i dated a transphobic frat boy... but i'm transgender... *storytime* (w/ SCREENSHOTS)
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- Опубліковано 29 гру 2018
- I DATED A TRANSPHOBIC FRAT BOY... but I'm transgender
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Are we really surprised at this point?? It's really common for transgender people to have to deal with transphobic outbursts from people they've dated/are dating. Usually, these outbursts are consequences of toxic masculinity (which pressures men to reclaim their toughness in situations where they feel it's been threatened or questioned). This is why trans women are murdered by men who've cat-called or flirted with them before realizing their trans identity, or by past lovers who feel guilty for being intimate with a transperson. I'm not saying that's what happened here, but I definitely think his reaction is due to toxic masculinity in some aspect, at least.
ALSO SIDE NOTE- I’ve escaped frat boys and am now in a happy, healthy, loving relationship ❤️
stay safe loves,
xoxo Samantha
The first red flag of that story was that it began at a frat house.
Lmaokaiskk
@@oonac7960 don't know why anyone would go "oh a dude who looks and acts like anyone who would bully me and people like me in highschool, I'm gonna date him".
We need to learn self love asap
@@naoexistimos777 lol she was just being a lil clueless, it’s ok we all have our moments
@@naoexistimos777 but yeah still self love❤️❤️
@@oonac7960 I know, I'm not judging HER, it's just a fucked up pattern I see a lot of girls following. We need to get over this conditioning.
bro i can’t focus on the video because of how s o f t her hair looks
i’m sorry lol, that probably didn’t make any sense
WAIT OMG IT DOES DROP THE HAIR ROUTINE SAMANTHA
Her HAIR I- 🥺🥺
I was distracted by her makeup and hair. Both look amazing.
omg not ur pfp- now i'm bawling while listening to mr. loverman
Is it just me who was distracted by that blend on her eyes ooohhhh
No your not she always looks so amazing
Me tooo
honestly i didn’t even notice i was distracted by it until i saw this comment-
her eyes do look good tho
Omg i thought it was just me
Now I’m distracted by it
I thought this said fat boy, then I was like “what does his fatness have to do with anything”. Then I realized i just cant read
Lmao
Omg 😂
Same 😂
She was so excited for dating a fat boy too and then he goes and does that to her creep lmao
Ooooo
I’m curious why men say that they don’t mind when a girl is trans but as soon as she rejects them they go off and start using it as an insult. Wtf
Lol yeah. Entitlement brings out your ugly side.
Some are trans curious they want to know what its like but once they get turned down their pride gets hurt because their entitlement makes them think you owe them your body because they paid you attention (life of a female).
Some genuinely dont care, like I think in this situation. But once their pride or feelings get hurt they attack, they use whatever they think you might be self concious about. So if you're trans they throw being trans in your face. If you once told them you were insecure about your nose, they throw that in your face, if they think you're insecure about your looks suddently you'll be ugly. Its just a way of hurting the person because they cant handle rejection. I dont think this is a transwoman situation because it sounds like what most chicks go through. Especially when dealing with the classic college frat boy personality type. But yeah ita just a way to hurt the person or make them self concious or feel bad.
I would say men are like this with pretty much everything lol. I am a bigger, curvier girl and guys will say that like that until I reject them and then suddenly i’m unattractive and fat lol. Obviously a girl who is trans and mine are a very different but it’s just a huge level of immaturity in men.
Natalia Gonzalez I was just going to type this^ they (douchebags) will say whatever to get what they want and when they get shut down they lash out with anything they can use as an insult :/
N I Y A A A basically cuz they’re insecure little sh*ts lol rejection really hurts their egos
How to date a frat boy: Don't.
i
😂
depends on the frat tbh
👏
Lil E 😂😂😂
I was sitting with a transgender friend at a coffee shop and there was a guy hitting on her really hard. She's trying to be polite with conversation, but he's asking her all sorts of personal questions, "where do you work, where are you from, what things do you like to do, do you hang at any clubs?" clearly wanting to hook-up. She learned long ago that it was best to casually drop something about being transgender into the conversation for the least amount of grief, so when he asked something about physical fitness ("do you do yoga" or something similar), she responded, "well, when I was living as a boy, I used to like baseball, but I've kind of outgrown that. Well, outgrown both baseball AND being a boy" with a small laugh. He stared blankly at her for about 20 or 30 seconds as his mind processed what she said before suddenly fumbling in his pocket for change. He looked at us like "I'll be right back", proceeded to buy a cup of coffee at the counter and then headed straight out the door. We never laughed so hard, his reaction was absolutely priceless!!
