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Jada Pinkett Smith : ON How To Heal Your Past & Love Yourself Again
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- Опубліковано 13 сер 2024
- Jay Shetty and Jada Pinkett-Smith sit down and discuss how her childhood shaped her in good and bad ways. After leaving home for Los Angeles at age 18, Pinkett-Smith had to learn how to allow herself to lay down her ego and live with an open heart.
Everybody has a story, and Jada Pinkett-Smith has developed the unique ability to take any life experience and find the good in it. Watch the episode of On Purpose to learn how Jada Pinkett-Smith was able to overcome her past and thrive.
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"Relationships are simply there to show us ourselves..." Loved it
So deep
comedy gold
"You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending." C.S. Lewis
I want to copy your writing but I can't just do it. I like it 👍. Nice word .
wanieidtina thabah Appreciate you for checking with me.Yes, you can use the quote by giving credit to the creator, C.S. Lewis. Moreover, it would be a great pleasure if you subscribe to my UA-cam page.
AGREED!
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I’m a college student and I’ve taken better notes on this Podcast than in any class this whole semester
Yes
same
Lol!!! 😆
same
I’ve never taken any podcast notes until now, 4 pages! Lol
You know the quote "hurt people hurt people?" The same goes for healed people. "Healed people Heal people." Thanks for showing us how to do it Jada.
Oh I love this. Yes people are always talking about generational traumas. I say what about our generational treasures. Sometimes they get hidden by life's debris. So yes, heal people heal people.
@@sharonbrown6202 so true Queen
Awesome wowwww Healed people heal people 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👏🏿
@@sharonbrown6202 treasures wowwww good 1👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿🔥🔥🔥👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Well I’m a hurt ppl but I want so badly to be a healed ppl. I have been a teen mom, homeless, alcoholic, drug addict (2 yrs clean) and I found out since my sobriety recently I was sexually abused at 4yrs old. I am finally understanding this is what I’ve been hiding and running from my whole life. I am learning slowly to accept the pain this has caused but the anger will not subside. I know I would not be the woman I am today if the bad parts of my life had not happened, and I appreciate and love the woman I’ve become, but I am exhausted from holding this anger. I want to be able to help other boys and girls that are dealing or have dealt with this type of pain but I feel like I can’t be completely of service with this anger. Any advice is so appreciated! Bless you all!!
"Adversity doesn't steal from you, it's meant to help you find the giant within." 👏
Best advice i received in 2020: Stillness,any amount of stillness you can give yourself, weither is 5 minutes, weither is 3 hours. Go some place, be quiet, turn your phone off, turn off everything and just sit in stillness, so you can hear yourself. The longer you stay, you will hear beyond yourself....🙏
Damn that's deep and real! Thank you I will try this ❤
Love that message
Jada is so eloquent and free flowing in her words. She’s wise and outgoing, she has a kind of swagger. She’s a role model to me.
I personally love her so much!
Entanglement
If you like a person that uses people including tupac and will if she didn't have them she would be nothing
You need to look somewhere else Rosie...maybe within yourself. Jada is no rolemodel not even to her kids. I will pray for you
@@See-if_I_care no one is perfect ... even the people you think are worthy of the title
Am I the only one who wish Jada would have her own podcast channel?? Everytime I watch Red Table Talk, I wish each show would be longer.
anika2280 agreed
Facts!!
_Dear person reading this,_
I know you're doing the best you can,
I believe in you,
Don't worry about the people who don't support you.
Just Keep going
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@@samira8643 stay blessed!
Stay still!
Thanx bro ..
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stay blessed,
Every person is unique, but please YOU don't lose your uniqueness.
Although Jay was a Monk, in this interview with Jada it seemed like he was the one being enlightened. Powerful to see Jada being so powerful. I see her growth.
