The ex just proved why his friends don't like his current girlfriend. OP doesn't even think about them, yet the current girlfriend is constantly comparing herself with OP.
NTA. They've been broken up way too long for this to be happening. She's rude and ridiculous, and if its that important to not be in the same place then they can miss it. OP shouldn't miss anything. ETA: after the update i kinda feel bad for the fiancée
Honestly, I feel bad for the fiancé. It sounds like her relationship with Op's ex is really toxic. It reminds me of one of those stories where the family thinks the ex is better for Op's partner. She's probably had it rubbed in her face so often that she'll never be OP that now she's really insecure.
There's a difference between being blunt and being an asshole. I tend to be a rather blunt person but I don't have issues socializing or keeping friends, in fact I've had quite a few times where people have expressed appreciation for it. Also, how a "blunt" person can sit there and watch someone they supposedly care enough about to ask to marry them be disrespected shows that they aren't a "blunt" person but just someone who masks their insecurity with unnecessary hostility.
The ex just proved why his friends don't like his current girlfriend. OP doesn't even think about them, yet the current girlfriend is constantly comparing herself with OP.
NTA. They've been broken up way too long for this to be happening. She's rude and ridiculous, and if its that important to not be in the same place then they can miss it. OP shouldn't miss anything.
ETA: after the update i kinda feel bad for the fiancée
I don't, the way the fiancé acts is no better than how the EX acts.
YNTA she an he are insecure and her comfort isn't your problem
Honestly, I feel bad for the fiancé. It sounds like her relationship with Op's ex is really toxic. It reminds me of one of those stories where the family thinks the ex is better for Op's partner. She's probably had it rubbed in her face so often that she'll never be OP that now she's really insecure.
There's a difference between being blunt and being an asshole. I tend to be a rather blunt person but I don't have issues socializing or keeping friends, in fact I've had quite a few times where people have expressed appreciation for it. Also, how a "blunt" person can sit there and watch someone they supposedly care enough about to ask to marry them be disrespected shows that they aren't a "blunt" person but just someone who masks their insecurity with unnecessary hostility.