Lol good for your friend! Honest with a good attitude! 👍
How to Spot a Transphobe 101!
Basically the best way to do it. Upfront and without ambiguity. If one can afford that ofc.
But in my experience, so long as it doesn't makes you unsafe, doing that keep the toxicity away. You don't want to be with a transphobe anyways ... And investing in a relationship just so you can discover that one would be transphobe is painful and sometimes heartbreaking sooo...
@@kalyanigollamudi759 how does not wanting to get with a transgender transphobic
@@absanchez777 we understand issues people might have with pre-op trans people, but not wanting to date anyone in the entire group is alienating us and treating us like we're "not real girls"
Pretty much, it's because not dating trans people ENTIRELY just means you're treating us worse.
My ex (we were together for 5 years) at first said he was okie with the fact that i am non binary and pansexual, but then we were fighting 3 months ago and he told me to "go to therapy to fix myself" meaning he doesn't like that im non binary. You are amazing and you inspire me to be myself and I love you for that. You will find someone who will accept you.
Same happened with me but with being polyamorous. I'm perfectly capable of being monogamous but I wanted it to be a sort of open conversation I could have with my then-partner, and he said he was comfortable with it but clearly wasn't. Figured out I was non binary a couple months after so it was probably a blessing to have got the breakup out of the way by then
What does non binary mean? I'm sorry I'm dumb
@@iaminconstantpain9524 being non binary means that i don't identify as one gender. I use any pronouns. Whether it be male pronouns, female pronouns, or they/them pronouns.
@@iaminconstantpain9524 non binary; outside of the binary, I.e, male or female. So people who are agender or just any gender that is outside of the "normal", physical possibilities. It varies a lot from person to person
Ah, thanks for the clarification everyone ❤️
I thought it said "I dated a transphobic fat guy"
Gemma Johnson SAME
same
IM DECEASED
💀💀
Same omg
Sis you're so gorgeous, my gay is jumping out
amber ur profile pic is a dude
@@jannejoel6637 that's not me 💀
saaaammmmeeee her eyes though
Same.
IKRR
OMG
THIS
GIRL
IS
SO
BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!
ik She's super pretty
Ikr i wish I looked like her
Oof, and then I look at myself in the mirror ;-;
Ikr!!! 😩✨💖💕✨💘💙✨
I knowwwww
“Guess what I said?........”
Me: Girl what’d you say?!
Samantha:”........”
Me: you said okay didn’t you
Samantha: “...... I said okay”
💀💀
😂
😂😂
She's exactly like one of my friends I swear to god😂🤦
Omg same 😂
Haahaa lol
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. He’s a frat boy and I hate how the fraternity influences and who he is with them. Love him, hate the fraternity.
Don’t fool yourself, “who he is with them” is still him. His actions aren’t excused just because he actively decides not to remove negative influences from his life.
I don’t mean to be condescending, I just hope that you’re valuing yourself and your feelings the way that you should ❤️
Yeah like Brandon said his fraternity self is probably more authentic than how he is with you, I’ve been in male locker rooms, they get rough.
@@xinsanedefeatx hello brother
Using trans as an insult is transphobic as it’s associating trans as something a bad, he could have said so many other things to upset her
India Benjamin disagreeing doesn’t mean phobic!!
Kris Sullivan why would some one need to disagree? There’s nothing wrong with being trans, and he’s openly insulting her for being trans so yes it is transphobic
India Benjamin i kill The Haters 77-5-9-13 I ain’t got no patience
[Yung _WЯAI7H who you killin?