She having a great transformation 2020 NEW VISION of life. Growth
I felt the same way, but I think he is just being very respectful, tho he’s my number one motivational speaker in the world.
she is. I have watched her grow from a young lady. But she had a great partner like Will. Both of them became enlightened together. I do not trust Jay shetty as I feel he is too young, and I feel everybody becoming a RICH branded LIFE COACH. But Jada she real af. Her background, ego demise. It's been helpful in my life. I cab't relate to Jay shetty, he just seems fake.
@@bbdass4598 I must disagree with your conclusion of Jay, if me, you
or anyone was to spend a week a month or longer in an Ashram....nevermind 4 years, we would be changed forever...and just like when you plant a flower, you may not see it growing till breaks through the soil....and He is young but he has a profound foundation that will grow & change as He matures
someone who WAS a monk, means that he FAILED being that otherwise he wouldn't be where he is... not blaming him but for sure he is not able to live according to it... she is very wise...
When I say the universe send you messages right when you need and all you have to do is be open to receive the message!!!! This message came right when I'm going through a very hard stage of personal growth and I'm so thankful for this message and my spirit guides for leading me here!!
Sharon G I totally agree with you. I have been in a very difficult place and struggling daily to trying to figure out why, what I need, what to do. So wrapped up in my own pain. There is so much wisdom here. This is a really good start for me. Thank you Jada and Jay!
"When ego is lost, limit is lost."
Wow, at 7, Jada's father told her I'm an addict, an alcoholic, and a criminal, and I can't be your Dad. Her Mother was an addict as well. It's a miracle that Jada survived and is here today. Yes, she's made huge mistakes but haven't we all? Give her love and understanding instead of criticism. God can, and is, using Jada in a profound way. Listen to this entire video. Jada drops so many profound nuggets of information like "Love must go from you, to God, then to your spouse. If it goes straight from you to your spouse, you'll mess it up every time." I took notes during this video. You may not agree with how Will and Jada raised their kids but that's their business. Jada is open and honest and has a lot of life experiences to share. Listen, and you will definitely learn something! Jay Shetty, this was an outstanding interview! Thank you both!
I'm happy that we have such sources of wisdom, just a click away, making the world's conscious better
Yessss
This is by far the most self- realizing, amazing episode I’ve watched. Made me look at myself more even after going thru depression.
Keep moving and keep trying.
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I'm waiting for the day when the RED TABLE TALK will be on UA-cam
Me too... Badly😩😩
Same here. I refuse to go to Facebook for anything
It's there buddy
ua-cam.com/channels/KlUPdc5Jadnslt2IXt5vVw.html
@Ms G why?
“You invite” that hit hard!
Yes 🙌 thats feminine energy too ✨
I’m blown away with how far she is in her spiritual journey, absolutely blown away. So much love for the both of you.
I love how transparent and self aware she is! so empowering!!
Empowering, scary and necessary! I'm on that path but find myself backstepping when scared. This piece was affirming to stay the journey!
God damn this woman is wise. Lay down the warrior. My biggest take away.
I think im moving backwars back in the day my warrior was laid down but now she is up and running ..im like damn 😳
yesssss
@@theeunordained9027 Same
"If you want to improve, you must be content to be thought foolish and stupid." - Epictetus
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Never heard of this quote but if you think about it, it makes sooooooooo much sense.
@@tiff2422 it does for sure 🙏💯
God bless you I needed this
@@shibreighawilson-scott7234 You're more than welcome 💙🙏
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I watched it with my pen and paper, I will watch again and again, it touched my heart deeply.
OMG, same
This conversation alone helped me heal so much. She literally touched on everything I’ve been processing since my spiritual awakening. Especially the love part, it has definitely been conditional with a lot of expectations and playing victim. Her perspective on how she raised her children was great too, I don’t have any yet but I’ll definitely be utilizing some of the those tools!
I feel exactly the same. And I had a spiritual awakening about two weeks ago after a break up. What about you?
Y Huang I had mine about a year ago after a “break up” as well. We never made it official but he definitely sparked my awakening once we separated.
@@lesacharna8987 What happened during the year? What changes you have seen in yourself? Do mind sharing more?
