said ... What a waste of money, go feed a hungry cat
That might or might not be true
I love cats and supporting hungry animals
But this isn't the ASPCA it's a luxury handbag channel ... Don't watch, it's really that simple
You would think it’s simple but not to everyone. It really confuses me but I guess we are all different x
You can’t drive in two lanes at the same time, you’ll have to pick one and stick to it. Some people will leave and more will come that like what you’re doing. I’m having similar struggle at about the same subscriber count and it’s frustrating. I’ve been watching you on and off for years and the only thing i really haven’t liked is your stance on Balenciaga.
I need to check out your channel! Thank you so much. I haven’t really shared my stance of Balenciaga- is that what you mean?
@@Wildunfiltered that’s kind of you. Regarding Balenciaga, in your video on September 26th titled “Turning Down a Sold Out Bag…”, at 10:43 you start discussing the brand and whether they deserve a second chance and you say that you and Dayle discussed it and “at some point we all have to move on” Really? From what they did and what that campaign implied? It seemed to me in that video that your moral compass aligns with sweeping that under the rug in order to give yourself permission to buy something pretty which is a huge problem for me and it seemed it was a big issue for many others as well. Every brand has its problems, that is for sure, but for me Balenciaga crossed the rubicon and I will be hard pressed to ever consider supporting them in any way, even peripherally.
Totally understand your point. I think I was clumsy with my words. I think I was trying to say that lessons have to be learned in order to move on. X
You’re going to get judged, especially on UA-cam. The problem is not with your audience. It would be nice if you could accept constructive criticism. Interacting with your subscribers is a two-way street. I was attracted to your channel because of the “unfiltered” title but I didn’t realize that “unfiltered” only applies to you. Be more respective and open-minded to people’s comments that you may not like to hear because it’s been statistically proven that for each one complaint, there are 5,000 other people who don’t bother voicing their complaint. You need to put your own insecurities aside and not be triggered by a critical comment. Instead, you should appreciate the person taking time and caring to try to help you. And, responding in a passive-aggressive sweet comment is not the way to go.
No need to name drop. No need to a$$ kiss. No need to be the victim and fish for support. Just be you. Some people will like you and others won’t but try to learn from those that don’t because often times, they’re not wrong. Lighten up a bit.
Unfiltered means we can chat about anything without fear of judgment- it doesn’t mean people should be free to be negative or to be unkind. You are always welcome to watch or not watch. The choice is yours. I think we are all allowed our own opinions and I am allowed to disagree with comments if that is how I feel. That doesn’t mean I haven’t been respectful to the point. It just means I don’t agree. Surely that’s how it should be.
@@Wildunfiltered There's no such thing as no judgment or all positive comments. I don't know where you came up with that definition of "unfiltered". "What does it mean to be unfiltered? Not having been toned down, censored, or edited."
My definition is being able to express our feelings without fear of repercussions or consequences of airing those feelings. Being able to say how we feel without someone deciding we are wrong or being negative. Just being free to express.
@@Wildunfiltered But that's not the meaning of the word. That sounds al hunky dory but you're wrong.
Not everything has to be defined and resolute. This is my definition for my channel. Take it or leave it. The choice is yours.
Btw was just watching this and you may find it helpful .Nikol is terrific. "This Has Gone TOO FAR, So I'm Speaking Out | Nikol Johnson".
Thank you! I’ll check it out!