Kris Sullivan she*
I find it's interesting that you keep saying you're dumb for literally just taking this guy at his word. You are not dumb, that guy is dumb.
No, she was being dumb.
Let her take accountability for her actions. Takes a real person to acknowledge their dumb mistakes. Builds character
@@RikXtreme4 actually, you want her to take accountability for his actions.
@@000snow000 I really don't know what you're getting at here, I just admired that she can acknowledge the mistakes she's made in the past. It takes two to tangle. Its not like she had a gun to her head. That's all. Why are you trying to turn this into something?
@@RikXtreme4 she's accountable for her own actions, not his. He is the one who took questionable actions, all she did was believe the words he said and I don't think there is any fault in that. Too often women are held responsible for what guys do.
"Oh that's fine, I'm also uh, Bicurious"
Translated: That's cool, but I don't *really* think you're a girl lol, but I'll humor you.
HonEy, how did you not hear this and immediately run-
Right?! The only sensible answer to something like that is "Okay, byyyye!"
@Shay Patel Nope that's fact, most guys feel that way. It's just how it is for now, but things are slowly changing.
@Shay Patel welp, I wish I lived where you do then. I can never catch a break. Maybe SoCal isn't as progressive as a i thought 😔
@Shay Patel im Canadian, its a lot better here than in the US 100% in my opinion ngl, idk what its like there but, its alooot easier here from the sounds of it. idk where socal is in the US though
@@SaphiiTaffy97 socal= southern california, around LA from what it sounds like but having grown up there mtself, theres some pretty bad, conservative areas because catholicism is prominent
i was so distracted this whole video bc you are actually soo gorgeous wtf
(please do not respond to this with transphobic comments, it’s not cute)
Literally same
mary valentine honestly same😍😩
omg frrr
Okay sameee
mary valentine IKR SAME
A MAKEUP LOOK FOR THIS PLEASE
Trippy Ash YES I opened the comments section on my phone to say this 😂👏🏻 love the eye makeup
BROOO YES
Yessssss
Her make up is all I could think about tbh
YES THO PLEASE
Hey you’ll probably never see this but I’m a trans woman who’s just starting her transition and your videos make me happy. Please keep being you! 🌟✨🌟
Update 2 weeks later: I’ve come out to much of my family and have started therapy to get on HRT. Everyone’s messages have helped a lot and I didn’t expect anyone to read this or even care thank you so much. You are all valid and amazing creatures and deserve the most love in the world.
hey! good luck with ur transition bb!!!
Good luck hun!! I may not know you, but you have my full support!
Lavendr_Tea well thank you you just made me cry I appreciate you
Balatro The Clown making me tear up holy shit thank you!! Xoxo
Catalina C. Thank you!!! I appreciate you! Xo
They all want me to be cis, but I only know how to be sis 😉
I LOVE THAT HAHAHQHWHWUHAHW
LOLLLL IF I WAS TRANS I WOULD USE THAT 😂
If I was a trans women I'd use this! But I'm trans male haha
YASS LOL
Sis yes
“...so I grabbed my little purse” 😂icon
Im a simple girl, I see the word transphobic frat boy storytime, i click
Supernaturally American You’re here too, so wouldn’t you be sad too?
That’s a phrase but go off 😂(no shade btw)
IKR! I love to prove Transphobes wrong.
Konstantinos Kalatzis ?????
You have mad big sister vibes. This is like slumber party level gossip and I am so here for it. One of the best story tellers.
If my son comes out as trans I’m not supporting him.
I’m supporting her 🏳️⚧️
🏳️⚧️
@I O no i mean if I have a son and he says he’s a girl I’m supporting her I’m sorry
OR THEM
@@zaniahrojas8256 I read it in the context that they wanted to be a "she", if they wanted to be somewhere in the non-binary spectrum, it would be said.
🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
"side note, I'm a frat gu- ha wait no" WEAK
love u boo
Me too
you’re in my recommended and omg SIS YOURE STUNNING
same
*brother
Lucas De La Flor Sis* (don't do this today k?)
*BRO
Omar C *Sis
okay but HER HAIR IS SO SHINY
It looks so soft and silky am I the only one who wished they could reach through the screen and touch it aaaannnndddd I'm just realizing how weird that sounds🤣
Can we talk about how gorgeous her eyes are. The colour and shape.😍
@kei Tsukishima you should get a ted talk
It's a man lol
@@aronbarkley1119 she’s stunning 😍
I had this video open in a tab next to the Monster Hunter World wiki and my brain combined them into "I Hunted a Transphobic Monster" and was really intrigued but then it wasn't that. Still liked your video though. I dig your style and subbed :) also, his loss.
I just...I really need a comic or something about that.
OMG-
Chesh The Cat nice
Heels in a frat house god bless you sis
Sir*
alan gutierrez you’re wrong ;)
alan gutierrez stfu
christina s yasss
alan gutierrez sis*
The people in the comments saying “I keep getting distracted by [insert thing] she’s so pretty” is just the sweetest thing
Samantha Lux "I'm trans."
Frat Guy "I'm bi, bi ,bi!"
Okay youtube, I'll watch it. Safisfied?
right lmao this video has been in my suggestion for like two weeks
angelica schuyler: *HE WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED*
Miley1128 WzW XD hello hamilfam
😂😂😂🤦🏾♀
*satisfied
Samantha: 1000
Frat dude: 0
😂
Unrelated but your eyeshadow is gorgeous! 💖
The story that he told you about what his friends were saying and him “defending” you? 93% chance that didn’t happen. Sorry xx.
I’d say 99%
That Girl Reacts I was trying to be nice lol
@@dewilew2137 haha ok
You're right and I'm mad that men aren't better so
I'm gonna go be the man I want to see in the world
You're literally so gorgeous , i hate the ignorance of the world , who you want to be and who you are as a person isn't defined by gender. It's defined by what kind of person you are. Your personality shines and that makes you a great person , snatch me all day everyday sis ❤️
Too many red flags, I would have cut him off as soon as he cancelled plans and saved my dignity. And ESPECIALLY after he said you're the only one who treats him nice. That's probably for a reason, bc every other girl sees through his sketchy behavior
Yep! I went on a few dates with a guy about 2 months ago and he had the "you're the only one who respects me or treats me nicely" line. While said for sympathy and attention, you need to ask yourself WHY. If everyone treats you like shit, there is a reason and it's you. Not everyone else.
@@christenm3200 Yeah and it's high key an insult, basically putting you on a lower level than the girls he usually goes after. Like "alright I'll settle for her bc she's the only one who's nice to me".
@@icemeoutlikeelsa Exactly!
"I would have cut him off as soon as he cancelled plans"
...wtf try curbing that ego a little lmaoo
@@elbarto66 You obviously didn't watch the video. They had made solid plans to meet up before that day came and he made a lame excuse when she brought up going out somewhere besides his frat. It shows he was ashamed for people to see him out with her. And then to invite her over that same day late night. More signs he wants to keep this a secret/ is embarrassed about her
his loss;) we're doing better 2019 ladies
But shes a guy so
flame bot198 but she’s a girl soooo 💁🏻♀️
@@iamdavid5705 she is a beautiful girl leave her be frl
*tisk* BS girls are not doing better in 2019 when it comes to picking the right guy. Y'all go for the sketchy, hot guys who give you some words of affirmation but get involved in the common bad vices, i.e smoking, drinking, partying all the time. I am not saying you cannot find a good guy who does that, but too commonly are those activities linked to a guy that is just looking to have fun, not date. So no DUH this frat boy was like this! Keyword: frat. I'm in college and I hear and see too often my girl friends getting screwed by these hot guys and they're in LOVE but then they're surprised when they get screwed over by them. Girl what did you exPECT? Smh nice guys do finish last, until women are in their 30s and learned to look for the calm, put together guy who's got his shite together ughhh
Charice Martin not a girl💀
This just makes me so sad, this shouldn't be something any trans person should have to be thinking about or dealing with. boil it down we are all just people who should be treated with respect. girls are girls boys are boys nonbinary people are non binary it isn't that complicated lol
👏🏼
What about the other 80 genders?!