Y Huang I’ve been focusing on self love and healing childhood trauma...my healing process is documented on my channel
I also have a spiritual channel with a few videos..thelcexperience 2.0
I cannot even begin to describe just how powerful , insightful, deep, real, moving , impactful and honest this podcast was! Jada ! Thank you for being you ! You are so real! I have replayed this twice already and it just hits deep and speaks to the soul. Jay thank you for bringing in one of the finest podcasts I have ever come across . So much love. Alina ❤️
I thought I was the only one who felt like healing yourself first before getting into a relationship especially if you've had a lot of trauma in your life. Most people hop in and out of relationships but never address what is truly causing their relationships to fail. That's even more trauma being created and passed down. SMH Thank You Jada!
Wwwwwwwwwooooowww🤍 The other side to ego is thinkin we have gone through the most hurtful experiences as if others hurts were not hurtful enough n always tryin to prove that.Damn Jada🔥🔥🔥
People want to demonize her and judge her so hard they can’t hear her offer what she’s learned through her journey.
Thank you very much🙏
*bro she cheated on Will Smith and called him petty after laughing at him*
I can’t stop myself from listening her.she has such a deeper understanding of life
“I had to really confront how egotistical I was in my martyrdom”
....a whole word.
I love when Jada laughs. She’s so down to earth.
It. Is. Real.
At 26, I have never been more moved by an interview, I related with every moment of this interview. Kinda like you were speaking directly to me and my current situation. Thank you both 🙏🏽
"STILLNESS...And the longer you stay you will hear beyond yourself...find the courage to be still." Thank you Jayda🙏
Jay was asking ALL the right questions and Jada was giving ALL the right answers. I will always come back to this.
Me too
Anybody else wondering why Jada hasn't made a self-development book yet? Girl has next level knowledge. I can't get enough of her!
Remember, Frustration Is Out Of Expectation, And Ego Is Always Expecting. The Ego Is A Beggar.
Honestly, the ego is really a beggar.
This is the best lesson of introspection I ever heard. Admire her views on Ego Death by embracing and grabbing our own shadow areas (which is hard to dissolve)just placing it consciously.
I ahd to heal my past and love myself again after being addicted to pills! i feel like a brand new person now!
Thanks for sharing your experience. Your journey will inspire others.
Awesome!
Keep it up 👍🏻
May I ask what steps you took to do that....?
You are.
This changed my entire day. She puts everything so beautifully, also her laugh is warm and contagious. Just instantly makes you smile.
There’s a lot of fluff out there in the discourse around self love and healing etc.
But JADA PINKETT-SMITH always allows us to go deep and real and raw and heavy and reach that sweet spot of understanding within ourselves that can take a lifetime to experience.
I am very grateful for this podcast! So many highlights in this: the true love metrics, the fact that a ‘relationship’ is a mirror to how you treat you, parenting, laying the inner warrior to rest, true love is blue not red and the false hood around romanticism.
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Jada keeps it real. The bad, the good and ugly. No one can judge someone who is genuinely honest with themselves and about life challenges.
Lol so much changed in 2 years. 😂
Whoa what are the odds that I felt like apart of my ego dying last night and was in hours of tears and I stumble upon this interview. Thank you Jada I needed this moment.
When you need therapy but can't afford it so you sit here listening to two brilliant minds that help you in coming to realizations about your own self.
Mrs. Smith has a powerful voice! So much authenticity. So much wisdom to share...Thank you! for this conversation that shows a woman who isn't afraid to face her ego, slay it and move on...beautifully
Recognising that past strategies don't work and that there is something wrong with the way you live is the first and greatest step.
if you resist, it will persist. if you look at it, it will disappear.
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Deep and beautiful, thank u 4 those simple words. Actually they just hit something in me , it was like a wake up call telling me " hey wake up, u can do it, and u will achieve what u want " thank u.