@@sarahsoelter840 the term non-binary is an umbrella term for all people outside of the gender binary, which would be all of the genders you’re referencing
@@sarahsoelter840 don't turn it into something against trans people. BOO
@Sarah Soelter they don't exist
I've never set foot in a frat house, and I was completely unaware/in denial in undergrad. Frat houses are like dens of toxic masculinity and predatory male behavior, and nothing could ever compel me to enter one even before I started transitioning, but especially now.
Wanna talk about universality of trans experiences, girl you were trying to get with frat boys while I WAS a frat boy two years ago. 🤦🏻♀️
lol that's hilarious
@real niggaz Nah honey, I had a fucking POSITION I was the elected the Social chair responsible for hosting those toxic parties with sororities? Luckily I had my break down a week before that semester started so I never had to do anything bad. I guess the pressure of performance got to me.
ok tea, wig. WE NEED A STORY MAPLES.
What’s a frat boy ?
MAKE A VIDEO
I’ve never subscribed to somebody while watching a story time. But GIRL you pulled me in so fast and now I love you 🥰
Rebecca McCall it’s a boy
Lmao
@@IsaulDoesntExist no she's not
You really didn't expect a frat leader to be anything but an immature boy, did you?
I'll stand up for Samantha. She's a fine woman. When people with trans exclusionary policies/philosophies seek out trans channels to write trashy comments they're trolling
^^^
" like I'm a girl okay moving on " that's the moment I hit the like button💖
You go girl💖
Girls like you remind me why I'm bi. You're SO PRETTY. And that hair. Gorg.
dude same here
If that guys sees this video I’m 100% sure he will unblock you & go off again lmao
New fan here. You popped in my recommended and I’m so happy about it!
k3nnny b0y Same!
k3nnny b0y Same!!
me too
Same here
Me rn
This is why you stay away from guys in frats, in baseball hats, and shirts with no sleeves.
Why u say that?
Not ture
"did you say bad things about me"
"👁👄👁"
"yeAh"
this is the only story time that i actually sat through and didn't skip... thank you.
franile fax
Oh my god same
why are you so pretty? and your mannerisms are just precious.
"did you say bad things about me?"
"...yeah"
Girl same
For some reason I read the title as "I dated a transgender frat boy" and I am now realizing it is about transphobia...
I read transgender fat boy💀
@@monke8613 me
*long pause* I said okay💀
I know people are saying like “he didn’t say anything about it until you initiated it” but even my boyfriend (ftm) who treated me like shit, I still don’t say anything about his gender or invalidate him. That would be actually transphobic. So this was a bit transphobic but not much
Yeah I'm ftm. It's clear when someone you date disses you it's always from a place of butthurt. Still bringing gender into it is low. They just don't want to look weak I guess. Like bitch I was good enough to date haha.
In my opinion it is very common when ppl are hurt to lash out and say whatever they can think of to hurt the person who hurt them. Obviously if someone is transgender then that would be a point of attack to hurt them. Does that make it right? No. However I don't necessarily think that for certain makes him transphobic. Chances are he probably doesn't even mean the things he said about her but had said them in the heat of the moment. I think we also need to take the level of maturity here into consideration and the fact that they were drunk and high majority of the time in this story.
@@vexu7366 obviously he didn't. This BOY was interested in her and found it an exciting factor she was trans. But unfortunately when emotional intelligence is low that's when insults fly out. It's to appease their feeling of weakness.