@@souhasou8637 Be safe
You are literally everywhere. :D
I am watching this podcast for the second time. "The inevitable disappointment" "Relationships are a mirror of ourselves." "No matter what happens, we have to take responsibility." Huge, intense, deep,
When Jada speaks about the ego death wow! That's exactly what I've been feeling. I'm also learning to embrace my shadow side. Great interview Jay as usual ❤
Oh my god! This woman... this is the first time i've heard her speaking.. wow! Thank you both for your time. RESPECT.
wow, I can listen to this interview over and over. Jada discussing her Childhood and her Spiritual journey really relates to me.
Thank you for sharing such a great conversation.
I love Jada! The red table talk has opened up many conversations that I wish we had at home. She is a beautiful soul and you can tell she is a healer. Loved this podcast 💛
This beautiful lady speaks gold, everything she says is so insightful and she says it in such an incredible way !!!
I keep coming back to this video in my healing journey.
Just want to thank both of you for sharing this with the world, we need it.
Oh my god,this was life changing..the whole episode was like a meditation...much thanks guys!!
I just want to be in tune with myself as much as jada is in tune with herself! ❤ it's beautiful!
The most great thing about her is that she has a special connection with god through spirituality and knows the real meaning of true love, self love and meditation.Very few people in the world can actually understand the true reason behind meditation. The peace on her face really indicates the highest peak she has achieved in the way of spirituality.
If I could give this conversation 1,000 👍🏻’s I would! I viewed it 4 times in a row and with the last one I took 4 pages of notes. What a fantastic conversation! Thank you from the bottom of my heart! I had SO many light bulb moments! To get out of my ego, to lay down the warrior, relationships are simply there to show us ourselves, about taking responsibility for your choices, about self-love and getting to your true self, about willing to walk the land mines of the traumatized child together... wow! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! 🌸
Love how deep you two went on this one with the topics you spoke about. 👏👏
“It is always Me” so powerful Jada.
I creat my own reality
This whole conversation had me all kinds of 🤯🤯🤯😢😳😳....
What a gift!!!! #selfimprovementjourney
This is your best interview. So many treasures in this talk. I’ve resonated so much. Thank you!
Just half way through the podcast... So well expressed, so brutally honest, so authentic, 🙌🙌
I could listen to you two go on for hours! Obsessed with this lesson. You have to unload the baggage of your inner-child and allow yourself to grow from your pain and experiences. Powerful!
- @earthtoivy
I literally am taking notes. Thank you guys for all the gems you gave us in this video. I NEEDED this. "IT'S ALWAYS ME."
I'm on 37mins and I've had 3 convos with myself and rewinding the video! So happy I can listen to this in my 20s for a easier but smarter 30s
I adore her. And I also learn a lot from her from far. She feels family to me too. Thank you for letting us get to know her and learn even more, Jay. You do such a beautiful work ❤️
I really respect Jada a lot. She is full of wisdom.
That's wisdom that comes when you experience the love of God
She is full of shit
Let go of the past and Forgive someone today. Join the movement.
The Transparency of this sit down is indescribable. Thanking my shadow for popping up when needed. Keeping my inner warrior tamed. So much gratitude!!!!
Absolutely love Jada. Everyone who listens to her...heals with her. I feel so grateful and blessed that she shares so openly.
Jada has wisdom for ages. Love her vibe. Queen. 👑 I stan.
Im not even halfway through the podcast and this is one of the most deepest realist and relavent things I've heard in a long time wow I'm making a note on everything thanks Jada and Jay 🙏🏾❤️
It's one of the most precious interview I've ever listened to....no I'm saying from beyond the depth of my heart I've learned a lot a lot .....from this one podcast
There's one thing I would love to mention that Jay, you and your platform has certain charisma because it makes people define their depth in a magnanimous way...so much love and respect for your work ❤️🤗
Self Actualization. Man that was perfect. This whole conversation was perfect. This hit my soul. Thank you for being so open and honest.
When you do what feels right to you your idols eventually become your friends. Keep it up guys!
This is one of the most empowering and confronting (in the best way possible) things I have ever have the privilege to listen to and to watch x thank you both x
Her laughs are life. Always loved her. Great spirit, very articulated. Thankful for the lessons in my own journey to spirituality. 💖
1:02:00 "Love is not red, it's blue. Love is really cool...💙..." One of the best definitions of love. Awesome talk - so much covered in just over an hour! 👏👏
There were so many pieces of wisdom here that absolutely blew my mind - and that I found 100% resonates that I was unaware of. The ego and martyrdom bit was just wow. Keep up the inspirational light Jada and Jay ❤️
Jada & Jay, two of my favorite people ever! 💚🙏🏼
jada and jay are my favorite people, they speak my language. I’m always in awe with every sentence they say, thank you for another podcast together.
This is some real stuff! When she spoke she took me to a place where I began to look within myself and realized all my faults and egotistical ways. It's deeper than just "self awareness". I thank God for leading me here. I thank Jada for being able to speak her truths which in turn helps so many people in this world who are hurting.
This was the best interview I've ever heard. You guys are both beautiful gifts and I'm so thankful to share this space and time with you both.
Thank you! I needed this... I feel like the universe dropped this in front of my eyes to watch and learn for a reason.
I have literally listened to this on repeat at least 10 times today to really take in everything that has been said. Some of the best advice that I have ever heard. All about getting back to the basics of self love everyone! Will definitely share.
“Relying on the self love patterns THAT WE HAVE THE COURAGE TO CREATE to confirm us” IS the next level of how I relate with those I want to love but they can’t accept, because i REFUSE to validate them, because it doesn’t help them, but they can’t see it. They get upset with me (or what I say is they reject their own mirror) because they thought they chose a friend to validate them. I’m not the one. It’s inauthentic and anti growth. Jada summed it up perfectly. That was the adlib I was missing but I knew why I rejected the notion. But the loving comeback is giving the understanding of what it means to implement love patterns for self that will replace those toxic patterns of codependence, false and toxic relating. The need to be validated, confirmed, recognized, and acknowledged is one of the WORST especially for the black communities. It’s like the foundation of life struggles. Honestly. Mainly, because it solidifies the high position of the ego
I loved this! This is a conversation for the books. Seriously will heal a lot of people.
Exaaaaaaactly what I needed to hear this morning in every way - thank you oh so much 🙏💕
Jada seems to be summarizing what you might hope to learn after 20 years of good therapy. What she shared was very generous and really useful. I wasn’t that big a fan before but I certainly am now. Jay did an awesome job creating a safe space and encouraging Jada ‘s wisdom to flow. Loved seeing these 2 outstanding individuals talk.
The way she uncovers the superego as insidious...and connects it to martyrdom is CLASSIC!!!! It’s absolutely a level of insanity that goes unnoticed by many but it is especially an issue for Virgos. I get a good sense of her growth when she explained that at 15:15. That, and laying down the warrior! Ohhh weee!! Growth.
After that "Red table talk" I was so much wanting this 💗
Love you both 💖
Talking about the inner warrior...so deep, so true. Thank you for sharing this video!
This is my favorite conversation EVER!!!!!!! I love you both💕
Love Jada. She’s so introspective and funny ❤️
Two beautiful souls :) Ive always had such a beautiful vibe from Jada every time i see her. Amazing, i listened to this podcast as i walked in to town and i literally did not want to stop listening.
As I listen to her I hear the hurt in her heart. I see why she’s so strong and secretive.
How do you "lay down the warrior" to even begin to dismantle the ego. I struggle alot with the warrior and it constantly brings out my pride and leads me to toxic interactions because you feel like you are defending yourself and your respect. This interview was so mind opening, thank you!
One of my favourite podcasts of all time, I sat still and listened to every word! Thank you ❤️
"Well you let this into your life, so why? That's all you have control over!" thank you Jada, I love you my friend my sister! Claire
It's been six minutes and I'm already shedding tears... thank you so much for this interview and this podcast. You people are amazing.
Love is the way to keep and love is the way to let go. Love is needed for both
Spiritual Growth..and Spirituality. Wisdom & Knowledge she is dropping. Higher Power Jesus Christ.
Yeah some wisdom after you cheat😂