@@august8807 I disagree. She decided to be a petty bitch simply because a friends with benefits relationship that only took place during bouts of intoxication at a few parties didn't end up becoming serious. He stuck up for her and was nice to her and never said a bad word about her even when his friends gave him a hard time. As soon as she sees him talking to another girl A YEAR LATER when she's "over it" she gets jealous and talks shit on him and ruins any form of developing relationship between him and this girl. Literally for no reason at all other than to hurt him. She also seems to be quite proud of this. She then continues to harass him via Snapchat and acts like a bitch to him via text when he civilly tries to discuss it with her. She then acts shocked that he retaliated. Of course he's going to lash out at her. This is just common sense. They're both immature and it shows. This has nothing to do with "weakness", assertion of dominance or anything to do with transphobia. This is just how immature teenagers deal with their problems because they have yet to developed the maturity and control over their emotions required to think rationally in these situations. Obviously being intoxicated doesn't help this. This guy just said whatever he could think of in the heat of the moment to hurt her after she clearly went out of her way to hurt him for no reason.
I know I'm going to sound old... but what's ftm.
Completely unrelated to the story and a year late but her makeup is so adorable my gosh
Absolutely dying at his text: “...now your blocked b****” 😂😂😂
YOU WERE JUST IN MY REC VIDS.. SIS YOU'RE SO STUNNING YES GIRL WORK
Mariah it’s not a sis it’s a bro
Jim Palmer
1. Never call a living being “it”, if you don’t know their gender, refer to them as they or their name.
2. It is clear that she is female.
3. Keep your comments to yourself
Meme Queen why r u assuming it’s gender?
Jim Palmer why even watch HER video if you’re gonna say some stupid shit like this ? get out of here if you’re gonna be negative -_-
+Jim Palmer she's a girl
take a shot every time she says "blah blah blah" ;)
Dane Drennan ......i now need a liver transplant
Or "like"
Harder challenge: Take a shot every time she says "like".
Dane Drennan lol. Take a shot every time there’s a stupid comment.
Mom Pitbull can’t tell if you’re bashing my comment or making fun of other comments. Either way, no need for negativity :)
YOU SAID PACK A BOWL WHILE I WAS LITERALLY PACKING ONE.
SHOOK I REPLAYED THAT 5 TIMES AHAHAHA ( to make sure I heard you right)
Some people are so ready to hurt someone in a racist, homophobic, transphobic and overall ignorant way when they cannot have it their way for once. Omg
One time (about 6 years ago) I went to a frat party with my friend bc she didn’t want to go alone for safety reasons. I had a bf (who is now my husband, he didn’t care that I went) and this dude asked me to come up to his room and he’d give me a bottle of grey goose. I went, and talked. He handed me the bottle, I dipped and got a free ass bottle of booze 😂
DrVetSaveYourPet it’s a rule to never go up stairs in a frat house I’m not sure why that’s what my grand big and some of my sisters told me at my first fraternity party
mia gonzales well I did. And it was the one frat party I ever went to. I wasn’t impressed. Even if I had known the rules, I wasn’t in a sorority so I didn’t care about breaking them 😂
DrVetSaveYourPet I feel like she means for safety purposes 😬
Plastic Tree yeah that’s what I mean I probably should have said that lol my bad yall
mia gonzales he was a guy I kinda knew, through mutual friends. Enough that I knew he wouldn’t have tried anything forcefully. And he knew I wouldn’t falsely accuse him. Like an awkward acquaintance😂 he was also around 5’8, maybe 120 pounds. I’m 6’2 and was a solid 200. 😂
Omg, you are more gorgeus than you were!
When I last checked, maybe 1 year ago, you were gorgeus too, but you are rocking your hair!
I am so happy about you.
Emily Cheshire lowkey backhanded but sweet nonetheless
Samantha Lux is the best friend we all need in our lives. I literally feel peace and happiness when I watch her videos💗
same some UA-camrs just have really great energy
you’re such a good storyteller. i love this kind of girl talk gossip stuff, i experienced a lot more of it in freshman year
"pack a bowl" girl im SUBBED
Yesssss that was my first thought too 😂
Boy*
@@jonjoshelvey8909 lol get a more original comment honey
Sammmmeeeee
Splitleaf dude*
I am so happy for once with my UA-cam recommendations and girl you so pretty he missed his chance
P.S I love your eyes and makeup
@wild one 3:53
wild one umm no she is a woman and a pretty one also stop being transphobic
how did he miss his chance😂 maybe the dude doesn't want to date a guy dressed up as a woman tf
Greasy Fried Chicken umm bruh listen she is a woman and bc of people like you that trans people don’t feel comfortable being their own true self
wild one bruh “it” she isn’t a It she’s a She a girl get over it
Samantha - im over this kid
Hamilton - this kid is out!
OH, THIS IMMIGRANT ISN'T SOMEBODY WE CHOOOOOSE
THIs IMAGRANT ISNT SOMEONE WE CHOSE
@@sho.thatsit this immigrant's keepiung us all on our tooooes. ._.
LETS SHOW THESE FEDERALISTS WHAT THEY'RE UP AGAINST
rxiny.days SOUTHeRN MOTHeR 🍴in DECOMCRATIC REPLULICANS
The first thought that popped into my brain when I clicked this video was
"Oh my gord, she's so pretttyyyyy!!!"
hmmm what’s his @ sweetie?? asking for a friend
i am the friend shes asking for sis
omg ur the insta girl that her dog thinks she’s igly
*“Thank u, next”*
Can we take a moment to appreciate how beautiful this girl is?
Ikrrrrrrr
You’re literally the nicest person! Like I don’t think you understand how much we all appreciate you! 💕💕
Antonio Garza kind of looks like you, but you have thinner eyebrows lolz. You two are so pretty😻! Also, Can you all stop arguing in the comments? I was simply stating an opinion.
Bc they're both females that originated as males
@@fen_vt I was joking
Awes0mem0 Antonio hasn’t said they were trans, I try to be respectful by not assuming because they could be a cis male who likes to dress up or a trans female.
she looks a little more feminism than antonio
Aimee Mena, Antonio has said she prefers she/ her pronouns
I'm so happy youtube recommended me this, I mean, I bet you never though people in South America would watch your videos but here I am and I'm enjoying it
same
GIRL YOUR MAKEUP IS ON FLEEK 💅👌😩
Damn girl. You really hit some nerves. Love your videos. Hands down my favorite trans UA-camr. Hella raw and relatable. I feel like most trans girls pretend like life isn’t that hard and they just got here and everything’s fine. You really make me feel like I’m not crazy girl. Thanks.
OMG so true about literally one person being able to change the perspective of a whole group, I think thats why its so important for people to be vocal on social matters that affect not only themselves but other people!
so sorry you had to go through this babe but at least you found out sooner rather than later
I love you SO much Samantha! I'm a trans person, female to male! I just wanted to say that I support you and your decisions and that you're my Idol! THANK YOU so much. You've helped me get through so much, and I am proud of you ^^
@Michelle Amador I'm 13. Thank you, if that was towards ME hA.
"hey Samantha you look good tonight"
*angry Samantha noises*
She should say "you don't day b*tch"
You have such a beautiful personality. Really no one needs a person who isnt quality in their life. We each must place a higher value on ourselves and know that our deepest heart desires is available for us, not settle for chumps
SO 👏 MUCH 👏 GOOD 👏 ADVICE 👏.
Especially about when a guy ditches you and makes other plans but then tries to make plans with you again... LET HIM DO HIS OWN THING.
Truer words have never been said.
You came up on my suggested and I subscribed 30 seconds into this video ✌🏼 you’re genuinely stunning and such a strong person ❤️
Who else wants to be Samantha’s friend??
I’ve been bingeing your videos the past few days, you’re so entertaining and seem like such a nice and positive girl!! 💓
“Grab a snack, pack a bowl” oh my god shes so cute
When you said 'grab a snack' I was literally opening a back of chips that second I never felt so caught before.
You were in my recommend and your eye make up is hypnotic. You have some serious make up skill and you’re so stunning. I’m so glad I clicked, sorry about the fuq boi.
please do a video on the products your use in your hair/how to help with frizz/ etc, your hair is stunning!
/slow dramatic zoom/ "I said okay" aaaaaand I subbed lmao
But on another note, you are STUNNING sis 😍😍
bro*
@@dr1n_ Stop, she's not a bro, ok?
Radical Homosexual ಠ_ಠ Oh so youre just assuming shes not a bro, (bros are people too)
@@Jack.Xin. Don't act so ignorant, when someone calls a transwoman "sis" and you correct them with bro, one can assume that's fucking transphobic.
D Slim Productions shut up, it’s SIS. not bro, get out of here with that.
Girl your makeup is fire!👏🏻👏🏻🔥
Allyson F I think ur phone autocorrected u meant to say boy
@@jimpalmer4638 oh honey your obnoxious is showing
Jim Palmer, no she’s a girl
Girl you should definitely do vlogs 💕 your life seems interesting lol , I also wanna see what party’s are like lol, I’ve never experience that whole scene
Ur eyeshadow is EVERYTHING
Sis you're so gorgeousss! First video of yours I'm seeing and I already love you, subscribed
same
Saying he’s “transphobic” is kind of reach from the details of THIS story and what you’re telling us (it’s your experience not mine), but it definitely evident his feelings were hurt, so he said to those things out of retaliation not “intentionally” maybe
Edit: Just saw the top comment from Samantha
Hey Samatha!
Your story touched me. You seem to be a very very nice person. Your stories help me to become an ally. I hope you’ll keep being nice and not too hard on yourself (the number of times you said “I’m a dumb bitch”, even though you said it with a smile, made me sad)
Lots of love 😘😘😘
I watched your adds:)❤️ and subscribed because your channel is amazing💗🤪
Aaaahhhhhh girl yes! Get a snack, pack a bowl? You had me! You should do more makeup tutorials, I looooved your look in this one!!
why is it so difficult for people to understand that accepting someone for being trans only when it benefits you IS contributing to transphobia. he turned around and brought up you being trans when it had absolutely nothing to do with anything and threw it in your face in hopes of hurting you. you can’t accept someone and take it back. you accept them and then it’s off the table. if someone being trans comes to your mind as a revenge factor or an insult, your internalized transphobia is showing and you should rethink what you’re about to say. literally insult them in any other way if you MUST be an asshole. just don’t comment on them being trans or deadname them or out them.
The thing is, it's just one of those things that you say when you're in the heat of the moment and you're just grasping to find the worst possible thing you can hurl at someone that you think is going to cut deep. I'm not condoning or defending the things that he said, but I question whether or not this was a true display of transphobia or if it was simply an embarrassed fuckboi throwing as low of a blow as he could muster because he was pissed off about being put on blast. Good chance he didn't actually mean what he said or he wouldn't have entertained her in the first place, but when you know sensitive information about someone and you know they're insecure about it, often that's the first thing you use against them when you're trying to make them hurt. Let's say she wasn't trans, but she was a recovering heroin addict, the texts would have read like "fuck you, why don't you go shoot some dope you scumbag". I don't think that would necessarily make the guy 'addictphobic', just a fucking asshole.
Logan Bean I agree 100%
@@adamwillis908 Lmao so basically "heated gamer moment" for transphobia?
I.e, transphobia.
@@danielbelkin4652 I suppose it would depend on whether or not you believe PewDiePie is a legitimate racist because he uttered the N word during an 'heated gamer moment', but given the part of UA-cam I'm currently in, you probably do.
@@adamwillis908 If you don't already have sympathies towards discriminatory language and actions then you wouldn't use them to insult someone regardless of how angry you are. I've gotten into pretty heated fights with PoC, women, other gay men and trans people, etc, and I've yet to suddenly spring out a slur, not because I have to consciously avoid it but because I don't have any sympathies towards racism, transphobia, misogyny, etc.
Me: *lighting my water pipe*
Her: "pack a bowl"
Me: 👁👄👁
Omg!! Same haha
@@Rebecca-705 stoners unite